Potty Training The Most Difficult Toddler | When Potty Training Doesn't Work!

It's Potty Time!!! I know so many parents are going to be quick to judge because they think every kid should be potty trained easily. However, potty training is one of the only situations that your child can control. In our case, we have a very stubborn 3-year-old girl. We have literally tried EVERYTHING! This is our struggle.
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[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Check out our updated video! WE DID IT! She is now potty trained! Here are all of my tips! kzbin.info/www/bejne/ppezkHmpdr2hl7s

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Did u try the tummy massage potty training method

[@elsamartin8165]

I dont thinkive cried so much in my life. My son is 23 months. He holds it and then runs and hides to pee and poop. Then I take him to the sitter and she raved about how easy he was and had ZERO accidents. That made me realize he can do it, he wont do it for me. He plays games with me, laughs, runs and hides. 7 days in and it feels like an eternity. How do you stay patient and enthusiastic😭😭😭

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Did u try the tummy massage potty training method

[@farihaahmedsaki1978]

same situation. How you did finally?

[@dulenearteaga-becerril9729]

You are absolutely NOT alone!!! I have a set of twin boy they are 3 years old. One has mastered the potty training since last year, and the other stubborn twin yells & screams and pees everywhere else but within his potty. I'm literally pulling my hair out trying to potty train my little one. God bless you

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Awww I’m so sorry you’re going through it too. You’re doing a great job!

[@mandyk3050]

My 3 year old boy is so afraid to sit on the potty and he holds it. I feel so stressed out because he looks so afraid and I hug him while he’s sitting down to make him feel better. I have been doing research and can’t seem to find anything that would be helpful. :(

[@coreyanderson1457]

Yeah, I know the feeling. My potty training chart is filled up with failures. I empathise.

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@charleymann5441]

I’ve been searching for someone with the same issues as me and I’ve finally found it. I feel heard!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Yesss! You are not alone mama. It’s so hard.

[@Asia..A]

If we could have a school for potty training where you just drop your child there and pick them up when I have learnt to use the potty

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

That would be awesome. I think a lot of Montessori style preschools have it in their curriculum. It’s just expensiveeeee

[@Wessica1234]

​@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYTwhoo spend money

[@melissamulkins9028]

Omg this is my daughter to a tee even her reason is she’s “scared” mine won’t even sit on it she is almost 4 and I feel like a horrible parent. So sick of the shaming too! I’m at a loss and our more recent escapade is “potty presents”. thank you for this video it feels good to not be alone. Did you ever get her to go?

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Yes you are not alone! She is going now thankfully. We’re not fully there yet and sometimes she has an accident because she thinks it’s funny. For some reason it’s easier to get her to poop. She’s so backwards. She did it on her own terms though. You’re not a horrible mom! You’re perfect! Every kid is different. To help with the scared thing, we let her pick out her underwear (again, second try) and we bought her a paw patrol potty and let her put stickers on it. We also were given a potty watch free to review on amazon once she started going. It just heroes every so often to remind us to take her. We used it for maybe 2-3 days and then things finally clicked. I’m going to be doing an update video soon. I hope things start working for you soon!

[@melissamulkins9028]

Danie and Danny we have had some success today! I bought the potty prizes which is a huge frozen toy haul. We went pant less all day and I told her she could have a prize when she goes. No accidents all day and two pees in the potty- the last one was at 130p fingers crossed she keeps it up! Looking forward to your update!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Oh good! The past two days were rough here. We’re doing better at pooping in the potty for some reason lol

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Melissa :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child”. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@melaniesonier6493]

OMG! mine just turned 4 and it has been a nightmare. She just wont go. I tried stickers, toys, everything... theres some days that she will go once in the day and only for pee... Its my first baby so i dont have any experience with potty training. I stopped forcing her and will wait until she is ready.. Thank god she only starts school at 5 lolll... We have another year to learn😁

[@audreannacastaneda2380]

Yes!!!!! My daughter is going to be 4 in August and I am having trouble potty training her. She goes pee sometimes but only because I make her but like your daughter, 5 minuets later she will pee in the living room, or poop in her room. Soooooo frustrating!! I get so upset with her. I just want this to be over already!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

You’re not alone! It’s so difficult with a stubborn child. Were just about there now

[@Charliesangel79]

My son will also be 4 at the end of august and is "scared to death" of the toilet...he was saying he will "fall in"..all the smaller toilets are "play toilets" and he has always refused to use them. Home depot has a new soft close toilet seat which is made by Bemis which is the (next step 2) series that has a built in small toilet seat that sits flush with the regular seat and magnetically stays stuck to the lid when not in use..just bought it to give it a try.

