As parents it is not our job to necessarily understand, it is our job to love and support our children. My son’s best friend is non binary but still uses he/him and his parents don’t support him. He is now MY son because he’s an amazing human being.
@BBWBabeLisa3 жыл бұрын
Ur amazing, I am non binary, I'm 11,my parents support me and all that, ur amazing, if they didn't I couldnt imagine how good it would feel to have u as my friends parent, I have a friend who lives at the other side of the world who has supportive parents, and one in my country who had them too, but you are the best, keep doing what ur doing and keep being amazing like u are now! :)
@Jasonstone12343 жыл бұрын
My parents do support it so I can’t tell them😔
@plebthepebble38773 жыл бұрын
awe
@ednasierra10833 жыл бұрын
Sharon with the mom perspective, Ryan’s maturity, Sage’s TikTok, and The Trevor project 👏👏👏
@sagetrebilcock65623 жыл бұрын
Nooo I must be the first ultra famous sage
@sago29413 жыл бұрын
@@sagetrebilcock6562 Oop I'm Sage too-
@sagetrebilcock65623 жыл бұрын
@@sago2941 noooo 😂
@sago29413 жыл бұрын
@@sagetrebilcock6562 hehehehe yassssss
@sagetrebilcock65623 жыл бұрын
Well remember my name thou. You’ll have to cause it’s urs too 😂 but imma be a actress one day. You’ll see I just ain’t their yet cause I’m broke. But if I was rich it’s be over.
@alextownley93883 жыл бұрын
As a straight person I love seeing these videos. It just makes me happy to see people being authentic to how they feel, and getting the positivity and love they deserve!
@rowanmarie8693 жыл бұрын
You are a great ally
@jisoostatic91003 жыл бұрын
10:10 when I came out (non-binary, they/them), I was so scared, even though my parents are the most supportive people ever and my mom is bi, but I was terrified that they would be disappointed or something, and once I finally told them I started crying because I was so scared. My mom started crying too, because she thought she had made me feel like she wouldn't be accepting, which is so not true. Even after they had accepted me, I kept thinking in the back of my mind that they were using my old pronouns and name behind my back, even though, again, they honestly gave me no reason to think that. One day my mom just randomly said "you know we're fully committed to this, right? Your dad and I have been practicing together your new name and pronouns", and I started sobbing because I felt so relieved and happy. I know that a lot of people feel like this about coming out, no matter the circumstances, and it's probably very hard to see your child so terrified of telling you who they are, because you never wanted to make them feel that way. I want those parents to know, its not always your fault, society has made us believe that it's unlikely that anyone will accept us, even the people we're closest with. Obviously there are parents who don't accept their children unfortunately, but I'm talking about ones like mine, who did everything they could to raise me to be completely open and proud of who I am. Even with all that, I still had these fears, and it took me a full year after I realized my gender to tell them, because of my fear. Sorry for this long ass comment, the ending of that video just really hit me, because I remember feeling like that when I came out
@oreosandmilk93233 жыл бұрын
i’m going to be honest with you, after reading that, although i don’t know you, i’m really proud of you person! you just told your story about coming out and that is truly amazing! i wish you the best of luck in the future!!
@icouldntthinkofaname38713 жыл бұрын
This comment is so true my parents are the most supportive people but it still took me so long to come out to my parents.
@allysonbergey20613 жыл бұрын
I am married to a man and I love him. However, I identify as bisexual. I didn't feel comfortable saying that until I was 30. My husband was the first person I told and he was like that makes sense. Does it change anything between us? I said no not really but I feel more comfortable now.
@BlurHere3 жыл бұрын
Uuugh thank you for this comment. I’m still figuring things out but I had similar convo and this just made me realize I’m not alone in self discovery as a 28 year old.
@allysonbergey20613 жыл бұрын
@@BlurHere No you aren't alone. It took a lot for me to figure me out and I still don't even always know.
@Noa......3 жыл бұрын
@@allysonbergey2061 So, he sort of knew before you offically came out?
@allysonbergey20613 жыл бұрын
@@Noa...... He knew I thought girls were pretty but he didn't think it was anything other than just that.
@christajacobsz25063 жыл бұрын
Allyson Bergey,my husband supports me 100%,but I'm still struggling with it. And I only realised it at 37years old.
@angelamorrow89733 жыл бұрын
I’m 42, southern, white and Christian. I have 2 daughters (5 and 2). I’ve always said it doesn’t matter who they end up loving as long as they treat them right. They can’t get married til they are 25 and have a college education lol but I’ll accept and love them no matter what. But if anyone tries to hurt my girls then I’m going to kick some ass.
@HitTheFloor163 жыл бұрын
respect. pure, respect.
