Рет қаралды 22
Mother-in-law is to blame.
Cases of divorce because of mother-in-law do not happen so often, but they still happen. The reason for this is the same feminine energy that does not allow the woman herself to live. It definitely needs to be shared with someone. As a rule, a woman pours it out on men and children. Before the son-in-law appeared in the family, this energy was distributed and “settled down.” And so, the daughter brought a man into the house, and the mechanism for transferring energy to him turns on automatically. This is the nature of women. It’s good when his wife gives him energy. But what to do with your mother-in-law. When a son-in-law feels excessive attention from his mother-in-law in the form of nagging, advice, feeding or gifts, he is not always ready to accept it. Most often, his wife’s attention is enough for him. He wants to isolate himself from additional attention from his mother-in-law. There are grievances on her part. This is all expressed to the daughter. And then the daughter finds herself “between two fires.” If this continues for a long time and the conflict is not resolved, this is the reason for divorce. What should a young man do? The easiest way is to take the family away from the mother-in-law. This is not always possible. The next way is to perceive your mother-in-law as your own mother and still take energy from her, albeit not in such quantities. The third way is to find a decent object for energy consumption on her side. As in the case of a mother-in-law, it can be a man, travel, charity, interest clubs... Both reasons for divorce, where the culprits, the mother-in-law or mother-in-law, are eliminated by the man. And he has the power to solve this. If a man transfers the resolution of the conflict to the women themselves, divorce is inevitable. This is what weak men do. Remember this.