I found Niki’s video judgy and talking about the herd was insulting. It was eye opening to how SHE thinks. But not how all of us think. I loved bags since I was a child and am not influenced for any of the reasons she stated. I love to watch you all because we have the same interest and love of handbags. Omg! Is that just too simple?!? Is it possible we are not having a herd crisis and simply just love these bags?!? Could it be!?! Btw, I bought the Prada tote bag with the buckles on the side that is similar to the Row margaux only smaller. It’s beautiful. I love your collection and your videos. Thank you for posting.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Yes it def does us a disservice. Yes we can love these beautiful bags but still be well rounded. X
@sylly6545 ай бұрын
I think the main takeaway most of us are getting from her video is manipulation. She built a huge channel showcasing luxury purchases, and now has done a complete 180 and is basically saying “forget everything I have said and done over the years, here is the new way to be a superior person”. Ugh. I am way too old for that kind of manipulative marketing to affect me, but I do see many young women getting caught up in it. The comment section of Niki’s video was full of gushing praise for “being an inspiration!” Her video was scripted with all the latest holier-than-thou catchphrases, and the accompanying background music was of the hero-worship variety. She didn’t just find a cure for cancer or climb Mount Rushmore, she is selling luxury handbags. 🤨
@fashionandluxury1015 ай бұрын
Well stated 😊totally agree
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂 love this! I too am def too old in the tooth for all this manipulation too. See right through it x
@pianomanhere5 ай бұрын
Deb: I'm sorry to tell you that I, too, am ridding myself of all of my luxury handbags. I don't really OWN any, but if I did, I'd tell people I'm getting rid of them, and then keep them stored away safely. 😅🤣😂
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂 maybe that’s what she will do!
@fashionandluxury1015 ай бұрын
😅😅😅love it exactly ❤
@pianomanhere5 ай бұрын
@@fashionandluxury101 😊😊 This is where I come for common sense and calmness on this subject matter.
@Sincerely_SweetAesthete4 ай бұрын
Hahaha
@somuchdesignwithhanne5 ай бұрын
So agree, my eyes rolled so much - and I couldn’t finish the video but might have to now. Great Q&A. Italy is also my favourite, had an amazing trip last year and can’t wait to go again. And thanks for the mention too, hope all is well with you 💕
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Hi Hanne. Thank you so much. Yes all good here thanks. Congrats on your 1k milestone. X
@somuchdesignwithhanne5 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered thanks lovely ❤️
@jamelsydney27375 ай бұрын
Ha! I knew it was a picture of George Michael! It was one of the first things I noticed when I started watching your videos. I don’t comment much on KZbin videos but this drawing was quite amusing - I can’t believe no one else noticed it was George Michael! I’m also a huge fan of his ❤
@CarolineNedwab5 ай бұрын
Stop🤦♀️Oh the shame… I thought it was David Beckham - so embarassing
@jamelsydney27375 ай бұрын
😅
@carlahaiduk18785 ай бұрын
I noticed it is George Michael.
@HandbagDiva5 ай бұрын
I recognized it right away. I’m a huge fan. My Christmas was ruined in 2016, I was so gutted. What an amazing talent & generous human, he is missed.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
He is my hero. Loved him x
@fashionandluxury1015 ай бұрын
I found the video absolutely hilarious. I’m too old to be manipulated ! Those bags are stored away ready to make a “ come back “ 😂
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂
@mpearl08215 ай бұрын
Smells like the said influencer is influenced by the QUIET LUXURY movement. I agree with you that she should not make others who love these luxury handbags/things (including me) feel rotten about our choices. I don’t care if logos are not in right now that’s not a reason for me to get rid of my most loved handbags.