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Audreanna :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Did you try the tummy massage potty training method

[@drbee177]

Omg I’m watching this video, thank u sooo much for normalizing this. My son is 2 and he would just cry his lungs out sitting on the toilet seat and he would pee soon after he gets off the seat. Thank u! Ur not alone though m watching the video after almost 2 yrs but seriously can’t thank u enough to help moms like me who are still struggling and are sick of watching all those mommy videos training their little ones in a breeze.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Hi everyone! Do you have a difficult child to potty train! Tell me I’m not alone!

[@ablair33556]

Danie and Danny yes my little girl is 3 and terrified of the potty .. she screams like she’s being beaten when I take her in the bathroom.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Sounds exactly like our situation 😩

[@sofiewu4271]

My daughter is stubborn, too. She keeps holding pee even she is sitting on the potty. I'm frustrated, too.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Yesssss. So frustrating! My daughter in this video is potty trained now *finally*. I’m getting ready to start with my 2 1/2 year old with behavioral issues soon and I’m dreaddddding it.

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening Danie :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child”. Your definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@ashleysgro]

My son is 3 1/2 and it’s been a battle. We haven’t be able into get him to use the potty. I am trying my best. Just like you I have used every trick and advice given. They say it will just click. My daughter was trained at 2. She was a breeze. My son, seems to be more difficult. Thanks for the honesty.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Ashley Sgro thanks! It’s certainly a challenge. You’re not alone!

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Ashley :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@meinideli]

I'm crying reading kids can go over 5 years old to not be able to potty train... Because my daughter is 3years 7months and still on pull up's... I wait until she is about to poop and take her quick to sit down on the potty and she stops. I even gave her prune juice and make her sit... Nothing happens... But as soon as I let her stand she runs behind the curtain to poop and pee in her pull up's.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Aww you are not alone! It’s so hard! Sending virtual hugs ♥️

[@meinideli]

@Amanda Perez 😢my daughter does not understand what "if you use the potty I will give you a candy" she just want the candy right away. I had her run around with nothing on for 3 hours, she did nothing. And asked for a diaper when she had enough. I even tried the jealous trick to have her 4 month old brother pretending to be sitting on her potty... I even dropped fake poop inside and called her over... She cried saying "it's mine..." but still wouldn't use it herself. I sent her to take a nap and she pooped in her pull up's. I might get a garbage ticket if I keep sending her pooped diaper in garbage loll 3 year old poop is no different from a grown up lol. I have to put on a face mask and one glove and got Glad bags just for her. Please Lord help us!!!!

[@AdrianaSanchez-hb1ql]

It’s been 10months since your comment did you have any luck? My daughter is 3 and 2 months and I’m going through the same thing as you :( I gave up today it’s impossible trying again in like a month

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

@Amanda Perez try the tummy massage potty training method

[@elvakauk6618]

Update. It took awhile, but we finally have victory with my daughter peeing in the potty daily. No pee accidents. Poop is next on the list. Doctor says she is constipated. I still think that it is stubbornness. Stays clean and dry at night time. Took years to do, but finally happening.

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method yes her dr pediatrician is right she is constipated. Try a pedialax enema or a pedialax suppository glycerin daily rectally

[@elonza_r]

Lol . I love this ! Just honest and raw . I’m currently training my 3 year old and we’re almost there !!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Thank you! It’s so hard! We finally got it!

