Reacting To The Cringe Girl Defined Book | Somehow It Keeps Getting Worse

[@vintagearisen]

They're complaining about women being objectified as if the Bible wasn't written in a time and society where women were literally considered objects to be bartered for

[@JordanandMcKay]

This comment right here!!!!

[@juliecox647]

My grandparents did not like each other either. When they moved to a retirement/nursing home “together” they chose to have their own rooms and even requested separate floors! They openly spoke about being sick of each other while continually bashing people getting divorced and not “having what it takes” to be married. So ridiculous!

[@queencelestyna]

My grandparents became closer in their later years but openly admitted that they were pressured into marriage (teen pregnancy) and then too busy parenting and working to really get to know each other. When they both retired at the same time, they both quickly got part-time jobs because they couldn't deal with being home together all the time. By the time my grandpa died, they were very close, but Grandma would be the first to tell you that was something they didn't develop until the LAST years of their marriage. They 100% supported their children's divorces over the years, though, which I'm grateful for, but they definitely knew people in similar situations who were strongly anti-divorce.

[@mrsleigh7806]

I got the notification for this video while I was at my 5-year-old son’s swimming lesson. His instructor is a young, college-aged woman, and as she was getting into the pool to teach her class full of preschoolers, the manager came out and made her put on a t-shirt over her bikini. You could see in her face she was confused and bothered by it. None of the male instructors were wearing shirts, and strangely, the female lifeguards weren’t wearing shirts over their similar two-piece suits. They are all employees of the pool. The only difference I could see was that this instructor was a little fuller figured than the lifeguards. The craziest part was that it was a white t-shirt, so it wasn’t actually hiding anything. I thought that was a sign it was time to snark on some Girl Defined.

[@olivethunderbird]

Please stand up for that employee if you can. That is so not ok and damaging ,not only to the instructor but the kids who are witnessing it

[@mrsleigh7806]

@@olivethunderbird I agree. I am sending an email today. I wanted to give it a day to cool off so I wouldn’t say something I regret.

[@mrsleigh7806]

@@olivethunderbird I sent the email to the manager. He has one last lesson tomorrow. I’ll see what happens.

[@olivethunderbird]

@@mrsleigh7806 awesome! I’m so glad and I hope they do something about it.

[@JordanandMcKay]

SO glad you said something!!

[@GI1derY]

GAWD!!!! A note on dictionaries: A dictionary's purpose is *not* to be the authority on how to use words. It is to document how words *are being used* in the world. A dictionary is a historical document, not a rule book.

[@JordanandMcKay]

Exactly!!

[@AnniM88]

I think the whole spiel in the beginning like "I don't like a movie like that, so you can't watch it" sums up their whole view on life. They don't like it, so nobody else is allowed to enjoy their life. They could have saved themselves a lot of time of writtng the book, because thats basically the essence of it all.

[@JordanandMcKay]

EXACTLY!

[@pembrokelove]

My biggest complaint about people bitching about divorce is this whole idea that divorce is the end of a happy marriage. No, no it is not. Divorce is the end of a shitty marriage, it’s a happy event that allows two people to go find the person they are truly meant to be with, and it’s a happy event, if complicated lease so, for the children who are now not growing up with parents who hate each other.

[@JordanandMcKay]

Exactly!

[@jodie8687]

I got married young and didn't finish university because I thought sex was only for marriage. I ended up getting divorced. I'm finally back in school in my 40s. I don't regret my past, but I think it's sad that I was fed that dogma and it made my life difficult.

[@lewdawg69]

So proud of you!!

[@JordanandMcKay]

good for you for getting back into it! that's amazing!

[@hbtried7818]

Ok lmao at them freaking out that dictionaries change definitions of words-dictionaries are not meant to prescribe what words should mean; they have to describe current use. So if some people out there in the world are describing 2 same gender ppl as married the dictionaries have to make a definition that includes that!!

[@amandarahfaldt8022]

Damn I read this whole ass book, breaking free from this brainwashing was the best thing I did

[@JordanandMcKay]

Yeeeessss we love to see it!

[@GI1derY]

YES!!!! Congratulations!!!

[@alysgriego]

Discovered y'all several days ago and have been binging your content! I was never Mormon but my ex-best friend is Mormon... I've been researching Christian fundamentalism/cult behavior for a long time but y'alls firsthand insight to the world's largest cult is truly horrifying. Stay strong and thanks so much for being vulnerable, I know you're helping a lot of people.

