RELATIONSHIP CHAT| SO BASICALLY WE CHEATED ON EACHOTHER? MARRIAGE + KIDS, SOCIAL MEDIA DRAMA + MORE

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HEY BABES WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER VIDEO. I THINK VANTE & I SAT DOWN LIKE ONE TIME TO TALK TO YOU GUYS BUT I WANTED TO DO AN UPDATED VERSION. WE'RE TALKIN HOW WE MET, MARRIAGE, KIDS, SOCIAL MEDIA DRAMA, + HOW ROCKY THE BEGINNING OF OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS. WHEW GIRL, GRAB YOUR POPCORN. ANYWAY HOPE YOU GUYS ENJOY, LET ME KNOW IF YALL WANT MORE OF THIS KIND OF CONTENT. XOXOXOXO
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[@chikaaustinn]

Only the OGs remember her “Scandalex” era😂❤️

[@bridannielle1983]

Okayyyy!!! No shade no tea still call her Scandalex when her intro is running 😅😂

[@aleshasinclair8529]

Facts

[@jen4236]

💯

[@brileenette]

righttt i still say “scandalex” instead of “alexus rebecca” because that’s what i was used to 😭

[@Benjamina.Button]

And still say it

[@oluwatosinabikoye3085]

Who knew Vante be chatting like this 😂😂 we need more sit down videos with him.

[@itstabbybaby]

Mannn fr 😂 lol

[@lpgilber]

Yeah, let him talk to us more.

[@Ashkoshhhhh]

😂exactlyyyyy

[@EveYvette]

😂😂😂

[@JustAGrl007]

Right!

[@myal569]

Not Lex being the ORIGINAL Lori😂

[@drea4360]

😂 🙅🏽‍♀️

[@JujuCoombs]

Lmao 😂

[@SugaSugaB]

😂😂😂😂

[@Tyfynys]

😂😂😂

[@therealcommentz4492]

😂😂😂

[@shanteree]

In lex’s defense women do usually end up hurt putting all the eggs in one basket while nothing is official and then the man is doing whatever he wants .. but I appreciate hearing both sides and glad yall are still here together today ! ❤

[@Scandalex]

THIS 🎯 until this day I’m all here for the girls being single until it’s official. Periodddd

[@shanitraforever]

Exactly ❤❤

[@daniellef9906]

Yess🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Bestiezsince08]

Nah Vante is SOOO entertaining, i loved his storytelling and the NY vibes made me feel so comfy cause im from nj so i understood everything. He mad funny gave all the tea too and im actually glad i was watching you back then so i remember the timeline. I remember when you wouldnt show him when yall got the BNB in Pittsburg that time. I been here, im a pandemic baby lol

[@sierrabouvier]

my girl lex was moving how any single woman should til things are made official, can't be mad at her. she scared me for a sec by tryna link her ex while vante was making it happen w her court date but i'm glad she had a change of heart. but vante is def dead wrong for what he did while yall were official 100% lmaoo

[@DesireeSacola]

Yess definitely scared me too … I was over here like no she not playing in his face like this 🫠

[@Scandalex]

Whew, SO glad I decided not to link him. Not gonna lie, that was kinda trifling of me 😅

[@kaylamack617]

Why am I cheesing at my screen lol yall too cute 🩷 loveeeee the vibessss…I can honestly say Lex has maintained the kind of relationship that is “private but not hidden” and I love it!

[@jackidreams2655]

Right!? 🥰

[@aleshasinclair8529]

Facts ❤

[@drea4360]

Yes ❤

[@Elaine-kz5pj]

Yoooo V can tell a Dammmm 😂 story … cheeessin

[@a.b2156]

The whole time. I’m happy for them

[@jasminedrakes4094]

Never heard Vonte talk this much 😅 my boy had to get things off his chest 😂😂. But loved It, something different ❤

[@Allthingsbritt_]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@cmeq9572]

Vante!!!!

[@Scandalex]

Listen he came to YAP & spill the tea 😂 can’t even be mad. I love it.

