Raped by my Father | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 26 | Season 2

A young woman shares a traumatic experience she's encountered with a person she concered to be her father
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[@blessingmabaso2172]

I'm a father of 2 girls, listening to this young lady it tears me apart. Who would do that to her own daughter??? And then denys it. Your father is a sick man, actually a sick animal. All rapist should receive a hush penalty, cut ithat pipi off to teach the rest of them a lesson. God is great, He will never forsake you nor leave and loves you. Keep your head up never stop fighting. 🙏🙏

[@woutervanlent5181]

Isn't this proof that there is no " almighty god " at all ? The same " almighty god " who let a lot of African children die of hunger and no white once ? If I were a father of a white child and a black child , I would protect and feed them both !

[@tanyaphilippe2208]

He is sick!!!!!

[@penelopebeadle631]

So sorry my dear.The penalty given to your father or any man that does that is castration. Making an exa.e of all fathers and men that does that.I am so proud of u young later.Others will be able to come forward by ur story.God got u.U are an angel.Again am so sorry and i❤u.

[@ANDREWBENNY]

I just could not believe this evil done by a father. What is this?

[@nsengimanatheodette5774]

😢😢😢honestly 😂😂

[@kikataye6293]

My grandfather did this to my mother from 6-12 years old. It made her non emotional, non nurturing and cold growing up. It also made her fear men, including any abusive one. We still have a difficult relationship to this day. You are a courageous woman for telling your story. God bless

[@nenesibanda4171]

Let your mom watch this and be with her as she probably replays the moments in her head.

[@thina5918]

Please be supportive to your mother and try to get her therapy. It’s not too late.

[@laurenw.9176]

Try to work with your mom since you know her fight. God Bless you both.

[@tracyinja7004]

Last generation women went through it a lot and never got help.

[@prasenjeetupadhyaya6762]

My story is quite different

[@nkosingivilekhoza3398]

Thank God I was brought up by my father and for years we were left alone but the devil of rape never visited him. I thank God for that 🙏🏽👏🏽

[@sibongilemoema9679]

Me too hey. I stayed with him for 5 years. I'm so greatful for him. People are monsters yeerrrr

[@beyond_9-5_dreams]

As for the devil of rape though

[@pamelazingisa4448]

A devil of rape indeed

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN, I thank God 4 my Great uncle help raising me up n caring for me, he was a #MAN after God's Own heart, A man of #INTEGRITY N #HREAT CHARACTER 🎉

[@Fatuma-ff4tl]

Thank God.

[@kepaletswemoagi3455]

As a mother I'm helpless after listening to this. I'm so heartbroken. She's such a strong young woman. Truly so forgiving is healing. Stay strong girl

[@antoinettefullerjohnson6143]

Wow she is a strong young lady so proud of her i couldn't imagine My dad doing that to me thank you for sharing

[@rosebanda3613]

🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@lornadixon7839]

Sickness predator

[@vedanelson8022]

He is a sick preditcer .Girl ylu are so strong.

[@moonwillow9able]

Zizo has been so brave and courageous, and she spoke about her ordeal with such childlike innocence and grace...May the Lord bless her for ever!

[@elizafastidio6123]

God will bless you ur past is not good but in everything that happened has a purpose.

[@abaaba3257]

Amen and you too 🙏🏻

[@abaaba3257]

@@elizafastidio6123 Right

[@patjones1730]

This is so discussing that a father could do to his child

[@queen-ke6df]

With all that been said an done he would have to keep his distant and i will put the matter in Gods hands

[@elizabethbrown8491]

The man that was suppose to be your protector, was a predator. This is sickening and heartbreaking.

[@bibizeeboohoo741]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@marcelledowridge3468]

Sz3rr

[@dannypeter1806]

The thing dey sweet the girl I swear😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@adeolaoke4165]

It’s usually trusted people

[@peacebestill9722]

@@dannypeter1806 must you run your mouth carelessly at r*pe victims..? Ode osi..

[@therapistMAG]

In my country Cameroon, victims of rape like myself are blamed. What were you wearing they go? What were you doing there in the first place? Blablabla... What was this 7 year old child wearing I beg you? Was that not her father's house where she should have been so protected and not utterly violated? God is good. So so much love and healing Ms Zizo...and I guess those who gave thumbs down are perpetrators or those rape enablers and victim shamers

[@user-um6mm9cp4s]

South Africa also started the with those crazy questions bot thank God we've progressed from there❤

[@letyfoster2421]

Such great interviewer, she asks the wright questions, listens, let’s the victim talk and shows sympathy

[@vongairosemarymutebuka9423]

Relebogile is an Iron Woman. Strong. I just love her. The way she unpacks these issues hmmmm...much respect from Zimbabwe

[@elizabethmuzanenhamo3371]

Q

[@liliantendere9197]

My sister

[@thembamkhize3779]

She doesn't do interviews bt conversations

[@shamisomakuvaro9393]

This world is so full of evil imagine a daddy doing that to his daughter.Thats why he chased his wife so that he could have her to himself crazy pyschopathy.

