reflections + updates halfway through the no buy year || no buy series

[@charmedvenuss]

I think its important to remember that the point of a no-buy is to break a harmful cycle, not to self berate whenever we want things or buy things!

[@gracenevitt]

so so true!!!

[@meghanadontireddy6002]

Its really helpful to update rules whenever required because so much happens during a year. Love this video❤

[@brittany7288]

One thing I’ve done for my low buy this year is to allow tweaks each quarter if needed. I’m careful to not overhaul my rules but the quarterly adjustment helps me account for things I didn’t foresee at the beginning of the year, adjust priorities based on the season or what’s going on in my life, or have stricter or looser rules in certain categories if needed. For example, I have several weddings to attend / buy gifts for this month, so Q2 rules accommodated for gifts, travel, absolutely required attire, etc. and I have slightly stricter rules in other categories to balance out the spending. But I’ll probably tweak things slightly for Q3 and maybe give myself something to look forward to or a purchase I’m allowed to make.

[@gracenevitt]

I think adjusting every quarter is such a smart way to do it!!

[@anavidreader277]

I started the year strong but have had multiple health emergencies in the last two months and things have kinda fallen apart. On reflection I think everything felt so out of control I wanted something I could control so I bought things. And I’m really proud to say I’m not beating myself up about it! Things were rough so I’m giving myself grace but now I’m going to get back on track. I’ve decided having a set number of things I can buy rather than a budget works better as im forced to be more careful with what the items I choose are and think about quality, where it’s from, is it most ethical vs just focusing on price. My whys are more about the behaviour than budget as it is for you but I think this approach will actually save me more money in the long run :)

[@gracenevitt]

great plan!!! sorry to hear about your health emergencies though, and I hope you're doing better now!! so glad you're being kind to yourself and just adjusting your rules to get back on track 💗

[@milicagrujic1361]

Yayy, I listen to your all no buy videos constantly, your energy is unmatchable!! Please do a no buy tactics for us that are starting in the middle of the year this challenge! Love you Grace have a great stress free week! I'm sending you tons of love from Belgrade, Serbia!!!!

[@gracenevitt]

I've gotten this suggestion a few times so perhaps I will make that video!

[@hannahabcd]

Thank you for this video! I think I need to update my rules. There’s been things I’ve wanted to buy and I hadn’t put them in a category so I’d use excuses to put them in the yellow list and make it “ok” when if I had thought about it in January it would have been on the red list

[@courtanneking]

I saw tame impala when they were in Auckland during their last tour and it was INCREDIBLE. Easily top 5 concert experience imo. So I understand why you would see them no matter what!

[@gracenevitt]

UGH they're just so GOOOOOOD I am so happy that my favorite group ever will be close by and even if they do a "small tour", it'll likely include Auckland 💗

[@kaynwood]

One thing we’ve decided to change is rather than a certain amount of times we can eat out in a week/month to just put a budget number on it and stick to that amount each month. It’s worked well for every other category, and when we did “too many” eat outs in a week (often a necessity due to crazy/unexpected schedules) we just threw caution to the wind and ate out WAY too much when it wasn’t necessary. So, hoping sticking to a certain amount each month will help rein that in since it has in other categories.

[@gracenevitt]

yeah I think it's really just finding a happy balance for each situation because obviously everyone's brain works differently! not to mention different circumstances, goals, finances, etc

[@kaynwood]

@@gracenevitt Oh absolutely! That's what I love about a "challenge" like this, it can be curated to fit each person's specific goals and needs! Love the community that you've created around being more mindful with spending habits as well!

[@amara560]

I'm late to the party, but these are some really great ideas. I feel I need to evaluate as well! Thanks for the inspiration ❤

[@demideridder]

i fell back into my old habbits, but i am going to try a no buy month in July :)

[@mona0monik]

I'm rooting for you!

[@veronicasmemories]

If I were you I'd skip eating out (unless you're with friends) and use that money for a few summer pieces. My number one food rule is I don't go to a restaurant alone (this includes coffee shops and fast food) and since I live by myself I actually have to go out of my way to find someone to hang out and grab food with. I also have a bunch of easy recipes I can make in a pinch if I haven't been grocery shopping recently

[@gracenevitt]

yeah we're trying to be better about it. when we do "eat out" it's never a restaurant or anything, it's usually something cheap that costs less than $30 for the both of us to eat.

[@dptfo]

@@gracenevitt yeah but $30 will buy enough thrifted sundresses to satisfy the need. I think this is a good premise. Allow yourself 2x eating out a week, and if you don’t, give yourself permission to earmark that particular $30 you would have otherwise spent on things you’re feeling a little deprived of

[@gracenevitt]

it's not as much about the money as it is curing my shopping addiction tbh. I'm seeing what I can do with what I have to show myself that I am fine with what I have. if an absolute need arises then I will deal with it accordingly. currently that is me trying to get a few items for free (for now)

[@veronicasmemories]

@@gracenevitt whatever you end up doing will be the best decision for you💕

[@aeolanyiramoon6260]

I kind of went back to my old shopping habits this month, hopefully I can do better next time :) Your videos are super helpful thank you so much

[@gracenevitt]

you got this!!!

