When Is Someone Being Toxic? | Filipino | Rec•Create Unfiltered

In this episode, Jan, Maui, Adea, and Einj talk about when is someone being toxic, how to deal with toxic relationships, and toxic traits that they might have.
DISCLAIMER: All cast and crew are vaccinated and have tested negative in COVID-19 Ag tests before being allowed on set. Necessary health protocols were in place throughout the duration of the shoot.
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[@zarishiamaini997]

When a person forces you to compromise your growth in life, just for them to keep you as a source of personal support. TOXIC.

[@jefreyjamisal2428]

this ..... oh damn!

[@DJ-rd2db]

💯💯

[@buhagsigwasan2259]

TAMA

[@NatalyaAdea]

Nako na tumpak mo

[@lemon_q]

good definition 👍 nafeel ko yun

[@gab7683]

i feel like i'm toxic when i expect people to give the same thing i give. I get mad when I don't receive the same treatment. I blame people just bc i assumed we're on the same page. sometimes i forgot that people have their own life. This made me realize that i'm toxic enough for controlling other people and forcing them to do what I think is good for me and not for them. So I saved them from me, i cut them off bc I don't want to be known as someone's negativity.

[@mcdodudo]

Omg sameeeee

[@monkey6547]

same

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😊😊

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😊

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yes please!!

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Paging Rec-create, paging po!

[@firetruck6441]

YES but kinda digging na yung facial expressions and meme-ified video nila HAHAHAHA besides my Un-Create podcasts na and minsan guests sila doon.

[@bigsimp8621]

YES PLEASEEE OMG PLEASE PLEASE

[@johnedwardcombo4749]

When a 'friend' keeps on invalidating your feelings, and sometimes, your ideas.

[@neilzskie1]

Everyone has his/her own toxic traits. Thus, someone should develop self awareness towards others and oneself. It is where you understand each other and compromise. (Para lang sakin) ✌️

[@NatalyaAdea]

Agree!

[@elledee_lyrics]

bongga and pak ganern. 1.1.22

[@annethdarrenmalit6978]

Can we talk about how Adea looked so goddamn good at that h&m promotion😍😭😍😭

[@NatalyaAdea]

🥺

[@annethdarrenmalit6978]

@@NatalyaAdea omg hi!! keep safe💕

[@mykabautista543]

Truth

[@NatalyaAdea]

@@annethdarrenmalit6978 Salamat 🙏🏾 Stay safe as well !!!

[@wllflwrwni]

100%

[@harveyitliong3043]

Toxicity means two persons. It could possibly be a person who gives his environment a sense of uncomfortability in a way that he act so off the line. Or, a person who points someone as 'toxic' well in-fact, it's the narrowness and shallowness of his mind that triggers him to nitpick someone and just point someone as toxic. TOXIC.

[@angelshen2]

Coming from a toxic friendship: -body shamed so hard for being thin -parang may halong insecurity whenever you achieved something -called you crazy or sakitin or prinsesa (I have several health problems which require me to take a lot of medication) -rejected your suggestions and indirectly told you that your suggestions suck So happy we no longer talk! I’m done 🙏 -

[@jb-cx9fe]

Yakap! Super nakakarelate ako. I had the same experience lalo na sa 1st and 2nd. Pero buti di na rin ako friends with her. Madalas na sabihin niya sa akin is "hindi kita binabody shame ha, pero ang payat mo talaga" tapos minsan she'll measure my wrist using her hand. Giiirl ano yon?! Tapos prinoproject niya yung insecurities niya sa akin just to make herself feel good pero in the expense of hurting me.

[@angelshen2]

@@jb-cx9fe we don’t need body shamers in this world! Hope you’re doing well now!

[@spiderscurry5614]

😢😢

[@kathleendheniz141]

Have healthy boundaries. Cutting off someone is not a bad thing. It is for your own sake and to have healthy mind and perspective in life

[@sanchezmadelineb.4204]

i definitely love this sesh I needed thiss

[@angelshen2]

I love Einj’s style hereeee

[@sapphyrekier3947]

For me nagiging toxic ang relationship or environment when you feel drained afterwards and you keep thinking if there's something wrong with you, am i not enough, what did i do in a way that you can't find what's missing on you Kasi di pala sayo yung caused what other people made you feel pala, and sometimes we can't realize it at the moment but you always feel not good being around them

[@rissa8956]

when they always invalidate your feelings and emotions and also, when they're being so insensitive, talks about you when you're not around and you can feel the vibe sis. NEGATIVE PEOPLE.

