Redefining success after 50: what really matters now.

In this vlog, I reflect on how my definition of success has evolved from the constant hustle of my younger years to embracing a slower, more intentional way of living in my 60s.
I used to thrive on multitasking and pushing myself to achieve success in every part of life. But as I've gotten older, something shifted in me. My idea of success isn't what it used to be.
Join me for a candid look at this personal journey as I share what truly matters to me now, why I've stopped feeling the need to “do it all,” and how I'm learning to be more present. This is about slowing down and finding joy in life’s everyday moments.
Welcome to my day in the life, and I hope this video helps you reflect on your own idea of success-no matter your age.✨
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[@AgingOnYourTerms]

My definition of success has totally changed in my 50’s. It is no longer about hustle culture. Now it's about connection, reflection, education, and relaxation.

[@danafindwell]

Hi Vicki! Yes you are so right, my life's no longer about hustle culture too. I love what your idea of success looks like now! Hope all is good with you and that you have a wonderful day 🥰

[@blackhawksurplus]

As I approach my 50th year on this planet, personal success can be described in one word: Autonomy. I’ve finally freed myself from a soul-crushing government career & a series of misaligned relationships. Glad to see you finding your own redefined definition of success as well, Dana. You seem like an empathetic, sweet person and deserve happiness.

[@danafindwell]

Thanks so much for sharing your story, blackhawksurplus, its incredibly helpful knowing that i'm not alone!! I'm so happy to hear that you are finally free and have your autonomy now, i think thats truly the best kind of success! Thanks so much for watching and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@Dr.DorisTorres]

Good for you! Autonomy is my one-word too. 🙏🏼😅💕 Wishing you much peace and well deserved freedom for what you’re meant to do with your life. Hugs from San Diego 🫶🏻

[@blackhawksurplus]

@@Dr.DorisTorres Appreciate the kind words & happy that you’ve found autonomy as well. Hugs back… From Chula Vista 🤗…

[@Dr.DorisTorres]

@@blackhawksurplus omg we’re practically neighbors 😁👍🏼🫶🏻

[@mjfoster8343]

The most valuable thing we have at our age is "TIME"! I didn't realize this until recently I can actually say I can see 70 and 80 and it was shocking! Time the most valuable thing! Don't waste it nonsense, people who do not bring joy to your life, and stuff....Have a Great week Ms. Dana!

[@danafindwell]

Very good point, Myra! Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@erin-td5jp]

I love this success standard ...is being present at the moment! Redefining our way of living not up to.society's standards but of our own happiness

[@danafindwell]

Yes! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts Erin, i really appreciate you! 😊

Hi Dana! You are such an inspiration! I found you on KZbin. I'm 59 years old, and I can relate to your comments and advice. Thanks for sharing all of your words of wisdom with us.

[@danafindwell]

You are very welcome! And thank you for your wonderful comment, i really appreciate your warm feedback! 🥰

[@pennycollazo4983]

Hello Dana, I too will be approaching 60 in February you have truly got it figured out and I am so happy and proud for you you have set the mark and giving me some insight that I have lost thank you so much for your videos you are truly living❤🙏

[@danafindwell]

Hi Penny! Turning 60 has been a wonderful experience for me so far and i would love to hear how it will be for you. I have a feeling its going to be amazing! Thanks soooo much for your comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@adamlyman8293]

Momma still got it!! You are an amazing dancer. This episode resonates with me. I just turned 59 this year. I think one’s priorities shift as you go through phases in your life. Mine definitely has; I’m becoming less and less interested in the traditional signs of success and have been shifting to really valuing time with family. Part of this, I think, is becoming a grandpa a few years ago. Now have two wonderful granddaughters. I would much rather have an engaging afternoon with my adult children and grandchildren than the latest car or whatever. Thank you Dana for sharing.

