ALWAYS Be The Best Dressed Man In The Room

[@RealMenRealStyle]

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[@TotalMichigan]

I've been following these videos for a while and upgrading my wardrobe as I go. I love walking into a room when I know I'm well dressed. That feeds my confidence very time. This last week, I finally pulled the trigger to get my first fitted suit. And that made me feel like a million bucks. So thank you and your team for all the hard work you put into these videos. It is making a difference!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thank you! I appreciate you.

[@EXTRAEDC]

We had a gathering last week at my company .. and i went with my blue jacket, light blue shirt and grey chino .. and my collegue went with a shirt and dress pants but you could see that he doesnt like this look and it showed in the way he behaved .. i on the other hand was very relaxed and comfortable ..

[@nerigarcia7116]

I've always cared about how I dressed but my workplace is super casual, like the president wears boardshorts and a T-shirt casual. So, I found myself getting a little lazy and dressing down from my norm. Then I started watching more fashion vids for older men and decided to start putting in a little more effort into it again, still casual but collared shirts, chinos, and loafers. It was definitely a step up from everyone else and I could tell by the scans I'd get from some of the ladies. Within the coming weeks I could see a couple other guys in the office step up their game a little to look a little nicer too. Now it's just carried into my daily life. I'm in the midst of clearing out a lot of clothing items and replacing them with more basics. I had mentioned to my coworkers that I always liked that my dad and grandfather always dressed up and that I wanted to dress more like them and my coworker who was like straight out of college said, "what's stopping you?" You know, she was right. Since then I decided to go back to what I used to do, dressing up a bit, and I feel better for it.

[@wileyallen1545]

You could also consider wearing golf pants, especially in hotter weather. They are lightweight, look a bit more dressy without pushing it and go great with any shirt except a tee. They are also very affordable. I got a few at WalMart for about $30 each in grey, navy blue and tan and a grey small windowpane check. I am a 38 waist and 30 inch leg. Got them off the rack in that size…no tailoring!

[@nerigarcia7116]

@@wileyallen1545 Yeah, I found some tech chinos at Target that fit me really well so I got them in all the colors. They feel great, soft and stretchy, and they're light enough for hotter weather.

[@Binks182]

I can confidently say that for the last year I have almost always been the best dressed in the room.

[@jeanerick8583]

There is a group of us (about 12) guys who all follow your channel at our church. We are always holding one another to the standards you lay out. Our fashion has improved over the last year. An so has our bonds because we do the same thing in other aspects of our lives. My place is becoming the place to alter our off the rack clothes. Thanks for helping us in a positive and sustainable way!

[@jacquie212]

Step 1... Don't be overweight. Successful people are all about controlling their controllables, and this includes their physique. Everything fits better off the rack when you are within the "ideal" range. By starting to incorporate RMRS advice I realized that i wasn't happy with how clothes fit, and the desire to dress better drove me to lose weight. It is costing me a fortune as I have rebuy everything to fit! But it is worth it.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I was always afraid to say this on those “female elegance” advice channels, but you broke the ice for me: for women who want to look elegant, the single most important thing is to be slender! It’s nearly impossible for fat people, male or female, to be perceived as elegant by most of us. It’s not nice, or fair, but in our society, we tend to find fat people faintly ridiculous. I’m sorry, but it’s true, look at any elementary school class, the fat kids are ridiculed mercilessly. Plus, being fat is dangerous to health, that should be reason enough to get in shape. It isn’t easy, but it isn’t impossible, either, anyone can start by just walking and eliminating carbs/sugar. I walked off 40 lbs. and have kept if off for years.

[@jacquie212]

@@kimberlyperrotis8962 we make snap judgements. If I am looking for someone to do business with, manage my money, or by my physician, will I trust someone who is badly dressed? Less likey. But likewise will I trust someone who is obese? Again, less likey. If we accept we judge on style, personal grooming etc we need to accept we judge on a whole host of biases (rational and irrational), which we need to be aware of. Snake oil salesmen (conmen and women) will be well dressed, groomed, spoken etc.

[@Venejan]

Agreed. When I was overweight, I didn't bother much with good-looking clothing, because I was self-aware enough to realize that I looked lousy and rather ridiculous in anything I wore. Since losing 90 lbs, and getting back to my healthy BMI after decades, I've also spent a fortune on a new wardrobe - actually, two wardrobes, since I soon had to buy a second round of more slender shirts and trousers after dropping a couple of sizes - but it's been worth every penny. While I won't say I'm handsome, I cut a decent figure and my clothes make me stand out - in a good way this time!!