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Des :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@Jessjess39]

I thought I was the only one going through this my daughter just turned five. And yes five before people judge I have done everything I can in my power to encourage her to use the potty now she does pee but she just won’t poop. Doctor is aware and says when she’s comfortable enough she will go. But that’s not the answer I want to hear lol I feel horrible it just sucks

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Don’t feel horrible. You’re doing amazing. No one will ever understand until they have a difficult child like this. It’s not your fault and you’re doing a great job. Don’t let anyone tell you any different! ♥️

[@abbiereese08]

My daughter is 5 and will NOT go on the potty. No...your not alone. Sr. Says it's behavioral but i dont know what to do!

[@caitlinwalton9174]

I hope nobody judges you! Every child is different, my boy was 4 last month and absolutely hates the toilet😅

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Jessy :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child”. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@jacquelineazalegue2658]

Talk about frustration. I started crying, watching videos, googling, asking people. My son is 4yrs months. He can pee when I take him there but will not poop. He also can't just go on his own. I have also tried different methods. He started pre k yesterday and they called me to come change him when he peed because according to their policy they can't touch him unless he's special needs. He doesn't really communicate but he's verbal. No body has given me any diagnosis. I feel helpless. I can't have a job now nor go to school because they can call me at any time to come change him. The only good thing is that I live 4 minutes away. You're not alone. I'm losing my mind

[@jadebethj4807]

Our daughter pees on the potty all the time. She refused to poop. She even knows exactly where to go and why and how. But she will literally just play until she poops her pants. It's so freaking frustrating. Esp with me being 9 months pregnant. I'm tired of cleaning the shit from everywhere and she wants to run away. We have literally tried so many ways and tips. And she'll still poop in her panties. Argh.

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@maryelisabeth752]

Refreshingly honest

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Thanks

[@WyelLegendTV]

Great channel! Theres this super helpful article I found for parents in the potty training phase. Is it Truth or Myth? my.mycoollinks.com/view/pottytest

[@fable3625]

In the same situation. My daughter is turning 4 and still hasn't gone once on the potty. We have been trying everything and even doing the sitting on the potty all day. She held it in until dinner time and peed all over the floor. 😤 I understand the frustration

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

It’s sooo hard and people can be so rude about it. You’re doing an amazing job ♥️♥️♥️

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Abigail :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@destinystager2378]

@@FruitsOfFocus Did you ever publish the book?

[@junnujaanu_happydays]

I know this vidoe is from a year, were you able to train her? Sorry for you. I had tears in my eyes seeing this video. I am going through same situation.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

I did finally get her trained. It was so difficult. I had to be the “mean” mom and start taking away toys. I felt bad but it made her motivated to get them back. I’m struggling with my second now. She hides when she has to go so sometimes it’s obvious and other times you miss it and don’t figure it out until you step in pee 😩

[@junnujaanu_happydays]

@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT my kid likes to talk about everything but potty training. I dont know how i can convince her to do this. It is making me very sad.

[@SuperMewtwo10]

I’m going thru this right now.. it’s so frustrating I feel so helpless 😞

[@chsftball57]

My niece just turned three recently and is the SAME WAY. Scream and argue and holds it all day. Crazy, crazy and hugely frustrating.

[@punkyreggaeparty8786]

Thank you so much for sharing this. My LO knows perfectly well how to use the potty and wipe. She'll randomly do it when she is in the mood. Otherwise she refuses to do so. She is extremely stubborn and has decided she wants to be a baby again. Sigh. We're currently doing bare bottom around the house. Wish us luck!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

We started again yesterday! We’re in it together! I have my 2 year old abs 3 year old both trying. Idk what I was thinking.

[@coreyanderson1457]

Girls are more stubborn. Well, in my experience. My daughter would not go on the toilet. She would sit on potty, and then get up, and go in her training pants. Right after. Some girls do that. I don't know why. It is a control thing I am guessing. Yes, I have experienced a child this stubborn! I even tried the three day method. But if they insist on not going on the potty, it is time to try psychological tricks, like stars and candy, etc., etc.

[@caitlinwalton9174]

My little boy is 4 and is terrified of the toilet😭 he will have a wee standing up, because he copies his dad - but he will NOT sit and poop! I need help mommas!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

That’s so frustrating! I have 3 girls so I’m not even sure what to tell you about that one. But they do learn by what they see so it makes sense!

