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[@momof2momof2]

Younger people need to watch videos like this. Preparing for your senior years while young is so important. I am grateful my late husband and I did.

[@glendasully]

I'm so happy for you to have a comfortable & secure retirement. Some people assume that I do these videos for pity. But, I don't need pity nor do I want it. These videos of mine are "REAL LIFE ON SOCIAL SECURITY"!

[@momof2momof2]

@@glendasully It's so important to get it out there and hopefully people of all ages will listen. All the very best to you 🥰💐🌞🌛💗✝

[@titalinda8515]

I am 77 years old, live on a fixed income which I have to supplement with some savings, but I am not complaining, all my needs are covered, I have no debts whatsoever and own my apartment, it is fully paid for, I do not own a car, I use Uber or get rides, , and it works for me. I have physical mobility problems, but I manage. My concern right now is the very high cost of food and utilities however, I was very lucky to get a very good price on my cell phone, cable tv, and wifi, which is billed all together and is the same company and it works excellent. Good luck to you Glenda, but take things positively, with pride and hold your head up high, no tragedy, it is only a car, you have two children, you can save and in a couple of months you may have the money to fixe it, remember you have a beautiful roof over your head and most important , you have good health. May Our Lord bless you and keep you safe.🥰🥰

[@glendasully]

Thank you for reminding me of all my blessings. I needed that today.

[@Theomil55]

Couldn't you start taking public transportation-assuming it's available-and park the car until you can save the $ for repairs?

[@glendasully]

Yes that's a viable solution. Thank you 💗

[@laurad4626]

Just a little confused about you’re rent just because you’re income was higher one year that doesn’t mean it stays the same it’s based on you’re income and new tax return You need to look into that. If you’re income went down so does you’re rent. Check into that

[@glendasully]

It's very confusing. I was told that there were only 2 apts available for rent at the 50% Area Median Income range. I met the requirement based on the 2019 income.

[@marthaross6301]

@@glendasully call 211 They should know who to direct you to for guidance Shelter, food and possibly your car

[@sharonmardis4920]

Babysitters cost about $1000 a month or more. Jill should maintain your car at the very least..not a loan

[@glendasully]

Thank you

[@gailresources8120]

Car issues are so depressing. I can sure understand. This month I have car registration plus smog. And getting air put in my tire today they told me even though I have good tread, they are 6 years old (I don’t drive much) so they are not safe to drive. Well no choice for another month. So I sure understand how your car upkeep can really hurt financially. When I win the lottery I will help all the seniors I know. 🤞

[@glendasully]

Oh you just reminded me that my car inspection sticker expires at the end of July. I hope your tires hold up for you for a few more months

[@kendrasmith6637]

Yes, am retired too and live on Social Security also. It’s not easy. It’s constant math and figuring on rent, bills, medicine and etc. You are not alone. Will pray for you. Hugs… 🤗

[@glendasully]

I am so sorry that you face these same struggles. I hope your situation improves for you. Thank you so much for watching & for your kindness

[@pattyfarghaly1821]

It's hard. You work all your life and retire and there is not enough to do it. When the dollar store goes up to 1.25 you know were in a mess.

[@kendrasmith6637]

@@glendasully thank you Glenda. I appreciate your note back to me. I hope your situation improves for you also. You are such a kind, caring lady. I love your channel. 😘

[@katherineyanagihara2909]

Aloha Glenda 🌺 I'm sorry! Wishing I could be there to help. Fighting cancer right now. Have a surgery coming up. My husband is 72 is still working. Our medical insurance $700. My sister is a great support! Hopefully those that love you can help! Aloha 🌺

[@glendasully]

I'm so sorry, sweetheart that you're in a battle against cancer. Your positive attitude will get you through it

[@pattyfarghaly1821]

☹️☹️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@katherineyanagihara2909]

Aloha 🌺 Thank you Glenda & Patty! Aloha 🌺

[@renastreetman602]

Prayers for you that you get the help you need. My husband and I just recently retired. Totally relate. Thankfully my kids live nearby and they are always stepping in to help. Sadly we are actually considering moving to a country where cost is much lower. It's hard on retirement on social security

[@esteeb42]

You definitely need to get that taken care of as soon as possible. It sounds like it's scraping on your rotors if you damage your rotors that's going to be much more costly. Yes living on Social Security is hard my husband is disabled and we live on his Social Security and a small annuity that he gets. People are amazed when they find out what our monthly income is and always wonder how we do it. We do it by the grace of God and we are very blessed in many ways.

[@glendasully]

I'm so happy that y'all can make it on your husband's income. I can usually make ends meet but an expensive car repair is out of my budget

[@shoppergirl4363]

That is true. If you need everything.

[@patd4u2]

these repair shops really make me mad, I had a 2004 Mazda Miata that needed new brakes as it was scraping like yours. My son-in-law and I went down to AutoZone bought new brake pads and rotors for under $100 and he put them on, just like new in. these repair shops absolutely ripping people off.

[@glendasully]

I'm happy to hear that your son-in-law knows how to replace brakes

[@Nan-59]

Glenda, are there any pantry near you, where you can get some food? I know I’ve seen you do pastries before I just don’t know how close far away they are from your house and with bad car breaks that is a big issue. We have pantries and food distributions pop ups where I live. And they certainly don’t skimp! They’re large hauls! My church actually hosts one of the food distribution pop ups that are from the actual northern Illinois food bank and people from our church will bring the hall to people who are unable to get out. Call around and see if there’s anybody that could do that for you.. You never know unless you ask.

[@glendasully]

Yes there's a food pantry that I can walk to while my car is broken down

[@Nan-59]

@@glendasully oh that’s great! Except, I didn’t think about how you get the stuff back to the apartment. Always something isn’t it. Ugh 😩

[@gailfroelich9633]

One thing I have learned over my many years, is old cars are always breaking down. If you fix the brakes, chances are it will be something else next month. Is there any way you can do without a car? I know it’s hard. A lot of us have been there..done that. Pray God shows you the path you should take. ❤️.

