r/Pettyrevenge Husband Divorced Me, Immediately Regrets It

[@justicedunham4088]

I’m some jurisdictions, knowingly giving someone food contaminated with an allergen can be classified as attempted murder.

[@mitchverr9330]

not just some, thats pretty much anywhere lol.

[@lorilancaster5917]

I’m not sure but I wouldn’t be surprised if this rule is effective everywhere

[@PunakiviAddikti]

All you need to do is tell the officer you didn't know about the allergy. What are they going to do? Read your mind?

[@QuietChaos1996]

​@@PunakiviAddikti In that case, the bully was very aware of the allergies that OP has AND OP had video evidence of the bully trying to serve her dairy and gluten.

[@PunakiviAddikti]

​@@QuietChaos1996That is true, OP is a smart cookie. That bully totally deserves to be arrested, but being blacklisted from working in food prep in addition to having a criminal record stings pretty good.

[@FoxyllAkora]

The fact that $400 dollars a month is "cheap" for health insurance is honestly depressing

[@tigernotwoods914]

True but you can tell they’re high earners. They’re making 6 figures a year in the middle to high end so $400 a month is nothing compared to $400 a month for regular people.

[@naty2rc]

It really is. I have free healthcare from my job but if I wanted to add a spouse it would cost me over 2k a month. It's ridiculous.

[@KonekoPurrrfection]

That's what Obamacare created

[@tigernotwoods914]

@@KonekoPurrrfection these problems existed long before Obama came to Office. She was a symptom of the bigger problem.

[@thedevilsadvocate788]

@@KonekoPurrrfection The Affordable Care Act mandates that health insurance companies are required to provide certain levels of coverage with every plan. When it was first implemented, it required Americans to carry health insurance just like they carry car insurance. However, as of 2019, health insurance is no longer required at the federal level. Some states may still require it, so it’s important to check what the current mandate is based on where you live. Therefore... objectively incorrect.

[@kurokagator4567]

The best thing about that last story is that OP did nothing at all. The bully fucked her life all on her own. All OP did was count on her stupidity to fall for the bait, and made it public. She did this all to herself lol

[@Kipicus]

Trans Man, he was in the male bathroom, so the person who bullied him was also a man. But everything else you are spot on with.

[@screamoneo]

i think they meant the ice cream story, not the bathroom story

[@weirdkraken]

@@Kipicus i think they just got the last story mixed up with the second to last one

[@mellow3995]

Oh I thought this comment was about the baby name story, I guess M isn't a bully technically, just a dumbass

[@dudeorduuude5211]

​@@Kipicusbe quiet. Don't do that.

[@silverflight01]

Story 2: It's funny how people can cause fights over dumb s**t, even shared names. She needs to take a chill pill

[@ShadowTaipan]

As someone with a super common first and last name, I agree. I have even been on classes with someone with the samr name. Neither of us cared in the slightest.

[@crizmeow8394]

It’s so outlandish to be preoccupied with what a random person you knew ages algo expecting a baby so much you want to steal their name, lady is a grown as woman she can just live her life without thinking how she can one up op

[@Snailman3516]

I had a friend who had the same first name. It's not like we are the first people to be named that name and we certainly won't be the last.

[@InkHyaena]

@@crizmeow8394 Narcissism. They will latch onto people doing better than them, constantly try to one up people, and become obsessed with knowing literally everything about them so they can steal or use it against you. That's why Mary became so hellbent with knowing every detail about OP's life

[@thundermothstudio5446]

Mary's just a narcissist, which means a chill pill probably won't work on her. OP just needs to cut her off and RUN.

[@DarkEinherjar]

The ice cream story... personally, giving someone a criminal record and effectively banning them from working at something ever again feels like prorevenge to me.

[@BronzeDragon133]

Honestly, it just feels like justifiable desserts to me. Ba-dum-tsh. I'll be here all week.

[@lorilancaster5917]

I guess it would’ve been pro revenge if she sued the school for their neglect

[@julydaydreamer404]

For me, the reason it wasn't is because OP didn't go out of her way in getting revenge. She noticed the bully, she knew they would fuck up and then got them in action.

[@RiseLeon_Turtle]

i hope that bully is in jail, im pretty sure torturing someone is a very bad offence... Even if they are kids.

[@JHazard1000]

I would like a update to this story. Did she get bullied even worse at school after this? Did the teacher finally believe her about the bullies?

[@michaeltelson9798]

The mom didn’t end the deal with the racetrack, they did by saying that “one time” deal with the grandfather was off. If one aspect of a deal the entire deal is removed, it dissolves. The mom had full rights to negotiate a new deal.

[@lorilancaster5917]

And I bet she got this deal in writing instead of just a gentleman’s agreement.

[@Snailman3516]

This story was a great example of the real monetary value of goodwill.

[@lornaginetteharrison7168]

Penultimate story: As someone who was also horrifically bullied throughout my school years, I am absolutely delighted that OP got some glorious, justified revenge on one of her tormentors. That is something that I’m sure every bullied kid wishes would happen for all of us. I, unfortunately, had the exact opposite happen to me. I developed depression and severe anxiety whilst I was at college, due to my self esteem being in tatters from years of bullying. After an extremely long waiting list (I live in the UK with our massively underfunded NHS) I was finally seeing a psychiatrist at my local hospital. One day I arrived for my appointment only for the doctor to introduce me to a medical student who would be sitting in on my session. I was completely mortified. There standing before me, with a smirk on her face, was one of my school bullies! I was in shock. I quickly informed the doctor that no, I was *not* ok with this, giving my reason. The bully totally denied that she knew me, even though my mother and her mom had been friends. (Both her mom and dad were frightened of their daughter - she bullied them too!) Anyway, thankfully the doctor asked her to leave, and although he was really apologetic to me and did believe me, the damage was already done. He had been going over my private medical case notes with her before my appointment began, so she had plenty of ammunition to spread to everyone who she was still in contact with from our old school about my mental health. I had to cut myself off from everybody I ever knew from school after that. It terrified me then, and still does, that she - a horrible, sadistic bully, who despised anyone she considered to be weak - was training to become a doctor, possibly specialising in mental health. I know some people can change…not her. I don’t say this lightly, but she’s the only person I’ve ever met in life who I would actually consider to be evil. Even know, all these years later, I wonder how many lives of vulnerable patients she has ruined. She wasn’t just unpleasant, she seriously had some sort of personality disorder, maybe borderline or sociopathic PD. I just hope she didn’t qualify as a psychiatrist or psychologist; she would be merciless with the mentally ill, and delight in their suffering.