[@rissa8956]

wala silang pake sa mga ginagawa nila. kahit alam naman nilang mali, they still do it.

[@mq6845]

trot

[@NatalyaAdea]

@@mq6845 truts

[@rissa8956]

@@NatalyaAdea omg!! hi adea eheh ^-^

[@monkey6547]

My mom does this.

[@rhensonjohndelacruz]

Yung sinabe ni Adea na, "Toxic friendship". May tinuro yung teacher na'min about that na never kong kakalimutan. Yung pagiging ✨plastic✨. Sabi ng teacher ko, "You should tell that to the person that He's/She's a plastic, not backstabbing about Her/Him being a plastic, because backstabbing is already plastic." Mas na guilty kami noong sinabe niya na, "You will realize na plastic ka rin pala kung nagbabait-batian ka sa kaibigan mong plastic. Alam mo na ngang plastic kaibigan mo, ikaw rin nagpaplastic-plastikan sa kaniya."

[@havenfrulishapadilla8425]

Toxic for me is when a person invalidates me and makes me question my whole being.I am currently learning on how to appreciate and love myself more and let go of the people who disturbs my peace. To more contents like this!Kuddos Rec-create ✨

[@withrutchelle]

What does invalidation means?

[@TeacherMB]

Sa panahong ito, i try to avoid toxic people. Kaya pag iniiwasan n nila ako, i also reflect kung nagiging toxic n din ba ako. And try not to be

[@legen_dharyll]

I really love the sensibility of these people. Idagdag mo pa yung sense of humor nila. 🙌🏼

[@MxzGelai17]

Topic suggestion: How do you motivate/discipline yourself as a young adult?

[@RJGonzales09]

Gosh! This is very timely to me. I just evaluated how to smart-handle these people. But I guess if it really bothers your mental health and like what Einj said na it's breaking your core as a person then I think that's the time you call-out or you cut ties that relationship. You are responsible to your own welfare and peace of mind, that's one concrete reason. Kaya kahit masakit na i-end ang ano mang toxic relationship na meron ka, you should end it.

[@randiemismanos3476]

i super love this barkada!!! u guys are so underrated you deserve more viewssss!!!!

[@chloeyowii1011]

every unfiltered episode is always worth the wait

[@legen_dharyll]

Sa true lang. ❤️

[@jamesmercurial6360]

I define toxic as an intentional or unintentional unnecessary behavior.

[@sourcherry23]

Had to come out from a very toxic 20 years of friendship 2 years ago and all of this are very relatable! Thank you guys! 😃

[@twinflame9497]

Thank you guys for making me sane all throughout this quarantine sh*ts. Sana marami pa kayong topics na mapag-usapan … ❤️

[@Rec.Create]

Hang in there!

[@chedhelnangit2728]

ang ganda ng umaga ko 🤍 dapat kasi araw araw kayo nag a upload 😭

[@bonito4621]

I'm new to RecCreate. Im so glad I found this four. The dynamic is so good. The way you guys talk to each other compliments your thoughts towards each other. Keep it up!

[@dustinolan1083]

Salamat sa pa-tutorial 6:53 Pano 'yung bulag 7:31 Pano 'yung shake 8:26 Pano 'yung bukas mata

[@NatalyaAdea]

Tawang tawa na naman ako :((

[@annethdarrenmalit6978]

Its been almost a year that i cut off my childhood friend and my life is much better now. We've known each other for 20yrs. I was the only one constant in her life back then. For the last 3-5yrs she was just so toxic. It was so draining to be with her, took me long to realize lol. So, ayun wag manghinayang sa friendship. Unahin mental health. Cut them off.

[@NatalyaAdea]

Congrats!