@Meriemmed973 жыл бұрын
This is so precious 🥺❤️
@angelamorrow89733 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand how anyone can disown their child. I carried my oldest for 39 weeks 6 days and 11.5 hours. My second for 39 weeks and 4 days. I had my body cut open to get them here safely. I went thru excruciating pain. I would die for my daughters. So why would I disown my them for who they love? If any parent does that then they are not worthy to be a parent.
@plebthepebble38773 жыл бұрын
respects to u
@callm3cam3 жыл бұрын
I'm straight and christian, but the thing that bothers me is that some parents aren't supportive because of what religion they are.
@kayejmiah25473 жыл бұрын
Oh rlly? Wot religion?
@callm3cam3 жыл бұрын
@@kayejmiah2547 My Religion, Muslims etc
@callm3cam3 жыл бұрын
@@kayejmiah2547 My Religion, Muslims etc
@averagemcdonaldsbaddie10683 жыл бұрын
@@callm3cam you could be Christian and support lgbtq+
@geerockett3 жыл бұрын
@@averagemcdonaldsbaddie1068 yes this is what they're saying I believe - that they are a Christian who is an ally but they are upset that some religious people try to use their religion against the community
@SassafrasTee73663 жыл бұрын
I love the mom asking her son what his new name would be. She actually is interested in helping her son transition. Edit: I found out that Oliver’s mom doesn’t support him anymore. That’s a real jerk move on the mom’s part
@somerandomhumanbeingonthei19243 жыл бұрын
Truly 😭 she said “let’s get it going!” I need a mom like thattttt
@elevenmoons40203 жыл бұрын
Yeah it seems so sweet and not to bring the mood down but that mom ended up not supporting him later :(( she was just being nice because she was being filmed I feel so bad for Oliver
@rilldineth3 жыл бұрын
@@elevenmoons4020 omg really!? Now that's just awful
@jaylafields27783 жыл бұрын
@@rilldineth Wait is that actually true?!
@thechimfan13133 жыл бұрын
@@elevenmoons4020 Source?
@daveyJ0nes3 жыл бұрын
I love the dad's reactions in the cake one's cuz they always look confused about wht's on the cake. There was one dad that was like, "Why are you crying sweetie? it's just cake it's okay."
@carschmn3 жыл бұрын
😂 dads
@alexxander9663 жыл бұрын
I want to see that oh my god
@Ebie_3 жыл бұрын
My favorite tiktok like this is the one where the girl goes "Dad I'm bi" And her dad goes "Bi? Bi is good, I like bi, you enjoy your best of both worlds" :)))))
@cidercake43733 жыл бұрын
Hmm that girl's dad is right, the best of both worlds, and the nonbinary, gender fluity(How do I spell fluity AIJA-) worlds.
@sawyer_anne3 жыл бұрын
I heard this on tiktok somewhere: (idk who said it tho) When a person comes out to you, match their energy. If someone is super excited to tell you and are jumping up and down excited, be excited with them! If someone is just being conversational about it, have that reaction. If someone is worried, match that and tell them its ok, thats all we need, is some support.
@cidercake43733 жыл бұрын
Oh that's good knowledge! I sure hope I remember that if anyone comes out to me, I wouldn't want them to feel afraid.
@Cracrayglitterbug3 жыл бұрын
that's what I do
@Mutatedcorpse3 жыл бұрын
I feel so sad For Oliver ;c His mom ended up not supporting him after she was just being nice bc she was being filmed ;c im gonna cry
@userfive12903 жыл бұрын
WHAT, pls tell me where i can see proof lol
@ritacamassa3 жыл бұрын
can i see the link?
@Mutatedcorpse3 жыл бұрын
@@ritacamassa timestamp is 9:38 just type in the tik tok username into tik tok and scroll down until you find the tik tok then scroll up like 2 tik toks or 3 and he should explain about his parents not understanding.
@ritacamassa3 жыл бұрын
@@Mutatedcorpse poor kid :c
@Mutatedcorpse3 жыл бұрын
@@userfive1290 on his tik tok he explains, 9:38 look at the tik tok name and then go to his tik tok, scroll down to the tik tok where he tells his mom, then scroll up like 2 or 3 tik toks and u will find his tik tok explaining
@felecialuster53133 жыл бұрын
So I came out to my mom this year. She accepted it and I didn't think she would. But about a week later we were out to lunch with her church friends and the topic of lgbtq+ came up and she was like yeah I don't really support it. It didn't surprise me just disappointed me. And that's my story lol
@abear51373 жыл бұрын
omg iam sorry, that really broke my heart to hear that. i hope your fine and doing well and dont give a f@€k what people may say
@felecialuster53133 жыл бұрын
@@abear5137 I appreciate it hun. And yeah I'm fine and doing descent. Embracing me for me. She can't change who I am ☺️
@michellefreis31393 жыл бұрын
Sadly my parents didn't accept me when I came out but I'm fine now a I found out I'm pan a I'm not telling my parents mow
@felecialuster53133 жыл бұрын
@@michellefreis3139 I'm so sorry hun. I'm actually pan as well. I'm glad you're being your true self luv
@spider-woman94823 жыл бұрын
that's messed up. right in front of you? she should be ashamed of herself. i don't care how nervous she was, you have it a lot worse. hope she swallows her pride and becomes an actual mother. stay safe and happy pride ^^
@cracked_clips60233 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh.. Im straight, but I support the LGBTQ community and on the first video Im already tearing.
