Relationships maar daalege!

[@advocatejitendrachapagain5128]

The Hard truth..... Don't be in romantic relationship untill you get settle. Otherwise, it will definitely slow you down. Mark my words. Everything has it time. Dont take me otherwise. And thank you so much sir for taking this kind of topic and sharing your perception. Very beautifully said.

[@chakarpabhutan9300]

You give more practical ways than theorical ☺️.. appreciated for that sir

[@studentscare5658]

correct bilkul correct

[@pritiraj5875]

💯

[@shivangchauhan820]

But how to make ourselves understand?

[@prabhudasrangari9292]

And when you get settled you get divorced because all you know is how to earn money and dont know how to have a beuatiful conversion and relationship..

[@devanshisharma8345]

A bad relationship at early age can push you to achieve the best version of you...all depends upon where u focus either on the hurt or the lesson ...✨✨

[@royalgujjar_official1396]

Great devansi

[@sikandarrinwala3121]

Ab kesa he rista

[@Mayank37897]

Mein khud na nikal pa rha hun

[@prabhudasrangari9292]

Then what will you do with your best version still the past will haunt yoh

[@hritikrajputt5977]

Relationship destroyed me, but somehow i managed to survive and now i became a better version of myself and I'm in love with myself.

[@smitakamate2813]

That's very very important!😀

[@prakharsaxena2895]

Might be that destruction made u who u are now ,so don't blame Ur relationship for that ......

[@luckyboygyana]

Friends and love both destroyed me I was under severe depression .but now I am bouncing back ,I will definitely succeed in this .

[@prakharsaxena2895]

@@luckyboygyana great

[@sayani4852]

@@luckyboygyana Same

[@alokkumar-wu1vp]

Because of a bad relationship I lost everything, like career, everyone's trust, image. I am constantly in depression for almost 10 years. Now I have regret for wasting my precious time and energy....par mai bhi bahut ziddi hoon. I never quit on myself. I am building my life again. Trying to get the emotional balance. Chetan sir has said everything right in the video. I can relate every word of him. People never value your commitment for them. Don't underestimate the evil power of an undeserving relationship for destroying your emotional health. It is not easy to get the original emotional set-up back after a ruined one. Value your self first. Be selfish in life if you want to be happy. And fu*k Bollywood romantic dramas.....

[@alokkumar-wu1vp]

@Kunal Vashi yes, you r right.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

All the best! You got this!

[@learn.with.me24]

@kunalvanshi ,@alok kumar yes offcourse our family is everything and they love unconditionally ❤️

[@sonalideo8276]

Best wishes to you 👍

[@worship1716]

Mai apki emotions smjh rhi hun mere sath bhi yhi hua hai bro.. itne years mere brbd ho gye relationship k wjhse,depression m chli jti hun br br.. smjh nhi ata hai restart karun..kaise

[@kaushikkalita2210]

Aftr 7 years of being in a relationship ,it failed last year and at the end made me more strong , Now I am happy with myself ,going to gym regularly , focusing on my career and taking care of my parents ❤️

[@priyankamane1741]

More power to you ..keep it up.

[@zhirrk]

Howw did you get the power to move on please help

[@studytime8961]

​@@zhirrkacceptance

[@raginisharma9302]

It destroyed me - took me 2 years to get back to my normal self..wish I had this advice before. Having said that, I didn't let that affect my career so that kept me going!

[@nitinbankar6571]

Same goes for me yaar! It took me 2 nd half yr..

[@animesh4627]

TBH I never connected with your books, but I am connecting so well with your videos. Loving these videos.

[@AK-mh4ek]

Tbh means

[@animesh4627]

@@AK-mh4ek "To be honest"

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad you like them!

[@puza3964]

It's very true no one will remember how many times you helped them but people will always taunt for that one time when u were not able to help them . It has happened to me many times .

