Recognizing Energy Vampires

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[@XavierCarter9129]

Thank you for this video. I love how you spoke on various types. I have a “friend” of 20 years that is absolutely an energy vampire. In my experience there’s no point in telling them anything about how they are or how they make you feel because they will just deny it and play the victim. So what I’ve learned to do is just limit my interaction with her. It to the bare minimum at the point. And even the few moment I lend to her via a phone call, it’s always the same thing. Her blabbing constantly, not caring what I have to say and no consideration for my time.

[@juliantruitt4037]

It’s a bit harsh, but I’m always reminded of this piece of advice from William S Burroughs: “If, after having been exposed to someone's presence, you feel as if you've lost a quart of plasma, avoid that presence. You need it like you need pernicious anemia.”

[@siouxsielover88]

I have a story about this... So my friend and I were talking about fasting, and he was like I wish I didn't have to eat at all. And I was like sun gazing, maybe you could get energy from that instead of eating? What we stumbled upon immediately afterwards blew our minds. We found a blog basically saying everyone is an energy vampire, but some are to a bigger extent than others and there are mainly 4 different ways this expresses it's self. This reminded us of one of our favorite books the Celestine prophecy, in which they discuss control dramas (the intimidator, the interrogator, the aloof, and poor me.) It went on to say if we didn't want to continue to live this way, stealing the energy from others, that there were energy practices we could do to draw energy from the earth instead. Which got us into the tao... which suggested if you dug hard enough, one could obtain immortality. I have a lot of focus and energy problems, I do have to say, qi gong has helped. It could be all in my head, but then again...

[@eleven9286]

Umi. I was just googling "Am I an energy vampire" and was thinking deeply about the way I act. Then I see this. The synchronicities have been telling me to listen to your wisdom. Thanks for what you do.

[@umi_speaks]

🙏🏽 Self reflection is a powerful sign we are growing and preparing to move in harmony with our highest good. Giving thanks for Divine timing and confirmations

[@kaybee1025]

You read right through the situation. I don't know what encouraged you to post on that topic but sincerely thank you. Recently I have been dealing with friends ODing (2 of them from different countries) and another continuously texting me how she wants to end her life all the way in VA. Why she is not contacting someone who is close to her who can run to her side is as puzzling as it can get. It's been 2 years dealing with the 'I am done with life....you are such a good friend for being there for me...why me?' Then every advice is brushed aside or discarded. Imagine waking up to several texts of "I am done with life...I am going to do it" - noticed she sent these texts 2hrs ago and then when I called her and she answered and replied she is fine now😑😤😤😤 The emotional toll this is taking on me; at the same time fear that someone you once knew x themselves while reaching out to you (having a previous history of that)😔

[@umi_speaks]

I hear you 100%. 🥺 That is a lot to have to deal with because at some point we low key stop taking that person seriously all the while knowing we would feel horrible if something really happened. Sending you strength and liberation in that situation 🙏🏽

[@kaybee1025]

@@umi_speaks thank you Peace to you too

[@ptahamenra173]

Great video again. Thank you great one. Part of healing is to ask myself “ do I do that?” Thank you great one, the world is so much better with you! Tua Ntr

[@umi_speaks]

🙏🏽 I appreciate the love. And I agree, we all have to reflect on our patterns and behaviors and how it’s showing up in the lives of others.

[@davidsisk9013]

Thank you god bless you and yours,I love your knowledge and advice

[@jdgolden8082]

Your wise and very passionate. I am very grateful for your uploads. Please continue to share the knowledge because it is some of the best and most honest that I have heard on youtube. Thank you!

[@from410tl]

I have listened to many of people breakdown energy vampires and your message resonated more with me than others. Excellent breakdown. Peace and love to all

[@davidsisk9013]

Thanks and god bless you and your family

[@Faith-eu7nw]

On point - thank you for your insight and wisdom🙏. Much appreciated.

[@umi_speaks]

You’re welcome ✨

[@just-simplymarvelous]

she duplicate a situation i went through no less than three days ago

[@thunderscorpion770]

You're so amazing! 💜🦂💜

[@umi_speaks]

Right back at cha 😁

[@SAMUEL_E_Tellem]

Super on point. Much appreciated!!!!!!

[@umi_speaks]

Thanks King ✨

[@kekemccaw1122]

Very great video. Thank you Umi 🙏🏼

[@umi_speaks]

Thank you for tuning in ✨

[@just-simplymarvelous]

! chiiiiile ! ! preach woman preach !