[@angelanngreen5493]

I’m facing the same my son will pee all day no issue since turning 2 but will not poop and will be 3 in November

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Caitlin :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@SuperMewtwo10]

Mine just turned 4 .. terrified of the potty but last week started going potty on his own but I have to have him bottomless.. with underwear he still pees n poop in it 😠 idk what to do

[@urikatamba9708]

make him terrified of something more than the toliet that will make him sit and S#)& on it. like for example; the scandal, belt, or cold baths

[@ananditaamathur2493]

You’re not alone dear I m facing same problems with my 4 yr old boy

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Hope they resolve soon! Thank you 🥰

[@ananditaamathur2493]

Danie and Danny I hope so 🥰

[@jeanenerenee5045]

I assumed that I was the only parent going through this. I have a almost four year old who has reverted back.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

You’re absolutely not! It’s just hard to talk about without other judging you so no one speaks up. You’re doing a great job mama ♥️♥️♥️

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Anaditaa :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@moxielanedesign]

My first potty trained so fast at age 22 mo. My second, my daughter, is so so stubborn and I totally understand your frustration! I find what works is watching kids potty videos on KZbin then she can see and hear other little kids doing it and cartoons doing it. It helps if I doesn’t come from me. Also he’s has a friend a similar age and I had her mom do FaceTime so she could see her friend go pee in the potty, and then she wanted to do it. Sounds weird but desperation calls for desperate measures. Hugs. Hope it’s going better for you.

[@zoezimmerman2822]

I was just like her as a child! I don’t know why, my parents of course were very frustrated. I still had many accidents in elementary school

[@funawesome2006]

Zoe Zimmerman did you wear a diaper in elementary school?

[@missquinones23]

My daughter is 2y2m and this honestly freaked me out😭I love how honest this video is but it scares me to think that this is what I’ll go through. I tried potty training a little after she turned 18m because she was interested in the potty and going when we went and she got to the point to where she would let me know when she had to go but then suddenly stopped. And now I’ve been trying for about 3 weeks and at first she would let me know right after she would pee but only when she was in pull ups or training underwear, but now she refuses to go even when she’s not in diapers, she just pees and poops in her underwear. She wouldn’t poop unless she had a diaper on and now she poop in her diaper, pull up, and training underwear

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

I understand your frustration. I’m actually recording an update video today about our progress. We were totally there and then this weekend regressed almost back to day one. It was soooo bad.

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@jasminekapri]

I understand your frustration completely.

[@princesssadieloo]

My daughter was 3.5 when she finally potty trained, As full time working mom it was so frustrating! Now my son turned 3 and same struggle… he can’t start preschool because teachers won’t change diapers, they’re not licensed for it, so my husband is stuck with him at home until he can be fully trained. He can’t work until then… it’s 😞 so frustrating.

[@jeijeimon]

You are so not alone!! My daughter who is also around the same age as yours (3yrs4mos now) has also never peed on the potty. I don't know why she is scared to do so. She would have tantrums if she doesn't wear her diapers. I have also tried to train her you know, with the half-naked method and all, but she would just hold her pee in until she can't anymore, which I think makes her more scared. I know that every child has their own pace in this and all, but I totally understand that we mommas become impatient for them, and that's what's frustrating! Hahaha, please let me know if you manage to do it. I'm also losing my mind. More powers, momma! x

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

We’ve made a lot of progress she will go now but if we’re not on her about it she won’t go. We have to make sure she goes on a schedule. It’s been rough haha.

