Rape IS every Man’s Fault

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BeYourBest

BeYourBest

Күн бұрын

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@somnath_chand_09
@somnath_chand_09 Ай бұрын
"Beta padhao, Beti bachao." 🙂
@axyanpateer.
@axyanpateer. Ай бұрын
😔
@Neethelp-vw4bc
@Neethelp-vw4bc Ай бұрын
Correction beti patao
@headhunter5652
@headhunter5652 29 күн бұрын
😂​@@Neethelp-vw4bc
@SWAGSymphony
@SWAGSymphony 29 күн бұрын
Tujh jayse beti patane wale hi to r/ape karta hai.​@@Neethelp-vw4bc
@pinkman935
@pinkman935 Ай бұрын
2-3 mahine baad log ye phir se bhul jayenge, phir se aisa kuch hoga, phir se protest. Ye loop hota ragega, sadly :(
@suvranildebgupta1113
@suvranildebgupta1113 Ай бұрын
Thank you brother..I am from Kolkata..and my mental peace has been fucked since last few days.. this video is important.. it is high time that we as a society need to CHANGE!
@aastik99
@aastik99 Ай бұрын
Lack of love from parents, relatives, and friends makes all men bitter Because society is toxic
@tejassutar-p4r
@tejassutar-p4r Ай бұрын
San , please make a video on " how to make feel girl safe and comfortable around us" . " how to make safe place for her"
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
THE FACT that you want to make her feel safe is 80% work done ☺️ just tell her exactly this!! This is not a question for me, it is for you to ask your sister and friends
@growbro8145
@growbro8145 Ай бұрын
@@tejassutar-p4r By staring at her lips 💋
@Blazeinferno1000
@Blazeinferno1000 29 күн бұрын
​@@growbro8145☠️
@sachins260
@sachins260 Ай бұрын
Blame the person not the gender
@shripadbhagwat6566
@shripadbhagwat6566 Ай бұрын
When 95 percent culprits belong to that g*nder, then why shouldn't I blame them??? NOT ALL MEN, BUT ALL WOMEN. I am so tired of you men whi** ng about literally everything women speak up for.Did you even watch the video?
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg Ай бұрын
@@shripadbhagwat6566 95% culprit belong to one gender. Because r*pe laws are not gender neutral....?
@shripadbhagwat6566
@shripadbhagwat6566 29 күн бұрын
​​​​@@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg🤡They are not neutral because men becoming victim of r*pes, atleast in India, is extremely RARE.I agree they deserve justice too. But this "NOT ALL MEN" thing is bulls**t. Not all men BUT ALWAYS THE MAN is a culprit when we here such horrific cases. The guy in the video is spitting facts. 3 year olds in maharashtra were r*ped . 3 YEAR OLDS. It is high time you people stop whin**ing and blaming women because a person belonging to your gender does something horrific. An man will never have any idea what an average woman goes through in her daily life.
@ashishkumarsharma2081
@ashishkumarsharma2081 Ай бұрын
THE HATE/TRIGGERED COMMENTS PROVE YOUR POINT!! SPOT ON. ✅🙌🏻
@Hegdehog69
@Hegdehog69 Ай бұрын
One thing that's most ignored is MENTAL HEALTH (irrespective of gender).Hum kbhi nhi pta kr skta ki kon humare beech se hi SADIST ban ja rha he 🤷
@siddharthrahul6688
@siddharthrahul6688 Ай бұрын
For four guys who raped i see 40k guys and my colleague doctors who are protesting against rape and think women are precious and should be treated with utmost respect. So yes don't generalise it to a gender.
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg Ай бұрын
He is pushing this ' guilty until proven Innocent ' narrative.
@sid9791
@sid9791 Ай бұрын
Best video on your channel so far. Much needed at this time of the hour. Respect+
@rupamsamanta2472
@rupamsamanta2472 Ай бұрын
I m from Kolkata... We totally shocked by this incident. West Bengal become a pond of politics. Here , Sourav Ganguly gave statement about it , it is accident.
@_prash
@_prash Ай бұрын
You weren't shocked by post poll violence in gram panchayat and assembly elections where women working for BJP were r aped and murdered?
@sabyasachideshmukh6460
@sabyasachideshmukh6460 Ай бұрын
Bro you'll get hate, you'll lose subscribers, you'll lose followers but THANK YOU so much for talking about this. I do agree that in one way or the other we are the problem. Even after Nirbhaya (not to compare the cases) we allowed many such cases to happen (hathras, Jharkhand 3.5 yr girl r**e, etc for anyone who needs example). There has been no improvement in 12 years since then that means that we are in one way or the other responsible. Just know that not everyone hates you for saying this, and see the hate comments as mindset that we have to change to prevent this from happening in the future.
