Randy TAKES OVER The Dress Appointment! | Say Yes To The Dress

[@NYer9853]

Randy and Nicole were both wrong. If Carmela needed help, she would have asked for it. You just don't take over another consultant's appt. But Carmela should have been more discreet and not said anything in front of the bride.

[@Rosedawn321]

Randy, you screwed the pooch when you placed your ego boost above Carmel’s well being. You could have handed her your suggested without interposing yourself into Carmel’s appointment!

[@ntanemohlala4907]

I would've been so overstimulated as a bride if 3 consultants were working with me at the same time

[@keithgiblin2636]

I'm sure you'd know what you liked and what you didn't.

[@delila1830]

She looked so sad in her last shot. They ruined her whole experience. And it lives forever on KZbin. Most of the comments are about them too.

[@wingusdingus7061]

Honestly, Carmel absolutely shouldn't have had the argument in front of the bride, but at the same time, it's pretty inappropriate in the same breath for Randy to have swooped in when she didn't need help yet and snipe the commission.

[@jennifernordhoff6478]

I’m sure Randy isn’t on commission. And you don’t know to make that uninformed comment

[@LouiseEirwen]

They say at the end that Carmel gets the commission not Randy. I think its more that he swoops in on the appointments that are being recorded, he wants screen time. This could also be instigated by the filming team and director. You have to remember this is a TV show, and many people in the past on these types of shows have stated that drama like this is often staged. A director will come over and tell Randy what type of bride it is and suggest that he swoops in, they will not always clue the other consultant in and then they are taken aback that their appointment was hijacked. I doubt he does this for most appointments, but its TV so it makes good "drama". That and producers/directors have a tendency to splice interviews and footage together in a way to make things more dramatic and intense than what actually happened, so keep that in mind.

[@wingusdingus7061]

@@jennifernordhoff6478 I was going to refer you to this clip here at 7:30 but you are right, I misheard him. The original consultant (Carmel) gets the commission anyway. The way he worded it, I thought the consultant that FOUND the dress got the commission lmao. That's very much my bad. It was still rude of him to intrude on a consultation without being asked though.

[@wingusdingus7061]

@@LouiseEirwen Yeah, I just misunderstood because I forgot that Randy is technically a Fashion Director, and NOT a Consultant. So I don't think he even makes commissions at all.

[@oldageisdumb]

It’s scripted…

[@missmillib]

Randy was actually out of line here and he knows it.

[@dietotaku]

thank god, somebody sane. actually i can't think of a clip involving this consultant that randy HASN'T butted in on so HE could be the one to pull the dress because HE knows just the right dress for whatever she wants... i'm surprised to see randy being so egotistical and sniping this consultant's appointments like this. the last one he did it on he even made a big circus about grabbing a (completely inappropriate) dress from *another bride* and doing it *repeatedly* because he was so determined to prove that the dress he thought of was the one she would buy.

[@donnabradley9926]

I am very disappointed in Randy. He totally took over Carmels appointment. I am sure she would not do to Randy what he did to her. It was very childish and if had of been the bride I would not have been happy. He needs to apologise to Carmel.

[@oldageisdumb]

You know it’s scripted, right?

[@keithgiblin2636]

Oh please - it's about the customer, not the sales girl's commission.

[@janetterobinson7778]

I also think that Randy should have not got involved he's been there long enough to know the rules and if Carmen wanted help she would have asked for it

[@ivonned32]

Glad to see everyone here saw that Randy just butt in

[@mickeyhappyface]

i think Carmel was in the right, and the dress was pretty ugly. At least Carmel kept the commission

[@nonehandle688]

Randy was WRONG! So was Nicole who was just another person in the mix. They should not have stepped in and had contact with the bride. They should have suggested the dress to Carmel and let her bring it in. One consultant is quite enough. That being said, Carmel should have spoken to Randy and Nicole outside the hearing of the bride. It's cringeworthy to air a grievance in front of the customer. If all Randy was interested in was picking the dress, he did not have to jump in and take credit in front of the bride. It was a hijack, plain and simple. It doesn't matter who gets the commission. You have to show trust in your staff. Otherwise, why hire them?