[@stevenandcarminabeedle9089]

Wow! Oh wow I am so so sorry! That is absolutely hellacious! I’m glad you left there. If she did it to you, she did it to others. If she makes it through school, I don’t see someone like that keeping her license long. It’s bound to get out if (when) she violates privacy and medical ethics laws. I wish you the best of everything. 💜 I wish her…everything she deserves.

[@lornaginetteharrison7168]

@@stevenandcarminabeedle9089 Thank you! ☺️

[@sonysakura_Raukven]

Stars, this reminds me of this "friend" I had who is a psychotherapist, and DELIGHTS in playing with people. She'd lie to see how they'd react, she'd gaslight people for fun, etc. I just hope she doesn't do this to her patients/clients.

[@mizu7662]

So, you realize that if you can prove she spread your personal medical info that you can deep six her medical career right? Medical professionals are not allowed to give out private patient info. If you can get even the slightest shred of evidence proving they have gone around releasing it to a gossip circle then they are fucked royal.

[@dracko158]

Husband: **Wants to legally separate** OP: "Congratulations, you played yourself."

[@richardtaveras3593]

No wonder the husband divorced op if THIS is her reaction to someone simply leaving her.

[@Dog_in_tree]

She deserved to get dumped. Of course the comments are full of women on her side, as if the man did something wrong 🙄

[@PunakiviAddikti]

YOU FOOL! You activated my trap card!

[@MordorProject]

Yep. Better be both miserable in a failed mariage than to hurt a woman’s ego by wanting a divorce, right?. 🙄

[@edgargarcia5693]

soooo, he gets a great deal on insurance and yet, people its thinking she is owning him? weird logic

[@jasonmomoa5124]

Allergy Story: "They'd literally torture me by holding me down in the staircase when we were alone and sticking pinboard pins into my arms legs and feet" *spits out milk* They did what

[@shantellspeaker6293]

Basically stuck her with little pins everywhere

[@BronzeDragon133]

Didja miss the one where the girl was supposed to let the autistic boy fondle her because he's autistic and doesn't know any better? Yeah. Or me, back in school, who was supposed to be the punching bag because nobody cared (until somebody else's head met a book and a desk, then they cared). Schools are effed up, my dude. Effed up. They can sniff out the kid with abusive parents and abuse them further in ten seconds flat.

[@screamoneo]

how the fwuck did they get away with that

[@akl2k7]

​@@screamoneoUnfortunately, sometimes the popular kids can get away with murder.

[@shantellspeaker6293]

@screamoneo one of the kids parents was a teacher

[@matthewscorner2990]

What I wanna know is how the ice cream bully thought she was gonna get away with that? Even if OP didn’t catch her in the act and had actually fallen for the trick, she would’ve either died or gotten severely sick to the point of hospitalization. Which would naturally spark an investigation into what had happened, leading to the police seeing camera footage of her ice cream being blatantly tampered with. One thing will lead to another, they'll figure out she goes to the same school as OP so she definitely knows who she is, they'll discover through teachers, students, or cameras about her abusive behavior, and determine that the sabotage was absolutely intentional, leading to her getting an even worse punishment than she received via OP ratting her out. Unless she was just hoping the police would be absolutely terrible at their job.

[@BronzeDragon133]

Bullies--and the deeply stupid--do not think. And let's face it, this is a grown-up person working at an ice cream shop, hardly the class valedictorian.

[@lorilancaster5917]

I guess she figured that the school looks the other way with her bullying, maybe she figured everyone else would. And I bet she would’ve said that OP tampered with her own food.

[@DEGENERATE_MELON]

@@lorilancaster5917Could've also played the "She never told me she was allergic so how would I have known" card and turned it into a he said/she said situation.

[@lorilancaster5917]

@@DEGENERATE_MELON very true so thankfully OP had that part recorded I’m sure.

[@matthewscorner2990]

@@DEGENERATE_MELON With the evidence that everything she does to her outside the restaurant is malicious and seeing how blatant the added milk and gluten was, coupled with the obvious concealing of it, I don't think a plausible deniability claim would work.

[@faeriefire78]

I found out someone in my extended friend group who I don't see much anymore named her son exactly the same name as my son (mine is a few years older). When we realized even the middle name and slightly different 1st name spelling was the same we had a laugh about it, jokingly congratulated each other on our good taste, and moved tf on with our lives. 🤷‍♀

[@stevenandcarminabeedle9089]

Exactly as it should be!

[@AbyssalPrince]

Yes but you see that requires something called a brain and logic

[@FelisTerras]

The allergy story; here, that pychopath bully(becaue that's what she is), would be looking at up to three yrs of jail, had OP eaten the laced ice cream and fallen ill. Not to mention that the psycho would be banned from not only gastronomical, but also any and all health/social careers whatsoever. Oh, and any/all insurances involved? They would bleed her dry. OP's a champ for nipping that rotten bud and probably saving other people's lives

[@Love2Banime]

First story: what is the reason for the husband to want to split or "seperation"? There HAS to be something whether it was him or her problem.

[@DebtsofImmortality]

Hilarious how he accuses a transgender person of being transgender then the trans guy literally pulls a 180 and uses his own game against him. Truly an A+ move

[@AbyssalPrince]

That's when you spin back around on them

[@mariposa9506]

Yes but it was true the guy was correct the trans person lied.

