Reddit , What's Wrong With Attractive Men

[@sylvesterrudolf1735]

Difference between men & women: Men: “I’m not Gods gift to the world or anything that crazy, but I’ve been told I’m easy on the eyes on multiple occasions by different people”…😇 Women: “I’m a 10/10” 🤡

[@chad5577]

They say that yet buckle when they have to put it to the test…

[@79masshole]

I started my body and health journey 13 months ago. Lost 30 pounds and now have muscle for the first time in my life. Now most people I know treat me like line I have a disease. 😂

[@Londonlink]

Not true dudes be just as arrogant if they are attractive and get alot of women. The only humble attractive men are the ones who were considered unattractive and had a glow up

[@uppin_downers]

the man just sounds like a pick me but i know what ur getting at wit this

[@LURLINE_]

you sound like you really like men, do u have a boyfriend yet?

[@drkinferno72]

It's weird when you go from ignored to attractive 😂

[@loganblackwood2922]

Happened to me but still can't help but find it even more deflating that the only time anyway is interested in getting to know me is because they like how I look. It's a different type of cruel.

[@tacokoneko]

as an ugly person this video makes me feel better about it

[@richardjamesclemo6235]

It is. I used to grow my hair and beard really long, and then shave it all off. I could have long hair in the morning and people looking at me funny, and in the afternoon with an haircut and shave I would have women trying to start conversations with me for the most inane reasons.

[@cadenshavers156]

I’m saying dude, I never got asked out by a girl in highschool until this year, which is my senior year, and three girls have already asked me out…

[@chokichocat3083]

Yup, still getting used to the new hardware

[@bandom3115]

1/10 guy says hi Women: creep, stalker, potential predator or worst 10/10 guy says hi Women: polite, respectful, handsome, easy to laugh with

[@steaustin8789]

Wow you're a genius for sure

[@matthewalston7234]

You're a simp for sure. ​@@steaustin8789

[@sonyagosain3409]

It’s not that simple.

[@matthewalston7234]

@@sonyagosain3409 It's absolutely that simple. You can treat women any way you want if you're highly attractive and/or wealthy.

[@zetos4440]

Might be true, but people also set higher expectations just because you are handsome. They will be easily jealous, angry or upset. When im just a normal dude

[@derrickulous]

This guys is an absolute legend at subway surfers

[@WeirdTale]

When you fix your appearance and people go from ignoring or belittling you to trying to kiss up to you or sleep with you it becomes a special kind of personal loathing to everyone around you. You realized just how shallow and opportunistic everyone is and you can't stand being around them anymore. You have to make whole friend groups again and if you want to date seriously you have to become a detective picking appart mentally any and all things women are saying to you because they could be cheating on a nother guy with you. Coming into good money and improving your health and appearance is a positive for you but realizing how many pieces of shit you are sorrounded by is extremely depressing and frustrating.

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

Dude relax negative nancy. Is it shallow? Would you want to have sex with your unattractive version of yourself? You become more attractive, by getting rid of your negative habits, probably also developed some sort of self worth. Tada! Those inner qualities came forth through the physical and youre now more attractive, yes people will treat you differently. Are they shallow, or have you become more deserving of that treatment? Its a bit of both.

[@Mew2Win]

@@DefenderOfTheEndyou’re coping

[@blackshadexl]

You just spit so much facts. People don’t give 2 fxcks about u unless it’s benefiting them

[@siemniak]

Than take advantage also😂?​@@blackshadexl

[@penzorphallos3199]

Its funny hearing this. Literally all of the situations these guys talk about have never happened to me 😅

[@supergobgoblin424]

Ugly gang, unite!

[@Solkard]

Downside of being pretty is being noticed and having to choose. Downside of being ugly is being invisible and having no choice.

[@PitaBread69]

same

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

Actually you have the illusion of choice. Because out of 10 options only 1 and maybe none at all are genuine. You get to know someone and its a waste of time. Sometimes it feels better to just be cold, because that seems to be the only “choice” you have considering peoples perception of you can often limit how your interactions go.

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

Both sucks, would you rather be alone and indirectly abused or directly abused by others? Nonetheless both sides have pros and cons. Focus on your strengths.

[@patrickt49]

Downside of being attractive? People project their insecurities onto you.

[@ernest4520]

Big facts!

[@Razul632]

Yes I'm handsome kid I always get treated badly

[@alhyak280]

@@Razul632 how so, examples

[@johnle1723]

Had some random wanted to start a fight at me

[@patrickt49]

@@alhyak280 People who pretend to be your "friend" always ridicule your appearance even though you are the one who gets the most complements in your friend group. Or everything you say or do is never good enough. Despite the same standards not being applied to everyone else.

[@stacycarlton2056]

The number of middle aged women at my job who offer me rides (carpool at work) just to find out either from them or somebody else that they where attempting to sleep with me super cringe most of them would be married to killed my idea of marriage for a while

[@loganblackwood2922]

I actually had a woman who had driven past me on my way to evening classes remember me from simply driving by and hours later she happened to drive past me on my way home and she stopped and offered me a ride home. I'd never spoken to her before nor had I met her, I could be *anyone* but it really doesn't seem to matter how risky or crazy the behaviour sounds, if a woman finds you attractive, she will take the chance. Even looking back now, I find that unbelievable.

