Abhishek Bachchan’s Take On Living With Parents | Raj Shamani Clips

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[@vasanthalakshmichunduri5185]

Ki unka bete hai na

[@ayurjnana428]

It was heartening to hear Abhishek’s thoughts on living with his parents. I completely agree that we should care for our aging parents who cared for us when we were young. However, caring for them doesn’t necessarily mean living in their home; it means having them live with you in their old age. When parents are elderly but still active and healthy, a married man should establish his own household with his wife and children. This allows him to truly step into his role as a responsible husband and father. A man only truly learns the responsibilities of life when he buys his own home, lives there with his family, and welcomes his parents into that space to care for them. This is the essence of a joint family-where the son takes care of his parents. If a man continues living in his parents’ house, he may never fully take on responsibilities like paying bills and managing a household. His wife may also lack the freedom to mature in her own role because the parents, naturally, will continue to dominate as it is their house. Therefore, Abhishek, it’s important to buy your own home, live with Aishwarya and your daughter as a happy family, and bring your parents into that space. This way, you can be a responsible son, husband, and father.

[@sanskritscholar8762]

Totally agree! You say they are active for their age. You could visit them during weekends with family and invite them to your house ,till they are old enough to move with you

[@atmalingha5477]

Finally, someone thinks like me.

[@sohaibahmadkhan6108]

Abhishek is a true gentleman 👑 His feelings about his parents are commendable

[@Mobile-jn3el]

What a wonderful well brought up chap. Very sorted, mature and balanced. Parents are lucky to have a son like Abhishek.

[@mayuradeshpande8832]

I am a fan of Abhishek he is a great guy very down to earth. No celebrity airs he comes across as a kind loving person.

[@kiranvarde1587]

What a great speaker Abhishek Bachchan is

[@laibanush5431]

What about a daughter's parents? Why will they live alone? Why can't they live with their daughter's family like your parents live with their son's family?

[@Lifeskills-ajourneywithin]

Get a ghar Jamai then !!

[@laibanush5431]

@@Lifeskills-ajourneywithin Why 'ghar jamai'? Why can't the girl's parents live with the couple if the boy's parents are living with them?

[@twilight9237]

Totally ! It has to be an equal equation.

[@ksw4942]

Agreed! Indians speak so much about family values but it’s very one-sided. I think it’s slowly changing, but still very paternalistic “values.”

[@Ashnesss]

@@Lifeskills-ajourneywithinHow cheap. People who talk like that usually have unrealistic expectations from their wives

[@manjushriagadi7940]

Most underrated actor , very well educated & grounded person and so unlike many nepotistic kids of industry

[@sujataghanekar8023]

Abhishek is truly a good son , brother,husband and dad. And a good actor as well

[@user-mona_chander]

Abhishek Bachchan your such a wonderful son. I have the same beliefs I also live with my parents. It’s such true pleasure taking care of them. My mom is my best friend

[@Hsjswk]

Abhishek = Intelligence That’s how amazingly he was raised along with his equally smart sister.❤

[@The_rooted_vagabond]

Sister is so intelligent...no connect with in laws...her in laws are not growing old..bhai ne sikhaya nahin

[@magicalqueen779]

⁠His sister probably dont listen to anyone including Abhisekh. She looks very arrogant and dominating

[@sjo9770]

One of the most well-read & intellectual person from Hindi Film Industry. Only a few people from Bollywood are this eloquent, articulate and have substantial content while speaking.

[@anitagangadharan8675]

❤

[@OppsieDaisies-p1y]

Society, culture, parents, and all the big words, however the bottom line is we are still a deeply patriarchal society. The whole interview talks about Bachchan family and how they should live together like one family absolutely sidelining Aishwarya’s mother. And to all the hypocrites suggesting that she would be staying with her son is the very evidence of what is wrong with our society. So bottom line is, as reinforced in the interview as well, if you don’t have a son, you don’t deserve a joint family, in-fact no family at all and are the mercy of your son-in-law to ‘allow’ the girls parents to stay with them. This interview shows what happens in the top ‘educated’ ‘intellectual’ 1% echelons, no prizes for guessing what happens in the remaining 99%!

[@thesingam0759]

Exactly. They want to be seen all cool and modern, but deep down, their belief in patriarchal traditions and thinking don’t seem to end. Abhishek goes on and on about his fathers and grandfathers legacy, but not a single word on his mother, wife who are also great and accomplished. What kind of example is that setting for his daughter? That only male family members are to be looked up to and revered? Jeez.