[@DebtsofImmortality]

@@mariposa9506 I know, that’s what makes it so funny

[@austinriley8410]

@@mariposa9506Trans people spend all day lying to themselves, why not lie to others as well

[@kill-me-jessxd704]

​@@mariposa9506its almost as if he had to hide himself for his safety or something. Weird that is, trans people being scared of being outed.... i wonder if theres a reason for that🤔🙄

[@InkHyaena]

Story 2: Mary isn't weird, she's a narcissist lol. Narcissists come in a variety and Mary always needed to feel special based on everything said. Narcissists will one up you constantly, try to steal things from you (including baby names), just so they can say "I thought of this first and not you". Good that those people were cutting her off, I can't imagine how draining it would be being around her like that.

[@carsont9725]

Continuing the petition for Rslash to do some feel good content every once in awhile either with a full episode (ei feel good Fridays) or one story at the end. We all could use extra smiles

[@Phoebe_Bear]

SIGNED✍

[@cocobako2582]

Good idea honestly. That's why I like channels like Lost genre: at the end of each video he always adds a funny/heart-warming story

[@poisoned_rock]

this is a very good idea

[@92Mutu]

Agreed and signed! This will do good for everyones mental health. =)

[@sentientcardboarddumpster7900]

He made his choices

[@tailsofchaos]

Its beyond sad when we have bullies who do that type on those who have allergies. But it backfired. Oh well lol

[@lorilancaster5917]

I don’t know what’s worse. The bullying or the school burying the heads in the sand about it? It’s making me think about a story from a couple of days ago. The truth off my chest involving a poor girl being harassed often by a boy on the spectrum and no one did anything to help her.

[@tailsofchaos]

@@lorilancaster5917 imo, the burying the heads is way worse and it just says, we don't care about you. But if you fight back, we will reprimand you

[@AbyssalPrince]

And some people wonder why our 2nd biggest stastic of self deleting / harming comes form the highschool age range

[@WiloKun]

The health insurance story is honestly kind of disturbing. This woman is holding the insurance over her ex's head so that he won't divorce her or stop paying her $400! That's got to be some kind of financial abuse, right?! No wonder the dude wants to leave her...

[@Human-kb6xc]

It seems quite manipulative to me. She said she BEGGED him to stay and he still wanted to divorce her. So she got a new job with “free” health insurance and is using it to “keep him around” or least legally married to her even if they are legally separated.

[@TheHHBstudios]

She also never mentioned the reason why he wanted to separate which makes me think that she’s def hiding something

[@ultimatetrashpotato2751]

she's really not tho. it's not like the guy can't get his own insurance, he can. he just doesn't want to, because he knows he'll have to pa more

[@fishyfow3767]

I don’t think school administrators and teachers should be able to have their kids in the same district, it gives them massive protection and ego

[@marjoriejohnston4905]

You realize some places are too small for that, right?

[@dandelion_fritters]

@@marjoriejohnston4905sadly yes, but this is why I believe any teacher that has children shouldn’t have a prominent role in any decision making process in the school lest they weasel their own power for their children. Hate public schools anyway.

[@marjoriejohnston4905]

@@dandelion_fritters they're better than private or home schooling

[@mariafox9226]

Last story… I know how. When most guys go to the bathroom, they’ll usually stand to piss unless it’s both pissing and shitting.

[@mariposa9506]

Or her face was obviously female

[@viknightingale552]

@@mariposa9506 Trust me, if a trans man went into the female washroom, you'd feel uncomfortable because there's a guy in your bathroom.

[@pentagrin4157]

@@mariposa9506 You've never seen an older transman on T then buddy. They do NOT look female, period. OP's trans dad is like, in his 40s at the youngest, probably much older, and cis women tend to lose femininity as they get older because of lower estrogen production anyhow. Chances are he also has a beard which can obscure even the most delicate-looking faces. A big way for the other guy to tell the other dude was trans is that he used the toilet sitting down.

[@pentagrin4157]

@@viknightingale552 Quite a few times transmen walked into the ladies' room when I was using it (law reasons) and damn straight I was uncomfortable as fuck. Even the younger-looking ones didn't look 'female' at all. I

[@shaneallee6168]

Story 1. OP doesn’t understand why husband wants a divorce. Then she explains a great reason why he’s leaving. Btw there is no way after 25 years of marriage that it is just going to cost $60. The money is just for form, but judges do not like one person being petty. This little stunt of hers could end up costing her most of the marital assets.

[@agentzapdos4960]

With any luck, he'll get hit by a bus before he can rewrite his will and she'll inherit his entire estate.

[@mikea491]

​@@agentzapdos4960 Or he'll get alimony because of her shiny new job. Why is everyone against the husband? I need to rewatch because I deffinetly missed something.

[@75ur15]

​@@mikea491sexism, reverse the sexes and it is financial abuse....she didn't give any reason to hate him, so no reason to suspect him....he did the best thing in the situation, communication, and if needed, amicable divorce/separation.....she exorts him and gloats......some will say women power; I say if you ever really cared you wouldn't want to harm him...

[@Human-kb6xc]

Her Reddit could be a good reason for him wanting the divorce.

[@Compliance0]

First OP gets 400 dollars and the ex gets cheap health insurance....They both win! No need for him to regret his choice. Honestly, if he wanted a divorce that badly, the relationship was done anyways. How is any of this revenge? You are doing him a favor!

[@AbyssalPrince]

Expect it's not divorce they separated and they did it legally

[@insu_na]

It is a favor, and I'm sure the ex appreciates it, too, but the way how she's rubbing it in that she pays nothing for this while he has to pay $400 (which is a reasonably low amount of money for insurance) is nice and petty. It's not harmful, and I think the satisfaction OP gets is more important than her ex being harmed

[@johnherrera5261]

She sounds horrible tbh

[@Athanatosti]

Saying $400 a month is cheap health insurance is wild to anyone in Europe.