@MCG5253 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@popanga09943 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your support
@cracked_clips60233 жыл бұрын
@@popanga0994 no problem
@VintageVinny3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@joshuaciresoli29273 жыл бұрын
As an uncle to a niece who has come out, I am so proud of her and grateful to the LGBTQ+ community
@maomaomaimaimao3 жыл бұрын
Nice
@meganguild12212 жыл бұрын
The first person I told I didn’t plan it. He was a friend from work and we’d been away at something and driving back he’d been talking to me about his current relationship. When he asked me about my situation I just felt safe and told the truth. No big deal, he was great about it but the weight that lifted from my shoulders was amazing.
@ratthatsmilesback77723 жыл бұрын
My coming out story because why not: Me: *nervous asf,* hey dad...I need to tell you something. Dad: What’s up? Me: I like girls Dad: Woah, how do you know? Me: Idk, I’m just attracted to them? Dad: Me too😎 Then he high-fived me and that was that
@suzawilo3 жыл бұрын
Awwww👍🏽❤️
@harvinaarvi16873 жыл бұрын
What a lad😂
@xXlolitagirl6Xx3 жыл бұрын
Low key sounds like something my dad would do.
@st1nkyapr1l273 жыл бұрын
LMAO THATS ADORBS
@mohanjassi63843 жыл бұрын
omgg fun
@camarojai68323 жыл бұрын
I love how the mom said “so what does that mean for us?”....people act so foolish about things they don’t know about, so how about you take a moment to learn. From what I’ve seen, being a sister to a brother in the LGBTQ+ community, ask respectfully and you can learn. My brother was a victim of a hate crime and we lost him Jan. 1 of this year.... in memory of him and his life, I will proudly support the community that loved him 🏳️🌈
@ferchism3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. Bless your family, stay strong ♥️♥️
@mayracalvi14293 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss just know he will always be with you from above
@junoforest39153 жыл бұрын
thanks for making this video, I'm 15 bi and in the closet no literally have no one in my family who would be ok with me, its really nice seeing other adults being open minded and supportive with their kids and just others in general haha I may or may not have cried watching this soo yup just thank you so so much!!
@homestuckaddict3 жыл бұрын
You are bi-eautiful
@junoforest39153 жыл бұрын
@@homestuckaddict your gonna make me cry again
@AidanLovesMinecraft3 жыл бұрын
I have the same problem I have only told my grandpa and he supports me I'm just scared to tell the rest of my family but watching this has made me feel relieve
@junoforest39153 жыл бұрын
@@AidanLovesMinecraftyeah I understand completely, its really nice that your grandpa supports you!
@Rapiers-and-flowers3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry I support you :D
@xFUTURExGAMESx3 жыл бұрын
It hurts that this can never be a possibility to some of us, in some parts of the world coming out is never an option
@ArnoSnyman0073 жыл бұрын
Whenever I tried to bring up my bisexuality to my mother (forbid I ever try tell me dad), the Bibile get thrown in my face. The only person who has 100% accepted me was my wife and that was enough for me.
@wandering_penguino3 жыл бұрын
Very happy you found her!
@ReptilianTeaDrinker3 жыл бұрын
It's good that you found someone who accepts you for you and that you're happy. :D I'm sorry that your parents weren't accepting, though. :(
@alllittlethingzz3 жыл бұрын
Same here sadly but my boyfriend and my friends support me
@ericacallisen12672 жыл бұрын
My coming out story is actually really fun, people always laugh when I tell them I ordered 50 of those small flags you put in a cake, the ones with the wooden stick. They were lesbian. When they came I made sure my parents wouldn't see them. I cut off all the sticks, took the flags, got into my closet, and called my mom. When she finally opened the closet I threw the flags right in her face and screamed "surprise". She looked at me real weird with those little flags all over the place, while I was fighting my way out of the closet. She didn't say anything so I said "Mom, I'm gay" she replied with "OHH THAT'S WHAT THIS IS ABOUT! Yeah, I know, this wasn't really needed"
@iheartmyself4442 жыл бұрын
awh😭
@kristybs3 жыл бұрын
Oh, I loved first video dad's reaction: " Surprise! I'm Bi!" Dad: "Racial?" XD
@hunterohara68073 жыл бұрын
When I came out, my mom thought it was a phase and it hurt me that she didn’t support her kid. Her and my step dad finally accepted me when I was going to a behavioral hospital, they finally realized it wasn’t a phase
@ash_jinx2602 жыл бұрын
I cried at the first one because my mom said it was just a phase when I came out,but now she’s slowly understanding
@boltaudios26933 жыл бұрын
Y’all I came out at a church parking lot 💀 I have no regrets tho lmao
@Lovtv563 жыл бұрын
😂 king/ queen right here 👆
@SillySamWho3 жыл бұрын
Be my friend LOL
@spaghetti90672 жыл бұрын
“I’m bi” Dad: *Biracial?* Daughter and wife: *tf*
@elielfelipecampos85272 жыл бұрын
"I'm bi" "Hi bi, I'm dad"
@tyriquebaartman62322 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this a year ago thinking I'll never be able to do what these brave people did, happy to say I've been out for 8 months now :) ♡
@Hannahs.Senior.Year.Archive3 жыл бұрын
Does anybody else’s parents say they’re okay with our sexuality no matter what it is but when you tell them, they say they don’t care, but in reality, they’re uncomfortable.