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Thanks for understanding the main point bro ❤️ and supporting
@VerseVivid
@VerseVivid Ай бұрын
It is very happy to know that KZbinrs with other niche are also taking about b Kolkata incident ❤
@sdgamer3865
@sdgamer3865 Ай бұрын
We have failed as a society and a country. Thanks bro for making a video on this story... I am from Kolkata and as a person I feel sad for her and after this incident I am now scared for my two elder sisters... Please make a clear video "How to make feel girls safe around us ?"🙏
@jamesR800
@jamesR800 29 күн бұрын
Look son. If you want women to feel safe around you. Just act how you normally act. Just be yourself. And if you don't intent anything wrong No women will fear you. don't worry.
@sdgamer3865
@sdgamer3865 29 күн бұрын
@@jamesR800 mere jo dost zada natak karte hain , nibbi giri karte hain main unke muh par bol deta hu isliya mujhe sab block kar dete hain or koi baat vi nahi karta... present me koi female friend nahi hain!🥲
@jamesR800
@jamesR800 28 күн бұрын
@@sdgamer3865 did you met them internet? Make friends in real life. don't be around girls who isn't nice to you. They don't deserve you bro. Find someone who has same interests and hobby as you. Its easy to be friends when have same interests. By the way. I have only one female best friend. I hope you'll get one soon.
@sdgamer3865
@sdgamer3865 28 күн бұрын
@@jamesR800 No bro they are my classmates. I wanted one of them will be female best friend but she said nahi meri Boyfriend hi Best Friend hogi or koi nahi. Maine usko Best Friend banne ke liya pucha tha isliya or baat nahi karti hain block kar diya🥲🥲
@pranavp2345
@pranavp2345 Ай бұрын
I want to tell that you don't need to change the title no matter what everyone says. They don't want to look inside themselves and they don't even want to understand the point. The title is correct or atleast okay.
@Anonymous-eg1xk
@Anonymous-eg1xk Ай бұрын
Extremely proud of you bro for coming upfront and talking about this issue as a man I definitely learned a lot from this video I need to confess this when I was younger I also looked at women like they were an object but eventually I did become better and started to look at them respectfully I will take these to improve myself and the people around me
@hardiktripathi4082
@hardiktripathi4082 Ай бұрын
Majority of people here are just trying to justify themself as the kindest purest human being ever made ki bhai mein toh accha hu mein dudh ka dhula hu tum apna dekh lo The whole point of this video was not to blame anyone ki Aadmi hi galat hai, he was just trying to tell how we can make a better surrounding a better society for our love ones whether they are aged ,man, women or kids Bhai blame game toh saalo se chalta aa raha agr acche log bhi vahi karne lagege toh change kaise aayega , its our responsibility to bring a good change kahi se kisse ko toh start karna ho ga whether its men or women
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Thanks for understanding the main point bro ❤️
@Ajaykuma276
@Ajaykuma276 Ай бұрын
I have watched the full video. I understand and learned. People were hating him for his approach to this. He was not 100% correct but he tried to give his best to teach us at this critical moment from which he is affected as we can see by his emotions. And he didn't inteded to call us or our parents bad, I think he was telling us the importance of learning the right things from people around us. Thanks San bhaiya❤
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Thanks for understanding the main point bro ❤️
@sapekshtrehan9771
@sapekshtrehan9771 Ай бұрын
Thankyou so much brother for giving your clear opinion on this and as men it's impossible for us to stay quiet after all these casualties, not because humpr sawal uth rhe hain kyuki hum aisa nahi karte aur ye sab galat nahi sochte, but collectively we all are responsible for all this and its our responsibilty to improve the society including ourselves.
@hamarabhai78
@hamarabhai78 Ай бұрын
So many people being offended by the title just proves how judgemental people are without even watching the whole thing. Agar tum feel krte ho ki tum cherry picked ho ki"mera fault nhi he muje mat dalo is baat me" is mentality ne hi hame as a society itne bure spot pe pohchaya he. Is case pe jo bhi log neech memes bana rhe he aadmi hi he, grapist deniers or defenders bhi 80-90% aadmi hi hote he. Tum abhi self assess nhi kroge to baad me in cheezo ko seriously nhi loge
@aerah76
@aerah76 Ай бұрын
No amount of explanation justifies that statement. I can do everything in my power to spread awareness and fight for justice without considering it my fault.
@begone3973
@begone3973 Ай бұрын
​@@aerah76 Exactly my point!
