Raped by my Father for years & got Pregnant | Zizo Apleni | I've Been Through The Most

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I’ve Been Through the Most is a documentary series that profiles the lives of the brave, bold and courageous guests who have experienced the most and are on the show to share their story. Most if not all are back on the podcast to answer some questions which our viewer had, they also get to be interviewed by media personalities Innocent & Millicent also known as the Centtwinz. The podcast allows our guests to dive deeper into in-depth details of their story. This podcast is proudly brought to you by Centtwinz Productions.
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[@ArizonaZulu]

I just called my dad and told him I love him so much,he is 80years today my mom passed on when I was I 8years old,he has protected me and not even once did he make me uncomfortable.thank you for sharing your story sisi✨♥️

[@azolaqayi5878]

Wow thank you for this episode Centtwinz 😢it hits home coz I personally went through the same situation with my uncle from dad’s side, sad part is that I never got a chance to confront him he is late.. my family didn’t want him to get arrested and I’m still scared to talk about it because I don’t think that they are awere ukuthi I still remember everything that happened to me ndisemncani.

[@NalediGoldinah]

Ooh may the Lord heal you my sister, may he give you closure in his own way.

[@busisiwegwagwani8911]

Same here😢

[@nompumelelomdluli7739]

May You be Healed.

[@JoyceThapedi]

My love please find a way of talking about it they need to understand how you feel ,I still talked about it after I got married while it happened while I was a child .

[@teijaflink2226]

Makes me sick how many are ready to protect themselves monsters, they destroy the lives of children.

[@yvonnechawatama1326]

The fact that she's still believe in God after what happened to her Respect 🙏 May God continue to bless you 🙏 ❤️ you deserve whatever you want in life

[@millymashile]

Thank you for sharing your story Zizo. I’m so sorry for what you had to go through. Wishing you all the best with your book ❤ You are destined for greatness

[@zizoizabelozamapleni7221]

Thank you so much ❤

[@zamanxumalo8415]

Can I also share my story of a car accident that left me paralayzed?

[@jabuphakathi37]

@@zamanxumalo8415 yes please

[@teijaflink2226]

Hope she gets lots of support from the book.

[@ofentsematlala06]

I’m watching this episode with tears rolling down my face because rape on its own is a very sensitive topic to me because til this day no one knows what happened to me, it haunts me so much💔. I can’t wait to share my story too

[@makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485]

Sending healing and love

[@Lebo-Aaliyah]

I wish you the strength and courage to speak your truth.

[@natashamanirambona9764]

Know that feeling love it destroyed my life

[@zikomokaliwo4977]

i like how you two coordinate when interviewing, i like the orderly flow of questions. keep it up. All the best as the channel grows

[@SisLinaM]

I know this girl, her story touched a lot of people. She is teaching us about the importance of Forgiveness 🙌❤️

[@StarDaughterOfZionDube]

Thank you for sharing, I’m speechless, God is definitely a father to the fatherless , no one could survive such without Jesus 💙 Im loving the way your doing the podcasts now 👏🏽

[@pittynessorchikumbi3337]

Such a strong woman 😭❤️❤️ I’m so sorry this happened to you… I wish you never had to go through that terrible experience 😭😭😭 Your positivity & strength is so admirable ❤️❤️

[@sassyx2048]

First time watchiing this just stumbled uppn it. Im reallg glad that these stories are now energing from Africa. Child Abuse does not discriminate its prevalent in African countries but has been taboo to speak about this. But thid slowly changing. With brave women like this beatiful Queen who shared her story. Im so proud she has come through on the other side, She reclaimed her power, she shared her story in a book form that will encourage many other Women in Africa and beyond to speak their truth. God has blessed you with a god fearing man and children Im so happy for you. Thanks to the lovely ladies who came with sensitivity and Compassion in their interview style.

[@tarndiem03]

sigh,...I cried, your story touched me, I dont know the pain you went through but I can see from your eyes that it was the worst.. I am so sorry mama you did not deserve that. I am soo happy you found yourself someone who loves you regardless of what happened. I wish you all the good things in life. I really wish I could read your story, I want to gain a deeper understanding of the survivor's experience, learning about the psychological impact of trauma, or simply being interested in your story it really touched me.

