Raising A Family Of 9 Children As Strictly Orthodox Jews | Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over

[@mandatory1561]

I love the way the mom is. How she corrects Stacey and explains things to her. How she is stable in herself. Her unshakable inner peace. Reminiscent of my grandmother (who raised me and loved me). She is a radiant woman.

[@happiness7808]

Agreed, I loved her explanations, patience and quiet faith!

[@gustavsvensson1944]

She doesn’t shame Stacey if she says something or believes something that she doesn’t agree with, instead gives her own perspective on the issue/discussion

[@blamethebillionaires]

she disorganized,!d£ot😂

[@kare4all615]

I am not surprised but any good loving couple raised with respect and manners would do the same. How refreshing that there are good people like this. Most married couples I know (over 70yo) are like this. The difference is when you add in the ultra orthodox sect. I’ve read and watched others like this. The dedication and pure of heart love of God, enough to stay ultra, is, to me, nothing short of admirable. Like Stacy, I don’t know if I could do it but if I were younger (by 50+ yrs), I would give it a try!

[@DMH_701]

I love that they left for Shabbat. It is so nice to see it, but there's no way to film it in a way that's respectful to their level of religious observance

[@noemisarah98]

The second I saw how they - as a non-jewish crew - honoured Shabbat I went looking for this comment.

[@mo5ago1]

check peter santinello. he filmed a shabbos with shterny

[@gwengold8154]

​@@mo5ago1I was just going to suggest the same thing 😊 Peter Santenello's video of an orthodox Jewish shabbat is one of my favorites.

[@kindnessheals]

So interesting, because I think people imagine how boring and legalistic the day is while it can be very restful and enjoyable and family oriented. I was thinking it might help people to understand how people really do need a rest and that the day is a gift.

[@RobertalWilliams]

They probably filmed a different day.

[@NikkiBriar]

The oldest son is so wise and articulate, God bless this family! Another great episode Stacey! Big fan!

[@nonnalove]

I was thinking the same thing. He will be a wonderful leader some day

[@mircat28]

He is well educated I wouldn’t call it wise. And he has English classes so he should be articulate.

[@the_light_writer]

Looks like it's the second oldest son you're referring to. The eldest son never spoke in the video.

[@LAVirgo67]

Children in traditional cultures tend to be more mature to the eyes of those living in modern society. Also, not having a television, means that parents actually have to talk & interact with their children.

[@jenniferlynn3537]

@@mircat28 ​​⁠ You sound as though you begrudge the young man our compliments. I wonder why that is. Being able to speak a language fluently is no guarantee of an ability to speak eloquently - much less reflect on questions asked of oneself to provide thoughtful, polite and informative answers. I join those who were impressed with Ishrolich’s self confidence and courage. Given that he was raised in an insular community, he was exceptionally well spoken with Stacey - a new acquaintance from the outside world - and in front of a television camera no less.

[@sarahweaver8879]

The 13 year old son... wow.... what an insightful, bright, and intelligent young man. He was so genuine and thoughtful and welcoming. What a beautiful soul!

[@samu6874]

The politeness, education, how well they are spoken, how calm and collected everyone is, how eager the oldest boy to explain and learn... Just ❤

[@ajarnt9050]

I love the dynamics between the husband and wife. They seem so respectful toward each other. I enjoy seeing them take turns speaking and listening to one another.

[@ivriyah8456]

That’s one of the things I love about our culture/religion

[@DebbiePotter-xh7kv]

Definitely odd to us in America. Most don’t have respect for themselves, sure not going to have respect for anyone else

[@Quaker-tc8ue]

@@DebbiePotter-xh7kv All due respect, there are 342million Americans, you can’t make that statement. I am 50+, i was raised in a Christian home, but i was raised similar to Stacey, be respectful as possible when asking questions. I’d rather talk with those of other faiths and no faith, try to understand what they believe, or don’t.

[@judystaab7126]

I do too.❤!🫠🥰😍

[@SybilStoy]

@@ivriyah8456uuuuunhggggggggggggffggggf

[@lemondedetr]

A beautiful, respectful, well spoken and lovable family. What a pleasure to watch and learn more about them

[@TheCerealluvr]

I'm an observant Jew, and I really appreciated this. I thought Stacey and the Wollenberg family did an amazing job for only having 40 minutes at the end of the cut to represent us. Well done all!

[@lyssa4613]

What is an observant Jew?

[@TheCerealluvr]

@@lyssa4613 I observe shabbat and holidays. I keep kosher, taharat hamishpacha, and other mitzvot I can take on. In Israel, we'd call what I identify as "dati leumi"

[@YW2324]

Yes I'm also an Orthodox Jew. But I listen to regular music and watch TV and read books.

[@courtneytweedy5373]

It was really beautiful to see the historical richness of these long held traditions and the pride and sacredness in which they are passed through generations. The intention and reverence that is practiced in every aspect of daily life within the Orthodox traditions really were so eloquently articulated by this family. It really brings an appreciation and understanding for a community I myself knew very little about.