[@glendasully]

Yes they require constant maintenance. No, I can't go without a car. It's a necessity for me

[@randomweirdo25]

I am so sorry to hear about your car. Rent is very high every where now and that is a real issue for most people. My husband and I have had to really budget our grocery bill this year. You can find coupons and deals online all the time. I was able to find 15 dollars off when you spend 75 dollars on groceries. This month has been our toughest because the AC bill was the highest.

[@glendasully]

I hope you continue to find those great coupons! Dollar General also gives a $5 off coupon printed on your receipt!

[@bertisuesymons8784]

I don't mean this to sound harsh.But Social Security it meant to be a supplement not your whole income.I do understand if you don't earn it you can't save it. I do sympathize and I feel for you

[@glendasully]

That's the premise of my YT channel. I hope to convey the trials & tribulations that Seniors have to endure because some of us assumed we could survive on SS in our old age. It's very difficult

[@bertisuesymons8784]

@@glendasully I understand.I was trying not to sound rude.I am going to be in the same boat in a few years.I'll sorry for your struggle and I enjoy your channel

[@heymoe1179]

This is exactly why I'm not taking SS until my full retirement age...so I can get 100% of what I'm entitled to get and not take at age 62 and have to only get 70% of it. Bills and paying for things doesn't stop when we get older so I'll need 100% of my SS.

[@glendasully]

You've made a wise decision! Thanks for watching and commenting, Moe

[@heymoe1179]

@@glendasully If you can't get the brakes done now...park the car and have your daughter pick you up for the babysitting. Don't drive a dangerous car...and make it worse.

[@glendasully]

@heymoe1179 Ok thanks so much

[@carolynyoung7880]

It is very hard Glenda. I wish I could help but the price of everything in the Il is so expensive. Sending prayers xx

[@bkkorner]

I am sorry to hear about your car. I hope you get it fixed soon. That is very dangerous. If you can't afford it atm then just don't drive at all until you can. Walk, take a bus, get a ride but don't take your life in your hands. Praying for you! 😇🙏

[@glendasully]

I'm not driving. I took it to the closest repair shop less than a mile from home. It is parked until I can get it fixed

[@bkkorner]

@@glendasully That's great.. stay safe! 😍😍

[@glendasully]

I hope so because I'm not driving it until they're fixed

[@Nemo59646]

Poor lady! Donald Trump gave my American cousin a $2,000,000 tax break in 2017-2018. I'm a Brit.

[@glendasully]

Thank you for watching and commenting

[@randomspirit]

It's criminal what seniors are expected to survive on after a lifetime of working!!! This is my first visit to your channel, so I don't know where you live, but is applying for foodstamps an option? Energy assistance? Reduced internet? I see this was 8 months ago, so hopefully you were able to get your brakes fixed. FWIW, if you can get your brakes done sooner in the future you might be able to just replace the pads and not the rotors. That would save you quite a bit. When they get to the point yours were in this video, the rotors have to be replaced or turned. Don't let people tell you that replacing rotors is mandatory, that's BS. My daughter is a certified auto mechanic. As long as the rotors aren't warped or gouged up, it's fine to just replace the pads and any worn out springs. Also, check to see if there's a Tech School near you with an auto mechanics program. You might be able to find an industrious student willing to work on your car for much reduced prices.

[@glendasully]

Hi & thank you for watching. I appreciate your tips about my brakes. They were repaired & I recently had major work done on my car. I hope you will consider joining my YT family

[@Case_Presnell]

I am sorry you are struggling. May the future look bright for you!

[@glendasully]

I appreciate your saying that

[@geraldinelucas3143]

Why doesn't your daughter pay it since you take care of the grands and drive miles back and forth?

[@glendasully]

If she had the extra money then she would happily pay for it, but she doesn't

[@susandesjardins4441]

We’re you ever married and at least 10 years? If so you can collect a Widows Pension along with your own Social Security

[@haddiewillsburg1453]

You are correct, but the biggest challenge is the rent amount. She is spending too much on a rental property that she will never own. I feel sad that she is at this age and does not own her own home. Women need to make sure that they own property of their own and not have it be partially owned by a husband.

[@glendasully]

Yes and my ex-husband died a few years ago. My widow's pension of $300/ mo was added to my SS which was $900 at the time. So that caused me to lose my Medicaid, Food Stamps & heating assistance. I was worse off

[@denisekirszenberg7279]

@@glendasully so 300 and 900 equal 1200. Which is still below what the government will allow for food assistance and to pay yours social security health care of 170. 00?????

[@glendasully]

I need to reapply then if the income limits have changed since I last applied. Thank you for the info

[@susandesjardins4441]

@@glendasully sorry to hear that.

[@crowdedisolation]

you are in between a rock and a hard place. I wish you could live with Jill. that would save you tons of money.

[@glendasully]

I do too. I've made a lot of suggestions but they fall on deaf ears

[@gracel3320]

You need to have you daughter and her hubby who both work help you. The amount of regular baby sitting you do should merit some help. I’m sorry you are having issues, we all are right now, things are crazy in this Country right now.

[@glendasully]

I know it, Grace. It's out of control

[@KayMN.]

I’d stop babysitting, the drive seems a lot. That prez and his political policy is costing me an extra $200 a month. You should qualify for Food Stamps. Ask Jill for a loan. Can you work a couple days a week at a store or restaurant? God will help.

[@glendasully]

I'm so attached to those children that it would break my 💔 if I couldn't see them a couple times a week. Nobody will hire me because of the 20 yr old felony conviction. I messed up my life big time

[@KayMN.]

@@glendasully now days they are so hard up for help they will hire you. A lot of places don’t do background checks and if you explain to them, a lot of people are forgiving. Try a small place. I know a girl working at the $store who has a sketchy background and she makes $15.50 there.