[@perrycoffey5410]

Same thing if you need too GAIN weight you have too rebut everything you Americans

[@the_neeraj_gupta]

Yesterday we had our Farewell. Most of the boys were wearing ethnic (I'm Indian). Whereas me I was in formals. Following all the tips you've given me. I was looking good I must say because I received a lot of "gentleman" compliments.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Awesome - thanks for sharing this!

[@the_neeraj_gupta]

@@RealMenRealStyle I am sure I'll share such positive news in the future as well 😀

[@karll.kruger1603]

There is power in being the best dressed man in the room. Another great video, Antonio!

[@Chameleox]

Found your channel a month ago. I wear a uniform most days of the week, but I am increasingly called into meetings with lawmakers, community leaders, etc. where the uniform can be distracting. The usual “Department polo and cargo pants” look only goes so far. Your guides have been helpful in piecing my wardrobe back together. Thank you!

[@leodoro8877]

I appreciate your enthusiasm, your passion for encouraging mens to dress a standard above their norm, thanks.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

As a stylist, I’ve always said that the shoes/footwear set the tone of the outfit. By tone I mean both the level of formality and how much the wearer values both himself and the quality of the items he brings into his life. The same is true for headwear, don’t wear those darn baseball caps unless you’re actually playing that sport at the time. Or at least get a plain leather/suede or good cloth one, without a label or logo. And, wear it the right way around! My Dad wears a hat every day, never a ballcap, he gets constant compliments.

[@Honest_Grifter]

This is VERY true... I am notoriously adding my major emphasis on footwear and headwear to EVERY OUTFIT... they are two immediate calling cards that set you apart from the crowd, and when done with certain careful considerations, they add IMMEASURABLE percieved value from those around you... I still wish more men and women wore hats still, a good hat is the absolute cherry on top of a brilliant outfit...

[@tonyc7216]

This guy is dropping gems. These things are a must in the corporate world.

[@Philipk65]

Great video Antonio. Always helps being well dressed and that also raises your confidence. After watching your videos and also others from other style coaches. Now even just going to the shops I feel under dressed if I am not wearing a shirt and a jacket or nice jumper and a decent pair of leather shoes. Most people I notice are wearing sports and leisure wear.

[@Mr_Santo5]

Noticed that copy of Marvel Comics Presents #1 and Wolverine #50 on your shelf. Very cool.

[@RevanR]

I think this is important since your appearance will affect your personality and your personality will affect how your life will be

[@mfe1462]

Love what you had to say about watches. My least favorite watch, which is also the cheapest one, is the one I get the most compliments on

[@janlibourel7803]

Here in "slovenly California" being the "best dressed man in the room" is no great feat for any man with a modicum of style!

[@Honest_Grifter]

I follow my own checklist of the "3 C's" when I get dressed for an event... color combos, cloth/cut, and commonality... Is it colorful? Is it a unique cut or cloth type that fits the event? and how common is it to see a man wearing similar/ same styles? If all three of those criteria are met, I count that as a homerun outfit... by doing those things, I find myself always standing out and getting compliments from both men and women... also, you NEED TO ACCESSORIZE!!!

[@Ollies_takes]

This is an easy to digest, useful video. I appreciate you big dog!

[@matthewcormier8744]

Antonio you did it again your channel greatly improved my Style and Fragrance selection I'm interested in mission fragrances

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Hey Matthew! That’s good to hear! Are you interested in purchasing it?

[@James-id5xq]

Highly recommend the free Style Quiz! Very in depth and feels like a personal experience.

[@onefist3385]

You said it before " using your well dressed style as a.......weapon ".......LOVE THAT!!!!❤❤

[@Sshooter444]

Nice shoes, chinos, a polo or button down shirt, decent wristwatch, and a good cologne is all you need to dress better than 95% of men. Other men will respect you and women will notice you.

[@roguevirus]

@2:10 is the best way to express the value of "fake it till you make it" in a constructive and respectful way. Totally stealing this line of advice! Also, any chance you can talk about the dangers of overdressing for situations in a future video?

[@kellytweheyo3333]

I think I have watched all of Antonio's vids and he is good at wat he does

[@patrickkasanga]

Agreed! Antonio is the man...

[@zoriltag8651]

Thinks Antonio,you were so helpful for me,you'r great👍🏻

[@williamkazak469]

Thank you for this video. I like how you mentioned being appropriate to the event. I was at a local art show today. Most of the guys were nondescript. If anything, I noticed them wearing nothing particularly artsy-fartsy. One guy was tall. He came in with jeans on. I did not notice his shoes or I don't remember them one way or another. He looked at me and I looked at him. Cafe society! Give them something to look at. I wore Tommy Hilfiger red pants, navy canvas topsiders CVO style and a textured white short sleeved Tommy Bahama linen shirt, untucked. I was actually more appropriately dressed to the event. It was blazing hot out. I wore an airy weave. Interesting. Appropriate to the event. Guys, you do not need to be dressing like a peacock all of the time or overdressed for the heat and the event. Use some creative imagination whenever you can. Mix it up a little bit. It is expected at an art show. Thank you again for this timely discussion.

