reacting to your assumptions about me & getting too personal

[@emmmabooks]

“I created that category just so I could win it” LMAO

[@bat5092]

That low-key reminds me of something that I'd do.

[@gulshanqureshi1198]

I would probably do that too

[@nobodynowhere6942]

@Dawn Edgar Why not just post vids, people will subscribe to you way more

[@tarareads23]

I love that! lol

[@saullayton4476]

instablaster.

[@HaileyinBookland]

I assume that you are the most wonderful human being and oh would you look at that I’M RIGHT

[@gulshanqureshi1198]

@Hailey In Bookland That's so sweet 😘

[@bookwormlife1278]

Girl, your right. but you and zoe are to. book marked rule

[@Greeneyedgirl0704]

Hey hailey watched your video Hannah lol ever since that game she’s gonna make sure she’s on it!!

[@madelinegaudet4674]

You guys are the cutest friends everrrrrrrr!🤍♥️

[@tothisyouwerecalled]

People need to realize not every woman wants children. That’s okay!

[@starshocker]

And we are far enough on Earth anyway. So it's pretty good that some don't want children. It's a choice that should be respected and not pointed out.

[@bookedonafeeling]

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

[@tahaali3424]

@@starshocker exactly like why create more humans if 1) u don't want to and 2) there are already too many

[@Wendy-yr5ke]

I’ve never wanted kids either. People said I’d change my mind when I got older. Didn’t happen. In my 30s it became if I met the right guy I’d change my mind. I always said the right guy for me wouldn’t want kids either. So here I am at 42 now, no kids, no regrets!

[@anaghasharma7433]

Amen

[@tutdunsthemouse]

"the only time i'm not the mom friend is when there's another more DOMINANT MOM FRIEND."

[@jamimcdonald9857]

Been getting the “you’ll change your mind about kids” spill all my life .... if you do you do if you don’t you don’t. Stop pushing her, y’all lol.

[@light_reading]

i'm so happy i'm not the only person horrified by pregnancy 😹😹

[@vanessapachecoflores8372]

I know let a girl live who needs kids

[@AikiraBeats]

Right having kids scare me

[@shelblr]

The idea of it makes me cry

[@forever.farrell]

Same. Lmao I can't stand the "you'll change your mind." speeches. Nope.

[@starlahenjoys]

saaaaame

[@kristenmcivor9401]

Thank you for speaking about not wanting children! I am the same way! Adoption is totally legitimate!! I just appreciate how you talked about it so openly! Just know, you’re not alone in that opinion💕

[@raquelourives8396]

I was horrified about pregnancy for so long. I changed my mind and I really want kids now, but i'm still afraid. I feel like it's such a personal thing people cannot say "you will change your mind" if you dont want to. Its totally ok not wanting to have kids.

[@allisoneuph1]

Thank you so much for your openness and honesty. I would rather adopt too. ❤️❤️

[@Books_Anime_92]

Obviously she hates children if she doesn’t want kids. Most women who don’t want children hate kids.

[@tahaali3424]

@@Books_Anime_92 it doesn't mean she hates kids it just means she doesn't want to be responsible for kids, there's a difference

[@anastasiaa.4575]

@@Books_Anime_92 I love kids. Love my godson, love all my friends kids, I just love them so much! It's amazing to watch them grow and learn! But I have never and will never want to have children. Full stop, I don't want to be a mother. I just wish more people realized this about themselves before they had their own kids and ended up resenting them, thus being damaging to them. Not wanting to be a parent doesn't mean you hate kids and even if someone does...so? They're loud, needy, require a LOT of energy and are kinda terrifying because they haven't yet learned empathy. It's perfectly valid not to like them, want to be around them, or want to have them.

[@katnaps127]

Girl I feel you about the kids. Being pregnant is like one of my biggest fears. I'm 28 and people still tell me I'll change my mind. Pretty sure I know myself well enough now to know I dont want kids.

[@LadyPflanzelot]

Lol, I literally just left the same comment. Even with the age and stuffs.