[@nono114499]

Some women will litteraly hit on you right in front of their boyfriend/husband with no shame at all and they barely even know you. Another thing i have notice is people will have extreme behaviour with you, they will either be rude and very cold all the times for no reason or they will be extremly warmth, enthusiast and tell you everything about their lives, their secrets, etc like if you know them and were best friends for 10 years, again for no reason other than your looks when you barely met them People can be weird and shallow And also some people will be intimidate by me (something i didn't actually notice until recently), having shorteness of breath, struggle to maintain eye contact and hold a conversation, picking their worlds very carefully, etc, i have seen women trying to flirt with me, clealy being infatuate by me and scare to death at the same time which is quite funny since i'm a very chill guy. But i don't know if it just a look thing of if it is because of my personality and the vibe i'm giving off (or maybe a bit of both). I was told i look mean and arrogant more than once even do i'm not.

[@Mew2Win]

afbb

[@Mew2Win]

@@loganblackwood2922there are certain ppl on the InTrnt who will deny your experience btw

[@rebelmnk2382]

They automatically expect you to be a f***boy. And when they find out you're not, then they really get scared! Because if you're not a f***boy, then they automatically assume you have high expectations and she would need to step up her game. The latter assumption, She Is Right!!

[@ragequitter]

my guy friend told me I was a 6, but women treat me like an 8/10. I 100% agree with all the Reddit comments. I go through the same exact shit. My coworkers' boyfriends used to want to fight me just for the fact I was standing outside when they picked them up (my job was to stand outside)

[@notsojharedtroll23]

😂😂😂

[@steaustin8789]

That's nice loser what part of India are you from?

[@Mew2Win]

🤣🤣🤣^^^ DaII. itts Iarping

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

That was funny. But also men tend to have a skewed perception on what other men are attractive and why. But at the same time not really, they just be hating

[@jebes909090]

Well they say its easier to take someone elses girlfriend for your own then it is to convince a single girl to be your girlfriend.

[@supergobgoblin424]

Being atractive is like other planet...

[@supergobgoblin424]

I have no idea im ugly and ill make the world get my sufferring

[@mazinhussein4297]

Look up sexual selection

[@Mew2Win]

@@supergobgoblin424based🤟

[@incapablehulk3538]

​@@supergobgoblin424 lookmaxx your way out

[@Tempusverum]

“So *handsome!!!* 🎼🎷🐙 🤩🤩🤩

[@berserk1437]

I never thought I was attractive until i remember how people would take creepshots of me

[@Khroll0]

literally it’s fkn weird

[@Razul632]

Me too men

[@mikeloatk-wo5mc]

I can’t believe I watch this video fully Man you are explaining everything I need to know about how my life is going 😕

[@fpspoland6051]

I definitely relate to being a good looking introvert, Im an 8/10 check a lot of the boxes of the cliche 6’2” chad with a beard. But am scared shitless to approach anyone, get a lot of looks, but am never really approached by women, I figure they’re too intimidated by my looks to approach me, although I do get approached by a lot of gay dudes, and feel bad having to explain to them that Im straight. Every now and then I work up the courage to approach someone, been rejected every time. It does make you feel insane after awhile, it’s nice to see there’s other people with the same experience.

[@maikerukazukii]

People will hate on you,other guys will start rumours at work so girls wouldnt approach you,male friends wife's gf tries to sleep with you,male friends wont invite you to parties,events cause you'd steal the attention ,or at parties guys will start a arguement or fights cause they catch their girl staring at you, a girl she assumes youre just a player and dont trust you,they think you just want to hit and quit and dont want a relationship thinking youre just playing with them. atleast what i experienced

[@thedarkestknight8381]

It’s well deserved cause yah will never experience true suffering that short or unattractive men will you guys will still get hot wm and privileges despite the cons that overweight your negative experiences I’d take that than a lifetime of suffering

[@itachiphoenix33]

Ohhhh buhuhu, bro, you can find easy one day a women, who dont think, you are only a Player, but she is everyday happy, to see your face... You wanna realy say, God, why iam so beautiful?? Be a men... Whats the problem? They dont invite me to a party, because its to easy for me, to become a Girlfriend.. oh, poor men, i cry now too... Because this Luxusproblems are very 🤡

[@fubufb420]

Toxic, narcissistic women will have no problem trying to get to know you!😢 The touchy feely ones... Ignore them, they will try to ruin you... Why I don't have Facebook n all that shit!!!

[@SavveGaming]

Idk about all of that BUT THAT LAST POINT MAN. Nobody talks about it enough. I don’t brag about being attractive but I’m like 70% sure I’m at least above average. Not a smoke show or a muscle head or anything insane, just a relatively good looking normal ish guy right? Well… these women won’t even pretend like they trust me. All the men in my life think I’m some sort of super player and all the women just don’t understand why I’m single. It’s such a weird spot to be in… What’s hilarious about all of it, is I’m terrified of intimacy after getting cheated on by my ex fiance. I know I’m complaining about something most would love to have but man it’s really isolating more than anything else. Everyone just assumes you get and have everything you want because you’re attractive, people are weird.