[@tripuresh8309]

I invested 5 year in my relationship and the moral of story is that I lost my optimistic approach towards life.. there was lackness of mutualism... People just want your help.. but no one will be there for you... If it is relationship then WE help each other to fullfill OUR dreams but this is very rare. In case your life is unbalanced no love will be with you .. You have to strangulate your emotion.. and fight with all negativity lonely... So what I found that No love is above your happiness and if that person is really made for you He or She must respect you.. or atleast not will be a selfish one

[@shridhartiwatane7941]

True one brother

[@zanybhr7696]

Too much of expectations dude. Expectations destroy you

[@tripuresh8309]

@@zanybhr7696 well in intellectual way it's okay to say that but practically condition is not like that...even If you Bow down to GOD that too with a purpose i.e. his blessing or for your mental peace . Similarly world without expectations is hypothetically true

[@rupeshkumarpradhan2449]

Pehele ye questions puchhna jaruri hai ki wo pyaar hai ya nehi , bahat baar hum assume kar lete hain ki kisika sath ,kisike liye care , interest ,ya feelings jo hume roke wo pyaar hai.

[@alokkumar-wu1vp]

So true...I can feel you. People say that Alok is very helpful and generous. He takes care of everyone. But in the bad hour everyone shows their back. It's been 10 years when she had cheated on me. Now at the age of 30 I don't dare to attach my feelings to anyone. Emotionally drained completely!

[@anjali7926]

The most important relationship is our relationship with ourselves.

[@unknownhacker5298]

Yeah you may be right theoretically, but in real world I got the tag of "Selfish" for keeping myself happy first.

[@pritiraj5875]

It spoiled my 4 golden years 😭 And gave me so many lessons, few guilts & fear of trust/relationships...🙂

[@simplelife7467]

Yes same happened to me dd😍but now I am struggling to strong

[@ravishankarpandey2412]

Relationship distracts us from our goal, our family expect us lots that cost our careers

[@user-ex4hf9mw4t]

Exactly!!

[@babygoldy1450]

Family expect cause they can be benefitted

[@paruljindal9303]

I put in all my energy and efforts into a relationship which was almost nothing for the person i loved with all my heart.. at last i withdrew, i miss him but i surely know that being alone is much better than being unwanted.. and u r very right chetan sir❤️

[@shiromanimeena7117]

Thank you so much...going through the same thing right now...needed something like this at this moment. "Put yourself first" is actually what we need to do❤️

[@ashishchoudhary4451]

no it will make you selfish 🤗🤗

[@paint-o-meter4834]

Ask chetan sir specifically, i He didnt mean that. Yes this is selfishness.

[@shwetamadhre4324]

Relationship destroyed me very badly and took 5 months of mine to become conscious person again but today I felt so good because only pain can give this lesson. This is priceless and everyone should experience once in a life to become more stronger 💪 It's worth it. I lost my time ( which was priceless) and got a lessons ( which is priceless) .... Seriously too much expensive 😬😌

[@meenakshialugh6088]

Bdia h Chetan ji,God bless you 🙏jb hm smjh bhi jate h ki yeh person sahi nhi h hmare liy to pichha kaise chhuday

[@priyanshupatel02]

Relationships never die a natural death, they are killed by their own actions, by hatred, by ignorance and sometimes by misunderstanding.

[@payaldhumal4455]

Can we just take a min to admire how beautiful the view in the background of all his videos are ! 😂❤️

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

Sure sure comfortably ..We have whole months long coz of lock down ...lol

[@ChetanBhagat1]

thank u so much! I do actually try to find great spots, so it feels nice to see people notice that!

[@ayushheda1]

I don't noticed it, since I got mesmerized in the treasure he is sharing..

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

@@ayushheda1 Yes bro right ..our perspective differ .some people neither see the scenic beauty nor the message I was sharing in my video ..they just talk about grammatical mistakes .

[@neevgrover007]

Don't focus on the lockdown, focus on his words!😁😁

[@pragatichoudhary7576]

this is what i needed. well, people around me have mostly destroyed me, but I guess the time is here to be there for myself first. thankyou sir for this. 😊❤

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad I could help!

[@pragatichoudhary7576]

@Abhishek Mishra YEASSSS!

[@pragatichoudhary7576]

@@ChetanBhagat1 ❤

[@ankushchatterjee9901]

Yepp..always keep yourself before others...That's what life and bad relationships teach us☺☺

[@abhishek.gautam2]

Sir, what I learned from this video is "Be the best version of Yourself" #LoveYourself❤️

[@ShivamKumar-fq8tb]

My relationship is going on since 4 years .Many hurdles came but we managed them,and still we are one.

