Rapid Fire Parenting Q&A With R' Yaakov Bender

Nachi sat down with R’ Yaakov Bender for a 1 on 1 chinuch masterclass.Questions were sent in by our Meaningful Minute + members and we got the answers!
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So how did you enjoy the interview?

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Checking and screening for mental and emotional health before marriage . Can be thrown out there as an idea for people to accept or reject. A boys and girls family can choose to request it from the other side prior to dating or engagement. And see where it all goes. Hard to enforce and implement but certainly can save many from bad marriages.

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