Did My Dad Accept Me After I Came Out? | Cut

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[@user-cv3ry9ci6k]

"She's an aquarius, that was hilarious" that's lowkey a bar though😭😭

[@MiriamA766]

I'll never not find it ridiculous that people believe in astrology 🙄🤦.

[@cosmic_peach]

​And the people who do will never care that you dont🤪​@@MiriamA766

[@phronesis1642]

I almost clicked off this Video because i am so biased about people who belive in astrology

[@mordicaiknode]

True poet & you don't know it moment.

[@ahsaym4161]

@@phronesis1642no one cares bro

[@sarahmarie4180]

I cried like a baby when she asked “Do you still love me” and be grabbed her hands 🥹🥺

[@salsasoul4112]

OMGGGGG! Me toooooooo! I burst into tears.

[@serendipit_y]

sanjana's father clearly 1) loves her and 2) knows that loving her is the most important thing. he definitely was processing a lot (he's tipsy, on camera, finding out surprising things about his daughter who he didn't think was dating at all) but he controlled his reaction and showed that he prioritized her happiness. these moments are rarely going to be picture perfect and it's unfair to judge him on assumptions instead of on his actions and how his daughter speaks of him.

[@johannabonana5306]

sanjana's reveal was an incredible ride of emotions

[@Shibamatzu]

Especizlly her dad being dissapointed inside out from the first moment

[@rhemaray-mbata8588]

“It’s not about me it’s about your aspirations and happiness” 😢😢

[@chelseapatrick4026]

keep doing more of these PLEASE. we LOVE the follow ups

[@vertov76]

YESSSSS!

[@MyNutzHangLow99]

"SHE...is an Aquarius :p and her name is Carmen" LOL

[@saraschneider6781]

His face actually lit up!🙌

[@daverizz]

Awwww. What a lovely follow-up! Got me over here thinking about my teenage daughter & tearing up; hoping she feels this much love and support from me.

[@tbrown9328]

Watching that video, I was crying. Now, I'm watching this video and I'm crying again. It's just so nice to see supportive parents who love their children unconditionally. Not everyone has that, so these moments are beautiful to see.

[@ginasmitasin479]

I love the way these two men accept their daughter and niece. I’m sure any tears are fear based because there are so many people who wouldn’t be okay with who they are and they understand there is an element of danger for their beloved daughter and niece.

[@jernisharichard5032]

This Lifestyle comes with perversion promiscuity, SA, and DV. They don't talk about this,. Turn to Jesus and be transformed by the RENEWING of your MINDS.

[@user-kf2oi4sq5b]

"if i truly love you, then why should I not be happy for you" ❤️🙌🏼

[@LucyJordan84]

Deep cut (this is this format where you follow up, right?) is super important. It means a lot to learn how the stories continued. Especially, with such an emotional and maybe a bit life-changing topic. Please @cut keep making these follow-ups!

[@aihpospuarg5886]

I love how positive the reactions were!

[@user-ff9mb1ts4u]

The people assuming the worst of Sanjana's father is so indicative of the attitude that people have of brown people and the assumption that they're not as complex and individual as everyone else. It's a common bias humans have towards people they see as "other" and I wish more people were more aware of it.

[@MsDudette21]

and/or these ppl arent naive and know many people from eastern countries arent accepting of lgbt people. it doesnt help he was clearly disappointed and cried after she told him.

[@l.acosta4739]

Have you watched the previous video? People assume the worst of sanjana's father because of the "politics" comment she made about him. Not because he's brown. Also he cried after she told him, so.

[@chelsea5595]

It’s more about culture and religion

[@Night-Shade.]

Like the person before me said. It's more about culture and religion. It's just what typically happens from folks who already have certain beliefs and live in non-diverse environments NOT about being brown.

[@jernisharichard5032]

Turn to Jesus 😢.... My people perish for lack of knowledge. This world is coming to an end, 💓 God wants none to perish. Sin leads to destruction.

[@michikomanalang6733]

“He’s a serial killer????” SIR 😂

[@user-qy1fn7xt2k]

This is so beautiful, crying parent was amazing. The uncle surprised me😊😊😊 In a good way ❤❤❤

[@dollykask270]

The first video gave me the courage to come out to my mom and I’m soooo grateful for it!! I watched the original video and just cried, feeling I cannot be in the closet anymore. I was feeling so many emotions watching their parents reactions and thinking how mine would react. So a week later I decided to come out to my mom (we were going on a trip to Barcelona and I wanted to go to pride there, so this was another huge motivator haha). It went good in a sense she was neutral about it, not angry but not stoked either. Now, over a half a year later she has had time to get used to the idea of me being a lesbian and she feels more comfortable to talk about lgbt+ topics when I bring it up. There’s a long path to go but I’m feeling hopeful and free

[@dollykask270]

Especially Sanjana’s very real interaction with her dad helped me the most I think. The fear was very tangible and I could relate a lot to that. I think her experience was very real life looking and it couraged me in a way “if she was so scared and could do it, why not me?”. I’ll be forever thankful for Cut and the people participating! 🙏

[@jamiejoygatto]

I am crying because this whole thing is so sweet!