[@johnherrera5261]

@@Athanatosti I cover my entire family for less than 200 these people must work horrible jobs if they think this is a good deal

[@aaronscrewface]

"Even her nose got fat..." 😂😂😂😂

[@lorilancaster5917]

Best thing was OP really didn’t have to do anything. Living her best life was the revenge. Plus not giving the Karen any compliments or confrontations may have twisted the blade

[@TsukiKageTora]

Am I missing something, or did the rose bush story really go like “How dare you remove the roses in your yard, where do you work so I can complain about you!”

[@stevenandcarminabeedle9089]

🎯🎯🎯

[@sf6555]

Causing him pain , causing you Spain ..R/slash dad jokes strength is getting stronger ..

[@AbyssalPrince]

Except the husband did it legally [ when in all honestly he could have cheated on her and give her some std ] and they wife is outing her self as being childish

[@karikur0]

back when i worked at an crepe cafe that dealt with an ungodly amount of chocolate and nutella i remember guiding a mom who was concerned about cross contamination to our prep area and showing them how we stored the nutella vs the chocolate and how they were kept completely separate on purpose, assuring them that no we do not use "chocolate" and "nutella" interchangeably, showing how the nutella gets no where near the waffle makers, and showing them the NO NUTELLA sign on one of our crepe griddles and she was just so happy that we were so considerate about that because her kid always had to worry about nutella whenever he was getting sweets at places like this. i explained our owner was hallal and had a lot of sensitivity to food restrictions so he was extra thoughtful about the training. it wa s a really great cafe. we had hallal marshmallows and really fun dishes and my favorite thing was experimenting with customers who came late at night wanting smoothies and milkshakes with weird toppings and mix ins.

[@xKCAZxLEADER]

First Story: Lmao, hey OP's husband can enjoy paying $400 a month for health insurance and not knowing that OP don’t need to pay for him to be on there Second Story: M sounds like a real joy to be around. Her fixation on OP and wanting to one up on her is just weird Third Story: The most minor inconvience would always change someone's tune: I found it funny how OP turned their words against them Fourth Story: The irony of bullying someone for their appearance/age but then OP sees that time and pregnacies didn’t work in this lady's favor Firth Story: Typical Karens, trying to get someone fired because they talked back lmao. Since when was it a law to lie about ur place of work? Karen really making up laws lmao Sixth Story: Teachers consistently prove that they are useless when it comes to bullying and defending the victim. At least OP caused one her bullies to get fired, a tecord, and blacklisted from working with food Seventh Story: OP's dad pulled a "did u assume my gender" on a guy who was being transphobic and got this guy kicked out, lmao hilarious

[@Dog_in_tree]

Why does he deserve this "revenge"? Just for dumping her? Typical woman 🙄

[@jinxstheories4263]

He does know it costs them nothing. Op even said they told him it's funding her trip to spain

[@AbyssalPrince]

Mate op is being childish and it could have gone way worse

[@SinisterScoundrel6562]

5th story, Karen is insane if she thinks I'm gonna sheepishly tell her where I work at.

[@QuietChaos1996]

​@@Dog_in_tree It's not "typical woman." This young lady, OP, felt like her husband was doing something stupid by filing for separation. For what, exactly? He never gave OP a reason. For me, OP did something really funny.

[@adamb89]

That first story, if she lives in a no-fault divorce state, she really does hold all the cards. Stay married on paper for the money, then go out and date someone else on the husband's dime. I mean I would. The second one, I guarantee that was an only child who was constantly praised for being smart. It always creates children like that. Hah #5 reminds me of a conversation I had with some cops once. The next door neighbor's kid was a real jackwagon, and one evening something compelled me to shoot his bedroom window out with a BB gun from my bedroom window. I timed it perfect, the screen was open a crack. After a few quick shots the window finally shattered (the first two surprisingly just punched clean through without cracking it), I slid the screen closed, then the window, then the blinds. The light came on, they looked out, no one was there, all the lights were off in my room. Next thing I know the cops are knocking on my door, (correctly) accusing me of what I had just done, but I'm like "I'm sorry, I'm 14 and don't own a BB gun." They ask if they can come in and take a look around, and I'm like "Nope, I'm 14 and not allowed to let anyone in the house except in an emergency. And my neighbor breaking his window is not an emergency." They finally realized they weren't gonna get anywhere and left.

[@JimAbooGames]

"It's a Crime to not tell me what your job is." Karen unless, you're a cop/fed or signing OP up for health insurance. Op does not have to tell you his job cause he knows full well you're gonna lie and try to get him fired from his job. And all over roses that were on OP's property not yours.

[@EmpressAaliyah]

The way he said "SHE LOOKS HUGE!" made me snort laugh

[@neileneritingin1402]

That Spain pun was atrocious. I love it. 😂

[@Josh_the_jester]

Story 5: it takes a special type of entitled to demand where you work so they can try and get you fired, here's the thing, bosses a managers don't really care what you do outside of business hours, and most likely lie to the caller just to get them to stop calling

[@stevenandcarminabeedle9089]

Right!? And she KEPT doing it! 😆😂 Why would the boss care what OP did in their own yard? Unless she straight up lied which is probably the case. What a dumba$$

[@AbyssalPrince]

That's when you get effing creative

[@Akira_of_the_Fae]

Lol the 4th story, she apparently doesnt know McDonald's salads have more calories then a big mac, let me eat my nuggets in peace

[@bast4rdlyreaper]

I dont understand the whole "our babies cant have the same names" thing, when i was in school we had like a billion boys named Josh and a billion girls named Kaitlyn.

[@mitchverr9330]

First story: If OP is acting like this over their partner wanting a divorce, it brings to mind the question of "why does he want a divorce?". Is it really revenge if you're the reason why somebody is doing something in the first place? Also, feels ew as hell that OP seems to think its okay to punish people for not wanting to be with her, feels like trying to be abusive here tbh.

[@growlingoctopus]

Yes, i was wondering why rslash didnt say anything like this ... this smells more like /r/IAmABitch than pettyrevenge

[@ShadowTaipan]

Try to reread the post, but imagine him reading it in his Karen voice. It really highlights the abusiveness.

