r/Bestof My Wife's Sister Kissed Me!

[@rSlash]

Get 3 months free of Express VPN! expressvpn.com/rslash #ad

[@honoredtiger]

E x p r e s s

[@j_castle9893]

Yes i believe your password is ilovehugo123, you can not change my mind.

[@DomInARK]

I would have just said, boss I will show you my dick to prove that that’s not mine, that how much I want to keep my job

[@sirdeakia]

People, just to clarify because VPN companies treat their product like it's ironclad stealth vibranium mithril armor: VPNs act essentially a website your computar acessess to mask your online activity. But packets of data from your PC need to reach it first! Every single threat that could reach you before your info reaches their website is still 100% no doubt in jeopardy. Don't get sucked into the marketing, they send these premade texts to influencers like r/slash that likely do not know any better

[@redbunny22]

thanks for putting the link in the description. Thats sarcasm by the way.I now have no clue what previouse video to watch for context to this "update".

[@angusmacintyre2414]

Careful rslash. You keep reading wholesome stories and you might end up feeling good about the world again. And we all definitely want that for you.

[@deepseagargantuar1373]

WHOLESOMENESS increased to 91

[@LLandS18]

He needs to do more wholesome stories. As someone who has a job who is dealing with some of the worst part of human nature and see how awful we can be to each other. It is really nice to remember how nice we can be to each other.

[@angusmacintyre2414]

@@LLandS18 absolutely agree

[@soulgazer11]

I definitely needed that today of all days though.

[@angusmacintyre2414]

@@soulgazer11 We all do from time to time. Whatever's been dragging down, I hope you can put it behind you soon. Take care.

[@gilded_lady]

Mustard story: comments pointed out that he was so upset over mustard because it was proof she wasn't fully broken and still had an opinion of her own. Terrifying thought, but makes sense.

[@yazajag]

Wow that's very disturbing. I'm glad she got out of there.

[@yougosquishnow]

Didn't think of that but this has got to be it. Spot on.

[@someguywithatophat7599]

yeah, its that and also wanting control and stuff. just overall gross ass behaviour

[@spydersoup8447]

Further proves that this isn't about OP disliking mustard and her husband is upset about it, it's about her husband trying to force his opinions and tastes onto her, which is a form of controlling her.

[@giggle_snort]

Gaahhhh that just gave me the heebie jeebies! YUCK!! Yeah, she needed to get the hell away from that psycho, and I'm so glad she did!

[@crab_legs403]

Husband in the last story deserves a freaking award, he handled literally everything right-including supporting his wife while still holding her accountable for how she dealt with her insecurities. May these two have a long, happy marriage away from Jenna’s family of narcissists

[@BunnyQueen97]

It’s really sweet that instead of both partners exploding in their own emotions, OP calmly called his wife in to firmly reassure her emotional insecurities ❤

[@crab_legs403]

@@BunnyQueen97 RIGHT and the wife deserves applause for sticking to and believing her husband instead of blaming him because a lot of other stories go that direction in the heat of the moment

[@BunnyQueen97]

@@crab_legs403 big agree! It’s nice, at least once in a while, to run into two people who actually want to be married to each other 🥰

[@torturapesnorrarape]

I respect that op alot for that talking to his wife where he said her insecurities are actually causing real problems, I didn't know how to put it into words myself but what he said was perfect for the situation, s tier guy.

[@nidodson]

I need him as an advisor for my relationships, haha. The situations I have been in, wish I had the awareness to respond like that. Even after hearing the story, I can almost guarantee I will forget.

[@mozzapple]

For the first story / update, its not about mustard. It was never about mustard. It was about control. The moment he realized he would never be able to fully control her is the day he decided to go nuclear. I'm glad OP is safe

[@eviebraud1307]

I was scrolling for this comment

[@TawnyRoyal]

100% especially when he was driving recklessly; he was trying to scare her into compliance bc it showed he didn’t care about his own life, let alone hers. I’m glad op got out while they could.

[@voutsider190]

Yes

[@pathoesr7872]

That last story was absolutely insane, but so wholesome!! You can tell he just really loves her, and he ended up saying the thing I would've hoped he said too: "I'm the victim of assault and your reaction is punishing us both" SA with men doesn't get taken seriously enough.

[@abiean222]

toxic masculinity oppressives men just as much as it does women

[@infinityalbi9840]

I also want to give props to OP's boss. It's obvious that she has her employees best interests at heart.

[@Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681]

WIfe sounds boring as hell honestly

[@spydersoup8447]

Yeah, like, people always assume that only men can be the harasser and the women are the only victims. True that this the most common form of sexual harassment, but it's not the only form of sexual harassment. Not all men are monsters and not all woman are angels. There's even people who used this sexist assumption to get famous men canceled. I just wish that women being the harasser and men being the victim is seen just as serious as the other way around because no matter the form, it's still sexual harassment.

[@iam878]

yeah and some commenters also blaming him for being alone with her sister?? excuse him for assuming people won't randomly assault him damn

[@Lestaticate]

Last story: Charges should’ve been pressed immediately, but I understand the hesitation. Overall I’m glad OP and his wife bond became stronger and gave her toxic mom a taste of foreboding karma. Also, I wouldn’t be surprised if everyone in OP’s workplace was able to easily reverse Google image search the weird D pick.