@AsifAkhtar20
@AsifAkhtar20 Ай бұрын
This is not just every "men's" fault, it's the society as a whole's fault. The promotion of porn, sexualisation of women in ads, shows, songs, etc, encouragement of r3d pill culture amongst men and encouragement of instath0ts and h0eflation for fame, money & validation in the name of women's "liberty" - all of this have contributed to where we are today. And this is going to increase each day with normalization of drugs, alcohol, club culture, soft pr0$stitution on apps like OF, kick, etc in India. There, I explained the problem with society and title in simple words. It's high time that Men are solely blamed for every crime against woman. Have the balls to take accountability as a society instead of blaming one group to sound "cool n aware" ka 14. PS - ik this will be deleted
@HarshpreetSinghh
@HarshpreetSinghh Ай бұрын
@@hamarabhai78 Common sense in not so common People in the comment section are feeling targeted without any reason General awareness video hai, there is no point of accusing San Kalra. And San Kalra ki videos dekh ke itna to trust hai ko vo kbhi galat video nhi banayega Mera koi bada bhai ya even cousin bhi nhi hai. So I make sure jab rishtedaar meri example de to mai apne younger siblings/cousins ko accha influence kar pau San Kalra is just like my elder brother who helped me a lot in my self improvement journey. ❤❤
@hamarabhai78
@hamarabhai78 Ай бұрын
​@@aerah76 bhai vaha vo bechari mar gyi, or pta nhi kitne cases isse bhi bure hote he jo itna famous nhi hote ya shayad report bhi nhi hote, or tum bas apni male ego hurt hone ki vajah se replies me bas rote phir rahe ho?
@mr.anonymous8829
@mr.anonymous8829 Ай бұрын
On 6th point you're definitely correct that education plays very important role but still we all know about our Indian education system 🤡
@bibarroy575
@bibarroy575 Ай бұрын
মূখ্যমন্ত্রীর পদত্যাগ চাই।।
@Naxion69
@Naxion69 Ай бұрын
Thanks for making a vid in this topic ❤ We need to make the people more aware of this situation
@souravpaul471
@souravpaul471 Ай бұрын
Thank you for talking about this incident. I am from Kolkata and the incident happened 1.5kms away from the questioned hospital. The condition here in Kolkata is really disturbing but finally people are revolting!
@adityapanse8745
@adityapanse8745 Ай бұрын
Totally agreed we all failed as a man .
@prayushchopra4863
@prayushchopra4863 Ай бұрын
Bro this was genuinally great talk. It is very hard to get focus on something these days but i had watched in one go..
@dominatorz
@dominatorz Ай бұрын
Thanks you bro for making this video and saying all those points, all those harsh truths which needed to be spoken on a big level. I have all the same thoughts which you said, I wanted to convey all those point which I do in my circle but you did it on a large scale. Thank you once again. SAFE SPACE FOR GIRLS has to be the most important point from this video. Although the whole video is crucial but yes, we have to create safe environment around us for the girls, the women around us.
@ishaanraj5539
@ishaanraj5539 Ай бұрын
currently i’m preparing for civil service examination and i’m so happy to watch this and knowing your inner thoughts as a citizen too. i have been following you since a very long time and consider you as my big brother. here people (Men) will only speak against you because it’s so hard to say as a man and for them it’s hard to digest as well even they think that respecting girls or understanding their boundaries means weak male mind only. you’re already so strong please don’t even read these negative comments these people are still justifying their dumb mentality and rubbish character. of course we are responsible we usually scroll without any purpose all the day even 40 percent male don’t have any skill to work upon that so it’s just their great time to scroll look for those soft porn clips. else i feel very happy san sir thank you so much for this video and please don’t weep at all. i’ll try my level best to imbibe your teachings. 💓
@anshsrivastava7565
@anshsrivastava7565 Ай бұрын
Very truly said We need many more influencers making such unfiltered and clear statements..❤❤❤❤❤
@HarshpreetSinghh
@HarshpreetSinghh Ай бұрын
Common sense in not so common People in the comment section are feeling targeted without any reason General awareness video hai, there is no point of accusing San Kalra. And San Kalra ki videos dekh ke itna to trust hai ko vo kbhi galat video nhi banayega Mera koi bada bhai ya even cousin bhi nhi hai. So I make sure jab rishtedaar meri example de to mai apne younger siblings/cousins ko accha influence kar pau San Kalra is just like my elder brother who helped me a lot in my self improvement journey. ❤❤
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Thanks for understanding the main point bro ❤️
@HarshpreetSinghh
@HarshpreetSinghh Ай бұрын
@@BeYourBestOfficial ❤❤
@docthor69
@docthor69 Ай бұрын
well said truly agreed with you brother thank you for this video it was needed and i feel ashamed of being a "MEN" today
@TheUnseenLogic
@TheUnseenLogic Ай бұрын
This is actually thought provoking. I agree with you, men have a responsibility to improve the society in the wake of violence against women. As a man we can speak out against sexism and misogyny, by supporting victims and by creating more inclusive and equitable society
@--HuStLE--
@--HuStLE-- Ай бұрын
I understand your point and seriously respect you. But I feel I am not the one who has done this all I rarely interact with girls. Not a single girl in my class has ever complained about me misbehaving or looking at her badly nor my friends. Me 100 logo se ladna pasand krunga lekin esi harakat krne ka dum nhi rakhunga. But I seriously appreciate you and support you🙌
@animeworldixr
@animeworldixr Ай бұрын
SAME BHAI MAI BHI KABHI LADKIYO SE BAAT NAHI KARTA
@prateekisok
@prateekisok Ай бұрын
more power to you bhai, don't hear these negative comments they just feel personally attacked. it's great work that you are doing putting out a video like this. To all the people who feel offended at least agree on the topic of what we can do as a man mentioned in the video and act towards it that's how we all can improve society and ourselves
@thestranger4653
@thestranger4653 Ай бұрын
Bhaii ye video bhot impact dalega . Aise hi log ajaye to society sudhar jaye ❤
@HarshpreetSinghh
@HarshpreetSinghh Ай бұрын
Amazing video! Amazing Initiative!