[@rosejurgen4292]

But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address [e-mail] website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/

[@tebogomaupa_]

She’s healed and this is so refreshing . 🥺

[@oliviajimenez7327]

Hola me sorprende que en Africa abusen de sus hijos pienso que la ley deberia ser m'as sebera méterlos en la carsel las madres deberian éducar ha sus.hijos sobre el peligro sexualité.gracias por el vidéo.hasta.pronto

[@the_chill_wildlife5177]

I was raped from the time I was 4 until 16 I ended up getting pregnant between 11 and 12 years old but I don't know if it was my stepfather or step brother... By the time my mom's marriage to my stepfather was over he had passed away and my step brother was gone... I was placed in an institute because I was lying about it.. moms and dads, if your children tell you that they're being raped please look into it. I'm in my 40s and I still have nightmares. When your little like that, and you hope there's someone to help you, and no one believes you ,It just tells you that you're not worth it . I no longer have anything to do with my family.

[@shirleymurray1714]

Hi, I have a story to, but prefer not to talk about’ because I would be mad with my mother who I love so dearly, but I’m so sorry to hear that your mother and father do not believe you got molested by step, father or step bother, what a shame that some mothers don’t believe their own child or children smh that sick to me, please hang in their GOD got you in him hand so don’t you blame yourself or believe it over because GOD got the last word okay young strong lady ❤️😊👍🏽

[@rfb915]

😢😢😢 It wasn't by my father however the pain of molestation still affects me and I am in my '60's! Shameful on these dirty dick men!!! Just shameful!

[@thembekaportia1561]

I'm sorry. Please pray and take care.

[@boitumelomathibela5174]

😢

[@boitumelomathibela5174]

I'm so sad for you . Let Fe was stolen from you

[@senceriacruse4943]

I am so sorry she went through this. I too was molested 47 years ago though by a grandfather, uncle, 2 brothers, and teachers aid. I forgave a long time ago. Nobody was taken to court I was sent to VA to live with my mom but my grandma didn't believe me and a bad decision in who to take me. What they went through because of their sin was bad enough. My brother who is 61 apologize 2 years ago and is a minister now . Most are grandfather and uncle. Seem like others have been violated when we were young. I learned that from a cousin. Having a relationship with God makes all the difference. God bless you and your family!

[@relebogilemabotja215]

❤️

[@MaribelMaldonado-yy6dx]

Yeah you say he is a minister I had a minister his name is John Rosa and he touched his own daughter ministers do it too

[@khoimkhwanazimusic3504]

​@@kirstiehiorns618 ask that again

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, I #Agree, I was molested at the age of #7/#8 by an older Male cousin age #15/#16🎉

[@user-bb6ju7or6y]

😢😢😢

[@sim3663]

💔💔 went to school with uZizo, she had so much positive energy around her, you would never think she went through such. You are so brave Zizo

[@karlmakinda5805]

She is obviously courageous. So pleasant, too!

[@jacquelinehenriques2106]

Girl you are so beautiful I really appreciate you coming out and let everyone know what was going on

[@jacquelinehenriques2106]

He should get life imprisonment

[@glenettelambert4428]

I'm so sorry. Thats Very sad. No one should have to go through that.

[@mollympahane8262]

Many of us went through this and we couldn't report them

[@karlenenation1941]

So proud of this young lady for speaking out! She is a brave, courageous young lady!

[@hsuniquecrochetaccessories9532]

Yes very brave

[@ZakiyyahAMcGee]

God bless and keep you and may you gain strength and your faith and trust in God continue to keep you victorious.😢

[@MakaZama]

I’m soo proud of the mother she handled this soo well.

[@veronastrauss8949]

Bringing back memories, late 70's one of our neighbours was caught out,had 4 kids with his daughter. And another case the wife passed away,leaving hubby with 5 daughters,their father treated them as his wife's kids were born until one confided in her teacher,he was sentenced to 25 years.

[@Megan_Kgwadi]

25 years is a small price to pay for such atrocities

[@unapologeticella4540]

25 yrs is not enough for these demons

[@pamelazingisa4448]

He deserves life sentence without parole yoh

[@tlhologelomakotanyane427]

What i learned from this is that Parents needs to start teaching their children about these things at a very young age, sit down with your 5/6 years old girl or boy and explain to her or him these things, It doesn't have to be as deep but just let them know that no one must touch you there and there or do this to you it is wrong and you must come and tell me. It pained that Zizo didn't know that what her dad was doing is wrong. It was a great yet painful interview to watch. Strong to you Zizo, you are very beautiful.

[@leaj3359]

Yeah

[@vgraham9597]

Girl my heart bleeds for you, for you to go through this for such a long time God was watching you only he couldn't come down to take you out of the situation. But you know what he did he make your mind blank so you could not understand the impact of what you were going through and heal when the time was right bless the Lord 🙏🙏💖 stay strong

[@tashatash1986]

So true!!

[@tashatash1986]

It could have been avoided but we are not perfect and make mistakes, may we learn F r on this unfortunate situation. Knowledge and understanding should be imparted in our children early... in order to protect them for their own good.