[@planesense7390]

@@lyssa4613 orthodox

[@csweetgertrude]

As an American high school teacher I found this video amazingly sensitive and enlightening. I will share what I have discovered with my students. Most of my students are African American, descendent from slaves and Native American. Both have experienced discrimination. They ask about Antisemitism and I explain what I know. This video give the faith group a human face. I loved it!!! Thank you and the Wollenberg family.

[@mrsr8673]

❤❤❤❤😢😢😢 wow,that very good,תודה רבה מישראל

[@truepeacenik]

Reach out to the ADL for some resources, too.

[@johannesbauer4490]

J..ish victimhood is the biggest scam of the 20th century. A growing number of people in Western nations are realizing how much we've been lied to by these people.

[@johannesbauer4490]

@@truepeacenik Are you people totally brainwashed? The ADL is a J..ish supremacist organization. Look at their sordid history and track record, people.

[@malkam.7543]

You can also always reach out to your local synagogue or Hillel for outreach activities! Usually Jewish organizations are delighted to be able to share their cultures and experiences with the community. It's really rare people ask, so it's always something people like to do.

[@songbirds3712]

What an intelligent, well-spoken and responsible young man. I would not be surprised if he followed his Papa’s lead and became a Rabbi.

[@brendareynolds7249]

I want to thank this beautiful family for such an educational documentary. What a sweet family. The oldest young boy is wise beyond his years. Such a friendly sweet boy.

[@mircat28]

He’s well educated he isn’t wise. Their education is more serious than ours. You all sound like you expect Jews to be educationally lacking and stupid!

[@nonnalove]

Live and let live. Very nice to see an Orthodox Jewish Male so open and honestly well versed in the world that he lives in. His understanding and challenges of living his beliefs and the rest of the world is amazing.

[@tiffanytrottuk]

Lovely family. Beautiful children. Thank you for allowing us all into your home. 💖

[@MargaretQ]

The “last supper” comment from Stacey and Mordecai’s “wrong religion, but yeah” response had me laughing! This was a great video - I really appreciated this families perspective and their opening their home.

[@laurenmontera9516]

Jesus was Jewish, and the last supper was during passover, so...I would argue that it was accurate.

[@Zsider-dj8eb]

@laurenmontera9516 Yeah but we don’t believe in Jesus

[@coreenwood5342]

funny. I missed that.

[@sydoftx]

@@coreenwood534239:45 😂

[@judystaab7126]

Jesus began the first church- home, in the garden of eden🎉❤😊 becaus jesus was messiah god in flesh. Isreal was his home. In the melliniah his home will be the whoe world, he-- created. We are here because of him, and his love and mercy. He truly loves us!❤😊😊 the cross proved lt❤😂😅😊🎉❤

[@ninas4968]

The fact that people were yelling anything at this family is absolutely disgusting. Zero reason! They aren’t hurting anyone! Breaks my heart.. 🙁

[@ams8376]

Agreed! Live and let live !

[@lindatohara6438]

Guy across the street in the 70’s, NJ had a bumper sticker “oil yes, Jews no”. My mom yelled across the street she wasn’t raised Jewish but she let him know he better remove that sticker with a few choice words. My mom was a redhead, badass, Jewish, Catholic She wasn’t good at either religion! Lolz 😂 love you mom miss you 😘

[@chickychick126]

I’m only a few minutes in but they seem like good people living their lives. Lovely family.

[@eliciaeldridge3452]

As long as they do not support Israel and their genocide, I would have no issue as Zionism is different from Judaism. However when Israel clams to represent all Jewish people which it doesn't but that is the clam you cannot be surprised. It doesn't make it okay to lash out at any Jewish family but it is not shocking that people want someone to blame.

[@Hddjridhanaksldndh]

@@eliciaeldridge3452lmfao stfu there is no genocide

[@leah6970]

what a gorgeous family! I also love that she didnt make the house look perfect and tidy for the video. Those kids rooms are very realistic lol!

[@Pat097]

Thank you Stacy and team! I’m Catholic and I clicked on this little documentary because I don’t know much about the Orthodox Jewish Faith. I must say they are such a lovely family and it was an eye opener. I know not all people of this religion think or act this way, but it was nice to learn about this family’s religion, traditions, values and what they thought about people who were not like them.

[@briancullenmusic]

A beautiful family, thoughtfully and respectfully represented. Well done.

[@kmanyrivers]

So grateful to this family to allow themselves to be so vulnerable and transparent. Thank you so much.

[@maritamcnichol8849]

I am born & raised & am still practicing , Roman Catholic. I went to Catholic Grammar school. I was blessed to go to Philly Public HS. Back then (mid to late 70's) my HS was about 85% Jewish. I learned so much from them. Most of all, how to be tolerant of other faiths. I love their traditions. They fascinate me. To be against any religion or choices of others is a disgrace. We are here on this earth to live together. Hate makes me sad. Hate makes me angry.... I am grateful to all of my Jewish friends from HS who showed me that the world wasn't just filled with Catholic kids. We have more in common than most people know. (Yah, big families, too...)

[@MissaDelegato]

We Jews thank you for your kind hart

[@leahayes4644]

What a great family to interview, so open and honest.