@imyank
@imyank Ай бұрын
Meri bhen stree movie dekh ke aayi thi rat 10.30 ke aas paas or mai gya use lene scooty se . Or mujhe kaafi dr lg rha tha. Us tim pe sirf mens hi bhar they normal or sharabi bhi gir rhe h daru pike . Usko dekh ke lga shrb mai dhut hai ye raste mai meri bhen aegi iska kya bharosa kab ye kuch na kare. Raat ko ghumne wala har bnda bura nhi h But be safe my sisters. Hum chahtey tum asmaan mai udo. Par the world is cruel
@ashayjain11
@ashayjain11 Ай бұрын
Thanks bhaiya for such incredible video it is gonna impact on our society really well ❤ I hope all creator should make videos on such topics irrespective of there usual contant Really proud on you bhaiya Respect into infinite for you ❤❤ Your my ideal bhaiya keep growing
@Gruvy19
@Gruvy19 Ай бұрын
THANKYOU BHAY FOR MAKING A VIDEO ON OUR REQUEST
@gojosaturo111
@gojosaturo111 Ай бұрын
The only for this whole problem is we need to bring back brahmacharya in our modern education system as soon as possible.
@aamirzafar..
@aamirzafar.. Ай бұрын
Great video bro, we should improve this society
@The_KarKnight
@The_KarKnight Ай бұрын
Yes you are right, we should change the society or atleast try to. Protecting woman is also a man's responsibly.
@madtrainfan
@madtrainfan Ай бұрын
No it's not a man's responsibility to protect every woman. But he should protect women in his family, friends.
@apoorvjain1228
@apoorvjain1228 Ай бұрын
Bro Really, Dank Meme Culture also plays a very major role in our subconscious Mind
@AM5Youtube
@AM5Youtube Ай бұрын
Title 🤡 video 🗿
@DGisLive69
@DGisLive69 Ай бұрын
kaha jata hai jab tak apne par naa lo tab tak samaj nhi aata kisiko
@KhyaTakhe
@KhyaTakhe Ай бұрын
​@@DGisLive69💯
@Luffy_makkar
@Luffy_makkar Ай бұрын
To the point bro , i have too many question around this mentality but now i am clear after this video
@soumikroy3313
@soumikroy3313 Ай бұрын
Yeah, it's a fault of Men. As a man I am ashamed that these things are happening and our country is not safe for women. I have a female friend, we were doing internship at an institute and she told me that she doesn't feel safe at the lab where she was working and told me to stay with her. Initially I didn't understand what happened to her then I realised what was the case (there were some guys who tried to hit on her in wrong way). I can't name the institute here because my comment may get deleted but yeah it happened.
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg Ай бұрын
Was the guy hitting on her unattractive.? I request you hear the other side of the story and talk to the guy and tell him to learn how to approach girl properly.
@Mr.Preet18
@Mr.Preet18 Ай бұрын
Yes I understand the thoughts you want to say and i will try my level best to make our society nice and i will make sure to... To teach my frnds that how to give respect women or a girl and try to make a good place for women that they are safe with us love you bro to make this video and teach the real meaning of respecting women
@kartickbasak9297
@kartickbasak9297 Ай бұрын
It's been 9 days and government dose not take any action about it. But bro I thik this type of videos are not for tranding but it is for our own awareness about our own society. This is the real condition of this shitfull mindset of a group of people and there worst parvarish. Thanks bro for making this geniune video. Here in bengal almost all youtubers take some actions to aware. Also I hope some response come to make ensure not only women but also men dose not face or do any kind of this things.