[@kimberlythomas6573]

NY may have a program like Florida does where you can get bonded still, then could pick up work in the future.

[@lindam2090]

Get rid of your car and use Uber... Unless Jill starts paying for your car. She can hire someone else.

[@glendasully]

I may reconsider my policy of not being paid for babysitting. It's to the point that I at least need regular maintenance on my car

[@guangzhang2188]

I am so sorry you are going through this stressful time. It's really terrible how the elderly in this country are suffering so much on social security which is nothing and covering only a small portion of the ever increasing expenses. 🙏🏻

[@glendasully]

Yes it's an unreal situation that continues to get worse!

[@shoppergirl4363]

Could you get Jill to just lend you the money? And you pay her back some monthly?

[@glendasully]

I can ask her for a loan. Thank you ❤️

[@redeemedandreadytofly1423]

@@glendasully she should just give it to you. You are always taking care of the kids. I’m assuming she isn’t paying you for that. The gas and wear and tear in the car and also you should be rewarded.

[@IzzyOnTheMove]

I'm gonna send a little something your way ❤ you and your community have helped me in my time of need and now it's karma return time 💖

[@glendasully]

Awww. You're so sweet. I loved the card that came the other day

[@carolynlauzon5109]

Glenda I just thought of something. I really don't know much about it ,but you have mentioned a few times about when you reach 30,000 subs you are giving away 300 a hundred to three people. Well use that money as your brakes are far more important than subs at this point and time for the safety of you and others on the road.I hope this helps out.

[@glendasully]

A subscriber of mine is donating the gift cards. It's to celebrate the growth of my channel. Thank you for the suggestion

[@mo-anniemc8227]

Maybe it’s time to give up your car and use public transit !

[@glendasully]

I'm seriously thinking about it. This constant maintenance is too expensive for someone on low income

[@geoffdevore6321]

Easier said than done!

[@glendasully]

@geoffdevore6321 Absolutely

[@ReadyWillnnabel]

Of course we "assume" there is public transport. There is none available near me, so lets not assume she has that option.

[@dragonfly9209]

@@ReadyWillnnabel She lives in the heart of a busy city. She has public transit.

[@ritacooke3175]

Glenda, I have to ask, would Zeuss ever consider loaning you money?

[@glendasully]

Yes he's a very good man & would be willing to help.

[@glendasully]

Ok

[@ritacooke3175]

@@glendasully He seems like he'd help with anything you need, he's so sweet.

[@ritacooke3175]

@@zuesphillips4660 You're welcome, it's true!

[@sallyowens1960]

I think your daughter should pay for your brakes. You drive to her house and take care of her kids. It would cost her 200 a week for a daycare. I would most certainly do that for my mom if she was driving to care for my kids. You just need to ask her. I think she will help you.

[@ruboo8053]

She should help her out anyway... I had no idea she wasn’t 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@blueroseramblings]

She should go at least half!

[@glendasully]

I may have to ask her for a loan. I didn't want to because I still owe her for the last loan

[@harrietarthur5006]

@@ruboo8053 I agree; you are providing child care for her plus she is family.

[@susie9010]

Daycare in Southern California for 2 kids is $30 per hour! $200 is cheap.... I pay $500 per week for my daycare provider.

[@marydugan3399]

Everyone is having a hard time things are so expensive you do what you can do Maybe if you give up KZbin you would have less income but you would get more help

[@glendasully]

Thank you for your advice

[@pattyfarghaly1821]

Well you wouldn't want to be in my shoes then. Almost 4,000 to fix my car and thats for stuff i had fixed b4. My car is sitting on the street. I can't walk..I'm screwed .

[@glendasully]

Omg what on earth is wrong with it? I'm so sorry 😞

[@caroletaylor7674]

Glenda, sometimes ppl have little efficiency Apts a lot cheaper, maybe you could you find one, or your daughter pay for babysitting. 💘

[@glendasully]

I'm at the point where something has to be done.

[@MamaByNature]

Yes my grandma is on SS she can no longer afford the rent on her house so she got on a list for a senior subsidized apt and just got word she is next up! I think this would be a great option for you to look into! She will only pay about $350 a month. Opposed to $750 that she pays now. We are in Columbus Ohio and she will be moving to the country by my dad. Is there a smaller town you could move to that’s a little cheaper area? I hope you can figure something out 💕 these are really scary times for a lot of us 😥

[@margeshilling7983]

I drive an old car and have been hit with car expenses, too. I keep a fund especially for that. I'm sure Jill would lend you the money and you could arrange a payback schedule. There are ways to cut back, though. NO eating out. I've limited myself to $35-40 per week for groceries and I stick to it. You need to have a safe vehicle so get it fixed when you can. Good luck.

[@Love4allpets]

KIA has a program that they offer with low monthly payments to repair cars. They do fix other type of cars. We got our breaks done for 400 dollars put a 50 dollar payment on it and we pay 27 dollars for 12 months. You can pay it off sooner than that which will lower the interest you pay on it.

[@glendasully]

Oh ok thanks for the info.

[@blueroseramblings]

Nice to know thanks!

[@pattyfarghaly1821]

I'll tell my daughter she has a kia. She needs rear brakes now. They do good work at her Kia place.

[@pooner61]

Not a great idea to be driving while holding a phone like that! You may end up with issues much greater than a brake problem

[@glendasully]

You are correct

[@judiklaus5291]

Totally understand Glenda. My transmission is going out. Was quoted over $700.00. Living on Social Security, as an 66 year old, single woman isn't easy.

[@glendasully]

It's so difficult!

[@bonniemullen4990]

I agree at 73 it isn't easy‼️

[@lindaallen8800]

75 here. Totally understand

[@margaretthomas8318]

I'm 67 and I agree. Living on social security is not good. It's very depressing. And what's going to happen to each of us when the car just totally dies, like the engine.