[@Alexis_Rose_]

😂😂😂😂

[@rmbhn]

No commitment, no ties🤷🏾‍♀️ Lex was moving the same way as Vante. You can't expect her to act like she was in a relationship when you said you weren't ready for one. #teamlex on this one

[@leshashanise3499]

🎯

[@pureexsteph]

Vante is such a gentle thug! Sending flowers to your mom is too cute! I love how both of your personalities are really shining through this. Y’all are ENTERTAINING af 😂 I need more sit downs like this. Thank y’all for bring transparent about the marriage/kids! It really had to be on your own timeeee for sure

[@MyMy.26100]

Do yall remember when she was having him as wizard kelly? Wasnt even show us him but now a whole video with him!? Lol we moving up yall🤣🫶🏽❤️

[@shanteree]

They had to come back from the whole break up situation and people were doing too much in the comments lol so I can see being uncomfortable just having him full blown in the videos at first

[@shai8115]

I laughed so hard!😂😂

[@MyMy.26100]

@@shai8115lmaoo

[@unbeknownst2mee929]

😂😂😂

[@brentandmir]

I’m team Lex cause you said you’re not ready to be in a committed relationship 😂 but still love y’all hahaha 😊😍

[@lorianemerlie6698]

Exactly like sir lock it down then

[@Melanin_Anita]

Not Vonte telling your dad that he’ll only be serious once you move to ATL 😭😭😭😭

[@MukaiRum]

*Vante

[@mathebulatshepiso1376]

😂😂😂

[@Tyfynys]

😂😂😂

[@candacedavis2204]

😂 he said what he said. He knows he’s himself.

[@Scandalex]

That was CRAZY!!! 😂😂

[@tristanmyles9237]

Vante’ is so NY. His accent and his story telling is hilarious. Love that you guys shared a piece of your world with us Lex. Were you wrong in the beginning of the “situation” to still be exploring your option….No! I think you put it perfectly when you said his ego was bruised to see that you were playing the game just like he was. But at the end of the day, the day gotta end 😂😂 glad y’all can share your thoughts with us ❤

[@yelleyw]

Two words. Couples counseling. Not that y’all won’t make it but I feel ppl think they should go when the relationship is damn near on life support. It’s a great investment even in the dating stage. Especially since y’all both hot heads and could work on your communication and resolution. Like Vante said he wants the marriage to last. ❤

[@tiaradenisee]

& im cracking up at everyone calling him “ vonte “ .. when he made it very clear its “ Vante “ 😂😂

[@dj.1094]

Yeah im definitely guilty of the misspelling 😂

[@veronicarickard7783]

This has got to be one of the realist but juicy couples Q&A I've seen. Vonte wanted to get it all out lol. Definitely wish it was longer and I'm looking for more. Set up was nice and I can't wait to see what yall got coming up next. Such a cute couple

[@DeeTheMusee]

I’m with lex okaay women can do whatever until things are official regardless of what men do for us

[@temmtemss]

1. You look SO gooodddd 2. A joint podcast? 3. Lex...... I think its time to change the intro song! I'm sensing a new eraaaa! 😊❤

[@rvalbrun12]

lol mee too

[@lakeishajackson3634]

Yes I agree!!

[@officialphatgirlslim]

Nooooooo leave the intro Lex lol. 😂❤

[@Tionaintown876]

Heavy on changing the intro song

[@temmtemss]

@@Tionaintown876for real!

[@tanekaoshay]

Omg this was sooooooo different… It’s giving talk show/podcast vibes! And I love it!!

[@lisareneemarshall]

Lex was moving how Vante was moving only his wasn't "discovered". He thought "not exclusive" meant him only. She's innocent!! It's cool when they do it, it's a problem when we do it 😁Anyway glad yall got over that hurdle and are here now 🥰

[@rvalbrun12]

lol that man said “ i need that ! I need it “🤣🤣 ugh so cute

[@ChannyNicole]

as someone who has been married and divorced twice.. take ya time sis 🤧 lol jk I won’t project but what I will say.. it is extremely important to truly know who you are saying “I do” to. It’s great that y’all are doing the real work to repair your trust and communication because that’s ultimately the umbrella for a great marriage and of course consistent bedroom boom lol

[@KierraJ_]

I appreciate this advice

[@ChannyNicole]

@@KierraJ_ 🫶🏽

[@ashavalii]

same!! taking this advice fr

[@Heyblairb]

I love how Alexus is patient as he's giving the story but also trying to help the storyline move along lol. So cute!

[@RandiNicole]

Y’all are truly meant to be!! You can tell lol like y’all are very similar but like genuinely love each other and I love that!

[@ladylucile15]

V needs his own channel.. glad you guys made it through.. each relationship has its own ups and downs

[@maleahm.8559]

Vantae spilling tea😂😂😂

[@jazzyh718]

Vantae was reliving it hunny!!!😂😂😂

[@meicealways5842]

Def 😂😂😂

[@NajaRants]

I respect the fact that as a man in this generation he knows what he wants.