@Yoriichiii-l9c
@Yoriichiii-l9c Ай бұрын
Bro you should make this type of video to change the mindset of the new generation ❤
@parthasarma9296
@parthasarma9296 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this lovely video ❤️
@harshkamdih.k3760
@harshkamdih.k3760 Ай бұрын
Thank You bro for the clear perspective on which we've to focus on!!❤ Am trying from today telling my friends and I've self started this !!🙌🙌 Here's what exactly he talks about: DON'T JUST IMPROVE URSELF, IMPROVE AS A SOCIETY!! Can we just stop doin bs and move away from giving that sh*t sort of abusement made on our mother/sister/daughter. Fine if you do so, but think of a bit Are you guys after using this sort of abusement, just escape and get rid of that stuff? No, It get some percentage of things processed in our brain, right!! Think of another perspective, What does those people do, who commit atrocities/r*pes? They also do get that thought in there mind before committing this sort of heinous act. Collectively what's the similarity between you as a good person and the one who is committing it? It's pretty the thought and the mentality. So what's the step that should be taken to get rid of it? Change your mentality, leave those things behind as an individual? Naah! Ik some people will take this seriously but what about others? But will this be successful to change everything just as an individual? A big NO!! Consider ur friend's group, Ur friends made those same sort of things and you being the one who only took this stuff seriously! What's the result man? It only improved ur mindset, Ur mentality, U as a man, U as an individual, BUT NOT THE ENTIRE SOCIETY, right? Another one, Consider ur group to be the one who obeys these stuff and tried upbringing this same thing to everyone nearby you. What will happen? Firstly, it was your friends who has improved, then It's your surrounding/environment i.e., detoxified by this stuff and so on... And if this is done by very corner of our society, It results in the better, healthy growth in the society i.e., It IMPROVED OUR SOCIETY. It will ALL START BY YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL !!
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
I’m glad you took the best parts with you 🤗
@harshkamdih.k3760
@harshkamdih.k3760 Ай бұрын
@@BeYourBestOfficial always bhaiyya⚡⚡ Aapka follower hu koi bs community ka thodi 🥱🙌
@BiswaprakashHansdah25
@BiswaprakashHansdah25 Ай бұрын
Not mine fault. Don't include me in this...I don't even look at them. I'M NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS..
@pranjalchhetri5804
@pranjalchhetri5804 Ай бұрын
Congratulations to you🎉
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
You really need to watch from the 10min mark
@diwakarisonyoutube
@diwakarisonyoutube Ай бұрын
+1 He is blaming every man and following the footsteps of faminazis who want gender war. This heinous act comes from corrupt powerful people who don't think of consequences of their actions and know they can get away with anything they desire. I never understood why we suddenly start blaming one gender when it's the whole society's fault. I understand he's an influencer but goddamn keep your influences to men's fashion. I don't come on this channel to get shat on by him on things I have no control over.
@shivanshraj9845
@shivanshraj9845 Ай бұрын
Abe bhai sab aise react kr rhe hai jaise koi pehla rape huwa hai roj rape cases ho rhe uska kya uske liye kon ladega.
@aerah76
@aerah76 Ай бұрын
@@BeYourBestOfficial No amount of explanation justifies that statement. This is not the right approach to tackle such a serious case.
@Lovejitrupal
@Lovejitrupal Ай бұрын
Social media also influence people. The bad content people are watching are increasing and it stimulates them. They want to try it and they lost control on there senses and for short time of pleasure they reuined someone's life. Not only relying on government but as citizens we should also take steps, we should help someone if they are suffering in front of us. . So we can atleast save one life if not many.
@Neetaspirant-v4c
@Neetaspirant-v4c Ай бұрын
Thankuu so much bhaiya...aapki ye vid se se agr koi bhi change laega khudme toh bhut khusi ki baat hogi...
@Lakshya_2007
@Lakshya_2007 23 күн бұрын
I'm at the age of 17 and i learn many things from you at this age. That may be you learn late in your life thanks for that.
@KiyotakaAyanokoji-mc6iv
@KiyotakaAyanokoji-mc6iv Ай бұрын
Title dekhke disturb ho gya tha but you literally killed it brother excellent video. It needed for awareness in men and also there is little more to it.This msg is for all lil sis. DISCLAIMER:THIS MSG IS NOT FOR FEMINIST OR MATURE GIRL WHO UNDERSTAND THE WORLD BETTER. Dear sis never be a friend or girlfriend of dank, playboy or a toxic guy who doesn't respect you or see female as sexual object just for so called adventure or harmless fun.Always stay away from these kind of guys if you want to be safe, happier and grow.And if possible respect or get friend with kind,empathatic and compassionate guy who respect you and every human and who supports you.And if he started to likes then rest decision is your . As It's your life and its also your responsibility This little change will also have a significant impact
@legendrider365
@legendrider365 Ай бұрын
Most of you will see people who spent their childhood in the 80s or 90s (the self-proclaimed golden time). As evidence, one can understand the mentality of the people of your father's or uncle's generation. Most of the people in that generation are doing bad comments on a girl's inbox or bad comments on any of her photos. Even the girls of that generation are not less, they blame the girls for the rape, evidence is the mother of most of us. The main reason for this is that rape was promoted in Bollywood movies of the 80s or 90s.
