When Are We Getting Married? // Relationship + Love Advice Q&A

Louis and I answered your questions on love and relationships - thanks so much for sending them in! Make sure you're following me on Twitter and Instagram so you can take part in the next Q&A!
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[@nikitafu]

The way Louis looks at Raya♡♡ too cute

[@johannafrank9789]

Nikoleta Antonak Trueeee

[@dogandcrow8479]

I noticed that as well, well, who would miss it?

[@Sandra-fu3in]

I was thinking that during the whole video

[@StephenSE9]

Nikoleta Antonak That's love.

[@alexandramei1975]

Oh my gosh I haven't seen Louis in forever! I'm behind lol. I remember the old days with him and the Harries twins.

[@alexandramei1975]

irena vasileva lol I miss their channel

[@rihana21x]

Omg same!

[@Pauiej]

I don't understand why people are obsessed with everyone needing to have babies. Some can't have them and some don't want to. Can we just chill? Live our lives the way we want?

[@hfs9700]

I agree - why do people always ask when others are going to have a baby / babies. Some want them, some do not, some cannot and others adopt. Each to their own.

[@chelsea5608]

LOL love the zoom on Louis' face when asked about marriage and kids

[@AbiMe07]

You two will be such great parents one day! But take your time.. as much as you need and enjoy life :)

[@Blurggg]

Omg with the whole external pressures of getting married and having kids. You're living an amazing life! I'm glad you're taking your time and enjoying the moment without constantly thinking about what's next. You're doing life so right. 👍

[@mauhuff]

Hey Raya! I used to watch Louis' vlogs EVERYDAY back in 2013-2015 and I can tell he is so happy with you. You both are such free spirits and God bless you both with happiness, freedom, and love no matter where you go.

[@naturesweety]

The way, Louis is looking at you with so much love ❤❤

[@JasmineFossett98]

Aw, this was nice to watch :)

[@GabrielTravelerVideos]

Nice talk, great points. I'm in Albania right now and can see Corfu from here. Going there next. Glad you guys had a nice time and managed to get some time out.

[@Apostate_ofmind]

Pls make a part two, you two are such a treat!

[@elisemadelinemusic]

yo that convo ab the love languages is SO beautifully communicated, love that you included that because it applies to all kinds of love

[@xoxobianca192]

Loved the video and your perspective on things! You and Louis are so cute together 💗💗

[@kelseyathome5549]

I love your videos, Raya! You are the only person who is honest about how tough relationships can be and it's so refreshing. You're such an awesome and down-to-Earth person! Love & light xx

[@seuncarter]

Yes to a Part 2 and with Louis please, I just enjoy watching you both together. The way Louis smiles and looks at you #Bliss

[@amberobrien9631]

I love these!!!! Please do a part 2

[@dennis.35th]

Thank you both for your gift of opening peoples eyes and see the world from an other perspective: live intense and spread your love.

[@shanap8970]

Amazing and positive couple!

[@xCaramelle]

Loved it! Looking forward to the Long Distance themed video. I (Canadian) met my BF (Spaniard) while on my sabbatical year backpacking trip so we go through a lot of the same things. I am still travelling a year later (and now working on the road) while he lives and works in his home town in Spain.

[@lostfox27]

Loved the widening eyes when the marriage/kids question came up :D

[@alicealonsomartinez1687]

I loved the answer of "how do you know if someone is the right person". I love your way to see things and your advices are soo inspiring and handful!!

[@evadohalova2396]

I really agree what you said about that there are more than one person who might be right for you! I mean how lucky would you have to be to find exactly the one out of 7 billion people? Love the video xx

[@tothenationsworldwidetrave4734]

great love advice while on the road. We have interviewed dozens of travel couples and they all provide such amazing couple advice when traveling like yours!

[@kelleyreardon]

😍 you guys!!! So cute! Part 2 please!!

[@chiaramancin3288]

I loved this video, and the both of you and your fantastic realationship, I sure would love a second one!!

[@MeganHollyy]

You answered my question!! Thanks guys ❤❤ great video xxxx

[@judyprice7842]

Always enjoy you and Louis Q and A's.

[@andlilla]

I want to thank you for taking time to talk about relationships and for being open about yours because your relationship is one that should be an example for many. I think it is very important that you tell the world how you work on some issues and how much you have talked about certain potential or real problems. Because you are what people describe as “couple goals”. That’s why I appreciate that you tell the world that good relationships don’t appear out of the blue. It’s not magic! It’s not “the one”. Great relationships are created through lots of work and compromise. I think many young people don’t know that and they give up their relationships at the first obstacle. That’s why I’m happy that you let those people know that even if you have a great basis, that is not enough for a long-lasting relationship. It requires constant work! Just because you have great soil, you won’t be able to grow a beautiful flower from it, unless you work on it each and every day. Raya, I think even though this seems like a light, fun little video to watch, you educate people without them noticing it. I think these videos are more important than you think. Thank you for making them! You are a person deserving to be a role model for many!

