Real Couples Tell Us The Reality of Living Together | Filipino | Rec•Create

[@nasheenash]

My ex-bf (hubby now) and I have lived in for 8 years before getting married. My parents are traditional kaya medyo mahirap but I’d say malaking help yun sa pag aadjust namin. Now that we are married for almost 3 years, madali na mag adjust. Pag dating sa finances. We are both working kaya yung gastos split. That works for us kahit ngyon pa na kasal na kami. Sagot ko groceries sagot niya lahat ng maintenance ng 2 sasakyan. Hati sa bills and rent. Then we have our own freedom on what to buy although most of the time we inform each other kung ano bibilhin and sometimes we give opinions din but not the point na controlling na. 😊

[@lazurinity125]

this opened my eyes, i use to be so hyped about living with someone who isn't my family member and just starting a brand new exciting life, but now knowing this i kinda wanna take things slow and wait before I'm comfortable living with myself before settling down with someone

[@cindybarbadillo9427]

A very good topic to cover REC•CREATE! Good job guysss, hinihintay ko yung topic na ganito. Adulting kasi touches finances talaga, especially when you're dating someone or already living together with them. In todays age, there's inflation and consumerism in play. Yes naman, there's needs and wants ang isang tao, u just need to talk it out and plan. Di na pwede yung go with the flow strategy, someone (especially in a relationship) needs to deal with cash coming in and out, dapat maging financially literate kumbaga.

[@pinoyphd]

4-yrs in, nag live in kami. its true na masaya pero it also exposes the differences between you two. and whats important is how you address and move thru these differences, small or big. unfortunately, kahit physically we were closer, emotionally and mentally we grew apart after two years. definitely a learning experience.

[@allsaul93]

When me and my then gf, who's now my wife, moved in together sobrang hirap ng adjustments mas challenging yung mag acclimate sa routines at rules nya at narealize ko na para malagpasan yun agad you need to submit. Also, learn how to manage your finances kahit nag eearn kami both ng 6 figures, kumportable pero sobrang hirap parin kasi di mo na solo pera mo. Hahaha

[@pinkmochi2812]

pano niyo po na ma-manage ang finances?

[@allsaul93]

@@pinkmochi2812 nakadirect debit na lahat ng bills every 1st of the month. Groceries namin nag aaverage kami ng 10-15k/wk may separate card kami for that para nattrack namin. May 3 kids na kami kaya magastos. Dati may budget makapag eurotrip at sa mga luho pero ngayon tight na.

[@allsaul93]

@@pinkmochi2812 naka direct debit lahat ng bills namin so every 1st of the month bawas na agad. Groceries around 10-15k/wk tapos separate card sya may 3 kids na kami kaya mabigat na din gastusin.

[@lablyaspiras6966]

woah, ano po work niyo?

[@allsaul93]

@lablyaspiras6966 nurse kami pareho sa US

[@beethehype]

thank you rec•create! me and my partner was able to get insightful things with the guests. mag momove in na kami soon and pareho kami magkakaroon ng buhay magkasama. preparation and planning always. lalo na emergency funds!

[@geraldineegotpadagdag1787]

Pinapakinggan ko sila, nakakatuwa kasi ramdam mong lahat sila sure sa isa't isa at secured na. Haay sarap naman makipag live in sa taong mahal mo talaga.

[@TheVrcdx]

Sana may topic about toxic inlaws and boundaries. ❤🙏🏻

[@wintrydrop]

I love this topic! It's so nice to see modern young adult pinoy couples talking about responsibilities, finance and life challenges! Really opens my eyes and I'm able to compare and see how to improvement my own relationship.

[@KateMG]

My husband and I lived together for 3 years in the middle east due to work para makatipid before he proposed and got married. It’s fun to be with your partner kasi you do whatever you want esp if you don’t have kids! You’ll know kung ano ba talaga sya, ano kinaiinisan nya or mga hobbies nya. When we got together I knew kung gano sya ka oc sa mga gamit nya, he loves building projects, artistic, magastos at mejo irritable on little things! Living together would help you decide whether if gusto mo sya pakasalan. In terms of finances since bf kopalang sya that time I don’t have the right to touch his earnings but we share half-half with all the expenses.

[@hs-ob9uf]

heavy on not being afraid of tough conversations!!! while its tough, its also needed!!

[@Qvotes]

Grateful for this content! This is very eye-opening. Considering that we all view cohabitation through rose-colored glasses, pero not everyone are matured enough to face real-life problems, nor are able to adjust living with another individual. I wish we all find our person, the one who will be a true partner to us not only when things are easy and happy, but throughout every season of our lives.

[@NJVArtimations]

I've shown all of my attitude, the way i like things and how i like my place is cleaned/organized. We're 8 years into the relationship and we really just need to earn more finance to move out... No more "getting shocked" of what our likes and dislikes. This is a very interesting topic!

[@all-exits]

*cries in ldr* 🥲

[@elvespresley2282]

Really? Uso pa to?