@devankwarang1572
@devankwarang1572 Ай бұрын
This incident made me realised that as a teen to man i need to be strong enough to Protect my sisters or gf From such monsters in the world
@Linux_Jerry
@Linux_Jerry Ай бұрын
EVERY MAN'S FAULT ??? , bro kyu guilt de rha h ? m toh literally ghr se bhar nhi niklta male interaction nhi h female se toh aaj tkk baat nhi kri
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
That is exactly the problem - watch the full video
@adityapanse8745
@adityapanse8745 Ай бұрын
Bro you are a man and born in 21st century so understand your duty that if ever you are close to a girl ,it is your duty to make her feel safe .
@anonymousfriend7338
@anonymousfriend7338 Ай бұрын
Now this is what i call a real "influencer"
@ohm_chiluka
@ohm_chiluka Ай бұрын
Great Video, every point you made was very important for young men to know, such a shame that our country is turning into the rape capital of the world, We must do better
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
I’m glad you resonate
@shreyanshsingh67
@shreyanshsingh67 Ай бұрын
Comments section proving the point. Shame on Indian men.
@alonegaming8232
@alonegaming8232 Ай бұрын
Why? can u elaborate....the men here are just as normal as you are they are just asking why they should take the blame of something they never did ?
@shreyanshsingh67
@shreyanshsingh67 Ай бұрын
@@alonegaming8232 Brother watch the whole video. In the video he didn't blame you or anyone for this. My comment is for the guy who didn't watch the whole video and then just started to spread hate. His point was that we men have created safe space for such people. Khud honestly bata tu kitne ladko ko suna hai jo kisi random stranger ke bare me ghinauni baate karte hai. Now on the other side tune kitne ladko ko dekha jo esi baate karne walo ko rokta hai ? Video ka point to samjho yar ek bar I know tu kabhi esa kuch nahi karega But ab puri society ki responsibility Leni padegi That's the point Abhi bhi kuch dikkat hai to reply Matt kario Muje justify nhi karna apna point
@alonegaming8232
@alonegaming8232 Ай бұрын
@@shreyanshsingh67 I didn't say anything wrong about the video he did take some important points but my problem is with the title and thumbnail he shouldn't use that title it's so wrong and yes as men we should take responsibility to make our surroundings safe and many men are actually doing that.....
@shivam_singh_kill_pro
@shivam_singh_kill_pro Ай бұрын
every buddy love to moral policing but in the end most men do follow law and people who dont must punished.
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg
@KashyapKashyap-zb5hg Ай бұрын
@@shreyanshsingh67 men being sexually attracted towards women is a crime..?
@aftabmulgund3958
@aftabmulgund3958 Ай бұрын
Salute to you bhai and your way of thinking you're doing great job thank you ❤
@siddharthbhagat7637
@siddharthbhagat7637 Ай бұрын
Bro i never use abusive words ....bcs every abusive words objectify women......i always have respect....i always see them as my own sister and mother
@madtrainfan
@madtrainfan Ай бұрын
Not my fault i am not responsible for this i rarely interact with women.
@animeworldixr
@animeworldixr Ай бұрын
SAME YAAR LADKIYO SE DUR RAHO MAI BHI KABHI LADKIYO SE BAAT NAHI KARTA
@KiyotakaAyanokoji-mc6iv
@KiyotakaAyanokoji-mc6iv Ай бұрын
Same
@MIKEY-hj5ny
@MIKEY-hj5ny Ай бұрын
Bro this is damn good information but can you make a video on how to genuinely talk to woman without making her feel uncomfortable and also teach us how we can unfriend those friends who are very influenced by this dank culture hope you find my comment ❤
@snickgamer2666
@snickgamer2666 Ай бұрын
This is really sad 😢
@rahulmunda2720
@rahulmunda2720 Ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video, but this time I can't feel my best
@parassharma1972
@parassharma1972 Ай бұрын
Beta Padhao Beti Bachao
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Damn
@NitroAcr1d
@NitroAcr1d Ай бұрын
Good video San, you said nothing but the truth, there literally was nothing to get offended about in the entirety of this video. It's funny reading all these negative comments though, good entertainment 🦅.
@meghakumari6137
@meghakumari6137 24 күн бұрын
Very well done 👍 Great video...world needs more men like you who create safe space for women.
@ayansarkar9235
@ayansarkar9235 Ай бұрын
The most genuine influencer ❤
@Sachin.dhakad
@Sachin.dhakad Ай бұрын
Endless cycle of curroption and lack of education
@alonegaming8232
@alonegaming8232 Ай бұрын
I don't think education is the problem because I know many uneducated people In my village or in my family they are more respectful towards women than many educated ones...I think corruption a person who think can get away with anything he do because of his power in society and sexulization of the women are the main root causes.