[@ulovetre1135]

We need more of Vante. He’s hilarious 😂😂

[@tracysworld4647]

Lex moved like a wise woman and Vante moved like most men but he is very wise also level up 📈 because he knew what he wanted. 🔥🔥🔥 Love it.. Thanks for the information because couples should have a sit down mature convoy like Lex & Vante. ❤

[@d3finit3lym33]

Vante is a whole mood. It was good seeing him front and center. I think yall both did yall dirt but the fact that yall matured and came back together is all that matters. Love you guys.

[@Cameroonsbeauty02]

My man and I NEVER followed eachother on IG. It’s be 10 peaceful years 😂

[@silynethomas6517]

A libra and a cancer …. That is truly something

[@Glam_bambino]

Literally what I was thinking lol

[@fancyfretdem3025]

That part

[@itsdelecia]

Vante is so NY. Lol it be so chaotic and animated when New Yorkers talk. Im from Jersey fyi 😂😂 all Lex could do was say “Ok” when he spoke the truth Lol Stand on your ish sis. We all have made mistakes and it’s dope when you can be honest and own your ish and then look back and laugh. Love it.

[@BiContinentalLifeStyle]

VANTE IS SO HARLEMMMMMMM!

[@MadisonPettway_]

It’s so funny that these men be seeming so quiet but really be so chatty 😂 Vante was def more wrong lol. Y’all seem like such a good vibe together in y’all’s grown era

[@goddess_lookbook]

I understand both of y’all point of view in the beginning stages of y’all relationship. Yes, I would have been on the same with not having my eggs in one basket when a man tells me that it’s not official yet until a move is made. But also, on his end he was doing a lot especially looking out for you when had to go to court plus taking trips together so I can see how he could get mad. At the end of the day, communication should’ve been there on what he wanted so your feelings wouldn’t be confused to even give another man or men attention. I love y’all together! Praying for more blessings to come y’all way! 🫶🏽

[@thomasinadaley5613]

Run this back again though with a Part 2 or an advice segment Vante & Alex 😂This was fun 🫶🏾

[@pricelessbj]

Whew!!! Them first 30 minutes was something SERIOUS!!! 🥵 Im happy yall made it through the bs. ❤❤ 🥂

[@Bossnini]

borderline creepy how hard im smiling 😭 so cuteeee💕

[@ashleeg]

I’m not going to lie I LOVE the long winded story!!!! I love hearing all the tea😂 don’t cut it short!

[@BEWALKER881]

lol. No forreal, she trying to shut him up 😂

[@Deebradyology]

Nah Vante is hilarious! 😂 And I love the content upgrade Lex! The funny thing about your past situations is that you're both wrong and right lmao glad that y'all moved forward and continuing to grow♥

[@HeyBrittanyJanae]

This was very entertaining! The energy has always been there. Sorry Vante, Lex definitely had her fault with considering linking with her ex. But outside of that, she didn’t do anything wrong. This would be a cute series on the channel! 🤍

[@mayacincosa6975]

Vonte seems so nice and full of life.

[@ConversationswithChyla]

He said it "Vante"😂😂 But yeah he's a live one!

[@mayacincosa6975]

@@ConversationswithChyla oops. lol.

[@IAmAdrienneMichelle]

Mann it was a little tense at first. Y’all had my stomach tight😂 I’m not picking no sides.. I love y’all together. Everybody has Something to get through ❤ (I had to come back and add on) Yeahhh I want to see this again! We love when Vante on it. Do you know how many times I done showed my husband something Vante did or bought Alexis and said " Where’s My trip or Where’s My special ass Valentines Day!!!😡" Poor Guy! He be looking like he can’t win😂

[@porchemcgriff]

Now I like this vlog babe vante was kinda reliving the situation veins was sticking out his neck and all😂

[@BlackGoddess_]

😂

[@Scandalex]

Nah forreal 😂😂

[@meicealways5842]

😂😂😂

[@mommymommama7444]

Oh Vante be talking talking! 😂 I love this segment!!! 🫶🏽 And Lex I love you but you was wrong sis! 😩😅😂

[@Scandalex]

I feel like we both were lol

[@chemariexoo]

I thoroughly enjoyed this! I love yall relationship. We can tell it’s very pure and true love. Happy for the both of y’all.

[@WrapsPops]

I love that she has a timeline he doesn’t know about . Good for u ❤

[@kennedywilson8477]

Been following you since I was in high school❤️ love seeing yall together! We need to see more of him!! I like his personality!!

