Is Love A Feeling or A Choice? | Filipino | Rec•Create Unfiltered

Love has been proven to be both bold and simplistic in the many ways we express it, regardless of whatever obstacle love has faced. But in all this grandeur about the power love comes a big mystery--what makes us do the things we do for love? Is it a feeling that drives us, or a conscious choice that we make?
Join Adea, Einj, Maui, and Jan in this culminative episode as they rewatch Rec•Create's recent episodes on love to finally put the long-time debate to a rest. #OneStepCloser #FreeToLove #CloseupPH
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[@deaaabrnzl]

Love is a feeling and a choice. When you chose to acknowledge that "feeling", then it becomes a "choice" - haha wala mema lang. Thank you Rec•Create, I've been waiting for this squad for new a content.

[@carl_iskolarngbayan]

love, for me, was a feeling that eventually evolved into a choice i knew i would be able to make for the rest of my life. it starts as a feeling. kasi, i don't just randomly pick someone and say, 'oh, he's the one. i'm gonna love him from this second till my last breath'. no. it doesn't work like that for me. we interact, i could learn something, see his character, goals, intentions, etc-and that's what makes me fall. it isn't a choice, it just happens. it becomes felt. pero, syempre, love isn't a flame that burns brightly forever. it isn't always intense. it doesn't have to burn you. sometimes, love is just a mellow ember glistening under the cold, night sky. sometimes, it gets lost. sometimes, it wonders. and that is when love also becomes a choice. a choice to know and relive the reasons why you loved someone. to add fuel. to let it combust and turn into wild flames once more. love becomes a choice when you fight with all your might, while holding the hands of your better half. because frankly, it won't always be intense. it won't always create butterflies in your stomach. it won't be tides but just small ripples in a pond miles away from the stormy sea. and to choose-to decide to continue when love is at its lowest, coldest, and dimmest point... it's all that love could ever be.

[@mhichcampos7966]

shuta ang poetic naman nito pero true I agree

[@jhexdesear6774]

💯

[@tictactin7289]

Love is a feeling, but staying in love is a choice.

[@manerlestiller8093]

Love is a combination of both. Love "starts" with a feeling, and "staying" in love is a choice... Nakakatuwa i-binge watch yun vids niyo. Punong puno ng substance... 👌 Power to you guys! 🤙

[@NatalyaAdea]

❤️❤️❤️

[@PinoyPotterhead]

Love is a feeling, an emotion. You don't choose the person you love. Kusang nararamdaman yun ng puso. Getting into a relationship with the one you love, THAT is a choice. Hindi lahat ng mahal mo, pipiliin mong makasama (o pipiliin ka). At di lahat ng makakasama mo eh automatic mahal mo. Love and relationships are two different sides of the same coin.

[@roswelcodiep.bernardo7288]

So it means po ba pag wala na pong feelings eh wala na pong love? Kasi po feelings come and go eh, may times na masaya kayo at night or masaya kang kasama siya noong gabing nagdate kayo, the feelings are there tapos pagkagising mo di mo na siya mahal kasi wala ng feelings, then pinipilit mong ibalik yung feelings na meron ka the night before but unfortunately, di mo na mabalik kasi tuyong tuyo na damdamin mo, then in fact surang sura ka na din makita siya kasi nga di na tulad nong gabing may feelings ka pa po sa kanya. Kaya love is more than a feeling kasi feelings come and go but love is there to stay.

[@ohyikes5743]

Love is a feeling. I believe every choice that we make is influenced by our feelings. When we choose to keep a person, to fight for a relationship, to continue to trust amidst uncertainties etc., this is because we feel that it’s the right thing to do or it’s going to be worth it. Whatever it is there’s always a certain feeling that pushes us towards a certain choice. I think, ultimately love is a feeling.

[@walfischtelford3777]

IMHO, hindi kailangan pag-hiwalayan yung "feeling" or "choice". Gaganahan ka ba magpa-pogi/magpa-ganda, or makipag-date pag hindi mo type yung tao (aka feeling)? Conversely, type mo nga yung tao, hindi ka makatulog, lagi mo sya iniisip, pero wala ka naman ginagawa or hindi mo hinahabol (choice), so wala ring mangyayari. Your positive feelings and emotions, will spur you to make conscious choices in pursuing that other person. The choice to pursue the other person becomes fuel that further your feelings.

[@MiguelSalazar-on5mf]

Love is a FEELING. It's your CHOICE to keep it.

