How Narcissists Act During A Divorce Case and What To Do About it

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Are you going through a divorce with a narcissist? This video will talk about the common behaviors displayed by narcissists during a divorce case, and ways to handle it. In just 10 minutes, learn what to expect from your narcissistic ex-partner and how to protect yourself in court. Know your rights and start taking action today! #narcissist #divorcelaw #divorcecase
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[@lucybraun8969]

I feel bad for the people that are stuck attached to a narc by reason of the fact that they have kids together. It seems like a life sentence only minimized once the kids become adults. What an awful thing to have as a constant in your life.

[@bonzbeasty]

That is my life. Thank you for acknowledging this as it seems no one does. There is a lot of advice out there about dealing with a narcissist that I can't do, simply because we share a child. I've grown strong enough to take the personal abuse, but trying to deal with his abuse to her is an ongoing battle. I feel I have to be the strongest person in the universe and it's so exhausting.

[@lucybraun8969]

@@bonzbeasty Yes, narcs thrive on exhausting you. I've gotten to the point where I only allot a set amount of time compiling this police report against him so that I can take better care of myself, and then come back at it stronger. Not so easy to separate like that when there's a child involved, or you live under the same roof.

[@bonzbeasty]

@Lucy Braun I'm proud of you for loving yourself and staying strong. When people share their stories and have empathy, it really helps me feel less alone and stay strong myself. As a community of survivors we have to stick together! Best of luck to you💜🩵💙❤️

[@lucybraun8969]

@@bonzbeasty Likewise. I so value the support here. I've become so isolated, but it's a season I have to go through until I am away from the narc and his fly monkeys. Looking forward to the day I am free!

[@DebSchmidt-go3fw]

Thanks for this uplifting video. Will be in court in a few months. Good to get perspective of judges. My narc is tying up selling the house.

[@Jackgritty28]

Victimised by a narcissist,you drive them wild,they'll drive you crazy,if you don't like it,escape the situation before it does you any harm🚩🆘❌💲✔️❔

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Thank you! So glad I can help!

[@terrid.9204]

The last words my husband's narcissist first wife ever spoke to him when he served her with divorce papers was, "I CAN RUIN YOU AND DON'T THINK I CAN'T." And she very nearly did.

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

Whoa! That is very scary, especially when you have built a lifetime's worth of wealth with your own dedication and sweat!

[@lightfeather6238]

Yes they want a reaction. Video recording they do it all for evidence. Reactive Abuse was his favorite recordings . It’s so sad how the lawyers and judges are not educated on how they work

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@KQMcKinnon]

SHUT THEM DOWN!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

TOTALLY!

[@lucybraun8969]

I won a few in pro per motions in my divorce from a narc. Didn't lose any. But it really burned me up that the judge wouldn't sanction him, or even give me my costs.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@elizabethjimenez9729]

Nah...My children had to be taught...they know who he is! He tried grooming them into him...and one day I woke up and started letting them know what he was doing but they were well aware

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I just want to say, I love the 🤍"elegant and enlightened" white color on you, of your suit. Thanks for this episode, Rebecca. It helps pile more power onto me. I am not going through a divorce myself, but I am actually going through someone ELSE's divorce!!!

[@user-bi5mq4yy6r]

No contact, no sitting around in s%$t talking, no looking for others to re-fuel the below surface hatred, look for authetic people, try to find employment that understands i look as bad as i've lived and been treated. Now that suicide idolization is no longer a factor by slowly snapping out of it. I love myself today, they didn't take my voice away and i could tell on them anyway ... music notes everywhere. 🎵

[@user-bi5mq4yy6r]

Also, co-habitating is OK! JUST BE SURE TO PUT IN WRITTING EVERY STEP OR MAJOR DECISIONS MADE TOGETHER IN WRITING AND GET IT NOTARIZED. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT.

[@liepa7768]

💯 true about everything!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

[@nanarian8388]

Rebecca, thank you so much for creating this video. Just starting my divorce process now. I feel so much better prepared!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!

[@1Airwaving]

So spot on !! Thank you. The judge in Orange County, New York , that moron Andrew B., showed poor judgment as well. At least I had finally begun DOCUMENTING ex’s behaviors. Dates, times, behavioral specifics, and names of who else knew( neighbor, friend, family member, & most important, law enforcement I had contacted!).

[@lucybraun8969]

Just make sure you fully understand what it takes to get your documentation admitted into evidence. You have to be able to authenticate it, lay a foundation for it, and speak on how it is relevant to the cause of action at issue.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/

[@LornaSGal]

As a Glaswegian I'm loving Gary....brilliant....by the way.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

[@lucybraun8969]

Excellent video!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

[@lucybraun8969]

@@RebeccaZungEsq New insights into managing the courtroom battle ahead. Wish I'd had them in my divorce from a narc 12 years ago.