[@davelee5973]

no transmission is 700 bucks more like 7,000 dollars

[@donnapatacchiola6942]

Walnuts are much better for you than peanut butter! Peanuts are not a nut they are a bean! Peanuts hurt your stomach.

[@glendasully]

Oh my! I didn't know that about Peanuts. Thank you for the info

[@gailjohnson6670]

Vehicle repairs are high. I had a number of repairs done last year on two vehicles. After a nightmare of numerous repairs sticking $6500 into one winter vehicle. The mechanic place told me frame was cracked. I had to junk it. The vehicle I'm driving now is 26 years old. I bought used 20 years ago for $5000 with 86000 miles. It now has 120,000 something miles. I put brakes, tires, and other parts last year to get it ready for winter. Which cost around $2000.00. It's in good shape with no rust. My car insurance runs $40/month. My electric last month was $160 and this month $162.00. I'm not using air conditioning. Fans only. No dryer hanging clothes up. Don't use oven, So why is my electric so high??? I'm still paying on last winter's heat bill. I'm on budget plan. I'll hopefully get caught up before heating season starts again this fall. Or come January will be electric clean up month. Whatever balance I still owe will have to be paid. My taxes for my paid for house are around $200/month. I mow my own lawn. I'm very blessed that my neighbor comes and plows me of winter's snow. and doesn't charge me. But he is 81 years old. So that might not be very much longer. I couldn't afford your apartment. Even though I think you deserve it. And I'm glad you have it. I don't have answers. Everything has gone up so. It's very depressing. Thank you for the video. Blessings to you.

[@c1catwoman794]

Sorry to hear and hope it works out quickly. It's just temporary but cut the cable or anything you can. Being on social security can be a struggle. My in laws (disabled vet.) refrigerator and garbage disposal went out. I am trying to help them atm.

[@glendasully]

I did return the cable box last month so the next bill will be less

[@pattyfarghaly1821]

Can you go on the free sites on facebook for your area and sometimes the vets places can help. It's damn sick when vets can't win.

[@alisatjaden3906]

I buy the screen sink strainer at Dollar Tree. My garbage disposal quit a few years ago. Replacing it costs too much. The strainer works great!!

[@glendasully]

Those are wonderful for keeping your drain clear of debris

[@benton-benton]

@@alisatjaden3906 Me too. Have to clean it a lot, but they do a great job.

[@sherrygirlgg2492]

I am retired as well, can be tight, worrisome at times, prayers. Go to tire rack and look your brakes up on there, they will sent to a local installer, saves money by far. Hopefully Jill can trade cash for child care.

[@glendasully]

Thank you for watching and commenting

[@justred56]

Glenda, I agree with some of the comments. Your daughter should take care of your car. She should make sure you car is in great maintenance. Her children ride in your car. Another thing you shouldn’t be showing us the cost of your bills. We understand you live on social security and Medicare. Take care. God Bless.😘❤️

[@shellywalton4315]

Very true

[@emilyb5106]

What? Why? It’s no secret how much bills are.

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@susanasetas]

@@emilyb5106 Emily I think she meant Glenda shouldn't feel like she somehow has to prove she doesn't have the money to pay to fix her car. There are many horrible people on KZbin who constantly harass Glenda and accuse her of all sorts of things, it's disgusting.

[@RoseGrace100]

Marcy-stop watching. Your goal is to watch and pick apart people. Take your negativity somewhere else.

[@qq1651]

you have to be careful when you start to hear that noise because you can do major damage that will make it cost closer to $1500. You really DO need to park it and not drive it. Also, this just shows how so very important it is that you start putting a way a few bucks monthly for an emergency fund. You are going to have to forgo the eating out so much and the blizzards lol, unfortunately, and make sure to save at least $50/mo for an emergency fund. At least that way, you have a little something to fall back on when you need an oil change or a car repair or a new phone etc.

[@glendasully]

I agree with you, but can I still get the $2 burrito once a month? LOL 😂

[@jumpinjavajane8253]

@@glendasully Yes you can Glenda, but not the soda. Waste of $$. Take your own travel cup with your tea. I doubt they'd say anything. These little things (never bought movie junk for example) are how my spouse and I built wealth so we don't have these worries now in our late years. Of course our "kids" would think we are being tight, but they may face a harsh reality one day. It's all a mindset not deprivation.

[@Brad68303]

Your brakes are now metal on rotors. Now you will need pads and rotors. The $400.00 is cheap for labor and all.

[@glendasully]

I think so too. I'm not complaining about the price. I'm just upset because I don't have the money saved for it

[@jo100]

Social Security needs to Pay People and Seniors to at 10,000 for real, because Things are Getting more more more more Expensive Nowadays for real, my Friends, and, I am on Social Security Disability Benefits to, and the Money they give me every Month, is not Enough at all, The Money that Social Security Pays People, it is ok for a Kid 17 years old and Younger, but when that Person Turns 18 Years Old, then they need to get Paid 10,000 for real, my Friends.

[@renastreetman602]

I actually works with people that had to cut their hours back because social security was taking away some of their income.

[@patriciadipascal8953]

I am so very sorry Glenda..It’s really hard on all of us who are older…Hopefully you can go to a food bank to compensate…Praying that all works out for you…God’s Speed 😥😘

[@glendasully]

Thank you for your kindness. There's a food pantry in walking distance.

