Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Placements Explained

An workshop on interpreting love and relationship placements in the birth chart using astrology, with astrologers Chris Brennan and Leisa Schaim.
This is a recording of a local meeting of the Denver Astrology Group, and it was meant to be an introductory overview to some of the techniques that astrologers employ when looking at relationships through the lens of natal astrology.
There are three primary areas that we focus on for relationships in the birth chart:
1. Planets in the 7th house
2. The ruler of the 7th house
3. The condition of Venus
During the course of the meeting we demonstrate the techniques by sharing some celebrity and client example charts from our private files, and several members of the audience also shared their personal birth charts so that we could hear how certain placements have worked out in the lives of individuals directly.
This episode of the podcast acts as sort of a companion to other episodes we’ve done on relationships in the past, which you can find on the podcast website.
There are some concepts that we only mention in passing in this episode, since they have been touched on in other episodes, and also since this was just meant to be a more basic technical introduction.
This is episode 243 of The Astrology Podcast.
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Timestamps
00:00:00 Intro
00:05:00 Relationships and the 7th house
00:12:35 Examples of positive 7th house placements
00:16:15 Carl Sagan: Ascendant ruler in 7th
00:20:29 Joe Biden: Saturn in 7th, Ruler of 7th in 12th
00:25:18 Richard Nixon: Venus in 7th
00:27:11 Audience example: death of partner
00:33:56 Audience example: end of relationship
00:36:41 Saturn in 2nd ruling the 7th
00:40:50 Annual Profections
00:44:23 Ruler of 7th in 9th
00:47:53 Emmanuel Macron: Ruler of 7th in 5th
00:50:50 Venus as relationship significator
00:52:15 Venus Saturn
00:53:44 Venus Uranus
00:57:04 Venus Neptune
01:00:35 Venus Pluto
01:02:40 Lot of Eros
01:04:36 Audience example: Jupiter & Mars in 7th
01:16:25 Audience example: Venus Saturn Pluto
01:21:28 Synastry
01:22:22 Audience example: 7th house profection
01:28:47 Meghan Markle: Ruler of 7th in 4th
01:31:15 Prince Harry: Profection example
01:33:41 Monica Lewinsky: Mars in 7th
01:34:22 Bill Gates: Ruler of 7th Saturn mitigations
01:36:58 Amanda Knox: Saturn in 7th ruling 8th and 9th
01:38:39 Prince William: Ruler of 7th in 7th
01:40:00 The Macrons' synastry
01:40:57 Audience example: Venus Neptune
01:45:12 Hitler: Ruler of 7th in 8th
01:46:08 Eva Braun: Saturn in 7th
01:47:25 Aretha Franklin: Saturn in 7th
01:49:06 Common relationship questions
01:51:20 Signs and relationships
01:52:20 Ruler of 7th in 1st
01:53:30 Placements aren't static
01:56:00 Closing remarks

[@TheAstrologyPodcast]

Let me know in the comments if you have any good examples of how these relationship placements have worked out in your life and birth chart!

[@allisonsaupe]

Wondered if you consider Saturn or Uranus as ruler of Aquarius? Thinking you probably would use more traditional rulership, Saturn. Thank you both of you, this was really great to hear! And I hope to get your book, Chris.

[@TheAstrologyPodcast]

@@Neon Fuck - ♏♒♒

[@TheAstrologyPodcast]

@@@allisonsaupe - We use the traditional rulership scheme, which has Saturn as the ruler of Aquarius.

[@allisonsaupe]

@@TheAstrologyPodcast much appreciation, I'll share more later.

[@zakhoskins6404]

It never ceases to amaze me how often astrologers get Hitler wrong. The CIA has declassified documents (I believe about two years ago) detailing intelligence reports that he did in fact escape to South America via a ratline as some unorthodox historians had speculated for years. This is all publicly available knowledge now. The only people saying otherwise are the left wing ideologues who censor the shit out of Wikipedia (a site which you should take with a grain of salt to say the least). I mean, do you really buy the whole "Soviets buried the body in an unmarked spot" lie? It's right up there with the U.S. having assassinated Al-Baghdadi MULTIPLE TIMES. So the idea that he an Eva committed suicide in a bunker is a myth at best. Kinda like a lot of other myths about the Germans in that timeframe. Don't let political correctness taint your study of astrology. It'll make you a less competent student.

[@sensibilities1]

My boyfriends 7th house is Aquarius and my Venus is Aquarius. My 7th house is cancer and his Venus is cancer 🥺❤️

[@mindee2871]

To the woman that stood up and shared her story, thank you. Your vulnerability is beautiful 💛💫

[@bardoteachings]

11:29 So astrology tends to focus on the outliers?

[@3cords_1braid]

The Virgo Rising, psychotherapist is very admirable. Her courage to be open, vulnerable and in the moment is worthy to be noted!

[@puentederama]

This channel is an absolute jewel!Thank you for so much great information!

[@mskyliejayde]

Awesome episode . So informative hearing others share their 7th house chart examples

[@kozmica8146]

loved it! thank u so much for this meetings and for the people who shared their own experiences, so thankful.

[@Mfestt12]

"I dont think we've missed a meeting in 10 years" Me watching in 2022: lol

[@kyleerhard9284]

Thank you guys! Currently taking your course Chris, its well researched and amazing, worth every penny... I just can't understand how anyone could downvote this......what were the 11 people thinking to downvote this amazing video... Ty guys

[@GemStar717]

Thank you for this content and to everyone who shared their own experiences. I gained some valuable insights and knowledge into my own 7th house placements and overall birth chart themes. I resonated with the profections piece because I could see how many of my catalyst relationship experiences occurred at that age & stage of my life.