@EmilyinCali5 ай бұрын
Agree. So many of these people acting woke but also at the same time uplifting contemporary brands over traditional luxury brands. Please. Don’t act like you’re the first one to achieve enlightenment lol you’re still buying stuff and wanting an audience and have exhausted previous topics and now need some other hook for your viewership. Yawn.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I will choose to not consume this type of content anymore. X
@DaylesAddiction5 ай бұрын
Omg the Connor portrait 🤣🤣🤣 Great Q&A Deb! Please do them more often 💕
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂 not sure Connor has seen my video yet but I hope he takes it in good humour x
@LesleyAdina5 ай бұрын
I’m so glad KZbin has had such a positive impact on your life and your confidence💗 You will have a blast in New York! So gutted I won’t be able to make it but I’ll be living vicariously through all of the vlogs :)
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Lesley! Maybe we can persuade you ?
@LesleyAdina5 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered I wish, but I‘ll be in the South of France right around then…
@bobolikitten5 ай бұрын
Yeah!! I thought it was George Michael!! Taken way too soon, and I loved him too!! Did you watch the Wham docuseries?? Andrew was such a wonderful friend to him.
@HandbagDiva5 ай бұрын
I cried, such a great documentary. I adored him and he is so missed.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Cried like a baby watching it x
@qr5vy5 ай бұрын
That video from NS was pathetic. So inauthentic. Just full of warped logic and crazy insecurities.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
👍
@WinnieBeeLV5 ай бұрын
For me, my love of handbags has created 1 problem, me going broke 😂😂😂😂. I still love luxury bags and I always will. Each his own I guess. lol. ❤❤❤
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Hi Winnie. Yep it’s not great for the old bank balance x
@DebShops-e3v5 ай бұрын
Guurrl! I just bought a beautiful Croc bag from Ferragamo. Released in 2017 for $17k in mint condition I bought it for 2k. So Deb you do not have to give up on looking for a croc bag. Brand new…yes no way can I afford it…so keep searching…
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Ooh!
@jtw225 ай бұрын
Amen! Agree with you about this who luxury purge thing.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
🙏🏻
@NaomiJones-pc3bz5 ай бұрын
Great video! It's so important to talk about why people choose to downsize their luxury items and the potential regrets that might follow. Your thoughtful approach really sheds light on the complexities of such decisions. Also, loved the Q&A segment-it adds a personal flair and makes your content feel more engaging. Thanks for sparking such a meaningful conversation!
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you x
@AnUrbanGypsy5 ай бұрын
Jerusha was so funny 🤣. I had never heard of NS until a few days ago when Jess of Jessie’s Style talked about her. I gave her a view too 🙄. Now interested in what she’s going to pivot to in order to make money! Great Q&A. I grew up being told I was shy and a loner and when I moved away, it turned out I was neither. Continue saying yes more than no and confidence will grow further. 😊
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I am no longer afraid to try things. It’s so freeing x
@AllOverDori5 ай бұрын
She probably feels uncomfortable wearing recognizable logos out and about since she’s a mom of two. She can be fearful of becoming a target while having young children to look after which is understandable.
@marlenepopov84695 ай бұрын
I don't think she said that though.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
She didn’t say this as her reasoning I don’t think x
@AllOverDori5 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered not sure if she did give a reason I’m just speculating since you asked for opinions
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Love hearing your opinions x thanks for sharing x
@mellissabluxury5 ай бұрын
Amen Deb!! You didn’t “make” me buy Miss Lizzy, nobody makes me do anything! I simply saw her on your channel then went off on my own petrol lizard hunt interstate, which eventually ended with her joining my stable ❤ Thank goodness! You can pry her from my cold dead hands 😂😂😂
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂 love this x
@Bestlifemiddleage5 ай бұрын
Yes!!! It’s not about the things , it’s about how you feel about it and if it’s a problem for you, try to fix it! Deb I’m like you about croc, I absolutely love it and I was in the hunt actually. But I’m just not able to pull the trigger and justify the price. Maybe one day on the second hand market since the prices can actually be dramatically lower, especially for LV. I own other exotics and I’ll stick with it.😂 You are smart to not necessarily shop abroad, especially when you end up paying more, it makes no sense. I don’t even shop in an other state here in the US if their taxes are higher than where I live. 🥴
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Yes maybe preloved croc is the way to go. Dayle has just scored a fabulous peekaboo x
@corrina27975 ай бұрын
It would be really useful if you could weigh bags (empty) that you are reviewing. Some bags can end up being surprisingly heavy empty and coupled with the weight of personal items become so heavy that they are unpleasant to use for any significant period of time. I have noticed that not many retailers include a bag’s weight and this information would be so useful in comparing bags.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your suggestion x
@elinalall34755 ай бұрын
Great Q&A! I’m sorry I missed the opportunity to ask a question but I hope you do more of these in the future. I loved the Conor bit with the picture, lol! I noticed the portrait early on and love seeing it each time I see your videos, it brings back some nostalgia for me. George Michaels was an amazing artist. Your upcoming trip to Italy sounds exciting. Thanks for sharing Deb ❤️
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. George is my hero x
@HandbagDiva5 ай бұрын
@@WildunfilteredI can’t think of him without crying. I adored him so much & I love your sketch of him.