[@danafindwell]

Hi Adam, its so great to hear from you! Hahaha this new routine is really challenging but its good for my brain! I love to hear that you are a grandpa and love spending time with your family. I wonder if this shift in values is a natural progression when we reach midlife? I can't help but love it!! Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, i appreciate you Adam. Have a great day! 🥰

[@robertashaffer3950]

Hi Dana, Thank you for this video. I appreciate very much what you spoke about. I am 63 years young and have moved provinces here in Canada. It is almost 3 weeks. I am on my own, no children and had lost my job. It was time for me to make the move and crteate a "new & improved" life for myself. I have a new job and have recently received my permanency. The rest I am still trying to figure out. Your videos are helpful and inspirational. I am doing what I can to open up my awareness more and hear the still voice inside me to help me navigate this new chapter in my life. Thank you for helping us ❤️🙏

[@danafindwell]

Hi Roberta, its so great to meet you! You have so many possibilities ahead of you, new job, new home, you are starting over fresh. I appreciate hearing your story as well, its helpful for all of us to know we are not alone! Thanks so much for your comment, i really appreciate you! 🥰

[@robertashaffer3950]

@@danafindwell ❤️🙏❤️

[@parker.100]

I don't have any idea yet of how to slow down without life going to hell in a handbasket, so I am here for this channel!

[@danafindwell]

Hahaha i am super happy you are here, parker100!! I hope this channel isn't too slow for you, i am such a turtle! Thanks so much for your awesome comment, i appreciate you 🥰

[@lamonafoster363]

You are one busy woman! Thank you for the video!

[@danafindwell]

Hi Lamona! Yes its been so busy, and i can't wait for things to slow down a little! Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@Ms_Siri]

Thank you dear Dana I'm so happy to see a video from you, wish you all the best🥰❤

[@danafindwell]

Helloooo Ms Siri, its really great to see you! I hope all is well with you and you are enjoying the new season. I'm super happy that you watched the video, thank you! Hope you have a wonderful day!! 🥰

[@lisabaca9331]

Morning Dana! I saved your video for my day off so I would have the time to enjoy it. I am 73 and still struggling with these definitions. A definition is one thing but it must also be grounded in one's reality. I would say redefining success is making sure that I can hold on to my house and afford the things I need. I used to think it would be more slow time and becoming a grandmother, but I think that won't happen and so I am free to find new definitions.

[@danafindwell]

Really great point, Lisa, everyone is different and we all have different priorities! Your house is probably your nest egg, so it is very important. I really appreciate you saving the video for your day off, your support means a lot to me, thank you!! I hope you had a wonderful day off, Lisa! 🥰

[@Dillidee]

Your workspace is inspiring!

[@danafindwell]

Oh wow, thank you, Donna! I used to be in one bedroom when i was upstairs but now i am really lucky to have two bedrooms for my business. Thank you for your wonderful comment, i appreciate you!! 🥰

[@Katerina-Kate-1]

Hello Dana, I like your videos. I am 42 and your experiences trough your live teach me to look at me life different way....that I am on the way...... and that life is changing.... Thank you for your openness because its very beneficial for me . I even like your peaceful voice. Your videos are also really great for learning english :-) Greetings from Czech republic

[@danafindwell]

Hello Katerina, its so great to meet you! I love that you are writing to me from the Czech Republic, KZbin is amazing at connecting us from all parts of the world! Thank you for your wonderful comment, i'm so happy you found my channel! I really appreciate you 🥰

[@Dr.BobbiBallard]

Thank you so much, Dana, for sharing your personal journey. I'm about to turn 56, and I really resonate with your experiences and your evolving definition of success. With my kids grown and out of the house (and one grandchild!) my life is slower. Time with family is my most valuable "currency" these days. I really admire your activities - gym, drumming, hip hop class... I realize I could use more of that in my life. Thanks for the inspiration!

[@danafindwell]

Hi Dr. Bobbi, you are very welcome! Its nice to have a slower paced life, i think we really did put in our dues and deserve this time. I'm excited to hear about what kind of activities you will start! Please keep me posted! Thanks so much for your wonderful support, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@sherrysasaki7310]

I am enjoying your videos. I retired at 61, after nearly 38 years in the business world. It took me at least two years to get used to my new lifestyle. I see it as a real transformation to be able to put my health and wellness front and center. So far, it has been a great learning experience.

[@danafindwell]

Hi Sherry, its great to meet you, thanks so much for watching my videos! It can be quite the transition, especially when we've been doing it for so long. When i was laid off from my art director job, i decided that i wanted to change careers and i actually grieved losing my identity as a designer/art director for quite a while. I hope that you are keeping busy with things that you love? Its so great you are focusing on health and wellness now! Thanks for your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@thescaledraven5482]

Yay, out and about in the Bay area with Sven!!