[@amanjotsingh6351]

Bachchans are a regressive family. They never talk of legacy of Jaya and Ash who are also legends. They just talk of men

[@vancouver_diaries4090]

I agree. Why are boys parents always treated like gods? Girls parents also make sacrifices and no one talks about their sacrifices and them taking care of you whole life. His parents have made sacrifices for their son not their daughter in law. So it's daughter Should also take care of her parents.

[@peacefulliving2906]

The interview does not make any sense. Abhishek does not accept his failure as an actor, as an artist. And what of his father's legacy is he continuing?? He doesnt have the one percent aura and charm big b has. And of course,he cant afford to live out of his father's house

[@TheGautamj]

Always thought Abhishek Bachchan is a good and well brought up person. Even when Amitabh Bachchan was going through a financial crisis he gave up his studies in the US and came back to India to be by his father’s side.

[@ruchis2687]

Strange that only men have the privilege of enjoying the company of their parents.

[@vancouver_diaries4090]

True. This needs to change. Either both should look after their parents.. Else no one should be living with their parents.

[@tapsimavinkeredayanand8454]

What a good son he is. And his wife might not like being under the same roof as her In-laws, but the fact that she doesn’t complain also makes her a good person rooted in her culture. Just a good, wholesome coupleall around

[@Priyanka_Singh02]

Its not right to say that his wife doesn't want to be with her In- laws not all person are same. May some son don't want to live with his parent then does some will point out?

[@syedabdulaleem5299]

When parents alive Parents comes first

[@Ashnesss]

It’s not “good” to live with someone who you don’t want to live with. Stop pretending that being good is only a woman’s job. Aishwarya hates it and we all know it. You don’t know if she complains or not. You don’t live with them. She certainly doesn’t leave her daughter with her in laws. That says a lot. Before getting married, never appreciate an adult man wanting to live with his parents. It’s not cute. It’s abnormal. Find the one who behaves like an adult emotionally, socially, financially and intellectually, knowing that his parents are individuals and that they could live another 30 years. He can’t have the privacy of his wife and children compromised just to live with them. If he loves them so much, he can live separately and visit them every single day.

[@Ashnesss]

@@syedabdulaleem5299Then don’t get married. Prioritise your parents.

[@happyfeet-]

AB's candid interviews are the best... he is so much grounded... no air.. amazing personality...brilliant actor... I wish him more & more success & happiness... Stay the way you are forever... :)

[@SM-zc3zh]

He’s a genuine guy. He speaks from his heart

[@princeofheaven19]

Abishek lives in a big bungalow with servants etc , lot different from others

[@fatimapereira268]

I love you Abhishek you are so respectful to your parents. God bless you. Raj we need more interviews from this kind of people

[@rubchaudhary9359]

I don't know why he is constantly trolled..I love him as an actor n in recent years he has done selective but great work..not to forget though his best character..JAY DIXIT from Dhoom..nobody could pull dat off better Dan him..can't even imagine..d sass, d attitude ..

[@ashimavivek]

One meal together is fine, problem happens when the balance is thrown off. Parents interfere in children's life. Most people move out not because they don't want to spend time, they do because they don't like interference. Most Indian parents lack the understanding of let go.

[@Deveshree_Gangurde]

True👍

[@laibanush5431]

Exactly

[@amanjotsingh6351]

Well said. They did what they did. It was their own choice and not some favour or sacrifice. They should let kids develop own independent identity and do not respect their boundaries or privacy. They can get too interfering and controlling and do more harm than good

[@NM-pz1zo]

And children? They don't need to let go? Parents should learn after 40-50 years of their life. And what you call is interference i call experience. If you respect them you won't feel it as interference. Wait, till you get older!

[@laibanush5431]

@@NM-pz1zo The reality is many desi parents interfere in their son's marital life as they can't digest the presence of an "outsider" (according to them) into their son's life all of a sudden. They don't always say it but they have this possessiveness about their son. And because of this interference so many people's daily marital lives are turning into h e ll or ending in divorces. God has given you the responsibility to raise your children and the right to be respected by them. But He has not given you the right to interfere in their marital life which is the sole matter of the husband and wife.. nobody else in the world. You need to understand that parents have their rights, but adult sons and daughters have their own share of boundaries too.