[@cmts_123]

Congrats, same din. I cut of my childhood friends for 15 years.

[@cmts_123]

I don't like people who invalidate my feelings and victim blaming.

[@sinister2182]

Pinakatoxic friends para saakin is yung friends ko during my elementary days. Those time wala talaga akong confidence to defend myself. Those times na they manipulate me to be someone I'm not. Ang hirap umahon don kasi my insecurities and doubts grew even more. I'm just blessed I've met friends who help me to rebuild myself. I love you guysss🥰

[@pandoclone8524]

OMG!!! Bakit sobrang ganda ni Einj! 😍😍😍😍

[@apotheker0242]

When someone acts he/she knows everything.

[@jchavez1431]

Ako na may toxic friendship: He can't just accept that people come and people go. Nakakasakal.

[@MrShounenMaster]

I watched this episode again kasi lumabas sa feed ko sa FB and this topic is still relevant today. I just ended a 7 year friendship with my ex-bestfriend and it's one of the best thing I've done this year for myself. Na realize ko kasi na I did outgrow him and he's still there not learning from his mistakes. I've given him so many chances but it never worked out.

[@mauitang3096]

Let us know what other topics you want us to talk about! 🙂 Stay safe, try not to be toxic, thanks for watching!

[@NatalyaAdea]

Tesawrooz

[@louiselo645]

Flirting this pandemic chz HAHAHAHA

[@diannekimberly]

Sana mga 20mins long na mga unfiltered episodes nio po ahahaha bitin, saya nio pakinggan hehez xD

[@mauitang3096]

@@diannekimberly DIREK ALLISON HABAAN MO DAW

[@pattranada2258]

HOY HINDI AKO NANGAAWAY USAP NGA TAYO

[@kennethpetiza5047]

I know that there was an episode already about cancel culture in rec-create, but i really want you guys to talk about it. when is it ok to cancel someone? where do you draw the line between calling out and canceling out someone? I also want to know your opinions on the progression of the culture? do you think it's just for clout? I also want you guys to have a topic about politics. our current governance. what are your opinions about everything that has happened in the past 6 years. Your opinions on our government's response to the pandemic; your opinions on all the corrupted money from the Filipinos by the different government sectors; or even just a discussion on how important voting is. How to choose the right candidates and so on. I really hope you can use this platform to spread awareness and help save our country.

[@gupmitallaica681]

Sana magkaroon ng millenial vs gen z session thingy or like a debate. It would be really interesting! 🖤

[@joceljalber8124]

I define toxic behavior/action as beyond a person's perception of acceptable threshold, either good or bad and it hinders one's performance to function individually

[@vin_796]

Finally, a new upload from unfiltered

[@TeacherMB]

Let's help them to create more episodes and content by joining and be a member 🥰

[@NatalyaAdea]

🥰

[@cleowpewpew2778]

When a person makes you doubt yourself and question what you have build up through the years. Minimal lang yung damage kapag new pa pero through time na accumulate up until unti mo nalang namalayan na broken kana but still hirap mag let go. 🥲

[@lemon_q]

Gusto ko yung topic na we define toxicity kasi may times talaga na we don't realize na toxic na yung relationship or kung ako ba yung toxic pala or hinahayaan ko palang magtiis sa toxicity..

[@johndanielgomez3628]

Topic Suggestion: How to cut someone in your life

[@einjchua1873]

step 1: kuha ka gunting. EME HAHAAHAHHA

[@mcdodudo]

@@einjchua1873 funny haha

[@mcdodudo]

@@einjchua1873 funny haha

[@mcdodudo]

@@einjchua1873 funny haha

[@sharifdaryljumat9861]

Mga barkada ko, ang toxic sa social media. Kaya blocked silang lahat. But we are still friends. We call often and we hangout once in a while. It's possible, na yung mga friends mo ay di mo friends sa social media. 😄

[@michaelbalano]

yung ang seryoso ng usapan tas biglang "pa'no yung seryoso?" tas maya maya may finish the lyrics kantahan na HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA 💯💕

[@firetruck6441]

FIRST JOB talks naman next. IDK i'm curious lang how yall jumped into the workforce when you were a fresh grad or smth hahaha also to give advice na rin sa mga current fresh grads natin.