[@solomentemi]

I’ve recently started following your channel, but I’m struggling to dress well where I work. I work in a distribution facility and don’t want to get good clothing stained with dirt and grease. I also walk anywhere between 6-10 miles a day at work. So most boots for style don’t have the comfort I need. Furthermore, I have to wear a safety vest 🦺. Anyway, I’m sure I’ll find my way, but I’m just struggling.

[@wileyallen1545]

Awesome video Antonio. Confidence is everything, without it, you’re just another brick in the wall. I once had a surprise invite to an event that was semi formal at the Sergeant’s Mess. Our base was in western Canada. One problem, no suit and nowhere to get one in the small town I was stationed at. I found an older double breasted grey suit at the town thrift store that actually fit me really well, a 1 hour rush job at the local dry cleaner to clean it and a local sewing shop that got the leg bottoms cut down and taken in a bit on a rush job. It was an off the rack brand but at least it was fine wool and well constructed. Cost was $10 for the suit and about $100 for the rush services. I already had a really nice robin egg blue dress shirt and a deep blue tie to go with it. My female top boss was stunned at how well I looked and said so. I graciously said thanks for the compliment. One bozo made some stupid comment about my suit. Something like, “Hey man, double breast went out in the 90s.” He was wearing some kind of western cowboy get up. I just glared at him and said “Well, yours went out in the 90s too……the 1890s! Broke up the whole group. I was easily the best dressed man in the room and everybody noticed. My direct supervisor told me I knew how to make an entrance and stand out. He said I had balls and just exuded confidence all night long. I chuckled and said, “Im glad you noticed.” He told me later that the Base Comd even mentioned it to my boss. That never hurts!

[@jay-t1030]

Definitely been working on presenting myself better in terms of clothing choices for the last few months. The average man 25 yrs old +, either dresses like a giant child or with little no thought at all in terms of fashion. It's my responsibility to stick out from the crowd.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

As a woman who dated a lot before getting with my husband, this is my advice on what attracts us women, based on Antonio’s always-great content: a crisp, collared shirt, a structured jacket (suit jacket, sport coat, or blazer), nice trousers (wool if possible), a great tie, and leather belt and shoes, not sneakers or flip flops. I think every man should have a great navy and/or charcoal suit - you’ll need it for weddings, christenings and unfortunately, funerals/memorial services. Be fresh out of the shower, have a great haircut and shave, and go easy on cologne.

[@TuneinR]

You dated a lot?????? 😂😂😂😂😂 i feel sorry for your husband..I dont care what attracts you.Take care of your "husband "

[@danielc8037]

Antonio, Excellent video. Could you make a video for how to dress for engineers? that work sometimes in the shop and some times in the office. Thanks.

[@sarathbabu7903]

Hello! Do you happen to know the name or model of the suede jacket worn by Jeremy Renner in Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation? If so, then kindly post the product link...

[@russellbogrett605]

My business as a general rule has always been a extremely casual dress code (jeans, t shirts, sneakers, shorts etc). Being the business owner I require a dress code of strictly suit and tie. My staff have no issue with it and the response from our clients are positive.

[@bngr_bngr]

We use to be like you. At some point we were losing talent because of our old ways. It was becoming more difficult to recruit younger people. By having a casual dress code we don’t have that talent any longer.

[@RockXP]

General question for everyone. What are some stores you buy your outfit from? Thanks

[@TuneinR]

Gucci,Valentino,versace😂😂😂😂😂

[@B27-o2c]

I didn’t see the video link at the end. May want to check that. Good video.

[@johnwashington6799]

I need some input for a outfit for a wedding in Arizona can you help need some pointers

[@Mr_Guy_Fella]

I teach English literature as a high school teacher, and want to dress well. I want to be approachable but not casual. I also run the school cafeteria, How should I go about dressing nicely?

[@J.S.M-zo2bw]

Hey! How’s your day been going man?

[@mohammedsaqlain927]

Got a doubt, I have purchased suits from good brands and what I find is that the buttons are too loose. So should I get them stitched tight or not??

[@EXTRAEDC]

Iam training for a new job right kow and as soon as iam finished in december .. i am working on creating a new department which will invole talking to ceo‘s and giving presentations .. need to step up my style game ^^ especially because iam already 35 yo .. xD .. baggy pants dont cut it anymore xD .. i also recently noticed that my boss is allways well dressed 🤔..as well as my trainer .. and i love the style .. it just feels comfortable

[@matthewcormier8744]

Learning now

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[@JDGERSHBEIN]

Self-confidence is the best of all accessories.