[@mircat28]

So other Jews are liars?

[@Pauline-u2s]

Such a lovely, friendly, dedicated Jewish Family! I enjoyed learning a little about Orthodox Jews .... they truly are inspirational! Thank you Stacy!

[@laverite1050]

My great grandparents raised their 8 children in London. The world never changes, they lived through horrible anti-semitism. I have prayer books they gave their children. The book publisher was out of Austria which was destroyed by the Nazi's so the books are special to Jewish history. My grandparents were married in the Great Synagogue of London over 100 years ago. My grandfather was a policeman during WW2 and was assigned to rescue during the bombing of London. My mother always spoke of the antisemitism in England.

[@nataliericheimer5805]

Beautifully done Stacey. Thank you for an incredibly respectful and insightful video into the community.

[@catworld8119]

As an American and Christian, I don't understand the latest rise in the prejudice against people who practice the Jewish faith. These people are not harming anyone, they are not taught to hate people of other faiths, they are peaceful, kind, and polite. Their religious beliefs are their own business. Stacey's question of wondering where the dedication to follow the faith comes from, it's faith, it's belief. People of faith, believe they are honoring God by following the teachings. The Old Testament is the Jewish faith. If she wants to understand, she can watch The Chosen. It lays out faith very well.

[@CarterKey6]

You may want to google what the Talmud says about Jesus if you are Christian

[@Brinta3]

“These people are not harming anyone.” Unless you’re LGBTQ+.

[@bluebagelman1920]

In Judaism, Jesus was just a man… who was Jewish. This is not a secret :)

[@CarterKey6]

@@bluebagelman1920 The Talmud says he’s burning in semen and excrement. And Mary was impregnated by a Roman soldier named Pantera.

[@citytrees1752]

The rise is prejudice is due to paid propaganda being distributed by the people who consider Jewish people their enemy. And they make no secret of their hatred. However, if I typed out a name for those people here, I'd get kicked off.

[@burnyizland]

I am impressed the father here is actually interested in his children. In all the religions I've looked at, once someone is strict or orthodox or fundamentalist - whatever you call it, the men never seem to have the slightest interest beyond laying down the law. Never any nurturing like I've seen here. This gives me more respect for them than I have for other religions.

[@LA-cm9uo]

Jewish fathers are very involved. More than secular people

[@PinkSparklerToontown]

Because they aren't Ultra-Orthodox Jews. They don't even speak Yiddish, these people are like knock offs of the orthodox Jewish community in NY. They aren't fully committed to the lifestyle

[@Heartbeat2471]

You’ve hardly seen proper examples then…there’s fathers (religious) from so many households that are just as involved.

[@burnyizland]

@@Heartbeat2471 That's good to hear. Where might I find examples of this?

[@burnyizland]

@@marysharner6202 Uh huh. Cool story. I'm not talking about generalized impressions of all parents. Did you miss the part where I specified orthodox/fundamentalist/strict? If you can point me to examples of this kind of involvement in those communities of any religion I am all ears. As I said I have never witnessed it anywhere before this.

[@cindiallain8542]

I am so happy this was suggested to me. Stacey, I admire you so much to go into peoples homes and do your best to respect their lives. I have so enjoyed learning new things about lives. Tonight’s I would’ve loved to ask him some questions. I had a Jewish Counselor, I had heard him say he couldn’t shake my hand. I just find your stories so very interesting. Thank you so much.

[@mo5ago1]

a touch is an intimate act. see rabbi manis Friedman

[@genxx2724]

There is a Hasidic family across the street from me. The husband is a rabbi. He explained that the reason for men and women not to touch is for the protection of the woman. He said a man and woman can give each other a hug, and to the woman it’s nothing more than a friendly hug, but the man might be off to the races in his head, thinking it’s time to get a room. I appreciated his humor, and in my experience men tend to think whatever they want to think, with no connection to reality. It was nice to hear that this is for a woman’s protection. I had thought it was because we were considered unclean.

[@ania4317]

The older boy is extremely intelligent and well spoken

[@mircat28]

He goes to school he has English classes among others. Do you expect Jews to not be educated and stupid?

[@mango8918]

I don't know how the algorithm led me to this channel, but I truly have enjoyed watching Stacey's videos. She has such an engaging personality and I've learned so much in the few videos that I've watched. I can't wait to binge the rest of them. Thank you!

[@DonnaMull]

a huge thank you to this lovely family, and much appreciation for explaining things to people like me who have had questions. such a shameful thing to harass and ridicule people who only want to live their lives in accordance with traditional values.

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

So much laundry-I love how the kids pitch in and help. I do love how this family put faith first and family next. This makes for a close family.

[@tothelighthouse9843]

The Wollenbergs were very kind to invite us all into their home. Imagine being the most observant person in your observant community. What a duty, responsibility, honour & burden. Spending time with this wonderful family really had me pondering the connection between spiritual practice & spiritual feeling/experience. I really wanted to ask them the deeper questions about their spirituality not as a daily practice of habits & duties but as a feeling. Like the moment when Blima began to cry when she told the story of the woman who emerged from the Mikva--that seemed to be a real moment of spiritual connection/feeling. I'd love to know more about that, about their spiritual feelings, journeys, experiences.