[@chitown1098]

Randy and the sales manager were the ones that acted totally inappropriately and should have minded their own business unless asked for help. It must be frustrating to have someone that butts into your appointment without being asked. I’m sure they are paid on commission which makes it even more inappropriate for Randy and the sales manager to try and walk into the dressing room with dresses and takeover an appointment. It makes the bridal consultant look incompetent in front of the bride. If the bridal consultant is new allow her the chance to “spread her wings” and get some experience under her belt without the two butt-in-skis. As we have seen in other episodes Randy doesn’t have the monopoly on what a bride wants each and every time. Looks like new bridal consultant is being ganged up on and should probably look for another job where there are not so many hens in the hen house.

[@mns24]

Randy and Nicole shouldn’t be interfering in Carmel’s appointment

[@hotrod66ify]

"whatever that is" how condescending Randy. You know you've heard of Wicca before. Though I am a little unsure of what fairies in Wicca have to do with each other. I think it was Randy and Nicole that were inappropriate crashing into the other girls appointment.

[@kathyk30]

Randy?!? How could you muscle in on Carmel’s sale?!? Very unprofessional. Very rude

[@agnes15101968]

The first bride is stunningly beautiful. What a face, what a figure!

[@jedimasters1462]

Honestly, when they kept butting in, I would have just said that I quit since clearly ego is more important than the bride. Love Randy, but he needs to stop getting in the middle and making sure his dress is the pick.

[@paulaunger3061]

Can't believe Randy and Nicole hijacked that appointment like that! Way to undermine your consultant! I'd have been demoralised. Edit: I'm really hating Randy now. Disgusting way to treat your staff. Why did he do it??

[@LouiseEirwen]

Like I said to another, it was likely staged, you have to remember this is a TV show and they create drama. The producer/director and film team likely came to him and wanted him to hijack it for drama and views. Even the argument may have been staged. I seriously doubt Randy does this regularly, it seems more like the filming crew instigate these things. Its a common problem in these types of shows and "reality shows" that people have reported on in the past. Things like American's top model and thing all these song competition ones, usually if there is drama the producers and film crew are the ones suggesting something, setting it up, and then filming it. Usually not everyone is clued into it either, its a big ole production circus.

[@darlenedavis8690]

@@LouiseEirwen You're 100% correct. The producer/director/film crew, etc. create as much drama as possible on shows like this. I used to watch a "reality" car racing show (sure everyone knows which one I'm talking about). When one of the main characters (and one of the most popular characters) left the show, there were a lot of reasons given for his departure. I found a KZbin video the person had made explaining the REAL reason he left. He stated that the producers wanted to set up a scene one way (adding drama) and the racers didn't want to do it. The producers more or less said you HAVE to do it the way we say because of the contracts/documents you signed. I haven't watched the show again. I find it hard to watch these shows for the simple reason you don't really know what's real and what has been staged. I don't understand why producers think they have to create drama to have a good show.

[@paulaunger3061]

@@LouiseEirwen That's a good point. Someone else said this episode actually happened 14 years ago! So maybe Randy and Nicole hated it too and that's why this hasn't happened again. I just couldn't believe they could be so cruel.

[@Methequeen]

Hope y’all see how edited these shows are…the same commentary from this episode was played during an episode clip uploaded a couple of weeks ago

[@leannecanty8821]

I think none of the consultants handled this well.

[@jennifernordhoff6478]

That consultant should not have done what she did. She was 100% inappropriate. I don’t think she’s a good consultant anyway.

[@KateBraun-j8u]

In my humble opinion the dresses Carmell had chosen looked better than Randy's picks (and the dress the Bride chose at the end).

[@Zizi462]

It’s so cool to see a different kind of bride 😅

[@AlizMari23]

Carmel: "I'm very good at what I do." The bride: "I hate every dress." Nicole: *nails it in one dress*

[@elliem4225]

Randy may have been a bit out of line, but Carmel was clearly floundering. She needs to put her pride aside.

[@mmm_1927]

I want to see how the wedding turned out!

[@FullTimePatient37]

I'm happy for them 😊 but I always wonder who's gotten divorced 😅😅😅

[@ZillasCoop]

as a bride I would have walked out. Having them compete would put too much pressure. He COULD have presented the dresses outside the room and let Carmel bring them in. Stand back and listen to her feedback and go get more dresses, all while letting Carmel take the lead. Find it funny that "airing dirty laundry" in front of client is inappropriate but steam rolling over the appt is NOT.

[@rosallumetta2864]

This was 14 years ago….really !