@paulfowler98325 ай бұрын
Yes milk did talk about her Hermes back, said it heavy. Really like your channel❤
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@ainalim605 ай бұрын
Check out Rakeedah's closet and her take on the video. Her take are real and makes me think including her comment that if bags are toxic why is she selling them to her viewers, taking advantage of her followers
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I did watch this video on your recommendation- fabulous!
@Emmaanders5 ай бұрын
Why don’t you tell us what you really think D! I love it. Xxxxxx I really want to sell a few to pay for a few house renovations but I can’t bring myself to do it!
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂 I’m doing a vlog sale shortly. I do think it’s sensible to let items go that don’t work for us anymore. X
@kiran-bilal5 ай бұрын
What a fun video to watch….i had a lovely time listening and watching…ALSO….I never thought Cartier bracelets were for me….i would look at them and say ‘never’! But then I got myself a Justenclou bracelet and now I am hooked. I HAVE to HAVE more….i need the Love Bracelet in many different styles…try one item and I am sure you will be pleasantly surprised!😇😉🙃
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I do love the look of them but I don’t think they are for me x
@saabguy97745 ай бұрын
I think it’s funny how people are so offended and upset by what another KZbinr does. Who cares if it’s extreme? Maybe she had contemplated this for a year, we don’t know. It comes across to me that you all are judging her. I went through exactly what she went through and I’ve never looked back, so yes it can happen truly like it has happened with her. The only difference is that she’s sharing with the public. It’s very sad to me to see a KZbinr like Connor basically calling Niki “insecure” when truly people who are so easily offended are the insecure ones.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. X
@MariaRodriguez-om1yi5 ай бұрын
I think you can understand there’s a difference between spending on frivolous, materialistic items, like handbags versus property, or other items that are good investments. And I think she was saying two separate points regarding her handbags. She was saying that it was way too much consumption and she also doesn’t like the logos anymore so she was specifically getting rid of all logos and then just downsizing her non-logo bags keeping few she still didn’t want to have the amount of bags she has even non-logo..
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I still believe people should have the choice to spend on whatever they choose. X
@MariaRodriguez-om1yi5 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered absolutely 100%. I agree with you on that but I also agree that she can have her opinion and post a video like that which will make some people feel better about not having luxury handbags.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
@@MariaRodriguez-om1yi totally agree. As I said in my video - everyone has the right to do whatever they wish. There were just some things I didn’t understand so thank you for sharing your thoughts on this x
@sarahsmith9785 ай бұрын
Ah it was Me Who grabbed the Goyard Artois because of You Deb! ❤️ It’s pre owned but never used and I got a great deal, it’s such a fabulous bag and Your video showing Yours was so helpful and I was sold 😂👌🏼 xxx
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Ah wonderful! Which colour did you get x
@sarahsmith9785 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered it’s the black with the tan handles 😄 had Her first office outing today and received compliments xx
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
@@sarahsmith978 love it! A classic x
@michaeljay36295 ай бұрын
I recognized George Michael. It always makes me smile. 🙂
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Me too x
@neebieslittleluxuries5 ай бұрын
As a US native, I would not recommend buying here if you can buy cheaper at home😂. New York has a very high sales tax as well. I avoid buying there often despite the fact I visit there often to see my wonderful partner. He’s used to the high sales tax, and I’m still not after nearly 4 years!!😂 they always have great options and stock there though!