[@donnapatacchiola6942]

You should be able to get a large discount on that cable bill

[@kakelinga]

I have been watching your channel for a long time now. I don't comment very often but I feel compelled to after watching this Video. The fact is that everyone is having it hard right now and no one has $400 or $500 for fork over to you for your brakes to be fixed. Frist of all, you're living in a state that you really can't afford to live in at all. Secondly, there are a ton of job openings right now so you should get out there and get a job. Yes, I know you do KZbin but KZbin could be gone at any time so that is not a reliable job and the pay is not enough to live on. My mother worked full time until the age of 70. She lives almost solely on social security except for a small 401K she had at work that she takes $200 monthly from. She lives within her means and has about $260 left for food and essentials after paying her rent, bills, and medications. She never eats fast food, no Dairy Queen or McDonalds, and cooks all of her meals at home herself at age 81. She gets upset when I buy her a few groceries now and again or if I buy her some take out as a treat. She wants to support herself. I know you have a few health issues, but there is always something you can do to earn money. You can be a crossing guard at the school, collect lunch tickets, or supervise the kids at recess or lunch. I feel for you but you have to get out and get a job. I'm sure there are a ton of desk jobs you could do and the socialization will be great for you. Lastly, you are not a victim. Don't fall into the trap of feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing could be worse than feeling sorry for yourself and feeling helpless. Pray to God to guide you to the right job and he will.

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much for watching my videos. Your comment is thought provoking & I have read it with interest & an open mind. I want to thank you

[@kakelinga]

@@glendasullyThank you for keeping an open mind. I am really concerned that one day KZbin might not be there. You need to have a plan B.

[@susanhiestand348]

Very good ideas. I worked until I was 76, mostly part time office positions but I could not have made it without working. Praying for you Glenda as to what you should do and your future. 💕 Sue

[@glendasully]

Thank you, Susan. I only stopped working after rupturing my diaphragm lifting a 100 yr old man several times a day & in & out of the shower. I had to have major surgery. Caregiving is no longer an option. When my YT views decrease then I panic!

[@helenc4228]

Wow. Such incredible compassion and understanding. I am just bowled over by your kindness smh

[@sallythibodeaux7992]

I think you could use the two $200 gift cards you want to give away. I’m sure everyone would rather see you safe. Our Electric bill is $528.00 and so is almost everyone else’s here in South Louisiana. Entergy’s charges for restoration after the hurricanes and fuel surcharge is crazy. People on Social Security here have to choose between food and electricity in over 90° heat with humidity. I’m sure we’ll be losing a number of Senior Citizens. 😢

[@glendasully]

I'm very sad for y'all down there in the heat. I'm so sorry

[@sallythibodeaux7992]

@@glendasully thank you

[@glendasully]

You're welcome

[@beckyelliott2871]

Have you applied for Section 8 housing assistance? Are you Disabled? Do you draw any SSA from your husband - living or deceased? Can you qualify for SSI help? Could you move in with relatives, (daughter)? Can you find a less expensive place to live? Can you get groceries from Church or neighborhood pantries that cater to needy people? There are usually a good number of resources that help others in their area. A COMMUNITY RESOURCE AGENCY can be of great help in alerting you to groups that provide you with groceries, bill assistance and other help. Have you asked at your church or place of worship? You will not be looked down on when you go to these agencies or churches - most DO NOT REQUEST MEMBERSHIP WITH THEM.

[@glendasully]

Yes my name is on several Section 8 housing lists. I collect $300/mo widow's pension. That's why I can't get food stamps and Medicaid. The extra income put me over the income limit. Thank you so much for all of your suggestions

[@simplycrochet1430]

Great suggestions. I was going to write the same. I'm on SS, work part time, applied for every utility discount, go to wkly foodbanks, etc. I'm able to save $$ every month. God is good when we help ourselves.

[@glendasully]

I agree 💯

[@rejeannagwynn5665]

Food banks could really help you

[@annewright3129]

New York rents are insane. Are you still on a list for a discount rated apartment? I know that you love your apartment but you would make any apartment cute and workable. I have seen what you did with your apartments in the past. Your readers need to remember that you do have a job. Your You Tube channel requires time, planning making and additional tech work. I t absorbs a lot of your time. I am sure that Jill will help with some of this expense as she knows that you need a working car and benefits from you driving to help her. It is a difficult time for all of us and families have to cheerfully help one another out. I will be praying and cheering you on.

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much. You're such a warm hearted woman and I very much appreciate your love & encouragement

[@JeriFortune]

Nothing stocked in the freezer or pantry to eat? Can you get food from more then one food pantry? Have you applied for food stamps? Not being rude or mean just some ideas to help you. I know friends send you a lot of food so not sure where it is going with just you living there. Can your daughter help with the car and you slowly pay her back? Things are pretty tight for most of us these days.

[@marilyna3491]

Hello Ms Glenda. Prayerfully you can get assistance with your car. Does Hussani have a friend or family member that can can perhaps fix your brakes? Also some tire and brake places offer you on the spit financing to get your brakes fixed.I don't know if their interest rated or high but you may want to check it out. That will help you lots.

[@glendasully]

I have enough food especially canned vegetables. And a food pantry is in walking distance. Thank you for your concern & suggestions

[@glendasully]

No Husani doesn't work on cars but I can try to get a credit card at one of the repair shops. Thank you for the ideas

[@marilyna3491]

@@glendasully You're welcome Ms Glenda. Prayers for you and I know God will show up in our time of need! 💓

[@debrareed2378]

Your Daughter should help with the wear & tear on your car.You do a lot of driving to care for the Grandchildren.Just my opinion 😊

[@glendasully]

Yes Jill will help. I just don't want to put my burdens upon her

[@moalf5088]

Glenda, sorry about your money woes. I thought maybe you were lucky to get a section 8 apartment. The apartment is so beautiful. I wish I had one like that. Maybe you can work in the neighborhood say 2 days a week for some extra money? A fast food place maybe? It might bring in a couple extra hundred dollars a month. I know, I know. At our stage who wants to work or who can work? Give it a try. How can it hurt?

[@glendasully]

It's not a Section 8. I can't get a job because of a felony on my record from 20 years ago. I did something stupid

[@LG-zv9oh]

Wouldn't that (felony)also affect you getting an apartment? Sorry for your troubles. I'm sure someone will come through for.