[@Londonlink]

There is a study that says conventionally attractive people are looked at with positive attributes just for looking good. It was interesting reading that.

[@khrisy3602]

i am not too physically attractive but have an unbelievable amount of charisma online/over text and get a large amount of female attention - online at least. im insecure about my apperance and mannerisms irl and im trying to bridge the gap of my sincerity and beauty online to in-person, but even so, i strongly relate to a lot of the points made in the video. girls will feel insecure around you (platonic or otherwise), and be so insecure that they will literally be blinded by it and fail to notice the times when you're being a genuine person and just assume youre trying to take advantage of them and assume that its just too good to be true or something. it hurts because i know im a good guy deep inside, but im human too with fucked up flaws, and it feels like if i make a slip up, some girls insecurities will just explode and theyll have a "i told you so!" moment. I'm very understanding of them when they make a mistake, but when i make one im just a terrible person who was trying to take advantage of them the whole time? no, im not im a really kind and emotional guy and have really good active listening skills and am genuinely just feminine at heart - im not looking for something extra with ulterior motives and ive never even once in my life made an overtly sexual advance on a women ever in my life - its always been them doing it to me. and I know - not all women are like this, just the really insecure ones, but ive realized as an attractive person (personality wise at least) that appearance of a woman really doesn't matter, because seriously some women are just beautiful but then they do a bunch of mean and hurtful stuff and its like - man i would rather settle for a not-so attractive woman who is confident in herself, is happy, believes her abilities as a person, and reciprocates kindness than be with an attractive woman who you gotta walk eggshells around and doesn't acknowledge your loyalty and love for her. man after writing this i guess i damn understand why there are beautiful women with ugly men - shit is tough man.

[@griffutsgaming]

I relate to the jealous boyfriends, mean guys, and overly flirtatious girls. One girl has called me an fboy Idk if you can attribute everything to looks, but I do dislike how most guys treat me. They only like me when I’m shy. Girls are almost always nice to me Oh. The groping too. Girls and gay guys. I didn’t even indicate interest

[@SchrodingersLife]

I have the similar experiences. Kinda headaches to deal it.

[@socramzetroc1535]

Chad doesn't have cons... If he indeed has, society will turn them into pros

[@rickgrimes9317]

“Ugly” men revolution when and No “never” things will eventually reach a boiling point and we will have to reach a middle ground

[@lox7182]

you're the jealous boyfriend bruh

[@brianmeen2158]

Being a very attractive guy opens up your world to many women but there are downsides .. if you are a good looking guy with strong sex drive - you will have many opportunities that can ruin your life or make it Much more stressful ..

[@ZedZed-qs4my]

@@brianmeen2158 🤣😅

[@Mew2Win]

@@brianmeen2158like…

[@NewRetroLetsPlays]

Im 6'3, 250 lbs mostly muscle, but socially inept because my father was never around much. Being good looking and attracting women initially then having them lose attraction after talking for a while or even sleeping with you once is worse than not having women attracted to you at all. People constantly approach me and tell me I look like i should be in the military and ask if I was constantly. Its super annoying. And people are very disappointed when I tell them I just like to play video games, workout, and do outdoor stuff by myself.

[@allopez8563]

Being married and your wife is always jealous. Also women trying to draw one's attention specially specially when one is as said married. No casual relationships since women didn't what to let go, every relation was a woman with a broken heart, who hate you.

[@c00lbreeze]

If you increase your attractiveness. You lose relationships, friends and sometimes the person you're in a relationship with start acting like assholes. Be glad they're gone. People don't like when you pass them up in anything.

[@khrisy3602]

hi, have you experienced this before? i want to hear your story because i just love learning about people's struggles from every side of the spectrum

[@c00lbreeze]

@khrisy3602 Sure thing, Yeah, I was an unattractive overweight teen, and people were not shy about telling me. Even my family made disparaging comments. I had horrible self esteem and body image issues. I went into the military and lost weight, took adult gymnastics, learn how to do flips I always wanted to know how to do, I started running 3 miles a day, lifting weights, started boxing then MMA. I started dressing with my own distinctive style, got my hair right, learned how to talk to people with confidence, learned how to flirt, and talk to females. Everything came over the course of the past 17 years (I'm 35) but i saw the attention from females increase with every change. I really wanted to be an impressive human being but at some point I must have over shot something because I started seeing people hate. Even my own wife, she turned abusive, started playing head games and even filed for divorce last year. It was finalized 3 months ago. She wanted to reconcile but she treated me so bad I said no, I'd rather be a single dad. Today, all I ever run into is females in relationships who wanna cheat with me but I don't want to be that person so I'm waiting on the Lord. That's pretty much my story.

[@nono114499]

​@@c00lbreezeThe abusive/hateful girlfriend part is so real. It happend to me when i was 19, she was my first real love but she quickly became very toxic, constantly trying to put me down or make me jealous because she was very insecure herself. I didn't realize what was going at the time and tought it was relationship problems that's everyone else had from time to time until my friends and my family knocks some common sense in me and make me end this toxic relationship. Since then my dating life have become better, just go for secure and strong confident women who are mature enough to make a healthy relationship work, my gf at the times was also very childish from time to time we were both very young so there is that

[@Ryuker16]

I had a glow up.....this didn't happen at all.

