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[@Oo7Hola]

I love this guy. It’s almost like listening to my grandma telling me bed time stories when I was a kid.

[@manisfriedman]

High praise!

[@Oo7Hola]

@@manisfriedman likewise

[@megsley]

I'm not Jewish (nor anything else) but I really enjoy listening to your videos! Hearing your perspective (or, Judaism's perspective rather) on marriage and men/women has given me a lot to think about and even apply towards my own marriage. Thanks again!

[@angusseletto1511]

Rabbai Manis is so in tune with modern life and offers a comfort to all.Just a lovely man with a big heart and very honest.Brilliant "what are you watching people without pants" Best commitment ive heard in such a long time.Sums up his brilliant logic

[@afazi55]

Shalom Rabbi!!! from a christian for 40 years...😊

[@Diana-bb5wc]

❤

[@Rahul-hx7pv]

wow 😢 what kind of leader are you. You are literally blowing the world with your words of wisdom

[@doctork16]

Absolutely pitch perfect fatherhood lesson.

[@eelmohamed]

That is a real wise man.

[@Druzhban1]

Another great video Rabbi! Just recently I was describing to my child the importance of character. Forwarding this video to my wife ☺

[@andreasgigmai7707]

Thank you Rabbi Friedman for your teachings! We have tried out your Wisdom. The pleasure of doing Charity and Learning Torah is greater than other pleasures

[@CRS-sc3oj]

God bless you rabbi, I’m a Christian woman and I can’t get enough of your content. So much wisdom and love. I appreciate what you’re doing so much!

[@jessedylan6162]

wondering why you're christian@CRS-sc3oj

[@akai.christo]

Thank you Rabbi Friedman!! ✡️🙏❤🔥 Wish you and everybody here a positive and proactive day !! 💪🙂👍️🎶

[@Warren-vl3zd]

You inspire me in a new and different way. In each video you put up. Truly some things are ridiculous, I am laughing at my own mistakes. The messages you send resensitises me to the possibility of a meaningful life. Opens doors inside I thought were not open. I hope to be wise and lead a good long life. Find something I am to give for. At a crossroads... trying to make a life away from home.

[@rachelLadyD]

amazing good advice, with humour, and gentle kindness thanks Rabbi

[@traceyedwards2423]

I am so happy to have found you on You Tube. X

[@bwithgod6374]

Rabbi God bless you you’ve been a wealth of good information and goodness. Thank you so much for everything you do. .

[@manisfriedman]

Thank you. This has become a recurring issue. We try to remove the impersonator as quickly as possible, but if folks can call them out when you see them would be great! Let's stop them together :)

[@bwithgod6374]

@@manisfriedman yes I knew it was an impersonator as soon as I saw the reply thank you for responding.

[@kathmiller7640]

Makes a lot of sense. I like him. Answers are coming and so is the truth. Thank You.

[@irisbloo5462]

Thank You Rabbi Friedman! Your teaching is refreshing and so enjoyably helpful! Thanking God I found you 🙏✌️

[@observeroflife2024]

There is a shock factor to that method. Not for the parent, but for the child. Our conscience KNOWS when we do wrong. We either ignore it, or are too stimulated emotionally to recognize it. So when the parent walks up behind the child, and says, "What are you watching? Oh people without pants?" And walks away that sends a shock wave to the childs conscience. Because not only were they called out on the specific thing they were doing wrong... The parent did not stand by and continue to watch them do wrong, or participate in doing wrong with them. Actions speak louder than words. They can leave a lasting impression. 👍 The point is to teach them to be able to work things like this out on their own. Not to punish them, without explaining the expectations and believe that will be enough. The greatest leaders I have ever known have led by example... Not by command. Edit: And also, when the parent walks away that leaves a question mark in their head. Why did he or she walk away? Are they angry at me? Hurt by me? Sad because of me? Questions that lead to the motivation to get answers. To seek out the answers. Which means they are RECEPTIVE to answers, because they WANT to know what's wrong here. It's how we are built. To seek out answers for ourselves.