@sammikay68893 жыл бұрын
I told my dad that I'm an Asexual PanRom demigirl, A she/they if u will. And about a month ago I was talking to him about clothing and said "I accept that I am biologically female now-" Dad, "Oh so you're finally admitting you're female huh?" I was hurt BC I thought he understood and was OK with it. 😢 But apparently not.
@linshiiin3 жыл бұрын
I’m an Panromantic Ace Non-binary I have told some of my closest friends first and they said they’re happy being whoever I am but yet I still think they can be uncomfortable with me :(
@oldfashionedlvrboy3 жыл бұрын
yup my parents were denying it, i was like bro what.. but now they just understand that i'm never gonna change
@nagito1773 жыл бұрын
mine lol
@andrea72393 жыл бұрын
i feel that's what happened with my mom. she was going through my tiktok and the next day she told me that she didn't care if i was bi or not as long as i was happy but i feel like she might've been uncomfortable about the situation
@hidinfromdacops22463 жыл бұрын
Everyone remember you don’t HAVE to come out. It’s a privilege for people to know the real you, it’s not a right. You don’t have to tell anyone so you shouldn’t be or feel pressured to do so
@unspecifiedunit91263 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I have a deep inner feeling that people are doing this only because it’s trendy and they receive inadequate attention.
@toulouseee56712 жыл бұрын
I never actually came out to my parents, I met a girl and a fell in love. We started dating and my parents suspected it so at some point I was like "Lisa is my girlfriend btw" I was honestly more concerned about them being pissed about our age difference than her being a girl. They always made it very clear that they didn't care who any of their kids are with as long as we are happy and it was clear how happy I was
@MgmGem3 жыл бұрын
I applaud all of these brave, amazing people for coming out and living as their authentic selves👏🏻♥️ I hope with all of my heart that someday in the near future, people will no longer have to come out and that they can just be who they are and be accepted and for celebrated for it 🤞🏻 Thanks for the great video!
@x2kzx3 жыл бұрын
no
@dinodudegames71533 жыл бұрын
@@x2kzx yup
@vp95493 жыл бұрын
@@Sheridantank Last I checked, you can choose not to smoke; you can’t choose attraction. It can be considered “brave” when over half the country’s population supports religions which demonize them.
@MgmGem3 жыл бұрын
@@vp9549 Exactly! Thank you 👏🏻
@d6ubles3 жыл бұрын
fun fact: whoever watched this rn hasn’t watched the whole thing yet
@jony2thik2903 жыл бұрын
R u sure about that
@hamclamcamp3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@FireWolf53423 жыл бұрын
They should make it a function where you can’t comment on a video unless you’ve watched the entire thing.
@jony2thik2903 жыл бұрын
@@FireWolf5342 no.
@FireWolf53423 жыл бұрын
@Where’s the lie tho Yes lol.
@cade46303 жыл бұрын
If my kid comes out as a part of lgbtq community, i will never reject them because FAMILY IS FOREVER
@armasandoval523 жыл бұрын
This is fast and the furious over here. We do this for the fucking family man
@loggerlogan60843 жыл бұрын
Shit my kid going to the adoption senter if that happens
@my_friends_cat19303 жыл бұрын
@@loggerlogan6084 can I ask why you only love ur kid if they grow up in ur expectations
@rainbow51843 жыл бұрын
@@loggerlogan6084 I hope u never have kids then
@xtianzpaul52673 жыл бұрын
This is what i called content yes they're are back like OG REACT IS BACK.
@Riree123 жыл бұрын
OMG YES
@BopaBola3 жыл бұрын
They're are? They're means they are...
@amberney63313 жыл бұрын
when i came out to my friends they were like "ok?" and just carried on with their conversation and i was SOOOO relieved.