[@RayaWasHere]

+Lilla András thank you so much!! I honestly hadn't thought about it like that so thank you. That's the thing with relationships - they take work and compromise every day and they're never as easy as movies make them look. But so so worth it ❤

[@andlilla]

I was a naive little girl, thinking that some people are just a perfect match and that's it. I was lucky enough to have lots of conversations with someone wiser than me about relationships and that person opened my eyes and now I'm 26 and in a great relationship but I don't think that with my old naive approach I could be in a long-lasting relationship. So for many people you can be that wise person who open their eyes about the true nature of becoming "couple goals" :) Looking forward to your long distance and other relationship videos!

[@harveythepooka]

This is especially true because people look at youtubers and think they have no problems just because we don't see their problems. KZbinrs idealize their life and we buy into it and for many young people they think that what they see is reality. I'm sure Raya and Louis disagree and fight from time to time but we don't see it and we shouldn't because that's obviously private. It's just it gives people this fake feeling that it's "easy" when it's not.

[@REDASABIR]

Thank you for sharing all of this with us and with me as new youtuber

[@soulmobileofficial2940]

This was very helpful Raya! Thank you

[@Logicalx]

6:54 - says it all, priceless reaction. Don't worry Louis, some day in the future you'll have some I'm sure! And you'll be great!!!!!!

[@marylueck2002]

You both are genuinely such amazing souls ♥️

[@emmahancox3640]

Would love a part two!!!!!

[@chellykins]

More of these please :)

[@allisonwilson8409]

Love you guys!

[@superfancyschmancy]

What a cute Q&A :)

[@TheRainydayvideo]

That look that Louis gives to Raya at the end says it all. What a beautiful couple.

[@mycorvettelife]

You guys are so perfect. It makes me so happy.

[@RayaWasHere]

+Chris Draper thank you! ❤

[@Serkaltravel]

Yaaaasss thank you for mentioning Greece guys 😍😍🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷

[@ib5799]

I love those two and their relationship. Sooooo cute.❤

[@betusinkaa1]

Very positive video full of kind love. :)

[@megangottschalk8962]

Love this video!! :)

[@linneaboren3762]

Such a beautiful video! Thanks a lot! :)

[@RexxiPanda89]

I SUPER FREAKING LOVE what you said about marriage. I feel that pressure a lot and. But I don't feel the need to get married yet. I'm happy and like Louie said I feel like we are still getting to know one another. Love you guys so much. Many blessings and keep up the good work

[@Dr.Vinnie]

i wanna find a louis for myself some day

[@TravelingWives]

Yassssssssssss part 2 plz😉

[@VanillaTwilight2017]

Aww you two make my heart warm❤

[@fatima-zr4tw]

Make the second part longer, please♡

[@jirijuas95]

Couple goals!

[@piasalomon7053]

Make a part 2 😍😍😍

[@thatgirllina5777]

Great Video!

[@VeronicaLeroyEnglish]

You guys are so sweet ❤️ I hope you will make more videos together!

[@nadinevangass1197]

love your answers about marriage and kids. 💜 . yay people who think like me. too bad ive never met people like this in real life.

[@mimiteen15]

Love these videos!!!😊Louis eyes when u said marriage and kids. 😂Take your time guys theres no rush just enjoy life and youll know when it will feel right. ❤ Love you guys so much!!!

[@thatcrazyartlady6125]

Please part 2!!!

[@LauraS_1194]

Aw sweet q and a 😀

[@nevraelisaveta7009]

Such a lovely video! You suit each other so well, you inspire the best in each other. When is your anniversary btw?💖💖😚😚

[@funjoy2998]

Awesome Lovely couple, nice video, keep it up

[@omarnagy9174]

big love big respect

[@AJauntWithJoy]

We have so many similar ways of looking at the world and relationships! And uck - I totally know how the long distance feels. My boyfriends a seasonal park ranger and I'm a seasonal wildlife biologist and travel blogger/agent AND work here and there on cruise ships. We do a LOT of long distance and it never gets any easier. He's been on the opposite side of the country now for 4 months but I'll get to see him next month for a week, and that's one of the longest we'll have done long distance. Thinking about also creating a LDR video or blog post with my tips, etc. Wishing you both strength and comfort while he's away!

[@fatima-alv]

You look so radiant omg 😍

[@natashkanatasha]

I ship you two so hard! You’re so cute together!