[@alysgriego]

Also, fuck girl defined, I hate them so much. Lmao

[@nickialaskanyogi]

I recently watched “12 Years a Slave” on an Alaskan Airline Flight, with a 7 year old on my right. I just made sure he couldn’t see the tablet and also he was into his game the entire time. Like wth. She didn’t have to look!!! For Jesus sakes. Okay had to get that out.

[@JordanandMcKay]

Literally, what bored kid with wandering eyes is going to be on a flight. It’s 2021.

[@pffox]

Is it just me or isn't every relationship we enter into inherently for 'selfish gain'?!

[@DM-nw5lu]

Yup. Though in high school I dated a guy because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. That wasn't really me being selfish.. But definitely me being an asshole. Maybe actually selfish in part now that I think about it.. As hurting his feelings would've hurt mine.

[@JordanandMcKay]

Yes! My thoughts exactly!

[@TK-ic6mw]

These are the kind of people who won't admit it but still believe kissing will get you pregnant. In the words of CC Suarez, "for the love of the flying spaghetti monster, no."

[@JordanandMcKay]

hahahahah omg yES

[@greenjean]

We need a sticker saying something along the lines of “I’m feeling spicy today” 😜

[@JordanandMcKay]

We are already on it.

[@creative_thimble560]

@@JordanandMcKay Yay!

[@oliviacartwright3410]

With a chili pepper

[@mimijulene6307]

Sign me up! I love that saying!!

[@MeLlamabanTerry]

I want a sticker that says "virginity is a social construct". Moreover, I'm a sociologist, we LOOOOOVE to say "social construct" lol

[@Anita-bs2cr]

When you said what is a "real" woman, it instantly reminded me of how inconsiderate people can be. I had a conversation with someone whose wife recently gave birth to their first child. So we were talking about it and he went off saying that you are only a true woman once you give birth to a child, before that you are not a "real" woman. I felt a bit personally attacked because they know well I do not want children, but in that moment I thought about women I know who desperately want children of their own but can not have them because of infertility. Even though in the moment I stood up for myself, the way I have to do countless times in these conversations, I could not help but leave the room feeling empty, that a person I know thinks so shallow and has no consideration for people's own personal experiences. At least I do not associate with him often and the majority of the people I know are understanding, but it worries me that people can not think beyond themselves and their own experiences...

[@JordanandMcKay]

Ugh there are shockingly so many people in that crowd. Especially when it comes to vaginal birth vs cesarean. But that aside, it’s super trans-exclusionary as well, which makes me sad. Like yes, it is physically one of the most difficult things the human body can do, but it doesn’t make you any more human.

[@EmiltPaige58]

There's a lot of gatekeeping around the definition of womenhood, mostly pertaining to motherhood and nurturing behaviors and relationship status. I'm doing my MA in a foreign country, travel alone often (or at least I did before COVID, am fluent in a foreign language, write poetry and do mixed media art but I can't help but feel more like a grown woman now that I have a man. I was single for most of my adult life. When I would visit home (Missouri), I always felt a bit like out of touch, kind of like people didn't know how to place me. Now that I'm engaged, I feel like other women take me more seriously and respect my boundaries more. It's super messed up. It sucks that those people made you feel like you had to conform to meet the common misconception of womanhood. I feel it too in a way. It kind of hurts feeling like I'm taken more seriously now I'm in a relationship. It's demeaning and sometimes it feels like I wasn't a "real" woman with out a man.

[@greenjean]

“When the gays get married, it ruins it for the rest of us” -that one chick (married to the most flamboyant man) from Parks and Rec 😂

[@vintagearisen]

Imma just say if your marriage gets ruined because somebody else get married, your marriage was weak as shit to begin with

[@AChickandaDuck]

Marcia and Marshall! ✨🤣

[@JordanandMcKay]

OMG THE LANGMANS! hahahah we love parks and rec!

[@greenjean]

@@JordanandMcKay all of your guys’ p&r references had me sold on this channel 😂 Just bought some of your stickers to put in my water bottle by my Ron Swanson sticker.