[@Fairy_eclipse]

You’re stunning. Such an informative video. ~*🤍Blessings🤍*~

[@stephenfoster5064]

OMG I have recently found out that we are energy etc and this energy vampires theory is overwhelming and exactly what I have just gone through

[@aprilavenue1996]

Awesome video!🥰 Thank you for sharing. I waste no time... I cut the cord immediately, respectfully.

[@umi_speaks]

✨ Amen. Many blessings on your journey 😊

[@bastiangreene8447]

The message is spot on. The hardest thing is communicating your feelings, and worse still, when the other party ignores....

[@umi_speaks]

So true. It’s a step in the right direction of safeguarding yourself, eventually they have no choice but to listen or move on.

[@bastiangreene8447]

@@umi_speaks absolutely. Keep up the good work

[@CharlyOkosi]

Great VIDEO!! i enjoyed this thouroughly. Luv what you do UMI I am walking away energized +add to my favz. at a place on my journey where these exact scenarios are teaching me huge lessons about personal growth. Im happy on my own but a lady who is in tune like Umi might help balance me out from time to time and share the hi frequencies would be awesome. guys when you have that good energy be very cautious even stingy about how its used make sure to remember you have final say over that. Vamps will try to make you feel shame/guilt for practicing energy retention they can sense that you are doing it, and it makes them want your energy even more. Keep those high vibes everyone never let the vamps bring you down. haha Im serious never. 🙏 bless up

[@umi_speaks]

😊✨ Thank you for sharing those powerful words of wisdom on energy preservation. I appreciate the positive feedback ❤️

[@MrRese633]

Big "G" brought me here.🤞🏽💯💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 thank you!!

[@umi_speaks]

✊🏾 Thanks for stopping thru

[@oskerhenderson9969]

OMG Oh my my my...... Speak on it. Because thats what I grew up with. And now these individuals still today are like that. From youth to adult. I found myself having to isolate myself from these individuals. And its not easy.

[@umi_speaks]

Peace... I hear you. Isolation isn’t such a bad idea for that very reason, to maintain a peace of mind. You’re right, it’s not easy, but we eventually strike a balance.

[@just-simplymarvelous]

Laughed at, "maybe you should seek some counciling" goodness

[@umi_speaks]

It be like that sometimes 😬😄🙃

[@oskerhenderson9969]

OMG.... Your right

[@TheeOfficialSufiWoman]

Agreed💛

[@lovelettersfromhades9659]

100% facts

[@mathiaslwolf]

Notice how I am the person not one who recognized the “energy vampire” within myself in this thread. I honestly have a nasty taste in my mouth from the “spiritual” “community” after over a decade of absolute commitment to my own healing and growth in recovery and life, with my feet of the ground and head very well aware of the character defects and assets that construct as trauma and loss happen and the ego takes the place of the identity, as oppose to, authentic character and true self… Many many many many people will never make it, and it’s because they will always fall victim to their own ignorance, denial, shame, fears, projections, delusions, and their ego-maniacal - narcissism and codependency… We are living in an epidemic of the lack of knowledge of self, lies and deception, and false identity - due to the dysfunctional and destroyed relationships, loss and trauma in the individual-self, and family unit. I should be dead because of the severe damage that happened to me. I had no choice but to choose absolute accountability and availability, responsibility and freedom, morality and integrity, knowledge and experience, acceptance and process… This “spiritual work” requires a very comprehensive analysis and it literally looks like… you paying attention to yourself and taking an inventory and exposing yourself to yourself. The problem is, when you do that in front of people who are inept, their shameful projections and false perceptions of conscious reality consume them and these people make themselves your enemy. They are the enemy of themselves… their own worst enemy and the official vampires of the world. Trolls and deranged “EMPATHS”. The self proclaimed empath is the active codependent. The intention is to heal those bleeding wounds, not glorify them and use it as a weapon to project your own ego-mania onto others that you can’t play the okey-doke on… What WE are after, is compassion and presence, dignity and integrity, respect and honor, honesty -courage and vulnerability, recognition and acknowledgment… knowledge of self, truth to oneself. There is no “my truth”, there is only The Truth, and when you receive it only you can prepare yourself for it snd it’s wholeness… The reason why so many people don’t want to deal with energy vampires is because they don’t truly have the answers and that’s because the answers are not within other people, they are within your own journey within yourself. We are taking bits and pieces of information from the external environment that we cannot control and making sense out of it as we navigate our own trauma and losses, confusion and suffering. …common sense, is not so common. So much that I can say.