[@tlhologelomakotanyane427]

@@tashatash1986 very true and i concur

[@OscarineMlisana]

This is hurting to listen to, remain strong bby girl,watching from the UK, 🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

So hurting indeed 💔💔💔

[@jennycampbell989]

Yes I’m hurting for her,from the Uk,God Bless and keep her strong,her father will get his comeuppance..he wasn’t man enough to to speak the truth.....

[@neveragetv]

Sad

[@BukelwaNjokweni]

yes its true

[@shariffagrant9224]

Commenting from Jamaica this story from this strong beautiful young lady touch my heart I appreciate the fact that her mom believe her mothers always listen to your kids put them first

[@deloresgupton3567]

Thank you for this segment! The young lady’s story is is the same as mine! She is so brave and I pray that God continues to keep and protect her. My adopted father is deceased but as an adult I was able to confront him and make peace with myself. I too went to therapy. I don’t think I would have been able to deal with the emotions! To anyone reading this , if you have or know anyone who has experienced rape encouragement is needed! You will be ok, continue to strive to forgive because it really does free you!

[@judiththompson2260]

Devils advocate

[@NumeloChulu-pf5me]

Thanks so much young lady, to me I think just surrender that problem to JESUS CHRIST, that he can restore your strength, forgive him and forget about it let it be to him and God

[@pauletteneo8682]

This was so heartbreaking 😭.. There is actually a lady from our village that this happened to... But her mother didn't want her to press charges...said to her what are they going to eat😭😭😭. .. At least now he is in Jail. Thank you Ausi Lebo for the amazing platform.

[@cebo_9998]

😭😭😭😭

[@silindilewitness943]

😭😭😭

[@thabisokhumalo6516]

The mother is sick for that

[@elizabethgamlashe674]

I had a similar experience with my stepdad. I think it started when I was in grade 2 or 3 and stopped in grade 4 when one morning my mom found him on top of me. Even this day I don’t understand why he was not arrested or why mom stayed married and still had more kids with this man. Then I saw no problem - I wasn’t bothered. He’d give me money to go buy sweets with friends. Today I’m 29, turning 30 next month and the thought of it now that I understand better - I know exactly what was happening, it’s messing up with me every day. Thank you for sharing, it burdens me less to see people claiming back their dignity - I’ve also gained courage to talk about it.

[@ndalamamashabele5956]

Im truely sorry for your experience sesi❤

[@balungilehlanganiso7441]

I’m so sorry Liz❤️

[@tshepisomorobi659]

I'm so sorry my beautiful lady Elizabeth and Almighty provide you with more strength in reclaiming your dignity.

[@lungeleniconstance3729]

Hmmm sorry dear

[@regaliam5685]

Wishing you strength and blessings.you've been through alot and you didn't deserve what happened to you.

[@nontsikelelokhasu5257]

This is really heartbreaking. I hope you continue to find healing and give courage to other girls who have experienced this trauma.

[@swazi4769]

It took quite a while to get the courage to watch this. Zizo is so strong. Oh Nkosi yam thank you for her healing.

[@andybizzle4376]

Me too 🥺🥺

[@sinazomgali7255]

Zizo's story is heartbreaking, we really live in a sick world. Love and light to her. Please buy her books guys, she goes further into detail there.❤

[@Liz-up2ti]

Not me crying like it happened to me, she is such a strong soul.. Bless her heart

[@baldwin5510]

❤❤

[@estherkhalo4397]

Yoh I'm bawling like a baby at work, this poor girl

[@thembekahadebe8122]

I'm so sorry sisi 😭

[@tiki-kut7494]

Same.

[@rosejurgen4292]

But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address [e-mail] website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/

[@yvjacob7723]

I remember reading her book. I actually own a copy. I literally cried. Its painful yhuuu the pain I went through reading it. Worse I know of most places mentioned since am from idutywa. I recommend you guys get a copy , not a reader but the story captured me from beginning to end.

[@lisanyathi8990]

What is the name of the book?

[@junic2794]

Please am in Dubai how can I get her book about her story of rape😢

[@JamesBowa-uk9or]

He is mad

[@pldilliner9490]

An amazing story of forgiveness and moving forward. This girl’s wisdom & maturity is a firm lesson to us; may she be so honored for her strength & truth. 🌺🙏Lei

[@noreenm5018]

Uncontrollable tears in my eyes. Thanks God for your continuous healing Zizo ,

[@kgaogelokekana5595]

This story is soooo similar to mine, except it wasn't my father,but a neighbor, and he was a complete narcissistic psychopath when we sat down for the vod (victim offender dialogue)! Blamed he's behavior o n the devil and alcohol! Fortunately he's serving life! I was only 9 when it happened, but Im in my 30s now and totally at peace with it!

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Kgaogelo I'm so sorry my darling sending you love, hugs 💕💕

[@chipokandemiirichiguri6007]

Hugs to you Kgaogelo. Im happy you are now at peace with it.

[@NaadiraSsali]

God bless you and hold you

[@brightdays555]

Blessings for you for wonderful ❤ life for rest of your days my dear

[@jabulilenhlapo1592]

Am so sorry it happened to you

[@jaiyaalexandra144]

This is a warning to the mothers not to treat your children like a sack of potatoes that you pass from relative to relative. You need to be vigilant and trust no one.