[@pallavipanda3970]

He is such a gentleman. He explained about living with his parents with the perspective of a son. I just wonder if their daughter-in-law is in the same page like son. It’s little complex.

[@MamtaSingh-wp3zc]

I just love him ... he so good... even I like his acting also ... I don't know y people don't like his acting... he is just very good ❤❤ I don't know y he is so underrated

[@pujapatil9095]

Because most of people’s choise is not classy like us…😂

[@MamtaSingh-wp3zc]

@@pujapatil9095 agree 👍

[@mateshsk]

I have loved hearing Abhishek Bachchan's conversation to all the media channels

[@sandhyas6422]

They have a huge house, cleaners, drivers, cooks etc etc. So its much easier than living on top of each other & arguing over space, housework & money!!

[@nc541]

Bravo....True Gentleman....Well brought up child so very grounded, humble and practical

[@aminanoor6337]

Love Abishek's traditional values, highly prized when society is falling apart

[@roshanreddy6]

Am fan of Abhishek bacchan since his first movie not because of AB s son ,but his eyes were very honest since beginning that made me appreciate him

[@Shreyaxdvvv]

Abhishek Bachhan is the real man...He doesnt focus on being aggressive or dominant in discussion..He becomes or just prefers to be aware of situation..Thats what bring true humanity in his side..

[@syedabdulaleem5299]

Well said about parents High morel and respect Good decision 👏

[@rekhachowdhary536]

Your explanation of surname legacy expressed beautifully

[@Cricketworld668]

He is really a very gracious and sensible person but unfortunately in our nation we just run behind popularity rather than the real element of a personality. He has that.

[@vinivini5747]

He exemplifies symbol of purity and genuineness

[@anupamat.c5181]

Aishwarya is staying with her mom too .... each with their parents and supporting each other .... 😊 Perfect understanding 👌 👏

[@thesingam0759]

And Aishwarya’s parents…?

[@ModernTamizhi]

correct question

[@natashahegde4084]

This conversation is missing a very vital point. Abhishek bachan lived in a spacious bungalow, and between him and his family they own several properties close to each other. This means all the members get to have their personal space. Most mumbaikars don't have this luxury. There is lack of personal space for the younger generation hence they move out and rent, so they can have some modicum of privacy. With due respect, he actually says some days they don't even see each other. This won't happen in an average Indian home.... I do wish people don't preach the moral high ground without understanding the realities.

[@tanvidubey138]

He is one of the best Man and Actor In the Bollywood...Others are Drugiee and Alchoholic ....He is a Simple guy with Best Dressing sense...BACHCHAN FAMILY is the best and the most respected Family of the Bollywood❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rekhachowdhary536]

Abhishek always fond of you, loved ghoomar, super inspirational job done🙌

[@drritumathur2953]

V nicely said Abhishek 👏...it's true wen v reach home v see parents thr playing with grandchildren n seeing TV...I can relate this feeling.....he alwaz talks balancely...husband and son ..

[@racheluttangi1]

Really nice humble guy with good values.

[@yolandadesa250]

Abhishek i m sure your father is really proud of you. Wish all sons were like you to give back unconditional love n companionship to their parents as years go on. Surely your movie will be a great success. And i hope the youngsters learn these lessons from you to treasure their parents. God bless n great success

[@shivamahirao5377]

This clip made my day❤. Proud to live with my parents.

[@RR-oo2wf]

Aisa Beta Sabko Mile

[@positivevibes5610]

Ash is lucky to have him & vice versa god bless them🥰🙏

[@monicadcosta7748]

Very nice thinking God bless Abhishek Bachan

[@nailakhan7925]

Well said Abhishek bachan..heart touching!

[@anuradhamurari4624]

Loved this candid genuine conversation. Awesome topic.

[@ikkkudishalini121]

Awesome Session ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@neetasharma947]

Such a beautiful, good valued ,kind ,loving, respectful, sophisticated personality ❤has a class ,grace which no other has

[@shashisingh2100]

अभिषेक बच्चन बहुत ही समझदार बेटा है ईश्वर ऐसा बेटा सबको दे

[@kalakovan1916]

I love abishek and he is an excellent actor. Yes underrated. Good human being.