[@ShermanTank13]

Thank you so much to everyone who shared their charts and stories I have truly learned so much and it’s really helped me - i hope you all experience all the greatest joys the cosmos have in store for you

[@dianespencer8057]

Loved the real life examples! Thanks, guys!

[@dharmabum1111]

Learned a lot from this video. Thank you. I've just completed a 'memoir' of sorts, posting album covers representing my loves and lovers, with ties to their astrological signs. I learned a lot about myself adding to awareness of my 5th house Venus placement in Libra. Sag in the 7th, and Lot of Eros and Jupiter in Pisces. I am Mercury ruled and clearly like to write about Love.

[@K-10-limitless]

Id love an episode dissecting relationships in the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses together and separately

[@Natalia-hf3et]

This was SO informative. Thank you. ❤️

[@spiritualjunkie6775]

Wow you guys really helped me get a deeper understanding of my chart

[@cmc_0]

One of my very favorite podcasts, well done!! Although, with a 5 planet Stellium in 7th house (Virgo - Su/Ju/Mo/Sa/Me) all which Square my Neptune conjunct MC, this subject obviously is pertinent in relation to my Natal chart and of course would spark my interest ...but given this, it’s also a huge (blessing) for Me personally that you have explored the importance the 7th H in detail, so ...THANK YOU BOTH so very much for this lesson (this included as I am a self taught student of astrology -currently) and your selfless devoted time for ‘Us” 👏 👏 | 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 | 🤛 |. 🙏

[@la-chicagitana9949]

thank you......hopefully a synastry podcast will be created in the near future.

[@theinvisiblewanderer]

I’m a Taurus rising, Venus in Scorpio at 29degrees with a 4 degree orb/conjunction to my 3 degree pluto in sag, and let me say I’ve dealt with some INTENSE situations regarding relationships with others. Thank you for making this!

[@carolconn631]

Thank you, this was very helpful!

[@meganclose-dees3489]

I'm so glad I finally watched one of these! I've been a rather serious student of astrology my entire adult life (I'm 64) but have only recently begun to realize the utility of the ancient view of houses; that is , using the whole house system. With Uranus currently riding myTaurus 5 Sun, I've been experiencing the culmination of a rebirth and emergence as a viable artist as well as considering offering myself as a counseling astrologer. I changed the spelling of my name this week. And now, I have a whole new perspective on not only my chart, but on all the ones I've been looking at all these yesrs, having previously favored either Placidus or Koch. WOW! Thanks!!

[@pedrosoares219]

Hi, Leisa and Chris! Thank you for another very interesting podcast! I have a 22° degree Capricorn ASC, with exalted Jupiter @ 1° Cancer, being the most auspicious planet/in sect benefic in the 7th Whole sign house (WSH), closely conjunct with a 28° 34' Gemini Mars (ruling a 11th wsh Scorpio MC) in the 6th WSH. I work in the law field, so i have legal (jupiterian) relationships with clients as well with other lawyers/colleagues (also Libra in 10th WSH and Sun with Mercury (retrograde but in domicile and exaltation) in Virgo in the 9th WSH (Sun's joy) are strong indicators of law studies/practise). Also, travel (Jupiter) with partners or to be with partners temporarily located faraway, has been a recurring theme in my life...also kindhearted, generous and maternal partners (exalted cancer jupiter in the 7th) that also work in the law field, were teachers or have very relevant and significant CV/higher studies. It fits perfectly, yes! But Chris, i have a question for you: will you consider that 28° 34' Gemini Mars, the out of sect malefic/more negative planet(ruling a 11th wsh Scorpio MC) as also strongly influencing my 7th house?? The truth is i have many facts and stories corroborating that...more than the 6th house placement, actually. Thank you again. (I've already asked you this in a podcast about WSH long time ago, but with no answer yet;))

[@catherinewylie6959]

I am moving to the Springs soon from Crestone. Nice to know you have these. I would drive up for them!

[@user-sh1xw2ru7c]

Scorpio rising with a Taurus rising partner - so that we find each other in our 7th houses. The ruler of my 7th is Venus in the 12th in her domicile together with the Pluto/Sun conjunction, sextiling Jupiter in a day-chart. I’ve, somehow , always been attracting foreigners as partners, some of the relationships were purely platonic but very significant for both sides, others were long-distance and we had to deal with long periods of separation. My husband and I met abroad and we’ve gone through some long-distance hardship the first couple of years. It’s been 11 years since we moved together and we still love each other and enjoy our relationship, so there’s hope even if the ruler of the 7th resides the 12th 😁😁😁

[@galah771]

Great talk thank you. It'd be really helpful if the example charts were kept up on the video screen for longer so we can read them more thoroughly while the talking about them is happening (they're too small to see on the workshop screen). Thanks

[@felicehappy]

Wonderful podcast thank you! What I wouldn’t give to be there. A dream! And I learnt that this year, since 2nd Jan I am in my 7th house perfection year. I am 42! So it’s fitting that I am watching a video all about relationships and the 7th house. Thank you again, makes me want to move to Denver. And an example I could give is that when Neptune exactly sextiled my venus which is in my 7th house, i got into a relationship full of illusions and idealisation with someone who is an alcoholic... and it was long distance too-Neptune transiting my 9th. It ended when Neptune moved past my venus a few degrees. I was also in a 3rd house perfection year and most of the relationship was spent communication via text, social media and the phone... also Saturn is in my 3rd so it was very frustrating and restricted. Very difficult to see each other for many different reasons.