[@alwayspooh1588]

Tudor are class watches. My BB GMT is fantastic!

[@ryanb1015]

New to the channel but looking for a wardrobe update since I no longer work in the office but still want to dress with style. Most importantly, I have a beard (about 6 inches) now so most of my collar shirts will not work for me. Please help!

[@Joey21071]

When I was younger I knew a guy who was always the best dressed guy at work. The problem, he had nothing else to offer.

[@TuneinR]

He has the clothes to offer😂😂😂😂

[@andreasmicheleg5676]

If I could afford it, I would dress well. But I work and with the money I'm getting I can barely afford my costs of living.

[@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday]

Exactly! I respect a man by their attitude and morals and principles and their respect for others around them ! Not just by their clothes they have on. Lots of fake people out their who know how to manipulate a person’s judgement based on shallow assumptions, in short “don’t judge a book by its cover”…..

[@Sshooter444]

​@@YouCanChangeYourWorldToday everyone including you judges people based on appearance, stop kidding yourself.

[@Not.22Man]

Checking thrift stores in more affluent areas is a decent solution to getting quality clothing a fraction of the price.

[@andreasmicheleg5676]

@@Not.22Man What is a "affluent area"?

[@nathanaelitoel9832]

Or Spiritual 😁😆😆😄😎literally

[@andrekarlmisso5075]

If you can share some insights to dressing well in South East Asia it will be awesome. The weather is always and constantly hot, humid and mucky. Wearing a jacket or jeans can sweat the spirit out of you.

[@TuneinR]

Wear jeans made of coolmax tech

[@Sshooter444]

One word...LINEN

[@aggelosdimakopoulos5]

Is there and identical video for teenagers?

[@heightofboardom]

Appreciate all the efforts. Do you have style videos for men in middle age with facial hairs. beards and moustaches.

[@aaronaustrie]

👏🏾💯

[@moorshound3243]

The problem I have is good shoes never fit properly, I always wear big boots for work on the bike, but I really want nice shoes that fit.

[@KrosanBeast315]

A man who feels they need to be noticed or command a space has no confidence in himself at all.

[@LaMach420]

$60 Casio watch is my daily, Id buy a Seiko as my outing watch. If you dont got a liquid net worth of $500,000 dont even think about buying a Rolex. 😂

[@alwayspooh1588]

I love how Americans say cap-illaries! British English = ca-pillaries. The change of focus from p to the i underscores that we have two nations separated by a common language!!!! Great video Antonio.

[@michaelblazin4093]

What about controversy?

[@bngr_bngr]

British English in certain parts of the UK. There are parts of the UK were they don’t speak English.

[@alwayspooh1588]

@@bngr_bngr True, and I do not even mean where they speak Welsh, Cornish or Gaelic! Try certain parts of London, English is seldom heard.

[@alwayspooh1588]

@@michaelblazin4093 Yes, that is dependent on whether you slightly emphasise the trov, or go with the tro then versy.

[@mattstolzman]

Yeah, after I started balding even the slickest outfit makes me look like a tryhard. Life sucks.

[@jonasis22]

👌

[@911babygoat]

What if I want to be the best dressed man on KZbin?

[@alexmarques2398]

Always 'large and in charge'? An excuse to not being able to even look after himself? Either way, I would say better to accept the weakness on the fitness while having other strong points.

[@bobbytoole318]

No printed t shirts,trucker caps and tip your tailor.

[@recordsmanukrnet]

What if you’re dressed the best and still go unnoticed? 😂😂

[@TuneinR]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 happens sometimes

[@recordsmanukrnet]

@@TuneinR since I’ve moved to the U.K. I go unnoticed no matter how I look whereas in my hometown Ukraine girls would even come up to me to get my number… something is wrong with England lol

[@fredkoch100]

You said...you just may be a teacher. ...uncool

[@bngr_bngr]

Teachers now are very casually dressed.

[@Sshooter444]

​@@bngr_bngr yeah and they wonder why they don't get respect or more money

[@rallers3002]

I don't give a damn anymore.

[@Sshooter444]

You'll go far with that attitude

[@rallers3002]

@@Sshooter444 Not interested.

[@firstnamelastname-up6ni]

First

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[@firstnamelastname-up6ni]

@@RealMenRealStyle i follow your page religiously now that I'm 35 and wear suits at work

[@concepcionledezma5027]

Ye-Ching Ping is the name of my tailor.🙂🪡