[@tsundzukaniconstancemalule4125]

Lets give it for Millicent and Innocent 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼your interviewing skilss👏🏼👏🏼and you compliment each other so well!! Had to make sure I dont skip ads to show my appreciation for this talent!! What a powerful story also♥️♥️👏🏼👏🏼

[@centtwinz]

Thank you so much, we appreciate you.

[@bmolefi5molefi761]

I thank God for your strength🙏😢 I'm still a coward to say something even today. Thanks for the interview beautiful ladies 😍 😍

[@simplyandrandomlysane8208]

The reason I'd like to read this book is because I'm afraid.... I'm afraid of something like this happening to MY daughter. She's only 6 months old and I think about this almost every day... To a point where I think I'm being unfair to her dad(who loves her so so much) and other male relatives and maybe, I need to loosen up. However, I realize that I need to voice it out so they know that should someone ever do something similar, ngofela kuyena and that I expect them to be her protectors ... Like, angazi man but there's that.

[@zamambhele242]

I understand ur fear, maybe get help through therapists or psychologist to help u manage ur fear, and also hold on tight to ur faith it helps a lot to shut down the fear coz the enemy thrives on fear and it might manifest in ur life eventually if u don’t get help 🙏

[@simplyandrandomlysane8208]

@@zamambhele242 I hear you mama ❤️

[@teijaflink2226]

Totally understandable fear as we constantly specially hear about men committing these types of disgusting crimes with no remorse. But if you really know your husband and he is a good, empathethic man I really don't think you have to fear, I feel it's more a risk with mothers who are blind and make excuses for their men bad behavior and who rather take their husbands than their childs side. I would still be careful with men I don't know well. Good people who understand empathy are extremely unlikely to commit crimes like this to innocent children (even if the person might have an attraction to children), though some can actually empathy very, that's scary

[@munzhedzimashige5932]

I have been watching these types of stories lately and in all of them it happened when the girls started living with their dads. Im going to live with my children. No matter what happens. Im going to be very vigilant. I grew up in a household with uncles and my grandmother always told me to tell her if my uncles tried to touch me inappropriately, I didnt understand at that age but now i understand that she was trying to protect me.

[@SisLinaM]

We were signing a petition just two weeks ago because a former teacher abused school kids and his wife..These perverts are protected because they are known and mostly principals protects them. Yhoo bethuna I cringe thinking about this.. may God heal you Zizo baby and thank CentTwins Tv🙌🙌

[@nthabisengfaneke8453]

I want the book because i have grown up not knowing my biological parents . Raised by my grandparents . This book would help me because one day I would publish my book in how I over came the difficult situations that I have faced even now I'm facing some issues . Me getting this book it would really assist me not to give up regardless of my story . I cannot allow my pain to define me . Big up to milly and inno the way you guys handle the interview may God opened doors for your all love your all.

[@Mimik70-w3t]

This man should not be left. The other girls that he mollested need to get justice. He need to be re arrested. Our community are the problem, defending a rapist and a child molester.

[@teijaflink2226]

He's dangerous to the society honestly and needs to be locked up, he made a little girl pregnant and that poor girl didn't even understand what was happening, absolutely horrifying the trauma he must have caused to who knows how many kids.

[@SamaNyags]

heart broken . i want the book it gives me strength knowing that what ever it might be you will overcome. been through the most too but different story it also centers around forgiving people who hurt you the most. thank you Centtwinz tv🥰🥰

[@deeake6940]

The maturity and wisdom in Zizo is remarkable 🙏🏽 may God continue to bless you abundantly. The stunning Centtwinz what a beautiful collaboration.

[@summerautumn7507]

5 years in prison for raping a child.....God we need you.

[@teijaflink2226]

And zero remorse, how can some be so evil towards innocent children.

[@andisiwemcasa7360]

Jesus, I never cried so much… people are so evil how can your father do this to you? Guys why would God allow such painful experiences in our lives 😓 sending you so much love and light Zizo🙏❤️

[@coachpontshomashile3900]

I trust that all women, young girls and boys that are abused find justice whatever form it comes in...Zizo be unto you

[@siphililemoyo5712]

Surely God's plans for us are for good and not evil, thank you Zizo for sharing your story, and may you experience the peace of God ALWAYS...YOU ARE A STRONG WOMAN

[@melodychiringa290]

This story touched my heart even in Zimbabwe there are so many people that they rapped by there fathers and relatives they were afraid to report to the police those relatives they were telling them that if u tell anyone will kill u

[@lufefemapoma9954]

Sad to hear, I have always viewed Zimbabweans as more humane, more ethical than the people living in the devil's playground i.e South Africa.