[@moalf5088]

I know it’s not section 8. I thought in the beginning it was. They are desperate for workers today. Somebody will hire you. I watched many of your old videos. I know the story.

[@donnamaco1]

@@glendasully I bet they would hire you. They want people very badly now. Just try.

[@DMC-rs3up]

Glenda we all go thru this.Im praying for you. Pray and the good Lord will work it out for you.But you all ready know this.Some info I want to give you and your channel.Im sure some already know this.AT@T will give you Internet service for $10 per month if ...you meet 2 requirements.1) Call to see if you have there service in your neighborhood (AT@T ) .2) You get disability SS ,or Snap benefits or Medicare.They will send you a application thru the mail.But if you can do this online it's quicker.So for TV I bought ROKU and you can add apps as you find them.Hope this helps .Love you guys.

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much for the information.

[@benton-benton]

Great advice.

[@23shadowlee]

You need to apply for a credit card & use it only for car repairs. I have a FORD credit card just for that reason. Haven't used it but I know I have it just in case.

[@evelynshoemake6866]

Way do you feel the need to show your bills?it is like you are begging. I have the same problems. I live in Texas and our light bills are terrible due to the temperature being 106 today.

[@glendasully]

I am so sorry that you're having to live with such extreme heat. I'm a YT content creator and it's my job to show my situation as a senior living & struggling on a low income. I don't "beg".

[@donnamaco1]

I think it is fine. I just learned where I stand on my bills and if I am being too extravagant in specific areas; food, meds, electric and insurance, etc. Glenda never said for you to pay her bills, just that it is difficult / impossible to cope with American retirement responsibilities. I agree whole heartedly with Glenda. I am sure you do too if you take the time to pontificate.

[@jeanieprice5730]

@@glendasully Glenda, I think your content concerning living on social security is very important. This is informative content that is eye opening. I’ll soon be on social security and need to somehow prepare. Thank you for posting personal information like this. I’ve always thought I would work forever but somehow neglected to think that my health would be fragile. Many complex spinal issues.

[@camrobn]

Hi Evelyn, Glenda’s channel is focused on the hardships of not doing enough to prepare for retirement and how difficult it is living on the paltry SS income for Senior Citizens. I don’t know how long you have followed Glenda but many of her earlier videos in New Jersey discuss this. My husband and I are retired and it is tough. Take care being in this heat. Alabama is hot too!

[@glendasully]

@@camrobn Thank you, Callie

[@brendamelendez2592]

Glenda Life on SS is not all it is cracked up to be. I am very close to having my car repossessed and I only have 2yrs left to pay it off, if that isn't a kick in the head. I suffer from severe depression and being on SS just adds to it. I hope you can somehow figure things out, but i feel your pain.

[@carrierice8009]

Why u have a car payment being on ssi 😑

[@glendasully]

Oh no that's not good. Try to get your loan refinanced to lower the payments. I am so sorry!!

[@tammytammyr]

@@carrierice8009 why so negative? Just because poor woman's on social security don't mean she can't have a vehicle..Are you gonna help her get her food and get to her doctor's? Please be kind..

[@tammytammyr]

Brenda. My friend went to car dealership they got her into a nice reasonable vehicle..no money down..they are begging people to turn in used cars these days. And she actually got money back and really good deal.The dealership buys your loan then you get another car..good luck.

[@carrierice8009]

@@tammytammyr im on ssdi and i bought my car with cash i wont have a car payment that means u gotta pay full coverage

[@theresa7044]

Senior apartments are usually based on your income, not the average. I’m so sorry. This is very scary

[@glendasully]

These apartments have a different set of rules because they were financed through Tax Relief Funds. The rent is based on the Area Median Income.

[@daisyvogan9381]

I have been putting off a very expensive engine repair for over a year now, just trying to save up for it. I hope things work out for you.

[@glendasully]

I hope you can get your engine repaired very soon

[@MsArtistwannabe]

In my area, daycare would be at least a hundred dollars a day for one child. My daughter was just offered forty five dollars an hour to sit for three kids. She turned it down because she has a really good full time job now. Does your daughter not pay you for all the daycare you provide?

[@glendasully]

It's my choice to not take money for babysitting. I love spending time with the grandkids, I eat breakfast & lunch when I'm there.

[@susie9010]

@@glendasully If you are struggling and needing money, you need to change this thinking. Jill is saving alot of money by having you babysit for them. There is nothing wrong with you being paid a little bit to help them out. You are helping out Jill immensely!

[@jenniferlee7167]

@@glendasully Now is the time you should re-think that policy. Jill will never find anyone cheaper that is for sure. This is a serious issue and you must be direct as having a car helps you to help her.

[@TACSmom]

Glenda I’m glad to hear that it’s your choice. I felt bad for your daughter. I wonder if she feels attacked. That said, maybe she could help you out in times like this since she’s not paying you.

[@TargetedCreole82583]

Hi. I'm on Social Security, & it's not enough to help me out of my homeless situation, so I understand what you're going through.

[@glendasully]

I'm so sorry, Candy

[@TargetedCreole82583]

@@glendasully Thank you.

[@lukeanthony2279]

This is so sad the president needs to see and understand this people can’t live I’m lucky to have my mom I’m doing good on ssd sharing bills but I would be in this boat living by myself for sure or on the streets no one can live alone no more unless you work in big business as manager or head boss if your no boss your screwed in this world ☹️☹️☹️ wish you well

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting.

[@karlawyman1054]

I had to have mine done.Think mine was over $400.Hope Jill can help you

[@glendasully]

Oh no I'm so sorry. That seems to be the going rate. Labor is very high in NY state

[@cupoverflow2786]

you need to monetize your KZbin channel you missing a lot of money KZbin will pay you 55% of the ad revenues. any question on how to monetize your KZbin channel just Google it or KZbin it you'll get plenty answers. companies will pay KZbin to advertise on your Channel

[@glendasully]

My channel is monetized now. It took me almost 2 years to accumulate the requirements needed to monetize. Thank you for watching & commenting & I hope you will subscribe & return

[@suzend46]

I am 65 and have to work until 70 because financially in this season of my life there is no other option. My car is 15 years old. I have a Firestone card for emergency repairs which now happen more often than not but I am relieved to have it. Though just when it’s close to being paid off, another emergency repair happens. I will need tires in the next year. Glenda do you have Firestone where you live? If so could you apply for a Firestone store card?

