How We Fell in Love in 3 Days | Dear Black Love | Refinery29

[@toecutterjones]

My mom would say they definitely knew each other in a past life.

[@angeljohnson234]

I love seeing black women happy and in heathy relationships. I am here for this.

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

This is cool. The communication, intellect, and sensibility mentioned in this video is amazing.

[@rhondaclaiborne7283]

I’ve been waiting for intelligent lesbian conversations that elevate us. The way in which you two effectively communicate, understanding that you each require separate healing. Mentioning the 8 year old version was offended; many women have yet to comprehend the little girl in them must be healed. I fell in love at 55, met her online, after three months I moved in with her (when you know, you know; I definitely knew she was my special person). We’ve been together for six years and married for five years. I feed the little girl I see in my wife, she asked me how I know about her childhood, my response was, dearest wife, I’m a great listener, plus I love observing you: Fears brought on by things happening during your childhood, being mistreated for the darkness of your skin, and more. A willingness to open up, revealing your truths although is totally uncomfortable, yet necessary to maintain a healthy relationship in my opinion is a must. Thank you for this video, keeping a journal then sharing a entry was profound.

[@daniellejohnson373]

I love seeing black women LOVED! That's the ultimate...because when we are loved, we bloom. Doesn't matter by who!

[@jessicacooper3236]

I soooo feel this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

If it works for them it just does ..

[@Florida305all]

🤣🤣 ok 👍

[@iggygirlsballersclub7819]

Love what you said

[@ohamspromise4328]

❤

[@Jess-hf9me]

They seem very much in love. This is beautiful to see.

[@adriannakatieshelton4947]

Are you seeing someone currently 🌈

[@Fancym80]

This is such a BEAUTIFUL story! Just shows that people should stop trying to fall in love with a " type" and fall in love with people...true love always comes unexpectedly... it finds you... you can't force it.. this story is a true testimony of that...

[@lwhite474]

Sooooo true

[@everythingispolitics6526]

Indeed 💕

[@sadiM653]

As quiet as it’s kept “straight women” who get involved with lesbian women have had the desire to do so before they entered into that relationship. Energy attracts energy. Just because you don’t act on being gay does not make you any less gay. This “straight” woman is by definition a bisexual woman. The desire of her being with another woman attracted them to be together. You are not going to attract what you don’t think about. Lesbian women often times know they are gay like myself before there is any interaction with the same sex. You literally just know, it’s innate, even though we define sexuality by who you have sex with, i think it’s more so on a spiritual level. Who you have sex with doesn’t necessarily determine your sexuality. Who you are to your core and spiritually who you truly desire as well as your true essence determines what your sexuality is.

[@juratory8876]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Jess-hf9me]

I completely agree with this.

[@_srnao]

Agreed

[@chocolateprincess2656]

this is random but are there any black lesbian influencers, writers etc that you specifically follow?

[@cudabrown1980]

Love this comment and the connection to spiritual knowing. I had a “late-in-life” discovery of queerness and it wasn’t because I fell in love with a particular person; it was truly a spiritual discovery. I feel like God opened me up and guided me along this journey. It’s challenging to understand why it happened in my late 30s/ and into my early 40s, but such is life:)

[@nykki21]

Beaming through this whole video! I feel my spirit received something it truly needed

[@adriannakatieshelton4947]

What you looking for ?🌈

[@clari.therealtor]

Wishing for a love like this. Organic, genuine, and fulfilling ❤️❤️

[@yungshaaaa777]

Same

[@likasweet1643]

@Clari... Same here. I'm single let's connect and get to know each other

[@likasweet1643]

​@@yungshaaaa777me too, how are you doing?

[@anabra874]

I absolutely LOVE their energy!! What a beautiful couple! 😍

[@lashondascruggs8809]

The part i like is being emotionally available for a relationship, not choosing a women but connecting with a person that happened to be a female.

[@davidbrixton6955]

I totally relate to that situation where things that don't normally happen bring 2 people together and they have an instant deep connection ❤

[@evam6555]

Relationship goals... it's beautiful.

[@mcmike2956]

With a female interesting

[@iluvlatisha]

Love how organic and beautiful this relationship seems to be. It really reminds me of "LOVE is LOVE!" and sometimes the package that it shows up in may not be what we expected. Such an incredible and poetic love story. Happy for them.

[@nbua8433]

"I stay because I know you were created for me. You check off everything on my Divine List." Amazing... Thank you Live long! LOVE forever!

[@chatp89]

“I stay because you were CREATED for me”

[@ethelbertamutagaywa7874]

I could literally feel their connection. Wishing you all the love you both deserve

[@KCNwokoye]

Wow congrats to these two queens. Love their honesty, authenticity, and deep work. Happy to see this relationship was what they needed for their healing.

