Reasons Bat Di Mo Sya Mabitawan/ Relationship Advise

[@macymordeno2769]

Letting go is hard but you have to love your self first. Self love is not selfish

[@GG-ve1hv]

"Holding on creates more damage than letting go"... so beautiful! And yes, he also stabbed me behind my back...

[@tseranne]

Kuya darbs, I've been to 10 years relationship because of you I did an incredible changes in my life,. You did give me hope, the willingness to walk away. My ex was cheated on me for so many times, nakabuntis ng iba while kami when we are already engaged. Watching yiur vlogs, made me realize lots of things that I didn't see before, the love that I need, and now I'm on the process of healing focusing on my teaching career and other things, , it's been 3 months since nangyari sakin ung bangungot thank you kuya darbz.

[@lhenecarreon1499]

🙏♥️

[@marian6717]

😢

[@levyang7732]

Congratulations! You're saved from more chaotic and painful situation. Kesa naman kasal na kayo tsaka mo pa nakita yung kulay nya.

[@jmal8053]

Di paba sapat ang ngcheat sya multiple times para marealize mo? Nu bayan mga babae tlga. Ang hindi nilelet go yung taong matino because that is a valid reason.

[@madelinemorales9369]

Good for you engaged palang, samantalang Ako kasal na at paulit ulit na lang.

[@emzvlog8736]

Ang sarap mg isa na masaya.. Ng iisa ako for 9yrs and I'm happy ang saya mg isa tlga promise . Go travel alone is 🥰 if mg isa ka you find peace. Like you felt fulfilment contentment and PEACEFUL inside.

[@rutchrayos7324]

Nice

[@rhi3961]

“ My happiness is my responsibility “ i will build myself .

[@angelbaby1923]

Thank you! Maybe it’s time na bumitaw na ako. Yes masakit talaga..pero mas masakit yung ako na lang ang kumakapit..

[@laniemay5140]

I'm still hurt. Still can't move on with my ex. I know that I need to love myself first but I just need to feel this pain until I'll get numb. I will be happy for sure. Claiming it. Will going back to this comment once I fully moved on. 🙏😭Malooy nakos akong self!

[@lovelynevado8681]

pareho Tayo 13 years kami ngayon kaso mas pinili nyang Ako tuluyan Ng bitawan... Pero pinag lalaban ko pa din sa kanya nararamdam ko ... Lalot may tatlo kaming anAk na grade student pa at Isang grade 7 ... ayOko Naman na dumating sa point na pati mga anAk ko Ang ma epektuhan kaya hanggat kayo gumawa paraan na MABUO kami ulit ginagawa ko kahit patuloy na nya ako tinataboy sa lahat Ng mga sinasabi nya at pinararamdam nya... Hanggang ngayon nahihirapan Ako di ko Maka Kain, di makatulog lagi nag aabang sa mga reply nya kasing labo pa pangako Ng mag babayad Sayo Ng utang... gusto ko man sumuko pero ayaw Ng puso ko ... maghihintay Ako at magtiwala sa faith ko na magiging okay din Ang lahat na may pag Asa pa na mabalik ung dating pagmamahal nya sa akin ... dahil sobra Kong pinag sissihan Ang lahat Ng pabigla bigla Kong desisyon 🥺

[@jellay5575]

I love myself too ..ako yung nakipag break.. ayoko nang gulo sa buhay lalo na yung mga tao ngayun ang judgemental. I still love him I swear but sumali na ako sa study bible dun na magbabago buhay ko

[@nicka5380]

You have to learn how to be ALONE first so that a companion is just an OPTION but NEVER a necessity 👏👏👏

[@junethatienza7635]

❤

[@mariaglendolynberamo7160]

Hey darbs bakit ang galing mong mag advice parang well experienced ka na, you always HIT my heart sa mga Real Talks mo.thank you it really helps.

[@THERICKMATTHEWS]

True helping is not expecting anything in return. If habang buhay ka may utang na loob sa kanya, its not helping, its MANIPULATING :(

[@polisticojerricivan3210]

last month when we were shaky, I was watching your tips on how to cope up with LDR. But now, Im listening to your tips on moving on. Thank you for being so sensible

[@eyesofawanderer8939]

That’s the consequence of seeing red flag as green during the early stage of dating pa lang. Run for the hills kaagad when someone is manipulating you. Love yourself first. It’s attractive pag may self worth.