[@corij3600]

Saturn, Uranus, Neptune are all in my 7th (in Capricorn day chart) 😂 what a mess?! Ah, well, I've met my perfect match. ❤️ We've been together 10 years now... Reflecting on our marriage it definitely has a lot of "Capricorn"-traits. Extremely stable, steadfast, and maybe to some a bit boring (to us that's okay 😂). We both love having our space, focusing on our careers and interests, doing our own thing, etc. But at the end of the day everything comes back together when we focus on our family and the future we're building for our children. It's a really strange blend of the drive for independence as well as working towards the same goals. My friends always made fun of me because my ideal man could basically be summed up as Hank Hill... If that's not a perfect example of a Capricorn IDK what is 😂

[@sintheaakram2098]

Awww,,,so sweet..congratulations to you(for your longterm cute married life,,,!!!) I have this planetary position to..in my 7th house,,,may be its our first saturn return also(as mine)but in my side my sutuation is kinda different,,,

[@janicesmith1956]

I have Saturn Mars and Neptune in 7th house Capricorn sun and moon. Difficult marriage partner scorpio moon in libra ascendant in Aries. Most of thevtime we ran a business 25 years all ok.

[@rvan9949]

7th house Aries. Moon in the 7th. Ruler of the 7th in the 3rd. My current husband has an Aries stellium, so he just parked so much there. Felt like a natural partner almost immediately. My sun and venus falls in his 7th. Met him the week transiting uranus left my 7th house, I had divorced my first husband when Uranus entered my 7th. We met through a local athletic group.

[@amberford6892]

I have venus square saturn and my partner is 9 years younger than I am. I also have Taurus on the 7th with venus in the 9th and he has been working (on and off) out of town (sometimes out of the country) for a few years now. It's his life's dream to do this work! Really cool how I could find this based on this episode so thank you!

[@amberford6892]

I also have Venus trine jupiter and trine my moon (both in the first house) and I don't know what that can signify exactly but he is absolutely my best friend and the best relationship I have had. We've grown a lot together in all ways.

[@akashamagick]

Love that podcasts thank you to share your knowledge . Could you tell me what is the software that you use ? I still din`t found one that I like so I manually do all my chart so I will like to save some time

[@amberlamarca3536]

Thanks!

[@chantelcastellano9672]

My 7th house is Virgo, night chart, and I have Venus and a stellium in my 7th house. I met my husband when I was quite young, 21, and I was engaged to him 6 weeks later. We've been married now for 6 years, and I would say my relationship with him and the joyful happiness that has grown from it is the cornerstone of my life.

[@chantelcastellano9672]

My moon is also in the 9th, and my husband is foreign, and I've lived half of my life abroad with him thus far.

[@mimilam2618]

This episode sparked my interest in astrology again . Great show . What exactly is perfection year ?

[@LorettaLovette369]

Also it would be really awesome to hear your perspective in a podcast on declinations in the birth chart or out of bounds planets

[@lorrainea3676]

In a reading, would you ever consider using both placidus and whole sign houses? Thank you ✨

[@karolineoandersen8500]

Thank you for this! Very in debth and interesting. I've got the Spielberg chart: sagittarius sun 27˚, 26˚ cancer rising and saturn 1˚ Leo. I've been single for 19 years, maybe an interesting case study, though rather boring for me ;0) my twin sister has leo rising, with the saturn even closer conjuncted, she's been in her relationship for 19 years and they've got two kids...It's rather interesting how much the chart ruler must have to say in our case...

[@eagillum]

Omg that's like me and my sister (not twin). My longest relationship has been 3.5 years, no kids. She got married at 22 and has been married for 20 years with 2 kids.

[@JoytotheWorld11]

This is REALLY interesting because I've got difficult things related to marriage in my chart, and I've felt in the past that marrying someone was or would likely be the beginning of the end of the relationship, ESPECIALLY once I got a ring (which happened months after the marriage) or changing my name, both things that kind of make it "more official" than just the paperwork 1:47:54

[@dianeyoung8068]

I love your channel.

[@Krapsla]

i have a good example..: Day chart , aries rising Jupiter exact conjunct Venus both on 29 degrees Libra in the 7th. This conjunction is completely free from affliction (no hard aspects), The extremes i've lived through was : a relationship with a wealthy man but no heart/soul connection, spiritual poverty a relationship with a very poor man (financial issues,..) but heart/soul connection, spiritual wealth I cut it both, as i seek balance between those two extremes. it has driven met NUTS very painful experiences, both.. whilst i have two benefics in 7th, BUT on the crisis degree 29'

[@JoytotheWorld11]

Do you use Lot of Eros for anything other than zodiacal release? For example, do natal aspects, synastry aspects, or transits to it indicate anything? Perhaps you have a separate video about the Lot of Eros... I should look for that...

[@theoldgod9]

I found this channel at the same time I found an aquarius asc and sun person.

[@towardsthelight220]

I told a girl who had Saturn in the first opposing Mars conjunct Pluto in the 7th not to rush into anything, because she was worried about not being in a relationship.

[@unfoldinglotus1572]

Leo rising with Sun in Aquarius in the 7th. I have a three planet stellium in Aquarius, Sun, Mercury, and Mars. Mercury is too far from Mars to be considered conjunct, but both Mercury and Mars are conjunct my Sun. I have Jupiter in Rx in Leo first house. My relationships have served as a mirror to my own growth. My MC is Aries 9th, ruled by that Mars in the 7th. I want to teach others what I learned the hard way. About power dynamics in relationships. In my draconic chart it's flipped. I have Aquarius Rising with Leo in the 7th. Further adding to this theme that relationships will teach me more about who I am. My marriage was to a very toxic, abusive man. Ruler of my 7th is Saturn in Virgo 2nd house conjunct my Moon and NN. I'm in a 7th profection and Saturn and Jupiter are transiting my 7th. I was told my Sun is hyleg, my health planet, and so this could have more to do with health than relationships. There is a relationship I would love to have, but I had to set some boundaries. So far the only relationships changes for me are my children. They are all grown as of this year. One is having my first grandchild, another is moving out of state.