[@LivT04]

I want a love like this…honest, open and brave ❤

[@Vilicah]

Same here

[@vertical.poetry]

The love between these two women is raw, authentic, healing, powerful, inspiring... truly what dreams are made of. Thank you for sharing your life with an online audience so we can be inspired, and keep dreaming and loving.

[@lolojen794]

Wow! That was absolutely beautiful in every sense of the word. The two of them, their interaction, their words communicated! It’s a grinning yes for me! This is beautiful and exemplifies parallel but individual and couple growth through love, fear, openess and honesty and phew!! All the very best to this gorgeous couple!

[@nikkiupshaw8818]

I would love to get an update on how well you are doing together ❤❤❤❤

[@twilightjoi]

This was beautiful to watch. Living and loving out loud isn’t as easy for everyone as it should be, so kudos to you both for choosing to and for sharing it with others! We love to see it! ❤🎉

[@sunshinelifelover]

I truly love this, this made my heart smile to know that true love exists. Loving how you both worked on you both together. I’m praying for this love 🌈

[@tyford2661]

Like wow...this is some fine chemistry..really soulmates, i am sure that these two wonderful women had a connection from a previous life. I had seen lady in the jeans jacket at a wedding which she was the priest ( so to speak) giving two also drop dead beauties each others hand in marriage..She has great energy..so happy for her that she finally found her lady. May they both have years of happiness, great health and blessings together. 👍🏾🤗🌹I,m thinking of trying my luck in Atlanta to find my queen and bring her back to Switzerland, seems like magic happens there.😄😄😄

[@flossasvids7055]

Hi there, I line in Switzerland. It’s funny to see someone talk about Switzerland. What part in Swiss do you live ? Vous parlez français or Deutsch or Italiano or Romansch maybe ?

[@-RLM]

This was so beautiful. Such a beautiful couple! Make sure yall spend the block for the wedding coverage.❤

[@karasays01]

I can feel the authenticity in their bond. I would caution people who fall for the same sex to not identify as gay immediately particularly if they have been straight their whole life. You are who you are not who you love. If she was straight then she likely is still straight she just organically fell in love with one woman. She may not be attracted to other woman, just the woman shes with. so in essence she found her person.

[@juratory8876]

I guess bisexual people don't exist then?

[@nso5625]

But she’s in a gay relationship, so she’s definitely not straight. The label ‘gay’ isn’t a negative thing. If she goes back to men for the rest of her life after this girl then she’s bisexual/queer/whatever… but straight? No. Words have meaning.

[@cesium419]

Sexuality is fluid and each individual can choose to identify however they want, whether it's straight 5 years ago, gay now or pansexual in the future. You never know what life could throw your way.

[@kandylaland]

😂😂 girl bye

[@luchialight]

We label ourselves so much as if categorisation is needed when feeling and experiencing the wholeness of Love and the energies going with that.

[@PaulKabera]

Colby and Khaliah, you seem like a wonderful couple, and I wish you nothing but the best!

[@olivialo4826]

Her journal entry was so deep

[@ysimms7481]

My partner and I have been toether for 3 years now. We met randomly on a phone chat line. Talked on the phone for 3 weeks before a pic was exchanged or video chat. I lived in Florida her new york. She moved to Florida 5 months later. She and I are soul mates, twin Flames, we are in love. The intimacy that we share in all areas. Sooo connected! Im 44 shes 60. Im with my forever finally. Shes an AMAZING women❤❤❤❤

[@Arabella391]

This was so beautiful! Thank you so much Colby and Khaliah for sharing your wonderful love story, I’ve never seen two people look so happy to be with each other, you are both absolutely GLOWING with love and joy! ❤❤❤

[@adriannakatieshelton4947]

You single ?

[@dmccray6755]

I want this kind of love!

[@sydneyschneider2207]

Meee tooooo

[@OliverNorth9729]

YES! No matter what age everyone deserves love!

[@sontosokhela5627]

Woow this is inspiring..I just met my partner, I feel like my story is almost the same as yours..I'm going to follow you journey if you still post. This is my first time viewing this one.❤

[@ivysmith2794]

Our sexual preference is more fluid than we were originally taught.

[@CoachCocoa3]

Wow!! This is breathtaking!

[@emykol]

Breathtaking...

[@can-can9]

Whew!! Beautiful!!!

[@NoelPendergrass]

This is beautiful ❤

[@Florida305all]

🤢

[@serenityenderson]

😍So amazing! Gives me hope for the future x

[@iamaqueen89]

Thank you so much for existing and showing the world this, thank you for showing me.