[@LadyMcCrystal]

I'm 32 and still scared! No babies yet!

[@katnaps127]

I feel very validated with other people commenting on this with the same feelings.

[@kotarahmusic]

Yay other women who feel the same way 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@ammalyrical5646]

I'm absolutely not even remotely ready to have kids. I'm 26 and don't even think about it. I am that person that hardly ever even thinks about marrying (as a child I never did at all) and the thought of planning anything similar to a wedding stresses me out. Good thing I'm still single. It's perfectly fine to not want kids, we're already with too many humans as is, but I think I get why so many people say you'll change your mind. I might have to do with only fertile for a relatively short amount of time and when the end of nears, a lot of women who never wanted children all of a sudden do want a child. Not all of them though and it's not anyone else's place to decide but yours.

[@astellus]

Re: children. You will not change your mind. I am at the end of my 30's and only just now people are starting to realize that I am not going to change my mind.

[@gmg4728]

“i created that category just so I could win it“ is a mooooooood. But also it's so powerful

[@withcindy]

react to my assumption: you deserve hitting 200k subscribers and 200k more how about THAT

[@AClockworkReader]

I was gonna say something self deprecating but this is a year of self love so: thank you, I'm trying to accept that I deserve it

[@withcindy]

HELL YEA HANNAH

[@fromsophiewithlovex]

This is the kind of content we aspire for

[@duck2322]

A Clockwork Reader WE LOVE SELF LOVE AND TRUTH

[@acorn_woman]

"Applications are open down below" HAD ME DYINGGGGGG😂 Omg Hannah, ily please never change

[@followthebooks]

As someone who has had the honor of hugging Hannah twice I can say she gives some of the absolute best hugs!!!

[@courtneys119]

The bit about not wanting kids was so relatable!! So glad there’s other women that feel the same

[@mustarinmortuza8815]

This is the first time I am hearing someone say they would rather adopt than get pregnant IF they want kids and oh god, it just feels so good cause I relate to this so much!!!

[@greekchick104]

Coming from someone who actually does want kids, it annoys the hell out of me when people say "you'll change your mind" to those who don't want kids. Like, it genuinely baffles me- obviously, if someone doesn't want kids, they have thought long and hard about it (I totally get the whole "pregnancy freaks me out" thing by the way, that's fair and totally valid!). Also, I think adoption is a great alternative to physically having kids, especially given the number of kids currently in the foster care system. You do you, girl!

[@KMort]

The kid thing. I can relate *soooo* bad. I have never agreed more + also never dated. I can never find people who agree on this topic like ever. Bless you for sharing because I finally don't feel called out by the "you'll change your mind" thing.

[@melanieyputo]

Same here! I have no patience for kids. I have 3 nephews and a niece and I love them, of course, but I have no patience for them, even tho they are not that young anymore (the youngest is 10 and the oldest is 15) I just want them to grow up xD I'm almost 24 and I never dated. I will probably never want kids but if I do I think adoption is my only option, because the thought of being pregnant... just no. Definitely not.

[@dreaminginpastels]

I think it’s completely normal to crave physical touch - it’s one of the love languages! Loved this x

[@lillalollo123]

"Your girl hasn't dated anyone. In... ever." Girl yesss. Also, totally relate to your feelings on pregnancy! So many people around me are getting pregnant and I'm just really not interested in it.

[@rekhagonsalves5564]

"So many people around me are getting pregnant.." 😂😂had me laughing like a maniac.

[@ymarie4801]

Me too girl! The thought of being pregnant scares the hell out of me. I mean it would be nice having a little human that you would love fervently but the thought of pain and responsibility scares me lol

[@bonitaw7658]

you do have great eyebrows so you deserved that win nonetheless

[@LOCKIN77727]

I honestly have the biggest girl crush on you! You’re such an exquisite person and you’re absolutely gorgeous....and those curls...swoon

[@beck242]

we all have a girl crush on her

[@bevyathenareads]

When you were talking about how you aren't guarded and always overshare and how too many people know too much about you - I felt that. Literally will meet someone and tell them EVERYTHING right away which gets to be problematic. Glad I'm not the only one though haha.