[@janarcilla2736]

Love is the anatomy of staying. Choice is the act of responsibility. Feeling is the way of your mood towards with someone.

[@brentvillanueva15]

Choice 100% Love needs to be chosen and felt when your mind connects with your heart. These 2 need to be "shaking hands" and working in tandem. Love is a product of when heart and mind agree with eachother. Pinoys are emotional people and from what I see,, many make more of an emotional decision versus a logical one. A lot of emotional people never think of consequences and that leads to a fabrication of what "love" shouldn't be.

[@jcviterbo]

Will you still choose the person even if you don't feel anything towards him/her? You cannot just choose a person because of no reasons. You chose them because you have feelings towards them.

[@roswelcodiep.bernardo7288]

@@jcviterbo that is from the start lang naman, you both choose each other because of the "feeling" pero pag nagtagal na kayo eh you minsan nawawalan na ng spark, butterflies or feelings. Are you still going to stay or not? Break up is a common experience sa couple or sa taong nakabase lang sa bugso ng damdamin ang pagmamahal. Yes it is a fact that love is a chemical reaction inside the brain kasi nagrereact ang chemicals like dophamin, norepinephrine at serotonin sa brain kapag may love and it produces "good or great feeling" pero I say unto you that love is more than that. Sa kasalan kapag ang couple ay magsasabi na ng commitment nila sa isa't-isa di nila sinasabi na "as long as I feel it I will keep on loving you" ang sinasabi nila "no matter what happen through ups and downs, I will stay choose to stay and keep on loving you". See? Lahat nakabase sa choice, commitment and decision HINDI SA FEELINGS.

[@roswelcodiep.bernardo7288]

Yup, napansin ko din sa generation na ito especially sa kabataan. Porket crush lang liligawan agad, take note nasa stage pa lang ng pagkakaroon ng infatuation pero nauwi agad sa ligawan.

[@iyannlee]

Love initially will be more about feeling, then as the time goes forward, as you know more about someone's soul, it will be either you hold and choose love or move and find love with someone else.

[@jmdoromal1288]

Nag level up na talaga ang show kudos guys 😍 It's always be a choice parin kahit anong ma fefeel mo on ups and downs, but to stay and last is always be a choice.

[@NatalyaAdea]

🥺❤️🙏🏽

[@jmdoromal1288]

@@NatalyaAdea chosss na notice pa nga hi adea 😍😍💕

[@miguelmitiam9747]

Ang ganda ng buhok ni Maui huhu para siyang model ng Cream Silk

[@mauitang3096]

Ben N Ben here i come

[@Mae-sc2ol]

Love is involuntary and an all encompassing “perfect” imagine of acceptance and tolerance but as humans we are not perfect. We get angry, impatient and reserved even to those we love. Saying that love is a choice means that in times when someone you love show imperfection in their actions/reaction (eg anger), we can chooses to show patience or grace to the one we love. Basically showing empathy, of course in a healthy level and not in a manipulative way. Love being a choice is also making difficult choices, knowing that letting them go and putting yourself first is a way of loving them because it allows for the individual to grow.

[@denisec7322]

I wish meron kayong Spotify podcast sobrang love ko kayo panoorin dito sa US. Pls pls pls lang beke nemen

[@butteredtoast7656]

Love is a feeling. A working and loving relationship is a choice.

[@justineparaiso8115]

Love for me is both a feeling and a choice, coz when you choose to embrace that feeling of being loved then you can choose that feeling over and over again to last forever

[@justinedomi]

I'm still not finished watching the whole video but I'm already craving for another episode of Re.create Unfiltered :D More topics please :D

[@dyarkiventures]

It's always be a choice parin kahit anong ma fefeel mo on ups and downs, but to stay and last is always be a choice.Thank you Rec•Create, I've been waiting for this squad for new a content.

[@jessielletenorio4024]

I think it is a choice that is directed by our feelings/emotions. It is a choice with the prerequisite of having that certain feeling for an individual. Because at the end of the day, you make your choices based on what you think would make you "happy" on the long run. You could choose to stay in the relationship because you "feel" that in the long run it would make you the happiest or you could end a relationship because you don't see it as something that could give you happiness. Love is something that you choose to have for the feeling that it gives you.

[@notme3381]

10:01 this one speaks to me a lot. As a person who was in a relationship with someone younger, most of the time, mindset lng sya. It will always be a compromise. Compromise. Compromise.