[@peterhobson3262]

OP should have sued over the attempted firing and the dick pic.

[@iridescentsolace]

Omg I didnt even think about reverse Google searching, that’s such a relief lol

[@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072]

Me cries in appla

[@giggle_snort]

That line from OP's wife was EXCELLENT. And even though he said she regrets it, I think it needed to be said. Her parents have been blind to the monster they created for way too long.

[@DarthAxolotl]

How would he press charges? They were alone, it would be a case of he said she said. There was no evidence either way

[@ShebaMetaluna]

The Frank story is so wholesome and cute, I wish heartwarming stories like that were more common. The last story's op had a great boss and I'm glad Mary got taken down a few notches.

[@Kumo5980]

Something we needed for a while from these rage inducing and toxic stories😁

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Last Story: LOOOL “pleeease don’t hold our precious angel responsible for her actions, she shouldn’t have to face any consequences” Yeah Op i’m glad you finally managed to open your wife’s eyes to how toxic her family is. I wish you both the best

[@lorilancaster5917]

I hate it took OP getting assaulted for him and his wife to finally understand that their well-being takes priority over her family’s toxicity. I know it’s easy for me to say as a fly on the wall. I’m glad they are looking after themselves, OPs coworkers and employers see through Mary’s BS, and they are leaving Jenna’s family in the dust

[@Crow_Smith]

I legitimately have a friend who is more successful than her brother, but because she's Trans, she's the devil to them. Her brother has put his mother through a wall [yes, by throwing/pushing her]. He has stolen a car, tried to hit his sister with said car, and even once [and i still don't know why] took every roll of TP in the house to wipe his butt on, without unraveling the rolls ... and once those were all dirty used the curtains and stuff. But the one time he ever got put in jail and sobbed his eyes out? His parents bailed him out and comforted him all day. And every time his sister has threatened to call the cops on his illegal behavior, they're like NO YOU'LL RUIN HIS FUTURE! .. he's literally an adult now and his future is already ruined... I keep telling her, as soon as she can, she needs to go No Contact [she lives on her own but she does still have to rely on them from time to time] - and next time her brother screws up IMMEDIATELY call the cops, don't tell her parents. And it's weird to see how common this is. I'm slowly learning my partner is in the same boat [though to be fair his brother isn't the "Golden child" - his parents are just afraid of the guy but I digress] -- and I've been seeing these stories more and more and more and ... I'm really starting to think that a lot of the Boomers are toxic narcissists who had kids out of expectation rather than desire since I've been seeing this more in Gen X and Millennials than in other generations - Gotta be all that lead poisoning ...

[@abiean222]

@@Crow_Smith someone should do a study. is it possible that a golden child will raise a golden child? is it a generational thing or is it common throughout all time and we just noticed it? is it a result of narcissism, being forced by society to have kids when you didn't want to, or some other cause? i wanna know these things.

[@spydersoup8447]

@@abiean222 Well, it's not unheard of. I mean, this happened with that r/entitledparents with the stupid aunt, that story where OP's mother assaulted the stupid aunt and knocked her teeth out.

[@Crow_Smith]

@@abiean222 I imagine it's highly possible, that and I think those who were the scapegoat child can also do it unintentionally if they don't get therapy. Same with abuse victims becoming abusers themselves because they don't realize the cycle. But if the Golden Child becomes a Narcissist I imagine that yeah, if they have kids at all, they probably do raise their own Golden Kids and Scapegoats. Whoever falls in line is Golden, whoever doesn't [even if it's super minor like they do but have one out of line interest] is the Scapegoat. Here is hoping, though, with seeing this commentary more and more, we'll see more stories like the one where the GC didn't realize what he was until recounting a story and people pointed out he was a GC and when he looked into it he realized not only did that explain why his entire adulthood SUCKED [he had no people skills, and while his parents still treated him well, he couldn't keep a job, couldn't adult, etc etc] but it also explained why his sibling [SC] disappeared entirely. He went full NC with his parents, got into therapy and reached out to the SC sibling to apologize. I wish I remembered more of the story but it was nice to see a Golden Child who went "Oh f-" and is doing what they can to break free of their toxicity to be a better person - and to hopefully make amends with their sibling.

[@passmethepopcorn]

I'm glad we got an update to the crazy mustard man. She is so lucky to be alive and I hope all the best for her and a brighter mustard free future.

[@lorilancaster5917]

I’m a horrible person. Just wanted to get the disclaimer out there. I want to find this guy and show pics of multiple people eating hotdogs without mustard all whilst giving him the bird

[@yazajag]

​@@lorilancaster5917 maybe force him into a hot dog eating contest with nothing but ketchup and relish lol.

[@lorilancaster5917]

@@yazajag or just plain hotdogs

[@abiean222]

@@lorilancaster5917 dry hotdogs are so bad. not the worst, but so bad

[@lorilancaster5917]

@@abiean222 in the story OP got her hotdog plain

[@bonniehalf-elven]

The husband in that last story is a real gem! He's the best thing that ever happened to his wife, and when she's better, she'll really appreciate that!