[@daddada2984]

Love is sacrifice. Love endure. But love must be freely given.

[@BetroMoomin]

Alam mo kuya darbs. Gustong gusto ko pinapanood videos mo, kakagaling ko lang sa break up last monday. Pinipilit ko sa sarili ko na baka magbago pa kahit alam kong hindi na magbabago yung tao dahil hindi ako pinapahalagahan, umiiwas din ako sa mga signs kung kailangan ko na ba mag let go. Pero out of nowhere biglang lumabas video na 'to. Ikaw yung tumulong sakin noon, nagtiwala ako at maganda yung kinalabasan. Hindi mo sinira tiwala ko sayo kuya darbs, di ko man kaya pa ngayon tanggapin na wala na. Pero alam ko na kahit di mo ako kakilala o di mo alam na nag eexist ako. Alam kong meron at meron kang video na makakatulong sakin. Thank you, Kuya Darbs!

[@julyonalos4797]

😭😭😭😢😢😢 ,Ang hirap po..pero nakakapagod na den.salamat po sa mga advice 😊😊

[@meenamoon7930]

3:43 Great timing ❤️ This is so true. Naexperienced ko toh sa past relationship ko. Using my personal issues in life para mag stay sa kaniya was really damaging me to the point na natulala na lang ako noon sa kaniya habang nagsasalita siya that was the time i already knew i was being manipulated by him. Trying to control me is not the reason for me to stay with him so i decided to leave . Ayoko ng sabihin dito kung anu ano pa yung mga abusive words na narinig ko para takutin ako pero hindi ako nagpatalo at that time. Mahal ko siya to be honest but i realise na ang dami ko palang hindi nalalaman. Pinagpray ko nalang siya at alam ko na hindi ako pababayaan ng Diyos sa nagawa niya saken. Lahat ng masamang ginawa sa tao ay may consequences . Kaya this time hindi na po ako takot na mawala siya.

[@atejoy3585]

I'm inlove with this video. The summary of this video for me is all about SELF LOVE FIRST AND LEARN TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF ALONE :)

[@aliss1250]

I was in a relationship for 8 years and during those years I felt I was not valued and needed in his life. Finally, I made a difficult decision of letting him go. It took me 2 years to mourn for this relationship. After that, I was able to move on but there was still this sense of attachment to him. But it's fine because it doesn't mean I want to be with him. I have no regrets and for 5 years I enjoyed being alone. I learned to define my own happiness without the need of another person. We turn out to be friends and we go out sometimes and just enjoy each other's company without any intimacies involved. It feels good when you don't grudge any ill feelings towards the other person. 🙂

[@Jona1123]

Tama po kayo sir...salamat po sa mga paalala...kahit masakit kailangan nang tanggapin...at araling mahalin Ang sarili

[@jhoycealvaro1836]

natutunan kona kung paano maging mag isa.mas natutunan konang mahalin ang sarili ko at hindi kona kinukumpara ang sarili ko sa iba

[@johnpauldiaz1851]

paano? haha hirap

[@mariaarlenegabon]

This is how I am feeling right now. :( I am still holding on, baka maayos pa... For now i just gave the space that he was asking for. Prayers lang siguro at faith in God ..This too shall pass...

[@jcm2789]

Grabe ang galing mo kuya! kakagaling ko lang sa rejection kaya napaka helpful neto na mag move on ako sa taong super na attached ako. I will focus on my self na at harapin ang bagong bukas na may pag asa.

[@jeisongaming69]

same here, sobrang attached ako sa ex ko. parang mag asawa na kami. araw araw kasama ko sya at tabi kami matulog, niloko lang ako. ang sakit. di ko pa magawa ngayon un mga payo dahil palagi ko na iisip kahit gusto ko man kalimutan. 5days na ko heartbroken. T_T

[@yurinalysis8034]

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[@jenniferpitas3782]

Awesome 👏🏻 advice ! Share ko to sa kakilala ko na di makapag move on

[@ycelrey7652]

Not all the time na takot mag isa. Sometimes, the person is just too forgiving and is holding on to the fact that this person will eventually change and give what you desire.