[@sky_1iwana9]

Love is complex in nature because for me it is the ultimate way of expressing affection to others. 'Di pwedeng makulong lang sa dalawang category yerns. It's a combination of (to name a few) feelings, choices, commitment, and most importantly efforts. In short, it's a verb lels HAHAHAHA Anyways, I'm sooo late huehue! I miss you 4 AAAAAHHHHH

[@ricastarax]

What a great topic. For me, it’s both a choice and a feeling wala nang explanation mahirap eh

[@johnreysicuan9345]

yun na nga , miss this conversation. - feeling for me but depende pa rin sa dynamic or state ng tao or even priority kaya madalas nagiging choice

[@wjjayne71629]

This show never failed to make me feel and realize so many emotions at once.

[@ma.joannebual8128]

Ayos na ayos. Good snack before editing our research paper.

[@mauitang3096]

Wag na edit, oras na mag landi!

[@ninadrangon]

Para saken love is both a feeling and a choice. Syempre pano ba natin masasabi na mahal natin ang isang tao kung wala tayong nafefeel na gusto natin silang mahalin? Of course naturally as humans, we have emotions and our emotions leads to different kinds of feelings especially *LOVE*❤️. After that feeling, comes the part when you make a decision, a choice, kung mamahalin mo yung tao araw-araw or kung siya palagi pipiliin mo, bukod tangi sa ibang tao. So despite the different situations and problems that may and will occur, nasa sayo and desisyon or *CHOICE* kunggg pipiliin mo parin syang mahalin despite everything. So love is a strong feeling and a choice, its both for me ❤️

[@kimelisha9966]

Yes love is a feeling and a choice. But for me, a long lasting love is a love rooted from a choice. You choose to love that person everyday regardless of your feelings. Because our feelings is fleeting, there will be times that we feel so in love with that person, specially at the early stage, there'll be times that you don't feel like you love them, like it's lost, but it's just the feelings that was lost and you just need to keep reviving it. You should both keep showing your love to each other even if you don't feel like it, and the feelings will eventually come back. 🙂 But this applies to healthy relationships, some toxic ones needs to be let go.

[@klarizcadiz6067]

Love can be felt and expressed in so many forms. And we choose on how and whom to send it.

[@jmtaguines2897]

the two is interconnected, one cannot occur without the other

[@binibinispurse985]

Love is always a choice that often requires sacrifice. Sacrifice yourself, your emotions, your boundaries kasi mahal mo e.

[@adrianne1120]

I think love is a feeling. Relationship is a choice. We can choose to have a relationship with someone because we are feeling in love with that someone. We also have a choice not to pursue a relationship with someone we're in love with because of various reasons. We can also choose to have a relationship with multiple people without love because we just want to feed our ego. So for me, relationship is a choice. And as for love, we can never choose the person whom to fall in love with.

[@kihms7679]

Ang ganda ng episode. Feeling ko nakikichill lang ako kasama yung tropa.

[@neeyalj2053]

I like the idea of using videos as references to this topic. Salamat Rec-Create and Close-up!

[@NatalyaAdea]

Salamat sa pag member 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@jeaniminerales5578]

True..at least may reference noh. Ganda non.

[@kasamahanco5961]

Love is a feeling that evolves into a choice.

[@imnotsane1496]

Kung pipili lang ako ng isa I would lean more into "Love is a Choice." I believe kasi na kahit gaano mo pa kagusto yung tao, gaano pa ka-intense yung feelings mo para sakanya. Kung hindi kayo para sa isa't isa, hindi talaga kayo para sa isa't isa.

[@theresataminaya966]

For me, love is not a choice but staying in love is.

[@ronxygar699]

Each person has his/her own definition of love.

[@NatalyaAdea]

Truelaloo

[@axlne_lei]

Love is a feeling but proving me wrong is your choice If you know , you know Love is a feeling kase you felt it, but if you got hurt by that someone its a choice if you still gonna love him/her kase you chose na, na feel mo na loving can hurt but you chose so its either feeling with a wise thinking on how and when to love and choose A note : brain controls everything, controls your feeling and thinking so what im gonna say is that learning is fun!

[@angtamadnaexplorer6939]

Love is an emotion..it will never be a choice. Kasi kung pwede pala piliin ang love, a lot of people will not choose to get hurt.

[@audeng5256]

I just feel like the moment I saw the title itself, Love is a feeling because the moment you feel something to a person that is the start of everything.

