REALITY of IMMIGRANTS in CANADA | Real STRUGGLES of a NIGERIAN Immigrant in Canada (Ugly truth)

In this video I shared the reality of immigrants in canada | real Struggles of a Nigerian Immigrant in Canada (Ugly truth). I shared from my personal experiences, all the struggles we have been through as a family, letting you know that immigrants in canada go through so much before finally finding a balance. These are hard facts people need to know. The reality of immigrants in Canada is one topic that is played down. I shared personally the real struggles of a Nigerian Immigrant in Canada from my own personal experience. The nuggets i shared in this video can be considered ugly truths.
I hope after watching this video, you are better prepared, you are able to manage your expectations and eventually find a balance.
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[@raphaeloch9]

Respectfully, when I encounter new immigrants expressing their struggles in their new homeland, I can't help but ponder what their expectations were prior to their international journey. Did they hold the belief that money simply sprouts from trees here, and the streets are lined with glistening gold waiting to be gathered effortlessly? Were they under the impression that one could merely sit beneath a tree, collect falling cash, and stash it into their bags? Or perhaps they thought they could casually scrape gold off the road while leisurely sipping wine in their cozy living rooms with legs crossed? No, it's not that simple. If it were, we wouldn't witness millions of people in these countries living homeless on the streets. Correct me if I'm mistaken, but there are more homeless individuals in Europe and the Americas than back in our homeland in Africa. In earlier times, immigrants embarking on journeys to this part of the world were acutely aware of the formidable challenges that lay ahead. They understood that it would never be a walk in the park. They comprehended the necessity of diligent labor, akin to the pursuit of the American Dream. Yet, it seems that many individuals overlook a crucial aspect of the American Dream, which emphasizes achievement through hard work. The disparity between the concept of hard work here and in our countries of origin lies in the fact that here, hard work yields results in the end. In many parts of the world, opportunities are scarce, and industrious efforts do not necessarily translate into success for a significant portion of the population. My dear friend, please continue to persevere and work diligently. With the grace of God by your side, you will undoubtedly reap the rewards of your efforts sooner than you can imagine. I implore you to also inspire and support as many individuals as possible who aspire to embark on a migration journey. Teach them how to endure the initial hardships with a sense of joy, for they must understand that, in the grand scheme of things, their perseverance will ultimately lead to rich rewards. I wish you all the best in your endeavors.

[@gracyvuna7848]

No country is paradise although I beleive there are countries that offer better opportunities than others. You brought up greats points in your comments. Thank you very much and be blessed.

[@waleoguntokun3475]

The truth is that they make money in those countries that they emigrate to, but spend almost everything on expenses that give the good life that th0se developed countries provide.

[@AnnRobertsOE]

So here’s my contribution and not to undermine your experiences since relocating; Canada is not heaven and not a bed of roses (not at all). It has its challenges as a country (which can be very annoying sometimes) but when you compare it to where we are coming from (I’m Nigerian as well, it has a lot of its pluses). On the issue of healthcare, yes it can be difficult getting a family doctor, believe me, I’m 4 years here, I live in Ontario, a new Mum and I still don’t have a family Dr but there are walk-in clinics and there are hospitals. So if there is an emergency, then please head to the ER otherwise you can visit the walk-in clinics (anyone around you) and see a GP and if there’s need for you or your kids to see a specialist, that GP will refer you. It can be tough because it’s not what you’re used to especially as a new person but it’s also always good to do a THOROUGH research (not relying on here-say) about the new place we are coming to so we have most of the information we need to make informed decisions. With regards to your hydro bills, true that there has been some increase to cost but here is what you can do, (the lights are not even the issue); you will be shocked at how much your laundry dryer( then at the hottest) consumes. How many times do you run your washer and dryer(dryer especially); utilize the capacities, make sure you have full loads so you don’t have so many runs at once. (It helps and I’m telling you from experience); Reduce and manage the frequency if you can. In this country, you have to be intentional when it comes to cost. Also look into your heating and cooling system if it is not already built into your rent. You can track your daily energy use by logging into your hydro account (some things we didn’t “used to send” back home, you’ll realize you just have to start sending here until you “hammer” and start getting the 6-figure pay. For the daycare, research your city website, if possible call them and see the different daycare services and what benefits/grants you are entitled to (based on your status and income level); to help with the costs. Like you said, it’s a phase and it will certainly pass, the low moments will come (you have not even seen Calgary correct winter which if you’re not strong, it will add to your low moments) but when those low moments come bring out your comparison spreadsheet of Adv/Disadvs of Canada and Nigeria and then take a chill-pill. Wishing you the best!

[@liliansdiary3585]

😄😄I truly do appreciate every of your advice. Will make use of them. Thanks a lot for these nuggets.

[@emmanuellaumoera8086]

Well said. Well said it gets better with time.

[@abrahamniilartey6492]

Aàaa

[@leeayi243]

She said she has businesses she was running back home which means she was not hungry. She has standards and expectations, she should never settle for second best nor be a beggar in abroad country. My advice is to give yourself a time period there, maybe 10-20yrs while investing back home. You then get out but the challenge will be leaving or taking the children although they would have been old enough to choose. It's very important you teach your kids their mother tongue to give them options in the future. Some people just go abroad and set a lower standard for everybody, they are happy to be cleaning toilets.