[@dracko158]

Husband: "But I would never hurt you!!" OP and Everyone: **Press X to Doubt**

[@hibouowll7468]

Me, tempted to press the like. Also me. The likes are at 69 and I can't ruin that!

[@ThatGuySarabia]

LA Noire reference lol

[@deadonarrivalgirl9785]

The fact that Mary went so POSTAL after being rejected, she's never had to face that before and it challenged her perceived image of herself being the perfect woman. I sense that if any of her exes tried to get away from her, she went full psycho and it'd be worse since there'd be a relationship there. OP gets husband of the year award! Supporting his wife, building her up, making sure she knows she's loved, seeing her strengths and weaknesses and helping her navigate the minefield that was her family dynamic. This is a love story that needs to be made into a movie its so awesome!

[@xKCAZxLEADER]

First Story: I remember this story and how insane OP's now ex husband and his family were. So this man tried to unalive his wife...over mustard?! I’m glad OP is ok and is away from this psycho Second Story: Honestly, it sounds like Frank didn’t want to retire from the start. It seems like isolation for him was so bad that he would rather continue to come to his old job than retire. Lmao I didn’t expect this at all. I mean, I was right about Frank wanting more work but I didn’t expect him and OP's aunt to get together Comment: I agree Third Story: Obviously the only problem here is Mary. She knows exactly what she is doing and knows that she is constantly hurting her sister. OP and Jenna need to go 100% no contact with Jenna and anyone who defends her disgusting behavior. I think Mary is doing this as a way to tell she is better than her sister and is overall trying to show dominance. Of course the parents play favorites 🙄. These people are disgusting and now OP and Jenna should cut contact with mom and dad as well. Mary is an envious and selfish woman. She is absolutely toxic and needs to be avoided at all cost. OP should’ve pressed charges for SA because thats exactly what she did; OP should also report her for harassment. Yeah, Mary is absolutely insane and toxic. I find it funny that Jenna's mom said "leave Mary alone" when Mary is the one harassing OP and trying to get him fired. I honestly would’ve went through with the lawsuit and the report

[@eksboks148]

Mustard dude is insane quite literally

[@etcetera1995]

Dude, you don't need to TikTok censor a KZbin comment. Just say he tried to kill OP.

[@xKCAZxLEADER]

@@etcetera1995last time I didn’t censor a specific word, KZbin deleted the entire comment

[@thetruth1816]

​​@@xKCAZxLEADER youtube sucks..

[@RiveroftheWither]

As many pointed out in the original video, it's not about the mustard. Rather the husband displayed a pattern of serious control issues, manipulation and gaslighting that just came to an extreme head during the "mustard argument" where he actually started to threaten her well being both in words and actions. The rest of that story is a real doozy, with him becoming more dangerous and unhinged less control he has over op and the less his manipulation works. So yeah, long story short it's not really about the mustard.

[@TheOppaiKami]

Story 1:This man really said, "I would never hurt you," when he threatened to run his car off the road with him and OP in it. Story 2: Really sweet and wholesome, nothing else needs to be said. Story 3: OPs wife's parents and Mary are more toxic than a power plant. I honestly believe OP should sue regardless just to show her that actions have consequences EXPECIALLY when it comes to SA.

[@HammerdWalrus]

"I wont hurt you, the crash will!"

[@thetruth1816]

" I would never hurt you " proceeds to take a knife to her throat...

[@gordoncamacho8649]

physics did it 🤷‍♂

[@azisles02]

I didn't hurt her by pushing her off a cliff. Gravity did

[@rowdy6274]

As a (nuclear) powerplant worker: that's an insult to every powerplant worker out there

[@Sanodi21]

OP in the third story is the best thing to happen to his wife. I fully believe he can get her the help she's needed for her entire life and, most importantly, get her away from her toxic family and let them destroy themselves. It's what they deserve.

[@TruePieGod]

The last story is so sad. OP reacted perfectly and his wife, despite her trauma, was pleasantly responsive to getting better. I hope she grows and comes to realize that she is a bad-ass dream girl.

[@Emoisemotional420]

If there were anything to say how loved and supported this man is, it would be the fact he's already got over a thousand views in 5 minutes. Now THAT is a loving community. Enjoy your Vacation RSlash! Edit: Man, if y'all hate RSlash so much why are you on his youtube page harassing his fans🤣🤣 just cos you don't like him doesn't mean he doesn't have a loving supportive community🤣🤣

[@doglol926]

Fax

[@959_MC]

That’s something called an UPLOAD SCHEDULE

[@Emoisemotional420]

@@959_MC posting at the same time every day consistently is an UPLOAD SCHEDULE. Just because he uploads at the same time doesn’t mean people flocking to watch it the second it’s posted doesn’t make us a great community. Debbie Downers that just wanna shit on everyone’s positivity like you is what the issue is here

[@Emoisemotional420]

@@959_MC to reiterate my point, in the first hour he’s got almost 30K views. Which shows how much his community loves and supports him, regardless of an upload schedule. Don’t be a dick for no reason.