[@yveskiana7587]

I like Maui and Adea’s hairrrrr ang fresh nila skfnsnfjdjf

[@mauitang3096]

We like u too

[@NatalyaAdea]

Like ka rin ng hair ko

[@RJGonzales09]

HOOOOOOOOYYYYYYYY!!! I feel bad for watching this later than the premiered day! Urgh! >.< Anywayyyy I miss you FOUR as in Legit!

[@NatalyaAdea]

BAKIT KA LAAAAATE. CHZ HAHAHA

[@mauitang3096]

Hoy ka rin

[@RJGonzales09]

@@NatalyaAdea nag-zumba pa kasi ako ng malala haha chosss! 😅

[@RJGonzales09]

@@mauitang3096 hoyyyy Maui! Ang bongga ng mga insights mo talaga sa mga discussion! 🥴

[@jethroodi6696]

May be a biased answer but as an aromantic person, I always believe that love is a feeling.

[@patruzkadizon6328]

Feelings can be fleeting. Love will always start as a feeling.. but staying in Love, Choice Yan. If we only rely on our love na feelings Lang sya, break na Lang tayo kapag di mo na mafeel dba. Pero hindi Ganon eehhhhh.... pipiliin mo magstay Diba, kahit parang ayaw Mona or kahit hindi mo na feel na inlove ka.. Pipili ka ... Paglalaban mo ung naramdaman mo nung UNA. Bakit nga ba ako Nainlove sayo in the first place.. then papasok n Yung decision " I love you and will love you.. inspite or despite of your flaws, will accept you as a whole .. not just loving one part of you.. but as you ARE" ... Ayan choice na Yan...

[@kookiecrunchy]

Choice, there are people I fell for that I did not choose to be with because I assumed we wouldn't be compatible as a couple.

[@samthin2paused933]

Actually life is a choice, love is a commitment.

[@dennispablo5972]

Finally backk

[@MaiMai-om7cz]

Hope you can feature also stories of NBSBs and NGSBs in this day and age.😊

[@ralph4536]

Love is a feeling and the choice is to commit.

[@giancarlomagat2103]

Sa wakas may bagong uploadddd

[@AbdulnaimSingh31]

I’m an hours late. Pero still, always get excited pag may new epi of unfiltered.

[@NatalyaAdea]

🥺❤️

[@eloisaamorante2044]

Momma jan dahil wala kang bagong vid, dito ko na lang sasabihin. I received na ung heimish colab mo, vongga! Can't wait to use it! Love y'all recreate fam!

[@NatalyaAdea]

Reklamo tayo bakit wala pa bagong vid si Jan. Chz HAHAHAHA

[@penelopeyang5428]

Nafefeel mo yung love kaya pinipili mo na mag stay at magmahal kayaaa both 🧡

[@sofiaclaricebicierro9748]

love (verb) is a feeling while love (verb) is a choice

[@NatalyaAdea]

Alexa play love is a verb by John Mayer

[@angelmariegegawin9475]

OMG YEHEEY NEW CONTENT

[@alvinkennethcabanlit463]

It definitely is a choice.

[@alanjose1112]

Welcome back gang ! Solid solid

[@mariatheresaguzman6410]

Love is a feeling. It became only a choice when you raised your standard in love.

[@katedessaramos1620]

Cute talaga ni Maui hahhaa crush since day 1

[@mauitang3096]

Thank you for the support kahit mahaba na buhok ko

[@roswelcodiep.bernardo7288]

For me love is not a feeling, it is a commitment that you are going to love or choose to love the person no matter what happen. Kung feelings lang ang love then darating din ang araw na pagkagising mo ng umaga eh di mo na mahal yung partner kasi yang love mo nakabase lang sa bugso ng damdamin.

[@kensabellina6242]

I hope mag ka podcast kayo grabe nakaka enjoy kayo pakinggan. Love you all!

[@brigettemanalang1015]

Oh shoot hinintay ko yung knock knock!!!!!! 😤😤🤣🤣

[@NatalyaAdea]

HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@emmajournal]

waited so long for thiss!! finally another unfiltered ep!! yay!

[@amielll]

Antagal kung hinintay to nakakamiss salamaaat!

[@user-bn8tk4md6b]

Medyo naguluhan po ako anong theme ng ep na to pero happy parin finally an unfiltered ep hahaha morre plss

[@NatalyaAdea]

Ako rin naguluhan na chz hahaha thanks for watching!!