@Sachin.dhakad
@Sachin.dhakad Ай бұрын
@@alonegaming8232 education is slacking behind in country due to curroption, this is what I meant, and yeah lack of civic sense is due to lack of education and reeducation
@NonuPadhle
@NonuPadhle Ай бұрын
You are right sir😊
@M_music892
@M_music892 Ай бұрын
Video toh pura dekh le baad me Comment kr de
@premkumarjha8399
@premkumarjha8399 Ай бұрын
Don't regret making this video we all need to be aware of this Incident
@ofc_its_sidd
@ofc_its_sidd Ай бұрын
bhai isme sabko mt ghasito most friends I've are female and not a single time I've ever made them uncomfortable not even any random female it just the mentality such "animals" develops who treat females as objects not as human I'm not among them
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Pura video dekhe bina comment karoge toh galat hi hogi obv
@hamarabhai78
@hamarabhai78 Ай бұрын
Bhai tum bas cherrypick hi krte reh jaoge or bigger problem ko nhi shine hone doge
@pag3160
@pag3160 Ай бұрын
​@@hamarabhai78Factsss 💯💯
@alonegaming8232
@alonegaming8232 Ай бұрын
​@@hamarabhai78 problem lies in the society not in the gender......try to change the society instead of saying all men are r*pist.
@decoder8804
@decoder8804 Ай бұрын
Bro pls look into the matter deeply. Everyone is telling its due to porn. I know porn is destroying our young ones it should be banned but here matter is something else. It's more a murder than a rape. The rapist or murderer want to give a name of rape to this incident and we r falling into the trap. According to me here the main reason is organ smuggling, girl racket. These are the crime for which they killed her. Btw this is not first time happening in RGKar College. So please look into it in more rational way..🙏🙏 and support the protest
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
Listen to what i said in the video carefully
@XannieEditz
@XannieEditz Ай бұрын
I really love my country but after seeing all these incidents happening. I'm just shattered..Is this the country where we all are living? This country has become pathetic in terms of safety😢 Shame on the Indian Judicial System and pervert men of India
@legendroh349
@legendroh349 5 күн бұрын
Learned mew perspective (although i know everything you has said in this video) Now i know how you feel about girls Because i have watched your reel or shorts may be i don't remember in which you have used a word "b!tch" if you are reading this i am kindly requesting to delete that reel/short It is not good for the society and humanity's thinking Thanks for spreading awareness 🙂
@ayuushhhhh
@ayuushhhhh Ай бұрын
If you are educating your daughter on bad touch you should also teach your son to know your limits and teach him how to respect their words
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
100%
@ayuushhhhh
@ayuushhhhh Ай бұрын
@@BeYourBestOfficial @beyourbestofficial and also parent should give there child sex education if schools are not giving them and teach them what is harmonal changes and what is pubirty
@gojosaturo111
@gojosaturo111 Ай бұрын
​@@ayuushhhhhin simple words hamare ancient gurukul system ki tarah modern education system mein bhi calibacy(ब्रह्मचर्य) ki education Deni hi pdegi. This will be big effective against women crime issues and Indian men productivity will also be increased. And pls Calibacy doesn't equal to mysogyny.bollywood ke propoganda mein mat phasna. It teaches about controlling our sexual energy, gender equality (treating women as mother or sister) and use our all youth energy into a higher purpose
@Noddybhai2005
@Noddybhai2005 Ай бұрын
27:20 correct! I have seen that guys can't even stand against their parents even when they are wrong,
@azizanimationsSTUDIO
@azizanimationsSTUDIO Ай бұрын
Bro you're actually trying to improve society(of men) now and that's great but people don't wanna be educated . We can't change someone unless they want to . The probability of changing every man or boy is very low , but some will change for sure...
@piyushkaundal08
@piyushkaundal08 Ай бұрын
A very much needed video Thank you san for this video
@rohn2420
@rohn2420 Ай бұрын
QUALITY CONTENT ❤️❤️❤️
@dingdingding8697
@dingdingding8697 Ай бұрын
so i followed a good content creator ❤
@Dev_analyses
@Dev_analyses Ай бұрын
Great initiative by you San, keep it up bhaii
@Rehan-f7y3e
@Rehan-f7y3e Ай бұрын
Bro some kids are crying in the comments just because they didnt understood the motive of the video, actually the thing is they are just defending themselves because they all belongs to that dank (so called) culture, they are not actually mature enough to understood the video. TO ALL THE KIDS PLEASE GROW UP FAST AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE REASON OF THE VIDEO. PEACE
@KiyotakaAyanokoji-mc6iv
@KiyotakaAyanokoji-mc6iv Ай бұрын
Nah Aisa nhi kuch log aise h ki unki koi female interaction hoti hi nhi h so bahut se cheeze follow nhi kar paate ya unke control mein nhi h. They feel like this video is falsely accusing them
@tosifansari366
@tosifansari366 Ай бұрын
I salute you sir 🙌
@Bansi322
@Bansi322 Ай бұрын
I totally agree with u
@bikashhh_medhi
@bikashhh_medhi Ай бұрын
Definately agree with you 💯
@sanatan-satye-h.jai-iswar.
@sanatan-satye-h.jai-iswar. 25 күн бұрын
Glad to listen.