[@GamingFreakShow1991]

@@959_MC I don't think an upload schedule guarantees viewers every time mate.

[@bartvansliedregt5482]

That story about Frank was so wholesome. So happy to hear it. Thank you R/ for including it in today's video!

[@jplayzow]

Love to hear someone seriously dedicated like this not only to continuing a relationship but to making sure it's a healthy one for both of them

[@winterspectre]

That coworker to uncle story might be the most wholesome thing rslash has covered!

[@13thMaiden]

Story2) As someone who also volunteers, you'd be surprised how many retired ppl volunteer! Alot of our fosters are retirees. It gives them something to do and feel fulfilled. I'm super glad Frank found something he likes and a person he likes!

[@lorilancaster5917]

The story definitely warmed my cold dead heart. Then the psycho sister story began. Now my heart is lukewarm

[@k-conn2266]

The 2nd story turned so cute and wholesome. I hope OP's aunt and Uncle Frank have a very happy life together.

[@d.phantomfan1216]

Story 2: this is such a sweet story it's always nice to hear a sweet story like this, I hope the best for OP, Frank, and his aunt.

[@KnucklesxReala911]

Such a cute story, it really shows the big good natura of both the aunt and Frank to be in such sync so fast!

[@kimberleymcmillan682]

The Frank story is the kind of story you need to read every now and then as a balm against all the other stories you read. 😊

[@NovaGirl8]

We occasionally find these islands of wholesomeness and rationality within a sea full of nutcases

[@yazajag]

​@@NovaGirl8 yes because Mustard Man and dickpic sister-in-law were total nuclear nutcases!

[@d.phantomfan1216]

Story 1: all this started because of mustard, this may be the most insane story you've ever told on the channel and it all started with mustard. At least OP is safe.

[@Ikajo]

There were probably other things going on as well that OP shrugged off, but the mustard stood out because of how absurd it was.

[@d.phantomfan1216]

​@@Ikajo oh no don't get me wrong I completely get that, it's just it's a little crazy how mustard was the breaking point. Not like she was looking at a guy, or she was wearing something he didn't want her to, but that she just didn't put mustard on a hot dog shows exactly how insane and probably how abusive he is that this was why he threatened to kill her.

[@Ikajo]

@@d.phantomfan1216 Yep. There is a phenomenon called normalisation that apply to this kind of situation. I've never been in a situation like that myself, but I know enough about it to accurately describe and depict it. (I've written a Marvel fanfiction featuring Loki to high light the reality of abuse. Several of my readers found my depiction of the process and the situation to be accurate based on their own experience. I also included the journey of recovery, which was also lauded by my readers as accurate.)

[@lorilancaster5917]

@@Ikajo yeah because OP later commented on the story that her husband would try to act as aggressively in the bedroom

[@ThatOddChickenHippie]

I hope OP is safe, but I've seen stories on actual true crime TV networks about INSANE exes following them all the way across the whole country, breaking into their house, and unaliving them. They had tried so hard to get away, but the psycho somehow managed to find them (probably stalking family to get a general idea of where they might be and then paying an information broker, or paying an unscrupulous PI to do that for them, but I can't remember the details). I really hope OP gets a weapon, a good alarm system, and a big trained dog if possible. I'm not big on weapons myself, especially not firearms, but sometimes they are a necessary evil, and a crazy ex that tried to kill you is definitely one of those times no matter how safe you think you are from them.

[@danieldesiata5560]

Imo that guy should pursue the lawsuit against his sister in law. She crossed too many lines. Hurt his wife, assaulted him and tried to take his job. She needs to face consequences. If he doesn't she'll believe she can talk her way out of trouble forever, and this will probably happen again. Plus if he does a lawsuit it will create a paper trail if she tries something again in the future after she's had time to scheme something worse.

[@DarkEinherjar]

OP should've gotten a restraining order the moment Mary tried to kiss him, 'nuff said. And screw Mary: if I were OP, I would've gone full scorched earth with a lawsuit after the email. When you endanger my livelihood, utter destruction is the only acceptable answer.

[@lorilancaster5917]

Could he have gotten the order without proof of her actions?

[@blackrex828]

The moment she pushed her whole body on would've been the same moment she gotten Paid Almighty Pushed away 😤

[@yazajag]

​@@lorilancaster5917 i think she may have admitted to doing it so maybe that would have been enough?

[@lorilancaster5917]

@@yazajag if it was recorded or via text/email. However I don’t think she ever admitted to what she did since she’s been spinning the story that OP assaulted her

[@hyperchickcosplay1502]

Man gets sexually harassed Internet: why did you put yourself in that situation? Tf

[@davesaylor7829]

The fact that we're acknowledging that men can be sexually assaulted is some progress, at least.