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Jeimee :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, including tantrums and toilet fright. Your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@heartz500]

I’m glad I’m not the only one struggling potty training a 3 year old... my mother in law keeps bringing it up to my husband how our daughter is still in diapers when so and so kid’s were potty trained by 2 and it worries him then he ends up stressing me out and putting all the pressure on me to have her potty trained ASAP 😩

[@ninneadeanna]

He can help too

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Kimmy :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@myyt3824]

Potty training my 2yo daughter has completely turned me off to having another child. This is hell. I would literally rather die than ever have to potty train another child again. This feels like I’m committing war crimes. Nothing works!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lamb7780]

Two thirds of the way through your video. It is 3 years later. Did you eventually solve this problem? In a similar situation with my daughter right now. She can hold it in for about 12 hours. Worried about her health at this stage, she has been eating less and drinking less to avoid having to go to the potty. It has been two weeks.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

She’s 6 now and was def a tough cookie. She pretty much ended up doing everything on her own time. We used the potty watch which helped a bit. I hope you find something that works

[@babyclown]

“You look terrified.” LMAO I feel you. I say the same things verbatim “you being mean to mommy? Playing tricks on mommy?” It’s crazy this is my exact situation almost.

[@jenjohnson689]

You are not alone!!!! My 3 year old daughter is not as bad but really bad. She has used the potty a bunch but now will lie to my face when I ask of she needs to go and then pee all over the floor or the couch... my son is 2 and no problem... I almost feel like it's because shes the oldest and theyre so close in age she doesn't want to loose baby status.

[@joeybonavita2739]

My parents are struggling to potty train the almost 3 year old: will be 3 in 2 months time. Not that he won’t use the potty! Its for a different problem. When he is running around hit naked he does just fine: he pees in the potty, poops in the potty, tells someone when he needs to go…he does amazing it’s a dream. But as soon as we put him in underwear or pull ups or diaper or anything…he goes in his pants. Does this mean that he’s ready to be potty trained or just wait a little bit longer.

[@joeybonavita2739]

Oh and by the way we have tried Oh Crap Potty Training and we only got to: wearing just pants. No undies or pull up or diaper. He will only go if he is naked completely or sort of commando. Is it control or is it: he’s ready so just go head first

[@jennysandoval5527]

Hello. My daughter and I started potty training my grandbaby. She was doing good for 2 weeks. My daughter went out to the mall and my grandbaby said she had to go pee pee, so my daughter took her to the bathroom and sat her down on the big toilet and she refused to go. This happened in a Saturday and by Monday she's refusing to even sit on her little potty 🤦😭. What do we do ?????

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Oh my I’m sorry! It’s so stressful! It took forever for us. We ended up using a potty watch to remind her to go. She did have a fear of the big potty which she ended up getting over in her own time. Just keep trying. Kids are stubborn 😩

[@jennysandoval5527]

Where can I buy that watch?

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

@@jennysandoval5527 I know there are several on Amazon. We were sent one for free by a company for a review.

[@jennysandoval5527]

@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT Thank you. Today she's doing a little better, but still refusing to sit, but at least she let me take her into the restroom 👏 I got her a sticker chart, candies in a jar. I'm will continue to pray and be patient. Thanks

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

@@jennysandoval5527 good luck! You’ve got this 💪🏻

[@gemmalouise9645]

You a have so much patience, I commend you for that. My fuse gets so short 😂 my daughters ready I know she is and she has used hers when I wasn’t even there but I’ve held of doing the whole potty training as I know because she is strong minded she will be the same as your daughter so I’m waiting for the summer so can get her in the garden with the potty 😂 to save my furniture as I do not have your patience. Good luck xx

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Thank you. I feel like my patience is getting shorter each day. Thankfully she will get off of the furniture and pee on the floor now. So at least that’s an improvement lol

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Gemma :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@gemmalouise9645]

Arianna yes please that would be awesome thank you. [e-mail] x

[@elvakauk6618]

It's not easy, that's for sure. It took us over two years to train our daughter. She is five now. It was getting embarrassing the older she was getting.

[@caramelboo1]

My oldest will be 4 in August and She’s very stubborn, she will go when she’s with her granny but not me.. uggh idk what to do! And I also have 2 year old twin girls

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Its soooo hard. Remember you’re awesome and doing great. Kids are in control during this process. It’s very frustrating.