[@angelicabreros]

Topic suggestion: How will you know if you are mentally and emotionally mature?

[@joquime119]

Namiss ko yung barkada. I'm happy na may uploads na ulit

[@NatalyaAdea]

🥰

[@louieangeloreyes9880]

Very napapanahon ang usapan nato. Pero kudos rin sa editor/s ng nito. Mas nakakadagdag ng fun yung may papasok na videoke lol

[@esnickykai2510]

For me being toxic is when someone is being close-minded to all things that matters 🤣

[@NatalyaAdea]

Agree!

[@audsrodriguez23]

Minsan natatakot ako kase baka ako yung toxic na person Just because I see others behavior na di okay. Iniisip ko na baka mali yung tingin ko sakanila. That's why nilalawakan ko nalang din yung pag iisip ko when it comes to talking to others. Pero meron tlagng i ccross yung boundary na medyo disturbing na talaga. That's when I distance myself. I choose ppl who I wanted to be with. But I also respect others din naman, nakikihalubilo din but sguro may boundary nga lang when it comes to openness. At the end of the day, be with someone who is good for your mental health. And friends who listens and brings joy to you.

[@NatalyaAdea]

Super agree!!

[@kimmycnnn6215]

This channel is so under rated 😭

[@jamesmercurial6360]

Talk about anxiety next!

[@dongssi3967]

if you tolerate somebody who is toxic, it only means youre toxic or you've become toxic yourself. Its either you tell them or you leave them.

[@NatalyaAdea]

It only means you don't love yourself for staying/tolerating

[@dongssi3967]

and that too

[@Svakalega]

I really love this channel I learned something alwaysss💕 more vidssss👏🏻

[@alieexis]

i have also toxic friend na diko alam na toxic na pala sya i just realize this year i mean, nung f2f class pa diko na realize, i just quite alot when her toxic traits out, but im kida trying to out on my life (i hate that compliment me na parang judge nayung compliment nya, idk if its normal na yun or what but its toxic for me) and im also toxic traits somewhere but IM WORKING ON IT ALSO

[@Markyyyyyyy4156]

Ang glowing ni Einj. She pretty.

[@renee5156]

next topic suggestion: how to cope up during the pandemic pls !! huhu been struggling for a long time, i also went AWOL on school + social media; literally isolated myself from everyone for more than a year bc of my terrible mental health:(

[@aleeza3001]

OMG EINJ, di ako mkafocus sa topic kasi ang ganda ng lipstick mo for you SKINTONE!👄💄 omg SOBRANG BAGAY SAYO!

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my favorite team FOR LIFE ADVICES

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New subscriber here! I love this channel! More power to you mga Ates and Kuyas! 💘🤘🏻

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ganda ni miss einj galing pa ata sya from job interview ❤️❤️❤️

[@einjchua1873]

HAHAAHAHAHAHHA TAWANG TAWA AKO DITO

[@johnreysicuan9345]

OY NAMISS KO KAYO! ❤️

[@markanthonyredondo3525]

I wish next time longer duration pa sana ng vid, good to watch kase ehh ❤️

[@trashbins7798]

Please talk about job hopping, cons and pros 😭😭

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Sana magkaroon po kayo ng podcast huhu😭

[@MikeMikeMike2496]

Yeheeey new ep! 🤩

[@owiyanna]

WE NEED MOREEEEEE ❤️

[@cecilgonzales9516]

Yey! New episode! 💜

[@francisjoeribu]

Super excited din ako for the new season of Sex Education!!! ❤️

[@NatalyaAdea]

Excited rin ako sobrang love ko yung series na yon!!!!! Hahahaha

[@Entry-ni-Ken]

This helps! Hahahaha feel na feel ko si maui!

[@justinetarranco9609]

Aww. Nakarelate ako dun sa part na break up with a friend. Kase ive exp that din. Pero sobrang tagal bago ko siya narealize na hindi pala talaga ako yung may "mali" pero yung friendship na meron kami. Basta mahabang story. Hahaha. Love this episode.