[@mdj1199]

What a Revelation

[@apb4646]

Thank you for letting us tap into your wisdom

[@JohnSmith-fr8rj]

Truly G-d send Rebbe, Baruch Hashem

[@leonardjeanette]

Jeremiah 17:9 “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it”?

[@SuperFishL]

God bless you

[@carlsmith6999]

Hello there👋,how are you feeling?Hope you have a blessed day.God bless you!!❤

[@aubreyvandyne5284]

Very interesting Rabbi. Thanks for the enlightenment on this subject matter.

[@lovelearnandgrow2853]

Outstanding Advice! Thank you.. you got me thinking! 🙂

[@pamelabarbato1623]

Rabbi your wonderful❤

[@paulapalme_]

I love Rabbi Manis Friedman like a father! I would give my life for him! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yvonnesegers3214]

Much appreciated Rabbi, thank you so very much!

[@Rafael_-ey7dy]

Thank you Rabbi for guiding us in this, didn’t react well when it happened… 😅

[@zugul]

Thank you Rabbi.

[@user-re1nq6lt3n]

What a great video. So life giving!

[@CherryBlossom-gd9ie]

Wise and intelligent as usual.

[@Paul_Om]

Excellent suggestion regarding the handling of the pornography situation and similar situations. Long ago, I too discovered that this approach gets very good results especially when introducing the other to things that will command their attention more ... thereby facilitating dropping/leaving-behind pornography and similar distractions. 👌

[@rheedixon192]

I suppose I would handle my son watching porn a bit differently. I would say (in my best southern drawl), “ Son!, that stuff is probably not so good to watch, but I understand your curiosity. Just remember, the women are someone’s daughter or sister. And the men are someone’s son or brother. So, don’t get into watching it.”

[@conorgraafpietermaritzburg3720]

So SPOT ON,I don't know how I never figured it out before 😅

[@lauramumma2360]

Thank you for your wisdom

[@daraabdullah293]

Be honorable 🙏

[@Bm-ft1ix]

Love you for this teaching.

[@jeffreyrwilliams9345]

Thank you

[@mosheellel9326]

I'm happy to ear what you said so please 🙏 just wait........!

[@isabelvejesus]

Thanks!

[@maryw4609]

Brilliant talk very creative for modern issues thank you 🧠😌

[@yonahlessard9582]

I'll just say ישר כח

[@optout5350]

I am a woefully inadequate christian with a medical and mental problem could someone reading this pray for me

[@vld532]

We must find out - if it is possible or not - whether there is a different dimension, a different approach, to life altogether. And that is why it is important to understand the nature of our thinking. Our thinking is based on remembrance of things past - which is thinking about what happened a week ago, thinking about it modified in the present, and projected into the future. This is actually the movement of our life. So knowledge has become all-important for us but knowledge is never complete. Therefore knowledge always lives within the shadow of ignorance. That is a fact. It is not the speaker's invention or conclusion, but it is so.

[@demetriafravel6556]

Wow! I wish I had told me this

[@user-wf7sl7sw8k]

TLDR The raising kids is about helping them to find pleasure. First in touch, than in taste of national cousine, than music and songs, than good story/character (noble/smart/brave/kind), than in intelligence (knowing answers, solving pazzles/riddles), than in serving/good deeds/godlyness. It is not really that much about policing them. 0) You can only help a person change, if deep down you believe that he or she (when he is calm) is good, rational person. 1) If you scare people for sinning, get intimidated by it, freak out sin becomes even more addictive and exciting. First calm yourself down, breath, pray, drink water, then act mindfully. 2) The good way to free yourself and your kids from sin is to make sin/mistake rediculus and strange. 3) If your son or doughter comes and says I have boyfriend/girlfriend. Say "Really? She is nice guy/girl? Tell me about him/her. What do you like about him/her. I want to know your taste in women". You need to be good friend to be trusted and invoke change. 4) If you find your kid wathcing porn. First calm yourself down (breath, drink glass of water, pray). Calmly walk in and ask "What are you watching? People without pants?" Sound like it is strange. Than after 3 days talk to them about it. "How many people without pants do you need to see? Enaugh got it sorry. Ok I understand you want to see people without pants. Well first of all who stands behind camera without pants? Those are really people you wanna look at? Plus do you know that porn makes your impotent? Because you get used to be reciever, not giver, and it's hard to function. Do you want to be one Should we get rid of our computer?