[@doomerdaniel]

I know im mid because i have had half of these exepriences. Women still require me to aproach tough, and the ones who aproach are not attractive. Also gays and trans seem to like me more, wich actually had a downside on my self esteem when i was 18 years old.

[@madallas_mons]

Gays and trans are just more likely to make moves because they are men. It doesn't mean anything bad

[@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940]

@@madallas_monsyes it does, it’s annoying af

[@proton3748]

"Touching without consent" as weird as it sounds, it's f*king true I just get awkward and they act like it's normal teehee

[@zyswanson7865]

I can actually relate to most of these.😂. The Asian one is definitely relatable. I’ll also say that guys are more eager to fight you for some reason if you’re in an area of combat like boxing, wrestling or swordplay.

[@WackWacky-vc5ed]

If you are in middle/early high school, if a girl is shooting you glances and then starts being mean to you, she is flirting. I once encountered a girl on a canopy tour (multiple zip lines that form a path) who started being really mean to me, she was one of the only girls there and I can confirm that almost EVERYONE was simping. I was the only one that wasn't giving her attention for no reason and she was definitely way above average attractiveness so she was not used to that (this was the summer after my 7th grade year) and apparently that either made her insecure and she felt she needed my attention or smthin. And basically her way of flirting and (for the most part) only way of getting my undivided attention was to just insult me, but I never got my feeling hurt because she was really bad at it (or maybe she was doing it on purpose and had gotten really good at that form of flirting idk) because she called me names over flaws I did not have. She called me "big ears kid" and "big nose kid" of which I have neither. And the Simps caught on to the fact that she was being mean to me because they also started being mean for no reason, they didn't even have anything to insult me about they were just mean😔🤔 they told me to go to the front of the line for the zip line because they wanted me gone and multiple times said "get that kid out of here" and the worst part is, I didn't even realise what was happening at the time. I just thought I had been annoying for the whole canopy tour and needed to talk less😥. Anyway, the girl was visibly unhappy when they told me to go to the front of the line to get rid of me (which I did of course) and I have since adopted the the term simplord for people like her (it wasn't her fault, the boys she was hanging around obviously did not know how to act around girls) but it took me a few days to understand what even happened at the canopy since I didn't realize she was flirting at the time and thought that everyone just didn't like me😔

[@remixmas]

Buddy all this yapping and delusion. She may have found you decent or okay looking enough to be an orbiter but definitely wasnt heads over heels for you. If you were really really attractive she wouldnt be mean and would make it obvious to chase you. You simply coping

[@M1lza]

People often Say i'm attractive and ask how many girls i get. They get mad at me when i Say i'm not interested in dating at all not even in Just hook ups ( i'm aromantic) never understand how attraction works. One time a friend of mine gets mad at me cause i wasn't watching girls that, She told me, they were watching at me. I was like "girl everyone looks like the same to me" not true of course but to get the idea why i didn't watch.

[@tnk4me4]

Interesting. Are you just aromantic, or are you aroace?

[@M1lza]

@@tnk4me4 not sure. I did find girls pretty and i have no interest in men. Still no desire towards women.

[@Ahrone1586]

I am 6,2 with a lot of years in the gym and care about my style and skin care, in general i am considered very handsome. Im gonna tell you, i was pulling more girls for something serius when i was out of shape and ugly. I live im Argentina and maybe is something cultural, but no girl wants me for something serious, always a hookup. Like when i go to party with my college friends i always end up with some girl who is only a one night stand, even outside a party is the same. I started going to the gym, doing martial arts, taking care of myself bc i was a guy who was passing throught a break heart, and i wanted to experience love again, it didnt happened.

[@handeddegk197]

To me growing up as unattractive and short it’s funny seeing attractive dudes like my friends being so emotional and feminine about everything. Is almost has if they have faced very few hardships in their lives

[@thedarkestknight8381]

I’m also short and unattractive despite my attempts to try to better myself I fail at ever getting a girl I’m still V card at 23 I just failed at everything in life I just don’t want to go on anymore I’m done

[@omarherrera2951]

@@thedarkestknight8381You gotta stop with the negative mindset brother take your your time with improving break what you need to improve into small goals and tackle one at a time join a martial arts gym like jiu jitsu, mma, boxing and start being more social w women even if it’s just small talk with a cashier or wherever god bless.

[@Migga-alt-acc]

@@thedarkestknight8381 hey if that "I'm done" refers to aliven't/despawn, I'd say you could try moving permanently to some semi isolated area where you can have some peaceful time, like ig some mountain on Tibet or asia or basically anywhere Like if you manage to be in a peaceful place and still want to do the previous then ok? but why do it early if you haven't thrown your last cards like commiting ** would mean you lose everything, even the potential chance to go somewhere out of that dirty world I hope I helped a bit, that idea would be my plan in case I soon say "I'm done" too

[@DefenderOfTheEnd]

Become a passport bro, switch states, change the race of women you talk to. For example Mexican women are like 4’11 (half joking) but seriously. Consider changing those things, because you can’t change yourself too much, you can get in shape get more money that’s about it. And then there’s the infamous surgery (avoid at all cost, pun intended on the cost)

[@TheTAEclub]

Right then there are ones who have both what do you do then do you become inspired or still butthurt?