@puti-h1x3 жыл бұрын
Same, i was in 5th grade at the time too😭
@sammaina43053 жыл бұрын
Me too. I legit told them yesterday
@Blocky_Frog3 жыл бұрын
My friend just said “ok cool, good for you” and we kept playing the game we were playing
@citlalycarrillo38763 жыл бұрын
Not the chick-fil-a add on the coming out videos😭😭
@darksoulgaming83983 жыл бұрын
I got a McDonald's ad 😭
@ladydavinci99143 жыл бұрын
“Okay Gollum, give it to me” hahahaha George is such a mood and I’m here for it!
@methicality3 жыл бұрын
at 9:33 ,,, oliver's mom did not accept him ,, it was just because he had the camera up . he posted about it a while ago saying that his mom didn't support him and stuff ,
@chelseacabling8393 жыл бұрын
noooo :((
@silk14403 жыл бұрын
link?
@alexdacat37453 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😭
@loop53073 жыл бұрын
@@silk1440 look up his @
@silk14403 жыл бұрын
@@loop5307 i did but couldnt find it smh
@priddy_101 Жыл бұрын
When I came out, after I explained to my mom and brother that I was queer and not a lesbian my mom held up her hand for a high five and said, “Congrats! You came out!”
@priddy_101 Жыл бұрын
Then my other brother said, “Really? I thought you were more asexual than anything.” And I responded, “Yeah, I’m that too” 😂
@ash_jinx2603 жыл бұрын
Felt this because I came out and my mum said,”yea we know,we expected it due to what you liked as a child”. It makes me laugh because I like girl and boy toys as a kid and look at me now! I’m gender fluid and pansexual!
@Layla-om7bl3 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you for coming out!! :)
@Jaysnachos Жыл бұрын
The end of this video had me crying in my room at 10 pm. I'm a 14 year old pansexual and I've been so scared to tell anyone. Thank you so much
@Kiki35957 Жыл бұрын
Don't worry, you're not the only one.
@matthensler238 Жыл бұрын
Just know there’s people out there that love you and support you.
@addybarr83353 жыл бұрын
My cousin had the most hilarious situation Her: dad… I’m bisexual Her dad: (yells her moms name) DID YOU KNOW YOUR DAUGHTERS A BISEXUAL?! Her mom: YES AND ITS NONE OF OUR DAMN BUSINESS
@HeyItsZee_3 жыл бұрын
I'm a pansexual female and I wish I could've had the same support from my mother. At the time I came out to my mother as bisexual and she said to me "no your not, your not anything". I will never forget that. I'm about to graduate college and my family is coming down for a graduation dinner. I'm thinking about coming out again but with my aunts and uncles there
@aviaesquire3 жыл бұрын
I wish you luck! 🏳️🌈
@inkeriananas3 жыл бұрын
Good luck 💜💜
@Adrian_Colville3 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@arlenecherono85273 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh me toooooo! But my mum said simply "no" then went one with life.
@HeyItsZee_3 жыл бұрын
@@aviaesquire aww thank youu!
@stephaniecornwell87662 жыл бұрын
My dad was in the hospital June 2020 for emergency heart bypass surgery. I had lost my mom 18 months before and was so afraid I’d lose him. I couldn’t be there with him so my last conversation with him before surgery, I said “dad, I never could have told mom this but I want to tell you in case things don’t go well. I’m Bi.” He just said “that doesn’t matter to me. As long as you are happy, I’m happy” I sobbed like a total idiot!
@theboredpotato7273 Жыл бұрын
I remember when i came out to my brother,i told him over text by saying he instead of she when i talked about a crush,he was fully supportive and made me feel like being bi wasnt something to hide
@Cynicalsoulx3 жыл бұрын
I'm asexual and I have no idea how to bring it up. I don't think my family even knows that exist
@erikac.94643 жыл бұрын
Do they need to know? I feel like unless there's a reason to explain yourself or bring it up, that is something you can keep to yourself, and nobody needs to know or is entitled to know that unless you want them to. It's okay to not say anything and you shouldn't feel badly about keeping that to yourself if you want. Bring it up when you and if you want.
@Daesma9993 жыл бұрын
As a demisexual *I felt that* but there's no need telling anyone since they already know the bloodline ends with me, so.. 😂😂
@Nicolejensen20113 жыл бұрын
The way I did it was kinda two times. Me and my family make a lot of dirty jokes, so I just through it in there kinda like ‘and that won’t happen to me because I’m aseksual’ also when I had a girlfriend my parents asked about the relationship and sex and I told them about it and showed them an episode of ‘sounds fake but okay’ podcast and they understand a bit better now, not completely but better
@firacosplay3 жыл бұрын
Take your time, once you feel ready do it to those who you know will support you, it’s scary but once you do it, it feels liberating
@LilithZephirus3 жыл бұрын
As an almost married hetero asexual, you DON'T HAVE TO. Some of my very close friends know, but who has to know is your partner (if you want/have one) and that's it. It's no one else's business but yours and maybe a partner. End of the story.