[@glendasully]

Yes there is a Firestone in this area. Thank you for suggesting it

[@redginger8470]

@@glendasully Firestone usually has coupons on there website and I've used brake work coupons myself. It'll save you some money.

[@tamarazemlyn4462]

So sorry your having challenging financial times. Does your state or county offer a percentage off of the electric and gas bill for lower income people? I know there are programs here on the West Coast that are easy to qualify with a lower income at it helps a lot. Check that out for yourself.

[@glendasully]

I've applied for assistance but since my income increased after my ex-husband died, I lost all assistance

[@Earthtime3978]

@@glendasullyEven if you can get the lowest amount of SNAP, you can preset that card to your electric company to get 40 dollars off your bill. Look into it.

[@carolinecoffey5404]

Oh Glenda my heart went out to you I can feel your stress, can your daughter help you? If you were my mom I’d definitely help I know it’s not up your daughter but if you help her etc with childcare then she should xx

[@pattyhurless3147]

Jill is a wonderful daughter and would do what she can🌹feel your pain, would mechanic take payments? Prayers Glenda, keep your faith❤️

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much. I appreciate your kindness

[@glendasully]

Thank you so much, Patty

[@carolinecoffey5404]

@@glendasully hi hope you didn’t think I was rude it was meant in a kindly way hope things improve for you x

[@glendasully]

Oh no not at all. I know that you have a good heart and good intentions. Thank you for being here

[@whitneywoodall3591]

We all are struggling. Can't you ask your daughter for a loan?

[@glendasully]

Yes I may have to do that but I'm still trying to repay her for the last loan

[@christinebrunton1489]

Oh Glenda, I knew by the sound it was making. My PtCruiser is a 2004& yes it made that horrible noise like your Car. It was pads&rotors& vehicle maintenance is astronomical here in Canada 🇨🇦!!! Love ya, I hate to see you upset.

[@glendasully]

I know that I should have replaced the pads before it got so bad but I didn't have the money. I'm so sorry that you had the same problem with your car

[@Bluebird-farm]

God bless you! Our country is going to hell! We take care of other countries and immigrants better than we do our elderly! Its disgusting!! Please hang in there and pray, people need to subscribe to your channel to help you

[@glendasully]

I'm so upset after reading about the multi-billion dollar aid bill recently passed to help Ukraine & other foreign countries at war

[@copycat6800]

Maybe there's some food banks around you.

[@glendasully]

Yes there's one that I can walk to.

[@annaskele628]

If you have to park your car, Jill will have 3 choices either give you a ride back and forth, hire daycare, or quit her job. I think it would make most economic sense for her to just fix your brakes. So I'm sure this will happen for you.

[@lindam2090]

I do think Jill will have to choose your brakes or daycare some place else

[@jumpinjavajane8253]

I agree. Because Glenda babysits for free, Jill should give Glenda the $250 additional needed. That is a lot less than any daycare or sitter is going to be. Still a little shocked subscribers covered the tires as many are on a shoestring themselves. Personally, I could not do so. Roku instead of cable would save a lot.

[@glendasully]

I agree 👍

[@glendasully]

Thank you for watching & commenting

[@annaskele628]

@@glendasully ❤️

[@johnallen-mo1gx]

I give up my car couldn't afford upkeep. And insurance on ssdi

[@glendasully]

I'm so sorry that you had to stop driving, but I can empathize with your situation

[@sandrarussell8551]

Why can't you get a part time job 2 days a week or so. I'm your age with severe arthritis and work 40 hrs a week.

[@marilyna3491]

I admire you so much for being able to work 40 hours a week. I have severe severe arthritis spine and knees plus other medical conditions and its a struggle. But I am looking for part time work just to get out of the house...plus help with repairs on house

[@sandrarussell8551]

@@marilyna3491 it's hard but I do it to pay the bills

[@marilyna3491]

Sandra Russell I do understand!

[@AB-gw6hl]

Maybe share her channel

[@glendasully]

It's very difficult to get a job because I have a felony on my record from 20 yrs ago. Nobody will hire me. I've tried many, many, times. You are a strong woman to be able to work with so much pain. I admire you very much

[@susan5301]

It is impossible to live on just Social Security, I do without so much. I didn't see a phone bill, do you have a phone also? All we can do is just keep trying, I need my oil changed as it's way overdue but they want $50 or more and I don't have it. Especially now it's so difficult to be poor.........

[@glendasully]

Yes I didn't include the phone bill because I paid it on the 3rd out of my SS check

[@roxcyn]

May you be blessed with your situation. It’s upsetting that unexpected bills happen. I wish you only the best.

[@glendasully]

You're so very thoughtful. Thank you so much ❤️

[@Paula-wl2gt]

I agree have your daughter help you.

[@cherylthibeault9028]

Does Jill know what's going on.

[@glendasully]

I don't tell her my troubles. She has enough to worry about

[@bruced.370]

Part time job???

[@glendasully]

I have a part-time job making videos. Thank you for watching

[@evelynb4675]

I love Glenda and I really think she’s taken advantage of by Jill whom I also like very much so this is just an observation. It would be more than fair for Jill to pay her mom at least $450 a month for watching her kids. With all the back pay I think that would take care of the brakes and all the $ she’s lent her mom over time. ❤️

[@veronicajean3612]

She pays her

[@glendasully]

I feel so bad taking money from Jill to spend time with the grandkids. However, she loves me & she'll be happy to loan me the money for the brakes

[@pattyfarghaly1821]

@@glendasully I feel like you my 1st daughter would lend me some but it would take forever to pay back and she works two jobs at 1 place. I can't do that . No one cares about older folks and all we paid in SS and the vets that fought for us. No fault of our own either. I feel bad for everyone .