[@Ehilionomeh]

@@leeayi243 the problem most Nigerians (that were doing well back home before relocating) bring that naija mentality to abroad. They fail to understand its two different life style. in abroad, its all about management. you chose your need and not wants. Most Nigerians that complain about abroad are the ones that were comfortable before traveling

[@CodingExpress]

In Abuja, Nigeria, you can get a family doctor in 1 hour!

[@mustaphahussein4069]

She is so wrong about this. There are literally walk in clinics everywhere. You don't need to be registered with a family practitioner to see a doctor. If you have an emergency, you don't go to a family physician, you go to the emergency.

[@alburooj7904]

Thanks, someone says "Telling the truth and making someone cry is better than telling a lie and making someone smile."

[@just_bee9482]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@YemisiTijani-jc5ii]

Exactly, !

[@swant8489]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@nali8294]

This is great content Lilian! My sister moved to Canada last year for school. She is about to graduate with a master's degree in Tax law and by GOD'S grace she successfully interviewed for a job with a reputable law firm and will be starting work in a couple of weeks. She struggled hard to get to Canada and my family is very grateful to GOD for blessing her with a job before graduating. Wishing you, your husband and kids the very best going forward.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Awww! Congratulations to your sister. Nice one. Wish her more success. Thanks a lot.

[@vickcyril]

You are so genuine 💕! You talk expressively about the good, the bad and the ugly! Thanks for the heads-up

[@liliansdiary3585]

You are welcome!

[@sandraobiako4367]

Thanks for this, it’s good to share both the good and bad aspects of relocation

[@liliansdiary3585]

🙏

[@mwadiyakin-malebo4135]

Living in Ontario for the past 40 years I always find it hilarious when new immigrants are complaining. I will tell them trying being here 40 years ago. Most things what people enjoy now we had to fight for it and now the new generation of immigrants complain but don’t comprehend how it came about. Take time to learn our history.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks for the insight.🙏 We are learning.

[@thatbillionaireblackgirl]

Hello. Thanks for your comment . I am planning study and it’s in ontario. A lot of people have been discouraging me that the standard of living is high and I wont be able to cope with the standard of living and high taxes as I’ll also be working while studying. They are advising that I forfeit the admission and look for a school in Calgary instead. Please what do u have to say on this as I see you are based in Ontario. Looking forward to your reply pls

[@kimwang2787]

Let them complain. It serves as a warning to the rest of us. Sure you did the work but they also have a role to play for future immigrants. Let them point out what they don't like so that they know they have their work cut out.

[@preciouss700]

New Immigrant, New! Be Patient! If not, then go back home. I have been here for 40 years, bitter sweet. However, I will not trade it!

[@preciouss700]

Do you have free health care in your country?

[@nkiruanapusim576]

Please you guys should come back home …it worries me when people say it’s not good but they re still there

[@liliansdiary3585]

😊

[@nirvanawellness3619]

They're not blocking your way. Thank God for social media, no more fake pictures of paradise abroad. She's advising someone out there.

[@samueloteikwu1323]

@nkiruanu did you listen to her ?

[@rayyusuf6157]

This is the reality of thing in canada. U open ur mouth dey talk nonsense ,Even you go see wen before u get work.The truth is that many can not return home cos of what people will say. It is damn tough in canada especially leaving as she said with kids. You access doctors easily in Nigeria than here. When you go to the hospital in the morning, u return midnight! Na reality. Una go see when God help una reach here

[@nkiruanapusim576]

You guys can say whatever or curse I don’t give a F

[@Princetoksy]

Thanks for the info, settling down in a new country can be very challenging and not all is rosy, hopefully we can build our country together to make it work rather than running away from it, because in the end there's no place like home.

[@miratoontv247]

please list out one effort you have made to help the country...and by the country its 9ja right. Guy wetin u don do for 9ja wey go at least push the rest to join u build your county. shey u blind abi deaf...abi u no dey buy fuel? who see opportunity to japa...biko japa...even to pack shit fo abroad na big money for 9ja. Na who no get histling spirit and strategy na e no fit live abroad...I rest my case. No offense here please. But truth need to be said.

[@Princetoksy]

The point is that many of the European countries you run to today had their fair share of economic problems including Canada, if the people didn't stay to fix this, you would not be hoping to go to Canada. Ireland and Italy had the same problems, but now you find Irish and Italians living in their countries, do you get the point.

[@rosejaneaghaigbo4383]

​@@Princetoksyforget this thing you are saying. Nigeria and Africa countries have refused to grow and develop. Our leaders have not helped matters at all. Same oil we have in Nigeria is what saudi Arabia has and they're utilizing theirs to the benefit of everyone. Just visit saudi Arabia you will see for yourself. Moreso saudi practices absolute monarchy as a system of government where no one speaks against the king and crown. Here Nigeria is practicing democracy that should be better but her leaders are very selfish and self-centred and keep on looting the country to absolute penury. Even the last election didn't you see what happened when the youth want a change in status quo? In these western countries there is law and serious ones at that and everyone is subject to the laws. Not even the prime ministers sre immuned to it. In Nigeria once you've become president you can do anything and no one arraigns to court. Forget about African countries. The selfishness will not stop now

[@Princetoksy]

@@rosejaneaghaigbo4383 I get your point, but mind you Saudi Arabia is not perfect, I had an uncle who lived there for many years before relocating to America. But back to the matter, the 20th century European saw a lot of migration especially by the Italians and the Irish to America when things were not working in their home countries to go to America to find new opportunities. Fast forward to the 21st century and now more Italians and Irish are living and working in Italy and Ireland. If the patriotic citizens of those countries didn't stay to make things work, Italy and Ireland wouldn't be the country it is today. The Old hags keep recycling themselves because there isn't enough youth to contest with them, but all we can do is complain. Ghandi once said you have to be the change you desire. Barrack Obama says change will not come if you are waiting for others to do it. Let's take action and stop the complaints.