[@shimmercastiel4404]

I’m not a guy but it still amazes me when you just decide to feel better about yourself regardless of the fact that you’re never the one being “picked” that’s when all eyes are on you. If I think I look good everyone else thinks so too but if I’m like I’m just chillin and not focused on how I look that day no one will say a word to me😂😂😂 does anyone else experience this?

[@remixmas]

Its because your brain recognizes that you look good and you will receive good treatment from others. When u are just chilling you dont look good and are trying to play it off. Stop being delusional

[@JuanGarcia-of3ug]

I wouldn't say handsome, but i was asked out by 7 different women in high school. Girls were a lot nicer and gave the most excited hi's with a smile and rosey cheeks. That was before the depression and weight gain, tho. Crazy how different people treat you when you're no longer decent looking. I still have the same personality and people who know me genuinely like me, so i guess it's not all bad

[@klein2252]

What sucks is being average in high school, but then 10 years later you look the same and everyone else looks worse 😂

[@justinmclaughlin1953]

I think that’s good. I’m 30 now , look 24ish, way better than when I was 18-22 .

[@EnforcerTV]

story 2:06 is literally the story of my life, perfectly put. Add the fact that im black and I get stared at as either a thug, Tyrone, or both. I'm just a nerd that apparently became handsome, I am not a scum that wants to fuck, i'm still the celebate Christian🤪.

[@Mercury-ok8ie]

Black guy named christian

[@CT-yc4gd]

Stalkers happen with men and women. Buddy of mine was blessed genetically and always had women hounding him. He had a couple who were constantly showing up unannounced, showing up at his work, starting fights with his other female friends and his girlfriend. Sometimes Im kind of glad I look average.

[@AristasTheMonsterHunter]

Considering how asocial I am, the simple fact that every time I go out, 70% of girls that don't have guys around check me out for like 5/6 very unconfortable seconds while passing by is weird, especially becouse I'm quite overweight. There isn't a single time I get on pubblic transport without having at least 2 to 5 girls constantly trying to make eye contact. It gets really fucking annoying, since despite all of this literally NO ONE approches me, unless it's to ask for directions or money, wich to be fair happens way, waaay too often. I'm so confused, most girls I get acquainted with treat me like I'm the best company in the world, and yet the few times I manage to beat my insecurity and start to become more open and friendly towards them, even when I'm not romantically interested, they get so agitated that they avoid talking to me afterwards, but somehow still cling onto me for weeks or months untill they disappear, and then show up on socials with a boyfriend that wasn't there before; and I'm left wondering where did I mess up so badly. I'm usually good at understanding women, but this shit I just can't wrap my head around.

[@AayushmanGupta-y5o]

That's what it feels like. Too bad I'm super ugly

[@joshuabryant8504]

go to the gym and it will change man.

[@proton3748]

@@joshuabryant8504 worst case scenario You get a good physique with average looks Always worth it man

[@quazar4773]

The one about have a natural advantage over others yet not being successful dating is so true. Ive had to lie about my body count cause people always expect it to be high even tho i was a virgin until i was 22. i wanted to date someone i was into and not a girl who was just into me which were plenty but not the ones i wanted.

[@SquallSZ]

The downside if being an attractive man is waking up from a dream where i was one

[@PeeWeeDiddlyDee]

I grew up fat, quiet, tall and very nerdy... I'm also fairly certain I have that adhd autism. Today I'm, balding at 27, lost almost all the weight (50 ++ kg's if I factor in the muscle growth replacing the fat in weight) and I believe myself to be considerably far more attractive than I once was. I think the feedback I've been getting in real life as my attraction grew is showing me how life has flipped my script. All these decades, I've been learning to enjoy my place in the shadows with peaceful contempt and got pretty good at it... now I shine so bright there are no shadows to stick to, and I have to learn my new place... all over again. I sure hope it doesn't take another 2 fucking decades to understand my new social presence 😂😅😢 Like how are other people able to so freely express themselves while I'm here with a plethora of experiences showing I get weird results when I try that? I feel like I have all the equipment, ready and in perfect condition to be utilised, yet I don't know how. Much like a person's first time learning to drive a car... I do not know how I can see myself driving stick at the beginning of it all... and there are a lot of consequences in our daily lives if we get it wrong, making it more uncomfortable and unsafe to learn from. Ladies: Let the men know you want THEM specifically to woo you, and never TRY to hurt them, we'll eventually leave your bs for peace and quiet. Fellas: When you are seducing a woman and she's receptive, focus on her alone and start calibrating your mind's eye to have her as your only woman. DO NOT expect her to become your woman until you see proof of commitment in her actions, until then? You're just a cool person who met another cool person you think are cool to hang out with. Bonus tip for everyone: GETTING JUST SEX IS ALMOST NEVER WORTH THE CONSEQUENCES AFTER "getting some" It's rare for two people to come together with the agenda of "just casual, fun sex with no worries of relationships and commitment" and one, if not both, ACTUALLY mean it

[@milk9720]

As someone kind of somewhere in the middle, I honestly think its the best place to be. Women dont really approach me, but they also dont avoid me

[@actualteddybear891]

I just wish I knew if I was ugly or not. It stresses me out when I get compliments and I dont see any of it when I look at myself. Like anytime says something nice to me I'm thinking "why are you telling me that? Do I look sad? Do you feel sorry for me?" I just smile and say thank you though.