[@kellyreadingbooks]

That perfectionism talk was the truth I need to be reminded of every day! I have half a college degree because I just gave up on so many classes the moment I felt like I might fail.

[@NN-su4tk]

Congratulations on 200k you deserve it so much!!!♥️♥️

[@AClockworkReader]

Thank you!!!

[@nanadelweiss9017]

« Applications open down bellow » 😂 Girl you killed me with laughter (congrats for 200k from the other side)

[@howaboutno.01]

This gave me a good giggle too. I immediately had to look below to see if anyone made offers!

[@iisazelx9340]

Nana Delweiss I nearly spat out my water when she said that

[@norahaynsworth7206]

“All I want to do is hug people, all the time.” Literally SAME. I thought I was the only one.

[@canadianjules]

I really relate to that physical contact thing - when I feel anxious something that makes me feel better is physical contact with others and getting hugs/holding someone's hands and it's also how I express my emotions, especially when I'm happy

[@canadianjules]

also I am also very sarcastic and yet still a hufflepuff so im probably the only sarcastic hufflepuff out there

[@hayleysmith6008]

Congratulations on 200k. That's amazing 😍🥰!

[@whitewalker608]

Wow. I just came back to this channel today after A LOONG TIME. Used to watch her when she had like 15K subs and she used to obsess over The Night Circus and V.E Schwab haha! Came back today and it's 200K and she has a silver play button now! Way to go, congos to her!

[@chaosqueen20]

I absolutely relate to not wanting kids! I've never wanted children, ever. Yet I always get the "Oh you you'll change your mind." "You don't know what could happen down the road." "What's the point of having children if you don't get to have grandchildren?" (My dad said that last one, mostly joking but still) It's so wrong to assume someone will change your mind and tell someone they don't know themselves. Sure you can never know what happen, but if someone tells you this kind of thing, do not disregard their feelings and opinions. Not everyone wants kids. Not everyone wants to be a parent. That should be respected just as much as the want to have kids.

[@LearaLovely]

We are LITERALLY the same person. I enjoy watching you so much and I am excited to read some of your recommendations on books. Thank you for existing!

[@elenavanderwoodsen9783]

It's so important to talk about not having kids because whenever someone says that they don't want kids a lot of people say that you will change your mind.There could be reasons why a person does not want kids or one could not want want kids just because one does not want children.Our society puts so much importance on marriage and children that if someone does not want to go down that route , people fail to understand and support them.

[@bakudynamight]

it is insane how similar we are. like almost everything you explained i was like “me too” except for the friends thing and guarded thing. i have a lot of acquaintances but only like 2 best friends. i also have a lot of secrets that i don’t feel safe sharing with the small town i live in, but i feel comfortable sharing them on the internet. which probably doesn’t make sense but that’s how it is

[@xreadingsolacex]

hannah you are SUCH a mom friend big mom-friend energy i think you just have such a calming presence which is why i think you may come off shy or introverted but i love that you’re also an extrovert!!! extroverts unite!!! also we need to have all the hugs next time we see each other!!!

[@erikavodvarkova2808]

Please, please do updated hogwarts House book recommendations! I watched those four videos alone like five times

[@AClockworkReader]

Erika Vodvárková I’m planning to!

[@bat5092]

My assumption about you is that you're incredible. Except that's not an assumption, it's a fact. Also congrats on 200k, you deserve every single subscriber, and so many more.

[@helenaagain]

“all i wanna do is hug people,,, ALL THE TIME” s a m e

[@aananya5046]

That’s me.

[@evies.1018]

She’s the Mom Friend we need, not the Mom Friend we deserve!

[@bluejayjas]

This video just solidified how much of a Gryffindor you are. I love it

[@twirlingpages]

the assumption about being kind/selfish & your response was SO RELATABLE. reminding yourself it's okay & honoring the progress is a reminder i needed ❤️

[@thebooknerd7914]

You remind me so much of me. Not saying your not unique. You are very unique human. It's just so great be able to relate to people so strongly.