@valeryvilla58086 ай бұрын
I remember watching this years ago when i didn't know how to tell my parents, a time later i talked about it for the first time, they've been very suportive since them. So grateful to God for having them.
@AvaStaubus2 жыл бұрын
The guy who said “bi” “Bi racial?” OMG 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 These made me tear tho 🥹
@JosephWallace-yy8oq5 ай бұрын
the fact my own parents would likely disown me for the first video is kinda sad, thats why they dont know im bi
@JosephWallace-yy8oq5 ай бұрын
context i am happily married to my female wife so like it really "doesnt matter" but i still wish i had an affirming family
@pupdragon5 ай бұрын
@@JosephWallace-yy8oqi reallu really bad for you, better they don’t know but it’s even even better that they didn’t know when you were a child
@Benjifan20007 ай бұрын
My coming out story was like this: "Hey mom I'm bisexual" "What's that" "It means I'm attracted to everyone" "Okay cool i just want you to be happy" Amazing how a Christian can actually be supportive
@ZeniththeRat6 ай бұрын
Actually attracted to everyone is pan
@Benjifan20006 ай бұрын
@@ZeniththeRat That's an oversimplification
@ZeniththeRat6 ай бұрын
@@Benjifan2000 true 🤝
@alexandriamoening30943 жыл бұрын
I'm straight, I just like listening to their stories bc I think it's interesting.
@sweaterissue73823 жыл бұрын
True
@millie24083 жыл бұрын
omgg same
@cuahutemocflores67353 жыл бұрын
Yuhh same
@Speedoodleman3 жыл бұрын
I’m bi but a lot of ppl think I’m straight because I hiding in a closet. Soooooo….
@tvommy3 жыл бұрын
If you’re in the closet, we’re all here for you. Stay strong kiddo.
@sadem10453 жыл бұрын
2:21 "Is this a joke?" "No." "Does it look like she's joking?"
@sadem10453 жыл бұрын
@Miles Stop selling your religion.
@tennis4833 жыл бұрын
My favorite coming out tik toks are when the parents are like "About time you came out!?!?" or "Well duh". Just seeing parents already have that level of understanding and are just waiting for when their kids to feel comfortable to come out is sweet but also quite funny
@NONPOINT4203 жыл бұрын
"And figure out how to make that happen for you". Wow that is wonderful way to respond.
@giovanna45403 жыл бұрын
2:25 what the moms says in a foreign language is "don't cry, why are you crying?" in a warm tone ur welcome :))
@ombecker3 жыл бұрын
in the car one with oliver, he stated after and made another vid talking about how his mom refused to use he/him pronouns and refused to call him oliver
@thermodynamiclawyer3 жыл бұрын
:(
@Harperyt_yt3 жыл бұрын
Nooooo :(
@vasseem123 жыл бұрын
@@Harperyt_yt yeah she acted nice cause she was on camera :((
@marykreed20113 жыл бұрын
Can someone please get this message to George: BABE I need to go shopping with you!!! Your style is unmatched! PUHLEASEEEEE 😍😍😍
@audreym39083 жыл бұрын
Same girl!
@milag86813 жыл бұрын
y'all are wired :/
@yeetyeet93233 жыл бұрын
@@milag8681 wired to my fav tv
@bekahpincurek26453 жыл бұрын
ill never forget when i came out to my mom and she said “okay, i dont love you any less”
@DinosaurNick2 жыл бұрын
"I-I'm a b-b-boy..." You can hear the fear/nervousness in his voice ... bless him and his supportive parents
@JW-gl4yp2 жыл бұрын
She's not a boy
@elinbird002 жыл бұрын
@@JW-gl4yp he*
@satanslittleprince2 жыл бұрын
@@JW-gl4yp he is, cry about it
@Sunnywomp2 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mother by saying these exact words: I’m bicycle without the ‘cycle’
@kavyakumeria5583 жыл бұрын
watching these videos makes me hope that my parents will be as supportive if and when I come out as bi to them
@Livflowerz2 жыл бұрын
When the mom speaks foreign language she actually says: don’t cry, why are you crying?
@tinalafever17562 жыл бұрын
I was outed by a cousin. Got kicked out and told to stay away from my younger brothers and sisters. Eventually my mom let me see my siblings. All that opened the door for 3 cousins and my youngest sister to come out. I would go threw it again for them.
@SlyAmbition2 жыл бұрын
okay first of all, that's messed up. You are perfect the way you are and that was not right of them to keep you away from your siblings. However I admire your compassion for them and I'm happy that all is well now.
@kornholio643 жыл бұрын
I remember the day my daughter came out to me. As her voice started to shake (this was over a phone call, she was in Chicago and I was in Puerto Rico) I told her "I know, I've known for years". We talked for 3 hours (even when I was at work). So I told her that I love you, that mom loves you more and your siblings are in full supportive mode. It was me the one who cried when I told my mom and my siblings. Now she's been married for more than 5 years to her lovely wife and I can't wait to see her later this year, if we have luck this time, It's been almost 3 years without seen her. Love you Di!!!