[@hodayaswisa7786]

Such a sweet family❤, it breaks my heart to see the hatred they have just because of their religion..

[@our3geckos]

Very good on you Stacy for leaving for Shabbat. I grew up with Orthodox Jewish Grandparents. I myself am Christian, but was taught all the Orthodox Jewish rules and traditions ❣️ My Nana & Great Papa were survivors of the Holocaust. They were Americans,but went back to Germany to help family and somehow ended up in the camps💔‼️ Luckily, my Nana did tatting (a form of sewing) that caught an officer's wife's eye and she took my Nana and Great Papa under her care...but my Nana was NEVER THE SAME💔... I only remember seeing the Number Tattoo on her arm.. when I was a little girl, she rocked in a rocking chair and wouldn't speak💔. I was told my Great Papa passed when my Father was 2. That would have been in 1949. My Nana remarried and I ONLY knew my Great Grandpa Benny 🥰, he was a wonderful person who took care of my Nana until she passed away... One of the customs of Orthodox Jews is that a daughter is the one that will care for the parents... My aunt was legally disowned before I was born... And I grew up knowing that I would be responsible for my Grandparents 🥰❣️ I left California as a young child.. but I ALWAYS KNEW MY GRANDPARENTS WERE MY RESPONSIBILITY ‼️ I took care of them up until my Grandfather passed away... Once he did, My husband & I made the necessary DECISIONS and FINALLY GOT MY Grandma here to Hawai'i... She spent the last 4.5 years of her life with us... My husband & our 3 children 🥰❣️ She's now buried here❣️ I might not be Jewish by birth... but I honored them to the best of my ability 🥰❣️ 💞 ALOHA FROM HAWAI'I 💞🌹 LYSSA 🌹

[@AaAa-pf7tj]

Why was aunt was disowned?

[@sabrinastratton1991]

​@@AaAa-pf7tj probably married a non Jew

[@tothelighthouse9843]

Thank you for sharing some of your personal & family history!

[@keikosah8254]

What a beautiful family. I love that they find such strength in their faith and it helps them love and accept others instead of divide.

[@noel6450]

I love how the parents talked about continuity and how it’s a religion but also a culture. One of the things I love about Judaism.

[@bbcerise]

I've been watching 4 episods now (the aristocrat family, the youtube family, the one from Brighton with kids that don't go to school and this one) and I've loved that one so much. How great to see those people so open and how you all respect each other in your difference. The world would be a much better place with people like them and you Stacey! Regards from Paris.

[@ElisaAvigayil]

So interesting to see my people through someone else's eyes, presented in a kind and sensitive way. Documentaries like these help combat antisemitism, so thank you for releasing this now. This was obviously filmed in September 2020, but you've released it now, after horrific worldwide antisemitism in the wake of the October 7th attacks. It's appreciated and noted.

[@ElisaAvigayil]

Amazing that this rabbi wants to move the mechitza to be right down the middle but the community, which appears MO and not Haredi, objects.

[@chickensalad3535]

Well said.

[@ThatwomanMAGA8124]

It’s perfect the way god put it men are first Head of household If you love god this would not brother a godly woman.

[@pinkswan250]

These kinds are so well mannered, smart and articulate. The son in particular is responding to complex questions in such a smart way.

[@chanieweiss4288]

@PinkSwan Kids in general are cleverer than we realize. Jewish kids have both religious and secular education, but we're used to it. Kids can handle a lot more education than they tend to get. They might not want it but if everyone they know gets double education it's ok.

[@harelsmadar8419]

One thing i would like to point. The reason We don't mix meat and dairy it's because one sentence in the bible that says " you don't eat a cuff that was cooked in his mother fat or milk. And from there this sentence that meant completely something else considering a moral rule, turned to be a recipe, that got nothing to do with the original meaning

[@ysiegel]

@@harelsmadar8419 you're ignoring the fact that the entirety of the code of Jewish law is largely based upon the Oral Torah - the part of the Torah which explains everything in depth. The verses in the Bible are a dense collection of the "source code" so to speak, not meant to be understood as a standalone, comprehensive source of every detail of Jewish life. It is the same Oral Torah which solves and explains all the other ambiguities of the Bible that explains this verse which you refer to (mentioned 3 times in the Bible btw, each time in order to be exacting in another detail of the law).

[@maggieanderson1729]

That lovely woman Blima reminded me of my own mother. I miss her so much.

[@tetiana7868]

Stacy, I'm just totally charmed by your respectful and at the same time open manner. Love every episode. It's been really interesting to see the way people lead their life in such a closed and specific community. The way that the mother is open to discussing some very delicate topic is amazing.

[@nataliemason4656]

This was a lovely episode. A darling family representing their faith beautifully. Best wishes to The Wollenberg family. Thank you for opening your home.