[@judyvermagondu6212]

My heart breaks for you

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

[@sandie4yeshua]

My sister, you are FREE emotionally and physically. Your courage to speak has touched more people than you would ever know. God bless you 🇬🇧 ❤️

[@masmodiba]

I can't imagine how many more women are going through this. This is heartbreaking 😫💔

[@chirologypalmistry]

yes so heartbreakingly tragic

[@kwerfr]

Went through it. my daughter is now 24. I was 14 when I gave birth. I haven’t seen my dad in 24 years

[@masmodiba]

@@kwerfr You're two years younger than me 😫 You seem sooo strong. I'm sorry for what you went through 😭💔💔 No one deserves that

[@bcaiqs]

@@kwerfr I’m so sorry

[@malambamasindi4428]

@@chirologypalmistry utterly utterly

[@ireadwhatilike1967]

This show is powerful! A game changer. These discussions are overdue and so important. Zizo is a formidable force ❤

[@stizo3066]

Agreed 100%. This is needed definitely

[@catherinebergeron3819]

Zizo , you are such a warrior and I admire your courage and determination to be a light for others that are in a dark place maybe still dealing with sexual abuse . There needs to be more open conversations about this and laws involving statutes need to be changed so that more perpetrators can be prosecuted regardless of when the abuse occurred . Parents who allow this sort of thing to go on or sweep it under the rug need to be held accountable!

[@dr.gogobathinimbathatv]

This is heart breaking. As much as she went through a lot... And I'm also happy that she is so honest.

[@bcaiqs]

These stories are being exposed in Nigeria as well . All gaining over 500k in less than 1 month . It is an epidemic in Africa and abroad . I hope more people talk talk about this . When you go through it you think it is normal because you would never think your own father would do something harmful to you

[@colettemcguire608]

Very sad that your father will do something like that. Very sick man.

[@amazingfluentenglishusedth2222]

So useless type of a kind of a father

[@larrywells8289]

⅞tut⅝

[@dipuomanyike194]

😭😭😭

[@mahlatsemokgwatsana4957]

I don't trust any1 with my daughter and my sons😭😭😭

[@geoffreyamisi614]

Kumbavu ulipata pekee yako ama na mwanaume

[@zoraxye4325]

you are right and this mistrust may keep her safe throughout her childhood.

[@sbonzama7013]

That is very silly. You are part of the problem!

[@mahlatsemokgwatsana4957]

@@sbonzama7013 part of the problem how... Uyagula wena

[@rakabum5964]

Very true, this world is full of cruel people. The records of kids being raped by their family members, care givers and relatives are many than strangers. So this story and many more should be an eye opener and a watch out.

[@gontsephaloane1530]

I have lived with my father for most of my life. And I cannot imagine how damaging it would be to me mentally if he would rape me. Shout out to loving, single fathers out there, that treat their daughters with love and care, genuine love and care.

[@thatoscott6016]

True I also stayed with my father from 7yrs till 25 yrs when I got married.

[@malinda1299]

I stayed with my dad since I was young!he was such sweetest nicest loving father!I miss him😞!rest in peace Dad!!

[@gontsephaloane1530]

@@malinda1299 ŕest in peace to him. Condolences to you

[@tinaanderson200]

Yes, I was told that its very common in African country's smh also in the B.C.

[@chandatrevorchisanga6196]

@@tinaanderson200 silly may I be the one to tell you that it's not common 😏😏

[@mzomanci6322]

This young lady is very forgiving and she has a super mom.

[@cecemadison3921]

This happens more often than we think😢 it recently happens within my family, my cousin husband was sleeping with their daughter he got her pregnant and took her for abortion right here in America, my cousin is still with her husband now she has sent their daughter to go-lives with another family member. my cousin told me her daughter told her it started when she was 14 years old but this lady is still with this man😢 and she stayed had more kids for him this happened a lot in African households.

[@stayblackbaby2587]

Wtf still with the devil

[@Nicole-og6df]

Why tf did she stay with him??? 😕

[@samanthabrown5853]

What kind of mother is that? I hope the daughter presses charges. She's had more children, what if he rapes them?

[@chikarayleigh4534]

I'm in my 30s and I don't know any family where it happened.

[@mykarma2]

@@chikarayleigh4534 It doesn't mean that it didn't happen in your family though. I found out in my sixties that one of my cousin's grandfather was raping her since she was a child and she never told anyone until her grandmother passed away. If she refused he would beat her grandmother and when she got older he threaten to rape her little sister if she didn't agree. That really messed her life up.