[@monicaalpeche8864]

It's true

[@aprilabitona4516]

true

[@djoiantonio5396]

True

[@mayanndlolimon12]

Yas

[@JamailaBacaraman]

I am very thankful to you kuya darbs as this advise of yours helped me a lot . I saved myself from drowning in my own sea. 🥺

[@Charlock-kn5uk]

I finally let go yesterday and it hurts so much but this is the time for me to love myself.

[@sikey5254]

I saw this video when I searched about LOVE or CAREER.. Nahihirapan akong piliin ang career ko dahil sa kanya. Thank you for Real Talks, Kuya Darbs.

[@josephineranga9194]

TRUE bitaw na if ikaw na lng Ang kumakapit 👍 acceptance & Prayers is the best in order to move forward 👍🙏😊

[@fernandodao3573]

Saklap ganyan ang nararanasana ko ngayon.pero bakit patuloy parin ako nag iistay,sana may gamot na pag ininom mo mawawala nalang love mo sa taong yun.ang hirap.sana makalabas n ako sa sitwasyon kong ito...Thanks kuya Darbs...

[@nadiaaisa8458]

its not that its hard to be alone. but its just that i know in my self that he needed someone to listen and be with him. ❤️ and the fact na mahal mo xa 💕

[@jeddadarvin9798]

i prayed for the sign and this is it ❤️ thank you

[@hisoka_playsss]

Me too may lakas nako ng loob i delete lahat ng memories na magkasama kami 🥺

[@ruffap6588]

Badly needed this kind of advice right now..🥺🥺🥺

[@앉젤라.미카엘라]

Your right kuya darbs. 6 yrs is enough, sobrang sakit tlaga. Were done..

[@bebebe08]

hi kuya darbs, like others naffeel ko yung happiness after breakup. pero tama ka nga siguro that will be a temporary happiness if hindi ko nafeel yung pain, if hindi ko nafeel yung emptiness na kailangan ko tp grow and to break through. I don't need someone na makaka unlock ng sadness ko. i need to focus on how that relationship ruined me as a lesson. nag bblame den ako sakanya pero hindi sa sarili ko. kase nag commit ako in a relationship between me and him na alam ko na naging fair yung trait. so why not aminin ko den mga naging kaslanan ko for me to grow and start the healing process.

[@florilynconisang2975]

Omg😭ang shakettt It's hard but yeah. U right.. Even it's hurt, I need to love myself first... Tenkyo sa advise ❤

[@jingsan2s]

Holding on does more damage than letting go... true!

[@yetas5398]

Man why are you so brilliant? You always hit the mark. Thank you so much!

[@djoiantonio5396]

Agreee!..Super lodi

[@evhonipanag5538]

Salmat kuya Darbs when I'm watching your videos I think this is the sign na dapat na talaga akong bumitaw sa taong umaasa akong magbabago Pa dahil ilang beses ko na syang pinag bigyan ilang beses ko ng pinapaasa ang sarili ko na magbabago sya psra samin ng anak ko nahihirapan akong bumitaw dahil may anak kami at okay kami both side of our family but deep inside me Hindi ako okay as in Hindi kami okay dahil nararamdaman Kong ako lang ang gumagawa ng paraan para mag work ang relationship namin

[@Abbeyonce0919]

Love Attachement Separation anxiety Learning how to be happy All tumpak Amazing ka again ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@hasmincanoy847]

Learn to love yourself first 💜

[@jhordssac5820]

Kung tao hirap masabihan na Tama na Yan daming masasaktan sa Mali ginagawa damay2x na Ang anak 😡😡😡😡 sana gisingin sya sa kanyang konsensya kung Meron man

[@analyontoy4292]

Thank you kua darbs pinallakas mo loob ko ng sobra bago lang kami nagkahiwalay then after a month meron na agad siyang iba masakit sa part ko pero lahat ng sinabi mo ay sobrang totoo Thank you, i hope makamove on ako soon.

[@salmaguillena205]

I agree kuya dharbs i still love my husband 😢he still love me and he choose me over the recent happiness.

[@karencapina2479]

Hirap ka bumitaw kasi mas mahal mo yung taong yon kesa mas mahal mo sarili mo..