[@艾莲-i8z]

This is really heartwarming. I’m a Jewish-American subscriber who was raised with Conservative Judaism (not as strict as Orthodox), and grew up being friends with a Chabad (same type of Orthodox as this family) family of 16. They are wonderful people, but are often even more demonized than those of us who are less traditional. A lot of people don’t realize that once you look past the cultural differences, they are just the same as anyone else. Also as someone who does adhere to some Jewish laws, like keeping kosher, a lot of these things become second nature. I’ve never wanted to eat non-kosher foods, I can scan the ingredient list of a food container quickly, etc. I don’t find keeping kosher inconvenient. So for a lot of these rules, it’s so ingrained that it doesn’t feel like much work. Of course, for some things, there is self-discipline exercised, but I think you also get used to exercising that amount of self-discipline. Seeing you get to stay over with this family and be invited to partake in our culture puts a smile on my face. Especially in the face of ever worsening antisemitism. ❤

[@user-bw3fl7fj9w]

What do you do for eating with travel? I've seen on some videos that they bring all their own food with them? Also, what do you do if you share a meal at someone's house or restaurant that's not kosher? Can you go and it something that's no meat or dairy?

[@erinaa9486]

​@@user-bw3fl7fj9w depending on where we travel, there is usually kosher food we can buy. And it's v easy to bring sandwiches and tuna along to places that don't even have regular grocery stores. There are rules against eating food cooked by non-jews even if it's kosher in order to maintain separation. One way around that is to have a jew be involved in cooking, such as turning on the flame. In some countries there's a list of kosher foods you can find in stores (even though they don't have kosher symbols). Raw fruits, nuts, and vegetables outside of Israel are always kosher.

[@艾莲-i8z]

@@user-bw3fl7fj9w I’m not very strict when it comes to keeping kosher so I just ensure that I don’t eat in kosher ingredients (like pork, shellfish, etc.), I’m okay with eating things that aren’t certified

[@user-bw3fl7fj9w]

​@@erinaa9486thanks

[@1951kvk]

In terms of how orthodox Jews date, I love that the preparation to meeting a potential spouse cuts down on wasting time and energy.

[@cosettelewallen4281]

Yes, sometimes I wish this dating style was the norm.

[@happiness7808]

Agreed; it cuts down on so much guesswork and all of the potential landmines that modern style dating dating presents I really believe that two good people can get along if their values are in alignment, there’s no serious problem with them (addictions, etc), and if they have commitment. Relationships like this have shown me that to be true

[@mdarrenu]

@@happiness7808 well, divorce rate is pretty darn low among orthodox and other cultures like do it like this.

[@mizv4043]

@@cosettelewallen4281 I wish that there wasnt the expectation of sex during dating.

[@mimimosa259]

I think if I ever have children I would try to in-still the importance of dating with the purpose of finding a partner who has similar life values and goals

[@missl1775]

With all the antisemitism I've had to deal with recently, Stacey's respect is bringing me to tears. The way she interacts with the family is sensitive, but she also doesn't treat Orthodoxy like some obscure historical ritual that you can study but not critique - she asks questions, she expresses what would and wouldn't work for her, she communicates her thoughts. Kudos to the family, especially the children, for being willing to serve as an example for the beauty of Jewish families and Jewish communities.

[@miramataija1628]

I am sure you are crying as much as the people in the Gaza genocide. Feeling sorry for yourself while your people are killing children en masse. It is always about you isn't it? Even when you are behaving like nazis you still manage to play the victims.

[@miriamneustadt8872]

as an ultra-orthodox hasidic jew i was smiling thru the whole video, i think this is the first one i have watched that is showing the happiness and peace that comes with living such a life. there was no judgment, as i have seen with other videos.

[@tarotbyamber7233]

Have you gone non Jewish friends?

[@Lynnmur]

How sad this beautiful family has to endure meanness and cruelty. Thanks for participating in this film. It gives non-Jewish people a chance to see and experience Jewish life.

[@MegaBpop]

Stacy, Thank You so much for doing this video. I am an American Catholic. I have even more respect now that I have seen their deep dedication to the Faith. I pray that you have been moved as well.

[@nomiguberman8879]

That was very enjoyable to watch. A lovely family and a lovely guest/host!

[@missannettep6796]

Your presentation is perfect. How sad that people hate what they do not know or understand. Thank you!

[@margarethelminska6346]

I really enjoyed this episode. My Jewish friends love Shabbat, because it is a quieter, more restful time, and concentrated on the family. Thinking about the part of the prayer of Jewish men that gives thanks for not being born a woman, it seems that could be interpreted a different ways, one being that in some ways women have the more difficult life, especially in that bearing and raising children is not so easy. It's not necessarily because men are seen as "better" than women , though some might interprest it that way.

[@Cassie00111]

i think its a horrible prayer. and the belief a menstruating woman is impure. HORRIBLE. Not their fault...they just blindly follow their Torah. Young women are turning away from religion for good reason.

[@vitag5225]

I think it is a matter of perspective. With women having to go through childbirth, it is enough for men to say they are thankful they don't have to go through that. That is enough, and respect women for their traditional roles and responsibilities. It is a blessing to know what are our jobs in life.