[@lisab6547]

One of my lifelong female friends married a woman. They were in a relationship before my hubby and I got together. They had a beautiful commitment ceremony and several years later were able to get legally married. Their marriage didn't affect our marriage in the least! I don't understand how groups can use this "reason" against same sex marriage. Sadly my lifelong friend passed away a few years ago from M.S. I am grateful that I knew her for so long but I'm more grateful that she spent most of her adult life with the woman who was the love of her life. 💖💖

[@Iriateayuda]

When people say that back in the day people didn´t divorce I wonder how many women poisoned their abusive husbands...

[@JordanandMcKay]

Or waited for them to get drafted.

[@PrincessJamiG]

...or literally just left them because divorce wasn't a legal thing.

[@AChickandaDuck]

My great-great-grandmother did this. She was tried for his murder and was acquitted because she flirted with the jury.

[@Iriateayuda]

@@AChickandaDuck I would love to hear the full story 🤔

[@PrincessJamiG]

@@AChickandaDuck Amazing!! 🤭

[@teamarie123]

I always feel so happy when people acknowledge that ace people exist

[@Shoot4AlarmFire]

Same!

[@JordanandMcKay]

[@victoriabarron]

Yes!! It makes me so happy whenever I hear ace people included in the conversation in a genuinely valid way. 💜

[@elainebassett9553]

What's ace people

[@teamarie123]

@@elainebassett9553 asexual, ace is just another way of saying it

[@rian2328]

Girl defined talking about how sex is too passionate for it to not have god in it,,,, meanwhile the way they define it makes it sound like a chore. If sex really was exactly like the way they see it, then I’d be even more glad than I already am that I’m ace and lean towards being sex repulsed.

[@aeg360]

If they go back to an even later definition of marriage, they won't like that either because it was a financial agreement between two families. It's like the definition of marriage changes over time because it is socially constructed....hm...

[@JordanandMcKay]

Apparently 1828 was peak fundie for the definition of marriage.

[@hollyfran51317]

It cracks me up, all the ads so far have been Pureflix, a bible home school program, and an MLM. 💀💀💀🤣🤣

[@JordanandMcKay]

Yikes 😬

[@creative_thimble560]

I haven’t read this book, but I’ve read plenty like it, compliments of the evangelical purity culture of the 90’s/00’s. I hate that everything is presented as SO extreme- virgin vs. constantly sleeping around, purity vs. depravity. No middle ground. It’s also frustrating that purity culture seems to assume a person can’t set and enforce personal boundaries or have common sense. Instead of being able to say that you don’t want to have sex/talk about it/watch movies you aren’t comfortable with/wear clothing you don’t like, it’s assumed that if you step outside a purity bubble, everyone will pressure you to do these things and you will cave in. Umm, NO. I’m an ex-fundie, and I’m very capable of setting boundaries and enforcing them all on my own! Leaving the evangelical purity culture hasn’t meant constant unsafe sex, or wearing inappropriate clothing. Instead I use common sense combined with personal boundaries and beliefs. Ironically, I’m comfortable with doing some of what they say is “right”, but the difference is that it’s my choice

[@caitlynbradford6120]

14k SUBS!! CONGRATS YOU GUYS! YOU DESERVE NOTHING BUT LOVE! i been slacking on the videos because irl has been a whirlwind. but i hope you guys are great and i cannot wait to hear this snark

[@JordanandMcKay]

thank you Caitlyn!! we love you!!

[@overexposure337]

I feel bad for all the trees who died just to put that book into print.

[@tiffany991]

Yes, more Dumpster Fire Defined! “His bigger purpose.” 😂😂

[@amandasaysthings13]

Just found you all and I’m so in love, feels like I’m the only one in my world who thinks this way sometimes, so thank you for being open and honest and using your voices. please never stop making these!!

[@LizbetPCB]

I didn’t watch your last video, I saw the title and knew it was a ‘no’. Love watching you both. I enjoy seeing you continue stand strong against this drivel. 💙

[@JordanandMcKay]

Thank you Lizbet! Always happy to see you here ❤️❤️

[@olliesGiGi]

Wow, Jordan!! You were in rare form today! Btw, being a patron rocks. I really love what you guys are doing. Keep up the awesome work my favorite apostates!👏❤

[@JordanandMcKay]

Thank you Julie!! We’re so glad to know you! ❤️

[@travelswithblindcane]

As an asexual, thank you so much for the continued affirmations. I spent over 30 years without knowing I was one, and wondering why, if sex was supposedly so wonderful, I would rather be watching a movie xD Now that I know who I am, I'm glad I'm older. I have no idea how I would have dealt with it in the late 90s/early 2000s. I wish I had known as a young adult though, maybe I wouldn't have equated my worth on how much a guy wanted to sleep with me. This book is gross but your reading of it is hilarious, thank you!