[@paulastenavage1785]

@rosallumetta I remember this episode . And if you notice they are posting a lot of old episodes

[@jennifercobb8570]

Right. I am literally over the old episodes...

[@frogBISCUITS]

Its not about the consultant's ego, its about finding the client the right dress.

[@FullTimePatient37]

What! 7:27 give Carmal a chance! That's very inappropriate!

[@emman6941]

We dont know whsts gone on before this. Maybe with Carmel being new, she hadnt made many sales. I dont see rudeness from Randy and Nicole. Carmel does come over as a little conceited. She got the commission in the end so was happy

[@titocantarero1330]

As much as he is such a nice guy in most of these videos in this video he came across as narcissistic in the sense that he just had to be the one to get the dress. It really wasn’t about making someone happy or really helping it was about himself in this video and getting the credit and was really off putting to do that to that consultant.

[@arttificcer2324]

I hate when people say "i have a very strong personality" as an excuse for them being blatantly rude

[@dianewilliams1125]

The bride should have had the dress custom made!

[@hermitlifeinthemountainsub9493]

I would love to know who made that first dress.

[@heathercarey1302]

I had a handmade dress with wings for a fairy theme wedding. It was incredible. Not all can pull it off.

[@TwylaTurner-l9y]

Seriously Randy, what a crock of crap. You knew exactly what you were doing stepping on toes when she didn't need help yet. I absolutely love you, but your behavior here really disappointed me 😢

[@katherenewedic8076]

sy2tdress uk, ireland, and canada is so much more calm. us culture/ tv is too much

[@thehungrygoldfish]

To be fair, it’s the only version where there are multiple brides (and their guests) and multiple employees in the store. Yeah, it’s going to be less hectic if there’s only one bridal party and two other people in the entire damn store! lol

[@taylordaughtry2081]

I love this show

[@TwilightKitten]

I also love this show!

[@lindaweber2019]

I love Randy, but that was very inappropriate of him, to me it felt like that he was in a competition to outdo Carmel, to show the world that he’s doing a better job than anyone else. And it had nothing to do with ‚team work‘, as he nicely put it, that was just he’s ego.

[@jemma-joon]

Typical Randy behaviour, he knew the consultant didn't want him involved, and he still kept interfering and bringing in dresses. Rude and unprofessional

[@keithgiblin2636]

Oh, really?

[@RevLeigh55]

@@keithgiblin2636Yes. Really.

[@mistyd2438]

Carmel consistently gets pissy when Anyone helps her

[@ivonned32]

Someone with a spine will get upset if a fellow consultant just butts in without being asked to and make it into a competition using my appointment. Too bad backbones arent free!

[@NYandAZ]

Randy needs to step aside until he’s actually asked for help. Unacceptable.

[@kookycat9663]

Wicca is not witchcraft... They are not the same... Being Wiccan is her religion... just like saying she is a Christian/Catholic/Protestant/Muslim/Hindi/Jewish/Buddhist etc etc

[@CheshirelySmiles]

wtf why does it sound like the song in the background has moaning... 3:09 also why tf is there 5 full seconds of silence at 4:41

[@jimrebr]

I usually love Randy, but this is the second time in a week with Randy butting in, again. That’s sad for Carmel and the brides. Well he did it again, if I was the bride, I would be confused.

[@debrakildau9288]

Yes I was shocked to see Randy butt in like that ???? And he didn't walk away when he knew she didn't want his help. .???

[@stubbornsalad]

Randy and Nicole are not commissioned sales people. I would say they were interested with the fun theme and wings.

[@Shirosmic]

I would have fired her on the spot making a scene in front of the customer is not a good thing!

[@piperhurtado4945]

I thought she’d be fired for that, but I guess they wanted a “teamwork” ending.

[@Ambrrrjames]

She's human

[@RevLeigh55]

She was frustrated by being run over by Nichole and Randy. Those two both have huge unchecked egos.

[@kimmichaud7741]

Fairies and Wiccan don't go together

[@hadleyjamison7553]

I think she’s just delusional

[@nehirercelebi6146]

Carmen was right, nd idk but she might not get a comission or gotta share it w randy now which isnt fair.Randy was like a selfish stupid kid here, he didnt had to prove anything, he alread is the manager, give the New consultant a chance.The dresses carmen pulled were amazingg, the Last dress is like a wripped apart toilet Paper.And after sayın too poofy to everghing,that was the ugliest biggest Block of poof i seen.She just liked the liefs falling out effect which in my opinion looked like glued toilet paper pieces.Dont come at me grandmas,u know im right

[@thehungrygoldfish]

No. she gets the full commission. Nicole was a manager and Randy was the fashion director so neither of them get commissions.