[@freckles8932]

This makes me realize how blessed I was to have a dad who wasn't sick in his mind. Coz growing up my mother having left he used to bath me rarely when he saw that I wasn't doing a good job in bathing. He never in any way touched me in an inappropriate way. To imagine that there are plenty women out there who are willing to have sexual partners and he leaves all of them for his 7 yr old daughter? To Zizo I say you are strong and I hope your book will enlighten people and prevent further abuse of such kind. Thank you for coming public about this coz in doing so you are helping a lot of people. May God continue to heal you

[@humbulaniraphunga7442]

My late dad used to bath me and my 2 sisters from a young age because my mom was very sickly most of the time.At some point my mom's family would take her away to take care of her and he would sleep with the 3 of us on their bed whilst she was away and there was never a single day that he touched any of us inappropriately during those baths or those occasions when we slept together in the same bed.May your soul continue to rest in peace Dad ,we now understand just how blessed we were to have you as a father🙏😘

[@phindilemazibuko7508]

I use to share a bed with my late dad till I was a teenager, I was raised by him, never not even on a single day touch me in any inappropriate manner, watching Zizo's story makes me realize how blessed I was to have such a dad. You're very strong Zizo I am sorry for what you went through

[@victoriansindane1062]

@@humbulaniraphunga7442 7

[@shirleymurray1714]

That’s very kind words to her, she needs to hear that😊

[@NinaAnthonyVlogs]

Honestly it's sad, I experienced sexual abuse as a child too. It's sad because almost every girl I know has experienced it. What a world we live in.

[@sanelyfchannel3745]

Strength to you my dear ❤️

[@letashaphillips5883]

Nina may God give you strength.🙏❤️🌼🌼

[@Brezzingtrulife69]

Do sad. I am in my fifties as no still suffering mentally. I pray for every young girls going through any kind of abuse.

[@nenesibanda4171]

Sorry for what happened to you. I hope you are fine.

[@detrajay3165]

Its very sad..I experienced abuse as a child & noone knows til this day

[@shanicewessels54]

You are such a beautiful brave person I commend you for that. My dad is watching tv in the living room and I'm in my room watching this episode. I cannot even imagine my dad doing such a horrible thing to me or any other person. I grew up with three men and not once did I feel unsafe around them, I guess not everyone was blessed with a great father, brother and cousin.

[@christopherchungong4869]

She tell her story with so much grace. Is not in search of words to use or not use in telling her story. What a strong young lady

[@neveragetv]

God., Oh God of mercy.

[@dimakigulah4311]

This is heartbreaking but big ups to the lady. I grew up with my brother's in Lesotho. They were helping me taking a bath. They never in any way made me feel uncomfortable. My brother's were adults but very protective of me. From that age of seven till I went to high school. I love them to this day. Because they was not even a sign of discomfort able. I thank God

[@barbaramabuda9512]

I want a husband from your home-true gentlemen 😘

[@sherondhlamini8713]

same as me, my father used to bath me but i never experience some discomfort or any some form of harassments , a rapist is a rapist this man is sick in his head.

[@juliasephaka8033]

I also grow up in Lesotho from a very young age under my mother's brother's care who had no wife even now as I speak,my uncle loved me so much that sometimes I wonder where he got that courage and love to take care of me from such a tenter age but he did,all I can say is he did more than what my own father couldn't I pray everyday that God must give him whatever his heart desires and also I believe there will be time where I will be able thank him even to take care of him one day when he need help😭😭

[@dimakigulah4311]

We are very blessed indeed. Both my brother's are married and I always pride myself to their children. A young man who would help me bath and put on clothes and school uniform. Am in primary he is in high school already but he is carrying me to school. Drops me off at my classroom and run to his own. After School he would come and see if my friend are going home with me. Then he goes back to his studies and come home very late. To cook for me and make sure my uniform and things are in order. I thank God for my brother's life's. Sometimes I feel like I don't thank them enough.

[@juliasephaka8033]

@@dimakigulah4311 I'm 35 years but I'm still my uncle's little princess even now,when he talks about the hardships and joy of raising me he actually can't stop from laughter it brings him so much happiness although some of my episodes are so embarrassing in a good way though all I can say is I can't thank him enough also for everything he's done for me God must bless him for me

[@thatokammerer2498]

He thought about it. He was methodical! Premeditated! How absolutely disgusting. I don't know if I can finish it. She is absolutely amazing for being able to talk about it.

[@itamatito1944]

So inspired by Zizo. God bless and protect her. Love you so much. Was in tears but her smiles seized them. Thank you

[@tamarandziweni8862]

Mothers please please believe your children when they tell you and not believe your men...

[@margaretmsongweni564]

This is so absurd thank you for sharing. I commend you, you are very strong.

[@karlmakinda5805]

All reports of this nature should be thoroughlly investigated. There is no need to imprison a skunk who has done such natinesss. Removal of the blasted testicles and being fitted with an iron tag with the detailed offence, and being ordered to march twice per day through the ommunity should be enough. Even so, I believe that her father is a sick man. Now could a father have intimate feeling for his daughter? That make no damned sense!

[@muffetroberts6790]

Sad

[@yolisa444]

Jesus and I love u(he loves u so much u could not even fathem). I'm just here to say keep going bc God's got u even if u feel like he doesn't, trust in Him❤ Stay blessed

[@carolynndunge4142]

This is a threat to our children and we must stay informed

[@lebogangmauco8150]

This is actually sad and embarrassing for us as men to think that we can go for such extreme extend for our own selfish reasons and denting even your own child’s future. I hope this opens the eyes of many out there both men and women, these kids needs extra care and attention. Big ups to this strong lady, really applaud her.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Thank you for this comment. There’s so many men that should to see this.

