How to Finally End Money Fights with Your Spouse (with Jefferson Fisher)

[@polgara28]

Giving them a user manual, versus a remote control to push your buttons and control you is pure gold. This is the stuff I need to better learn to deal with certain people in my life. Thank you SO much!

[@bonniejohnson3391]

Rachel thanks for featuring Jefferson!!! 🤩 Incredible and a true communication expert. 👏 This is GOLD.

[@7beers]

That's gold, Jerry! Gold!

[@shannon1999able]

He is full of wisdom, strategy and skills!

[@sarathereseart2298]

Excellent tips: Know what's going on inside you, "I can tell...", slow down your words, don't force conversations (schedule them), assert boundaries (using "I" language), pause and put yourself in the other person's place. Thank you! 💛

[@suryapratha]

Excellent analogy of User Manual versus Remote (to push buttons) Great visual that is now etched in my memory

[@davidaboyoun8681]

Brilliant! He is the smartest, coolest guy! Great video!!!

[@suryapratha]

They did not talk about Money but it is worth a lot of Money

[@wendyandfriends]

Absolute GOLD! Thank you for helping all of us!

[@grafxgrl8030]

I don’t know that either of you will see this message but I’m putting it here anyway. As a 67-year-old who grew up in a home where there was alcoholism and arguing and physical violence, a lot of that gets internalized and children as you probably both know. When you don’t have the support to develop effective conversational skills and problem-solving skills, you carry that trauma into your adult years until you do develop some skills. And those hair trigger responses are deeply ingrained self protective mechanisms. The surface may seem selfish response but there’s a physical emotional pain that goes with childhood trauma and it is difficult to overcome, a slow and painful process, and when the world hurt that much as a child it becomesa secondary expectation that it’s going to as an adult so to be in constant self protective mode comes naturally. It’s not selfish, it is self protection.

[@je11omo]

This is incredible. Thank you for sharing!

[@lisas7595]

Two of my favorites on together!!

[@vitzaniadominguez6961]

Great insight and tips that can be used during all subjects of conversation! Thank you both.

[@Spunky_Lass]

Argument expert, lol! 🤣

[@trebmaster]

I get a sense that every waking moment that Rachel is off camera, she's playing board and card games.

[@marysaltlife1427]

😂

[@donnahampton3632]

The commercials make it seem that way!

[@Ivy285]

He is very handsome.

[@arminsohrab5155]

If someone took 8 seconds to answer my question I would walk away

[@Mr_New_Vegas_685]

Sick of hearing about Taple

[@gwM-rw4uz]

Ditto

[@callmecordelia7181]

The adds keep the information free to us, so I don’t mind.

[@myflowerfieldgarden]

what a cutie and great information!

[@HealthDrivenLife]

Great coversation!

[@vhol93]

Great video

[@rajdeeprandhawa1133]

Great video 😊

[@nelliebabayan1776]

I wish Jefferson had more speaking time than Rachel

[@evalina98000]

Rachel sweetie, time fo a new game 🃏

[@john-o1g9p]

how to end money fights? don't get married. as dave says all the time,'' if you don't want to get bit, don't step over the snake.''

[@minas2207]

There is nothing pertaining to the title !

[@Seromontis]

I would rather hear about raid shadow legends instead of tapple. Please stop!

[@callmecordelia7181]

Thanks for sharing this conversation with all of us!