[@littlepip4014]

Kinda wondered why the husband wanted a divorce in the first place too, like maybe OP is one of those people that are so negative they drain everyone around them, and the husband finally had enough, maybe he wanted to divorce her long ago, but she threatened to take the kids, so he had to wait until they were all legal adults. Divorces happen, and people fall out of love, but it seems incredibly petty to hold something like medical insurance over someone's head because they no longer want a romantic relationship with you. She didn't mention infidelity on his part, so it probably wasn't that.

[@RWAsur]

@@littlepip4014 " like medical insurance over someone's head because they no longer want a romantic relationship with you." How is it holding it over his head? He wanted a divorce, he can still get the divorce, he just would have to pay double or more for health insurance. Meanwhile, OP can't get remarried at the cost of getting a small paycheck every month to give HIM health insurance. OP is doing him a favor, it's not holding medical insurance over him. You can say that literally of a system like that (American healthcare, probably) but not the person *literally giving you health insurance.* She could charge him 80% of the cost if she wanted to and really stick it to him. She is making a sacrifice in the end, so if its mutually beneficial, then oh well. The only weird thing here is to brag about it on malicious compliance, like babe you're doing your ex-husband something a lot of wives would not offer their exes after getting dropped like a rock. He played himself if health care was a sticking point, there's nothing malicious about it at all.

[@ZombieMinion1992]

I mean given we have 0 context he could have been cheating, using her for her money while his own business gets off the ground, or anything. I’d say in the end he got off fine and at least still has insurance. I think her petty revenge is more for him springing the separation on her without warning and is just a jab at him for that.

[@kelleyk28]

My cousin, C, is like Mary. If my brother had some toy, C had to have it. He hated that brother was older. When we got older, every health problem brother, C had it too, only worse. I know it sounds weird, but when brother died, and we mentioned C, mom said, "try to top that, C".

[@saiyantwan]

First story 1, the way OP is reveling in her ex having to pay $400 makes me feel like the husband had good reason to want a divorce and needs to get themselves squared away and soon. For the last story good on him for using the transphobe rhetoric against them

[@TheHHBstudios]

Her reveling seems really fishy. She mentioned how him wanting to separate made her feel but not his reason, that makes it seem like she’s hiding something that’d change the way we’d look at the post.

[@Human-kb6xc]

@@TheHHBstudios I got curious last night and looked at the original post which led me to her profile. I’m wondering if it had something to do with her husband’s decision cause it came with a NS*W warning 😳

[@pc4189]

5th story..Just what did "Karen" think she was going to accomplish. "Your employee tore out the rose bushes in front of her own house. I told her I didn't like that and she said she didn't care what I thought. I want her fired!" Yeah good luck with that.

[@vampyrelilith]

I had an ex-friend mention she liked the name Lily once in passing and how she was going to try and get pregnant with her boyfriend of a year. Spoiler..... He didn't want kids or to get married but he was too afraid to say anything. I should also mention this woman has 4 kids, is 40, has poor health, and has been told not to have any more kids. Well after she found out I was pregnant she got so pissed. When we found out I was having a girl (I did a gender blood test) I was super excited to use the name I've loved since I was 14. My little girls name is going to be Lilith. The ex friend found out from her boyfriend and was pissed because it was too close to Lily and I'm doing it on purpose. She then told people she wished nothing but the worst for me for using the name I've loved since my early teens. This ex friend also found out she was pregnant but she ended up losing the baby, which is sad, but I feel like it's karma for wishing the worst on me and my baby for using a name I've mentioned to her numerous times. People are crazy.

[@theuglykwan]

Rose Bully - order uniforms for various retail companies that are local and wear them out sometimes so she sees them. See how long you can keep this going.

[@AdamAdver]

Story 1: gee I sure do wonder why the husband would divorce someone as petty as her 😐

[@Anonymous-rg1hk]

I love when he posts. I work 9 hour shifts and have his channel on all the time. Keep up the great work and thanks for making me laugh out loud at times!

[@tinyredbeetle4675]

Ftm trans guy here, and before I tell you this, I live in a very transphobic area of England. So me and my buddy (he's also ftm) were drinking at a local pub celebrating the fact that his brain tumour was fully gone, when he needed to go loo so he went and used the mens ofc. 10 mins later this old man pulled him out of the bathroom by his ear screaming "why the hell is this confused girl in my toilets" my mate replied in a squeal "sir I told you don't have a dick bc it got removed from my cancer treatments!" People stare. My mate removed his wig revealing a nicely bold head (which has a scar brain surgery but idk if anyone noticed it) and pulled his sleeve up to show the bruises from the IV he had in hospital. The bouncer removed the old guy and banned him. My mate got about 5 free pints before we called it a night. (I was drinking strawberry gin and lemonade and Im a lightweight so 4 drinks in and I was gone). Anyways that story about the trans dad reminded me of this one and I thought id share.

[@Yos115]

Wtf she's so in the wrong for that

[@rachelfox8108]

Your friend's a legend, and that old guy got everything he deserved for trying to peek at another man's genitals!

[@rachelfox8108]

​@@Yos115 An old guy tried to peek at another man's genitals just for using a public bathroom. If your transphobia prevents you from seeing how that old man was actually the one in the wrong, you should not be in public.

[@tinyredbeetle4675]

@@rachelfox8108 yep, he's amazing and very goody too. We've been mates since we were 12, (now 20) imma be a groomsmen at his and his fiancés wedding in a few months 😎

[@tinyredbeetle4675]

@@Yos115 Hun, you're not being cute with the transphobia. If you can't say sum nice, don't say it at all xo

[@AliSakurai]

I really really want to know if the bullys parents tried to justify tempering the ice cream. Because if they were able to explain away the other incidents, I really want to know how they tried to explain that wa

[@Hybrid301]

I am altering the deal; pray I do not alter it further. Mom to the racetrack, probably

[@amazehub3644]

From what i see from story 1 OP seems like the crazy ex Letting the ex husband use the insurance for a fee is a wonderful favour. However she is treating this as something to dangle above his head preventing him from divorcing Makes you think why he wants a divorce. Even if thats not her intention you can tell from the post she is a petty woman who probably deserves a divorce

[@twistysunshine]

Yeah i found myself wondering that too. She didn't detail any complexities about their relationship, she just said she tried everything to stop him from divorcing and then sort of succeeded. Kind of suspicious shit to me On top of that, fucked up that the only way this guy can get healthcare affordably is by being stuck with a marriage he didn't want

[@Tustin2121]

There’s nothing stopping him from filling for the divorce. Hell, it’s a pretty good deal if you ask me, allowing him the leeway to get into a better position before pulling the healthcare rug out from under him. But tbh, if this minor bullying is the giggles she gets out of this situation, there’s probably a good reason he asked for a divorce.