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

Realeboga, for your imput maybe you can also help us how to get this through to other buthis and babas.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Women are always the first on the list when coming to protect perpetrators and patriarchy, I'm not shocked that they went there to support their *boyfriend *

[@jacquamine]

@@stellamooibedi9027 it's so sad, always!

[@sandzz1nce]

I don't know if it's proper to say sorry on behalf of men as my brother is feeling ashamed on our behalf... I know it's dat one man dat committed dis wrong act but I feel de need to tell U dat we are so sorry coz urhuqe igama lethu phansi utatawakho, continue being courageous & be strong sisters

[@Mommyoftwooak]

I am so glad that her mother believed her! That’s huge, specially in black communities.

[@KM-oy5yh]

#ALL RACES HAVE ALOT OF THIS GOING ON, U WOULD BE #SHOCKED WHAT REALLY GO ON BEHIND #CLOSED DOORS 🎉

[@Mommyoftwooak]

@@KM-oy5yh Yeah, that’s a giving boo, I know.

[@KM-oy5yh]

@@Mommyoftwooak ❤️🙏

[@EdwardSovereign]

Zizo you are a strong woman,I've met rape victims they arent free to talk about it as you do and their psychological state changes completely but you sound differently God is indeed with you dear😢

[@lisamutange1337]

What I have learnt from this story is that we need to educate our kids on this things as early as possible and to have an open communication with your kids about what's going on their life and never to trust anyone with your child.....

[@shirleymurray1714]

I always believe that, never trust anybody, With your child.

[@dxzzling_shorts]

​@@shirleymurray1714 I am with you sisters never never never trust anybody for a second

[@Fatuma-ff4tl]

Very true. I don't trust my daughter with anyone at all.

[@vuvulicious41]

Gosh!! I'm traumatized for this young lady. For her own father to violate her and take away her innocence away like that..its so painful! The Gaslighting 😭😭

[@zenabadam5157]

Wow! I applaud and commend your strength, so many are still going through my this and have continued to stay in this sick relationship because they couldn't get anyone to believe them and we're afraid of the stigma that comes with it. Well done.

[@neveragetv]

Ohhhh nooooo...

[@olutobilobataiwo5934]

Her last word about forgiveness is the most touching one for me... She is such a good and strong woman.

[@mandywynn9192]

Wow, what a strong lady. I wish her nothing but the best for the future x

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

Yes and Amen to that 🙏

[@chichipriscilla467]

Sad but this is happing to so many innocent kids being sexually abused by their family members.or being abused by child molesters. I wonder what happens in this man's heads when they are doing this.

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

@@chichipriscilla467 I don't know how to describe my dear what is happening in their minds but hey is discusting what they are doing

[@kudakwashekanombirira961]

Heartbreaking 💔

[@nompumelelomahlangu360]

I was in tears watching this. Am sorry Zizo and to all girls who have been through this trauma.

[@ongeziwerorwana7372]

Zizo is so strong , the fact that she can talk about this without tearing

[@compton8301]

I pray this channel grows and reaches more of us. So much growth and healing. ❤️

[@kennethvolwana7799]

Evil period. How do you even penetrate your own child. Rape is a very sinful thing. Thank you for sharing this. 💔💔💔💯

[@neveragetv]

How on earth...

[@laken1804]

Nasty!

[@carenatingling2909]

God bless this young lady. She speaks so fluent and intelligently. She is such a pleasant soul

[@jeanduncan5614]

Such a strong and beautiful young lady.

[@shemarfmoore9036]

Hello....greeting from here

[@araineacutebrownnurse7315]

This is absolutely heartbreaking! 😢I could not imagine! Lord please continue to heal the beautiful courageous woman

[@shannonwilliams4260]

She's such a beautiful intelligent young woman. I wish her nothing but happiness and success in her life.

[@Mbalings]

Firstly, Relebogile, you’re amazing ❣️ Secondly my heart is in pieces watching this 💔💔 literally sobbing 😭 I just wanna hug her ❣️❣️

[@dannyboi4027]

hi

[@SincerelyPearlM]

Humans keep on disappointing me everyday, everyday☝ Thank you for sharing your story sis❤

[@woutervanlent5181]

During Covid I had a beautiful dream : We humans were all dead , skelletons . Cats & donkeys were walking around .

[@tracycraft2971]

Best show ever!! So empowering!! The host is so elegant and well spoken!! She’s wonderful!!

[@lischentjaveondja9236]

She is beautiful n I love her soul. She has grown into a strong woman

[@LethoHali]

So glad that people in her life didn’t stop her from sharing her story!