[@user-bi5mq4yy6r]

One issue that absolutely daggered and skewed, my diabled daughter was given to the ex partner to be given over to facility care ( no offer of help to me to care for her), and 12 people were paid upwards of $ 60,000/year in that facility to keep her. After 23 years of not being allowed to know where she was, i was allowed to go see her. The person that let me in to see her ssid , oh look, there's a mom, a look of a imbasil on her face , i asked for some water to place drops on her lips ( they were dried to cracking and bleeding), the imbasil gave me mouthwash. I hope that $70,000.00 a year she made for a cushy life makes them baffled as to why the system out did their own jobs.

[@user-bi5mq4yy6r]

Typo" 13 years and disabled daughter, she also had no side rails on her bed , she had cerebral palsy, fell out of that bed and broke her fever. Now that suggests my daughter completely disabled, couldn't walk talk or see suffered like she was christ himself. Disgusting .

[@elstal22]

This is 100% my experience.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Check this out - icanslay.com/ Keep slaying!

[@AprilJones-Robertson]

There seems to be a lot of people suffering and benefitting from these tactics and society's games long before my time. It's never been a game, not with all the lives lost and being lost on this planet and wherever else. Apparently no sincere care, love, morals, values, respect or concern for human life regardless of color or sex. Eyes wide open or closed; it's still the same; the blind/deaf man uses other senses and still what they call a Game simply ABUSES/BULLIES THEM...SMH..STANDARDS/SUPPORT SYSTEMS/RESOURCES MANIPULATED AND MISUSED.🎉LOVE OPINIONATED 🎉🎉

[@krboops26]

Hey Ms. Zung, can you do a video about covert narcissists using other people to take you to court? I'm dealing with an ex with a covert narcissistic mother who is using him to take me to court to file for joint custody although he left me while pregnant and will not come see our child despite me trying to get him to do so. She has done this before by using another person she was controlling to take someone to court to get at them while she sat back with her hands clean. She doesn't like things like vaccinations and will try to use my ex (who could care less about our child) to fight and argue with me about things like that. He claims he can't stop our case when I know he's just afraid of her and she's paying for everything. I was only a few days out of the hospital after receiving a c-section when she tricked me into getting on the phone and started insulting me and pushing me for visitation. 1 month and a half post partum I was served papers and she had the lawyer come at me aggressively. She did this knowing I'm out of work and thought I wouldn't be at a disadvantage trying to defend myself but I found a way to get an attorney. Now I have to sit with my ex in mediation in a few days to discuss this when he could care less because he's just his mom's puppet into trying to control me. I've created a timeline, have some proof and I have people that know her willing to testify against her but it's HIS name as the plaintiff which makes this situation that more difficult.

[@msgottaneedtoknow]

SLAY ..!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Keep SLAYing!

[@vlc9521]

that fine i have 2000 pages of pdf files of text messagesand fb post gas lighting me, lieing, silent treatment, cursing me, causing me to have reactive abuse ect....... from 2 years total so now im going for full custody of my son

[@MissBehaving313tv]

Me too it’s going on 1 year for me

[@nath3271]

I’m so ready to shut them down

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Proud of you! You got this ❤

[@lucybraun8969]

Rebecca, even though you are only licensed in FL, there is a manner of practicing in another state via a pro hoc vici motion, in case something comes along outside FL where you feel compelled to get involved. I don't know all the details, but numerous times, I have seen lawyers have these motions granted fairly easily.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@krazychic]

This has been going on behind my back and I Just got hit With 4 show causes and a Motion to have physical custody given to the father and his wife. I'm so scared. They are both drug addicts Habitual and stepmom has Been hitting our son and dad disappeared for the past 8 months but because we have joint custody and I didn't share. Doctor's appointments in school stuff with him that I purposely wasn't including him but I thought he was in jail to be honest with you. And it is too narcissist and I am terrified to go up against these allegations when they are the ones who have been abusing my son. I don't know what to do i'm so scared

[@krazychic]

How do I defend myself against their allegations that? We need a video on how to defend ourselves in court and flip it to show that. They're really the ones that are harming the child I don't know What to do and I don't want to send my son to their house? I'm afraid for him to go there and I dropped the ball because his dad just was not in the picture and he showed up in full force with a. Case ready to throw at me and I had no clue this was going on.

[@missywink1504]

@@krazychic I would file a report with the police and let them know you're desperate. At least you'll have a legal record. Also, contact your local news so they can start an investigation about your rights to protection if the system is not working. I escaped my abusive marriage without having to press charges, however I had a folder on file with the police just in case anything went wrong, or I got hurt. I wish you well.

[@ginaqc78]

@@missywink1504 thank you for the advice ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lucybraun8969]

You should get child protective services involved. They will get to the bottom of who is doing the abusing.

