Did My Dad Accept Me After I Came Out? | Cut

[@sarahmarie4180]

I cried like a baby when she asked “Do you still love me” and be grabbed her hands 🥹🥺

[@salsasoul4112]

OMGGGGG! Me toooooooo! I burst into tears.

[@ActionShortsPodcasts]

Same. And this doesn't relate to me on an LGBTQ level... It was just lovely to see him accept his daughter, who feared she might have lost him due to her confession.

[@Mahtab.54]

Me too!! Bcs my father is also like that so i rlly felt with her in the moment.

[@DisabledComics1995]

I’m gonna be honest I initially thought that was so suss, I was like “she asked you a question, answer her please” like I need verbal communication with this kind of thing it was giving me anxiety

[@thiccpicc3255]

@@DisabledComics1995 Probably scared him honestly seeing her so scared. That she thought he could ever not love her :(

[@serendipit_y]

sanjana's father clearly 1) loves her and 2) knows that loving her is the most important thing. he definitely was processing a lot (he's tipsy, on camera, finding out surprising things about his daughter who he didn't think was dating at all) but he controlled his reaction and showed that he prioritized her happiness. these moments are rarely going to be picture perfect and it's unfair to judge him on assumptions instead of on his actions and how his daughter speaks of him.

[@Venomxdrool]

Period. Also, his reaction was completely fine! He seems really kind hearted and clearly loves her ❤

[@Flow-Fi-]

4+4

[@m1sslunatic803]

yes!! the initial reaction doesn't have to be perfect, as long as you do your best to show your love

[@johannabonana5306]

sanjana's reveal was an incredible ride of emotions

[@Shibamatzu]

Especizlly her dad being dissapointed inside out from the first moment

[@rhemaray-mbata8588]

“It’s not about me it’s about your aspirations and happiness” 😢😢

[@MvuseleloNtuli]

"She's an aquarius, that was hilarious" that's lowkey a bar though😭😭

[@MiriamA766]

I'll never not find it ridiculous that people believe in astrology 🙄🤦.

[@cosmic_peach]

​And the people who do will never care that you dont🤪​@@MiriamA766

[@phronesis1642]

I almost clicked off this Video because i am so biased about people who belive in astrology

[@mordicaiknode]

True poet & you don't know it moment.

[@ahsaym4161]

@@phronesis1642no one cares bro

[@chelseapatrick4026]

keep doing more of these PLEASE. we LOVE the follow ups

[@vertov76]

YESSSSS!

[@tbrown9328]

Watching that video, I was crying. Now, I'm watching this video and I'm crying again. It's just so nice to see supportive parents who love their children unconditionally. Not everyone has that, so these moments are beautiful to see.

[@ginasmitasin479]

I love the way these two men accept their daughter and niece. I’m sure any tears are fear based because there are so many people who wouldn’t be okay with who they are and they understand there is an element of danger for their beloved daughter and niece.

[@jernisharichard5032]

This Lifestyle comes with perversion promiscuity, SA, and DV. They don't talk about this,. Turn to Jesus and be transformed by the RENEWING of your MINDS.

[@daverizz]

Awwww. What a lovely follow-up! Got me over here thinking about my teenage daughter & tearing up; hoping she feels this much love and support from me.

[@user-kf2oi4sq5b]

"if i truly love you, then why should I not be happy for you" ❤️🙌🏼

[@LucyJordan84]

Deep cut (this is this format where you follow up, right?) is super important. It means a lot to learn how the stories continued. Especially, with such an emotional and maybe a bit life-changing topic. Please @cut keep making these follow-ups!

[@michikomanalang6733]

“He’s a serial killer????” SIR 😂

[@paulinepoe6819]

I just cried for Sanjana, that kind of acceptance from an immigrant parent is so rare and raw

[@mappingoutthesky]

I love how Mikayla's uncle smiled when she said "she". So endearing.

[@aihpospuarg5886]

I love how positive the reactions were!

[@martinsutherland5502]

The uncle has such a calm loving demeanor

[@Night-Shade.]