[@re.Dragonnocopyright]

Bruv this video is bad for me. I just stated to pull weights and I'm mildly attractive. Attractive enough to catch yes but not enough to have women throw themselves at me, I can also be used by women in (platonic relationships).... 😅 I didn't want it to get worse I just wanted to be not as disadvantaged. I have quality friendships but I can't have a relationship to save my life. It will start yes but won't go anywhere fast.

[@fatfalcon3434]

On one hand I get told by my friends that I am quite physically attractive, and I also get looks from women on the street when I walk by. On the other hand, every time I try to interact with said women, it's awkward and even if I try to talk to them in social media it's like talking to a wall most times, or they just wanna yap about themselves (I also get a lot of trauma dumping), and when I ask to meet up it's always "oh, i'm too busy" or some other bullshit excuse.

[@EseShad0w316]

I relate with the good looking dudes who are also socially awkward 100%

[@muneka]

@5:09, and there's the lie 🙄😪

[@jomarilo.]

😂 that shit was random

[@doubleglaze7979]

7 sounds like a battlefield mission

[@legend-pq1qi]

Only a few seconds in and it's already too true. I specifically have this burner so I can make stupid comments and not go recognized. The anxiety I induced within my last ex just from being attractive crumbled our relationship and became one of my top 5 traumatic experiences. I recommend if you look good, train your mind as well. The shit you will see is not for the faint of heart.

[@dezz695]

For me, many women in relationships openly flirt or interact with you while single women are defensive. I ended a few friendships because the woman tried to use me to make their SO jealous or make me a back up option.

[@SirMixatron11]

I'm sure if I stayed consistent working out and get in shape. I'm sure I'll go from a 6 to 8. I'm not that ugly and people seemed to be comfortable around me and nothing but smiles.

[@blackogjesus]

I need to get in shape and touch grass so I can experience this 😂

[@DirtyBobBojangles]

Just my existence is enough to make men insecure and uncomfortable. I've had to defend myself far too often just from having a taken woman around me. And the worst part is I can't even complain about it.

[@wtf_dave01]

Finally, a real topic

[@FUBAR_MUAYTHAI]

I won’t lie people have told me I’m handsome and tall and girls must like me but in reality I get no girls and I’m socially awkward as f*** 😅 I won’t lie it’s hard when people expect you be a certain way and you are the complete opposite. It just makes you feel like you are disabled or something or not good enough. 😂 I don’t let it get to me anymore life is life man. I hope you guys don’t let it get to you either stay positive my bros I believe in you!

[@haydenflovick]

No homo bro you definitely handsome g , chain goes crazy as well ! Semen retention and fasting & self improving in general bro will have you feeling way more confident too 🙏🏻

[@Anotherguy1st]

Asking reddit what's wrong with men, I'm 100% sure you'll get an unbiased opinion there! 😂

[@DeadCat-42]

I'm six two, fit, green eyes , model looks. I'm at work and about ten minutes ago I turned a corner and got the (women see a hot guy and immediately turn away and whisper to each other) reaction. They couldn't even look at me . I haven't dated in years..

[@xantonify]

People expect you to excel and master any obstacles. If you fail at a task at work for instance, they will look like "what's wrong with you? Why didn't you made it?" Like they believe you can't do mistakes.

[@TheSigmaNinja]

My God 2:20 is so true.

[@j.j.9538]

Im a attractive guy. We dont get nearly as much intimacy as other guys think. All of the guys humble bragging about getting all the girls are probably not the attractive ones.

[@charlee_hotel]

Someone else made a similar comment: women assuming _taken_ right off the bat.

[@FrickinCCDeVileV]

A lot of Facts here

[@ultimatewafflegaming1018]

"Apprience" lol

[@smeefbeef367]

I was hot for a couple years in high school and it attracted the worst type of women imaginable. I started shaving my head and growing my Amish style beard and walrus mustache out so I’m less attractive to the women who just want a guy for looks.

[@FranekWrobel-hp7zp]

I can relate to a lot of these stories, lonely lonely life of an attractive individual.

[@Evegoden]

Oddly enough, I have a hard time accepting all the compliments. But the loneliness thing sealed the idea that, yeah...attractive moreso than the compliments. Odd to see others with the same issue.

[@GoldCODMyt]

I’m a 10/10 use to model for my school magazines. Life is super duper lonely. I’ve gotten so much hate from both genders that it’s better to be alone.