[@joppamama2]

I love that you have shared that even the best relationships aren’t perfect. I appreciate the honesty about mistakes we make and finding forgiveness when you know someone is your life partner. Will encourage both of my young adult boys to watch this. ❤ love the production too!

[@limitlessem1018]

You guys on a podcast together would be amazing, I would watch you every week lol! Been following you since the Pittsburgh days Lex!!! Loved this video and how REAL you both were! Relationships are NOT black and white and it's so great to hear your perspectives and what it takes to rebuild trust in a relationship and it is possible, and doing so privately. So refreshing to see a couple in this generation that portrays real love as opposed to internet love these days. Love yall!!! ♥

[@CookingwithSyreetta]

I loved this whole video! The setup, the video quality and both of y’all’s transparency!🥰 I hope y’all have a long healthy relationship, a beautiful marriage and family in the near future!

[@alissasmith5001]

I loved this😂😂😂😂 I love how silly ya’ll can be together. More Vante and Lex vids pleaseee!!

[@cnew1592]

We need another video this was pure gold his stories got details I was wanting more!! But babyyyy Scandalex was a vibe we love the vibes now though!!

[@JaleesaYaKira_]

I throughly enjoyed this! I always admired the way Vonte treats you. Honestly gives me hope and your beauty Lex and your personality is amazing Thank you for sharing your stories with us ❤

[@pdaxon]

OG follower I reallyyyyyy didn’t expect this animation and huge personality from VANTE but he was wrong he was doing him and you were doing you and no boundaries were verbally set in the beginning 🤷‍♀️ more videos like this would be great to see

[@jada8597]

I loved this!! So honest and transparent. But I learned a few things about how I deal with relationships watching this. Keep it up ❤️❤️ I love seeing Alexus happy, I’ve watching since your Sandalex days!

[@w35040]

This was great content and had to be hard to do despite having healed from certain situations it can be uncomfortable to talk about it...I love that you two were able to work through things despite your issues. ❤

[@Theweekndsgirl]

Definitely remember Scandalex (OG’s know 🤪). This was awesome seeing, hearing and learning more about Vante! More of these please 🥹

[@AllThingsEmmaa]

I luv this!!!! Y’all kept this storyline time so real! So glad u made it out on the other side cuz I luv y’all 2-gthr

[@KianaD9]

Definitely need more content like this! Was able to really see who y’all are together. It’s a nice switch up

[@kayd.4609]

I'm soo happy she has a time frame. So happy. When a man starts basing prerequisites for marriage such a property ownership... I just don't think he's IN love . And yes, that was so foul for him to cheat on her as punishment for something that was understood and especially because he was moving the exact same way. Smh

[@poshfab5169]

True and true.

[@rarebrie]

35:17 y’all doing it right girlie!! My man and I were together for 6 years before we got married and never family/friends pressure us into getting married sooner. It’s the best decision we’ve ever made! 💕

[@WrapsPops]

Alexus is the most naturally scrumptious single baddie on KZbin Period 🎉 Gdluck with love n all things u desire . #singleuntilmarried

[@cenisebryant]

Yaaasss!!! This whole video, the set up, the lighting, the colors, and most importantly.. the conversation was giving!! 😂😂 and yes.. the Scandalex era.. she came with the tea. 🍵 with a splash of a lil spice. It's healthy when you can sit, talk, and look back over the mistakes. And move forward with a clear head in knowing that he/she is what you want. We need more videos like this. I was HOLLERING!! When Vantae was talking about he had to knock a ninja out. He was serious. 😂 it be like that sometimes.. unfortunately. This whole video was very entertaining. Love yall, love your life!! Keep these videos and esthetics coming. I am HERE for it!! 😊❤

[@KKQ593]

Pop your ish Vante! I am a women and we love someone that checks us in a good way…. Sis he really for you and I know see that. Thank you for sharing the story with us.

[@LifewithKenyata]

Oh yall are vibes! Bring this content every week. I’m here for it

[@mnigirl2152]

The set up and cameras/ lighting is everything. I love your connection. Wow hearing your story is inspiring. No comments for either, I love how you learned and grew stronger. Blessings on your unity. It's the looks at each other on the set for me ❤️

[@iamteeauthentically]

Hey Alexus I'm so Happy you guys are not allowing the pressures of family and social media rush you guys into marriage. I love seeing you guys together....maybe do a relationship series...we love the male perspective

[@blissful5315]

The podcast we NEEDED!! Love yall great content

[@Cammibwise]

Lex had on them clackaaa pants 😂😂

[@Scandalex]

Perioddddd booty was CRAZY 😂😂🍑

[@royallyunique3855]

I remember scandalex days ..only Og’s will understand ! This video gave me, the studio gave , and y’all killed it need more videos like this ❤loved it

[@winter_beautii]

This was so cute we definitely need a part 2 also we love seeing vantae on your channel and the chemistry

[@joialexis__]

this was such a vibeeee! Loving the new types of content and Vante is so entertaining 😂😂 Loved hearing yall's story.