[@Cassie00111]

@@vitag5225 its mindless to believe one has no choice in "roles"..that a big daddy in the sky has decided for you. Mindless!!!

[@kylasaundersmiller2286]

A device free day every week? Sounds wonderful.

[@DMH_701]

It is

[@adellaidemikova]

It is!

[@BenDavidin5784]

It is 😊

[@randil3208]

It is, but there are also a lot of unfair, unfun things. We are seen as unclean on our periods and not allowed to touch our husbands, even pass them things during our period in fear of getting him "dirty". There's good things, and awful out of date things

[@BenDavidin5784]

@@randil3208 nida is deoraita, you think the Torah is unfair and out of date? Hashem’s word doesn’t expire…

[@rachlync]

Thank you for putting this out! Wonderful people, wonderful content. Live and let live, everyone.

[@theblakex]

Tell that tell Israel while they're mass murdering the Palestinians. Are they letting live?

[@katycooke3635]

I absolutely love this family. Even though they have a lot of rules I felt an extreme calmness when the mom and dad spoke. They seem like such loving and understand standing people. Favorite video so far ❤It was great to see an inside look into the Jewish faith.

[@DahliaRaz]

I’m glad you got to know a Jewish family through this video 😊💕 As a religious Jew myself I would say the rules are more of a structure than a restriction. The structure of the Torah and its rules helps guide how we live and there is so much beauty within those structurees. What seems like strict rules from the outside feel like the walls of a beautiful and warm home from within

[@niamhhartnettmerluccio6300]

This is so wonderful to see, thank you so much for sharing your lives, even if it's only over a weekend with us. I went to grad school with a number of orthodox women and we just had the best time together. I really enjoyed their company and we learned so much from each other.

[@MsSherryjh]

Thank you, Stacey. I felt your questions and actions were both respectful and tolerant, therefore promoting understanding. It is too bad your stay had to be so short. At the same time, or as it is said, "on the other hand," just talking, listening, and participating where possible, even a short stay, can promote understanding thereby humanizing people.

[@bethbrownstein8746]

As a non-observant Jew, I myself didn’t learn anything new, but I truly enjoyed the interaction and the inquisitiveness.

[@deelong2862]

Even if you are NOT Jewish, and I am not, you still should respect them and be kind to everyone, especially the children! They were BORN into their families, like we were born into ours!!! I assume at some point, they might be able to make their own choices without being shunned by their birth families ⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️I was raised Pentecostal/Christian, and I agree with that! However, even though a lot of my siblings have not remained in this faith! Although my parents (now deceased) DEFINITELY wanted us to continue the faith and TOTALLY believe that Christianity is right, they still were ALWAYS VERY HAPPY TO SEE ANY OF US‼️‼️‼️They SINCERELY AND CONSISTENTLY PRAYED for us and set great examples to us, teaching us right from wrong‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@denkendannhandeln]

No parents have the right to push away their children. Not for any reason, even if they become criminals. Remember the story of the lost son from the Bible? But as in all families, there can occur massive conflicts between children and parents for many complex psychological reasons, who have nothing to do with religion. Then it is really often more healthy to go separate ways.

[@amyyyamy]

Oh they’re going to be shunned

[@denkendannhandeln]

@@amyyyamy Nonsense. How would you know?

[@cameron4638]

@@denkendannhandeln I was raised in this sect of orthodox judaism and I was shunned by my family and community for leaving. There is so much love for outsiders, but it never extends to your own family when they choose a different path

[@denkendannhandeln]

@@cameron4638 I am very sorry to hear that. I hope very much you and your family will find a path to reconciliation. Good luck and all my best wishes.

[@donnettewebster2504]

I found this very interesting. I learned things I didn’t know. They seem like a great family.

[@alliyahdog7038]

Thank you for sharing the orthodox Jewish life. I was raised Roman Catholic, and miss alot of our traditions that are not practiced by most anymore. Wish for a better simpler time.

[@Stella-n-Luna]

I hosted a family like this during shabbot in a Vacation Retreat Rental property in Stonington, CT a few years ago. It was a HUGE family! The mother & father, their two adult children and spouses, and then all 13 grandchildren! I had to do sooo much extra stuff to assist them for their Shabot as well but they were a lovely family

[@dmiller5765]

TY to the Wollenberg family for sharing their home & lives with us. TY, Stacey for being curious & respectful of the family. ❤

[@zahiarizk4612]

I just saw this today 2/28/24 & I appreciate the respect and sensitivity that surrounded this doc. The rabbi and his family are lovely. Live and let live.