[@Bea94Spacca]

You are so cute together :) Red does look good on you, happy 2 years anniversary and is so cute to see Louis looking at you so much love

[@allinmohana5289]

love you both!💕

[@amethyst2207]

OMGGGG!! Louis's face when she said the word kids! 😂😂

[@dinh5532]

Raya's dropping hints all around for Luois!!! lol

[@hghonaker]

Hi Raya, Don't know if you remember, but we met in South Africa at Coral Divers last year. I just wanted to say, I loved the part of this video where you talked about the pressure of finding "the one", as it's something I stress myself out with a lot. It was really refreshing to think of it as there's multiple "the one's" out there. Thanks for that! Also, in regards to the long distance thing, I did four months apart from my boyfriend earlier this year, and just know that it is very hard, but it's honestly the most amazing experience in the long run as it strengthens your relationship in ways you can't imagine. Anyways- I'm loving following your KZbin journey and I wish you the best of luck! Cheers x

[@RayaWasHere]

+hghonaker thank you so much! And thank you for saying that. It's actually helping me dread the three months a little bit less. Will be so hard but I know we will only come out stronger on the other side ❤

[@saraifigueroa8045]

love you two!! #goals

[@mayay2735]

You're an amazing couple! Raya you're so beautiful! Love the dress. Red looks good on you!

[@sophie104x4]

I love these videos💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@CandyToyTwins]

Super cute couple!!!

[@etnacila69]

Personally your always learning something new from your partner..I've been with my husband for 17 years... 5 of dating and 12 married... I've learned the most of him married good and bad but we've never disrespected each other verbally or shamed each other and I truly believe that in itself is a key to a healthy relationship....love you guys can't wait to meet your beautiful babies😉😙

[@dimitar-rusev]

Definitely Second Part :3

[@katymaloney]

Heard about the earthquake off the coast of Greece, hope you guys are all safe and stuff! xxx

[@nancyp9404]

12:13 The way Louis looks at you!! You guys are so cute xx

[@RayaWasHere]

+Nancy P 😍

[@eslemouederni864]

lovee you guys ♥♥

[@nikolapincova343]

Cuteness overload!

[@emmahancox3640]

Had to rewatch Louis's face at 6:54 hilarious! Lovely video, I LOVE when you two upload a sit down video together xox

[@GomesTalks]

Raya and Louis, you need to go to Madeira Island, it is a portuguese island, near morocco. many people call the pearl of the atlantic and it's so beautiful.

[@justanotherpersonxo]

Diogo Gomes Sim!

[@brenlin8866]

🤗👍🏼🤗👍🏼🤗 Nice to hear you say you are taking your time. My husband and I have been married almost forty years and we got married when it felt right. We also waited to start a family when we were ready. You love to travel and do so many wonderful things to make this world a better place and that's what you should continue to do until YOUR path changes. Luv ya

[@mamaille88]

Bren lin That is amAzing for you and your husband. I know someday soon that would be the case for me as well. Many blessings on your marriage.

[@LadyTressa]

Great honeymoon destination: Turtle Island!! :) Blue Lagoon was filmed there in the 70's

[@MsBellaSky]

beautiful couple we watch both your channels ....Love your dress beautiful ❤😊

[@annemiekvdbos]

What a cute Q&A! Loved it! Part 2 please😄

[@juliam5628]

omgg😍😍😍😍i love this

[@ahmedenglishfrench5606]

you 're really amazing together

[@Valeriie2692]

Lmaooo that face of louis when raya read that about getting married or have kids!!! 🤣🤣

[@lauras6016]

Valeria Patiño i

[@Canyoudigityesyoucan]

Agreed take your time and build a life together. Lovely people congrats

[@shereebirkhead2003]

You guys are so great together. I think to be a couple you don't have to be so alike, just best friends who get each other. As a couple if you can always say sorry, forgive and have respect for each other you will be okay :)

[@Lilyb3333]

Two words Relationship goals

[@Dutchfruitjar]

My husband and I are both Acts of Service with Receiving Gifts and Words of Affirmation being very low. We've been together 9.5 years, married only 1.5 years and absolutely no hurry to have kids. We only had a wedding due to a certain level of guilt of being only children. But it was enjoyable and I got to wear a gorgeous dress :)

[@laurenmorris.5578]

You guys are cute.I love you Raya💖💖💖💖

[@Moira1309]

I just watched this today, and when you talked about marriage and children, so true why do you want to rush. I married my husband after we where 5.5 years together. We decided after that to go travelling so we did from 2007 until 2010. We moved to New Zealand as we are Dutch. Lived there until 2018 and left again for another world travel. We are together for 18.5 years and are so happy together so he is the one for me. No babies for us as we are happy together.

[@wen1803]

part2 please.

[@inac.7842]

you two are sooo cute xxx

[@vikasva7146]

You're such a cute mindful couple🙏love you

[@MsZepheus]

But the video felt so short!

[@RayaWasHere]

+Christina Kersten ah thank you! I was worried it was too long!

[@dogandcrow8479]

For the subject I agree. Part two is a must :)

[@457azazazaz]

Lol at 6:55 . And that everyone, is how a meme is born. 😂

[@danae808]

Best couple 😢

[@prasadp9320]

congratulation and best wishes

[@mariannechevrier7908]

And as soon as you have a baby, people won't stop asking about other babies! The pressure never ends!