[@cielonaranjo6244]

Bat di masyadong nagsalita o nagbigay ng input si Jan 😭 im always looking forward for his thoughts

[@miguelvictormendoza442]

THANKS FOR THIS AAAAAAAAHHHH!! PLS MAKE A PODCAST IF POSSIBLE

[@christianjosephanzures6129]

Topic suggestion: Filipino beauty standard

[@ninaong3704]

Yehhey another episode ❤️❤️

[@jaidaannviluan9664]

Hands down my fave segment. ☺️

[@elibyun5811]

Miss Einj anong lipstick 'yaaan? 😩 Looks so good!

[@Xonomit]

Can u guys educate me? Is it considered toxic to yourself when you're still trying to fit in a certain environment (ex. classmates) even though they reject you to the point it destroys your emotional health? This person is extroverted and it triggers his anxiety when his environment is ignoring him.

[@louiselo645]

NAMISS KO KAYO UNFILTERED FAM!!

[@NatalyaAdea]

[@s.tres.s5031]

breaks promises often 🚩🚩🚩🚩 if reasonable naman or out of their control yung reason then it's generally okay pa sa akin

[@gaebriel1594]

yesss einj!!! i dogshow mo lang sila emZ

[@celestialdonut3146]

Blooming ni Einj!

[@yannamaine]

yung di na tinapos vid, para lang umorder ng sex ed shirt!! lol nabudol na naman

[@bastadmokilala]

NAMISS KO 'TO!!! & AKO LANG BA NAKAPANSIN? PERO ANG FRESSH NI MS. EINJ!!!! ❤ HAHAHAHA

[@comshop3397]

andami kong laugh hahahahaha yung serious ka nakikinig tas natatawa ka para akong baliw mag isa dito nanunuod

[@3lyhkn3zn3d6]

Bat late kk nakita mga vids ng apat na to? ,😭😭😭 sana may new episodes sila soon ung latest sana please

[@kathleendheniz141]

More videos please. I love you four🥰😍😘😘😘 abangers lagi sa videos niyo.

[@gessybayaborda8209]

I agree with Adea.. being toxic is same as being manipulative

[@legen_dharyll]

Hala. Sorry. May pagkamanipulative kasi ako eh.

[@gessybayaborda8209]

@@legen_dharyll it's good that ur aware . ako din nmn may pagka manipulative that is my most toxic trait. minsan tlaga di lng natin maiwasan esp. when we wanted attention or care I think

[@NatalyaAdea]

Sabi ni google wikihow (sana makatulong) 3 ways to stop being manipulative 1. Notice if you make someone feel guilty or shameful to get your way. 2. Stop twisting the truth. 3. Notice if you’ve been withholding something to get your way. (ex: using your friend's weaknesses or insecurities to get something you want)

[@gessybayaborda8209]

Is this Adea that we all know?🥺 awwe. thanks Lodi❤️

[@legen_dharyll]

@@NatalyaAdea big help. Thank you po.

[@irishjoyarabe8015]

miss einj, bat ang ganda?

[@ejbeumont8092]

"Ang ganda ng mga damit nila." Okay. Panunuorin ko! AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@dreicornelio22]

Nakakamiss kayo!✨🌈

[@NatalyaAdea]

[@ariesity]

gusto ko yung ang seryoso ng usapan tas bigla silang kakanta HAHHAHAHAHHAAH

[@philipwithluv1263]

Does wanting constant attention from friends and or in general can be considered a toxic trait?

[@roic5991]

If you caught your partner using a chat app as a diversion from being bored and they keep making it several times but then, you keep forgiving them because you love that person, do you also consider yourself as a toxic person by staying with that person?

[@justinsabater6932]

can u guys please do an podcast, i really like listening to it.

[@noviportugal4432]

MISSED U GUYS

[@NatalyaAdea]

❤️

[@baristayai8643]

How about Body Shaming ?

[@kaissaformentera2589]

Maouiiiii 🥰

[@mauitang3096]

Kaissa 🤯

[@jaycob1312]

This is a self guide episode

[@Solen7230]

I don't if I'm toxic or not. But i sure did some toxic things.