[@LighthouseLover1989]

As a woman who has considered myself a Christian since around adulthood, I think this documentary is both beautiful and fascinating, and the family is very sweet. The Jewish faith and customs have always fascinated me, as has the Holocaust due to the fact that I have Cerebral Palsy. Knowing that I could have been murdered for simply existing, it hurts me very deeply. Honestly, if I was not dating my boyfriend (non-Jewish), I would love to date a Jewish boy. ✡️🕍🕎🇮🇱

[@asmrhealing2294]

What a lovely family every single one of them the parents and the kids ❤❤❤ they all seem so kind and the interviewer is just adorable 🌹🌹

[@jonl3696]

I've always admired the Orthodox Jewish way of life. My grandmother was Jewish, but the more liberal kind. As liberal as she was, she still passed on certain traditions to us---particularly brachot (memorized prayers) and drilling into our heads the idea that we will always be part Jewish because of her. I guess that was her way of contributing to Jewish continuity. We say "Ldor vador nagid godlecha" (from generation to generation we proclaim Your greatness). I went and lived in Israel for a summer just to somewhat reconnect with my Jewish identity.

[@denkendannhandeln]

That is very nice. Rightfully you have choosen the lion of Juda as your icon. 4600 years of history run deep. Come back soon.

[@user-rg5kq7ru7k]

❤ kisses from Israel

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

Such ridiculousness. The heart of a lion that’s possessed perhaps. Nothing gives u the right to a land that’s home where multi generational families of true semites live, and u ethnically cleanse, r4pe, oppress and slaughter them!!! All in the name of God?! I can tell u as a Christian, it’s not the same god I believe in. Didn’t Moses commandments also say don’t steal and don’t kill!! You’re probably more European than anything at this stage too. Ahekenazis and sephardics are mixed. That’s their ethnicity. European essentially, so it’s not sensible for u deny and deprive Palestinians of their birthright when it’s many of u ppl who’ve only tiny % of Semite blood!!

[@randomviewer3494]

What a lovely family, so respectful, kind, funny, wellspoken. I don't follow their religion, but I wish I could be more like them.

[@valerienelson3296]

As they say different strokes for different folks. Fascinating to see how others believe & live. As long as no one is getting hurt and it's a muchual belief who am I to judge how others want to live? I do enjoy their sense & saftey of community. Thank You ❤ oh and what a beautiful family!

[@Maryaliece]

Living in VA Beach, VA, I SOOOOO love listening to your reports! Love your accent! Lol! What a WONDERFUL experience to watch this. Thank you so much for opening your home and your faith. Stacey, thank you for your reporting! I haven’t watched it all yet, but what I’ve seen is wonderful and educational!

[@TheLaarraaBlog]

off topic but I visited VA beach a couple times in 2023 to see a friend. I love it there soooo much!! such. a beautiful city and such hospitable people!

[@rachelles_wheels]

Va beach native here!

[@clodaghscott7220]

Thank you so much. A wonderful family so interesting and insightful.

[@ButterFlyGoddess]

✨I REMEMBER SEEING THEM CELEBRATE ON EASTERN AVE IN BROOKLYN, NEW YORK✨EVERYONE ONE WAS HAVING A GOOD TIME, MY CAB DRIVER & I SAT THRU A FEW RED LIGHTS WATCHING✨🧚🏾💫

[@elisemiller13]

@ButterFlyGoddess are you referring to Hassidic Jews, or Orthodox? There is a difference, to say the least.

[@alizahalon]

​@@elisemiller13She is referring to Lubavitch on Eastern Parkway in Brooklyn. The people in the video are also Lubavitch. We are chassidic but not ultra chassidic like the Jewish people in Williamsburg, Brooklyn or Stamford Hill in London.

[@PinkSparklerToontown]

The people in New York are more extremist than the people in this doc

[@heavenandhellarereal]

Thank you so much for letting me be part of this wonderful family and their Orthodox faith. What a blessing that they shared their life and faith with us. May G'd bless them.

[@budgetwithrenay2419]

Extremely interesting! I love learning of other faiths and cultures; we don’t have to agree but I think Stacy showed that we should be respectful.

[@RadiantRiv]

I’ve watched Stacy on glow up and it’s amazing to see her on documentaries like this. She’s so nice and takes the time to listen

[@sophieirwin3497]

That blind date thing sounds great. Your family does the leg work but if you're like 'nope, absolutely not', you have a say in who you marry and you can give your family some feedback: 'Actually I don't want x, y, z. When I said this, what I meant was this' etc.

[@ysiegel]

A big part of it, is that you don't get hung up emotionally in a relationship so that you remain intellectually healthy and sound in order to make a proper decision.

[@Betty-mm9gz]

Amazing awesome beautiful family. Thanks for sharing this documentary.

[@elizabethwezelman8547]

Impressive in so many ways. Lovely family all pulling together and shame on those who stood outside their home to shout insults. May we all in this world learn to accept and care for others no matter what differences we have. Thank you for this Stacey and team.

[@milindadawson6503]

What a lovely family and very interesting interview

[@courtneypuzzo2502]

had a summer job at a Jewish Community Center when I was 16 years old and on Fridays the center had a Shabbat service and games for the kids who attended

[@truecynic1270]

Great kids! Great parenting!!! To me, having such a large family would be very difficult so well-done!!!!!!!

[@lucianeedgington9421]

I think you are free to leave your religion any way you like, just don’t try to impose your beliefs on others. The jewish community is a perfect positive example of that!

[@claudiagallardo9524]

“Some commandments don’t make sense, but it’s like a test to remain faithful “- that boy has wisdom beyond his years!!!