[@janicesmith1956]

I have Neptune ,Mars and Saturn in libra in 7th house married a scorpio with moon in libra. I have Venus in scorpio 8th house. We ran a business for 25 years. 46 years of marriage. We both had mercury in Sagittarius I did level 3 computer business studies age 50 and worked in school library. Am also writing a book and he loved reading books. I also went to a religious school. We both had interesting jobs over the years. My husband died with sun in scorpio, he had cancer in prostate and leg bone.

[@hollyinthewoods]

I have North Node in 7H Gemini, Venus Uranus conjunction, Merc in 5H Aries, make so much sense why I love short term romances and variety! I truly believe for me that is, I am meant to have many, many soulmates in this lifetime. I love being single and all things temporary 😊

[@jennispurr203]

i love the gay guy with mars in the seventh cause he gave a lot more details

[@fortheloveofthewhippetnijm8125]

I missed that part? Any idea at what time it was about?

[@jennispurr203]

1:26:00

[@fortheloveofthewhippetnijm8125]

@@jennispurr203 thank you. Appreciated a lot.

[@bumbarbiexo]

I have Saturn in the 7H Taurus @ 16°. A few other placements but I do have issues with violence when it comes to men in my life. Keeping me captive seems to be a theme.

[@dahlia6457]

23:32 i also find it interesting his 7H lord is mercury which can symbolize transportation/driving. loosely conjunct mars

[@mauriciamullings3834]

This is the coolest! Do you know of any astrology groups/settings such as this one in NYC??

[@TheAstrologyPodcast]

Yeah there are a few great groups in NYC! One is the NYC Astrology Meetup, which was actually part of the inspiration for my group: www.meetup.com/nyc-astrology/ Contact Danny Larkin with the Association for Young Astrologers for more info about that group and other local ones.

[@mauriciamullings3834]

The Astrology Podcast Yes! Im going to their “Astrology of sex” meet up on Thursday! Excited!! Thanks so much!

[@Eventsandthings]

So, what happens when the ruler of the 7th house is in the 7th house ( non-full houses, venus in taurus 7th house) (full-houses, venus in taurus 8th house)? I will work out the profilifcations ( spelling?) and put relationship events in comments. Really good topic BTW, Thanks ! Oh, got the answer at the end of video!

[@quincycurlz]

LOL so a lot of planets on the upper right we could call " a West-end Story" ! Relationships to others. Great 😁

[@csabasaf]

I was shocked by the very first chart you pulled up, Chris. I have almost identical placements. (The Bid Three at least.) Only difference being that I have Venus retrograde.

[@csabasaf]

Fun fact: my longest and most fulfilling relationship was with a Cancer Sun.

[@Cmrntylr]

This was fun. Wasn’t expecting it. I can add.. If I end up getting married to the almost 7th house profection person and become an astrologer I can try to get on your show to rub in you guys also called her a cradle robber… Venus opposite Saturn in a night chart.. (shaking head disapprovingly) I somehow never really looked at this especially considering she kinda taught me to do this. We don’t use whole sign, so her 7th is Saturn with Saturn in her 1st house. Night chart, Venus in Aquarius 8th. I have moon in Aquarius, but since we both don’t use whole sign moons are in each other’s 7th houses but move to each other’s 8th in WS. She has Venus opposite Saturn, humorously when I said the last person I nearly dated was the most immature person I ever met she asked about age. She and I both have looks-younger-than-we-are-itis. I didn’t answer it, but 17 year gap. I have pisces 7th, Jupiter cancer 11th day chart with Venus, mars, and Pluto 1st house. Ketu in 7th.. things missed, my mars, Venus, Pluto are conjunct her Pluto and fortune and we met when Neptune transit hit my part of fortune. Venus opposite Saturn? Well, she has Saturn in Leo and I’m a 12th Leo sun and retrograde Mercury. She’s a cancer ascendant moon in 9th or 10th depending of house system. We met prior to my 7th profection, but she works 50-60 hours a week where we only ever met because of covid lockdowns. Interesting is her Venus is trine those 3 libra conjunctions where both are sextile each other’s neptunes. Interesting is she’s in her 9th profection so we don’t have time to talk much as I’m in my 8th but I’ll be visiting there in my 9th profection. What is it? No clue. But if you want to be around something bizarre, spend time with a person with a 1st house Saturn and another with a 1st Venus, mars, and Pluto. It’s the only other person I’ve met who looked at covid and said “good for the world, maybe it’ll grow up.” I know Saturn, admits to being cold and kinda controlling. Pluto and mars? I bring it out in others where others are controlling where I’m kinda “meh” about it, but I’ve avoided relationships for what’s probably 7-8 years or something. I just point at those 3 libra placements when she brings up she’s cold/distant and can upset people along with Ketu in the 7th. 😄 she’s a cap sun/merc; all kinds of cold cold cold going around. How those 3 planets surface in relationships.. pisces with Jupiter.. no issues, I’ve never perused a relationship. Ketu 7th, I’m mostly detached and very detached from the 11th where I just let others deal with that 11th often. Detachment with those libra placements cause others to be quite unusual where THEY view it (plus Leo 12th) as a power play where I’m all not knowing/caring about what’s going on. If I turn those placements on, it’s quite charming, but it’s not something I have any desire to sustain so I just don’t. Staying single and preferring it is a person either connects or doesn’t, so I just don’t bother which is something I view as an astrological challenge related to that Neptune transit. I was being pressured to turn the switch on to “win someone’s affection” and I said no because it wasn’t the right fit. Total s*^t storm and this other person showed up where it’s kinda magical while I’m also not giving into that 7th pisces with Neptune floating around crap. And, no, I didn’t listen to this one because of that or the Venus retrograde. I was listening to the picatrix episode where it wasn’t my thing and this was the shortest one I had downloaded. I always hope for something astrology wise where you can pull a scanners making people heads explode. Pluto in the 1st, can’t help it. I keep forgetting: suggestions for the upcoming Pluto episode, look up quotes from the 1st episode of House of cards. “Such a waste of talent. He chose money over power. In this town, a mistake nearly everyone makes. Money is the Mc-mansion in Sarasota that starts falling apart after 10 years. Power is the old stone building that stands for centuries. I cannot respect someone who doesn’t see the difference.” Last, if astrology is true, it’ll be compatible with almost every true philosophy. So psychological astrology and ancient should be compatible as said. It’d be a fun philosophical episode someday. I have a virgo ascendant with pisces descendant, they’re actually quite similar while neither being able to exist without each other. Virgo can’t organize the seemingly nonsensical pisces, yet, it can so they’re bound. They’re both “of service” where 1 is logical and the other intuitive. Yet, virgo may have an unconscious intuitive side as pisces having an unconscious logical. Jungian mbti each type has a shadow type that’s an unconscious function of the conscious. Archetypal can fit both psychological and ancient by complexes which can fit maté addiction philosophy where signs are behavioral addictions, etc. fun episode, I’ll tell my possible spouse you called her a pedo.. 🙃 🤣 good episode.