[@patriciacorpe6228]

it funny how grown childrren think their parents should ewatch their kids for free. My grandaughter like that she wants too work but not paid someone to watch her kids well this granny had to say no at 76 I am done watch8ing kids and when I told your parent paid me back ib the 1190's 60 a week for 2 kids her and her brother said wow and you took that money yes and I spend most it on them taking to the park Mc Donalds etc . They set the price of what they decide to give me by the way.

[@heidihokes1971]

I hear ya. Soc. Sec never has been enough and now to add to the problem is an even worse economy and we have to sell our souls just to put gas in the car so we can go wait in line at the grocery store & wonder how much of it we will have to put back, when it is totalled up🥵😔 SO many seniors skip buying and taking many meds, because it is just impossible to do it! And to boot, the doctors want us to have things done and take questionably necessary meds that are so out of range to even purchase at all. It seems ya can't get any kind of assistance if there is not a child in the home, so seniors are left with impossible decisions to make!! It backs us up into a very depressing, frustrating, difficult to go on, corner. I really don't think a whole lot of people that are not in the predicament really understand how horribly impossible it truly is.🙄

[@glendasully]

That's exactly what I had to do the last time I shopped for groceries. Then I got home and couldn't find the Olive oil only to remember that I couldn't buy it!

[@rayhunter6620]

Sorry to hear about your dilemma with the car, before you cut off your cable, make sure that you have fulfilled your contract. After that, I would suggest investing in a (Roku) or Firestick that is if you watch T.V. For food, they sell twelve cans of vegetables in flats meaning the case, for about $6.00 per case(flat) at any Walmart store or center. I watch prepping channels on KZbin, which has shown me how to save on my monthly food bill. I don’t know how your credit is, but I would look into a credit card for emergencies such as your car. Hope everything works out for you.

[@benton-benton]

Great advice.

[@patsolomon6251]

I just had to have 2 new tires on my truck. About 300.00 dollars. Pay as you go. I truly feel your pain. I only have social security to live on.❤❤🙏🙏🙏

[@glendasully]

Truck tires are so expensive. I'm sorry that you had this unexpected expense too

[@bdaina]

I knew a woman that worked at Walgreens until she was 85! Just work somewhere right?

[@glendasully]

Good for her!

[@sandyhayre188]

Sad that when people get older they have to scrape to pay bill, and buy food. Please keep looking up, God will provide our needs.

[@glendasully]

Yes it's so hard to pay the bills & just to survive

[@marthaross6301]

@@glendasully call 211 . Ask for whatever aid is available to you They will be able to give you local resources. Possibly even help you get your rent category adjusted

[@ashlieleavelle]

Miss Glenda I am so sorry. I know how much you love your grand babies. Please ask Jill to pay you for childcare. Call around to daycare in her area and get an idea what it would cost her for 2 kids. Then give her a reduced price. I was a Nanny for 20 years. In my area in Texas daycare is 400 a week per kid. I imagine where you are Jill is saving money. She should pay you.

[@jackierobertson9798]

Does your son-in-law know how to replace the brakes? If he does, you can buy the parts and have him do the labor, will save you so much!

[@glendasully]

No he doesn't know anything about car repairs.

[@richardthomas9286]

Yes, find cheaper housing and maybe closer to your daughter so your commute will be closer. Less gas !!!! I find it hard to believe your daughter will not fix your car due to all the money you are saving her on childcare. You seem to be in good health,maybe a part time job to supplement your income. Good luck 🙌

[@shapienails3067]

I'm on disability & live in an apartment. I haven't owned my own car for 10 years. I get Medicaid rides to stores & Dr. appointments. Sometimes a friend will bring me for a day shopping/restaurant outing. Vehicles are money grabbers!! I do keep my license updated though. Far cheaper not to waste money on them.

[@brendaz3644]

I thought she would at least be paying for your gas to commute to her house and back home when your baby sitting for her. That's crazy that she isn't offering some kind of help....

[@glendasully]

It's ok. She does so much for me and is my safety net

[@rachelosborne5982]

@@glendasully it's not ok though! I live with my mom and she helps watch my son, I help her out a lot.

[@lorenzell3104]

Maybe you should move in with your daughter. Children are responsible to take care of their elderly parents.

[@glendasully]

Thank you for watching

[@minglee649]

Not this new generation !

[@christopherpierce1310]

God always provides.

[@glendasully]

Yes, I agree.

[@conniemassie2496]

First of all I don’t understand why a subsidized housing would allow you to use almost all your income for rent it seems like it should be a lower percentage, That doesn’t make any sense at all . the senior Apartments around us only take a small portion of your income for rent. And that is a reasonable price to do brakes I really feel that your daughter would help you out since you help her out a lot babysitting , I know it’s hard to ask our children for help but sometimes we have to take care😊

[@glendasully]

I've tried to get the rent reduced based on my lower income but they won't change it.

[@FrugalMommaInTheWoods]

Paying off your car was smart,love you I'm so sorry, your in my thoughts and prayers 🙏💐♥️🤗

[@glendasully]

Thank you for your prayers 🙏

[@ryanweller6242]

I'm about to give up and go back. Our rent went up along with car insurance 😮. Can't do it anymore! Anxiety is through the roof

[@glendasully]

You're going back where? Into the military? My "Liability Only" car insurance went up to $97/mo! I hope your situation improves for you in the next few months

[@ryanweller6242]

@@glendasully try to work.

[@glendasully]

I wish you success! A lot of people are doing food app deliveries as an Independent Contractor. There are several who have YT channels that show how to do it.