[@jackiehoward7300]

Thank you for regaling us with the tale of Jake from State Farm and his debauchery of Jennifer with his penis bus. It made me laugh my butt off. Lol

[@butterbeanqueen8148]

Okay two things- Have they never seen or heard about the “porn” all over Ancient Greece??? Egypt??? The main reason the divorce rate is higher now is because women have rights and opportunities. In previous generations most women were stuck. Women couldn’t even have checking account not that long ago. They didn’t have the ability to leave an abusive relationship or just an unhappy one. They had no choice!!!

[@TrinityTronos]

This isn't fluff, in my opinion...they straight out said "following your heart to lead real love is bad, because it's a sinful, disgusting, selfish and horrible thing, and YOU should not follow your heart, never listen to your self, only in our words." Saying being gay is a disgusting sin, because they want the LGBTQ to be silent and be tortured, so they won't fight them all the time because it's easy to make them silent by having no human rights to lgbtqia kids, teens or adults (mostly teens). So that's why I don't think what we read in chapter 4 is fluff, it's obviously clear of what they said. I just hate them so much, I wish Bethany don't have a kid, because who knows what will happen that kid if that kid is gay or just having their own path to success... because the shit she saids and her sister, it's bad.

[@sydney.mp4]

the only issue i have with the porn industry being worth that much is how much of it is from sites that don't treat or pay performers nearly well enough - like if we could put all that money into ethical and inclusive studios and independent creators that would be great

[@JordanandMcKay]

agreed!!!

[@haniinii]

The Olive Garden spaghetti bit had me ROLLING. Sassy Jordan and McKay are hilarious

[@captaintugger6551]

Can I just say I hate that they're called Girl Defined when they're adults? Because I do. A lot.

[@MadisonnnnnS]

Same. It’s so weird. I noticed that in their videos too, they refer to themselves as girls…. They’re grown adults.

[@lilithalexis5122]

They do it on purpose. They want to cater to a younger audience, because they're easier to manipulate and brainwash with this type of bs.

[@MadisonnnnnS]

@@lilithalexis5122 exactly.

[@captaintugger6551]

@@lilithalexis5122 It sounds like the stuff I was forced to listen to on mission trips and just feels...so gross to hear again.

[@EmiltPaige58]

Yeah samsies. It's totally cringe. They can call themselves girls but I'll stick with woman because I am a grown ass adult.

[@jex-seg8301]

I kind of don’t get this whole idea of “I don’t like what you’re watching so don’t watch it around me”. Like was the dude playing the movie on speakerphone or something. Also congrats on the amazing stickers!! Y’all should consider making a garbitch one!

[@JordanandMcKay]

Ugh we need to!

[@shabriaboland8993]

I keep rewatching y’all’s video of Mrs. Midwest……. Idk why but I’m obsessed with watching the real sh** that she’s been trying to hide being exposed.

[@kyerin]

Literally *just* finished binging your other videos and you upload a new one, thank you 😍

[@JordanandMcKay]

Hope you enjoyed it!

[@fairycookies33]

Jordan’s mood here makes for excellent entertainment. I laughed out loud probably more than any other video or y’all’s I’ve watched 🤣

[@hydrogen3266]

I just realized why McKay looks so familiar and sorry if someone has already said it but he looks EXACTLY like Bill Weasley

[@JordanandMcKay]

Okay, that is low key kind of a vibe. I’ll take it.

[@jeannekeller3392]

I don't need an excuse to put on makeup or getting dressed up if I want to put on makeup and stay home and don't go anywhere and I have myself all dolled up my hair is done my makeup done and it makes me feel good and I'm at home then I'm going to do that no one should tell anyone how to live their life in what they should or should not do so this girl defying whatever they are they need to get their head out of their asses

[@KrystalPancakes]

40:30 Shoot- You don't even have to love a person to woohoo! 2 consenting adults can have a great time, no love needed! 😉

[@kolimarie]

I wrote better romance when I was 14 writing fanfiction. I mean, 15 years later I’m still writing fanfiction and it has gotten better since age 14, but seriously….