[@liliansdiary3585]

True

[@mercyoyinloye8077]

Thank you for these advice, very enlightening. May God help you and grant you the strength to cope, it's certainly just a phase. And I pray God answers our prayers for a better life also too. Remain exceedingly blessed sis.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Amen! Thanks a lot. Your prayers and expectations, God will make come through for you.

[@nonyekaineosimen3435]

No worry sis you go soon dey okay ❤ sending you hugs. I and my family are still believing God for this Canada immigration dreams

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks a lot sis. God will perfect every of your plans.

[@nneo.2334]

For the doctor issue, a good way to go is to ask someone - a friend, a colleague, a neighbour, or a fellow immigrant to connect you with their doctor. Don't call the clinic directly as they may tell you they aren't accepting patients at that time. Alternatively, you may want to explore clinics in new neighbourhoods as they are usually looking for new patients.

[@Melanated4ever]

Exactly, everywhere Healthcare is a problem (especially when you are new, also in Europe)! And you have to pay insurance every month per person above 18 years.

[@benedetteenemuoh8534]

I am happy you are speaking the truth. Welcome to Canada.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks

[@mbaabumuriungi7830]

Thank you for sharing what majority won't share 💡

[@adeyinkaadewuyi7641]

Thank you Lilian for mentioning everything in this video, this will better prepare my mind for what will be facing as a family 👍

[@liliansdiary3585]

You are welcome sis

[@tenderromance]

Thanks for being so honest. Wishing you success on KZbin to add to your income!

[@liliansdiary3585]

🙏

[@akinkunmiifedayo5955]

Thank you for the info sis. Wish you good luck in all your endeavours in CA. 🎉

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis

[@wilhelmhesse1348]

You are a real fighter and have given some very valid and solid points 💯 Wishing you the very best

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thank you!!

[@Flourish_today]

I moved to Canada as a single lady in the early 2000s. So i can not imagine what it feels like living in Canada with children. I see a lot of parents stuggling, their plans even change because everything revolves around the children. The parents have absolutely no help like they used to get in their African countries.

[@liliansdiary3585]

True!

[@jlove8445]

🔥 Fiya

[@hank4920]

I left Canada for California in 1980, i'm surprised that people are still going there

[@olufunkeidowu9931]

Very courageous of you to share your reality. ❤ i hope you find the strength and faith to continue pushing through allbthe challenges. As you have helped other's by explaining your reality may you find peace amd progress on every step of your journey❤

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks 🙏

[@pinkandglamuk]

Awesome insight dearest! It’s great you came live to paint the picture, so others can sit and count the costs and plan ahead. For those saying she’s complaining, I think you got it wrong. It’s simply sharing information, all the negative comments and go back home comments are really not necessary.

[@orokawandimienwankwe7773]

Thanks for the information Lilian I appreciate your honesty

[@liliansdiary3585]

My pleasure!

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

Watching from Nairobi Kenya, thanks for head up this is so timely information,, all is well may Gods grace be sufficient for you

[@liliansdiary3585]

Amen! Thanks

[@user-nn3ww9ls8f]

Thanks, Lilian. You're so real both in looks and in your presentation (speech). May God see through this initial struggle in no distant time. Keep supporting your husband and the good Lord shall definitely bless your home soonest. Your home will soon cruise past this tough moment.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis. We are fine now

[@MichaelEhimhuan-km7yb]

It is always good to look at the two sides of the coin. Thanks and God bless you

[@liliansdiary3585]

Yes it is important. Thanks for watching

[@Canadianlove]

As an African there is no country you will ever be comfortable in.We have to make do and keep going.Racism is worse ,you will be denied every opportunity but keep going .Keep striving

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis

[@Seeker_of_sense]

Then why do you move to a White country if you face racism? White people are also facing racism in Africa and even get killed. Perhaps you'd be happier in Africa.

[@adedunnispace]

You've done well,this too shall pass. Thanks for sharing

[@liliansdiary3585]

My pleasure sis

[@okainepatrick3668]

Pls what of farming in Canada. Is it easy to apply

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@okainepatrick3668 I do not understand

[@tsriftsal7079]

As a born Canadian citizen I feel stuck in this country, most of us know nothing outside of Canada because we’ve been spoon fed everything here. Heavily considering obtaining dual citizenship from my parents and living life back home where I know I can better the country if opportunity and resources can be found.

[@vincentkamaumutuga2047]

Have a visit here in Kenya or you invite me there

[@rosiekapun207]

I recently received dual citizenship. One of the best things I did. If I hadn't, I would still be moving. If you can do it, get it.