[@zikomokaliwo4977]

Hello, i would be happy if i got the book because i am a teacher and would use it to make my students aware of rape, and for those that might have gone through it already, it would be helpful for them to heal.

[@irenenajjingo8756]

Thank you 💕 for sharing and helping girls out there to know no one should ever touch you. 7 years is so young. 😢

[@GospelTruthss]

Yooooh! Such a brave person you are Zizo. May the Lord be with you as you continue to share your story and impact lives. Lots of love

[@wpp1586]

It was very authentic for me.when it was just someone telling their story without the questions nor an interview kinda setting, it will take getting use to.peace to you sisi.

[@aliyahamalia3840]

This is also what happened to me. My own father took my innocence at the age of 8 - 12. He was a teacher and raped my Mom while she was a learner/primary School student. So, I am also a result of rape.

[@lindiwedumane4439]

We need more of this content......thank you centtwin may God bless you

[@LethoHali]

It’s appalling that she still lives in fear of this monster!!! He should’ve rot in prison!

[@TRO175]

So sorry to Zizo for what she went through 💞and congratulations for the book, God always knew you would be OK one day. Thank you beautiful ladies for this Podcast❤

[@zizoizabelozamapleni7221]

Thank you❤

[@TRO175]

@@zizoizabelozamapleni7221🧡

[@makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485]

Sending prayers and healing to everyone who is not brave enough like zizo.

[@dimakatsolesane1876]

This is very sad especially being done by your dad.Truly God strengthens and changes situations 🙏

[@samukelomadide797]

Syabonga twinnies, we should swe these in tv's not these uneducational content we consume weekly

[@nomthandazomsenga2948]

Heart breaking , Such a strong woman

[@victoriezaire3335]

Her father is supposed to be her first Love ❤ thank you mommy inno and Milley for sharing these stories and I learn alot from it

[@merciamolekoa8799]

How do you forgive? I've been struggling with that😢 and my dad was a man of God, I also fell pregnant.

[@ngwaletau4343]

I'm really sorry for what you went through. Try to find someone you can trust.. or an elder at church that your father respect..

[@Rock_my_crown]

My daughter was raped by her cousins brother and now the family is protecting this cousin brother..Pls help.

[@tmi530]

please report it to the police, there must be justice for your daughter

[@Rock_my_crown]

@@tmi530 the case was opened and the police are dragging their fit.. just waiting

[@tmi530]

Now i believe that our state is a failed state!!we are not protected, wish you all the best ma'am, God will help in ensuring justice is served

[@teijaflink2226]

Of course, why do family always seem to protect the rapist and shun the victim? Makes me mad.

[@Nzaloyenkosi.M]

Wow, what an amazing episode 🥰🥰 Very inspiring. My team and I have recently started an initiative that is called " Brokenness saved me" The initiative focuses on mending broken relationships ( marriage, families, friends, ministry etc.) And that is through pointing one to Christ having had also go through his own share of brokenness so he can redeem us. In the same manner our brokenness can help redeem another. With that said and done may i kindly request the copy of the book 🙏😅

[@khosiroyalhighness4965]

I would like to win a copy of book, because I have gone through something similar. I also was raped by my step father for years. I think the book might help me put things into perspective and be comforted. For me to get the book you'd have to send it to protea Glen mall pep. 🙏

[@makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485]

Sending love and prayers for healing

[@rosehlatshwayo7238]

Thanks for sharing the story, may God continue to heal you & bless you.🙏🙏

[@samukelisiwembhele5691]

She is such an amazing young lady. Thank you for sharing your story. Just wanted to ask if she still has the child from the pregnancy?

[@starlight7739]

This is painful for a little girl to live through thus father should be in jail forgiveness or not😢

[@alinahjeleni7048]

He's a danger to the society 😭😭😭

[@teijaflink2226]

Unfortunately people like this rarely get longer sentences, he definitely sounds like a danger still as he's not showing real remorse.