[@Sukinero]

Nahhhhh it’s crazy that the whatever you call the woman talking to them in the background assumed that she slept around

[@Zedd...]

It's like Cut employees have a rule to make anything sexual or sexulaize any question they ask their participants

[@Alan-ss5wx]

It felt uncomfortable for sure

[@jernisharichard5032]

Because most are distinctly doing it. This lifestyle comes with promiscuity. Be born again By the transformation of your mind. God wants none to perish. The Bible says flee sexual immortality. Through knowledge shall the JUST be delivered ❤ I'm praying for everyone to be delivered from this sin.

[@pigs18]

​​@@jernisharichard5032 It also says not to eat clam chowder or wear cotton with polyester so excuse us if we take that with a grain of salt. Also, there is no link between promiscuity and queerness. There were a higher percentage of relationships outside of wedlock, but that's solely because marriage wasn't an option.

[@jernisharichard5032]

@@pigs18 It is to be looked at as a whole, once you read it in context you'll start to understand. Don't just take it and say this and that 😆. The link wasn't because of marriage, I'm glad you're looking at it tho, keep seeking the word it will bring the Truth. The knowledge you think you don't want is what is needed to gain the wisdom. May God bless you and transform your mind. With love sis 🙏🏽

[@bones642]

Beautiful 🤩 I was scared to watch this but it was amazing. Especially the warm vibe of wherever that is. Perfect.

[@adfadf32342]

I love those follow up videos! Keep 'em coming!

[@kbroscoe]

I love that y’all are doing these retrospectives. And this one is my favorite so far so sweet, and lovely, and affirming ❤️

[@FULLMETAL5.0]

Man, it's hard enough to find a partner you actually mesh with. Imagine having haters in your own family. At least we're moving in a positive direction.

[@jernisharichard5032]

Love doesn't mean accept your sin, lead people to Jesus to be born again. If I love you I'll lead you to truth not wanting you to perish 😢 that is love. God is love. PRIDE is why y'all can't see the truth. I pray your eyes are opened before judgment day 🙏🏽

[@FULLMETAL5.0]

@@jernisharichard5032 amen Holla lew yuh.

[@pigs18]

​@@jernisharichard5032 You really have a hard time with the "love everyone" concept, don't you?

[@jernisharichard5032]

@@pigs18 I love everyone, I don't have to like them, as I know the battle is not with flesh and blood but, evil spirits, the devil, and the powers that be, they are contending for our minds. Sound doctrine is key.

[@xen748]

@@jernisharichard5032 you're homophobic. please, get professional help

[@Masonerick]

Love these follow ups!

[@mafervasquez281]

they look so much confident, i loved this

[@tylerbarker8877]

I love these types of videos!! Keep them coming!! I hope you guys keep on making them!!🙌

[@Night-Shade.]

They're both lucky to have such wonderful supportive parental figures in their lives! Cherish family like that! You don't realize how lucky you are

[@nadiamuzola4437]

Really love CUT videos ❤

[@brittanyweatherly8312]

Love the update & continued support for these women!

[@shaynahecht6238]

One of my favorite videos to watch, so it’s great to get a part 2

[@meredithjohnson2843]

Why people assign horrible attributes to different cultures as if there aren’t a whole array of people in EVERY culture is beyond me. It’s 2024. Get it together.

[@ijustneedmyself]

The thing I don't get is the man was clearly a loving man... How did people expect he would blow up afterwards? He seemed calm and collected and loving to me 😒

[@ramy8338]

I mean you can't blame people for assuming that it's a correlation

[@meredithjohnson2843]

@@ramy8338 yes you can. Especially if you’re a discerning adult. Yes media will try to sway you to one side or another but it’s your choice to believe or not. There’s still kkk members out here, am I supposed to believe every person of that race burns crosses after Sunday service because of the “correlation”?

[@Luna-yf7tq]

This is insane ofc when people grow up in a certain culture or religion they are more likely to react a certain way… don’t act like its so old fashioned that people are AWARE that this is a thing

[@meredithjohnson2843]

@@Luna-yf7tq this is bs. You hear a few horror stories and then assume it’s the whole culture. Widen your horizons dude you’re sounding really bigoted and ignorant.