[@erinrobinson6436]

My great grandpa was a violent alcoholic. My grandma married a man with an explosive temper and was a violent mother. My mom was explosive and violent with us. THAT'S what staying in bad marriages does. By all means, let's keep crapping on divorce.

[@JordanandMcKay]

Unreal how people see that bad marriages ruined lives for so long and will still look down on people who have gotten divorced.

[@Muddylittlegoblin]

I’m gonna need a “it STINKS” patriarchy sticker 😂

[@AutisticAllie]

Love seeing a God’s Not Dead ad in this video. They’re just BEGGING to be snarked

[@JordanandMcKay]

I’m trying to figure out how we do it because they seem like they would come for our ass with copyright.

[@marilenaapavlidou]

Love the stickers! Would also love a happy brain collective with the logo if possible 🧠

[@JordanandMcKay]

We can do that!

[@ericb9252]

I wish Girl Defined would write a book that was actually godlike. No judgement, no arrogance. Write about loving God and what that means for them. But they have this need to judge everyone so they can be as Stepford wife as they are and that's so disrespectful and antithetical to Christianity

[@vintagearisen]

Okay I have to say though for people who claim their best and greatest calling is being wives and homemakers, they're really bad at it. Kristen made a video once where she was going to show you how to make cauliflower rice but she bought a cabbage for it because she'd clearly only ever made it from frozen and didn't know the difference between a whole cauliflower and a whole cabbage Also she didn't heat the oil before putting her ingredients in her frying pans which is basically cooking 101 so My working mother feminist ass can cook better than them.

[@samigrass]

I found guys through another channel and have been following ever since but this is the first video I've watched and I loved it. You both are great together and super relatable.

[@Itsdanigrace]

Binge watching your videos on my 12 hr shift is the best thing ever. Appreciate you guys! 💖

[@JordanandMcKay]

You're the best!

[@ToEKnee213]

I snorted laughing at the 3 some comment. McKay's comedic timing is perfect lol I 💜 spicy Jordan.

[@JordanandMcKay]

Spicy Jordan loves you!!

[@simplycarla5025]

Love seeing your videos pop up in my notifications! 🤗

[@CritThinkng]

Omg, you guys made me laugh so hard..."he looks at her while she slurps her Olive Garden spaghetti" 🤣🤣🤣also there's NO WAY the Jennifer and Jake anecdote actually happened. "Yeah, f*ck Jennifer" 😅😅😅I've been going back and binging dad challenge podcast; good stuff 👍, love you guys❤

[@jojol.2630]

I was grumpy today but seeing both of yours lovely hair cheers me up lmfao

[@PrincessJamiG]

Yes! Our favorite apostates with the best hair! :)

[@karlawatson2331]

I’m right there with the snark. Damn this is absolutely ridiculous writing. Love the video!

[@virgilnusbaum993]

Love you guys, your banter is amazing! I enjoy this so much.

[@JordanandMcKay]

thanks for being here!

[@castackpole]

Merriam-Webster sure sounds like a Mr. Struggle to me

[@cortney3798]

I knew where my dad hid the magazines 😆 definitely around the age of 11.

[@JordanandMcKay]

I laughed out loud!

[@actingqween]

No, marriage has nothing to do with God. I am a Christian, and I am happy to clarify that for anyone. While, yes, many religious groups have their own traditions and views on marriage, marriage was not created by the church. It always has, and always will be a legal contract. At the end of the wedding, the priest, pastor, rabbi, etc. always says, "And now, by the power vested in me by the state of (Insert Location Here), you may now kiss the (spouse)." That means, that it is a recognized legal contract, not just a religious sacrament. If it was only a religious thing, then atheists wouldn't be able to marry. Also, technically, when you are pronounced wed, you're not actually wed yet. You are not officially marriage until the marriage license is signed and filed by the courts. If something goes wrong with the paperwork, then nothing about that ceremony matters at all.

[@mistiehernandez3601]

You make some good points!

[@EscapedTheCult]

I LOVE this content so much!!!! And the stickers are adorable and so helpful!! Just bought mine yesterday! ♥️♥️

[@JordanandMcKay]

aww thank you Katie!!

[@LithoCat]

Watching these old videos with Bethy in her whole interCourse phase right now hits different.

[@nickialaskanyogi]

Cue that sappy music to go with the horrible book. Lol. Piano, sax, perfect. It’s scary that this book is out. Especially for our youth.