[@cudabrown1980]

Love this comment and the connection to spiritual knowing. I had a “late-in-life” discovery of queerness and it wasn’t because I fell in love with a particular person; it was truly a spiritual discovery. I feel like God opened me up and guided me along this journey. It’s challenging to understand why it happened in my late 30s/ and into my early 40s, but such is life:)

[@nkipmo1154]

Love this!!

[@PomSptz]

Love the dynamic you two have created ! You two are wonderful!❤

[@shayf7188]

Khaliah O. Guillory- she has a business called Nap Bar. I was going to go but Covid hit everyone has told me it is an amazing experience.

[@amandajohnson4428]

This is amazing! I’m so happy for the two of you!❤

[@MM-lo2dk]

"I stayed because I know you were created for me." Damn❤

[@wyckede356]

I hope for a love like this one day. Black luv is beautiful 🤎

[@colettehylan19]

I love the apology playlist, and the warm batch of chocolate chip cookies.

[@hahalmafo]

Awww a beautiful love story 😍 ❤️❤️

[@neon_berni]

Beautiful story! 💛

[@whitneybrown4067]

This is Gonna b so Beautiful🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Saturday😀…..

[@thandosbistro6458]

❤this is beautiful

[@lindaakinyi8295]

Beautiful couple and wished to have one like this!😍😍❤❤❤

[@Vilicah]

It's amazing 😍

[@kimwang2787]

I'm Jealous and also so happy for them. Thank you for sharing

[@tnbn55]

Two being of chaos together. the future holds 🌪

[@lyshondavis5839]

I feel the love through the phone🙂

[@Florida305all]

Okay 🤣

[@theblvkswan]

This was soooo beautiful to see 🥹

[@Melbisquared]

❤❤❤🌈 beautiful story and beautifully shot

[@jip230]

I rally like both of their styles. This is a great story about finding love in unexpected places

[@QuannLi]

Absolutely love this! ❤️ ❤😊

[@PCAseniorcareservices]

Wowwwwww Live your truth And fulljoy your life All the wayyyyyyyyyy...Single matures where are you?

[@Rachel-so4kw]

So beautiful and inspirational. 😊

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

Love it❤❤❤ Patiently waiting to meet mine

[@PERSNICKETYREBELSHANGO]

All I can say is divine timing …

[@HeyAuntieP]

I love how they look at one another #lovewins

[@AnieJoanna]

Beautiful

[@nyakwada]

They look so happy

[@liamjohanssen7888]

🔥❤️❤️absolutely amazing

[@user-je3zc3nj9c]

Ah true divine 💕💕💕 love. I wish you many years of happiness. Peace and many blessings upon you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@godzchyld08]

Love this representation so much! 😍

[@tems__31]

They are a gorgeous couple ❤

[@sylviarosario6503]

Congratulations 🎊🎈🍾 on your union. ❤️

[@reesecup95]

This was beautiful to see. I just came out a year ago and I'm still struggling to accept who I am. It gives me hope that one day I will find my soulmate.

[@MegaChi33]

I love this!

[@carolinel.6204]

So beautiful

[@PinkYellowGreen2023]

Nice! Black love is cool.

[@Florida305all]

Queens and boss ladies 🤣🤣🤣

[@backroad55]

They look great together and very happy!!!

[@faithkivindyo3945]

2 beautiful souls.... lov found them

[@Rocioslane]

Wow, just wow! 🥹 💕

[@angelajimson4100]

Love them 💕

[@jenniferolaleye9599]

I love this. Wish this can happen for me❤🎉😊

[@precioushughley674]

I need to follow them such a beautiful couple

[@StephanieKellysuccessinfo]

You know when you know great story

[@mysoundmindz]

Our beautiful. I will live in those moments too. My wish will be fullfilled ❤

[@cheekiereynolds]

This is the love I want ❤🖤🤎

[@purityfredrick5299]

I need one exactly like this❤

[@ninajustice9365]

Amazing love story. I loved your beginning. Hoping for an everlasting love. ❤

[@kisha0712]

Didn’t you have a wedding vlog on here

[@soulfurious1845]

super cute

[@everythingispolitics6526]

They're such a beautiful couple 😍

[@lorenvanderbyl]

I would love a follow up with them …

[@l3ui909]

This is so gorgeous I’m melting 😭🥹🥹🥹

[@AlhassanZurufawu-cu5kh]

Nice one

[@monicabuchanan5444]

There so adorable! I love healthy black queer love.

[@tulsacaupain2882]

How sweet.

[@Satelight-g7m]

Magic!

[@jayfelsberg1931]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Our stories al start differently and they all matter..be proud be free

[@sclement20]

Thank you…I get it…

[@mercyarjan6765]

Love is a beautiful thing as long as it's based on truth n honesty.

[@azyurentertainment1496]

They are so cute.... 🥰

[@jillstclair1426]

Beautiful…..❤