[@storkbreath]

Careing reason

[@bigtex4058]

Anybody who is shocked by a 15 yr old boy watching porn must have amnesia about being 15 yrs old.

[@thegrimharvest]

Very true. Good take. It can be difficult sometimes to remember that we were there once ourselves. It's the dissonance ? Hypocrisy? from forgetting or ignoring that fact that leads us to make bad judgments, and kids are smart enough to suspect that, and hold it against us or ignore us when we're getting on to them as if we've never been in a similar position before.

[@tonygalvin6471]

I'm a gay catholic, and I've just started hearing you. Very inspirational Rabbi👍😃. I will continue being gay, can't change what I am🤷. But I like your words😃, you make sence.

[@kenzo4Ever]

We can change anything, absolutely anything . If someone can't then he is not free, he is commanded😀

[@luciferlucero]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jessedylan6162]

luciferinthefleshizluciferlucero@luciferlucero

[@MS-jh5bx]

THE WORD OF GOD = TORAH THE BRIDE. SHKOYAKH REBBE. ZEI GEZINT FOR DIR UND ZEINI MUSHPUKHI.

[@mosheellel9326]

Let Say i was sleeping and i wake up now i have a new 😊 life soon you'll read what i have to write ✍️ or speak 🙊🤫

[@samihassan5158]

1:29

[@revacohen]

HIs comment on pornography astounded me! I guess if people get stimulated too much, they get bored.

[@jmmanuelseale823]

to sin means to miss the target

[@bronislabulkin3026]

We be one of blood though and I

[@charlafactor3673]

It's hard to hear what is being said.

[@carolynreeves475]

Can this raising a child apply to the action of a woman towards a man.

[@johnvanmanen3149]

Soon we will know perfectly how to raise children, to make them understand how the signals of the Creator work, so that we will raise a full generation of annointed people that get their knowledge of good and evil directly from the Allknowing and have no need to interpret any books anymore, then they will be able to make their choices based on the knowledge of the future instead of the past. If you know the future life becomes very easy, so why not listen to the ONE that knows the future outcome of all choices?

[@marktravelinPI]

Yes, pornography desensitizes the mind to visual sexual stimulation. The same reason you get bored from repetitive tassk. It also raises the expectation of sexual atcs to and unrealistic level. Most porn addicts over time watch increasing vulgar, or voilent porn.

[@eugeniofrantz3944]

How can i start reading the Torah and understand it by myself?

[@michaelsmullen9891]

There are a couple of good Hebrew/English books that have a good translation and decent commentary. One is The 'Living Torah' by Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan and another is the Art Scroll Publication 'Stone Edition Chumash', where Chumash means the Five Books of Moses ie. The Torah. Either of these books are a great place to start.

[@claudiayohanna2797]

💙💙💙💙💙💙✡️

[@ofmeijers]

How to "raise" babies.....👌😇

[@avivacohen8785]

Why is it more painful for your daughter to say she has a boyfriend?😮

[@kurthill7030]

All you have to remember is it's only what the almighty God says not to do is to do that's what got Adam into trouble in the garden he listened to Eve and Eve listened to the serpent it's as simple as that it's not complicated just read it yourself 👍👍

[@MichaelServantOfChrist]

Proverbs 13:24 "He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly."

[@augustreigns9716]

i have come to the thought.... ..........that not even what we call god understands this thing we call creation for one simple reason.