They're both lucky to have such wonderful supportive parental figures in their lives! Cherish family like that! You don't realize how lucky you are

[@dollykask270]

The first video gave me the courage to come out to my mom and I’m soooo grateful for it!! I watched the original video and just cried, feeling I cannot be in the closet anymore. I was feeling so many emotions watching their parents reactions and thinking how mine would react. So a week later I decided to come out to my mom (we were going on a trip to Barcelona and I wanted to go to pride there, so this was another huge motivator haha). It went good in a sense she was neutral about it, not angry but not stoked either. Now, over a half a year later she has had time to get used to the idea of me being a lesbian and she feels more comfortable to talk about lgbt+ topics when I bring it up. There’s a long path to go but I’m feeling hopeful and free

[@dollykask270]

Especially Sanjana’s very real interaction with her dad helped me the most I think. The fear was very tangible and I could relate a lot to that. I think her experience was very real life looking and it couraged me in a way “if she was so scared and could do it, why not me?”. I’ll be forever thankful for Cut and the people participating! 🙏

[@vicn.z9354]

Sanjana's dad reminds me a lot of my own dad. I never "came out", but when I entered my first relationship and the person was a girl (presenting as one at the time, he has since then come out as trans) my dad had two reactions: first, he asked me kind of aggressively if it was real, I said yeah, he nodded and walked off. then, later on he came into my room, sat on my bed and said he still loved me and that I would always be his kid no matter what. Like he sort of needed confirmation, then time to process, then accept. I know when my sister came out as bi years before that, he struggled to accept it as well, and he has always made fun of my brother's feminine sides (not with malicious intent, but still). Point is, I think my dad had a certain mindset before having kids, and then has worked to shed himself of those thoughts and beliefs, because ultimately he loves us unconditionally. A few years after my first (and last lol) "girlfriend", I told him I was going to transition and change my name. His first reaction was "not surname, right?". Dude wasn't concerned about my gender at all, just wanted to know I'd still share his family name. I think Sanjana's dad is on that path of shedding a certain mindset and putting his daughter first. It really hit home, and it was great seeing all the different dynamics between the kids and their parent/parental figure.

[@MaryLinton-j3s]

This is so beautiful, crying parent was amazing. The uncle surprised me😊😊😊 In a good way ❤❤❤

[@therealJamieJoy]

I am crying because this whole thing is so sweet!

[@FULLMETAL5.0]

Man, it's hard enough to find a partner you actually mesh with. Imagine having haters in your own family. At least we're moving in a positive direction.

[@jernisharichard5032]

Love doesn't mean accept your sin, lead people to Jesus to be born again. If I love you I'll lead you to truth not wanting you to perish 😢 that is love. God is love. PRIDE is why y'all can't see the truth. I pray your eyes are opened before judgment day 🙏🏽

[@FULLMETAL5.0]

@@jernisharichard5032 amen Holla lew yuh.

[@pigs18]

​@@jernisharichard5032 You really have a hard time with the "love everyone" concept, don't you?

[@jernisharichard5032]

@@pigs18 I love everyone, I don't have to like them, as I know the battle is not with flesh and blood but, evil spirits, the devil, and the powers that be, they are contending for our minds. Sound doctrine is key.

[@zesty_jesty]

@@jernisharichard5032 you're homophobic. please, get professional help

[@eco2geek.]

The original video was a tear jerker and in a good way. There was also the guy who came out to his mom. All three of the relatives were so supportive.

[@SingingGeek2009]

“It’s about your happiness” it made me cry both times.

[@adfadf32342]

I love those follow up videos! Keep 'em coming!

[@kbroscoe]

I love that y’all are doing these retrospectives. And this one is my favorite so far so sweet, and lovely, and affirming ❤️

[@noor.alyateem]

7:22 - love the cute crazy look in their eyes - makes me think of myself as a kid:)

[@85catnip]

those young ladies and their families... beautiful!! i don't have many friends by choice, mostly, but i'd totally have them as friends if they wanted. so warm and loving and fun and positive... soooo much better than my own parents.

[@user-ff9mb1ts4u]

The people assuming the worst of Sanjana's father is so indicative of the attitude that people have of brown people and the assumption that they're not as complex and individual as everyone else. It's a common bias humans have towards people they see as "other" and I wish more people were more aware of it.

[@MsDudette21]

and/or these ppl arent naive and know many people from eastern countries arent accepting of lgbt people. it doesnt help he was clearly disappointed and cried after she told him.