[@danafindwell]

Yes, you know how much Sven loves his walks! I always think of you when i take hime out!! 🥰

[@thescaledraven5482]

@@danafindwell Dana, I absolutely LOVE dogs, my 14-year-old passed in 2020 and I wish I had spent more time with him. Their life span is so short, and they love unconditionally. I miss him every day. My new rescue was adopted at 4 years of age, and I am determined to make up for the first part of her life and make her remaining time with me super lovely. If one human year is 7 years to a dog, then one human hour is 4 hours in a dog's world. I don't know if the math is realistic, but I have a feeling it is close. Thanks for having the courage to share your journey, it is inspiring me. Today's topic reminds me of a quote I once read: Don't ask yourself what the world needs Ask yourself what makes you come alive And then go do that Because what the world needs is people who are alive.

[@FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle]

I have redefined success in my life as freedom of time. I work less and increase my pleasures, such as fishing and riding my motorcycle. My new joy is spending time at the lake. I am looking forward to hopefully buying you a cup of tea when I come to your area in November.

[@danafindwell]

Hello Dr Ninja Turtle, its so great to see you! I love how you redefined success and are doing more of the things that bring you joy. Its so encouraging to see how we all have worked so hard over the decades and now we get to enjoy all the hard work we put into our lives. You are sooo sweet in offering to buy me a cup of tea, but over the years that i've been on KZbin i've decided to not meet one on one, i hope you can understand! Thanks so much for your awesome comment, i appreciate you 🥰

[@stasiapatience5868]

Love to see the dancing, Dana! You are really good & it looks like so much fun! Great job taking care of yourself & prioritizing BALANCE!

[@danafindwell]

Hi Stasia! Hahaha yes it is very fun, but learning a new routine can be pretty confusing! Thank you soooo much for all of your wonderful support, my friend, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@brendagonzalez2475]

You are so inspiring Dana! I still love your videos as much as the reselling ones you used to make. They make me think about the things I need to work on. I am in my early 40s, a stay-at-home homeschooling/reseller mom and I feel like I have so much going on but I find it hard to make time for me. I have been struggling with finding the strength as I am always tired, to workout and it is something that weighs me down. I know I have to do it for my own health. Your videos relax me and make me think about the topics you share. Anyhow thanks for sharing with us.

[@danafindwell]

Hi Brenda, its soooo great to see you! You don't know how inspiring it is to read your comment, thank you! And yes you are very busy...i think a reseller mom REALLY needs to have breaks, whether its exercise, a nice walk, or even just some time to watch your favorite TV show! You definitely deserve it!! Thanks soooo much for sharing your experience, it really is wonderful to get to know you more and more 🥰

[@brendagonzalez2475]

@@danafindwell Thank you Dana for the encouragement!

[@stephenhewitt9524]

Hi Dana this is probably a great to hear your content today. Your progress as you enter later years is spot on. Easing up in work is very wise. We work to live not live to work. It’s good you’re getting ready to share time you’re time with a grandchild. Oh you’ll enjoy Dana. Although you’re a busy bee between you’re gym and dance work and looking after yourself I see a Dana who is showing a more relaxed look. Good for you. I’m doing much the same learning a slower relaxed and learning life. It’s a good feeling. BTW your dance 💃 is well improving we see a more flexible Dana. Go girl. Watching you post your goods is brill. Your a better wrapper than snoop dog. lol 😝. Dana you touched on 2nd marriage maybe some things are better left alone and private whatever the circumstances you sounded a bit uncomfortable. Best staying on your positive track. Your an inspirational wee bundle of joy Dana. As long as you’re happy to provide your content and share your interesting life we are happy to listen. It helps us to relax and comment. You have a great day. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇺🇸🌹x

[@danafindwell]

Hi Stephen, i always love reading your comments, i really appreciate hearing your perspective! You are in Scotland, right? I think i detect a wee bit of Scottish accent in your comment?! I laughed outloud at your Snoop Dogg line, brilliant! Thanks for your wonderful comment, i hope you have a wonderful day 🥰

[@1SewSweet]

You’re dancing is truly great! It’s so fun to watch! Just to let you know that I am still watching, if I don’t have anything to say, I will give you a ❤. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts and experiences 🤗🥰.