[@Blue2x2x]

Dudebro: "You Wouldn't Cheat on your wife for her hotter sister? What are you, GaAaAaAy?!" Dudebro2: "Oh, where's your balls? Must be in your wife's purse." Dudebro3: "I wish my wife sister would push me against the door like that"

[@juliaboskamp9666]

that's about the same as a woman word sexually assaulted (in irl not on the internet)

[@laurentiare]

*Story 2:* That was the most wholesome thing I’ve ever heard. I wish OP, OP’s aunt and Frank the absolute best! ❤

[@Nyax50Lopez]

DAMN THAT WIFE A SCIENTIST, KNOW MANY LANGUAGES AND MUCH MORE IS INSANE!! hopefully she gets therapy to recover and know that her most loyal husband loves her so so much.

[@TsukiKageTora]

The crazy sister one, I agree with the commenters that pointed out that he was SH by this chick and he had to be the one consoling his wife to reassure her… like she… didn’t even ask OP if he was ok, she just threw herself a pity party, and that is not fair for OP and what he went through

[@YesIlikebananasSo]

she doesn’t sound mentally healthy and hadn’t been for a long time. it wasn’t active entitlement or deliberate self-victimisation and i think that’s obvious. yes, she should’ve been there for him but do you really think she ignored that on purpose? 💀

[@nicholassanabria6493]

Aaaa the mustered story I’ll always remember that because that’s when I was deer hunting with my dad and I was on my way back to the truck

[@moriahmelon]

as soon as he mentioned mustard i got excited

[@leohunter801]

Cool man did you and you dad get a nice sized buck? Also i thought there wasnt going to be anymore updates from the mustard story until like a year later since ya know legal proceedings

[@alexmuse3565]

​@@leohunter801 the law can be heavily expedited

[@19nmiller1]

Honestly I'd like to see you cover an entire episode of feel good stories like the Frank one. It's a win win because it'll get rid of that looming negativity and bitterness while also just being a very pleasant listen for the viewer.

[@DreadEnder]

I love that the commenters suggested volunteering! My mum grew up poorish in Northern Ireland and couldn’t find many jobs in the medical field (which she was studying) so she volunteered at a hospital. Two weeks later she was hired full time. She is now a very high ranking character of a different, bigger hospital

[@namelessminionveinreaver3763]

I'm glad we could catchup with OP's story, and that she mustard the courage to get out of that situation. Hopefully she can relish her new-found freedom.

[@davesaylor7829]

This is a real A-1 comment.

[@danielbrant6740]

_[Dies from pun overload]_

[@sinbadwilliams7186]

I just had to google search: How to slap someone virtually... So far the tech does not exist

[@lorilancaster5917]

Her Hee Hee! You’re Punny!

[@justanothergamingyoutuber8179]

Bro 💀💀

[@krystencabbage1032]

I'm so happy for Frank and the aunt, I hope they have many long years together, they sound like good people.

[@TheAidanodian]

RSlash: **reads a story about a toxic person trying to destroy someone’s life** RSlash’s after story thoughts: **are entirely penis related***

[@lorilancaster5917]

Reminds me when the mustard story previously aired. OP opened about her husband’s abuse and toxicity and RSlash ends the story talking about his opinion about mustard

[@sebastianb.3978]

​@@lorilancaster5917Might be a coping mechanism for him, like how he starts laughing when a story gets too crazy for him.

[@sdfm12]

@@sebastianb.3978yeah I agree. He was also probably trying to lighten things up after an intense story. I don’t think he doesn’t care bc some of these very clearly affect him pretty deeply

[@JoyZoneYT]

The last story is so wholesome. That husband needs to be reproposed to a second time by his wife. Such an amazing husband. ❤

[@everlasting9292]

I have an aunt who Jenna reminds me of a little bit. Thankfully her self esteem isn’t in the dumps like poor Jenna. My aunt was adopted (which is a whole movie-worthy story in itself!) and though her parents have always been awesome and loved and supported her, she is their only child and they didn’t have the extended family like we have while she’s growing up. She divorced her first husband when she found out he was off with another woman while she was literally giving birth to their son. She married my uncle like 8 years later. She has always been amazed by our family’s closeness, even with the imperfections. We would have big get together a for every holiday and play games, the kids would have Easter egg hunts, we do fun Christmas gift exchanges, and it’s so much fun. My aunt was so amazed at how quickly we just pulled her right into the family and loved her. She got her PhD a few years ago, and now we all brag about her being Dr. Young. My uncle even got a tattoo in her honor once she got it. She’s the family genius!

[@bellerain381]

I was so relieved listening to the end of the last post!! The husband is a true gentleman and an amazing husband, supporting his wife and being there for her! And the wife became a stronger, confident woman by cutting out that toxic family!

[@laurenbauman3517]

Omg what a 10/10 husband. I could only imagine what his poor wife went through… man I know some ppl say pretty privilege isn’t a thing but my god does this take the cake for the worse instance I’ve heard of it.

[@joannamyers1268]

Regarding the second story, I came across an article recently that said when people retire, they don't miss the work, but they do miss the connections with the people in the office. I'm glad Frank is now working at the nonprofit, that sounds perfect for him.

[@Brianna771]

because of daylight savings your videos come out at 1 instead of 2 for the week and I already know I’m gonna miss it when it goes back to normal next week

[@PassiveSmoking]

The first and last stories are both terrifying in how completely and utterly unhinged and frankly insane some people seem to be and still be allowed to walk the streets.