[@bhaswati8808]

Well behaved and a person with balanced thought. Aish and abhi are raising aradhya in a nice way as well.

[@krishnagondhea7428]

It’s true about leading by example. You can’t just talk the talk. For e.g., if I said to my daughter you got to work hard and I don’t actually do it, then she won’t follow it. Cause she’s not seeing me work hard. Why should she listen to what I say?

[@nitamaisuria7343]

This is why I love you. As a Human being. Your views..🥰

[@wanderingpixie5228]

A sense of genuineness is in his speaking

[@arttrade3609]

smart watch on one wrist and a good time piece on other justifies how balanced life he lives 💯

[@shivanshc]

What about Aishwarya’s parents?

[@Ashish-tz4vn]

They have their son with them

[@snehat6336]

​@@Ashish-tz4vnthat doesn't mean she is exempted from living with her parents

[@Ashish-tz4vn]

@@snehat6336 absolutely!

[@dripsitabarat300]

That's one person other than me saying this. What about women who do not have a brother. This remains behind in India; everyone still wants a boy child.

[@Ashish-tz4vn]

Yahan rona gaana mat karo sab apna apna dekh lo!

[@beautiful_jolly_life]

Genuine Indian culture

[@payalpawar5590]

Living with parents is a noble thing. So please live with the girl's parents too. Stop patriarchy

[@Anika-qp5kc]

Every orher celebrities goes to beerbiceps, but AB man with golden heart gives opportunity to all

[@gitaapatel]

Also He is so successful because He respects His parents. ❤

[@happymonk07]

Abhishek accent is quite a thing to notice. 🤣

[@zammarmalik7929]

Love u Abishek❤❤.

[@sammyann70]

Well said Abhishek parents are invaluable be with them in their old age.

[@vipindhindsa4626]

Gentleman Abhishek Bachan

[@specialsasha6506]

An intelligent man ❤

[@geetamarwaha73]

Abhishek is very composed

[@beansss760]

Want to hear the daughter in laws perspective as well

[@Blogs119]

He is a gem👍👍👍Because, in today's society, only some kids think about their parents

[@mateshsk]

High Respects & High Regards for Abhishek Bachchan..

[@shikhar5341]

He is a good actor with great movies i dont why people troll him

[@deeptirana9976]

Very good person, that is why his daughter is well behaved, wife is not like other actresses. All of them are so elegant and sophisticated.

[@anitakulkarni1517]

Oh God this is a white lie.... Abhishek Aishwarya and Aaradhya don't stay in Juhu...they stay at Worli.

[@dripsitabarat300]

What about Aishwariya's parents, I bet she has the same sentiments. No one addresses woman leaving their parents

[@krishnagondhea7428]

It’s not part of Indian culture to think of how the woman feels. Aishwariya has a brother so the culture says it’s his responsibility to worry for her parents

[@amanjotsingh6351]

He has even excluded Aishwarya from achievements and legacy of family and thinks it is all about only dada or pardada. How do you expect him to think of her side of family? It is ironic he is close to Shweta and Navya but ignored Ash and her family

[@dripsitabarat300]

@@amanjotsingh6351 Indeed this is exactly what I was talking about

[@nc541]

Why would they talk about Aishwaryas mother..

[@amanjotsingh6351]

@@nc541 Why not eh? Parents of woman do not matter? But parents of man do?

[@shreyap3223]

Two things - While narrating what his daughter is learning about the work, he mentions what her father ( him) and her grandfather ( Amitabh ) are doing , what about her mother ( Aishwarya ) and her grandmother ( Jaya )? Why undermine their work when both Aishwarya and Jaya are very big achievers much bigger than Abhishek himself ? Iv noticed this many times in Abhishek and even Amitabh’s interviews. They never acknowledge their respective wives work only talk about their contribution as wives. Secondly - ye banda thoda jooth bolta hai. I’m not sure whether he also lives with his parents but Aishwarya and her daughter don’t live with the Bachchan family. They live in a building in Bandra, iv seen it , my realtor pointed out the house and told me. Either Ash lives separately or Abhishek is lying here and he doesn’t live with his parents.

[@gudduentertains]

If you haven't noticed Abhishek and Aishwarya don't get along very well. In one old interview Aishwarya stated my parents and my daughter are my life. No mention of hubby or hubby ke gharwale.