[@uppereastsidehoney4055]

Yayy balik na naman unfiltered casts

[@villaruzJL]

...and they're back ❤

[@desmondmiles1066]

Love is both a feeling and a choice. I loved someone for 10 years. We lived together. But I chose to leave. Painful reality is, in this World, Love is not enough. I want my partner to grow. But she chose to love me without growing. And its killing me. I want her to grow. I just want her to shine because I see her potential better than me. I'm a private person and I will never be famous. Unlike her, effortless na sisiskat sya. I always support her, but she feels secured beside me. Which makes her complasant, kampante. I just want her to grow, because that's what she needs for herself. I thought her how to love herself, because she just gave me everything. And she wants to stay that way. I'm still moving on. But I know I'll be okay. She'll be okay.

[@perfectlyimperfectmae6137]

for me lang ha pinag isipan ko talaga to, i think love is a feeling kasi diba di mo mapipigilan o mapipili sino magugustuhan mo so love is definitely not a choice.

[@amaliamoreno5193]

Namiss namin kayooooooooo!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@joviemaeantoque5547]

Love is a choice, as everything is a choice.

[@penelopeyang5428]

Parang namiss ko tong 4 na to ✨

[@uppereastsidehoney4055]

No. But ki-nut yung joke ni Einj hahaha. Miss Einj I'm curious, pakiulit dito sa comment section, we're listening.

[@gellylacson6389]

Love is a feeling. Staying inlove is a choice.

[@sidlaluz5433]

Can't concentrate kasi sobrang fresh niyong lahat dito. Hahaha. Pero ang light nito. Fun. Ganda ng topic. Very funny.

[@frtzbbc]

i miss seeing u 4 on one fraaame, aaaa loveu

[@NatalyaAdea]

Labyu too 🥺🥺🥺

[@orkslea5740]

Love is a feeling. Relationship is a choice✌️

[@clarkmarano9506]

Finally hahaha sana regular na kayooo nakakainip mag abaaaang ahha

[@ting.8252]

G na G si Einj hahahahahahaha namiss ko Unfiltered sobra!!!

[@manoypolo]

Sa mundo ng mga encountered couples, LOVE is a decision.

[@ravenrawrness3347]

I MISS THIIIIIIIS TO MORE SPONSORS AND VIDEOS THIS 2022

[@khiannadalida]

Another episode of Recreate Unfiltered, please!

[@quienweller3752]

Bat ang fresh nyong lahat 😫😫😫

[@NatalyaAdea]

Nakapag Closeup po kasi hehe

[@biancacheyserrenriquez8465]

Hair treatment o hair shampoo reveal naman Maui Hahahaahaha

[@mauitang3096]

Wag matulog ng maaga

[@NatalyaAdea]

@@mauitang3096 Wag maligo ng 1 week

[@gemarmanuba7089]

love maui's hair tho 😌

[@mauitang3096]

Yaan gusto ko yan hehe

[@perfectlyimperfectmae6137]

"how can you build a life that someone that's far away" big word ha.

[@DerillPlays]

For me, love is a feeling. Choice is just a privilege to pick someone who would you want to stay with. You can choose who ever you want without in the state of being in love. It is true that love fades, if that happens, then its not by choice. No one can shutdown feelings. If you do that, you just looked like in denial or dealing with mental health issues.

[@JaymeeTalag]

Love is a choice.

[@keshiachristelle5112]

love starts with a "feeling" and it lasts because it's our "choice"

[@MizzBonna]

Love, as a whole, is a state of mind.

[@cloudblinky6189]

Sana all nalang sa buhok ni Maui 😭❤️

[@mauitang3096]

Im sure maganda din buhok mo

[@teacherjoshua4333]

miss ko kayo kuyas and ates 💕

[@Carmi15]

Found a new fave content sa tropang ito! :3

[@mariayvette5535]

Bakit ang bilis ng 15 mins huhuhu, more paaaa with the squad!!!

[@ghymarcaida5850]

maui is such a daddy

[@mauitang3096]

Pangarap ko maging house-husband

[@CrazyBeAsian]

Missed this bunch!

[@NatalyaAdea]

[@marcleodolotina8077]

Tara Valorant, Maui

[@marcnas142]

Parang nagcombo yung mga previous episodes niyo sa relationship struggle ko ngayon ha. Hahaha. I met a guy via dating app and he's four years older than me and our place are very distant. Anyways, personally, love is both feeling and choice. Feeling is your input and choice is the output.

[@leeiversonbuelis8703]

Namiss ko 'to!!!