[@brendagadson9618]

Yes

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

You got this! 💪

[@MissBehaving313tv]

I wish I could afford an attorney like you I’m being tortured during this custody dispute and the judge keeps postponing my case causing my son and I more and more stress

[@lucybraun8969]

I'm dealing with issues about hidden assets. Can you give us a game plan on how to get that exposed without a civil lawsuit? I know the banks where Mom's assets were held and where her various retirement income came from, so the D.A. can subpoena those records, but it's hard to know what the narc has left out. I also know where the narc banks. Reverse lifestyle analysis? Mom had 2 retirement incomes, plus rental property income, but her investments also brought in income that the narc is hiding. I have no idea how to get at that.

[@ginabaker9764]

Shut them down!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Louder Gina! 👏

[@-fv5rx]

Yes yes it’s time shut them down

[@MissBehaving313tv]

Slay

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@seliasalto8365]

Shut them down!?!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Proud of you! You got this ❤

[@helenewebster-sisk2407]

It's time to shut them down!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Totally agree!

[@ruthrodriguez7694]

Omg they do use the court system. Ong. I thought when this happened to me, it was insanity first me. I had no idea. Omg.

[@Fun.with.Elizabeth]

Help. Happening right this moment, iam strong.

[@DebSchmidt-go3fw]

Be strong, be good to yourself! Put a protective shield around you ❤

[@elizabethjimenez9729]

Pray fast and meditate

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

You got this! 💪

[@lucybraun8969]

They put lots of lies in the court record. My ex did this non-stop to where he was quadrupling the amount of time I had to put in by proving the lies. It was insane all the crap he made up & put in the court record without a shred of evidence to prove what he would state. And don't think for a second that if you prove their lies that the court will sanction them, or prosecute them for perjury. It won't. You're supposed to just eat all that time & expense you put into proving their lies. If you can, skip court, and just get away from them, or else they will devastate your finances! And the judge doesn't give a damn.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

It is time to SHUT THEM DOWN.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@lucybraun8969]

How can I force the narc to pay the late fees that got assessed against my property because he paid the Decedent's 5/6 share of property taxes late? It was so ridiculous. He tried to con me into believing that I owed ALL the taxes when I only owed 1/6 of them. I DIDN'T TAKE THE BAIT! The told him he had to pay the Decedent's 5/6 share but his delay stunt caused the late fees, and now, he's refusing to pay the late fees he caused on my property.

[@user-bi5mq4yy6r]

I'm bloody angry, not a narcassist.

[@matise889]

Shut them down!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

So glad you found them helpful! Keep Slaying!

[@helenewebster-sisk2407]

"Slay the Nar"

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@nina19275]

Oops I meant can I have one to one session with you

[@enzoonymus3084]

GOD DAMN . My wife lied so much. She's a narcissist. She got a free lawyer Western Mass legal associates . I had zero. She got OUR son , my house. To show what kind of mother she is. Our son died of an over dose. at the age of 21. When our son was eight years old she shut me out of his life. I'm his FATHER. SHE, a nacissist, did the most terrible thing. Very sad. She, "BETH", Always referred to Danny, our son, as" her " son. Oh yeah, HER SON! What a narcissist. Awful, terrible. We all lose. I think of Danny every single day. It's the worst thing to happen to a parent. Danny is dead. At least , I have a wonderful wife now. "BETH" has zero. This should NOT have happened. FORGIVENESS would've stopped this from happening. Divorce and death. Forgiveness. Divorce and death. Which one would you choose? Forgiveness of course! Please learn from our mistakes.

[@terrid.9204]

I am so sorry. My husband suffered all the things you did at the hands of his first wife. Except that none of the kids died. They are now 4 useless adult narcissists now doing the same crap to their children.

[@MissBehaving313tv]

Shut them down

[@gingertully3505]

Shut them down.!!!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Louder!

[@LisaWeakley-mz6hi]

Shut them down. I'm sick of it. 9 years of marriage.

[@surlif]

SHUT THEM DOWN1!!!! Why is it so hard for me not to take the bait?? Probably has to do with born in a different era, and in a culture where women were taught they were supid and needed a man to make it through life. YES! I lived during those times and in that place. Trauma bonded. ughhh... I was so conditioned... So ture.. All of this information from MS Zung is true for me. n

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@nina19275]

Can I gave have one to one session with you.

[@lucybraun8969]

I have visions of him bringing character witnesses for himself and those he has turned against me with his lies. But that's not the issue. There is no character B.S. that can counter his embezzlements.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

[@kat-75]

As my LORD writes down his case's against all of them...😂

[@KennethKephart-xo3vy]

Shut them down 😂

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Proud of you! You got this ❤

[@0.0pumpkin0.0]

Shut them down!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Totally agree!

[@leticiasoto4728]

Shut them down

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you start using today?