[@richardtaveras3593]

So are we just going to gloss over the blatant financial abuse going on in the first story or what?

[@pkmntrainernumbers8111]

Yes, because men don't get abused. /s/

[@richardtaveras3593]

@@pkmntrainernumbers8111 yeah it’s very worrying the amount of people that are supporting/agreeing with the op’s decision. Sure the husband is paying less on insurance but op is still making him pay for something that costs her nothing to produce, essentially screwing him over with whatever decision he makes next.

[@richardtaveras3593]

@Angela-vu9ttshe should straight up divorce him instead of essentially acting like a leech

[@aperson9950]

@Angela-vu9tt what if he doesnt have the money to pay full price? ever thought of that?

[@Dingdongyouarewrong]

It is a bit strange but she has her reasons… I guess 🤔 would help if she gave a reason as to why he was leaving

[@gateng1573]

Story 1 ; i am happy for OP but for many employers monetization of insurance you are getting for free can get you in real trouble. Its really not worth losing your job over

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

I don’t get the first post, I don’t know how that counts as revenge, especially when the ex didn’t really do anything wrong. Unless OP is somehow thinking that she’s “punishing” her ex for separating, which is something he is free to do, which kind of makes OP the bad guy in the situation. Sure, she’s giving him insanely cheap insurance but she’s unnecessarily charging him for it when that insurance is “free”.

[@BronzeDragon133]

It's not revenge and in most of Europe he could get his own insurance, I'm sure. She's financially abusing him. As we're (American) harboring a gentleman who's being abused (financially, domestic abuse, verbal, and legal) by his very soon to be ex-wife, I'm kind of touchy on this subject. And currently have a property festooned with cameras because we need that right now. All with infrared capability and the ability to light this place up like daylight if necessary.

[@brooklynadkins1210]

He's free to separate from her if he wants, after they've separated he doesn't get the benefits that a husband would get, like free insurance for example. That's the revenge.

[@agentzapdos4960]

Nah, he's a useless man who thought the grass was greener on the other side, but it's 2023, there's no need for men to even exist anymore. Women are truly the only actualized humans.

[@LadyEowyn]

You should absolutely be charged if you knowingly give someone an allergen. Never okay .

[@TomDarkwulf87]

I'm like legitimately confused by the neighbor Karen's logic in the bush story. "You removed your pwn plant from your own yard and were snarky to me. Tell me where you work so I can get fired for this." Like ????????

[@Genosis]

The second story boggles my mind. Why would she think that she is the one copying the name when when the other girl publicly announced it in a speech that she was going to use that name if she ever had a boy? Definitely sensing a high level of narcissism.

[@KellyDVance]

Re Last Story: my plan if ever I encounter someone harassing a trans woman in the restroom (I'm in Texas, so it isn't outside the realm of possibility) is to immediately start accusing the bully of being a pervert trying to look at people's genitals. After all, that is the only way they could make such an accusation, right?

[@ohboy-zi1yf]

not really

[@KellyDVance]

@@ohboy-zi1yf "not really" what?

[@calebeaton8777]

It's laughably obvious in many cases. Some may be passable at a glance, but in general womanhood is pretty easily distinguished from womanface.

[@KellyDVance]

@@calebeaton8777 and are you the arbiter of what is or isn't a woman? I am a cisgender AFAB woman and as a teen was called "sir" more times than I can count because I wore the men's uniform at work because it was more comfortable. My husband (a cisgender AMAB man) has been called "ma'am" while using the drive-thru to get dinner fairly regularly. Sigourney Weaver has been accused by transphobes of being a biological male. Trust me, you might think you can tell, but I promise you will be wrong more than your are right. Let people pee and poop in peace.

[@ohboy-zi1yf]

@KellyDVance you get misgendered not because people cant tell, but because many people have ridiculously reductive ideas of gender (ie long hair=woman comfortable clothing=man). people can still tell tho, getting clocked as a trans person is inevitable, sex recognition is literally built into your brain. im a trans dude and i think its really ridiculous when yall respond to transphobes "oH sO dID yOu lOoK aT tHEiR gEniTAlS!?!?!? hOw dO yOu kNow!?!" because no. thats not how it works. all it does is make transphobes angrier and put us in more danger while also pretending that an experience that is literally why we face transphobia in the everyday doesnt exist.

[@zalkor2000]

Revenge is cold, Revenge is sweet, So pretty much Revenge is Icecream.

[@Shimonotoki]

Story 2: I would have made a post with saying something like "i think about using the name XXX for my boy". Using a name that is good, but different. With people like her around, I'd never post the real name before the baby is there.

[@BronzeDragon133]

"Jethro and Nefertiti. Seriously, folks, great names."

[@marjoriejohnston4905]

@@BronzeDragon133 I think my mom would laugh if my partner and I went for 'Leroy Jethro', but we're not. We're going with characters from our favorite games. Obvious origins, but not too crazy either

[@BronzeDragon133]

@@marjoriejohnston4905 "Link and Nora." Still not bad.

[@Nekulturny]

I believe the Allergy law is called the Mrs. Doubtfire Act of 1934

[@tamsel814]

Wtf is up with the health ensurance in the country Op1 lives in. Those payments are just crazy high

[@jefferyfelix1416]

They’re in America. I can tell by the way she talked about the exchange. And yes it is that stupid expensive.