[@heathermunday6878]

The mustard story makes me think of the movie "Sleeping with the Enemy". The crazy sister story - Mary is strongly showing symptoms of Golden Child/Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Her scorched earth response to being thwarted is classic. And the wife may want to look into a therapist that specializes in Narcissistic abuse & Scapegoat Children.

[@sophietremblay3795]

Story 3 I am so glad they are doing therapy she needed so much and seriously the family of the wife deserves that ultimate cheh

[@maieen2665]

*First OP:* OVER. A MUSTARD! I'm glad OP escaped from that environment, and wish her the best of luck. *Second OP:* What a wholesome plot twist. ☺ Not only did Frank find something to do during his retirement, he also found love 💘 *Third OP:* That was an experience! I'm glad Jenna went no contact with her family. It sounds like she and OP have a good support system with eachother and their colleagues. Shoutout to rSlash for sharing his YT password 😛 /j

[@vintagecameragirl]

I'm disabled and mostly housebound, I found a local charity shop (like a goodwill but a lot smaller) and decided to ask if they needed help, they sure did. One afternoon turned into 7 years. Spending some of your time doing something for someone else is the most rewarding work ever. I'd highly recommend it to anyone who has a lot of free time. And the coolest thing about it is, the ladies I work with are all retired and they make great cake!

[@maxsupernova]

Last story: The mother deserved to hear that. Enabling parents of golden children need to be reminded every day that they are among the lowest forms of human life out there.

[@PaladinGear15]

I was just thinking about that mustard story yesterday, cause it was just so ridiculous. Who FORCES their spouse to eat mustard? It's such a bizarre thing that makes no sense, and it's just so stupid. Now the lunatic attacks her? God damn.

[@DaniS398]

I think it is not uncommon for people to compare siblings. My sisters and I got put in the "smart one" "pretty one" boxes, but my mom was constantly shutting that shit down when people did it. I always got the smart one box which did hurt my self-esteem, but my sisters were always hyping me up and I always tried to encourage them where they needed it. We're all very close to this day.

[@prettyfreaknordinary7982]

Story 3: aaaaaah. Nothing screams toxic more than alil narcissism. OP's wife is definitely is the scapegoat child of the family. I think before OP came into her life, everyone around her let her down and made her feel less than so bravo to OP for stick by and reassuring that she isn't the problem. Now the sister and parents definitely show signs of narcissistic behavior. Down playing her accomplishments, obvious favoritism, and the sister always trying to steal her man. The sister's unhinged responses go right up that alley aswell because she was rejected and that "no body ever rejects me" mentality will cause someone like her to try and "come out on top" in a sense. OP and his wife needs to stay far away from that family.

[@Yasmin-tv2oj]

Mustard man was escalating rapidly, whenever domestic violence is involved (regardless of if it’s emotional or physical) I always remember this quote “they will kill you. It’s not a matter of if but when.” I want to say both well done OP for getting away but also I’m so sorry that they went through that.

[@youngcanuck5397]

Story 1: I remember this story! I’m so glad that the OP got away from her psycho (now-ex) husband Story 3: wow Mary sounds awful. I feel bad for Jenna :(

[@ericday637]

Last story: Man, SA and toxic family aside, that was a very wholesome story. Wishing all the best for OP and their wife.

[@Nerobyrne]

honestly, it's hard enough for me to even maintain a regular relationship, to the point I don't even want to try anymore. But, what makes me infinitely more convinced that I don't want to is that I never know if my wife is gonna end up revealing herself 5 years into the marriage as a mayonnaise serial "unaliver" or whatever.

[@13thMaiden]

I'm terrified of getting a partner obsessed with pork. I can eat it, but I don't care for it, and really dislike ham. You'd be surprised how nuts ppl get over pigs. =\. Especially their bellies. (I do like pork rinds though!)

[@whatevername4873]

Rslash has motivated me to stay single too lol. But it's because he does such a lovely job of describing marriage and I want something that's truly supportive and not just me settling

[@TheEDFLegacy]

It's not so much that you should avoid relationships, is that you should sit up standards and put up strong barriers so you can keep track of the warning signs long before they become an issue. Therapy is also a good idea, as it's helped me too.

[@Nerobyrne]

@@13thMaiden ironic, pork rinds are the only piece of pig I don't like ^.^ But, what is it with people and their madness that OTHER PEOPLE have to like the same food or they're bad somehow? I love burgers. Basically, anything vaguely hamburger-shaped, I love. Even if it doesn't have meat. But if my partner totally hated it, that's fine.

[@N0xiety]

@@Nerobyrne Yea, if your partner hated it, that's fine, till you start making burgers everyday and your partner has to eat. As for both of you cooking different stuff you like as the solution, then it's hard to eat together like a family. What are you gonna do when there are kids etc? See, in that scenario it's become a problem. So well, nothing wrong with liking different foods, but having a person going crazy over their favorite food and wanting to cook that frequently becomes a problem in a relationship when the other side doesn't like it. As a couple, frequently having separate meals is not a great solution at the end of the day...