[@r0nzk1.]

To the point.. It hit hard bro... tyvm

[@danoperiano6435]

Sobrang ganda ng mga aral n mapupulot sa mga payo ni kuya darbs ! Galing !❤

[@lhorienoveloso455]

Thank u i really like ur advice pna nood ko ung.mga previous video mo i really like ur advice sir

[@maricongimal8873]

Thankz same my situation this time am so afraid tlga na mg Isa umaasa pa din Ako pero Tama ka Lodz kailangan butawan Ang taong hnd nya nkikita Ang halga ko...thankz I want to start in my life in my own😢😊

[@raquelcameros9841]

i really love this video now iknow my value..maraming salamat natauhan ako 🙏🙏🙏😘

[@leorex1218]

thanks u Darbs...kailangan ng pinsan ko to ngayon..kc niloko sya ng jowa nya...pinag hintay lang sya..di naman rason yung loneliness sa luob ng training center para mag loko..pero ganun talaga...and once again thanks po

[@cathy933]

"The sunset is beautiful isn't it?"xx

[@johnalbertpitos6767]

This vedio can relate much😢 mas inuuna kopa yong tao Hindi nmn desserve yong pagmamahal ko💔 kaysa sa sarili ko😢

[@AlexandraPandaan-l7t]

I'll keep those things in mind. I wish you all the best! Thanks!

[@Abbeyonce0919]

WISDOM

[@lucilleyu7554]

Tama! Learn to love yourself❤ mas magiging masaya Ka🩷

[@virgelgamino9632]

Thank you Kuya Darbs🖤

[@rahyaaipili4882]

Ang hirap, Kung kelan ka nainlove nahulog na, tsaka ka sabihan na . Ayaw nya na Kasi daw Wala nang spark Nafofall out of love na. Kung meron man akong pagkulang dapat nging kontento nlng . As of now , nag wonder parin asan ba talaga ako nagkulang . 💔 Asan ba ako Jung kelangan nya ko . Ee Kung tutuusin daming paraan para magkita . Alam Naman Namin na busy kami that' time.. pero Naman ma realize mo gaano kita ka Mahal. (A) 😔

[@jhinclemtaekimescritor1409]

Yeah i really learn so much to you kua darbs in my last relationshp in applying to my selp and i have nO regret na binitawan kusia mtgal kuna pla sia hndi mahal takut nlang pla aku mgisa he cheated to me 2 times naka2pgud dn pla maging tnga at d maramdamn n mahlga ka sa taong mahalga p sa buhai mu now am really moveon and loving my selp even more tnx po 😊

[@MayChel-z1q]

Thanks you darbs for this fruitful video i have been in the situation right now on this video but thanks to your advice it hits me

[@mjgalvadores4982]

Thank you kuya darbs a little bit healing coz of your words,im in the Difficult part of my life now! Im wishing and also praying that i could already let go and find happiness🥲.

[@putot4509]

When reality hits me KUYAAA 😭😭😭😭 ang sakit lang, 💔 I FEEL ALL THE FEELINGS

[@rosemadeldaquio4056]

The best advise ever! 💗

[@dolfahaguinaldo3295]

Eto ang snabi ko mismo sa ex ko na di ako kayang mawala..I can't believe darbs is saying the same thing🤩🤩🤩🤩..sabi ko sa kanya, if di mo dn ako kayang maipaglaban, mabuti pa tumigil na lang tayu..baka naman attached ka lang sakin di mo naman talaga ako mahal

[@PSJ2102]

Thank you for this video kuya Darbs. More power and God bless you always and your family. A.J watching from Brunei

[@ednabalaneokumura445]

Man why I didn't choose it 🌹many reason 🌹I see from the first many toxic matter 🌹and when I recieved this message 🌹from a man 🌹I'm not enough for you 🌹then when I heard that 🌹i disconnected 🌹I'm single and independent life 🌹without this man 🌹I can go my life 🌹🌹🌹

[@lizalynlim6995]

Thank you very much for the wisdom that you shared! It really helps a lot! God bless you!

[@GusStv-06]

Sobrang bigat sa dibdib, sobrang sakit, ung gusto mo ng mawala sa mundo d lng maramdaman ung sakit😢

[@GusStv-06]

Sobrng hirap ng dinadannas k ngayun sobrng na mimiiss k na ung tao.