[@Kwolfpack13]

Whenever McKay says “showing your porn shoulders” I get physically ill lol. My ex mother in law called me a sloot (but the real thing) to my face when I went to my ex husbands soccer game. Why you ask? Because I was wearing a thick tank top outside in 100 degree weather. Yup. Then told her son he shouldn’t marry me. Funny since he cheated on me after I had our twin boys but I was the sloot for wearing a tank top. Got it.

[@JordanandMcKay]

OMG that is so rude!!! I'm so sorry!

[@sezybabe100]

Yesssss!!!! Another chapter review! It's always hilarious to see Jordan get so wound up by this book! 🤣

[@petermj]

can't believe i've read fan fiction written better than this actual published book.

[@deannedrewry3425]

Near the end when Jordan says body count 🤣 my mind went straight to serial killers 🤦🤦🤦 in that case body count matters call the police haha

[@RZTree]

It is currently June 2022 (happy pride) and I have been watching all your videos from most recent and upon getting to this video I had to decide whether or not to watch this book series in order or not. After much thought, based on how fun it was to watch the mormon influencer series backwards in time because it was so exciting to get to the earlier ones after hearing references to them, I'm sticking to the uploads playlist. I'll let you know how it goes when I get to the first one. unless I forget which is likely because I am high which is also why I wrote so much sorry about this

[@MountainPearls]

Things that did not happen #427: “Bethany being recruited by a top modeling agency.”. (Although I can imagine how much whining and crying she did for her sister to get her a meeting. There *I* said it)! I really believe, that for Bethany, this book , the channel etc has nothing to do with God at all. I think she truly loves looking down on others. Having these “outlets” are way to be a judgy gossip and it not be a “sin.” Every time I hear about something they have said/written/done it keeps surprising me (although it doesn’t particularly shock me). Just when you think you can’t be possibly be any worse…they top themselves. Especially when Bethany opens her mouth (or puts words on paper…although most likely someone else did *that* part).

[@electricdeathcommission]

so, by their standards, i’m not using my toothbrush correctly because it’s designer isn’t standing next to me showing me how… or am i doing it wrong because God isn’t there instructing me?! the literal fuq, y’all?! 🤦🏽‍♀️ as a fellow social worker and kind human, i cannot with them 🙄

[@shealaghburke8379]

Thank you for buying and reacting to this book so I don't have to read it myself haha. Love all of your videos!

[@JordanandMcKay]

Thank you for being here!!

[@Nicole-ec8uo]

I’m gonna go out on a limb and say Bethany’s modeling agency story was false 🤣

[@kiterafrey]

If you ever do write a book and want to self-pub it, I’d be happy to help you through the process. I’m an author with a publishing degree and worked for publishers so now I teach people how to self publish like a traditional publisher. And, if you’re writing a book that’ll help people get out of religious oppression I’m all for helping on that

[@MrsMrMoney]

I hope the in flight movie was 50 Shades 😂😂😂

[@JordanandMcKay]

Bahahahahha

[@limeparticle]

I had to skip the previous video, but I’m SO here for the GD snark! 😂

[@meluvfriends]

Always here for my weekly comment that has nothing to do with the video 😂 McKay, your shirt font is way too easy to read in this and its unsettling 😉

[@JordanandMcKay]

I have some new ones coming in the mail that are hopefully less legible. Sorry for the inconvenience. Free sticker to anyone who can read the one I have coming from Australia 😎

[@RahRahSisBoom13]

I keep hearing this narrative thrown at ACTUAL CHILDREN that we're all broken and only their version (non-denominational) of God can help them be less broken.

[@KrystalPancakes]

Just ordered 3 stickers!! Excited to get them and proudly display them!! (Justice for Zach, Down with the patriarchy, and Satan's Ponzi Scheme!) I might need that Down with the patriarchy and God created me to be a feminist ass bitch as vinyl stickers cuz those would look great on my bumper alongside my Protect Black Lives, Stop Asian Hate and Protect Trans Lives stickers! Love all y'alls content!

[@maccifyme]

Imagine being a young impressionable teen. trying to figure yourself out and navigate in the world of gender identity, confidence, love, relationships, sexuality and everything like that. And THESE TWO LADIES are who you rely on for advice? My heart breaks for any lgbtqia+ kid believing what girl defined says is the truth. Poor things! I hope they all have someone in their life who can tell them they are loved and valued and worthy of everything good in life, no matter who they fall in love with, or if they feel comfortable with their assigned gender or not, or if they are getting intimate with someone they're not married to, or anything else.