[@danafindwell]

You are wonderful, 1SewSweet!! I'm soooo happy you liked the video, its great to get your feedback. I hope you have a lovely evening, and thanks again! 🥰

[@pybryce]

another fun one, love your place!

[@danafindwell]

Thanks soooo much, Brylon Farm!! I really appreciate you watching 🥰

[@MugothoNjoroge]

Thank you. You encouraged. Keep up the good work.

[@danafindwell]

I'm so glad! Thanks for your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@chrisadimitriadou]

Thank you for your video, Dana. At 45 I 'm struggling with the word "success". For the most of my life I was an overachiever who "had to do great in order to succeed". But this feeling of "doing great" was rather fleeting since there's always someone who can actually do better, and then I had to try harder and harder until I completely exhausted myself and got sick. I am currently trying to accept that "doing ok" is enough, but I don't know where to go from there because "doing ok" does not allow me to have the independence that I have been dreaming since I was a child.

[@danafindwell]

Hi Chrisa, you are very welcome! And thank you for sharing your experience, its so helpful for me and others to know that we aren't alone. Its so important to realize what is the meaning of success to each of us and it sounds like you have figured it out. I think you have to take good care of yourself and not get sick from pushing yourself to exhaustion. I am rooting for you to gain your independence since that is your dream! Thanks so much for your wonderful comment Chrisa, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@DAOR210104]

Dear Dana, every time I see your new video- I am so happy! I hope that you will continue doing these amazing videos! You are so authentic and kind and I am sure that if we were born in the same area and we were meeting, we could be very good friends. Our attitudes are very similar and our age is almost similar too. Love from Israel , Dalit

[@danafindwell]

Hi Dalit, its so great to hear from you! I love that we can interact even if we live in different parts of the world!! I really appreciate your warm support, and i appreciate you, my friend. 🥰 Hope all is good with you!

[@Nomad9715]

Thank you so much Dana for this video 🙏

[@danafindwell]

Hi Nomad, its soooo good to see you! Thank you for your support, i appreciate you!! 🥰

[@SoulCareOver50]

As we get older and definitely when we reach our 50s, our definition of success really changes. I agree that we appreciate a slower pace of life and prioritise our self-care needs. Having had to start over in the past 2 years or so, I've got to grind a bit more. But it's okay, as my decisions are just for me and my needs 😊

[@danafindwell]

Yes i totally agree with you, and because of your start over you do need to put in more effort in the beginning, so true! Just sub'd to your channel! 🥰

[@EmmanuellaJoy-w7z]

Keep going my friend 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤

[@danafindwell]

Helloooo Joyellas, its so great to see you again! Thank you for your awesome support, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@EmmanuellaJoy-w7z]

@@danafindwell 😍🔥🔥🔥

[@MsDeliaT]

Smart decisions!

[@danafindwell]

Thank you, Ms Delia! 🥰

[@MsDeliaT]

After 30 years as employee, i started as safe employed 17:01 ( professional certified accountant ) since 9 years already . In two years i can get my retire pension but i will continue with accounting in order to supplement my income.

[@danafindwell]

Sounds very smart, Ms Delia! Yes we really do have to try to plan for the future as well as live in the moment!!

[@daledottin7548]

Looking at this, I’m wondering how do you find the time to do all of this. You’re a rockstar. You should be so proud of yourself and the life you’ve created for yourself 👏🏿👏🏿

[@danafindwell]

Hi Dale, OMGosh thank you for your wonderful feedback, i really appreciate it! 🥰

[@thefreckledafrikan]

I feel like I always am nice and I subscribe to people’s channels but nobody returns the favor. Over the years, some channels I subscribed to went dark. Some even have not posted new content in years but here I am a nice person and nobody engages.