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Gabrielle :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, including training twins. Your little ones will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@ngagutierrez9300]

Omg my son is 3 and we have the same problem. He will not pee or poop in the potty. We tried both a potty chair and a small toilet seat but none of these worked so far. We stripped him naked with only a shirt on, we set timer for every 20’ and gave him a lot of water. He would not go in the potty. He cried, kicked and screamed. Then he tried to hold it until he couldn’t anymore and he pee on the floor and every time that happened he cried. We were so stressed and frustrated it a point I was crying because don’t know what else can we do. Well at least now I know we are not alone in this . We plan to try again next week but I don’t have high hope at all.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Not alone at all! It’s very difficult with a stubborn child! But you’ll get there 💪🏻🥰

[@lindaarguello2803]

I feel you! Soooo frustrating!!

[@allaboutcars19]

I know this is old but mines 4 and does not care about pooping in the potty. He’s being held back in daycare because he’s not fully potty trained. He was trained to pee but then started to have more and more accidents. Now we are back to square one.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Omg I love your picture! Huge zim fan! I feel you. We ended up back at square one soooo many times. Sending virtual hugs. You’ve got this 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@soroka186]

We started potty training yesterday, I can't even imagine how hard it is for you. Hug 🤗

[@aristachristodoulou5874]

I have 3 year old boy that seem to be scared to sit on potty an toilet and very frustrating he wees on the floor need help im running out of ideas

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

It’s sooo hard. You’ll get there! We used a potty watch and I had to start taking her fav toys away. Not ideal but it worked

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Arista :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@jenniferwilbourn1959]

You Are Not Alone My Son Just Turned 5 And He. WILL NOT POOP IN THE POTTY OMG But He Will Pee All Day Long In The Potty But I Am Just Like You And I Have LITERALLY Tried Everything And Nothing Works And Doctor Has Said The Same Thing That It's Behavioral But He Has To Start School Next Year And I Have No Idea What To Do . I Feel Like The Worst MOTHER Ever .

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Awww you’re an amazing mom! It’s so hard. No one will ever understand this struggle unless they go through it. I feel like I have no control. It really suck :( you’ll have to come back and let me know how things go!

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Jennifer :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@nigar19831]

I m on day 3 and I am about loose my mind. He pooped in toilet first two days, and popped and peed on the floor today all day. He doesn’t want to seat on the toilet chair anymore. He will not go on chair if I prompt but hold it and then poo on the sofa or floor. Two years old and doesn’t talk at all. I am soo frustrated.

[@neenajaseer1071]

any update on this?? I am guessing you are still at it? :( I know how it feels!!! I am gong to try again a week later quarantine style :-/

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

We’ve made some progress but it’s still very difficult

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Neena :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@bailygladfelter6242]

Im in the same boat my child is 4 and will be in kindergarten next year...hes so stubborn will rip up tp throw tantrums so i recently got him a potty watch so the timer will go off on its own instead of telling him and him arguing with me. He has been banging the watch to break it hopefully he will finally go and its so hard when people shame you for not trying we have tried so hard

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

I know. People can be so rude. I always try to tell someone they’ll never understand until they are in my situation and I’d give them my full support if they were in my position so try to support me instead of shame me for having a strong willed child.

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Baily :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@bailygladfelter6242]

Good news he's finally potty trained!

[@elvakauk6618]

How did you do it? Our 4 year acts the same way. Tantrums, destroys the bathroom almost daily. Depending on who is with her at home. She behaves a little better with me.

[@elvakauk6618]

Also I forgot, we try to talk to her about it and she just wants to avoid the talk send tell us to go away.

[@jasmineholt2843]

I'm having the same problem with my son right now and he just turned 4. When he's on the potty he holds his pee instead of urinating in the potty. I can tell he has to urinate because a little would come out and he'll try to hold it in

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@2011liya]

My son is super persistent on not pooping and peeing in the potty, everytime after seating on the potty for a long time, he fusses and refuse to seat anymore, then he poops immediately after getting of the toilet, I feel miserable now

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Mz L :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@jessicasolano376]

Yes I have mine does perfectly find going peeing but he just does not wanna poop in the toilet

[@TheCmovius]

My daughter is the same way, she’s almost 3 1/2.

[@Marina14u]

I’m not a mom but I’m trying to help my 3 year old brother

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

I hope it goes well! Good luck!