[@ashleybishop48]

I’m the Sun in Pisces with Capricorn rising, Descendant in Cancer, my Moon in Virgo (rulership the Moon rules Cancer 7th placement). Thank you

[@zengirl43]

It would be nice if when you are discussing planets in a certain house or just the house, if you could touch on the subject regarding no planets in that house in relationship to the Asc.

[@samanthas8340]

I have a night chart with scorpio rising. So my 7th house lord is venus in the 7th (conjunct 6H jupiter) opposing my moon/pluto conjunction in the first. I've been struggling with what to make of this aspect. So far the only major 7th house significance would have been when I was 18 which felt very Uranian/Plutonian. Uranus and Saturn tightly trine my venus as well. for examples I have a close friend with scorpio on her descendant and pluto in 7th trine her Mars. She also has a night chart with venus conjunct her sun, moon, mercury square her Mars. Then Saturn/Uranus in her 8th opposing her stellium. Her relationships are characteristically Plutonian. her 18 year old relationship became abusive. She fears bringing out the worst in S.O.s ultimately blaming herself. I'd like to reassure her as well this won't always be the case.

[@JoytotheWorld11]

Does traditional astrology consider the North Node in the 7th house conjunct the descendant to be a difficult placement?

[@junemoon8675]

Hi Lisa hi Chris, here’s my experience: I am ♑️ rising, My 7th house and DC is in ♋️ in a daychart: Three planets sit there: 1) sun 🔆: ruler of the eighth in the seventh 2) Mercury 💙: ruler of my sixth and ninth house in the seventh 3) Mars 🔥: ruler of my fourth house, also my most malefic planet as I have a day chart My seventh house is ruled by the moon: My Moon: 🌙 sits in the fifth in Taurus in overall good condition. My venus situation is not that pleasant: Venus 💝 sits in my 6th house in Gemini tortured in direct opposition by Saturn 🪐 coming full on from the 12th. When I was in the very beginning of my mars ruled 🔥profection Year, I had one terrible brake up! It changed my life! It negatively shaped my Relationship to relationships (-.-) my heart burned and this was the biggest loss in my life. It felt like someone died! Fire and ashes. I had to regain my ability to cry again, which I lost bcs it was to much to emotionally bear. I had loved him like crazy. The break up was externally forced on us. What’s also astrological very interesting is that Saturn also entered my 12 house reactivating the same opposition to Venus as mentioned. He was part of a community which is socially disadvantaged (venus in 6th) in the Later fifth house perfection year I escaped into a beautiful sexually fulfilling romance that lasted about a year, it did its job and distracted a while. No harm was done Equipped with a healed heart with new depth, I am ready for commitment: Now I am looking forward to my tenth profection year ruled by Venus, hoping for the good stuff, but not sure: although it’s a tenth house profection year, the fact that is ruled by Venus could be beneficial for romantic relationships aswell. But also I am scared it could reactivate my Saturn venus opp. Sect: mars the Most malefic planet is sitting in my 7th house. Jupiter what’s supposed to be my benefic planet is in a square to this mars, sitting in Aries. Also mitigating Saturn in a trine. Appreciate your comments on this🥂

[@wakeup7874]

june moon read this chart 6/14/1968 Chicago 4:45pm please

[@kadia-saraf]

Very illuminating! Thank you! My Neptune in Sag (DC Scorpio) in the 7th definitely made me disillusioned when it comes to partners.

[@sydneymast3851]

Something interesting- I broke my ankle in the fourth grade (2009) when Pisces was in Uranus. Since Pisces is ruled by Neptune I looked at where my natal Neptune is, which is my 5th house. I broke it running in the house to grab something. Additionally, Neptune was conjunct my natal Uranus at the time

[@growing.grounds4054]

I have the moon Mars and dec in 7th house all in Gemini I had a guy I met in 10th grade he was a Gemini June 11 I felt like I knew him my whole life we became friends instantly for the next 10 years til 2020 turned out to be an intense foe..