[@7799-e5u]

i think youre asking in the wrong place my guy

[@DBeezy_]

I was overweight as a child and a little shorter but after puberty I became 6’1 6’2 and I had fairer features because I resembled my mom my personal experience……women are often more shallow towards you falling inlove with the idea of you instead of actually getting to know u. It’s also harder to date because ur type has to be very pinpoint dating lower self esteemed women is impossible long term because they often project and become manipulative or down right abusive, attractive women often have a reality check after coming across u because there pretty privilege Doesn’t work on you how it does other guys so your quicker to notice there inadequacies and when you leave there normally the craziest ones so dating become pretty much becomes a pick your poison situation. people expect either way to much of you or way to little there’s rarely a in between people act surprised when you have substance, friendships with “average “ guys are harder because of the natural competitive nature men your either in ghost competitions with people u pay little attention to or guys feign friendship because they see the benefit of your attraction helping them or some other weird dynamic (I’ve had a friend outright admit to only starting the friendship because he seen I was popular and girls always were infatuated with me) he didn’t realize how terrible it sounded out loud but it made me reflect and realize u really gotta vet the people around you more intensely. Also being attractive conventional can make u very lazy u never have to do to much work if you don’t want to so it’s very easy to become jaded with things like dating because you know there’s gonna be another woman literally okay with crawling at your feet so it’s easy to take it for granted and become a bad person. The cons suck but after u understand them and work out the kinks ur pretty much basically “overpowered” u get access to things easier then most…women trust u completely telling u there life story and information they would normally take to the grave ….willing to give themselves to you it’s actually crazy and being black ur often fetishized by like every other race it’s actually insane. To sum it up pros- life is kinda on easy mode for most things and all the cons can be mitigated aslong as you aren’t entitled and work on your soft/social skills. Cons-easy to become egotistical/vain very easy to become jaded or lazy to the idea of dating, any new relationship u do start you have to really work early to defeat any preconceptions drawn about you”be on your best behavior” if you want any type of real substance outta life,Harder to have female friends, people don’t really respect your boundaries drunk women are the number one culprit of this.

[@NarwahlGaming]

I'm a 4-5 out of 10. My mom was half ninja so that makes me 1/4 ninja. I was always able to disappear into the shadows with ease. Then, I bought a 2 seat roadster. Suddenly, im the life of the party. Women want to know what I'm up to, where I'm going, if I'm seeing anyone. _"We should get coffee!"_ It's weird.

[@Sirkanythe]

I been that I'm handsome by women other than my mother and grandma. But I don't think so I have low self-esteem for whatever reason and subpar social skills. It does get annoying when people assume you have all the luck with women or they question your sexuality if don't have women hang your arms 🙄.

[@BramptonHughes]

I feel like a lot of these dudes are fantasizing, dude who get women aren't telling their stories online 😂

[@JonnyDooe]

Try thinking instead of ‘fEeLiNg’ then… ‘dude’

[@BramptonHughes]

@@JonnyDooe thinking is feeling

[@fox812us]

Oh hush you know what he means. You know women always say I feel and you are feeling insecure because you feel like you not good looking so just like this video. You want to put down pretty people to feel better about yourself​@@BramptonHughes

[@richardjamesclemo6235]

Thoughts create feelings, and feelings create thoughts.

[@gostavoadolfos2023]

Actually this true. In China lot if super attractive men were executed many centuries ago to keep social peace plus ugly powerful men did it out of bitterness and jealousy. Also happened historically in Europe where attractive successful men were emprisoned and even disfigured by jealous men over status. In Middle Easy attractive male slaves we automatically castrated.

[@triquillabey5264]

Love beautiful men or above average men but they are intimidating the rejection radar is on high alert with those,i don't do anything i definitely don't mind complimenting the crap out of them though I don't expect anything back though just going with the flow sometimes they are nicer than the uglier guys to women like me they are just a lovely fantasy to me❤

[@prashant10.]

Women are just freaked about the idea of relationship with me!! Its like they only see whats on the outside they don’t care about what is on the inside.

[@mrmatches0619]

For me(now I'm not quite there... I'm okay looking, but I used to be a serious athlete and dress well), the amount of women I thought were genuinely trying to be my friend that indeed wanted... More. There's a couple times I thought I was going to someone's house to hang out with people. "Oh there will be a few people over" and then you end up alone with said host then they kinda like ... Start trying to make out with you. 😅 Or you meet for lunch and have a good time and they some shit like "I enjoyed our date" like... oh I thought we were just friends.. Or the comments from a ladies friends when you're trying to date them. "I don't trust him, he seems like a fuck boy." This one hands down has been the weirdest for me. you become like an "office fantasy" (I don't work in an office, I'm a chef but you get the point) and... Well sometimes it's as extreme as servers actually grabbing my junk while I'm trying to work, getting cornered In the walk in, or other... REALLY specific, raunchy things that only women can get away with saying (ie my car was in the shop and the server said she'd take me home as long as it was back to her house, or my favorite, a host saying "watch yourself in the break room... The door locks and I want my 5 minutes of heaven"), to more mild things like brushing my arm when I walk by, being starred at while you're trying to work, and lots of flirty comments when I really am trying to be serious. I'm not innocent though. I definitely finesse my servers for things all the time, especially knowing this. I literally flirt and act sweet enough to manipulate a situation to my advantage. so that's a definite advantage. I think it also has to do with the power dynamic. However, the really rapey stuff makes me uncomfortable and sometimes it becomes a distraction to my team. i take my job hella serious so it irks me.

[@AlanSito-md2ji]

Everyone just thinks your life is easy af

[@Alex-l8g2l]

I've been told I'm like a 10/10. I don't know about that but I know those subtle but uncomfortable looks from guys at bars that have girls with them. I just shaved my head and started dry shaving to look uglier lol.