[@HimanshuSingh-gl9qd]

Congo bro

[@krishjain7840]

Great...hope it goes smoothly longlinving💫

[@varshanalawade45]

Same here. High Hopes. 😊 Blessings.

[@knowwhywithUtkarsh]

Bhai chlra h abhi b ?? 🙂

[@ShivamKumar-fq8tb]

@@knowwhywithUtkarsh Ya

[@Darth_manick]

2 years ago I got destroyed because of a single relationship sir. Now I cleared IIMB. Thanks to your motivation. :)

[@priyanshupatel02]

Gr8 come back :)

[@donationboy1195]

Congrats brooo!!

[@wildlonewolf445]

Sakth lounda 😎 show that girl what she lost

[@HemantKumar-nn7qg]

Me too... And I'm preparing for CAT 21

[@zanybhr7696]

Still, you'll have to look for another relationship.

[@Abhishek-yy6yk]

Sir soon your KZbin family will be sky high because your content is top class. 😊

[@avinashsirwani2107]

I was suppose to get married to a girl but it was not going well. I gave too many chances but still did not work, hence I quit it and now I and her both are in a much better space 🙂..so yes relationships can destroy u.

[@8yearsand645]

I came here for watch this video again because one of my friend is broken after her breakup.i thought if i send this video it might help her.hopefully she will get over it.thank you sir for making these types of videos.i found this video very helpful thank you so much.

[@rashmikumari8774]

''Put Yourself First'' is the bestest part of the video. Thank you sir 😊

[@kouagni656]

Sir app hamesha hum jashe youngsters ke muh ki bat chin late ho... Sir for us you are the"YOUTH AMBASSADOR OF INDIA". Massive Respect from West Bengal to you sir....

[@ishikaghosh3633]

Totally agree and this applies for all types of relationship,not only romantic...put yourself first....then everything....

[@sheetalbhanu7566]

Relashionships are not easy and can destroy u completely.....What a true video....love your content Chetan Bhagat

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much 😀

[@amlanbhattacharjee9028]

Biggest roadblock to success: getting into relationships at the wrong time

[@TheKapildhara]

Yes I was destroyed in relationship. Now i am better in my self and focusing on my career. Never trust too much, never make expectations for any girls that she is for me. 🙏

[@ManishKumar-ed3lt]

@Chhavi Sharma I got hurted by a girl. 99% girl will cheat u for money

[@sunnykumar-uu2vd]

Yes sir 😍😍

[@Preetspowertalk]

Parents Friends Romantic Only parents ka love unconditional hota hai... Baaki sab uncertain hai... Romantic love is like a chewing gum shuru mei meethi then keep chewing.....

[@abhishekkumar-lx3fy]

Sir, 2 years ago I got stucked in 1 sided love and i got depressed. Somehow I managed to get rid of that and your videos are helping me a lot in my daily life like tackling depression and all. You make time for us to make videos so that we can stay motivated. Thank a lot Sir 🙏

[@snehilsharma3074]

Bro... Do checkout shwetabh's videos as well.... They really helped me when I was going through that phase...!!

[@abhishekkumar-lx3fy]

@@snehilsharma3074 yes❤️🙏

[@themusicera7028]

@@abhishekkumar-lx3fy I am in a one sided relationship and it's hurts like hell.. Don't know how to get out of it.

[@anagha29]

Moral :- Love yourself first, only then you can make others happy.. Very nice video sir.. 👍🏻 And ofcourse the view is too beautiful 😍

[@shivamtyagi9263]

Chetan sir, when I comes to know about any of your your video, there is some Goosebumps coming in my heart like waves, expecting that today I will find some precious lesson from your videos. Your videos are true mirror of my ups and downs of my life, I feel connected to me as if your words meants to me. My soul found an inspiration from you. I am blessed to have you in this generation. Love you chetan sir ❤️.

[@susantkumarnand9520]

First, achieve and then demand...your goals and ambitions are supreme, everything else is secondary.