[@Wolfie713]

I love how Mary claims that OP's boss was "victim blaming" simply for saying that they would need more than just a claim (ie, proof) of wrongdoing. I think OP's work should hire someone to investigate where the email came from and then when it's found to not be from OP's access (ie, physical access), hand the information over to the police. When Mary is facing criminal charges for what she did, you can bet that she'll promise to do anything to avoid prison time, like agreeing to a restraining order, signing a confession to clear OP's name of any wrong doing, etc.

[@sirnutaku7716]

*10 years later* Rslash: Welcome to BestOf where OP ex husband becomes the SERIAL MUSTARD KILLER

[@RisingRevengeance]

I'm happy it worked out for Frank! I've dealt with similar stuff when retired co-workers dont have anything to do and just pop by. It can be really hard when your busy and you don't want to be rude to them.

[@SiFireHasSpeed]

Just from hearing the beginning of that story, no offense to the wife cause she’s going through some issues, but she is being EXTREMELY selfish making this all about her. OP has been constantly harassed and now sexually assaulted and she just doesn’t care besides how it makes HER feel?? Maybe there’s a realization in the update but seriously. OP shouldn’t be shutting off dealing with the issues of being the target of that kind of harassment.

[@emiliaholmberg3320]

Franks story was the wholesomeness we needed in between these deep stories.

[@silverflight01]

Story 3: So Mary tried to steal OP, then tried to pull a "If I can't have it, nobody can" mentality that every spoiled brat has, then tried to just outright run OP, all because he rejected her advances. I hope Mary never does this s**t again

[@RiveroftheWither]

I could not imagine hating my sister so much that even after receiving all my parents love and accolades, I still feel the need to kill her self esteem and seek out to destroy every romantic relationship she's ever had so obsessively that the one time it doesn't work, I decide the best course of action is to try and ruin his entire life as revenge. This woman is psychotic and unhinged almost as bad as mustard guy.

[@simonspacek3670]

The last story is amazing. First things first, prooving that it is not your picture is question of reverse image search, easy. But can you imagine that therapist helping his wife? "What brings you in?" "Low self esteem" "I see. Tell me more about your life." "I make 140 000 a year, have three university degrees, speak 5 languages and I have great husband." "I... I can not help you."

[@thetruth1816]

Story 1 : Is op husband related to my 2nd ex wife ??.. Story 2 : Some people can't fully retire until they're no longer on planet Earth.. Story 3 : Time for op to press sexual assault charges on Mary..Op you and your wife need to move to a different country and have your wife go LC contact with her "family " specifically the emotional abuser in Mary.. just being in the same house with Mary is damaging op wife psyche.. Update : yup your wife needs a divorce/ keep her distance from her disgusting "family. " .. I repeat op and his wife both need to move and not look back.. Update 2 : yeah op needs to file sexual assault charges and Harrasment charges on Mary.. Update 3 : op you need to sue Mary if not for your wife then for yourself..

[@fnjesusfreak]

My dad's one of those people, at almost 85 he just can't sit back and relax.

[@thetruth1816]

@@fnjesusfreak my friends dad was the same until he passed away 3 years ago...

[@tineve2002]

All I want to say for this story is " IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME" for Op's wife to stand up to her toxic family and equally horrible toxic sister. They say when you lie, you need a bigger lie to cover the first lie. The SIL failed woefully in that department. She just can't believe OP rejected her because she believes no man has ever rejected her. That is why she's unhinged on OP and her sister. Her house of cards is finally falling apart.

[@d.phantomfan1216]

Last story: I love how his office started to connect with him more because of a dick pic, like what office is this? JK. I'm glad your wife is getting the help she needs, I just it's really upsetting that her family treats her like this no matter what she does. I'm glad she's standing up for herself and she may regret what she said to her mom now but that regret my fade away with time.

[@lorilancaster5917]

If she doesn’t get over her guilt on her own, I’m sure the therapist will help. Her parents needed to hear that almost 30 years ago

[@ameliashostak4764]

I gotta say, I watched THIS video after I watched the episode of choosing/beggers where the OP's were begging people on like FB and stuff for "weed bath" money, as rSlash called it, and honestly that video made me loose ALL hope in humanity, but THIS video HAS RESTORED IT!! I have faith once again that there ARE still good people out there! lol

[@BraxtonMeyer]

Story 1: why you can't trust people who eat mustard Story 2: You dealt with f rank wromg. There's nothing you could/should do, except rehire him, tho congrats on a new uncle

[@wii7cked]

I really love the trend of more BestOf videos! Much more enjoyable than AITA.

[@Nekulturny]

The sister story, what an awful human being to constantly do that to your own sister.

[@IixiXOuOXixiI]

The third story made me tear up. Good job Uncle Frank.

[@DarkEinherjar]

About the mustard story: OP should actually be grateful to the mustard, as it exposed the ex-husband for the psychopath that he was.

[@loonywolf_art]

Omg, I am so glad the mustard story got an update, even if a short one. I hope OP can use this fact she in the hospital against her [ex?] Husband

[@emilyk2244]

best part about this is rslash is still on vacation.