[@ahsokatanoss]

What a great follow up! I really enjoyed that original episode, especially getting to see people have the choice to come out to their loved ones on their own.

[@thatgamergirl6549]

I just rewatched this video recently so seeing this follow-up was so nice 😭

[@aspect57]

Both so lovely and with supportive fam 🥲

[@rarehearts2602]

I’m happy for them, especially Sanjana, her dad didn’t really seem to understand it but he was willing to accept it for her:)

[@85catnip]

those young ladies and their families... beautiful!! i don't have many friends by choice, mostly, but i'd totally have them as friends if they wanted. so warm and loving and fun and positive... soooo much better than my own parents.

[@MissCheryl810]

WHEW LORD! I almost cried all over again! ❤

[@orbiii.niverse1392]

This is so lovely 🥰 and THANK YOU for the shoutout for the love to Aquarius girlies

[@amarinatoby]

Love your follow up videos @cut !!

[@Pookie5015]

This type of videos makes me always cry , I‘m so happy for everyone and hope someday comes my turn to be happy as well ❤

[@ashbaby3]

I hope you guys make follow ups a thing. I loved this.

[@ivys9544]

I remember crying a lot when watching that video & especially Sanjana's part. I have no relationship with my father so I will likely never come out to him but something inside of me broke loose when I saw their emotions, like in a different world it could have been me w my dad. I am so happy for everybody who gets to come out and feel supported and I also feel for everyone who doesn't have the chance to or support. Its a good thing we got the community & each other through this!

[@ozziefeinics53]

[@jernisharichard5032]

Imagine Christ crying 😭 he died for our sins and yet we take Pride in them. The god of this world really blinded everyone's minds 😢. I pray the veil be lifted from y'all eyes in Jesus name. Can you imagine a life and eternity without our Creator. 😢

[@pigs18]

​@@jernisharichard5032No, but I can imagine a world where zealots don't inject their judgement and then hide it behind their religion. "Oh, no, _GOD_ says you're a trolling a--hole, not me."

[@jernisharichard5032]

@@pigs18 And I can imagine a world where people understand the spiritual battle that is going on; where evil, and sin don't run rampant.

[@uscitizen3252]

Awww...thanks for these updates.

[@mesomeone8684]

When uncle said start with a blunt. 😂😂😂 I totally missed that during the first video. Hilarious.

[@martinsutherland5502]

The uncle has such a calm loving demeanor

[@LongEclipse]

Awwww thank you for catching up with them. it was such a good video and it was nice to see how accepting parent are these days.

[@lindammp3n167]

This video is beautiful! Thank you for sharing!❤

[@noor.alyateem]

7:22 - love the cute crazy look in their eyes - makes me think of myself as a kid:)

[@littlefishiesinthese]

6:39 sorry, what was up with that question? the interviewer could have just said "dated". That question seems so off topic compared to the others. It’s like Cut has a quota where at least 1 explicitly s*xual question has to be asked per video.

[@ddear-april]

literally

[@Jasminelovesyouxo]

Felt weird like the producer wanted to know for herself

[@littlefishiesinthese]

@@Jasminelovesyouxo yeah!! Very much a “just asking for the sake of it” or “asking out of self interest” kind of vibe

[@dovahkiin2424]

Also when they asked the other girl if she's getting hit on outside of her relationship. Just inappropriate

[@tfgrrl2042]

How many of these videos have you watched? They ALL have sexual questions no matter who is on. It's part of making it awkward/salacious and gets views

[@QueenoftheNorth]

Love this

[@lindseyitamoto]

Im crying again ❤. Also, Sanjana is stunning!

[@mackenziwallace7927]

I LOVE THESE need more follow ups

[@fubytv731]

As someone who's born and has been living in a backward country, I feel that. But Mom, Dad, I've been hurting almost my whole life and probably will never live a happy life.😢

[@jonasschmift4126]

I really needed this. I really did.

[@DavidSousaP]

I loved this video!

[@whalium889]

3:32 solid advice from Sanjana’s dad

[@moonchild971]

I just rewatched this video two days ago that’s crazy

[@Obihann]

I remember this vid! It's great to see evolution! Acceptance would make this world a different place!

[@elishaaull6047]

currently crying

[@alexikleiin]

I forgot how emotional this video was so now I am crying again during my lunch break 😂

[@sunny5ma]

I'm not crying. You're crying 🥺🥺🥺❤.