[@WineDown_Dre]

I thoroughly enjoyed this and would support the podcast!! Real and uncut - loved it!

[@brentandmir]

not me cheesingggg at yall answering the first question😂😂 love y’all!!!

[@callmehaleyj]

i will give my little opinion🤭 i don’t think Vante was tripping in the beginning with the past lil situations Alexus had while trying to pursue her. BUT to turn around and basically do the same thing is crazy work sir😂😭 glad y’all were mature enough to work it out though!

[@idw8504]

Damn 3 videos back to back ❤

[@yuniqueglam]

I was smiling the whole time! Love the vibes between you two! The background and video footage 🔥

[@chantellp1138]

This was toooo good 🩷🩷, I’m glad y’all moved passed everything & at this point ☺️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Y’all both had y’all fair & share for sure 😭😭, I do think he should’ve communicated all those times he peeped what was going on. Also, I agree with Lex😭 Vante told her he wasn’t looking for anything SERIOUS until Lex moved so it was free game sorry 😭😭 she was living her life just like you Vante 😭 but it’s all love for y’all❤️

[@Miss_Shilla]

love it here, you've grown SM😍😍

[@tayloralexander4072]

I just love yall together❤️ definitely need yall to do more of these

[@adragrant8946]

I always was wondering why y’all broke up and I’m glad to know ya’ll good now! Love this for yall❤ Been here since Scadalex and when you quit your job at the office!

[@sherrykaranja443]

Lexx!!🔥 Loving your consistency & effort to your content!🥰Thank you for sharing this with us & bringing Vante’s personality! The set up too!🔥💜💜

[@triahviah]

This was goooooooood! Loved it! We need a part 2!

[@allexsandradarnell5990]

I love this! And yes the girls are with you queen lol I been here since scandalex I still think your just so innocent. Thank you for opening up for us

[@allexsandradarnell5990]

Also I was the opposite of you I’m so commented without the title like a dummy ain’t never got me no where 😂😂

[@Kiikooks]

Awww I loved this! I love seeing black love flourish 🫶🏾

[@tracyshed8052]

Loved this y’all are a good looking couple ❤.. stay true to each other and let your relationship continue to grow …would like to have these types of couples content(Q and A) more often 😊

[@pattyerica21]

I love seeing this. Y’all have great chemistry.

[@pattyerica21]

Vante has a big personality! He seems very comfortable. Do this more often.

[@ladymaria100]

LOVE THIS!!! We need a Part 2

[@antoniocampbell3574]

This show was definitely a good breathe of fresh air....yall keep doing this please 🔥🔥🔥

[@ondrea5451]

What a juicy vloggg! Really enjoyed the chemistry between you & Vante. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable with us. Let's do more of these in the future!

[@jen4236]

Yes Queen! Back to Back ❤

[@user-oq8qb3os5s]

Something about the maturity of two people who can sit and talk about the breakup is making me emotional. Love this so so much.

[@Scandalex]

🥹🫶🏽🫶🏽 appreciate you

[@taylorlampkin1388]

I thoroughly enjoyed this. 😅 I think it’s kinda safe to say that y’all are one in the same lmaooo. 🤣 Glad to know that y’all were able to move past everything though! ❤ I just see two bosses now living their best life & building together! 💯😍 Love that for y’all. 🥰 Thanks for sharing your story, because really you could’ve kept people out your business but y’all real ones for filling the supporters in. 🤗

[@KayBee21]

I love this!!! Please do more of these with Vante!!!

[@LIFEWITHAMBERR]

Wheeewwww chilleee I’m not mad at Lex would’ve did the same thing ! If you want me make it official ! Becauseeee don’t be mad you said you’re not ready to commit sir !

[@zupua2408]

Deleting his Instagram 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that is hilarious! But yeah Lex, you definitely weren’t wrong for continuing to date when not in a relationship.

[@good.vibes.only00]

I never paid much attention to him, but Vante is really a beautiful specimen of a man. The skin, the teeth, the lips, and the nose. I can’t wait to see y’all’s babies. Two VERY good looking people 🙌🏼.