[@SuzetteKhiba]

I'm so sorry for what you went through, but so glad that you've healed and have most importantly have found true love... but I really still fail to understand how he was sentenced to so such few years for rape?

[@pukupie5027]

Hence I trust no one with my baby girl. No one!!

[@simplyandrandomlysane8208]

Same 😭😭

[@zamambhele242]

I got only boys I don trust no one with them as well

[@owethusilinga6101]

Yhoooooooo we read this book at home kanti we know this man 💔💔💔💔 Mntase I hope you are healing♥️

[@zizoizabelozamapleni7221]

Healing mntase, things are good this side😊

[@misssepayne9202]

Your interviewing skills guys 👏😍👌 impressive 😊

[@thatovanessa4545]

For me after I heard the story of sis ipfi I don't want but need the book to help me as a young women in order that I will be able to empower other young women our there with her story and I say I love her bravery and indeed God's has a purpose for each and everyone of us and no situation can take that away from us. 😢

[@thatovanessa4545]

@CENTTWINZTV2 😃😃😃 really 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳I am very much happy and I can't wait to have it in my hands, thank you so much.

[@tshiamomahape292]

Am out of words, like such monsters are living with us in communities and we still shy away from talking about such topics. We honestly need to talk more about this and educate our kids better make them aware of such vultures, put a name to it from a young age for both girls and world

[@tshiamomahape292]

@CENTTWINZTV2 Thank you very much am beyond humbled

[@teijaflink2226]

Exactly, sadly we have to warn out children and teach them how to protect themselves. Specially extremely important to tell your children that they should always tell you, that they are safe and you will believe and to tell even if the perpetrators tries to manipulate or scare them from telling, that they are lying. So important to be able to talk with your children about difficult, dark topics too (at their level) and to not shame and scare them.

[@zaneleshabalala1464]

I love to watch the show but please add volume to the guests mic..they sound very far. thanks

[@favourk8705]

I feel like what the father did must not be justified using God" I think God didn't want it to come out " , what he did its wrong, it shouldn't have happened at all.

[@pontshobetty-kk9go]

Ur story it's so sad😢 thanks for sharing it i want that book where to get it

[@dimakatsoM]

It's so touching to hear people speak about their story without any fear.. she is brave girl Can I please have the copy reason being I went thru the same thing but by some people I knew and kept it secret all because I didn't know what was happening at the same time I knew what was happening. My family don't know about it and wish I could tell my story I still need healing

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Hugs dearie

[@HappyHappiness-b9m]

The power of forgiveness 🙏 💕💋m so touched

[@misssepayne9202]

My goodness 🥺💔🤦 yoooo,you've been through the most Sisi I'm so sorry hay💔

[@ChifundoNowa]

failing to access her book online,where can we find it?

[@zamambhele242]

What is the name of the book and where can we get it from ?

[@NalediGoldinah]

Dont feel bad about writing the book or telling your story, if your father really felt remorseful he would not even care about how you decide to go about your healing journey. Keep talking girl,kee healing the world.

[@nthabimabuza1031]

Thank you Zi for telling us your story im so happy you find love from your partner ❤Go big Zi God blessed you 🙏😇✌

[@priscillasabi8325]

Shuu..i love how everything turned out for Zizo..thank you for sharing your story also i hear she spoke about her girls,,,does it mean she kept the baby?

[@zizoizabelozamapleni7221]

I had a miscarriage sis

[@BeingMelony]

@@zizoizabelozamapleni7221 I am so sorry my Queen, truly am. I love you

[@yasmeenmbawana6667]

I always try to pay attention to the twins podcast. Often the background ambient sound is very distracting, can you guys just have a conversation without that sound its very distracting, its the second time i watch till the end while disturbed by this sound playing throughout the podcast, other times when i heard this sound, id stop watching.

[@Christianconnecion]

Dear Lord 🙏 pls help me overcome this pain I feel about this story. It brings me fear for my daughter God pls help women also out there to blv that there are still good men out there's pls Lord. I pray in the mighty name of Jesus Christ 🙏😭 Amen..

[@miss_teetee8265]

Wow may God continue healing Zizo such a beautiful soul she is 👌

[@NamhlaLingani-tk6uu]

It was about time! Read her book.

[@priscillasabi8325]

Thanks!