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Alli :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@hienienguyen6766]

I am so frustrated dealing with my son . He is 2 years old. I am sitting him on the potty and he gets up. I need another method 😊

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

It’s rough. Honestly with my other two I waited until 4 years old then put them in undies and that was it. They never had issues and had enough control that the switch worked on try 1. I wasn’t going through this chaos again lol. People judged me but when you deal with kids as stubborn as yours and mine, they’ll just never understand.

[@hienienguyen6766]

@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT oh wow that's very late. I am definitely going to keep doing it. I am putting undies on my son so he can get use to it. He hates diapers.

[@hienienguyen6766]

My mom told me that she would help me when he is three years old. He doesn't know how to say pee pee or poo yet. I may have to really do this but he has gotten on the toilet seat and I told him to wash his hands before this. I still got to train him how to take off his pants. Another good thing is I'm letting him wear underwear so he can get use to the material

[@farihaahmedsaki1978]

My 32 month baby giril hold pee and poop for 12 hours and cry for diaper. Its day 16 for me and still not pee in potty. I am helpless pls help

[@darkfirefire2809]

Excellent Very much...

[@minnowstv15]

So far 2 out of 3 of my girls have been stubborn about potty training and did not potty train until 3

[@lettymel23]

I'm literally trying it now. My son just turned 4. I tried a couple months ago and it was a nightmare still is. I can't even get him to sit on the potty

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

I hope it works for you this time. It’s so frustrating sometimes

[@KittyCatSurprise1]

Omg I am the same with my little girl who is 4 she hates sitting on the potty and will not pee on it it's a nightmare I feel like a failure 😰

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Melett23 :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Tasha, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :) Tasha

[@lettymel23]

@@FruitsOfFocus thank you, but my son is completely potty trained now.

[@alicelalune]

@@lettymel23 What do you think made it click for your son? I'm struggling with my almost 4 year old now.

[@MsFrancoise15]

I am trying to potty train my 25 month old and she is extremely stubborn to the point where she punches and spas me in my face when I put her on the potty. I gave up I’dk if I’m trying to early and I don’t want to push her to get trained.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Sometimes it’s just less stressful to wait. Do what’s best for you 🥰

[@khrystynebatres6219]

Ugh! My sons about to be 3 and he was doing so great and suddenly he was scared of the toilet and hates it so much. I got him a kiddie urinal and nothing. He’s in underwear and will hold it until he gets a diaper on! (I only put him in diapers for naps and bedtime).

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

We’re at this point now too. Very frustrating!

[@heartz500]

Omg my daughter too! She will literally hold it as long as she could until she has accidents.. we just can’t get her to pee in her potty 😩

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Khrystyne :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, including toilet fright. Your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@MELMUR4564]

I’m in the same boat! So frustrating.

[@noahharris2260]

When they go they gotta go

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Truuuuth

[@noahharris2260]

@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT not a problem

[@queendancing3828]

I’m having a hard time now it’s so dam frustrating cause he knows what he doing I have a 2 year old son and he rather piss on himself than use the dam toilet and it would be right after I sit him on the potty it’s so dam hard and frustrating I even tried taking away die-per tht shit dnt work cause with my other son it wasn’t like this it was simple but with my second son he’s so dam he disobedient he would even wipe his shit on the wall it’s just a lot he even piss on the floor as well I put him on the potty a lot no progress at all . Nothing works

[@garrettmercer8241]

Having to same problem with our boy and even the same age. Just this morning we went through 5 pairs of underwear each time before he was taken to the toilet.

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

It’s so hard 😭

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Garrett :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@Lexisdollies]

Am so stress my daughter is 5 years old and she refused potty training like 7 times I don't know what to do I try every treak it does it work

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

You’re trying and that’s what matters. Don’t feel guilty or stressed. You’re doing a good job!

[@Lexisdollies]

@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT thank you

[@sacheenheartbreakkid]

Nice watching your video..Merry Christmas 👍

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Thank you!

[@sacheenheartbreakkid]

@@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT most welcome

[@jessicasolano376]

Girl I am having trouble with a stubborn toddler that is 5 😠😠😠😢😢😢😢

[@debbierabe1756]

Get a child's seat on the toilet with seat belt and tray with a couple of toys, and leave her sit. For boys, let daddy pee in the toilet and let him watch. Boys will do what daddy does.