[@onceamoomoo829]

There’s a lot of things about Hannah that I share in common that I always thought I was a bad person for doing this. Oversharing, being dramatic, not wanting kids, being physical, the good enough and being selfish, and more. I’m so happy that someone else is somewhat similar to me in certain ways that makes me not feel so alone in certain ways Edit: I just learned that I have the same kind of perfectionism that you have. I always thought perfectionism was to work and make everything perfect. If I cant understand something the first time or if I don’t think I can do something right, I just give up. Wow

[@queserareadsandwrites8403]

Ahhh I relate to this so much 😂😂 particularly the hugs/physical affection, cutting people out if they're mean to my friends, perfectionism, and especially the oversharing

[@JenniferRMcGee]

I love that you sound so much like me except the touching thing. No touchy! Amazing that someone agrees about the no kids. Yes!!! So needed this.

[@saralind2032]

YESS I LOVE CHITCHAT VIDEOS! GRWMs, mukbangs, makeup&talk, vlogs etc

[@TheAquamarine4]

Oh my gosh that super feeling thing is 1. Relatable and 2. Sounds like it came straight out of a fantasy with empaths and others

[@susand5156]

I think many of these assumptions stem from your quiet, soft, calming voice and being a mom is the best and worst thing

[@allychozik]

omg i've never heard anyone else have the same opinion about having kids as me, you basically just summed up my thoughts on the whole thing

[@gabbydiane98]

YES! I totally understand the super feeler experience. I never knew that was a term but I really relate to how you explained it. I also find that doing my makeup helps with my anxiety. I do it most mornings because I find it helps set a relaxing tone for the day. I will just listen to my audiobook and do my makeup.

[@aria2357]

About the kids thing: ME TOO OH MY GOSH IT IS SO ANNOYING WHEN PEOPLE TELL ME "OH THAT'S A SHAME" OR YOU'LL CHANGE YOUR MIND WHEN YOU'RE OLDER" LIKE NO I MOST DEFINITELY WILL NOT CHANGE MY MIND I DO NOT WISH TO PUSH A HUMAN OUT OF ME

[@Mai2727]

It’s so refreshing to see a KZbinr that’s an extrovert that has a lot of friends and is touchy-feely :)

[@picklejuice2]

I identify with your perfectionism so intensely! I’m the exact same. If I don’t think I can do something exactly the way I think it should be done i become completely paralyzed.

[@ashes3622]

I've taken two college courses that go into _explicit_ details concerning pregnancy. After the first one, I realized there's no way I would ever be comfortable being pregnant and the second one confirmed that. I've always wanted kids (probs cause I grew up with a lot of siblings), but I am 100% gonna adopt someday! Pregnancy is whack yall.

[@tvfantatic3957]

Same! Very few things get me angry, but I do not tolerate people being terrible to my friends or my family.

[@DanielleLovesYouh]

I love that you said you'd adopt if you ever want kids! I was adopted and I feel like people never consider that as an option. Obviously you don't need kids at all but that part just made me smile!

[@Lizzie_Beth9898]

I relate to the over-sharing point so much. I’m so open to any and all questions people ask to the point I answer their question AND give them follow up information 😆

[@jamiebriggs1788]

I relate to you 100% about the kids thing it’s so annoying when people act like it’s so abnormal to not want them

[@drunkonbooks10]

when she said you feel something so much that you just don't want to feel it reminded me of that quote by David Jones (i think i'm not sure )"It is both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so deeply"

[@TheWordN3rd]

I felt so seen when you talked about just not trying when things don't come naturally to you. Same.

[@LindsNW05]

Thank you for saying the part about not wanting kids, I have NEVER wanted kids ever in my life. People kept telling me oh you'll change your mind, guess what my mind didn't change. I am now 35, still don't want kids, don't like being around kids, I met my husband and he's the oldest of 7 and HE also doesn't want kids. We've been together 16 in a half years now, never once has our minds EVER changed.