[@anjabraun]

I love the long videos!!

[@dr.gwendolyncarter]

Hmm... never thought of a dictionary being a culture time capsule, but it works like that.👍

[@Itsdanigrace]

Also I love listening to these since I’m pagan so you guys talking about Jesus I’m over here just thinking about my gods and how different pagan deities are compared to Jesus and Christian God. It’s really interesting

[@priscillaastling8707]

glad you did this. So important to be affirming to sensible about an overhyped overheated topic

[@coley3986]

Had to share that I got a 3 minute ad for the Mormon church in the middle of this video. Oh, KZbin 🤦‍♀

[@feliciascorner9795]

Friendly Neighborhood Asexual here. Sexual desire is not the same as sexual attraction. Lack of sexual attraction is what asexuality is all about. Sexual desire is how you, personally, feel about yourself engaging in sexual activity. People who experience sexual attraction can be sex repulsed or indifferent. Asexual people can also be sex-favorable and love engaging in sex but don't experience sexual attraction. Human sexuality is so fucking intricate and diverse.

[@lucidthomas4402]

I feel like these people think that people who have sex before marriage have waaaay more sex than they actually do lol. Like that shit takes time, I got stuff to do

[@rachelcrimm5763]

Meriam Webster actually wrote the dictionary to glorify God so like… girl defined’s argument is that he didn’t do that good enough?

[@dawnarlene8884]

I know you are crazy busy, but I could see you writing a book for teenagers going through puberty, body image and gender identity

[@JordanandMcKay]

Teenagers think we are lame.

[@MrsMrMoney]

@@JordanandMcKay this made me laugh so hard. As the mom of two teenagers I feel this way too hard. 😂🤣😂

[@jordyjinx996]

@@JordanandMcKay Not true! I just turned 19 and I think you guys are the coolest 😎

[@keltai83]

@@JordanandMcKay that's okay, teenagers think everyone over age 21 is lame

[@karas3101]

Stopping the ad free version to come here to give you a few cents ;) "The bible had no pronouns"...riiiiggghhht... Loving the vid. Hilarious shit.

[@JordanandMcKay]

4 verses between Genesis 1:1 and the first pronoun…

[@karas3101]

Did anyone ask God first, if it was ok to use 'he' to represent thyself? Maybe it was a misinterpretation..

[@rosebud7233]

Thank you for mentioning people who are intersex! My wife is intersex and does advocacy. It's not talked about enough, particularly for how prevalent intersex conditions are.

[@JordanandMcKay]

that is amazing!!

[@rosebud7233]

Thanks! I think she's pretty awesome 🤎

[@purpleconundrum783]

I decided to beard the lion in her den and ordered the book from the library... I made sure I had plenty of Grown Up Grape Juice and Zesty Cheddar pretzels while reading. ...and a Wildly Rebel Thought hit my brain: Who Peed in Their (K + B) Communion Wine?? I'm definitely feeling spicy today

[@allyconwell3682]

The add I got for this video was for the Book of Mormon and joining the church I-

[@JordanandMcKay]

they literally cannot read the room!

[@allisongriner7125]

Well if it was for the Book of Mormon the Broadway show that would definitely make sense on here as that whole thing is making fun of Mormons..

[@amab5530]

I like to imagine it was me when I watched the Notebook coming back from my trip.

[@torianakay1405]

Definitely heading to your etsy right after work today…. 😅

[@JordanandMcKay]

aw! Thank you!!

[@KrystalPancakes]

Loving the N64 shirt McKay!!! ♥♥

[@Simone_Subtle_Salt]

Just ordered two stickers!

[@JordanandMcKay]

Aww thank you so much!!

[@lisab6547]

These "girls" sure scar easily

[@whippeting]

I’m hearing in this chapter why Bethie had a problem with the Barbie movie….her talking points are giving “Kendom”

[@karas3101]

Should "go be a dictionary" be a sticker... hmmm...I like it

[@greenjean]

I second this!

[@ashleelynn7094]

My last comment was apparently too spicy, my b. Let me try another comment; Jordan’s nails look so good. 👍💅

[@JordanandMcKay]

omg thank you!!

[@theboywiththedoublex]

The Bible 2: Electric Boogaloo