[@sherrymason2275]

No sound

[@xxxx-qo9dh]

I liked dress no. 3 the best on her, more fairy, less tacky

[@melrose421]

I love Randy, but this was wrong. Even if she’s new, you need to let her spread her wings and make her own choices. By coming in as a senior consultant and recommending dresses, you undermine the original consultant.

[@hayleymariemills]

I can't stand Carmel. She's new on this episode but just about every episode I've seen her in she's acting completely snarky and rude, especially about Randy. It's his job to help the consultants but she thinks she's too good to have help. I really hate her attitude! It's ridiculous because she still gets the commission, no matter how much he helps her.in every single episode i can think of, she wouldn't have made a sale without him because the brides always say no to what she pulls.

[@RevLeigh55]

Randy was overbearing and made it into a competition. He was thoroughly obnoxious.

[@jeanetteraichel8299]

They were overhelpful. I didn't like the pics Carmel picked. Randy and Nicole are very knowledgeable about the stockroom. Randy isn't commission based.

[@susanbashynski1373]

If Randy's going to snipe a dress, at least get one that looks nice. Yikes, that's an ugly dress. Just my opinion, though.

[@kimmichaud7741]

This consultant carmel.was pretty rude in another episode I saw before this is 2nd time she acted like this and it was the same story she didn't want help it shouldn't be a competition it should be helping each other

[@dietotaku]

but she didn't ask for help and she didn't need help. i know the clip you're talking about and in that one, she was pulling dresses closer to what the bride wanted and randy was being totally inappropriate barging in on another bride who was trying on the dress he had in mind (which looked ridiculous on carmel's bride). it's like randy has it out for carmel or something.

[@RevLeigh55]

Randy and Nichole butted in. They were the ones in the wrong.

[@mariaferreras4369]

That consultant was downright nasty

[@karenacton3854]

How new is Carmela? Maybe she has been having problems with her sales and they thought she needed help?

[@lisamyers8407]

Boy… reading through the comments regarding this appointment just blows my mind. While Carmell didn’t ask for the help, any help in such an environment, asked for or not, should be looked at as team work. At the end it was obvious that Carmell appreciated the assistance. As Randy said, the consultant gets the commission regardless of who finds the Brides dress.

[@jamiesummerow2007]

Why is this me and my bf so bad cosplay love

[@ewaj.6260]

Real life already cut that ridiculous behavior I'm pretty sure about it

[@Jamie-b1e]

It’s because Satan was involved here😢

[@flowerpower8125]

Too see through

[@cmac3616]

Randy is WRONG

[@smiley2477]

Wiccan bride is nuts

[@AlternateHandle]

This Carmel chick is not a team player. She always has conflict and I don’t like her

[@hollydavis7555]

Don't like Carmel at all!!!

[@Samantha-dv4je]

I mean… yikes IMO

[@miraculoussimpson6785]

Randy suck it up, ur wrong in this situation as well as Nichole

[@susanburnworth7893]

I am sorry, but every time one of the episodes includes Carmel, who is a newbie, I can see why Randy and Nicole, who have been with Kleinfelds for years and are part of the senior consultant team, would get somewhat involved. Carmel is easily offended by that and it shows. She still needs to prove herself as being worthy of working on her own and at that point, I suspect Randy and Nicole will step away and only help when asked. There is a definite hierarchy at Kleinfelds and Carmel is still at the very bottom. Best to welcome their expertise as it applies to how Kleinfelds has operated for years, and not argue in front of the client. Reminds me of my early years in the Navy. Quite often someone would tell me to so something different and outside of the norm as far as protocol. You can bet a member of the senior leadership team is going to step in to make sure protocol is not compromised by a less experienced enlisted petty officer or a junior officer. All still learning themselves how to effectively lead their folks to ensure the mission at hand is achieved.

[@kristinmartin2899]

Hey @sayyestothedress can you PLEASE include captions for the hearing impaired

[@TC-bh3bi]

Thumbs down for a video that is very very old! We prefer new stuff and don't need reruns.