[@l.acosta4739]

Have you watched the previous video? People assume the worst of sanjana's father because of the "politics" comment she made about him. Not because he's brown. Also he cried after she told him, so.

[@chelsea5595]

It’s more about culture and religion

[@Night-Shade.]

Like the person before me said. It's more about culture and religion. It's just what typically happens from folks who already have certain beliefs and live in non-diverse environments NOT about being brown.

[@jernisharichard5032]

Turn to Jesus 😢.... My people perish for lack of knowledge. This world is coming to an end, 💓 God wants none to perish. Sin leads to destruction.

[@ahsokatanoss]

What a great follow up! I really enjoyed that original episode, especially getting to see people have the choice to come out to their loved ones on their own.

[@aspect57]

Both so lovely and with supportive fam 🥲

[@Sukinero]

Nahhhhh it’s crazy that the whatever you call the woman talking to them in the background assumed that she slept around

[@Zedd...]

It's like Cut employees have a rule to make anything sexual or sexulaize any question they ask their participants

[@Alan-ss5wx]

It felt uncomfortable for sure

[@jernisharichard5032]

Because most are distinctly doing it. This lifestyle comes with promiscuity. Be born again By the transformation of your mind. God wants none to perish. The Bible says flee sexual immortality. Through knowledge shall the JUST be delivered ❤ I'm praying for everyone to be delivered from this sin.

[@pigs18]

​​@@jernisharichard5032 It also says not to eat clam chowder or wear cotton with polyester so excuse us if we take that with a grain of salt. Also, there is no link between promiscuity and queerness. There were a higher percentage of relationships outside of wedlock, but that's solely because marriage wasn't an option.

[@jernisharichard5032]

@@pigs18 It is to be looked at as a whole, once you read it in context you'll start to understand. Don't just take it and say this and that 😆. The link wasn't because of marriage, I'm glad you're looking at it tho, keep seeking the word it will bring the Truth. The knowledge you think you don't want is what is needed to gain the wisdom. May God bless you and transform your mind. With love sis 🙏🏽

[@whalium889]

3:32 solid advice from Sanjana’s dad

[@mafervasquez281]

they look so much confident, i loved this

[@oodles865]

sanjanas father is like the best case scenario idk why they were judging him

[@LongEclipse]

Awwww thank you for catching up with them. it was such a good video and it was nice to see how accepting parent are these days.

[@delphinidin]

Honestly it was the third woman I was most worried for, because her dad seemed really dismissive, and she seemed non-thrilled by his responses.

[@mesomeone8684]

When uncle said start with a blunt. 😂😂😂 I totally missed that during the first video. Hilarious.

[@ivys9544]

I remember crying a lot when watching that video & especially Sanjana's part. I have no relationship with my father so I will likely never come out to him but something inside of me broke loose when I saw their emotions, like in a different world it could have been me w my dad. I am so happy for everybody who gets to come out and feel supported and I also feel for everyone who doesn't have the chance to or support. Its a good thing we got the community & each other through this!

[@ozziefeinics53]

[@jernisharichard5032]

Imagine Christ crying 😭 he died for our sins and yet we take Pride in them. The god of this world really blinded everyone's minds 😢. I pray the veil be lifted from y'all eyes in Jesus name. Can you imagine a life and eternity without our Creator. 😢

[@pigs18]

​@@jernisharichard5032No, but I can imagine a world where zealots don't inject their judgement and then hide it behind their religion. "Oh, no, _GOD_ says you're a trolling a--hole, not me."

[@jernisharichard5032]

@@pigs18 And I can imagine a world where people understand the spiritual battle that is going on; where evil, and sin don't run rampant.

[@Masonerick]

Love these follow ups!

[@meredithjohnson2843]

Why people assign horrible attributes to different cultures as if there aren’t a whole array of people in EVERY culture is beyond me. It’s 2024. Get it together.

[@ijustneedmyself]

The thing I don't get is the man was clearly a loving man... How did people expect he would blow up afterwards? He seemed calm and collected and loving to me 😒

[@ramy8338]

I mean you can't blame people for assuming that it's a correlation

[@meredithjohnson2843]

@@ramy8338 yes you can. Especially if you’re a discerning adult. Yes media will try to sway you to one side or another but it’s your choice to believe or not. There’s still kkk members out here, am I supposed to believe every person of that race burns crosses after Sunday service because of the “correlation”?