[@alicenxumalo]

How sick can 1 be🤮🤮. Such a traumatic experience for a 7 year old. The person who was supposed to protect her 😭😭😭😭😭

[@neveragetv]

Trauma

[@aliciaarroyo6]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry you went through this. I went through a similar situation with my daughter and ex husband. I pray every day my children are safe. 💗

[@Boscehdey]

This is so brave. Glad you are able to get pass it all and got healed of the mental torture. And to be able to come out to talk about it, so as to help others in such situations, is quite courageous of you You are indeed a rare gem. God bless Zizo. Well done

[@neveragetv]

Ohh God...

[@jacquelinehenriques2106]

What a wicked man I could not own him for a father very wortless girl you're a strong woman am glad you can able to speak out can just imagine how rough it was for you

[@beverlyfrancis8433]

I am glad someone realizes that societies are also guilty of allowing these things

[@Zanelicious123]

There are millions of them honey protect kids at all costs

[@merciasmith4552]

You are such an inspiration sweetheart, I admire your strength as an activist dealing with abused victims on a daily basis I believe victims suffering in silence will have the courage to open up after hearing your story, and for victims out there open up is the beginning of the healing process, you are such a strong woman lots of ❤️

[@nobulawutwala2127]

Zizo may you continue to be strong. May you be showered with love, protection, joy, peace and success. You deserve happiness. I'm so proud of the woman you have become, you rose above what he tried to do to you.

[@dorettsmith4242]

Like a pelican out of the ashes..she rose

[@stellangoka7032]

One of the touching testimony I have ever heard, May God heal and restore ,bless this innocent soul. A great interview with awanderful host. God bless your show

[@karlmakinda5805]

I wish God had spared her the agony, instead of having to heal her pain.

[@sunshinejohnson8330]

YESSSS Father N ( JESUS) NAME!

[@pbgadams]

Where is your "God" when the heinous acts are committed against children. He's certainly NOT protecting kids.

[@delorespryce2146]

Why you never stop go there you going you going and not say nothing would kill him

[@woutervanlent5181]

And where was " the almighty god " when this happened ? Out fishing ? And why die so many black children in Africa of hunger ? Not white children . If I were a father of a black child and a white one , I would feed them both !

[@sibongilesitshabane7843]

As a mother of a girl child this is so painful, that you can't even trust the father of your child, oh Lord the pain is strong

[@angelchigombo9717]

You can say that again. I constantly check on my baby girl whever she's in the bedroom with her father, it's not a nice feeling I'm telling you

[@quelquun2018]

@@angelchigombo9717 yes it’s crazy. I’ve had to file a police report against a family member. When I do have my own children I don’t want to even let them in the hands of family members to watch over them when they’re under age. I don’t put anything pads anyone.

[@angelchigombo9717]

@@quelquun2018 Wow this is so sad. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

[@kellyalexander7347]

@@angelchigombo9717 that is sad 😥 I trust my husband with our 4 girls they all teens today I couldn't imagine checking up on him every time his alone with them 💔 that must be a terrible feeling

[@Nokss87]

@@kellyalexander7347 you must do the same! You never know ...

[@kittypanda10]

As a new mama who unfortunately underwent abuse as well I sure will protect my daughter to the end of the world and if ANYONE hurts her in this way not only will I believe her but I will also ensure that that monster NEVER hurts anyone else. Than i will make sure to get my baby any help nessessary. And I'd smile in my mugshot if needed.

[@willie.hairhale5819]

I'm 79 yrs and I also was raped until I was 13 yrs and I too went to court at 7 yrs and my dad served 3 yrs in prison but the court date he could not live in with us. But it is a bling story I can tell it later..it's still hard for me to tell it I have 2 brother left and they may not know this

[@PriscillahMwangi]

Oohh goodness 🥺

[@janayserrano]

Only 3 years???? If the laws don’t change, more and more children will continue to be violated. These monsters always get a slap on the wrist smh

[@vuvulicious41]

Poor girl was victimized not only by her father but by the public too, people who chose to take a side of a man(no surprises). How could you vouch for a character of a person you see on the street. 🤷‍♂️

[@stizo3066]

It unfortunate I just feel as a community and country we are still way back in protecting the most vulnerable in society.

[@SleepisHealth1]

The problem with patriarchal societies assume men are saints. How could the community vouch for such a monster?

[@rosejurgen4292]

But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address [e-mail] website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/

[@Wehaveananchor]

Scammer

[@jonasagbodike2942]

Zizo is a very clean person, pure in heart, i admire your sincerity very much. Great spirit!

[@Tshepisoism]

I was also sexually abused by my step father who was also a pastor for years and people struggled to understand why it took me so long to speak up, and didn't even believe it happened because he was a pastor 🙄

[@Tshepisoism]

And the police women who were taking my statement when I finally did open the case were mean 😔 and had me regretting even doing it, only when child protection unit got involved was my case handled with sensitivity

[@carriemtsh9648]

My heart breaks when I hear your ordeal, no words can make it better, I pray with time you’ll get counselling support and some healing, take care ❤❤❤

[@dannyboi4027]

hi

[@annameyer1737]

It's so sad you can forgive but never forget it will haunt you for the rest of your life

[@dannyboi4027]

Hi

[@sdypg]

Relebogile & others are bringing this out into the light skillfully. No more hidden away. Evil deeds flourish in society when hidden. Zizo is also helped now. Her story is no more a taboo story. Which she must carry on her own. She has us the public now & our empathy.