[@dickysatria7268]

America , the land of expensive insurance and healthcare

[@mariah6607]

I’ve been listening to your videos for serval years and they have now become a part of my daily routine thanks for making high quality content every single day!

[@_.hybrids._1680]

First story: No wonder the husband wanted to divorce OP. She throws a fit every time she doesn’t get her way 🙄. It’s not hard to either strike a deal with him (ie. “You can be on my health insurance as long as you are actively looking for your own”), continuing to charge him but not brag about it costing her nothing, or straight up refuse to add him. You know, ACT LIKE A DAMN ADULT.

[@pamelalejeune2424]

Rose bush story: OP should have said he works for vandelay industries.

[@JoshuaGJustice]

Story 1: I see why the husband no longer wants to be married.

[@hayliekendall7995]

In the last story, He probably figured out he was trans when he washed his hands. Southern cis men almost never wash their hands

[@runeritari3]

First story is completely fabricated 100% i checked her reddit profile and she seems be "onlyF@ns" personality/scam But if it is real this is my thought First story OP is crazy. No wonder guy wanted divorce cuz i would divorce her too. The dude really need go all the way to file it, he need be free from that crazy bat. Then it makes me ask: "why she tries be abusive for somebody who wants divorce, what did she or he do?". So if husband cheated and wanted to go with mistress, then revenge is justified and i take back what i said but simply cuz husband dont want be with her anymore (this i assume) and seeing how she acts, its just better divorce her instead of being separated. Dude shoots himself in leg as long as she doesnt file it . I mean its sweet revenge but c-mon, just move on and get new guy or smthing. It hurts yes first year but ppl rly need let go and continue live

[@osmium3691]

Story 1 is not a good story. Wanting to get a divorce is not a moral failing. Think of it from his perspective, he wants to divorce his wife for reasons we don't know, and she decides she's going to hold his health insurance over his head to force him not to divorce her. That financial abuse, enabled by the US's terrible healthcare system

[@SquishyTheVampire]

Maybe there was a reason the husband wanted a divorce....?

[@DrkWhiteWolf]

There's being a bully, but attempted murder possibly by screwing around with allergies is a different level. Jerk deserved the criminal charge.

[@danderson8431]

I competed in public speaking in high school too. I never won a single award or made it to the finals. I never really cared. It was just something fun to do and a way to get out of town on weekends.

[@Ryanthusar]

Baby names one - I think what that Mary forgets is that she already had said to others that she remembered that OP had talked about the name, meaning that if she used it the way she is going about it, thinking that OP would just be copying her, that would also backfire because people would instantly recognize that she was doing it just to cause problems. God help that child later on if it was found out, which it would be, that their name was a name only used in spite and to get one up on someone their mother knew back in school

[@wyattduncan1478]

So noones going to talk about how op is objectively a bad person in the first story? Like ok if he did something to you before you separated, I get it. But from the sound of it op is just insufferable and vindictive. I see why he wanted a divorce

[@threecards333]

You may have a point. We don't know why he wanted a separation. I don't think it was an affair (on his end) or else OP would have mentioned it. Possibly OP is abusive or having an affair, and is using the medical insurance to keep control of her ex.

[@threecards333]

@Angela-vu9tt Would you make the same argument if an abusive husband was using insurance access to control and extort his wife?

[@das_stief]

Reddit double standards.

[@constantineceasar]

Instead of kicking him out they should have had him takin to a mental institution so he can get the help he needs.

[@sassyghost_8]

That last story was too funny! He really pulled an Uno reverse on that guy! 🤣

[@MegaMyown]

1st story: Can’t imagine why your Guantanamo wants to leave you and doesn’t love you anymore.

[@kyleebolinger6887]

Just an FYI, a person is not “a trans.” Trans is an adjective. So OP’s dad is a trans person, a trans man, or he IS trans.

[@errantwinds-up8uu]

I think the dad was just playing to their bigoted stereotypes.

[@asdfdsf-s4u]

I'm a gender bender world trade center and I WILL SUE YOU ALL FOR YOUR TRANSPHOBIA AND RACISM!!!!

[@averylouise1024]

@@errantwinds-up8uuIt was something Rslash said, not part of the story. I was also a little confused, but eh.

[@malachieclipse9507]

He said “was trans” not “a trans” and the grammar really doesn’t matter

[@kyleebolinger6887]

@@errantwinds-up8uu yeah I have no issues with the story. But rslash called OP’s dad a “female to male trans,” and therein lies the (innocent) error.

[@mikea491]

I don't get the first story. He wants a divorce, she doesn't. They end up going through with it. He gets cheap insurance. How is this petty? Whats the revenge for? He gets what he wants and then some. And why is it bad? People divorce all the time. I have a feeling there is more to this story that OP neglects to say.

[@Human-kb6xc]

Story 1: I just looked at OP’s profile on Reddit. 😳 I’m just gonna leave it at that.

[@Blaxjax21]

My wife and I picked the name for our youngest, my oldest brother gave the name to his son. We picked a second name and again one of my brothers used it for his son. So again we had to pick another name. I would have been upset if it had been intentional, but one it happened in just three months. Two we never talk to each other during those 3 months.

[@TheKitsuneOnihane]

It's so fun watching these people piss in the wheaties only to learn it was their bowl.

[@JCTsFascinatingHobbies]

Story 2 - I've known a few people like that. If you've been to Tenerife, they've been to Elevenerife! always one better!

[@firewizardrunepro]

First story, op omited the reason why they were getting a divorce, but from her post itself it doesn't seem like shes a great person anyway. Imagine they gotna divorce cause she cheated, and then went on with the petty revenge, thats not someone you would root for.

[@threecards333]

Another commenter claimed to have found her OF page from her reddit account

[@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902]

Fifth story: What did she expect? "Manager, fire this man for disrespect me and not obeying me! Is against the law not do what I want!" What a psycho.

[@RatOfTheWoods]

First story is financial abuse on her end. Glad her husband is already trying to make his way out of the picture

[@BronzeDragon133]

Agreed. And FA is DV. Run, my man. Run fast.