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Yes it will be very difficult to resist x
@mellissabluxury5 ай бұрын
First Deb!!!! ❤❤❤ God bless our time zone 😂
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Yes!
@jayceeb31425 ай бұрын
Of course that’s George Michael! Lol. That was funny.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂
@DebShops-e3v5 ай бұрын
Yes I knew that was George Michael..so I figured you loved him. I get it such a talented vocalist. Have you listened to his Duet with Mary J. Blige “ As” check it out…so good and that is not an easy song to see. Keep up the videos.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Yes George for me was the best best talent. Taken too soon. X
@StyledByGwenny5 ай бұрын
You're forgiven for not joining Fuchsia Mini Baguette Club... but only because you're a founding member of MVDS Club! Roll on NYC!
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Oh I can’t wait!!!!! 🙏🏻
@lindathompson50995 ай бұрын
I would love to see more of your life. We would love it.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
That’s so kind x
@BeachieDogMom5 ай бұрын
I agree with you, Deb!! The whole video smelled very fishy🙄
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Really did x
@Gina.Leigh15 ай бұрын
Why do you think brands like Chanel do not want to offer you bags that They haven’t checked are in stock or you see on shelves? I had a similar experience. She brought me bags that looked used to me. I pushed thru and continued to ask and I eventually got what I wanted. So many stores won’t even ask you if you need help. Blows my mind….
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I have no idea. Sometimes I think they make a judgement based on maybe how I look etc x
@zarinahsales7695 ай бұрын
I just drooled over the title of ldr video haha good enough I never knew her haha! something is off with that person
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Right?!
@anttoronto32025 ай бұрын
These massive get rid of everything sales smells of high financial debt to me. This consumerism in also seen in the house and cars. Meanwhile getting views, likes, and making money on this now. Disingenuous.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
🙏🏻
@carlahaiduk18785 ай бұрын
George Michael had the best sounding voice ever. What's not to like about him?
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
He was the best. X
@valeriiarenas925 ай бұрын
I'm an accountant too 😁😅
@Wildunfiltered4 ай бұрын
yay!
@tara_nguyen5 ай бұрын
passing things down to your children isn't a good idea. Your offsprings don't want it. Do you want your parents' stuff?
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
My girls def would love my bags. However I was referring to passing down morals values, love, guidance support etc.
@ruthmurphy76275 ай бұрын
Sorry Deb, George Michaels mine! 😂😂😂 Great video.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Did I mention I do boxing? 🥊
@ruthmurphy76275 ай бұрын
Me too! I’m a PT. ❤
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂
@cathydavis82125 ай бұрын
When I lived in NYC in the aughts, I loved wandering the small streets of Soho, Chelsea, Tribeca exploring the unique little shops. There are lots of talented local designers who make beautiful things. No point in hunting European luxury with its high tax in the US. You might find a unique American-made piece that would be a special memento. of the trip.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you x
@lindathompson50995 ай бұрын
Love your outfit so me.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you x
@lindathompson50995 ай бұрын
I thought it was George Michael
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
👌
@rosahinson21665 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 I missed asking you a question. But, my question would have been about George Michael.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
What would your question have been?
@rilethomp5 ай бұрын
I figured that was her husband on the wall
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I wish!!! 😂
@accountingforluxury5 ай бұрын
I think my trunk is classed as an mto and it’s not an exotic 🤔
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Ah yes! That’s true - I could do a trunk!
@lindathompson50995 ай бұрын
Deb watched the Nikki Sky video never watched her before but just saying I think there is more things going on🤷♀️
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
It’s crazy x
@pink25poppies15 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this, her video felt condescending and disingenuous to me as though you can't be a good person/ good parent if you carry visible luxury logos and you are ' part of the herd' if you do. Finally, she spent years as a person trying to convince people to buy all these items and now she's making an about face. Idk it seems performative to me.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Time will tell but I felt it was disingenuous x
@Sincerely_SweetAesthete4 ай бұрын
Yall what if she is so broke from living above her means that everything got repoed?!