[@thomasafful6748]

Being spoonfed is a problem now

[@bukolaolatunji3457]

This is my first time watching your video.God bless you for telling us the truth.l know one day Nigeria will come out of her mess

[@liliansdiary3585]

God’s willing, Nigeria will be fine. Thanks for watching

[@bukolaolatunji3457]

You're welcome

[@youngmoney6072]

Thank you for your honesty ❤

[@abdulidi733]

Interesting content and hope our people will pay attention and be prepared. With all the info you shared, there will be one or two that will be saying “ you don’t want them to travel” or make U return to 9ja. Any pikin that wants to travel 1. Get good info 2.Get proper Visa 3, Know exactly what you wanna do 4. Have an exit plan to return to home country after working abroad for decades to enjoy retirement while collecting pension. Na my plan be that woo!!!

[@liliansdiary3585]

You nailed it! Thanks for this contribution

[@harmonyiwedi8874]

Thank you so much for being so real

[@liliansdiary3585]

You r welcome

[@fereenewalker4297]

I am so sorry for your experience. If you are alone it is really hard to get grounded. You need your mom to help with childcare. The struggle is real. Also it depends on the province. I am in Ontario it is way better here. It is called culture shock, the victory will come . Keep strong

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks a lot.

[@roberteze-cu4mp]

🎉🎉🎉

[@Maame4051]

It is Normal my sister, life is full of challenges, I’m in Africa and Still going through challenges, you just got in so you will soon find your way through. There are challenges everywhere, we have to pray to God for wisdom to live this world

[@user-io4xq2ej7e]

Thanks for sharing. I can totally relate.

[@liliansdiary3585]

My pleasure

[@aminuaidara8601]

I understand exactly what you're talking about my sister I am also living abroad with three children it's not easy Ooooooo in my case I have nothing back home before in Africa before I travel I feel sorry for people who have everything back home and still leave all an travel 😢😢😢😢😢😢 the businesses. U left back home would never be successfully like when you are there yourself no matter what you do 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢....

[@liliansdiary3585]

Even if we have something back home, no regrets sis. Those are investments that are also yielding. No regrets. You will be fine.

[@florenceadeyemi3987]

Thanks for the information 👍

[@liliansdiary3585]

My pleasure

[@ceciliaokpani9012]

Thank you so much for being very real. I was considering applying for study visa n my kids joining me but I don't think I want to embark on such stressful journey

[@liliansdiary3585]

If it’s really something you want to do, pls let this video not deter you. It’s just the struggle of the initial phase. Pple are thriving here.

[@ceciliaokpani9012]

@@liliansdiary3585 Thanks for your prompt response Momma. Once I map out how to handle my kids and go for a post graduate diploma, I'll be very happy. Thank you once more

[@deeextraordinary0013]

Stay in Nigeria for peace of mind all the stress of staying abroad is not worth it...i've turned down many offers to travel to the uk due to all this stories.. When God cursed the earth it was for all humanity so anybody telling u that life is easier anywhere the person is lying to u... The systemic racism alone abroad is depressing ...

[@user-st2xo5zw8w]

Pls don't. It's not worth it. Canada isn't what it used to be.

[@user-st2xo5zw8w]

​@@liliansdiary3585It not true. People are just managing and struggling there especially immigrants. Your chances of owning a home in Canada as a new immigrant now is almost zero. You'll just work and enslave yourself for many years. Yes, you'll live in a clean, safe and organized society. That's the plus besides that, the hope of financial freedom that you dreamt about is all a hoax. It doesn't exist in Canada anymore.

[@jessicabeca1234]

I gave up on Canada because of honest people like you. Best decision I’ve made. It makes no sense that even the nationals are leaving the country in masses and immigrants don’t last 5 years.

[@user-kf9lu9ec6q]

Thank you for giving us the true picture of the running cost of living in Canada

[@liliansdiary3585]

My pleasure

[@belloabideen5197]

I admire your courage for sharing things. We hear only the rosy things not the otherside.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thank you!

[@markaaron1426]

Exactly so. It's only the nice rosy story tales people like to tell. Admire that you are telling the truth.

[@bridgetandrew]

Well done ma'am, the Lord is your strength.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks

[@aminuaidara8601]

No Ooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂

[@BrownsonAssam-wf4cc]

It happens like that as a new immigrant especially when you don’t have family members at your new country. People moving into Nigeria also, it took them time to acclimatize with the environment. Just worry about having a good job as partners. Settling down is a matter of 1yr.

[@aneshsar]

The information you're sharing I good.

[@joysmith9698]

Healthcare in Canada mostly are in two parts which is hospitals and clinics, clinics are for outpatients and hospitals are for inpatients ( like in an emergency situations or you need to be admitted in the hospital) clinics don’t admit patients, is where you go when you have like say fever, infections or not feeling yourself to see the doctor. It can be difficult to get a family doctor due to the increase in immigration ( which I fault the Government, they open doors for people to come in without increasing the number of healthcare workers, again it years to train healthcare workers) but most clinics have walk in visits meaning you can to to the clinics and see any doctor in that clinics that is available, which is what I have been doing for the past 4 years. Prior to that I due get appointment within the week I called or the coming week, but these days they give you 2 to 4 months appointments, so I prefer going for walk in. Even if you haven’t gotten a family doctor and you your health card just do walk in if is not an emergency.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks for this insight sis. Yes that’s what we do now. We do walk ins. It’s been helpful but when you are asked to go do a test, that’s where you might find a queue. Overall, we are figuring it out. It can only get better

[@bnu872]

If in Calgary, I think you can find a doctor accepting patients through the primary care network

[@sibenlitila8595]

Thanks madam. Stay strong in your marriage. Your husband is blessed i hope he knows

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks Bro. Yes he does

[@martochucks4571]

Normal process when you are passing through the system. Be focused and remain calm, and you will laff last. We all have been there before.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Sure, thanks

[@kentony2003ify]

Thank you very much for this update because we also have kids the update about the healthcare and the day care is enlightening.👏🙏🏾

[@liliansdiary3585]

You are welcome. Daycares are less expensive in smaller provinces.