[@Migga-alt-acc]

honestly the 2:28 part is realest shii I'm encountering after the fat loss At first, 4/10 and lonely...then 7/10 and lonelier Btw I currently have a theory for us introverts who were fat with advantageous genetics but still are socially akward (I've Asperger's so I fall in that category) We start like 3/10 with very low confidence, go to like even 8/10 but still low confidence and get a POV of both sides of "looks" spectrum, then ig we drop a bit (maybe intentionally) and build condifence since we realize looks weren't that big of a reason for the low confidence and self esteem. That "once I lose that fat I've been stigmatized for life, I'll finaly find a gf" turned out to be wrong, and after all, happiness comes from within, it doesn't mean you're happier just because you're better looking than before Also I discovered, confidence is a game changer. If your looks around 7/10 with low confidence, the guy with ok confidence that's looks of 4/10 will get a lot more attraction from girls (and even friends, heck why being ok with youself wouldn't be + points for approach?)

[@Kap0wB00M38]

Damn, none of these have happened to me, I guess that's a good thing? 😅

[@trence5]

@1:10 "Trauma dumping" aka "emotional labor" (shout out BGS Ibmor).

[@nzrlol]

im 16 and 6’5 with a pretty decent face and people really just assume i’m judgy or mean so they start being mean and you’re forced to be a bitch over nothing. you can’t be nice and attractive or they’ll use you. lifes harder on this side, atleast an ugly guy gets treated human.

[@anshley1507]

Its is strange that everything i hear here never happened to me.

[@courtneyharris1006]

I'm ugly now because years of goblin gamer mode but at one point in HS I was considered attractive and it makes me laugh a bit how women criticize men for being creeps,harassing etc because I know that when women find you attractive 90% of their "game" is sexual harassment, touching, persistent advances etc. They are just as bad as men but contrary to narrative mens beauty standards are higher so its just less men they find attractive to do all this over.

[@Anthonnnnn]

Mfs say Im an 8, the problem is that im boring asf

[@spiralingsoul4818]

Weird thing is all my life I have always known attractive people as very intelligent individuals. So I don't understand the stigma... Unless I just find intelligent people attractive?

[@lowkeehkis2454]

I’m pretty good looking, but until I became a threatening possible force, in that I get pissed off and showed it more often, but all of it was regulated, I was taken waaaaay more seriously. I stare too much and with presence and a calm brutal honesty it’s uncomfortable for most people….😂 No reaction sometimes no response, I’ve gotten what I wanted most times.😂

[@Mew2Win]

⚠️ THESE STORlES DO *NOT* DISCOUNT/FACTOR-IN THE PEOPLE WHO OVERRATE THEMSELVES ⚠️

[@williamsjessem]

Women assume you're taken because they have hard time thinking that you'd be single for long. That non-initiation keeps them and men they desire single tho.

[@secondone3249]

Negative Canthal Tilt = Death

[@Leukick]

Omg .... surprisingly relateable. I had no idea these things were due to being attractive

[@alhyak280]

maybe it's their vibe

[@tb6664]

I think been a hot guy is like being a guy that like working out and do MMA. Everyone thinks you are a idiot because you have big muscle and women would think it ok to walk up and start squeezing your arms.

[@smoothiesful]

I relate to all of this.

[@CydonianKnights11]

18-29 women and people found me attractive women would grab my crotch at work and stuff then a certain time frame you know i decided to let myself go. i went from 6'0 180lbs all muscle to 250 out of shape after getting out of the ARMY and dealing with a divorce. I still had a nice face people would be nice still but the underhanded greeting like whats up big guy. So i decided to get back in shape I'm currently 37 210 lbs not the weight i want to be but its better than 250. now they all just look and stay away and talk about me behind my back different rumor everyday.

[@raven2770]

Suddenly people in this comment section think they are 10/10

[@why_so_eli5016]

2:30 so true. I dont think im attractive just stand out tbh and it does personally feel demoralizing ppl think you get play but dont. 😔

[@AyanokoyiKiyotaka-b4v]

Shit this made me realize I’m ded ugly

[@TykoF]

Cannot relate sadly

[@ismaelhall3990]

Oh boy so much

[@Thickestdickest]

My name says it all.

[@LilXancheX]

Yum

[@darkmage4648]

Biggus Dickus says hi

[@dharma6525]

Yup And the combination of the two doesn't feel like you would be fun to chat with 😊 Plus the sunglasses make you look like you cate very very much about cars 😂

[@Thickestdickest]

@@dharma6525 no I don't (cate) cars lol jk I know what u meant

[@Thickestdickest]

And now I'm changing picture

[@okaydmuzikkk6771]

Naw the touching outta nonwhere and with no permission is true ashell 😂

[@CreatorGenesis-qu7cf]

Too Relatable dawg ☠️☠️☠️

[@johnnycampbell7691]

All of this has happened to me except, constant rejection from all women never had a relationship women are going for literally every man but me I don't know how to go on anymore.

[@EL_N0IR_2201]

Holy f are you spying on me?😂 wtf

[@kash_ash14]

is this pay gorn?

[@lust-sama3920]

Just goes to show how shallow normies are.