[@GusStv-06]

Ako ung niloko pero parang ako ung may kasalanan!!!! Sobrng bigay sa pakiramdam . Konti nlng bibigay na ako😭

[@JahYus]

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[@JahYus]

​@@GusStv-06same situation💔💔😭😭😭yung ikaw na ang niloloko pero bakit parang ikaw pa itong nanghihinayan..bakit ganito kahirap parang gusto ko nlng mamatay para lng di ito maramdaman

[@brokenheart1314]

Tama ka kuya kagaya ko still holding and hnd ko talaga alam Kung bakit hnd ko sya maiwan kahit alam kong wala na syang respeto pa skn 😢😢😢

[@djoiantonio5396]

@Broken Heart , ..relate😔

[@thecees1648]

Kuya Darbs, salamat sa mga content mo. Salamat nakita ko to, habang lost ako.

[@Eros406]

Thanks for the words of wisdom😚

[@erlynreyes364]

Thanks for inspiring advice Lodz 🙏🙏🙏

[@orpahongcas621]

im here bcoz of the pain the betrayal .. but the sad part is alam ko sa sarili ko na hinde ko parin magawang mag let-go 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 yung kahiit alam ko sa sarili ko na hinde na ako sapat para sa kanya😢😢 #AngTangaKo

[@richelletemporaza9649]

Yung sabi mo na kung pakiramdam mo ikaw nlang kumakapit.. bitaw kana.. that hit me kuya darbs.. bumababa talaga stress ko sayo.

[@lynoniriuq2695]

Same

[@DennisJosephBugos]

Thank you for making me realize my worth, RealtalkDarbs!

[@MeksMeks101]

Thank you sir darbs more power

[@GratefulnBlessed]

You are a blessing. Salamat sa advice. ❤‍🩹💗

[@imortaljoey]

“Mahal mo siya pero hindi mo mahal ito (sarili mo)” Damn so true. I wish mawala na talaga yung feelings ko for him, hirap na kase ko, 3 months na din na di ako okay. Lagi na lang ako kinakabahan at may oras na ramdam na ramdam ko yung lungkot sa loob ko. Walang araw din na di ko sya naiisip kahit nag detach na ko sa kanya at magwa 1 month na din na wala na kaming communication. Pero may times na ini stalk ko pa din sya sa Facebook pag sobrang mis na mis ko sya kaso nakakasama rin naman sakin yung pag-i stalk ko kase bumabalik yung kaba ko.

[@vanishxtv4401]

Samee 😢😢 i feel you bro

[@imortaljoey]

@@vanishxtv4401 Hi, I hope maheal na tayo soon. Actually nung Aug 29, nag send sakin si crush nang friend request sa Facebook. Sobrang saya ko non kase naalala nya ko kaso last chat namin ay nung Sept 1 although sanay na rin naman ako na di kami magkausap kaso medyo awkward kase pag friends mo pa yung taong gusto mong i-move on. Parang sya lang lagi laman ng utak ko, hindi pa nga ako nakaka move on eh. Parang minsan gusto ko ding magpapansin sa kanya like mag post nang My Day ganon. At masakit din sa feelings na hindi ka nya kinakamusta, parang I felt ignored kahit hindi nya naman siguro intensyon yon so I decided na mag uninstall na lang nang Facebook/Messenger. Ayoko nang masuffer pa lalo yung mental health ko dahil sa kanya, hindi pa nga ako okay eh. But sana soon maka move on din ako. Kakapagod na maging broken hearted. Haha! Ang dami kong iniwan dahil sa pagiging broken hearted, nag quit ako sa ML kase don kami nagkakilala, nalulungkot lang ako kaya pinagbili ko na lang yung acct ko tapos nag uninstall din ako nang Instagram at Tiktok kase friends kami don at ngayon pati Facebook/Messenger ko inuninstall ko na din but its fine, my mental health is more important and I promise na I will be back stronger soon. Hehe!