[@StirUpYourPurpose]

Canada the land filled with milk and honey. This reminds me of a letter shared by George Zwaagstra when he was immigrating to Canada in 1951, this letter was written by his brother that was already in Canada and goes like this: "George, he said, you're coming to Canada, and Canada is a land overflowing of milk and honey, BUT you have to find your own cows and bees." Yes, Canada is flowing with milk and honey but you will have to find your own cows and bees. What I like to tell people is when you immigrate to anywhere in the world never compare that place to back home, you would only get frustrated. Treat the western world as a big stock market, you will always have the bear and bull market runs, question is do you know when those cycles occur if you do you would always ride the market and come out successful. Have fun and enjoy the beauty of Canada whilst you navigate the challenges and remember challenges are filled with opportunities if you have the right mindset and attitude.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks. Your advice is noted

[@WazirinJosnEnvirons]

I am always curious when immigrant parents say 'their children will have a better future in Canada'. What the expectations are? what advantages would be apparent vis a vis a similar upper middle class education in their home country. Especially in view of tightening Canadian job market, discipline structure, cost of living and gender fluid indoctrination. The last few years has been something even generational Canadians are concerned about.

[@dollyosadolor1489]

well said

[@tobaomoniyi2686]

Honestly Canada in a Nutshell

[@innateseed]

You may be upper class in Nigeria and that may affect your views. I would rather be broke in Canada than in Lagos. I know what my eyes have seen under the sun.

[@WazirinJosnEnvirons]

@@innateseed 🤣 your experience is legitimate. However, do you believe your children are better served in a society where schools can no longer teach 'this is a boy and this is a girl'?

[@innateseed]

@WazirinJosnEnvirons )( I learnt a long time ago to stop worrying about LGBTQ folks/issues/concerns. I teach my kids and they're free to do as they please. Even in Kaduna/Maidugari/Adamawa(conservative areas), there are gay ppl doing things secretly. Whom am I to judge other's decisions? Again, I would rather be super broke in North America than in Sub-Saharan Africa. Where do you think grown men have to practice gay sex to get a decent job? Where do ppl have to sacrifice loved ones for basic necessities? Trust me, it's not North America! (I know what my eyes have seen and ears have heard) I am far from being a stupid person.

[@user-ti6ef1ht1v]

This is an excellent information that lot of people neglect to inform others

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks

[@thomasranjit7781]

A big salute to you mam, you are a good lady who is true to her words.🙏🙏🙏

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks you

[@CodingExpress]

The reason why all these countries have too high cost of living is that they do everything based on contracts, not based on 'pay as you use'

[@cheryle007]

Thank you for telling the truth

[@oshogweofeblessing4715]

You are really stressed…you are a strong woman ❤

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis

[@hypedevibes2603]

Wow thanks so much for the insights you really have don well. In my place there is a proverb that says, what an elderly man see while seating the younger once can’t see half of it even when climb the highest mountain. It’s a good lesson I learned today but the problem is Canada 🇨🇦 look to be the only easy country to travel to. What about people like us with multiple talent that might want to take advantage of all the areas you mentioned eg. work in Canada 🇨🇦 and spend in Naira. I think It will get better from your end as time goes on. I am married too with 3kids I plan traveling to Canada hopefully I use your knowledge and info to better myself Thanks so much Head up

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks for watching. You got the whole message in this video. It is to help you manage your expectations not to discourage you. Canada is a great place. We are doing well. This video was recorded earlier when I arrived. Wish you the best

[@sharonemordi]

Thank you for speaking your truth.

[@liliansdiary3585]

🙏

[@lekemorfaw4375]

Thankyou Madam. So much love. Very good content and this video is crucial for me. Pls I'd like much more of such. I'm Leke from Cameroon. Once again much love to you and your family. You'll all get through this. Courage to you.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks a lot bro. Much appreciated. Will do more🙏

[@obieWanmotivation]

Lilian, thanks for sharing. It's tough but it will get better over time. As you noted, the biggest headache aka 'wahala' that folks don't appreciate living in this part of the world (I'm in USA) is the very expensive cost of child care. I need to emphasize it. The more children you have, the more it will 'break your hand' (sounds sweeter in Igbo) until they get to kindergarten level or higher when the kids can enter 'free' public education system. Those who aren't mentally prepared for the child care cost can feel overwhelmed with life.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Absolutely true. Thanks for watching

[@bayonleomoyele7003]

Please, whats the cost implication of Children school in Canada?

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@bayonleomoyele7003 kindergarten, grade 1-6 or so is free. You do not need to pay. The headache is for kids below 5 who have to be in a day care or pre school. You have to pay for that if you do not want them at home. Proper school age starts from 5years.

[@bayonleomoyele7003]

@@liliansdiary3585 Thank you so much for your kind response. Please, i need more insight: What is your advice for a mother of 3 (7, 3 and 6month) coming over to Canada to study and probably gets PR after her program. Her husband would be shuttling Canada and their home country because of home ties.