[@nishantsinghparihar3023]

But aishwarya and jaya are nothing in front of Amitabh and Hariwansh ray bachchan. So there is nothing wrong his dautghter learning from them only.

[@shreyap3223]

@@nishantsinghparihar3023 He said Aishwarya teaches their daughter about her father ( Abhishek ) and her grandfather ( Amitabh ). He didn’t mention HIS ( Abhishek’s ) grandfather. There is no mention of Harivansh Rai Bachchan , only Abhishek and Amitabh. Both Aishwarya and Jaya are very very successful women even if Harivansh Rai ji is mentioned . Now that he is not, their stature in comparison to Abhishek especially is huge so why leave them out and only talk about Amitabh and Abhishek. This is just patriarchy and nothing else. I expect better from Abhishek as Amitabh is a known misogynist.

[@shreyap3223]

@@gudduentertains Yes. I think that’s the case. Some media people mentioned they live separately and it’s well known and now this interview mentioning he lives with his parents confirms it as Aishwarya has no equation with her in laws. Why Abhishek feels the need to always fake it and paint a wonderful image of his marriage is beyond me.

[@nisha.j2458]

have seen interview of Shweta Bachchan Nanda, in that interview shweta said if Abhishek comes home then maa wil always be behind him and ask what he wann to eat, i guess Abhishek might be staying in there other banglow with ash and his daughter that's what I think and jaya.b , Amitabh,b and Shweta Bachchan Nanda with her kids they stay together..

[@matildamaher1505]

Good on him

[@hemanthdesai7551]

Love You Abhishek ❤

[@ankushudapure9866]

Tilented Actor AB ❤

[@nehadwivedi3821]

Love you abhishek

[@mateshsk]

He is a wonderful human being 🎉

[@iamrohitharish2367]

Nice one

[@nidhisingh-wq7ot]

Am i the only one offended by what he is saying!! How can it be only about his dad and grandfather and him to carry forward their achievements. He cannot ignore his mom's contribution or for that matter his grandmother's. He wants to talk like his dad but he lost my respect here.

[@shreyap3223]

You’re right and I said the same. In one interview Jaya Bachchan was cribbing about never being given due credit. She said Abhishek is always known as Amitabh Bachchans son, what about me ? Now I feel bad seeing this. Even her own family members do not give her credit for being such a big star why will outsiders do that ? The women in this family are just not valued enough. Abhishek only keeps talking about his father all the time.

[@amanjotsingh6351]

I can understand why Jaya is so grumpy. She left her career for sake of kids. And kids do not even credit her or count her as part of legacy of family. Abhishek forgot his mom was a legendary actor and politician as well.

[@sairiks1882]

He is just answering the questions asked... he was asked about his comparison with his father

[@shreyap3223]

@@amanjotsingh6351 yes and he sneakily inserted himself along with his father and grandfathers names.

[@amanjotsingh6351]

@@shreyap3223 Though he does NOT deserve to be named in their league at all

[@risingsun1530]

Great 👍👍👍

[@sonalikarnik6206]

God bless You Abhishek This is called A sankari Boy.Salute to you👃👃

[@Anuparv]

True ..making most of the memories while we have time is best

[@sandhyas6422]

And no mention of what the women in his life have achieved……mother, grandmother?

[@mandyuwimana7735]

I love him so much ❤❤

[@SwatiTiwari-oi7kx]

I really want to live with my family but i kid u not my father is such such such a toxic person I can't tell

[@stelladaan5683]

I don't why but always feel bad for Randhir Kapoor either of them Kareena or Karishma can stay with him in this old age and take care of him and Neetu Kapoor since she is alone.. their home is big enough can Ranbir and Alia can Stay together

[@kanizkhan5899]

Very good values 🎉

[@milikabiswas5001]

So nice

[@ChildFirst]

2:19 ... 4:12

[@farahyeasmin6230]

Well spoken ❤

[@anitakhatri7383]

AB is very intelligent......

[@nitinbelvi552]

Abhishek is such a gentleman.

[@komalgohil7433]

Why is Raj shamani becoming another Beer biceps who is another Jay Shetty ? Tired of emerging trend with these so called “podcasters” making every other little normal thing sound extravagant.

[@attrikahazarika]

He is brilliant ❤

[@rima7604]

A very intelligent person and a great son❤

[@rudolfgerritdenkers2070]

Respect to you Abhishek that you choos to stay with your parents