[@bookaddict3060]

Also, think about this: Isn't it funny how people are old enough to have kids at 18 and no one cares, but saying you don't at 27 is monstrous! I've thought about my decision far more than someone with kids thinks about theirs.

[@lydiaa9594]

A lot of people do care if teenagers have children

[@bellsduarte3707]

Congrats on the 200k! Thanks so much for sharing your feelings on pregnancy because this is the first time ever I saw someone feel the same way I do. People always try to disregard when I explain this fear but I feel like is very important to remember that we should choose what we want our bodie to endure. Have children put you thought a lot and wanting to preserve yourself from this experience is totally valid. So I'm here in a possible sea of "you will change your mind" comments we always hear to remember that it's okay the way we both feel.

[@damnitaintright]

14:52 “I’ve always had a lot of friends, I have so many friends” can’t relate

[@jaloleylena]

Talk/ sit down/ experience video? I am here for it!

[@iamheretostudy5638]

To be honest, I'm so happy and relieved to know that there are other people who are perfectionists who quit something if it doesn't work out the way they want it. I was afraid that there was something absolutely wrong with me. *But yeah, I also get good grandes for Physics even though I understand nothing about that*

[@BaileeWalsh]

I relate completely to your answer about hugs! I'm a physically affectionate person! I'm constantly asking friends and family if I can give them a hug... and a hug for me is not a hug unless it lasts like a minute, which for normal people is far too long. "Cause your girl hasn't dated anyone...in...ever!" also relateable. Actually, this showed me we have more in common than I original thought! :)

[@starlahenjoys]

I'm in the same boat !! Pregnancy scares me so much and I do not want it! People need to realize that not every woman's life-goal is to become pregnant and have children.

[@_sarathedreamer]

Omg you said you loved hugs and I was like YES HUGS ARE SO UNDERRATED THEYRE THE BEST 💗

[@rahimanazir1579]

i just saw panic two days ago and I AM NOT OKAY BRENDON URIE IS THE LOML

[@lavenderbay279]

Wow, I feel like I learned a lot about you, and yes to more chit-chatty videos in the future! Congrats on 200k! :)

[@ThatLizHunter]

Ah, this was so fun! Kind of glad your hair turned curly because it's always so cute!!! And yes, go win that eyebrows competition, Prom Queen.

[@everlark4ever]

you seem like such a genuine kind and funny person and this video CONFIRMED IT, loved this video ❣️

[@AClockworkReader]

thank you for saying I'm funny, I feel like I'm the only person who thinks I'm funny so I appreciate you

[@TheAquamarine4]

Thank you for the “I never want kids” thing sooooooo relatable ugh! I believe you because same.

[@TheAquamarine4]

I just like to not tell people my thoughts on pregnancy, like with most things, because then that way they can’t tell me stuff like that.

[@dvbbie]

i don't know if you you're into personality quizzes at all but i took the enneagram test recently and i feel like you're SUCH a type four (like me). i relate to u on so many levels. we're both overdramatic and always striving to better ourselves (also i feel u sm on the not wanting kids part).

[@sirJenr]

I am the exact same type of perfectionist. I can't even play video or board games because I don't want to try for fear of not being good at it. I'm also someone who if I even suspect I won't be good at something I will straight out avoid it. It is incredibly frustrating and something I am working on, but it was nice to see someone else admit to it as well in such depth. Also yes to not wanting kids and having people tell you you will 'definitely' change your mind. It's lessened now that I've told people I'm aro ace and they have a category to put me in, which is also kind of annoying, but girl I related hard to your answer to that assumption.

[@lia-ym3gt]

the things you said about never wanting children/ to be pregnant is LITERALLY SO ME!!! i've been told countless times by my parents and friends and other people that i'll definitely change my mind in the future but no?? not everyone wants children oof

[@Senidhr]

I feel you on the singing part. Also was a soprano and was on the choir, and stop and now i my range is also not that great. Miss it very much too

[@jennifer4312]

12:08 that is definitely true...a young person trying to find their way and discover who they are as a person

[@masteroogway8916]

PROM QUEEN AND AP/HONORS, WAY TO GO HANNAH!!!!!!!!!!