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@bayonleomoyele7003 hmmmmmm, that will be tough on her. With a 6 month old baby. It won’t be easy I tell you. Most day cares might not take in a child this young. She will need her husband to be present if she is the one going to school.

[@ekwurufranklyn9460]

Thank you Lillian

[@liliansdiary3585]

You are welcome

[@honeybellosifo8391]

Very informative ❤

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis

[@nothingmuch44]

I seriously why people think they can just move to a whole new place thousands of miles ahead,.. and everything will just be rosy? what exactly make people think like that? the first time I was leaving Nigeria I was very very very scared,. so when the challenges came I was never suprise. because I know damn well that moving to a new place is going to be hard. but for some reason people do this and talking about they were shocked or wasnt expecting the rough times.

[@ebiekem]

My elder sister and her hubby passed through the exact same phase years ago (2006....i think...). Now theyre doing very very VERY well. Ma'am, your family too shall overcome this phase and emerge very successful.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis. Appreciate you

[@user-st2xo5zw8w]

The Canada of 2006 that your sister and her hubby struggled through and made it doesn't exists anymore. The Canada of 2023 is a very hard country with an economy that is at the brink of collapsing.

[@Travelwithkugan]

@@user-st2xo5zw8wyeah 2006 is different from 2023 2006 you just come to Canada work 40 hours on minimum wage pay $950 dollar 1 bedroom save 500-600 enjoy now if you come to Canada in 2023 you probably sleep in the streets or sleeping in your car finding a job another story you probably sleeping in McDonald’s or Tim Horton that’s all fining a room another story $1700 one bedroom even if you finding a job you won’t get 40 hours weekly all you gonna do 20 hours and use your credit card being in debt walk to work after 4-5 month you’ll be losing your job or layoff it’s very difficult 😢😢😢

[@ogunmademichael3807]

Thanks for sharing both positive and negative part of when relocating, thou what i believe is that you must face all this challenges as a newcomer later it will be part of you

[@liliansdiary3585]

Sure! That’s the idea. Thanks for watching

[@MombadenTV]

There are lots of clinics that do accept “walk in” you don’t have to book appointment. Clinics are not for emergency visits, rather hospital ER. If you have an emergency go to the hospital.

[@peacebrownjigbale2894]

Thanks for this video. I had been thinking of relocating to canada with my 2 year old daughter cox my narcissist ex husband won’t let me be.. but ve been scared of the unknown. This video have thrown more light… I guess I will just look for any other city here in nigeria to relocate to and start a small business instead of processing the papers.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Hmmmm, pls o. Watch my video to understand. This video is to help you plan to settle in Canada better not to discourage you.

[@olufunkeidowu9931]

I pray it all works out well for you and your daughter. You can do it, trust your intuition. Blessings

[@peacebrownjigbale2894]

@@olufunkeidowu9931 Thank you. I will make more research on it and try my luck. Thanks again

[@anukaenyifelix3744]

Hmmm.... Different stroke for different folk...Naija Economy will soon tear gas you..

[@sammyade7323]

​@@anukaenyifelix3744make dem dey yan dust

[@lous.1548]

you are very right . been hère for 2 years , will go back to France . in 7 years I have never been able to find a doctor ... it is carry

[@aacharizackaria3060]

Yes everything you said it s true the cost living is very very expensive .Me I stay 11 elevens years It s hard to get a very good job paid very well .For the moment I decide to teach in abroad but I m thinking to go back but I need to find a better job to think about my retirement .It s true the work and life balance is difficult .To find a doctor it s crazy and to get a benefits it s very expensive .

[@user-vy5ib1os4e]

Complaints Complaints stay put and be grateful. The Children here will have greater future

[@vidanaps714]

I’m Canadian Citizens this is the true realities of Canada this videos it’s 💯 accurate there no meaning or purpose living in that country . Consequences of long term living in Canada it’s equal mentally sick or stuck taking meds for life because of the hardship stress from social life living in that country . My friendly advice please choose others countries as New Zealand , Australia, USA, Singapore’s or part of Asia life as purpose and meaningful affordable lifestyle with beautiful warm weathers. I’m a nurse even still struggle to get a transportation to go to work foods highly expensive etc….etc…. Etc!!!!!! I’m out of that Canada and will never ever looking back ……

[@tobaomoniyi2686]

You have a successful business back home, and you certainly seem to have left a good life behind to come to Canada. I'm sure many people who aspire to relocate will learn from your experience. I'm sure you had your reasons for moving with your family, and I wish you the best of luck.

[@andyosei3935]

She was scammed by a travel agent

[@andyosei3935]

And stop giving your money to churches, God doesn't work here.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Well, not missing much. Those issues I shared were my initial struggles. I have gone past most of them now

[@liliansdiary3585]

Were you the travel agent? U talk like an experienced scammer

[@chuksobiora5259]

Funny enough people will still japa. Even bank managers are escaping Naija😂

[@oshodijamiu]

Thanks God bless you for the reality

[@liliansdiary3585]

🙏

[@Ebi_J]

I wish you all the very best!

[@liliansdiary3585]

🙏

[@eudorasegun-osidipe7477]

These are the very reasons I made up my mind to remain in Nigeria. I don't have power to do plenty stress. Well done Sis.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Hehehehe. This place still better pass Naija. No comparison.

[@eudorasegun-osidipe7477]

@@liliansdiary3585 And Kemi Ojuri was in Alberta in August. You remember her, we had an event in her church at Ebute Metta. Her younger sister lives there in Alberta. If only I knew then that you have relocated I would have asked her to see you.