@Wildunfiltered4 ай бұрын
🤔
@martkax40744 ай бұрын
I think even if we are going through a some kind of transformation we still are allowed to keep ALL our bags/shoes (that one for me 😅), or whatever that is in God’s love, it takes life and time and money to get it 😂 so come on 🤭
@Wildunfiltered4 ай бұрын
We are all allowed to do anything we want but knee jerk reactions often bring regret x
@lv_lover33935 ай бұрын
Great q&a deb thanks for answering my question, looking forward to the baguette video! Ps think I found my Chanel boy, it’s sort of a pop of neutral colour 😂❤
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Ooh tell me more!!!!!
@lv_lover33935 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered hopefully it should be here before the weekend 🤞🏻
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Spill
@lv_lover33935 ай бұрын
@@Wildunfiltered it’s yellowy, mustardy, toffeey sort of colour 😆
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
@lv_lover3393 yes!!! Send me a photo when it arrives?
@Rose-qr4xn5 ай бұрын
I hope she doesn’t come after my boat!! How dare I own my own boat!!!! I own several luxury handbags as well!! Oh my!! 🥱
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
😂
@karenphu9985 ай бұрын
We all know that Nikki WILL NOT sell her gigantic McMansion home---this is the biggest social status purchase……………..common, Nikki is buying coach bags that are still too expensive for common people still around the world. Let’s not forget, Nikki became famous for faking videos: look rich girl with cheap stuff---hahaha.. We bought luxury or no luxury items for PERSONAL JOY & celebrate personal benchmarking successes.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I have no idea about Nikki ‘s background but the video did rub me up the wrong way x
@TianaPeri5 ай бұрын
listening, learning and taking notes... But yes!...I totally agree!!.. I personally think it's all for social media and another way of boosting and reaching out to a different demographic of people ☺🤍 xx
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Totally agree! 😘
@5Heliotrope5 ай бұрын
The portrait of Connor -part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@vvforme5 ай бұрын
😂
@CarolDirienzo-j6g5 ай бұрын
First of all you look great in that shade of blue and your pink lipstick. The colors look great on you. Since you mentioned you would make recommendations on shopping in London where should I go first. I will be in London in a few weeks and then Paris. So do you recommend I buy in London or Paris.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. That’s very kind - re recommendations I think shopping in London is amazing. My fav places are selfridges and also the main shops on New Bond Street. However if you are travelling from abroad then I understand that due to tax refunds and exchange rates you might find Paris prices are more favourable x
@CarolineNedwab5 ай бұрын
You look gorgeous in that shade of blue Deb - loved this Q&A - fabulous xxx
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much x
@renatameredith96225 ай бұрын
Love what I have purchased from coach to Hermes. Tired of these guys trying to influence people. Sell her bags and move on. Stop with the drama.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
👌
@livingluxwithmeredith5 ай бұрын
Love you Deb!!!! Great Q&A and New York is going to be fabulous!
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
It really is!!! Can’t wait!! Eek
@hermeslover3405 ай бұрын
I have sold most of my collection had 38 bags in total . but I still buy expensive bags but not with logos on . I’m more Celine , now and quiet luxury x
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
I love that we can evolve and change and whatever we love is perfect x
@Sincerely_SweetAesthete4 ай бұрын
Also what is with her keeping up her video: “how to look like you have money.” Thats your proof she is full of it
@Wildunfiltered4 ай бұрын
🤔
@jaks_bag_attack5 ай бұрын
Lol, I don't watch her but i have enjoyed the response videos, i loved connors take on it
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Connor’s video was so funny x
@almalruiz5 ай бұрын
I completely agree. It’s about a problem with yourself and how you feel about yourself, not the stuff.
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Exactly x
@ameliarosescloset5 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed hearing your view, on point my friend. And italy js chef's kiss!
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thanks love x
@Monika-K5 ай бұрын
Hello from a fellow accountant :) Love this reaction video and learning more about you 🤩
@Wildunfiltered5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😁 💻⌨️
@datdame5 ай бұрын
So true. It's never about the things, it's about your inner self.