[@dulenearteaga-becerril9729]

Stick to it because this too shall pass lol

[@tashemsley2240]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

❤️❤️❤️

[@kheastokes7659]

My oldest son is 2 and I’m having a hard time potty training him

[@robertadougherty8790]

I have a 3 year old boy that will pea on the potty bit refuses to sit on the potty

[@breannahayes859]

My daughter is 2 and has peed on the potty a few times but my thing is she does not want to stay on the potty I tried giving her a book,my phone with her shows,giving her toys but nothing is working help please also this is my first kid

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Have you tried flipping her around so she can draw on the toilet lid with a Dry erase marker. We had issues with this too and still do. I think they will learn the need to pee once they are on it so they can get back to what they are doing quicker

[@breannahayes859]

No I have not done that .that sounds like it's a good idea I will try that next time oh and I forgot to ask has your daughter had a thing about pooping in the potty because my daughter poops in her diapers so I put it in her potty to show her it goes in there and she freaks out and crys

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Pooping was a huuuuuuge problem for us. She’s potty trained now but she’ll hold her poop in so she doesn’t have to go. We can tell she’s trying so hard to hold it. If we put her on she’ll go but if we don’t catch it she’ll poop her pants. It took a very long time to get her to go. She’s 3 years and 7 months and only started going about a month ago. Don’t stress! You’re doing a great job!

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

I posted a more updated video last week about what actually worked. Maybe that would help?

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Potty Training Tips For The Most Difficult Toddler | When Potty Training Doesn't Work kzbin.info/www/bejne/ppezkHmpdr2hl7s

[@lukesmith5810]

What about pull ups

[@jacobbaker4545]

I think its the potty she is using...its cursed. Lol my kid does the same thing and she has that potty as well.

[@EdDunn-dd7ey]

She is not too Old for diapers. Keep her in diapers.

[@rightcabana8885]

Just go back to diapers for awhile

[@ninneadeanna]

Mine actually trained but he gets to stubborn to go

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Dawned Harsh we had a phase like that too. Frustrating

[@bkhall5139]

Dawned Harsh well my cousin is 3 years old and she doesn't go on the potty when she has no nappy on she asks for it to go back on so she can pee but we kind of gave up because she has fractured her arm twice so we are gonna a wait until she has no cast on

[@joeydelgaudou2681]

Try the tummy massage potty training method

[@ChaseLife2016]

My son only wants the tablet for potty time an will sit for 30 minuets with out potty

[@marisolelizalde7418]

ya i now it hard to potty training my little girl dont w to go to the potty i now how u fill .

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

It’s so hard sometimes. I hope it works out for you soon!

[@FruitsOfFocus]

Good evening, Marisol :) I was watching this video, “Potty Training the Most Difficult Child” and saw your comment. You're definitely not alone! My name is Arianna, and I recently finished writing my book called “The Holy Grail of Potty Training- An Easy to Follow System To Teach Your Child How To Pee AND Poop in The Toilet Within 7 Days“. It’s about a day-by-day guide written by an occupational therapist who has literally seen it all, your little one will not only use the potty, but they will look forward to using it! I will be publishing my book in 4 days and would love to get your feedback in the reviews section. Would you like me to send you the book? I can show you the book cover if you would like to see it. Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing back from you :)

[@porshiaaaa]

How old is she?

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

She’s 3

[@martesdemotores5410]

Leave your son in pease

[@kaseypate6142]

Did you re

[@AJ-ff2os]

I bribed mine with sweets just to get her to sit on the potty. It worked.

[@lukesmith5810]

Cute little girl

[@keethaloganathan7809]

1 eighsv

[@phoebeandrews1193]

Be more firm

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

🙄🙄🙄 thanks for your expert advice.

[@missgregory5491]

isn't she too big for a potty

[@LifeOnTheSpectrumYT]

Aren’t you too old to be judgemental of a child?

[@noahharris2260]

When they go they gotta go