[@horseluver4ever623]

​@Angela-vu9ttPaying for insurance is not leeching. She's extorting him.

[@aperson9950]

why do i feel the story is fake

[@fangirl3086]

​@@horseluver4ever623yeah you're wrong dude. It's her insurance, she can do what she wants with it. If he wants a divorce, he's free to do so. But he isn't so yeah, he's a leech.

[@75ur15]

​@@fangirl3086swap the sexes and tell me you don't think it would be financial abuse....I could agree if someone cheated, but gloating and tearing down someone for just not wanting to be with you, is evidence of why you never deserved them. If you cared you wouldn't want to harm them

[@Snailman3516]

As who has allergies(used to be more severe, but now pretty mild), knowingly giving someone an allergen is fucking evil. Depending on the severity, it can be one of the most painful ways to die. It is not and never will be funny.

[@chronobretz9511]

Story 2 yeah she is straight up psychopathic her relationship will fail and I feel terrible for the kid op you might want to keep an ear out and be ready to call cps on her

[@SappyDuder]

Two ways the dad could've been clocked at trans in the last story 1: he peed in the stall 2: he washed his hands after peeing

[@SomeRandomUser-dr8bc]

How does peeing in a stall identify you as being trans?

[@NEPAAlchey]

Gee i wonder why the first OPs husband left her. Couldn't be her petty attitude. Cant help but notice she gave no reasons for it. Doubt she would have missed the opportunity to drag him through the mud for a mistake so I assume SHE did something. Typical "haha men bad" story.

[@Grouchbox]

"My deciding to exclude you from my wedding ruined it. ALL YOUR FAULT! How DARE you not lie for me?!!!"

[@12_gauge76]

About the trans dad story, maybe he had a pitchy voice, but that's still no excuse for treating anyone that way, but I still busted out laughing at how it backfired

[@stevenandcarminabeedle9089]

I think that guy Ben Shapiro (trans- homo- everything phobe) moved to TX fairly recently. Wonder how many times he’s been accused? I don’t get why people can’t mind their own business. Plus I thought men don’t even acknowledge each other’s existence in public restrooms as a rule lol

[@NXTangl]

Maybe something about the sound of urination? Anyway, I'm just surprised anyone that ignorant knew that transmascs exist.

[@mariposa9506]

Well most trans people look like their real gender so it was probably obvious.

[@abiean222]

i think maybe cause he used the stall instead of the urinal? but like, seriously, how would the transphobe know in the first place. honestly, if i was there i'd say something about the potential gay peeping tom. which is maybe why the transphobe got kicked out instead.

[@truthseeker9249]

@@abiean222 That's just what I was thinking.

[@Ayimii]

The second story: How can you tell if someone is in drama without them telling you they're in drama.

[@conusbis1148]

Something tells me the husband in the first story is willing to pay almost anything to get his vindictive ex out of his life. Hope he loves a long and happy health far away from spiteful people

[@franciscojaviermendezrinco1902]

Fourth story: That wasn't petty revenge, that was karma.

[@Chris47368]

Last story: That father is a legend! 😂

[@darklordumbreon]

Story 4 Man part of me kinda wished she came back more just to see what new jobs OP would make up just to send her away lol

[@jefferyfelix1416]

That last story. Reverse uno card for the win. Love that.

[@wmdkitty]

Baby names: WHO THE HELL CARES?! It's just a name!

[@dutchvanderbilt9969]

That husband in the first story was in Spain without the s.

[@ballinbunnies]

Baby names: Mary is living rent free in OPs head lol

[@sep_timius]

Seeing the words "dad" and "trans ftm" in the same sentence gives me so much hope myself as a trans man :)

[@dudeorduuude5211]

There isn't hope for many trans parents existing, since transitioning sterilizes trans folk.

[@SomeRandomUser-dr8bc]

​@dudeorduuude5211 you can freeze your egg and stuff I'm pretty sure

[@INezumiI]

@@dudeorduuude5211 there's also adoption?

[@bradleyblake7588]

Second story - Op is so lucky if this is the only drama she finds reddit worthy. Her life must be so freaking awesome and peaceful.

[@kennethM]

If this first story wasn’t in r/petty revenge and literally somewhere else it would be viewed a lot more negatively. It’s literally financial abuse. It’s domestic violence. She’s basically blackmailing him with his livelihood to stay with her legally. It’s really fucked.

[@matthewscorner2990]

We also don't know why he wanted to split with her in the first place. There are plenty of stories of couples drifting apart and often times because one of them either turned out to be an absolutely terrible person or just slowly became one over time. Naturally, if this was the case, she didn't and wouldn't have stated as much. I'm guessing she specified how long they'd been together because that would imply that nothing significant had changed from the point of their marriage to the point of the separation, as any red flags should've been discovered before that point. Maybe the husband was an asshole and just decided fuck her, but I also can't help but feel like she isn't telling us everything.

[@BronzeDragon133]

Yeah, exactly. Financial abuse IS domestic violence and $400 a month isn't exactly cheap for a lot of people. I'd love to hear his side of the story, because her side is already pretty tarnished.

[@crazyinsane500]

@@matthewscorner2990 Yes, because as the post shows the husband has any AH qualities. He definitely didn't break away from a terrible person before it got worse.

[@brooklynadkins1210]

Be for real, she's charging him for the insurance because once you've separated from your spouse you don't get to reap the benefits of being a spouse, like free insurance. OP even said that what she's charging her ex for insurance is less then half of what her ex would be paying an insurance company.

[@matthewscorner2990]

@@crazyinsane500 I can't really tell what point you're trying to make. I'm suggesting that it's entirely possible that he could be leaving her because she was becoming a terrible person or did something horrible and she simply isn't acknowledging it in her post. Are you saying that's not a possibility or are you saying you thought I was saying that's not a possibility? If you're being sarcastic, I can't tell. I'm a bit tone deaf for text.

[@liliumeli]

So you would rather be with someone who doesn't want to stay married to you and have an unhappy marriage?