@spaceholder15443 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful wishing your family the best
@ferchism3 жыл бұрын
I wish you all a happy reunion!! ♥️♥️
@Layla.633 жыл бұрын
must be nice having supportive parents
@trogdortheburninator36212 жыл бұрын
man, I'm sorry for all y'all in the comments that had no support. that's shit. when my child came out as bi and that they are gender fluid, I was all like, cool. it didn't change my love for them. they are still the fruit of my womb and I love them.
@rheighnavanhooser24512 жыл бұрын
My brother was scared to come out to me, even though he knew I was out. He was having a bad night. We grabbed a few beers and went to the empty baseball field. He goes "hey sis I have something to tell you. Idk how to say it...... I'm bi" I responded with "that's awesome! We can check out people together!" ♥️
@daisy4margarida2753 жыл бұрын
The frist mom said: "dont cry, why are you crying?"
@EvilHagg272 жыл бұрын
This makes me happy but also a little sad bc I didn’t have supportive people in my family and I wish I had that 😕
@scarletjester78312 жыл бұрын
When I came out to my brother, he said "okay" looked over to his fiance(who was the first person I came out too) and said to her "you owe me $20". Later that day, when I was leaving their place he stopped me and said "I've been waiting years to say this... BI!"
@Bluefrostcos3 жыл бұрын
When I came out to my mom and sisters they all supported me and I busted out in tears as well
@wonyo10863 жыл бұрын
11:50 i needed to hear this thank you so much 😭😭 i am confuse with who I am and feel pressured to label my identity 😭
@jayotic20183 жыл бұрын
I'm straight and this made me happy. WOW!!!!
@tay-0073 жыл бұрын
My mom said "ok what do you want for lunch" lol
@ayden58843 жыл бұрын
Hello lovelies, happy pride month! To all of my fellow LGBTQ+ friends, whether you're out, not out, or if it's complicated, I love you and I'm so incredibly proud of who you are and who you'll become. You're so so valid, and you have a huge community of people who value you. I hope you have the happiest of days💜
@deltavods21643 жыл бұрын
I love ays!
@yeetyeet93233 жыл бұрын
@@deltavods2164 ayyyyy
@Wannabee_BEE9 ай бұрын
Have watched this at least 3 times and each time i had to pause and breathe many times.
@Ranch1233 жыл бұрын
I came out 3 days after I found out I'm Bi though texts. I basically just said "Mom I'm Bi" "Ok I love you no matter what" and then we haven't really talked about it. It is basically like this every time have come out.
@Awakening_Sunshine3 жыл бұрын
Awwww, congrats 🏳️🌈
@kesar28493 жыл бұрын
Yeah it just at one moment you are sure of your sexuality and that vest moment to come out .. It takes time to get to that point bit it worth the joy
@kieranobrien82953 жыл бұрын
I've been out for about a year with some of my family but I'm scared to come out to the rest of them but at least my parents believe I am who I am and love me no matter what
@marquisdelafayette33333 жыл бұрын
Nice 👍
@Ranch1233 жыл бұрын
I have found out through editing this that punctuation is very important.
@caryljadeeyy57923 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mom and grandma just like last year, and I’m happy that they’re okay with it. Though actually I just also found out last year that I’m bi, so yeah.
@nailartnoob78713 жыл бұрын
My grandma reacted what? I don’t know if she was confused or didn’t understand it
@parkchaeyoung34233 жыл бұрын
@Miles What? What ever u just said about all this sins aint got nothin to do with lgbtq+.
@antoniomorrow73133 жыл бұрын
Sitting here crying jealous this people coming out went so well
@angeladeleon1933 жыл бұрын
I’m straight but I love educating myself on sensitive topics like this in case I have a child, family member or friend part of the LGBTQ+ community. It is important to respect and understand others as well as make them feel comfortable.
@SpellCasted_3 жыл бұрын
same!:)
@gaanadelrey3 жыл бұрын
Sameee and I feel like I can never discuss this with anyone even though I'm really passionate about these movements and these communities
@gxffyz3 жыл бұрын
🤓
@fangirldreamer7483 жыл бұрын
Even if you are straight, you can still be apart of the LGBTQIA+ community. For example I am straight. And Aromantic and Asexual.
@angeladeleon1933 жыл бұрын
@@fangirldreamer748 What exactly is aromatic?
@Tania-sw2kz3 жыл бұрын
When my daughter came out she thought I’ll stop loving her, but hell no I give birth to the wonderful amazing person I just love her more. I would never stop loving her 🥰 she’s my baby.
@emptyXarena3 жыл бұрын
thank u for being a great mom
@jug-fb2ib3 жыл бұрын
You're such a great mum.