[@giozebelleamantiad7961]

This episode made me realize how my parents loved and cared for me🥺😭❤️

[@carmela9932]

Natawa ako sa biglang nagtula 😂 cutiepies!❤

[@maryjoycerogacion4176]

Seeing this makes me appreciate my partner more. And it also makes me feel bad na he had to go all through my bad moods 😢 can’t help it cause I’m taking medications

[@johnmarkconda3437]

Ewan ko bat tinapos ko to eh 4th year college palang ako 🥹

[@paulcognito]

You can always learn from other people's experiences :)

[@karenfermin3116]

Ang laki ng interest.

[@chizzuru7162]

This is the reality, both of you need to compromise with each other. Kailangan mo(both) mag adjust.

[@AyemMonique]

sige pinapanood ko to kahit walang jowa and all. HAAHAHAHHAAHA

[@shanerelojero4776]

Palagi pag aawayan kung ano uulamin HAHAHAHA.

[@sweetkristinaquino-gibela6548]

12 yrs of rel. and then you thought kilalang kilala mo na siya. haha wait until you live in one roof. adjustments ang dami. but all is well.

[@ferloftheorientseas]

Ganda ng content natin.. more like this sana ❤

[@jovielynlagasca321]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS REC•CREATE! Just to add some, it's also good to know that it's not always 50-50. Sometimes it's 60-40, 70-30, 90-10, or even 100-0. It is very important to have each others back kasi sino pang gagawa non for us? Yun lang. Stay in love and be blessed!

[@DL-df7dp]

parang lahat sila nagiging Maja Salvador HAHAHA

[@darkwhite9310]

Iyak ang nanuod na dipa nakamove on. 😭😭😭

[@romeorabino5155]

We're just like this before not until she did the unexpected. We've been living together for 6+ years suddenly the tables turned upside down.

[@manoykikoy]

Samantalang ako. grabe ang pagsisisi. sanay di na lang

[@jcocal9211]

Nothing is perfect pero if ganito naman na nag eeffort to meet half way and appreciate the idea of living together, why not diba? Ang saya lang magmahal ng taong mahal ka din. ❤🫶

[@larrjoshuagallos5869]

First! Watching this while eating AHSHAHSAHS kain po kayoooo!

[@ayn019]

So happy nakita ko tong vid na to, me and my partner are planning to live together. 😊

[@kenshiii000]

Sana lahat❤

[@dyowb9559]

The daily inevitable question "Anong ulam?"

[@hansderamos]

Kapatid ko yan!

[@darkwhite9310]

Hoi. Hahaha. Yung di makakatulog ng walang lotion. I feel your weirdness gurl. Hahahaha.

[@princessjoycuevas8261]

same

[@melayperksss]

⁠ako rennn 😭

[@CindyMagalong]

Cries in hiniwalayan

[@kimb4053]

kami na naglive in since the relationship started 🥲

[@hiraeth2585]

same 😢

[@nagisunyitube]

How was it ?

[@totem5060]

Same so we never get to compare the life na “hindi pa live in” which is better so walang mapagkukumparahan and day 1 nakilala mo na agad yung partner mo instead of “di ka naman ganto ganyan before”. Ang struggle lang talaga na matututunan in the process is to give space, dapat may time kayo na knya kanya para hindi mafeel yung idea na settled at sakal.

[@geeannjirahlucindo267]

Us 3 mos pa lang then we moved in together lol

[@jonnielestrella392]

Totally disagree with making g-cash loan as your emergency fund. Stay out of debt my guy.

[@rubymonares3465]

True! Mahirap

[@arlevalin]

Thanks for this! ❤

[@KarenAG-ub7fd]

Ramdam ko yung nag hahanap ng lotion. Huhu.

[@princessjoycuevas8261]

same po huhu

[@powlee0947]

Di ko alam bat pinanuod ko to eh single naman ako

[@ryanluchycalina344]

Nakaborrow na po sa Gloan chos haha

[@ranam.3038]

Kami ng partner ko sobrang chill lang 😂.

[@JOJO-de2cs]

second whaahahahah nagluluto

[@simplyclassy6659]

Pnkta b sa video kng sno ung mgcouple? Mej nllto ako if sno ung mgjowa while watching😅

[@chriscastro7420]

More vids like this! Great topic

[@keziadelacruz9729]

Hala akala ko ako lang ang sa lotion thing

[@patriciagianpilapil4956]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@AllAroundMicheas]

Bakit andyan si Maxine!!!

[@jamesnicolecachuela3545]

Mahirap pg minimum earner. Omg. Laban lng been there.

[@ciibang85668]

Baka need ng psychiatrist not partner dapat ur whole before entering 😪

[@eyaey1871]

akala ko ako lang adik sa lotion ToT

[@alexiesgarais4744]

Grabe Naman na Gloan Yan 1 year ka magbabayad

[@cabincookie]

Cries in visa requirements and ldr😂😢

[@Johannahhapon-n7f]

💗💗💗

[@ALIENMXGZ]

hi ateee single po ba yung bf mong si jules?

[@mystique8134]

🥹♥️🥹♥️🥹