[@aeolanyiramoon6260]

@@gracenevitt Aww thank you so much that means a lot to me 🥰

[@mayasanders8776]

Where do gifts fall on your red, green and yellow list?

[@gracenevitt]

oh woops I forgot to write that in my physical journal so I forgot to mention it! that's kind of a green/yellow light thing because it's only allowed for birthday and christmas! no random gifts just so I can spend money (because I'd use it as an excuse for sure)

[@brenda5297]

I'm kinda thinking of limiting my time scrolling on social media and mainly KZbin to avoid the temptation of purchasing nonessential items, but I fear I might get FOMO down the line. And that I might miss the trends (the slang and informational stuff like that). What do you suggest I do? And finding a hobby is super hard for me because I have no interest in anything. My heart is just not into a hobby for a long time now. Maybe something is wrong with me?

[@gracenevitt]

nothing is wrong with you!! it's hard to find enjoyment in the little things when so much of our life is force fed to us in the terms of "listen to this, wear this, look like this, etc". it's almost an act of rebellion to take a step back and remove yourself from trends and expectations and consuming media and then find yourself amidst all of that! start simple by trying a few different things! find something that brings you joy, makes you happy, piques your interest, etc. take your time because it's a lot of "deprogramming" you could say.

[@brenda5297]

@@gracenevitt It's for peace of mind that's why.

[@bingbonk1765]

Ngl imo the crochet stuff counts as an experience bc you’re learning a new skill. ywim? becoming more self sufficient. it’s good for the brain. some hobbies def count as an experience. as long as you’re mindful :)

[@gracenevitt]

very true!! the fact that I got all that stuff for free is also just a HUGE no buy win tbh

[@angeladugan-starr]

This 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@kamiele6063]

Girl 😍 I was shocked the moment I heard that your goal is to move to New Zealand… because this is my goal too! That’s why I’m on the minimalist/frugalistic path to achieve this goal! Maybe we’ll see each other there, haha btw I love your videos ☺ your voice is very calming

[@gracenevitt]

omg thank you😭💗 and I love that for us!!!

[@freshfreshfreshfresh]

I found Tame Impala through Dua Lipa’s new album. Great stuff!

[@gracenevitt]

YESSS!!! Kevin produced it!

[@edupunknoob]

I started a no-buy year and then I found out I was moving. Yeah.

[@pamelaogando9671]

Hi Grace! Could you please share where did you buy your glasses and what style they are? I also need new ones and I love how they look! thank you

[@gracenevitt]

they were a promotional pair from lens crafters! I literally got them on sale from a little sample selection they had 😭 idk how helpful that is, but the style is basically just "round wire frame" glasses

[@sabahatnaheed1435]

your hair looks so nice :) i love wavy hair

[@gracenevitt]

thank you!!

[@vagitwat]

Hi! What’s your favorite Wild scent??

[@gracenevitt]

I reallllly loved one of the holiday scents that they sent me (I think it was like prosecco and berries or something) but sadly it's only available during winter... I've only tried the linen one (of the regular scents) and it's okay! I'm excited to try more though.

[@HH-zb5ul]

Nice video , what do you work ?

[@gracenevitt]

I work on Broadway as a wardrobe swing ☺️

[@HH-zb5ul]

@@gracenevitt You are welcome

[@dptfo]

You didn’t put your wild affiliate link here

[@gracenevitt]

seems like I'm still a step away from getting the links (will update once I have them) but for now feel free to use my code GRACENEVITT for 20% off!!

[@fadfadet584]

Stray Kids ♥ tbh if they do a show in Paris I would go broke (but happy). It's on my yellow-ish green \o Have you listened to Mamamoo? It's a "mature" k-pop girl band, with amazing vocals, I love them so much.

[@gracenevitt]

I'm so soft for stray kids now LOL and I have heard of mamamoo but never listened to their stuff I don't think!

[@fadfadet584]

@@gracenevitt if/when you have time i recommend checking them out, they have my heart honestly

[@sabahatnaheed1435]

youre why is so beautiful. to move to new zeland. wish i could do that! i have no one to move with lol

[@gracenevitt]

you don't need anyone to move with !! I would have done this whether I met Ray or not lol

[@veronicasmemories]

I'm moving out of the country for my masters in the fall, and my boyfriend has to stay in the US for work): Moving can be easier to do if you're single (it's just expensive lol)

[@sabahatnaheed1435]

@@gracenevitt true. Thank you 🙏

[@_alliett]

i'm so grateful i stumbled across your channel from your (closet) declutter videos 🤍