@Gruvy19
@Gruvy19 Ай бұрын
Bhay aap europe me different jageh gye ho according to you which is the best place to settle in Europe or in any abrod country as well and please ek tweet kardena ispe k kha kesa scene hai women safety ka
@shreyassharma8277
@shreyassharma8277 Ай бұрын
scandinavian countries are the some of the safest places in general for both men and women. Any rich European country is going to be safe , at least outside of the major cities
@Alive_21
@Alive_21 Ай бұрын
switzerland
@impressionaweddingsolution4741
@impressionaweddingsolution4741 Ай бұрын
Need more man like you...
@Luciferboy0987
@Luciferboy0987 Ай бұрын
At this time broo you are right broo we need to improve our society broo but unka kya kree jinko agar hum pura zor lgake bhi smjaye vo phir bhi na smje?????
@khokannaskar8786
@khokannaskar8786 Ай бұрын
15:11 Line was heart loching❤
@K20-INDIA
@K20-INDIA Ай бұрын
Watch the whole video, not just the title.
@howardstark5467
@howardstark5467 Ай бұрын
So, according to the title rape is your father's fault too.
@alonegaming8232
@alonegaming8232 Ай бұрын
@@K20-INDIA than change the title..
@K20-INDIA
@K20-INDIA Ай бұрын
@@alonegaming8232 *then
@alonegaming8232
@alonegaming8232 Ай бұрын
@@K20-INDIA ok SHERLOCK...
@Ytuser_ooo
@Ytuser_ooo Ай бұрын
Yaar, ladko ke dimag me bhot kachra bhara h. I always worry about my mom, sister, and girlfriend. Guys think that ki ladki ko chhedne se wo apne group me cool lagte h.
@abidali6197
@abidali6197 Ай бұрын
Bro I have a huge request for you, can you please make videos on how to treat girls around you and make her safe and also how can we protect them. Because, most of us are raised (including me) that girls are weaker than us and they are literally different creatures like objects which can only be used and then throw. I need this video personally also so that I can understand what they think and expect from us. I think I don't understand girls that much clearly. Please it's a request Hope you will find this comment 😔
@BeYourBestOfficial
@BeYourBestOfficial Ай бұрын
V interesting - will try to make something
@carljohnson-xl2lk
@carljohnson-xl2lk Ай бұрын
san bhai ke saare points s agree karunga, mere kuchh aise phchan k log h jo hmesha sexual fantasies m rhte h, raste m, coaching m, college, m koshish kri lekin ab duri bnaker rkhi h, education is most imp part, m blessed hu ki meri primary education sbse achhi hui h, jo mere long term m kaam aarhi h her aadmi rapist nhi hota, lekin most of time aadmi hi hota h, ye line khi hadd ki sach h or ise jhhuta sabit krne k liye, hme, mtlb hum men ko responsible hona pdega, hme educate hona pdega, hmari sister, mother, friends are not safe unless hm ek safe enviornment na bnaye, ab baat sirf self improvement ki nhi blki society improvement ki h
@pag3160
@pag3160 Ай бұрын
Bhai Sexual Fantasies is Not wrong! !! Tum uska Istemal kar skte ho apne benefit mai ki you tell yourself ki It's a Fantasy, You will fantasize it and Move on and Realise it's just a fantasy Which doesn't transcribes into Real physical violence type Thing ; Not Worth it trying in Home matters ( as we know how many incidents happen criminal is knownbeing)
@Seriouslyfunny1
@Seriouslyfunny1 Ай бұрын
I personally think that all the calls for "change in mentality" or "change in society" are useless. I'm saying this because r@pe isn't a new phenomenon, and it certainly isn't limited only to India. Every country faces this problem and everywhere there's a call for change in society's approach. But nowhere it seems to be working. That makes me believe that this is a problem which can't be solved by mere protests or boards and placards or laws and punishments. It needs a mass level approach starting with abikity to understand one's own emotions and regulate them coupled with education after a thorough understanding of what drives people to commit such crimes. Guilt tripping everyone and becoming apologists for something which we won't even dream to commit is a counter productive approach. Most people would become defensive and would box themselves in denial. And this isn't just about men. When women themselves say that r@pes happen because women are interacting more freely with men these days, you get to know that it's not just men who are responsible. Women are with equally dirty hands. Look at the comments of WB CM Mamata Banerjee after the incident. And trust me, no solution will come out of stricter laws and punishments. It will only be used as a weapon for the innocent guys. The only solution is to take a scientific approach in understanding the mindset of a criminal, identify trigger points and then design an educational curriculum around it which teaches kids from a small age on how to identify their own emotions and urges and how to control them.
@pag3160
@pag3160 Ай бұрын
Bhai To "change in mentality" useless kaise hui ?? Jab unhe batana emotion urges ko control karna ; Yehi to change in mentality hai .. !
@d4s_038
@d4s_038 Ай бұрын
The only comment that made some sense here.
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