[@augustreigns9716]

if god were to understand, .........then what else would there be to ponder.

[@augustreigns9716]

..........a boring existence for all of eternity to be sure...(...but then again...how can i know what god feels...)

[@augustreigns9716]

perhaps boredom is the ultimate pleasure.

[@SmudgerBKB]

Because the chidlren are the seed’ed B’read of life, Babies are a ray of Light. 💚 They’re cultured and shouldn’t be interbreed with other cultures, pretty much like the Jewish community do. Our children have been fed shite because we have been subjected and subjugated to bad matter. This is a game of duality and the duel is on.

[@Pharoset]

"High Five." Trying to sound hip and contemporary.

[@monaiannucci9434]

Shockras

[@augustreigns9716]

who can we have conversations with.... ...............are you able to have one with me, (...even though we do not perceive in the same respect...) . if not, then your words, ...........and my words, are meaningless.

[@kenzo4Ever]

What if you find him doing a muslim prayer, and hear him reading Qoran at night !? 😀

[@festerbutt]

That time isn't a time for jokes, if you joke, the act of pornography would be normalized to the son.

[@bananaegger]

addiction to porn is a sign god is not in you. With porn you reject god and god rejects you

[@michellesmith5436]

A colt untamed turns out stubborn, a son left to himself grows up unruly. Pamper your child and he will be a terror for you, indulge him and he will bring you grief. Share not in his frivolity lest you share in his sorrow, when finally your teeth are clenched in remorse. Give him not his own way in his youth, and close not your eyes to his follies. Sirach 30:8-11 Rolling your eyes and walking away makes your kid say, "Apparently anything goes under this roof. Cool."

[@jriv75]

People watch pornography? SHOCKING!! What kid isn't gonna be curious? It used to be the Macy's catalogue. Put yourself in these kids shoes. All the hormones and curiosity. Not to mention the demonization of sex by the phony persona the world wears - as they pretend to be holier than the rest. And watching porn absolutely does not make you impotent. That is an outlandish statement. Love your videos, but c'mon. I get that everyone wants to believe their kids don't curse when they're with their friends, or do naughty things when parents aren't around. Try a parental lock if your kid is going overboard, and maybe explain that dopamine levels are greatly effected by the intense stimulation.

[@rachelLadyD]

its proven fact about impotency, do some research, pornography makes men impotent

[@svietka202]

I don't know if you are parents but I can tell you in most religious family's children that are raised with certain ethics and morality do not do things behind their parents back. it is actually one of the things that will teach. you don't eat non-kosher food when you go out if this is how you are raised. you don't swear and you don't bully in this is how you are raised. you act outside of the home exactly as you act inside. you act the way you are raised when nobody's watching the same way as you are raised. that's the whole premise of education. it is also the whole premise of trust in your child

[@uruk2023]

Vile .

[@Y2KMillenniumBug]

Really 5000? Don't gi crazy.. 😂 i also dunno so most probably 4-5 generation. People over exaggerating and assume lits if things.haha

[@michaeljackson8857]

It depends on what type of porn they are watching. Some just feeds there poor view that there weird mum and dad fed into this via being abusive themselves. Bog standard porn yes but fetish porn is where i will not encourage

[@michaelsmullen9891]

@michaeljackson8857 One of the main problems with porn is that, what excites or stimulates you today will not stimulate you tomorrow. You will end up going down an ever deepening spiral until you're watching violent, sadistic or just plain sick forms of porn. It will not end well as man has a small organ, that if you feed it, it will never be satisfied. But if you starve it, it will stop bothering you. I am obviously not writing about someone that is in a relationship.