[@sydfreyalejo4424]

kuya darbs,salamat kc pg nririnig q mga advices mo lumalakas loob q pra lumaban.ang hirap mg move on pro gustong gusto q n mkpg move on kc sobrang sakit.😢😢

[@tygsloftofficial1126]

Thank you❤

[@justVange]

ouch. thanks s realizations❤

[@celiarocafort4644]

Salamat kuya ang dami ko narealized after mapanuod ang video na ito lahat ng sinabi mo kuya nafeel ko sa rrlationship namin.ang sakit sa pakiramdam na ikaw na lnv kumakapit yung tipong ramdam muna na wala na yung love pero ikaw tanga tangahan pa kaya sana makayanan ko bumitaw.kasi lagi ko nararamdaman ang lungkot kesa saya siguro nga hindi talaga masaya ang ending ng relasyon namin basta kuya maraming salamat God bless!

[@soundofsilence1483]

This is for me. Thank you so much ❤❤❤ And I decided "This is it" Just the song makes me 😢

[@johndavezamora9378]

Thank you kuya darbs❤️

[@littlebabytheexplorer]

Indeed

[@janicedavid3014]

thank you for this advice kuya darbs. i'd learn a lot! really help me pursuing to see my value and worth.

[@rowenagarcia7664]

If you love your self more than anything,i guess madaling bumitaw,me 17 yrs no man in my life but im happy make yourself busy everyday😊

[@tinedomz6162]

Iba ang mahal sa kailangan ka. I think hindi na ata pagmamahal yung nagsstay ka sa isang taong yun, naattach ka lang talaga. HIndi na sya pagmamahal kasi hindi mo na siya kayang pakawalan eh. Dapat matuto rin tayong pahalagahan kung ano yung makakabuti duon sa taong mahal mo. Mahirap maglet go, pero kung mahal mo talaga masiisipin mo kung ano ang better sa inyong dalawa.

[@rosalieelatico8043]

Pag ginawa mo na lhat.ng effort kana ng bongga and nothing changes, then its rightful to walk away. Atleast you gave ur all. D mo pagsisihan un. Maghiwalay man kau atleast you are satisfied na ginawa mo laaht. No regrets.

[@cedricjoshMD1006]

Indeed. Great advice!

[@marygraceestrada1431]

Hey kuya darbs thanks for the advices😊 i've been into my hardest heartbreak lately.watching your videos every single night helps me cope up with my emotional stress & depression.thanks Kuya Darbs for lifting us in the most difficult times of our life.one day i will find myself happy again and thanks to your videos it help's a lot kudos to you God bless your heart❤❤❤

[@faidsrmt1307]

How are you na po now?

[@sofiaignacio5304]

siguro nga ngayon emotionally weak ako, kaya until now di ko parin tanggap na wala na talaga kami hirap sa pakiramdam na ganito na akala ko sya na yong pang ending hindi pala. Fresh pa yong break up namin kaya di ako makaalis sa situation na baka bumalik pa sya , baka gusto nya lang ng pahinga. Hindi parin ako maka move on, siguro ako nalang ang lumalaban. Mapapagod din at matatapos din ito. Gusto lng naman matapos na to para maka move forward na ako sa next step ng journney ko.

[@kathykha52]

I get the best advices from you Kuya Darbs! Thank you!

[@LiezelEspinosa-v6j]

cguro dadting yong araw na mag kukusa nlang talagang bumibtaw sarli natin dhil sa mga nararamdman at pinaparamdam sa atin.

[@rainezeke5802]

Thank you much for the wisdom as always kuya darbs. It really hits its mark 🥹.

[@basketballislife1693]

Thank you for giving me a sign.

[@reinamarieserrano6905]

ang galing mong magadvice kuya darbs

[@honskristoffercagas6392]

Thank you kuya darbs☺️ mas nalinawan Ako ngyon☺️ more inspirational vid pa po keep safe❤️

[@genevevedorato8944]

thank u so much sir... for this video 🥰

[@charlesborromeo1735]

Tama halos nasanay na .at sobrang mnhal ko .kht na wlang kmi. Ngaun lng kc ko ngmhal uli

[@vain9665]

Ito yung advice na maganda, dahil hindi dina.down yung kabilang side o yung nang.iwan, meron ibang nag.aadvive pero pinapasama ang side nung nang.iwan keso daw mag ayos para daw makita nya na ito yung sinayang mo which is wrong.