@Random.singer3 жыл бұрын
Props to you my friend. We need more people like you in this world. Thank you and keep doing what your doing. ❤️
@mysoundofficial10473 жыл бұрын
u are great
@KM-nu7vj2 жыл бұрын
Oliver's mom had the best reaction. Calm, not panicking but also not making a big deal about it either way. I've heard some parents say that they are worried that their kid might just be confused or might "change their mind" -- and you know what, sure, let's say that the kid might be confused (what kid ISN'T confused about who they are?) and they might change their mind (or rather, they might realize who they are in a deeper level, and identify in a different way later). That doesn't negate who they are in that moment, and how they feel. Let them explore who they are, how they identify, and support them no matter what. I think about it this way - an adult is allowed to believe a certain religion, and feel very strongly about that religious identity. They can later change their mind and identify with a different religion. That doesn't negate their previous beliefs or make them false. Or to give another analogy, let's say your kid said that they love math and want to be a mathematician one day. You'd support that and give them the resources they need to pursue that goal. You wouldn't say, "But I thought you would be a writer! I put you in writing camp last summer. What if you decide later that you want to study English more? You shouldn't join Math Club, because I think that you might later change your mind and decide not to study math at all."
@TommyD12132 жыл бұрын
It 100% negates what they can be in the future if they do change their mind at 20 but they had “gender-affirming” surgery at 12. You completely summarized the argument against allowing kids to make permanent decisions because of a temporary feeling.
@jbwallace91 Жыл бұрын
my friends son came out with a cake, and his mom and dad were like dude we dont care who you love, you brought cake!! it was funny they cared about the cake not his sexuality!
@bloemeklein85333 жыл бұрын
My best friend told me today that she is bi and im so f*cking proud of her!!
@abear51373 жыл бұрын
right! same to me like, a week ago when she came out to me and iam really proud for her
@bloemeklein85333 жыл бұрын
@@abear5137 oehh yess so proud of our friends!
@hxdiqa.k223 жыл бұрын
the first video was genuinely so cute and wholesome. the mom understood the message first but it took the dad a while to get it. AND HER BROTHER FRICKING FILMING IT WAS PERFECT!!!
@rach94902 жыл бұрын
"we'll figure out how to make that happen for you." I couldn't keep it together after that, I cried so hard. All parents should be as accepting as that mother is. 🏳️🌈
@disableddragonborn2 жыл бұрын
Oliver handled that like a pro, too. I'm an awkward enby that hates awkward conversations almost as much as I hate awkward silence/pauses. 🤣
@lovelymicky2813 жыл бұрын
I just told my mom while we were having a conversation about my grandparents not excepting my aunt for being bi and I just straight up said, “I’m bi too.” She was like, “I knew. I was just waiting for you to say it.” We’re all bi. My siblings already knew. I wasn’t afraid to tell her. I just didn’t want to have the awkward conversation. I knew she would accept me because she’s bi as well, but I didn’t want to sit in her room for an hour explaining something I already knew about myself.
@abear51373 жыл бұрын
dude iam crying she is so cool😣😭. proud of y'all
@lovelymicky2813 жыл бұрын
@@abear5137 Aww, thanks😌
@mars_maragno71713 жыл бұрын
The first one when the mom said "pq vc ta chorando, nn chora" (or "why are you crying? Dont cry" in portuguese) was so sweet
@ms.teacher90453 жыл бұрын
It’s been very a long journey figuring out my identity. I recently discovered that I identify as an asexual (she/her pronouns). Although I haven’t been able to come out in general but I want to hopefully one day be able to have that conversation with my family. I’m 30 and I was thankful enough to meet some great people and have good conversations with other asexuals. I just hope that folks will be able to just live their lives and be happy.
@oakui3 жыл бұрын
the one of oliver coming out actually wasnt as happy as it seemed his parents didn’t approve off cameras
@caity62083 жыл бұрын
Really? Aww. I feel so bad :(
@cidercake43733 жыл бұрын
Yeah I hope Oliver gets away from them if he wants to. They aren't nice.
@raye7693 жыл бұрын
I got outed to my mom as bi a few years ago. It was sad but now I know I’m Genderfluid and Omnisexual and I got to tell her myself.
@sammythenon-binary55173 жыл бұрын
Y’all I want Sharon as my mom-
@santaklaus373 жыл бұрын
"Okay golem give it to me" girlie be a whole mood 🤣
@animefoodnetwork3 жыл бұрын
My kids are still young, but my partner and I have discussed it and feel that if our children feel the need to "come out" rather than just show up with whomever they are dating etc, that is a failing on our part to make them feel comfortable in our love and acceptance of them... Same goes if they wanna transition etc, they should always know we will support them in whatever makes them happy :)
@WynnK_2 жыл бұрын
Last time I watched this I thought I was straight LMFAO