[@umi_speaks]

Thank you, well received. Good to know you can discern the pure from the profane. I suppose i'm disgusted by own ego enough to disassociate from the "spiritual" "community" and wherever else quotes of shame apply. Thanks again for your thorough recap and much respect to your journey.

[@sunnyd6686]

🎯🥴🙏🏾✊🏾🌹

[@just-simplymarvelous]

LoL 🤣

[@kaybee1025]

And what does it mean when co-workers, associates keep on having dreams that you're in it 😡...most of them I don't even talk to them. And it is not 1 ...2 ..but freaking 15, 20ish of them approaching me with that "I had a dream last night and you were in it" while 2/3 I purposely avoid talking to them because of their energy. I am at that point where I want to tax people for featuring me in their dreams like that😑🤨

[@umi_speaks]

Lol @ taxing people. I don’t know about that one, they must be capturing a little of your aura and carrying it home sis. Keep vibin high

[@kaybee1025]

@@umi_speaks I mean🤔....yeah🤨

[@kaybee1025]

@@umi_speaks 🌺✌

[@amazinglyfe5601]

Hi Queen 👑 are you jamaican ?

[@umi_speaks]

Peace... I’m from Virginia Beach, US

[@samuelsowunmi605]

U were referring to me in this video as a bad energy sucker etc I predict

[@umi_speaks]

Peace... I don’t know you but self reflection is always a good thing. As you can see by the comments, many people resonate with the topic so it was not directed at anyone in particular.

[@samuelsowunmi605]

@@umi_speaks ok...

[@mathiaslwolf]

I’ve definitely gone through phases in my life as a recovered drug addict and a recovering codependent and recovering from PTS-Trauma and loss. Big time phases, actually. I’ve really needed guidance and support in my life for a serious length of time in recovery, but I eventually learned enough about what I needed to do, and what others cannot do for me, as far as what they are capable of providing in knowledge and investment into our relationship as family, friends and associates. There are a lot of people, seriously incapable of supporting another person, because of their lack of desire to grow themselves and their lack of experience with health and healing. I intentionally got around communities of people (...not virtual, in my city and surrounding metro area, in person) that I thought knew and could provide answers to guide me through what I was going through, but the fact is, that most people look at you and treat you (treated me like I was...) a fool and one of these soul sucking assholes almost everywhere I went... even a circle that I stayed in for years -just to learn the languages they spoke so that I can incorporate their methods, could not even provide the answers, help or guidance that I needed. Drug addiction, codependency /Narcissism - dysfunctional and destructive behaviors, as well as PTSD, requires a serious level of knowledge, experience and comprehension in order to heal-thy-self - mind, body and soul. I had to know my past very well... every single millimeter of it, in order to back engineer my forward growth. It’s a tremendous amount work and self control that needs to be exercised and executed in order to accomplish recovery when it’s as bad as I had experienced it. Serious humility. It took me years.

[@AD-cs6rp]

I hope you’re continuing to do well ✨💕

[@mathiaslwolf]

@@AD-cs6rp Thank you, I’m doing well. The profound level of neglect, abandonment and abuse that resulted is difficult when a person is absolutely destroyed. It’s deeply wounding when those who claim to provide support and guidance do not know how to substantially do that, and in regards to experts and professionals. We truly need to take our healing into our own hands when we are this psychologically and emotionally damaged. I’ve be been strongly considering starting a recovery lifestyle coaching practice and create a course for people who were as bad as I was and do not truly have the strength that it takes to do 7-14 years of continuous disappointment from fakes and phonies… there are too many of them out here with out the actual work done. The process a developing a principled process takes serious time, thought, and refinement to put into foundational stepping stones, that the average person could use, as well as the severely broken. Better believe it that average non-drug users and regular people do not have a clue what recovery means nor what growth truly is on the most fundamental level. I’m working on it …!

[@AD-cs6rp]

@@mathiaslwolf I agree about the dedication at the grittiest level it takes to truly shift not just in the surface levels. So much respect to you. Your own practice sounds like it would allow you to help others which continues to reinforce who you are! Best ✨

[@mathiaslwolf]

@@AD-cs6rp It’s the only way … Thank you for your love and respect. I truly appreciate your recognition. 💕