[@bridgettebogobuthelezi5347]

Heart breaking story and traumatic experience. No one deserves to grow through such traumatic experience, sorry it happened to you. Your courage of sharing the story will help a lot of people who are currently experiencing the same ordeal. Thank you Unpacked for unpacking amazing stories.

[@TJ-my9nh]

My sister you are one strong and intelligent young woman. May the Lord strengthen you over and over

[@helenagele3662]

An outstanding young lady. So focused. So forgiving in a realistic way. Thank you Jesus for controlling what she went through and giving her peace so she can heal totally. Wishing her a happy, successful and peaceful future. Thank you UNPACKED for this interview.

[@asuquoudo5850]

Oh I love this lady's confidence and the energy also boldness to speak about her father's rape case

[@thelyricguy6308]

How twisted and perverse can one mind be? Not me crying like it's me.... A big thumbs up to all the loving and protective dads, and brothers out there

[@alicegauteng2358]

If I was Sizo's mom I WILL NOT LET THAT MAN BREATH THE SAME AIR AS ME. I will honestly be telling this story to my cellmate

[@sunshinejohnson8330]

We Would've Had Him A Lovely Homegoing Service,That Weekend! Ijs

[@EmeraldTuray]

Zizou's U're the bravest Lioness I've ever come to watch her story online. U're an angel🤞🏾

[@shawngordon6626]

I'M BLACK WHY WE STILL IN SLAVERY ARE BODY IS FREE BUT NOT OUR MINDS

[@bettyledwaba9115]

Me too, i would have been sharing this story on my bank bed at Kgoshi Mampuru, while he is with his uncestors.

[@nozingqizengwehealingcentr9387]

SAME HERE

[@BRENDAWARDLE]

I'm in tears, and I honestly have only profanity and expletives for her father. Zizo, my darling, you are strong and resilient and pure.

[@latashajohnson3628]

Such an amazing and strong soul. Thank you so much for sharing as this was very enlightening and will help so many other people and hopefully prevent this from happening to others. All the best to you sister ❤. Good job to the interviewer as well.

[@evah787]

At 16:00 - What a great Mom.... she took the case/crime very seriously!

[@hisexcellency2993]

May God in His infinite love make this lady to succeed in life, no matter what.

[@daphneystyles5145]

7

[@odettemazh6947]

Amen

[@fmaroyalepr2122]

This host is so good and she has a natural flow with her guest and her audience. You just gained a following.

[@marvawilliams487]

Don’t know you but I’m so proud of you, you’re so positive.

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

Relebogile, please share more details about the book and how we in the diaspora can get it because the sister needs all the support she can get.

[@khanyamabena]

Email me on [e-mail] and I'll forward the details to you

[@joanmiksabel3598]

"My father took away my innocence "

[@vuyosithole3056]

It's really hard to watch this one, she has been through the most, I cried like this happened to me! So glad she has found healing. You unpack with such empathy and asking the right questions without making the interviewee uncomfortable, now that's superb interview skills Relebogile ❤️!

[@relebogilemabotja215]

❤️

[@Gurlchild-tayl]

I could hardly listen...felt like my heart wanted to burst....what a demon! You are soo beautiful and strong...may the Lord direct you always....Love you 😊

[@vuyosithole3056]

@@Gurlchild-tayl I burst out crying all the time, seeing this comment I am still awake tearing up!

[@nenesibanda4171]

Empathy is everything

[@susanodle2762]

@@Gurlchild-tayl.

[@marciaworbey3570]

What a strong woman, so many abused women are so ashamed and frightened they are unable to talk about the abuse they have been through, it’s complicated depending on the mothers life experience but mothers have to believe their children! Help them and help yourself by doing the right thing. Remember this - an abused person would have suffered approximately 38 abusive incidents before disclosing to someone.

[@lolo_z]

I've been skipping this video since it came out, I knew it would be hard for me to watch it. Zizo sounds like she has healed and I am proud of her for that, it is not easy. She is so brave and beautiful and very well spoken. To anyone else who has gone through the same thing, it is not your fault, no matter what the circumstances were.

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

You never truly heal from something like this. You have days that it still hurts.

[@lolo_z]

@@aprilchow-chee5281 I know. I guess it's one of those things you learn to live with.

[@terreciakennedy3265]

So they took her from a loving family just to abuse her. I can't stand to hear this type of shit.

[@carolinephale2472]

May the lord heal all the victims of rape and make justice to be served

[@karlmakinda5805]

Wouldn't it have been better if the Lord had prevented the abuse? Millions of girls, boys and women have been sexually abused.....Prevention is superior to any form of cure,

[@rosejurgen4292]

But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address [e-mail] website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address [e-mail] website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/

[@nokwethabamdluli6694]

👏

[@mwituamweene9850]

@@karlmakinda5805 Thank you. In this day and age, people still shoot their mouths carelessly about the lord.

[@woutervanlent5181]

@@karlmakinda5805 He he , finaly someone else makes this remark ! Sometimes I think that I am the only one