[@makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485]

I love the fact that zozi believes that god exist. Time heal everything. I love u zozi

[@risunamathebula8129]

Zizo your story make me 😢😢😢 sorry sisi for what happened to you wishing you the best of your life may god be with you always 💓 💓 hun 💞💞 huge 🤗🕊️🕊️🕊️💕💖🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

[@prettyleremi9748]

I am crying 😢as I watch this episode because am far away from my children n I can't protect them😢😢

[@mayowaoyedokun9828]

Always check on them physically. If not possible at all, call , use videos. Make friends with them

[@nomathamsanqamatai7549]

I'm so sorry

[@ThabisaNjenjesi-ib6pk]

😭😭😭😭😭😭YAH NEH LIFE!!!!!

[@angelcele950]

I heard her story when I was in grade 8 on the radio

[@khomotsolegodi6927]

That man must go back to jail.. because he will continue to do these to other young girls.. Wow!Our justice though!😢

[@zamanxumalo8415]

How does one get to tell their story?do we email or something?

[@centtwinz]

yes email [e-mail]

[@ndagebs6092]

Obviously, one on the father's 🎉or mother's in the lineage has gone through the same. The scripture is TRUE on saying, "Our fathers have sined and we bear our iniquities"

[@GaviNkuna]

Hey centtwinz,I would really like this book.🥺

[@kamomagaret5169]

I couldn't finish this,my heart is so broken 💔

[@zama_mandisa]

The book is called My Father took away my innocent

[@portiamafokwane]

Where can we get the book

[@zinhledludla6674]

Im literally in Tears 😭😭😭😭

[@hendrinahaikwiyu8149]

Where are those school girls that he took advantage of.... i wish they could come out to speak about the pedophile teacher

[@lekgatlanehellenmoshidi62]

This is heartbreaking 😭😭

[@thapelopetja3420]

The man is out as we speak? Wow...like out out out ?

[@khodanimavhungu6079]

This podcast is so painful to finish 😔😭

[@nkulieblose7604]

His family💔

[@patiencesadzauchi-tf1zc]

Zizo ur story is so heart breaking bt u survived. It's a woke up cal to all mothers don't trust man when it cmz to a girl child. Pple are rotten to the core out there. And also I feel like the justice system has failed ths young girl. The man is evil ws suppose to spend the rest of hs life in prison. The man is rotten to the core sleeping with ur own blood child yeses. To the twins thank u fr the interview u are doing a gd job

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Even for boys. The days are evil.

[@victoriezaire3335]

I am so interested in the book I hope I can get it

[@ivymweemba2749]

Where can I purchase the book? Am in zambia

[@boitshokobuthelezi8469]

So sorry Zizo, you’re so brave

[@MmapiElizabeth]

This is just so sad what this man is doing he's evil😢😢😢😢

[@amandachungwa1867]

Ohh Zizo 💔

[@nonkqubelamtintso8684]

She was pregnant 🫃 & now where is the child? I didn’t get that one

[@gugulethucebekhulu8602]

She had a miscarriage, she mentioned it in another interview that I listened to. He was abusive to his wife and she left him and that's when he started raping her

[@priscillasabi8325]

I also missed that part hey

[@tintswalomabasa565]

​@@gugulethucebekhulu8602Thanks for replying, I was also wondering and asking myself where is the child she conceived through her father's rape.

[@dinahpole7699]

​@@gugulethucebekhulu8602 Thank you Gugu for answering as I asked as well

[@ntandokazi5587]

If you are pregnant through incense you're allowed to abort doesn't matter how far you are She might have done that

[@mmkhanyile1954]

Where is Zizo's child????

[@MpontshengAntonia]

Where is the child now

[@margaretodonkor4747]

His relatives are equally wicked...

[@pittynessorchikumbi3337]

💯💯💯

[@mapuseletsomareka4385]

Sorry girl's ❤

[@phofolomotaung8238]

Title of the book please

[@yomie7026]

You're a bigger person, Zizo. Mna, I would have killed him

[@motswedimodise8359]

Same shame 🤞

[@nbee6217]

🤞🏽

[@unlockwiththandomaumela]

But this story 😢😢Yooh so painful

[@destimonialottering4492]

WOW God bless you dear 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@margaretodonkor4747]

He is a monster and deserves the punishment he got. May the lord heal her wholly.

[@pequeninajose2735]

sad story