[@Luna-yf7tq]

This is insane ofc when people grow up in a certain culture or religion they are more likely to react a certain way… don’t act like its so old fashioned that people are AWARE that this is a thing

[@meredithjohnson2843]

@@Luna-yf7tq this is bs. You hear a few horror stories and then assume it’s the whole culture. Widen your horizons dude you’re sounding really bigoted and ignorant.

[@shaynahecht6238]

One of my favorite videos to watch, so it’s great to get a part 2

[@lindseyitamoto]

Im crying again ❤. Also, Sanjana is stunning!

[@Rising_Pho3nix_23]

I'm glad there are families like this. Thanks for sharing this.

[@orbiii.niverse1392]

This is so lovely 🥰 and THANK YOU for the shoutout for the love to Aquarius girlies

[@nadiamuzola4437]

Really love CUT videos ❤

[@littlefishiesinthese]

6:39 sorry, what was up with that question? the interviewer could have just said "dated". That question seems so off topic compared to the others. It’s like Cut has a quota where at least 1 explicitly s*xual question has to be asked per video.

[@ddear-april]

literally

[@Jasminelovesyouxo]

Felt weird like the producer wanted to know for herself

[@littlefishiesinthese]

@@Jasminelovesyouxo yeah!! Very much a “just asking for the sake of it” or “asking out of self interest” kind of vibe

[@dovahkiin2424]

Also when they asked the other girl if she's getting hit on outside of her relationship. Just inappropriate

[@tfgrrl2042]

How many of these videos have you watched? They ALL have sexual questions no matter who is on. It's part of making it awkward/salacious and gets views

[@rarehearts2602]

I’m happy for them, especially Sanjana, her dad didn’t really seem to understand it but he was willing to accept it for her:)

[@MissCheryl810]

WHEW LORD! I almost cried all over again! ❤

[@brittanyweatherly8312]

Love the update & continued support for these women!

[@nymbledigitz8453]

This episode was soooo amazing. Totally laughed and cried. All the feels. Keep it up I love your content.

[@thatgamergirl6549]

I just rewatched this video recently so seeing this follow-up was so nice 😭

[@tylerbarker8877]

I love these types of videos!! Keep them coming!! I hope you guys keep on making them!!🙌

[@uscitizen3252]

Awww...thanks for these updates.

[@ashbaby3]

I hope you guys make follow ups a thing. I loved this.

[@downtovacay]

Hands down top 3 episodes. So amazing as a parent.

[@tishw4576]

As a parent my goals are to raise kind, strong, and loving human beings. Sexuality is just a part of who we are. It doesn't define the total package of our being.

[@user-zf4et3ef7t]

his smile when she said "SHE is an Aquarius" was so fucking cute😭

[@fubytv731]

As someone who's born and has been living in a backward country, I feel that. But Mom, Dad, I've been hurting almost my whole life and probably will never live a happy life.😢

[@mackenziwallace7927]

I LOVE THESE need more follow ups

[@YourTiktokGirls]

This made my morning so much better.

[@hannahbalch5763]

Omg she is SUCH a cute couple with Carmen!!! The little clip with all of them. They all have such lovely smiles. Damn I love seeing queer love and happiness. Thanks for sharing with us

[@amarinatoby]

Love your follow up videos @cut !!

[@puppypuddles]

Whoever came up with deep cuts as the name is a genius

[@aqua-mina]

I was not watching and heard “I am a killer” 😅 0:28

[@itsbadvibes6504]

"Would you say you've slept with more women since the video came out?" What kind of question is that? Bruh this show producer have some weird motives

[@roselolagne6642]

Wow the Indian dad had a incredible first reaction. He has to morn all the plans he had for his daughters future now but the biggest regret parents have are those first reactions and he doesn’t have to do that.