[@tishw4576]

As a parent my goals are to raise kind, strong, and loving human beings. Sexuality is just a part of who we are. It doesn't define the total package of our being.

[@bklynkat23]

More Deep Cut!!! Yay

[@hannahbalch5763]

Omg she is SUCH a cute couple with Carmen!!! The little clip with all of them. They all have such lovely smiles. Damn I love seeing queer love and happiness. Thanks for sharing with us

[@user-zf4et3ef7t]

his smile when she said "SHE is an Aquarius" was so fucking cute😭

[@madyhatter17]

I like the deep cut deep dive videos

[@lindammp3n167]

I live in DC and my daughter tells everyone I am her best friend. I would love to do this with her. I am a very open parent and I would love to see what we could learn about each other.

[@michaelatread.5085]

brb crying

[@harry31619]

Cut should do one of these but with couples that won the button

[@d.o.a9236]

I read the title of the video but NOT CORRECTLY!! I was like “YOU WHAT !!? TO WHO !!? “

[@medalighodhbani5927]

Your eyes got used to reading cornhub videos titles xD

[@aqua-mina]

I was not watching and heard “I am a killer” 😅 0:28

[@T4zu.T]

I want that type of parents…😕

[@dreyday21]

I love this ❤ I have to talk to my dad

[@mischievousmoonshine]

This shall be in gta 6

[@Biotoze]

Unc is wilding with that well I’m not happy for you… 😅 yeeesh

[@cinderblockstudios]

Glad to see an update for Sanjina (spelling?) her dad didn't seem to accept it in the original and I was worried for her

[@MsDudette21]

But she never even stated if he did. It was all vague

[@roselolagne6642]

Wow the Indian dad had a incredible first reaction. He has to morn all the plans he had for his daughters future now but the biggest regret parents have are those first reactions and he doesn’t have to do that.

[@itsbadvibes6504]

"Would you say you've slept with more women since the video came out?" What kind of question is that? Bruh this show producer have some weird motives

[@B.I.Jsuryoutube]

❤❤❤

[@ampsquadshorts6343]

❤❤

[@aspebb]

The zodiac comment made me roll my eyes, but the fact that her uncle loved her no matter what was really nice.

[@dovahkiin2424]

It's not that deep she obviously panicked a bit. She said herself she didn't even know why that was the first thing she said.

[@MsDudette21]

@@dovahkiin2424 they rolled their eyes because the girl obviously thinks theres merit to astrology despite it being a PSEUDOscience. theres alot of ppl who insist on it being legit when it'ssimply not

[@jamielawrence7217]

Why can't I have cool parents?

[@user-rp4jc2je4v]

I am so happy for these ladies ❤❤❤❤❤❤ and ummmmm the uncle is HOT!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Kathryn_Jordyn]

The Indian girl is cute.

[@TheGman901]

Sanjana's father looks heartbroken. Yet he remembers it's his daughter and he loves her as a part of him. He can never not lover her. But he seems heartbroken for hearing disapointing facts about his daughter that he must come to terms with... Wish them both best of luck..

[@delphinidin]

Honestly it was the third woman I was most worried for, because her dad seemed really dismissive, and she seemed non-thrilled by his responses.

[@mary1412]

This is super sweet but I don’t think I would do this on camera. I’m glad it all worked out.

[@meganhallman0812]

Didn't come out to my mom until I was 20 so Christian households are hard ones to come out in if anyone else has experienced

[@nwgverified]

I wish more people would actually take time to think about what they want to say instead of blurting out some dumb sh*t

[@linark8899]

what was the dumb sh*t

[@XoRitaXo]

What’s her instagram?

[@kazandeffect2205]

As an Aquarius...I dig it 😅😅😅 #noaquariusslander

[@Coder6719]

Her: Hey, Dad. I want you to come to this show with me and we'll ask questions and reveal deep truths. Dad: Jerry Springer?! Her: Hmm. Maybe we'll do this later. Just saying they invited the folks they love and trusted to Cut. While it _could_ have gone sideways I think smart money was against it.

[@LaurynS.]

Cute

[@shadyzbabii420]

Shes an Aquarius = She's an emotional serial killer. Good Luck

[@aaronfischer9885]

Aquarius are a unique type of person.

[@J4D3L0V3S__]

this is so cute and i wish my parents supproted this as they are EXTREAMLY homophobic and infact my entire family is except my sister and thats only person who knows in my family

[@Lukerogers0121]

“She is an Aquarius.” Oh Lord.

[@Sicelo_Cherryl]

🎉 third 🥉

[@sanjnaghosh6462]

FIRST

[@sanjeevgig8918]

Horoscopes = Birthday Racism. lol