[@danafindwell]

Thank you for subscribing and commenting i really appreciate you. I just sub'd to your channel! 🥰

[@jenniferjeon3153]

Hi Dana❣️ Of course I cnt really say anythg abt your physical, mental or financial health... what you say sounds good tho. But, I can say you are a good dancer. 😊😊 As to what matters... I would say: a sure feeling of being where you should be and doing the best you can. ❤

[@danafindwell]

Hi Jennifer! Hahaha thank you, i am struggling with the new dance routine but thats ok! Its good for my brain, right? Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, i hope you are doing well!! 🥰

[@MsDeliaT]

Same here in my country ( meaning self employed , taxes , assurances , age of retirement, social contribution ) and life story ( in personal plan )

[@danafindwell]

Its amazing how so many of us can relate to one another! We are not alone 🥰

[@msmichele-chooseJOY]

I’m 6 days away from my 60th birthday and I’m so glad I found your channel. How do I define success? Good question. I guess being at peace with who I am today and recognizing that I still have plenty to learn makes me feel successful.

[@danafindwell]

Hi Ms Michele! That sounds like success to me! Happy early birthday, welcome to the 60s club, it is pretty fabulous!! Thanks so much for your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@AshleyAwe]

Hello Darling Dana!!! Hope you remain well. All the best!~ Your fellow dragon. ;-)

[@danafindwell]

Hi Ashley!! Yes its our year to shine, right fellow dragon? All the best to you too, i really appreciate you! 🥰

[@jenniferjeon3153]

Me three 🐲

[@shawnlang2449]

Success for me is a long life,, relationships with my partner family and friends.

[@danafindwell]

Yes! I couldn't agree with you more, Shawn. Hope you have an amazing day and thanks so much for watching and leaving me your comment! 🥰

[@win-with-attraction-marketing]

I started reinventing myself at age 58 while visiting Vietnam and knowing the Asia is the place for me. See the pic? I'm back and forth taking care of America stuff. Suddenly, I wish I had more time to enjoy my dreams and finally tranquility.

[@danafindwell]

Its great to meet you, Dr Marci! Its so wonderful that you are traveling and experiencing different cultures! I just sub'd to your channel. Thanks so much for watching and your comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@7SideWays]

At least you have a lot going on. I might hire a VA. My goal was time freedom by 50. Got that, now redefining purpose. Thank you!

[@danafindwell]

Awesome to hear you met your goal to have time freedom! Thanks so much for your comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@magalydiaz9073]

Enjoyed the video and great dancing 😊

[@danafindwell]

Hi Magaly, its soooo great to see you! I'm super happy you enjoyed the video and i am hoping to get better with this new routine, its so hard!! I hope all is good with you and that you have a wonderful day!! 🥰

[@AngieHernandez365]

new subbie! So glad I found you 🥰🥰

[@danafindwell]

Hi Angie, i'm super happy you found me, too!! Thanks so much for sub'ing, watching, and your wonderful comment, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@nubiz3296]

❤️

[@danafindwell]

Thank you!! 🥰

[@Sew_Retired]

🎉🎉🎉

[@danafindwell]

Thank you so much, Sew Retired! 🥰

[@williamkauffman-j9i]

🙏

[@danafindwell]

William!!! Its soooo great to see you! I hope you are doing good. Thank you for your wonderful support, i really appreciate you 🥰

[@daledottin7548]

You have good taste 🎉

[@danafindwell]

Thanks Dale! 🥰

[@EtiquetteTroll]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@danafindwell]

Thank you!! 🥰

[@lisafaust3801]

Hey -- I love that tune at 6.55 minutes -- who was that??

[@danafindwell]

Hey Lisa! I think you mean the song when we are thrifting right? Thats a KZbin copyright free song called 'Savannah' by Diviners...i'm so happy you like it! It kinda gives me chills, i love it so much! 🥰

[@ZAKCRI..]

Can I just mention how pretty you are wat the heck man !

[@danafindwell]

OMGosh, thank you Zakcri! I just sub'd to your channel 🥰

[@xo8336]

you keep talking about the past ... can you show pics of your younger self

[@danafindwell]

Yes, i can try to add it to a vlog one day! Thanks so much for watching, i appreciate you 🥰

[@sonnydacuse7622]

Are you Japanese?

[@danafindwell]

Hi Sonny! Hai!! I'm third generation Japanese American. Thanks for watching! 🥰

[@sonnydacuse7622]

@@danafindwell im a nisei

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[@Edwindeleon-gi8os]

CALFRESH

[@danafindwell]

Hi Edwin! 🥰

[@Edwindeleon-gi8os]

@@danafindwell HI IM ORIGINALY FROM L A BUT LIVE IN CONNETICUTE NOW