[@treefrogs2894]

I will tell you a funny story when I was like 12 years old. I told my parents I want to be in porn because I heard from other people it's really cool so my father found out so he said you want to be in porn My father said okay. Let me give you a couple of pointer he took out his belt and he beat the crap out of me he said this is porn I was screaming and crying I told him I do not want to be in porn I don't want to have nothing to do with it couple of weeks after I saw my friend they said they're going to watch porn I tell him no. Thank you. That's painful I told them are you guys? Sure that's really painful so at my teenager yrs wasn't a good porn experience but nevertheless I found out about it. I know what it is and when I told a couple of friend my story at make them laugh like crazy right now thinking about it. It's really funny my first porn experience never tell your parents if you do not know about something such as porn can you come from a very strict parent is not going to end well. I could tell you from experience. Nevertheless, I told my kids the story they laugh about it

[@RonwaldoFerrer-ux9bi]

Sin is the transgression from the commandments of God. Commandment of God for us. We don't haved to obey from the commandments of God to Adam. To Noah. And the Law of Moses. There is no forbidden fruit to avoid. There is no more big flood to come as that flood from the time of Noah. Law of Moses is only for the Israelites upto the time that the Law must replaced by God. Because the Law of Moses cannot make the world to be Holy. The time has come that the Jews are cheating the Law. They make the evil thing to be Holy from the sight of the people. But so very evil things from the sight of God. There are parents in Israel that they were putting their children into fire to be their main offerings to their God. Because God did not order them to do that disgusting thing. The preachers of Israel are hiding the teachings of God. Look at that old man He is speaking according to his opinion or perspective while it was so clear from the scriptures that the sin is the transgression from the commandments of God Why you haved to tell your own teachings that were not written from the scriptures. Speaking the things which are not written are lies. God order them to write it down for us to know everything about God. That old Jewish man is not reading the scriptures written because he already knew that the books of the prophets including the Psalms of David and specially the book of Proverbs are all speaking about the Power and Wisdom of God which is the Mystery of God. He don't want to read the book of Proverbs which is the speaker there is the Wisdom of God. That old Jewish man thought that he is more intelligent than the Wisdom of God. And he didn't know that the. The Wisdom of God is enough to be His Power to creat all the things in this world. His Wisdom can teach as His Proverbs with figuratively speaking on His way of teachings to form Methaporistic things. To be understood only by the people who truly loves the Word of God because the Word of God who makes us to be Holy or to haved the true image of God and to haved the righteousness of God to be looked alike. That's why all we need is the Word of God and not the words of men. Man's words are just opinions and perspectives only. Unlike God's Word that tells the truth and nothing but the truth

[@ESU77]

You talked about sex or intercourse. You talked about children or procreation. Sounds to me like you are saying these two things are sin. Like the Hebrew letter sin.

[@jessedylan6162]

shin not sin@ESU77

[@ESU77]

@@jessedylan6162 Wrong. SIN. Not Shin. Look it up. You shouldn't speak on things you know Absolutely Nothing Whatsoever about. It makes you look unwise. So before you go telling me I'm wrong. You should do your own research.

[@jessedylan6162]

i don't need your inane lecture, fool! I say SHIN, now beat it!@@ESU77

[@jessedylan6162]

You know 0 about Tanakh, so as my friend, Saint Fu, told me to tell you to St.FU! @@ESU77

[@jessedylan6162]

@@ESU77 you can't read. I never disagreed with you homie, I just used a different word with same meaning.

[@ariel6999]

I find it very alarming that a respectable rabbi needs to use click bait visual tactics to attract more views for his channel.. it makes me lose all respect and admiration I'm sorry to say , its not something I would expect from an honourable rabbi.. this is something I expect from Mr Beast.

[@marinamazzanti9356]

I think you're giving too much importance to pornography I reisesed 3 sons and never had the problem you are talking about everyone arriving at a certain age is esperimenting sex in a way so better being natural about and don't give it too much importance talking about it if the thing remaining in a normal status obviously

[@hannahsarah60]

He made up his own religion

[@mikedunningham9614]

Just who do you think you are? You’re playing a part and the gloss has faded. Try being a pleasant NORMAL guy. Cheers Mike

[@maryw4609]

Thank you