[@RevolverOcelot2008]

Rslash I think we're witnessing the real life origin story of The Condiment King Batman villain. The divorce will be the thing that sets him over the edge 🤣

[@DGEddieDGEtm]

Welcome to a chill Wednesday RSlash episode :D

[@briandaaranda9735]

Final story: I mean... I guess you could always get a judge to... be the judge... There was a case in Ancient Greece where a woman flashed the court to ask them whether the gods would've blessed her like that if she was being blasphemous (what she was accused of) and the jury agreed that, indeed, she must've been favored by the gods. So maybe final OP would have to do something similar, lol

[@Milk-ck1wv]

Op in the last story can't do much. His wife needs HELP she's so insecure that she might end up messing up her relationship. Op wife needs to cut off her whole family and get some therapy or some help because they've ruined her life,her relationships,her confidence and is trying to ruin her life.

[@eileenheath1968]

The best way to defuse the hottie naughtie sister would have been to break out laughing in her face "Me want you? Girl, there's a reason you're still single and your sister is married. To me." and then laugh some more as you walk away. Then hustle the wife out, tell her and ask, "Is she going to harm us for what I did?" because the best thing to help someone prone to neurotic obsessive behavior like the wife is give them something that requires their full attention.

[@jsum33]

Are you kidding me? Someone asked that dude why he'd put himself in a situation where's he's alone with Mary?! That's absolutely disgusting. Go ahead and ask a woman, any woman, on reddit why she'd put herself in a situation that lead to a SA. Also, let's just ignore the fact the dude was assaulted and it was totally ignored because his wife had to play the victim. Doesn't even get a chance to process what happened because he had to jump straight into full on support and damage control. Go ahead and say it's not that big of a deal. Or just think it. God knows everything.

[@vicious_cycle]

I was looking for a comment like this. I'm glad the wife got therapy and I know she went through so much but to shut him out after he'd been SA'd is just awful.

[@jeraldbottcher1588]

On the last story, get a copy of the pic and take it with you to your doctor, explain the situation, and get him to examine you, and sign a statement that the pic is not you.

[@bellsroselps9548]

THE GOD DAMN MUSTARD GUY IS BACK

[@Swnsasy]

I hate mustard too! That is really insane. Wow, just wow.. She is extremely fortunate.. Thank goodness.. So brave of her and glad she took charge and saved herself..

[@AmyoftheFlowerField]

Whoa were people really victim blaming the last OP for “putting himself in that situation” in which he was literally sexually assaulted? What the fuck dude.

[@condar419]

Yay for the OP ex-boss, Frank and OP's aunt. What a wonderful story! I'm all verklempt LOL.

[@winterspectre]

Hope you're having a good break Rslash!

[@gijustin5930]

Keeping the peace is only waiting to argue later. Nothing good comes from it except making the later argument so much worse. Call someone out immediately they will be dumbfounded, wait for the 3rd time and they will get angry.

[@destinedtogame]

Story 1 was when I realized how much of a vacation Dab needed. His comment when he read the story was so gross and disgusting.

[@allisonwilliams7455]

This video is no better. I unsubscribed and felt bad about it, until this post

[@destinedtogame]

@@allisonwilliams7455 I swear he doesn't get the severity of the situation. He thinks it's just some odd mustard thing vs major domestic abuse. I was livid with his take and he didn't do much better

[@skeletonbone]

the story w the sister made me so mad like it’s gross how much the wife’s family discredits her accomplishments and also the sister??? literally SA??? and she’s just laughing it off like it’s a joke? so disgusting

[@javahigh]

What if they were being really nice to the guy in the office not because of Mary's behavior, but because of the picture? Email arrives. Picture opened. "Ew. How unfortunate" I'm kidding, of course, but that idea popped into my head and made me laugh.

[@carrierussell9224]

Good morning, rSlash!!

[@catso9555]

I second this motion

[@eksboks148]

​@@catso9555 third

[@monedameow]

OMG, Dabney, that story about Frank was so sweet and wholesome I have a smile plastered on my face and might not go away, I blame you for brightening my day

[@Carnibee]

I think the topic of OP being SAed was downplayed FAR too much. He gets sexually harassed for YEARS, then ASSAULTED and has to put aside his own feelings for his wife because she’s jealous??? Now she’s getting help, but is he??? If you switched the genders, everyone would be saying “throw the man away! His wife gets assaulted and he’s upset only because he’s jealous??? His brother is a predator!”

[@YesIlikebananasSo]

she’s mentally ill, not jealous. there’s enough backstory on her side that spells that out clearly. we can acknowledge that the man went through a lot without simultaneously putting down the woman. i do hope he gets therapy or support, he genuinely deserves it.

[@murtaghmorzansson]

Duuude that story was already so crazy! I can't believe he came back, but I'm so glad she got away. I hope that she has nothing but success and happiness from now on.

[@frostwolfnoku]

54 seconds ago sure ill watch

[@alexandriav3956]

Literally one of the BEST Redditor update videos!!

[@IHaveToSwitchChannels]

Claim your within an hour ticket here

[@nidodson]

That last story is insane, and unluckily more common than people would realize. That is just wild...

[@TetraSky]

First story : ... That mustard guy is utterly insane.