[@eagillum]

1:16:05- haha that lady had a "here, I'll just do it" approach to her own question.

[@JohnSmith-wp7vf]

I have no planets in seventh, love relationships are non existent in my life. I have virgo intercepted there with DC, my only (though short and irrelevent) relationship was with virgo person.

[@SerifSansSerif]

Kinda the same. No planets in 7th, cancer intercepted, only serious-ish relationship that lasted 2-3 years was with a cancer. Venus in 12th house in sag, along with my moon (ruler of that intercepted cancer) and neptune (sag ruled, which is also my ascendant). Gemini ruling 7th, I got mercury, saturn, jupiter, and pluto as a stellium in 9th/10th house in Libra. Fuckedfuckedfuckedfuckedfucked...

[@JohnSmith-wp7vf]

@Passenger Of My Heart How do you mean "except", I don't have planets in my 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th and 7th. ☺️ Nothing or very little happens there, on a mundane level. I don't know why but nothing happens also in the 10th and 11th. Only 8th, 9th and 12th. Focus is on that. And the moon is important because it is in the 1st, aspected to all other planets.

[@JohnSmith-wp7vf]

@@SerifSansSerif So you are born in second half of 1981. I also have saturn pluto in Libra, born 1982. This 2020 saturn pluto conjunction was squaring your saturn and pluto natal, and natal jupiter and maybe Mercury. You are scorpio sun?

[@JohnSmith-wp7vf]

@Passenger Of My Heart I also have uranus and Mercury in Sag. Uranus there gives an interest for exploring astrology, but Mercury doesn't feel quite good there. I have problems with concentration on details and expressing sometimes. But I guess it wouldn't be a problem for a grounded (double) capricorn. I am a sag, but have Mars there in Capricorn which is exalted in Capri.

[@SerifSansSerif]

@@JohnSmith-wp7vf 10/30/81. Sag rising at 10:48.

[@saby777]

I have a L2 zodiacal release time period starting exactly on the date Jupiter enters Gemini (in my 7H). My 7H has my Sun, Venus and Mercury. I've dated, a lot, in the past, but funny enough I've been single since 2020. So, really excited to see what can happen now.

[@taniaburguete127]

I would have loved to receive feedback from you!! im have pluto in 2ndgrade (libra) and venus 21st grade (virgo) both in 7th house, but i also have pluto square saturn (4th house) almost exact, and its been difficult =( i have a nocturnal chart. Thank you

[@ap-mm2xj]

You spoke about Venus-Saturn hard aspects leading to age disparities. What about positive aspects like trines and sextiles?

[@KristiesLexicon]

Gemini rising, Mercury in Libra, moon conjunct Pluto 13° Libra. Venus 1° Sag. Neptune 11° Sag. In Whole sign 7th house. I've never have had a long term relationship. On 4-15-14 lunar eclipse conjunct my NN Sun, and SN Chrion. I met a guy that broke my heart and changed my life forever but, I can't seem to get rid of him. Lol Synestry: his sun is conjunct my Moon and his Venus is exactly square my Venus. 🙂

[@LorettaLovette369]

Is there any way you could do a podcast on the vertex and what it significates

[@Elena-rr5du]

I have Venus in Capricorn in my 11th House. I've always been blessed with good friends. And I can't feel romantic attraction towards anyone if we haven't been good friends for at least a year. However, Mars conjunction my Venus and Saturn in Aries in the 2th house squares both Mars and Venus. I'm almost 25 years old and no one has ever reciprocal me feelings (though at least they like to stay good friends), and I've never been in a relationship. Mercury is the Lord of my 7th House and is in Sagittarius in my 10th house. I'm a very romantic person (Libra moon and pisces rising) and not been never romantically involved has only gotten me through a lot of bad depressive episodes during my life, especially in recent years. I'm trying to make peace with the fact that I would probably never be in a romantic relationship, but it's really hard.

[@jessicaesss32]

Thank you 🙏♥️

[@ReddieRobin]

I have a ruler of 7th in my 5th and me and my husband met while playing an online text RPG we both loved dearly, fun and creative, it really fits :-) Also maybe my 7th being in Aquarius could suggest that it was online, interesting.

[@mayraipalomares89]

Interesting I know this was a while ago, but i was wondering about the nodes being in the 7th I have north node in my 7th house along with Venus

[@treasurelu]

My Descendent is at 29:10 Libra, so my 7th House is mostly the sign of Scorpio (Should I consider Venus or Pluto the ruler of my 7th?). I've got my natal Neptune at 10 Scorpio. I'm often told Neptune in the 7th means my ROMANTIC life is always waaaayyy too IDEALISTIC... Very true... My relationships seem to have a FATED quality that is really difficult to explain... it's like they were always meant to be. I don't got into relationships easily at all (but that may be to do with the fact that my natal VENUS is in Cap - albeit conjuncting my MC - and my Pallas Athena!) and superficial assets are definitely no consideration in my emotional involvements! I've recently come to define myself as 'demi-sexual' (as sb who is only or mostly only sexually attracted to sb when there's an emotional connection). But my Neptune is reasonably well-aspected: it Trines my Mars in Cancer in the 3rd (wide orb) and it Sextiles my Pluto and North Node - at 8 and 10 Virgo in the 5th, and it Sextiles my Juno and Jupiter at 11 and 9 Cap in 9th. I keep hoping that these positive aspects help my support my Neptune somehow!