[@lindasmith2917]

I really learned so much from this well done video. Thank you for pulling back the curtain for a glimpse into a world I knew little about. Lovely Jewish family, we are blessed for you participating in this video.

[@vitag5225]

I am an Chabad Orthodox Jew, and think this is a truly remarkable overview of Orthodox Jewish life, on a personal level. Every single aspect of it was amazing. The candidness, the openess, the respect, the knowledge on an informal level. "Blind faith" is such a hot topic. It is interesting, that most people do have blind faith, when it comes to the weather, our health and many things we have no control of. "Only G-d knows.". We trust the pilot of the plane we fly. We should trust the pilot that runs the world: G-d. When Stacey says she does not accept concepts, that she does not understand. Unknowingly, she does it all the time. Just my thoughts. But all in all, beautiful!

[@ezsand0077]

Such maturity, insight and integrity embody this family. Thank you for sharing this amazing family with the world ❤

[@brandiva96]

You may or may not agree with their lifestyle, but you do have to admit they are very disciplined!!

[@maryfilippou6667]

What a wonderful family! So loving and disciplined and jotous in fulfillment of their purpose and Gids love. Thanks to Stacey too for bringing to us. Wondeful, super parents fulfilling real creativity blessed by God.

[@melissahunter8912]

This was so interesting to watch. As the granddaughter of Holocaust survivors, the Holocaust is to this day very much tied into my identity as a Jewish woman, but rather than it casting a shadow, it makes me proud to be Jewish. I am also not Orthodox and straddle the line between tradition and modern-day living. I admire this family very much, and Stacy’s respect for the family. I hope they are all doing well post Oct. 7.

[@rachelladouceur873]

Thank you for covering this, for asking questions many of us would ask . Bring awareness. Such a beautiful family, nice people.

[@steviewonderbread5700]

When she told her to trim the split ends “Don’t say that!” Loooool 😂

[@MiepZee]

Coming from a family of 12, it reminded me of my childhood days. Anyone coming from a numerous family will relate to this video, regardless of their religion beliefs. There was no way i wouldn't make my bed without having my mom realizing soon enough. I really enjoyed this video and Stacey asked some crucial questions and i find her quite accepting and non-judging. The family seem to have a lot of peace and harmony!

[@annengatha1712]

This is a really good piece of works. There is a lot to learn about order, and systems. Thanks Stacey. It is good to realize though that not going to church or having a church community is also a type of religion. I get lost when people say they are not religious while in essence every way of life is a religion.

[@MsBhappy]

No one is born with a religion and at one time in human history not a single human had a religion. There was a time in human evolution where we didn't even have a language to communicate with one another so no your comment is incorrect. There are thousands of religions. Atheism is the absence and/or rejection of any and all religions. You're an atheist of all religions except for the one that you identify with and practice. I on the other hand like the concept of ignosticism, humanism, cosmology/astronomy, and the history of new thought and enlightenment movements. None of that makes me religious, it makes me an independent critically thinking human.

[@barbaraorth5862]

Thank you! This was so informative. What a lovely family. And what a thoughtful, well-spoken young man. I am Southern Baptist and do not know a single person who is Jewish. This gave me a peek inside their lives. A very nice video.

[@barbarajeffries]

This was lovely. Thank you.

[@mackss9468]

This host is awesome! Fantastic questions and asked in a respectful manner.

[@teresabarrett3266]

I loved this episode Ms. Stacey. The Wollenberg Family were just delightful ❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. i love what God Loves. Rabbi Morticia and his bride Dear Blima, have graciously opened their home and faith to us. These a beautiful people. They are equally yolked. I have total appreciation for getting to know a little more about what it means to be an Orthodox Jew. I send each of you my love and respect. ❤✊✡️🇮🇱 thank you very much. 🙋‍♀️✝️🇺🇸🙏✝️❤️✡️🙏🇮🇱🇮🇱

[@jayem5738]

Love how open and welcoming they are - explain everyone without sounding judge or superior!

[@isabelle8836]

Such good wonderful family. No reason for hate this family, they do not harm anyone

[@Hazeleyes878]

Thank you for sharing, it’s admirable to watch the sense of community the Orthodox Jewish community has ! Salute

[@dmsmiles4044]

There is so much more beauty and so much depth that was missed out here. And the questions for me were not answered properly. But a Lovely family.

[@beigelr2262]

its almost impossible to answer any questions on judiasm completely in one video. everything about it is so complex rabbis for thousands of years are still discussing and learning the same concepts

[@dmsmiles4044]

@@beigelr2262 very true. I think i would keep it simple too. I would have said Torah is a relationship tool that Gd gave us to get close to Him. So by keeping these laws we are building a relationship. And i would give an example of husband and wife who see all the details in there lifes with each other and do together for each other. And say just like when we for example go out of our way and give the gift are wife loves even though its harder to find so to we go out of are way to make Hashem 'smile' to build that conection. Or imagen having a book with every detail of what your wife loves and hates. And all you have to do to have a good loving caring holsome marriage and deap meaningful relationship would be to follow that book. The Torah is that book for Gd.