[@Odd7676]

This type of videos makes me always cry , I‘m so happy for everyone and hope someday comes my turn to be happy as well ❤

[@moonchild971]

I just rewatched this video two days ago that’s crazy

[@InkAndPoet]

I still remember when I came out to my parents as bi/pan. I figured they'd be okay with it since I have a lesbian aunt on my mom's side of the family, as well as a female to male trans cousin. But I was still so nervous about telling them because it could've been different with me. My dad told me no matter what, they still loved me and my mom actually apologized for any comments she made in the past that might have offended or hurt me, to which I told her she had nothing to worry about. Still, I consider myself lucky that I have parents who accepted me since I know, for other people, it's not that easy.

[@alexikleiin]

I forgot how emotional this video was so now I am crying again during my lunch break 😂

[@lindammp3n167]

This video is beautiful! Thank you for sharing!❤

[@TheGman901]

Sanjana's father looks heartbroken. Yet he remembers it's his daughter and he loves her as a part of him. He can never not lover her. But he seems heartbroken for hearing disapointing facts about his daughter that he must come to terms with... Wish them both best of luck..

[@ArranVid]

He is not disappointed with her, he still loves her.

[@Altaline]

He didn't seem disappointed at all. Plus, are you him?

[@jonasschmift4126]

I really needed this. I really did.

[@lindammp3n167]

I live in DC and my daughter tells everyone I am her best friend. I would love to do this with her. I am a very open parent and I would love to see what we could learn about each other.

[@DavidSousaP]

I loved this video!

[@sunny5ma]

I'm not crying. You're crying 🥺🥺🥺❤.

[@QueenoftheNorth]

Love this

[@aspebb]

The zodiac comment made me roll my eyes, but the fact that her uncle loved her no matter what was really nice.

[@dovahkiin2424]

It's not that deep she obviously panicked a bit. She said herself she didn't even know why that was the first thing she said.

[@MsDudette21]

@@dovahkiin2424 they rolled their eyes because the girl obviously thinks theres merit to astrology despite it being a PSEUDOscience. theres alot of ppl who insist on it being legit when it'ssimply not

[@IsisNiko]

I hope the girl who had the decoy prom date was also accepted by her father, because his reaction felt kind of off to me, and i was really hoping to see her here. i'm not gonna judge her dad based on the very small window we got to see of him, but he hesitated for an uncomfortable amount of time when she asked if he still loved her, and her predictions about how she thought he'd react at the beginning of the video broke my heart.

[@harry31619]

Cut should do one of these but with couples that won the button

[@T4zu.T]

I want that type of parents…😕

[@michaelatread.5085]

brb crying

[@madyhatter17]

I like the deep cut deep dive videos

[@jamielawrence7217]

Why can't I have cool parents?

[@d.o.a9236]

I read the title of the video but NOT CORRECTLY!! I was like “YOU WHAT !!? TO WHO !!? “

[@medalighodhbani5927]

Your eyes got used to reading cornhub videos titles xD

[@bklynkat23]

More Deep Cut!!! Yay

[@cinderblockstudios]

Glad to see an update for Sanjina (spelling?) her dad didn't seem to accept it in the original and I was worried for her

[@MsDudette21]

But she never even stated if he did. It was all vague

[@Xenosfear99]

Unc dressed like Steve Harvey😂😂

[@Coder6719]

Her: Hey, Dad. I want you to come to this show with me and we'll ask questions and reveal deep truths. Dad: Jerry Springer?! Her: Hmm. Maybe we'll do this later. Just saying they invited the folks they love and trusted to Cut. While it _could_ have gone sideways I think smart money was against it.

[@mariangel1561]

ive got such a fat crush on sanjan

[@shadyzbabii420]

Shes an Aquarius = She's an emotional serial killer. Good Luck

[@nwgverified]

I wish more people would actually take time to think about what they want to say instead of blurting out some dumb sh*t

[@linark8899]

what was the dumb sh*t

[@mischievousmoonshine]

This shall be in gta 6

[@meganhallman0812]

Didn't come out to my mom until I was 20 so Christian households are hard ones to come out in if anyone else has experienced

[@ArranVid]

Nice photographs

[@BobbyDiego-i7r]

I am so happy for these ladies ❤❤❤❤❤❤ and ummmmm the uncle is HOT!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Kathryn_Jordyn]

The Indian girl is cute.

[@Myst910]

What about the third girl??

[@tammystratford7079]

I want to marry the uncle, please. I already have a blunt rolled for him.