[@xblvckpinkx]

the children, religion & perfectionist part is literally me lmao couldn't relate more on those

[@latekabass973]

Omg when I found your channel I didn’t know why I was so pulled towards you but now hearing these things about you we are so much alike! I’m very much a “touchy person” and I love being around ppl and I hate being alone! ❤️❤️😊😊😍😍 & the too you open part omg that’s me ! I will definitely tell someone my whole story the first time I meet them! Lol I really need to work on that

[@MargotWiseman2814]

I absolutely related to you about not wanting kids, sometimes it’s so frustrating to have people tell me I’ll change my mind.

[@thebookbujo]

This was such a fun way to get to know you better!! Love that you are so open in this video but also set your boundries, that's honestly great :)

[@rosem.8781]

I love hearing you talk, I feel like I relate so much and you put things into words so eloquently!!! Please do more videos like this!!!

[@drama.landia]

I love seeing videos like this from you! I love the book ones too, of course, but it's also nice to see you branch out a little in terms of subject matter!

[@bekstarr98]

I loved this video! I honestly relate to so much of what you said haha, but I appreciate you being so open and I don’t think anything you said was weird 😊

[@daydreaming11117]

I loved hearing all this. I've been on your channel since the start and I feel like I would love to have a friend like you! But now I just realize how intimidating you are. But I love the honesty. I'm more of a low mode person and am fierce when it needs to when I have no choice. YOU are full of energy and so fierce like all the time. I love it though. So happy to see you grow. 🙌🎉💖

[@alexanddra]

Only found your channel yesterday, love it so much so far and bought far so many books for an already over stuffed bookshelf

[@Divini_tea]

This was so great to get to know you more, Hannah. I loved finding out that we have more than books in common. You have such a great personality! Would love more chatty videos ❤️

[@Loonadance1212]

Right ?! Makeup can be so soothing for the anxiety!

[@masterkk1177]

Holy crap Hannah, your description of your High School being broken up in to two groups is EXACTLY MY HIGH SCHOOL EXPERIENCE! I AM SHAKING.

[@masterkk1177]

Alsooooo open-minded atheists can be agnostics (; That's what I am!

[@nestwithbooks]

I listen to a podcast last week about not wanting kids and a woman in her 50 said something that made me think. She said that asking someone that KNOWS they do not want kids is like asking a gay person if they sure they gay. It was a really interesting discussion and I wish the podcast was in English so more people could listen to it but unfortunately it's in Swedish. Also congrats on 200k!

[@matildaharvey5943]

what’s it called?

[@nestwithbooks]

Matilda Harvey it’s a Swedish podcast named Barnfrihet.

[@hel_reads]

OMG I understand you so well. I've never wanted children, and I've always said that in case that changes, I'm totally going to adopt, and everyone is always like oh yeah, you'll change your mind, adoption isn't the same, blablabla. It seems like a woman cannot think this way, as if pregnancy was the most important thing or something

[@annastephens6080]

not to be weird, but your voice is so lovely to listen to.

[@abstorcourt1360]

you have such a beautiful voice, i’m not even kidding, i couldn’t sleep last night and put one of your videos on id already seen and fell asleep to your voice! is that weird? idk just love you❤️ i wanna be ur friend AHAH

[@aissataamadou]

I love this type of video chit chat content is my favorite because it’s so much more personal. Also I remember you mentioning in a past video that you were aesthetic

[@aissataamadou]

atheist*

[@beachyv16]

This just taught me that we are almost the same people, personality wise and I'm actually shocked

[@hannahmarie08]

yess brendon is pretty much my life

[@_al00sk]

I love getting to know your personality more in this video :D Thank you for being so open about these questions. Love your videos!

[@kellyreadingbooks]

I would love a chit chat video on perfectionism, and also feeling really strong emotions all the time. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a solution-based video but if you wanted to throw in some things that have benefit you that would be great!