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@eudorasegun-osidipe7477 Oh really! Yes I do remember her. Awwww.

[@richarddavid4306]

Like how much can someone earn in a month

[@ladoohvillz9236]

Bills in Naija monthly - internet 35k, electricity 50k, phone bills 20k, rent 500k, private tutor for kids 150k, cook 70k, driver 50k, DStv 20k = 825k when you add food, gas and kids school fees then max bill monthly is 1.5m. If you and your spouse can bring in 3 to 4m monthly then you are fine. You should be able to save 1m monthly. Buy that land build your house, build a business together. Once you get to the summit of your career, you should be bringing home about 10m cumulatively. What’s obtainable abroad please 🙏? How many people are even making $200k abroad

[@ladoohvillz9236]

I forgot to mention healthcare - we have Hmo and it’s excellent. I don’t think it’s better abroad as long it’s not one of those rare illness. Dental 💯, orthopedic 💯, fever & flu 💯, optician, gastroenterologist, ENT , 💯

[@gardensteps]

Wow! In Nigeria you are paying N500K per month for rent? That must be a top high brow neighborhood!!

[@ladoohvillz9236]

@@gardensteps yes now, that amounts to 6m per annum (rent + s.c). That’s the price for a decent neighborhood in FCT

[@jideborisade1616]

That's why they are trying their best to bring in more health care professionals

[@liliansdiary3585]

Yes they are, but they still need to get licenses here to practice I think. So it makes it a bit difficult

[@samsonoyerinde5629]

I like your content madam...well detailed

[@Naijanewz]

Sis welcome o. But who tells us that children will always hv a better future?

[@TriciasStyle]

GOD bless you for being truthful.... When we try to educate the people back home they feel we don't want them to come over but we won't stop saying/telling the truth

[@liliansdiary3585]

My sister it is well. They refuse to watch a video to understand.

[@Travelwithkugan]

After all expenses we only save 15-200 dollar average Canadian 😢😢😢

[@DavidMiranda-pm9tg]

As a Canadian Citizen my country used to be beautiful back in 2011 now things change so much that I dont feel like going back anytime soon but I hope things will change soon we need a new government!!!

[@liliansdiary3585]

We trust God

[@user-st2xo5zw8w]

The politicians aren't willing to change anything for now. The Canadian economy has been projected to remain like this for a very long time.

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@user-st2xo5zw8w pls read his comment again to understand, he is referring to his home country, and does not feel like going back there for now because of how bad things are there.

[@py20]

Yep; been there, done that. Welcome to the realities of life in the West. Keep pushing; you'll eventually find a way to make it work.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thank you

[@femiogunjobi4900]

You are less than three years in the country. It will take you up to 5 years before you get used to the system and for things to start get better. You still have a long way to go. Take this from a 29-year veteran in the system. The worst of Canada is better than the best of Nigeria - for people whose backs have been pushed to the wall. If you are well established in Nigeria, stay away from overseas travel - looking for greener pastures. If you are planning to run your Nigeria business while in Canada, it would be a challenge. If you are not physically present, you might as well considered that business lost.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Funny enough, my business back home is doing really great. I make enough not to work here if I choose not to. I have people plus the business automated. Thanks for the advice on Canada. I am gradually getting a hang of it. 🙏

[@nanakofi1710]

I spent barely 2hrs at the hospital here in the US here and the bill that came in a couple of weeks later was almost $7000 that I may have to struggle to pay it off, no where cool my sister!

[@liliansdiary3585]

You can say that again. Thanks

[@femiogunjobi4900]

You spent 2 hours in the hospital and the bill was $7,000 ! Really? I was in an accident, someone hit my car slightly. No damages to either car, whatsoever, but I asked for an ambulance to take me to the hospital, just in case I have pain. It was about 10 minutes ride. When the bill came, it was $21,750.20 That was just the ambulance bill. The Doctor bill is not included. I just smiled. Even if the ambulance took me to a hospital located in heaven, the bill shouldn't be that much.

[@sammyade7323]

Nigeria is better now, everything is free and cheaper

[@arikaweadeola1146]

​@@femiogunjobi4900this is not funny 21k dollars,may God keep providing

[@glaw380]

God bless you Lilian for this eye opener. How is the security situation like? Is it very safe in Alberta? I plan moving to Alberta next week, still trying to find an accommodation. Please any advice? I am American citizen, but having problems getting short term rentals. Please help out.

[@maximr6576]

Why to move from America to Canada?

[@glaw380]

Good question maxim. This is the reason why I need someone that has lived in both countries give an input. You know, most times as humans, we hardly value what we got. Please share if you got any experience on living in both countries in the past. Chao!@@maximr6576

[@liliansdiary3585]

Alberta is safe to a large extent. North west region is very safe, some areas in North East isn’t safe, downtown area too has some not too safe areas.

[@amourmtungo623]

🤔The sad truth about western way of life is you can never be comfortable or have an access to a medical treatment if you are not legally registered or given a residence permit. Everybody has his own way of struggle and finding way to achieve the legal principle which doesn’t come cheap. Thank you for sharing your experience

[@GodswillAkachukwu]

Is good to talk about the difficult side of it but not to compare to our country Nigeria, remember we pay all those things also here in Nigeria, and withouts considering the hard economy, more also we pay illegal money for just cost like .