[@erikm8372]

if you use whole sign house system, then your seventh will be Libra. Start w Aries as the first, and go from there, whole sign to sign. Whole sign houses start at 0 degrees. Placidus is more modern (I think?) and starts at the exact degree of your ascendant as the first house. So this could affect how your houses line up, considering Libra at 29 deg. I prefer how whole sign system works for me, but I compare and contrast... kinda like I do with Vedic versus western astrology - although I really don't agree with any of my Vedic placements! like... it's impossible to even believe. lmao!! Theres just no way I'm NOT a scorpio rising, Aquarius sun, Leo moon. I really identify and love my tropical chart, despite a grand cross that is fixed, fixed, fixed. in Vedic I become cardinal.. ask anyone I know - not a Capricorn here! I can far more easily understand diff house systems than different astro systems. but I still try them all and compare. Try astro-charts.com; make your free birth chart, and below your chart, click on 'settings,' then you can adjust the house system. also you can add in a few asteroids, though not like astro.com its less complicated to use than astro though.

[@khanyamotolwana3337]

In 2015, trans Mars conj natal Mars in 7th.I was involved in a highly sexual relationship that ended abruptly. TUra-TMars opp was interacting with my natal Mars in 7th. The ending left me feeling angry and confused. Natal Mars is square Moon/square Merc/opp Asc. Mars rules the 8th house of sudden changes. Venus (ruler of 7th) in 8th.

[@dls300]

I was hoping that you would talk more about the north node in the 7th. And I have been divorced twice!

[@maggiem476]

Would love some clarity on a question I have: how do you determine day/night sect if born right at sunrise or sunset? My birth time is within one minute of sunset.

[@TheAstrologyPodcast]

If it is super close to sunrise or sunset then it is still bright out, and it will often still behave like a day chart.

[@elia.0713]

I've read it's determined if above or below the Asc/Desc axis?

[@zdmuchnelamniejesien]

What if the ruler of the 7th house is in the 7th house? I have my natal Venus in Taurus, in 7th house, tightly conjunct my Dsc, as well as Jupiter. In theory, it should be a very beneficial placement, yet I'm 31 and I've never had a successful, emotionally fulfilling relationship. I've actually been single for 5 years, after having gone through a string of failed, sometimes even abusive relationships. Venus in my birth chart makes an aspect to my natal early Capricorn Saturn/Uranus conjunction (it's a trine though) and opposes my Scorpio Moon, could that be a challenging factor?

[@stamatisrex4857]

Stay strong girl, hopefully you’ll find the right person to open up to - I hear Scorpio Moon’s are deep but won’t let others in, so you’re probably being misunderstood. Also yes, I think you’re right, Saturn is aspecting your 7th, however the Vedics believe that Saturn belongs in the 7th so that the cold bastard can protect us from the harm of others (perhaps this is can be a blessing). Astro theory also says that after our Saturn Return (typically in your early 30s) the planet starts to function more like a “benefic” - hang in there, your 31! The world is already starting to look at you differently :) Also, I’m not an astrologer but the placement of Mars plays a crucial role in Scorpio affairs, along with the expression of our emotions, but furthermore, it sounds like u might be a Scorpio rising and traditionally Mars is your chart ruler / co-ruler. Just finished writing/illustrating a “dark” children’s book called “Monster in the Rainbow” inspired by my daughter and Scorpio themes of doubt, fear and transformation - I have a video reading I did for her class on KZbin for show & tell via distance learning, I’d love to hear what you and #theastrologypodcast think :) MONSTER IN THE RAINBOW kzbin.info/www/bejne/qWaVkp5uZq-UiKc

[@zdmuchnelamniejesien]

@@stamatisrex4857 wow, you're so talented! Great story of how our shadow can become our strength, very apt for all the Plutonians out there. I love your style of drawing as well. Also, thanks for your kind words. :) Yes, I'm a Scorpio rising, my Moon is on my Ascendant and I have a Scorpio Pluto in the first house as well. Its a powerful placement, but really painful for a child - which is what I believe your story is about as well? I'm still learning to deal with that intensity and fully harness that power. I have Mars and Pluto as chart rulers and Saturn as a dominant planet (along with Pluto and Venus) - what a combo of "bad guys", huh. But yes, apparently the thing with Saturn is that it gets better over time, and if you've learned your lessons, it rewards you with many blessings. So I guess I just gotta wait for mine. :) As for my Mars, it's part of my Capricorn/3rd house stellium, it's conjunct Neptune at 9°, and widely conjunct Saturn and Uranus (I have those at 0° and 1° Cap). Its trine my Venus/Jupiter and sextile my Moon/Pluto as well. My Pluto is too far into Scorpio to oppose my Venus as well, but it does trine my Pisces Sun.

[@stamatisrex4857]

​@@zdmuchnelamniejesien thanks so much :) happy to hear you liked it! I worked pretty hard to get it right and then I had to edit it a bunch of times over. You're chart sounds pretty incredible, a few planets at critical degrees for you to master - btw, you have Venus in Taurus 7th house?!? If so, it's one of the most powerful yogas in Vedic Astrology ( Mahapurusha yoga - Malavya) - in fact whenever a native has this aspect they say that Venus takes over as your chart ruler.

[@zdmuchnelamniejesien]

@@stamatisrex4857 yes, my Venus is on steroids, haha. It's in her sign of rulership, house of rulership, and conjunct Jupiter on top of that. My Jupiter is in Aries though, at 29°. The fact that it's trine Saturn gives me hope about my romantic life "getting better over time". :) But I'm not sure if that Vedic yoga applies to me, my Vedic Venus is still conjunct Jupiter in 7th house, but in Aries. But I'm a Libra Moon and rising in Vedic, so Venus is my chart ruler in that case anyway.

[@stamatisrex4857]

@@zdmuchnelamniejesien ahh I think at 29 degrees it should just count, I mean its a Venus Yoga afterall lol! Have you been studying astrology for long?

[@autumnhairopoulos9460]

My cute lil story is having Gemini DC, with ruler Mercury Rx (almost cazimi 0*24')conjunct Sun in the 7th. Gem Mercury sextile Aries Mars/Jupiter 5H. I had two serious romantic partners: the first I married, he gave me an Aries son and we divorced; the second one gave me a Pisces son, and Sag rising/Mars 1H daughter. I ended up marrying the first one again. Gotta laugh Gemini Mercury Rx is true to form.

[@chooky7568]

Does it mean anything if the most positive planet in my chart is Jupiter (day chart) and Jupiter rules the 7th? Venus isn’t there, it’s in 8th. Probably too general to answer but I’m curious. Most positive planet and it’s conjunct Saturn 😕 I’m Taurus ac too so Venus is chart ruler

[@telmatx]

My Natal Moon is in the fifth house and transit Pluto is almost conjunct. Should I worry about my son?

[@fortheloveofthewhippetnijm8125]

I guess the man who admit he regrets the break up will be determined in his future relationship. I guess he'll be a great partner.

[@nasimamindylaczynski8123]

was this filmed at the Merc??

[@TJ-qv4yd]

Venus Jupiter and 7th house in Pisces. 7th house in Mercury. Aries Cap Virgo Asendent. Born at 4:30pm so I am a night chart. Should I be looking at anything else? Just started and alittle confusing

[@septemberjoy79]

Any particular reason y’all use whole sign here to evaluate charts?

[@remainingembers]

My Venus is in the 2nd house in Libra, though in whole house it's in the 3rd along with my sun and other planets in Scorp... I'm guessing since it rules Libra that's probably pretty good??? Lol. I'm not sure how to interpret mine. Venus is opposition my moon and so is my Merc, though my Moon is also in Taurus... I'm conflicted maybe? But my Venus is conjunct my Merc so yeah I love a good talker and one that appreciates the arts, I'm drawn to that.

[@remainingembers]

Updating as I'm watching I guess. Neptune is actually transiting my 7th and wow yeah, I have definitely felt a spike of idealism and dreaminess in contemplating romance or even thinking of others I'm especially interested in... I'm actually kind of struggling with it, knowing it's in my head and trying not to get carried away. OOps.

[@TheHappySaturnian]

Me, a cap rising, has Jupiter in the 7th, and my partner, a sag rising, has Saturn in the 7th. Besides rising we have all the same placements as were born on the same day so very conjunction heavy synastry. Ooh and my 7th house being cancer, and my partner have the moon exactly conjunct their ASC

[@ylena21ii69]

Me with an empty 7h. Whose ruler is in the 12th. Eye opening.

[@rachelamesastro]

About the second woman that shared her story: her north node is in Virgo ♍️ the 7th house. She said she got divorced in 2017- and that’s when she would have had her second north node return. In April to be even more specific.

[@alexfukumoto4508]

Do you do readings with new clients Chris?

[@amberspicks547]

On my 26th birthday, my ex-boyfriend was murdered… beat to death behind the bar that I went to minutes later… a few more minutes later they locked everyone in the bar for the murder investigation… I was just minutes away from possibly saving him… also on my 26th birthday, Scorpio made Mars my chart ruler for the year. My Mars is 12th house Leo with Saturn… also interesting to note that Aries is in my 8th house…moon is in Capricorn and Aquarius 7th house.

[@JN-kg7jx]

Can you help me figure out who my most compatible partner is marriagewise? What does it cost to consult with you?

[@loudaprile471]

hi. 7th house taurus sun and moon here, should I be planning to be single this whole uranus transit or.....? (lol)

[@saffronaji]

Hi Chris! I watched your video about you using sidereal astrology and was wondering why you're using tropical now and how the rulers are so relevant in this case if you use sidereal? Thanks!

[@martin-bastak]

thanks :)

[@sashazamanii9956]

I think Im a night chart. Im a late capricorn rising with also Uranus Neptune and Saturn in my first house(I like how Saturn and Neptune are both at 12 degree random but cool to me hehe) I have venus in pisces in the 3rd house( also with sun, mercury, and north node) so not in the 7th house and Ive never had a long term romantic relationship and dont ever plan to( Im not bitter haha).Cancer is my 7th house.The ruler, of my moon (Taurus) is in my 5th house. I thought the first example was cool because they were late cap rising rising like me but I have pisces venus which is supposed to be exalted even though mine is in the 3rd not the 7th house. I have chiron in cancer in the 7th house so maybe thats why I dont have any long term relationships. I will try to start them and they stop before they ever even begin and its always pretty painful. Im finishing my saturn return and a 7th house profection year and tried to start so many fruitless relationships relationships. I should have just worked on my creativity and not people.

[@sashazamanii9956]

@Lavender Lady Hey do you have twitter? If so send me a DM mobile.twitter.com/7CawaCawa7

[@piris91]

I don't have planets in my 7th house, just south node in cancer. Im a sag and sag rising so Gemini is my decendent.

[@Mettemeres]

My rising is leo, both moon and venus are in aquarius. Both in 7th house in whole house system. But my relationship past has been pretty meh.

[@carolinenaughton]

Venus-Neptune aspects emphasize the Saturnine nature of Neptune. Star-crossed lovers!

[@freedomgirlprincess3548]

I have Leo Ascendant the ruler of my 7th house Aquarius is in the 12th house my Venus is in the 2nd house sextile Uranus

[@HermitGod369]

My asc is 29 degrees in cancer so my 7th house is 29 degrees in cap. I have saturn Uranus and neptune in my 6th house. Can some tell me what this means?