[@liliansdiary3585]

I understand. Just wanted people to know there are 2 sides to a coin

[@albarka1]

If you know you know. This man is saying the bitter truth but only the wise ones would understand period. No matter how rich you are abroad, you you can't save money or enjoy the money you worked for. I am not discouraging no one but no place like home. Great video. Good job brother 👏.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thank you

[@albarka1]

@@liliansdiary3585 You are welcome

[@ifynazzy74]

​@@liliansdiary3585brother? Can't you see she's a lady? People can be provocative.

[@josefelfinito6925]

😆 Speak for yourself. People do save money abroad. It don't just happen like magic. It takes time and planning 🤦‍♂️

[@rosejaneaghaigbo4383]

​@@josefelfinito6925exactly he should speak for himself. You can save money and enjoy yourself abroad. When I came to the UK I was surprised in how I can save money and live a good life here while still helping my family back home. I was surprised because UK is the most condemned western country. Peole would always be quick yo tell u there is nothing in the UK.

[@roberteffiom-desouza1043]

So for the healthcare issues, how about health are insurance, won't it get you guys care if you need too?

[@liliansdiary3585]

Health insurance covers for your health care. I was only talking about the time it took us to get a family doctor. After we got one, we have been good. We access care when we need to.

[@ikechukwuukomadu6031]

In Toronto, i have never spent more than 20 minutes to see a doctor. But it must be on appointment

[@TG-cs1rm]

That is because you already have a doctor that you wait for an appointment. I moved cities and cannot get a doctor where I am so I have to drive an hour and half to my old doctor for an appointment. If there is an emergency, hospital waits are literally hours. I read where a man died in a hospital waiting room waiting to be seen. They did not know he was dead, thought he was sleeping.

[@Only1Kya]

May I give you some genuine advice Sis?… It would serve you very well to befriend a lady who was born there that can advise you. I know some things are a bit more difficult than you anticipated.. As someone from the US, things you’ve spoken about are actually very normal for us and we know how to walk around them. Canada is almost as similar.. For instance, the doctor delay and medication concern are very very fast fixes. No problems or concerns at all. A friend would help you resolve these things and teach you our ways so things would be easier for you. Hope you understand.. God Bless and good luck. Things will become much easier and smoother with time. You’ve already taken a big step to relocate and did well. So anything ahead will be smooth.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks sis. You are amazing

[@saifsawafi2773]

Sis, you did not talk about indoctranating kids about their genda. I'm just curious 🤔

[@greatnation4328]

Mental health stability is a very important priority. Indians in particular, build a community support for themselves in most nations they find themselves in.

[@liliansdiary3585]

This is fact!

[@tochukwuifeanacho3843]

Forget that from Nigerians you are on your own

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@tochukwuifeanacho3843 You are very correct

[@dhconsultng8242]

I can understand that you were not prepared for it as you said but kudos to you for being frank about the situation.

[@liliansdiary3585]

Thanks

[@tonba8702]

Clear case of moving abroad without preparing. There is nothing new in the video

[@liliansdiary3585]

@@tonba8702 Thanks for your observation.

[@taye9424]

i have been here for 5 years, Alberta specifically; had to transition to IT 3years ago. I Thank God everyday for that decision. it will get better, its just a phase everyone else goes through. Have goals, educate yourself on in the demand skills, try to learn new skills; IT, nursing etc because you are paid according to the problems you solve. 110-120k base in salary is not far fetched. People are earning 300-400k but all of us started the same (doing menial jobs). Be strong

[@Zanorah-ck3ho]

Thank you so much for these encouraging words,I really wish to travel to Canada but I'm so confused how to go about it.Agents seem to be taxing people with crazy bills but after watching chochor millionaire,I wish to do it myself

[@adajesus5645]

Do it yourself, prepare for the worst, but to prevent the worst, go to on demand jobs in Canada. I left a job in my home country that pays me #1,300,000, a very powerful profession to come to Canada because of my kids, my dear, I am not regretting at all because that currency called Naira is nothing to be compared with Canada dollars. My former job of 1.3 million Naira is nothing close to what I make in entry position on healthcare.

[@adajesus5645]

Everyone's experience is not the same.

[@adajesus5645]

Before you enter, quickly learn a skilled job like driving a truck, forklifts or any live in healthcare job.

[@adajesus5645]

My people, Canada is great, wonderful and a good place to be, come in and struggle it out. You will eventually be happy you took that decision. For healthcare, if you are sick when you came before getting a family doctor, always use any walk- in clinic. The pay is not too much

[@bosedelawal160]

The mistake we make most of the times is converting money abroad to Africa. Any country you are you dive with their currency. Most of the way they do their things is why they are making progress.

[@liliansdiary3585]

You are right

[@bjstravellifechannel49]

Health care in Europe- schegen is better, it even free. You even have the family doctor's number, and when they ain't on duty, she/he can even send you prescriptions by email, and you go to the pharmacy to get it. However, child care is the same in Europe as in Canada. It's not easy, but you will get used to it 😊

[@brandyandcream2]

Doesn’t Canada have emergency rooms? Electricity bills can be higher in the summer from the AC.

[@liliansdiary3585]

They do. Yes I guess it’s bcos of the summer.

[@TMDglobal]

Its not easy yet nobody is coming back home. Sacrifices must be made

[@gilbertmanda1649]

I have been to Calgary many times . I love the city. I came across Africans who were really struggling.