[@samarshem]

Sir zindagi m pahli baar aisha lg rha hai ki kuch achha seekh rha hu apki video ko dekh kr Thank u sir. Love uu♥️♥️♥️

[@stepupphysics]

I have lost my 6 months and to be continued.. being in a heartbroken, jobless makes the situation worst in this corona lockdown.

[@Yajumschannel]

😥

[@DhirajKumar-yp5of]

Relatable

[@dhruvmehta9933]

Thank you so much very much for your words I really had an same experience with my past relationship, wherein i was getting controlled by my girlfriend, due to which its killing me inside and couldn't say anything as we both know we love each other alot. However at last enough is enough and i put myself first and ended it up and now no doubt i am pretty much happy and doing amazing things for my self MORAL OF THE STORY- never ever be a part of something which always keep you in boundaries 💯, if your relationship is noy balanced (even after trying so hard to get it in track) then you better need to move on... As chetan sir said - only our parents loves you unconditionally ❤

[@sam-rf7ko]

Just found your channel like an hour or so ago and been binge watching ever since. Currently 1 am rn and I have this sudden urge to change my life around lol but thanks for these videos sir, keep em coming in. Your channel is gonna be a hit.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much and welcome aboard!

[@akankhitsandilya6721]

As a kid i used to read Bhagat's books and used to think love is bullshit but now i have grown i admire him more now, for his youtube videos

[@HemantKumar-nn7qg]

It's true sir but, I learned after so much mistake...... what ever I learned will stay with me till the last breath of my life.... I wish that this video could be uploaded 1year back at least. 🤗

[@medhaambekar7423]

Chetan very nice ! You advise without appearing to sermonize ! You have become the friend of many youngsters through this channel

[@naikadit31]

I think as per my observations some people come into relationship due to loneliness or some come into relationship bcoz surrounding they see..

[@ankushchatterjee9901]

Your videos shows us a different version of yourself..Thank you sir for the motivation..i am getting over my breakup..your videos are helping me get over my breakup

[@kavitamahuli8756]

I am simply amazed after hearing you and knowing about how much knowledge you have. Its superlative.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you so much 😀

[@shobhathakur1667]

Bahut sahi kaha apne..chetan ji..

[@faiyazrahmani4795]

You r my inspiration sir.. You tube pe bohot motivational video dekha but sir u are genuinely relatable...thats way u r GOAT sir.. ❤️

[@YogeshVSG]

Sir nowadays romantic relationships have no value, infact it has turned down to ZERO. Nowadays what we see is ONLY CHEATING. And also nowadays NEGATIVE amount of value is being shown to TRUE LOVE.. THE ONLY RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS PURE AND IMMORTAL IS THE RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE WITH OUR PARENTS..!!

[@Adlersimon]

Sir bht bari cheez hain ap mtlb bht bary aadmi hain huge respect ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@whatsinaname5384]

Long story short : Your body, your soul. You came , you'll go. So...... *you matter, you do*

[@Gorusuur]

Very very relevant information shared by you sir.

[@sudipsaha8579]

sir real life k ranchordas to aap hi ho... thank you for your valuable advice....... luv u sir :)

[@ravisuryac2645]

This video is the best thing to listen for me now. Especially when a person is in midst of career and love.... It is very difficult to balance both and reach the top.... But the things you said - I am implementing them already sir..... Tough to control emotions but what you said is also important.... Very nice message " keep the relationship and also don't loose yourself "

[@subhneetjha]

I couldn't balance my relationship. That was my fault. But, now I am good. Doing better in my life.

[@kumarjitroy6250]

Sir just two day ago I complete your book "THE GIRL IN ROOM 105" my first book of yours. yes sir Keshav shows how move on is Nesseceary. Best part is message " curious and open minded wthout any prejudice and never give up "

[@Kevin-xb4zv]

This is we actually need in life!!! Your celebrity sir but phirr bhi aap apne se lagte ho just like our lovely big brother...i can say the best thing happens to all indians is "CHETAN BHAGAT SIR"🙌

[@vrushankkamble7862]

Pure down to earth wisdom and intelligence ❤️

[@SwatiPatil-qj7ux]

True sir...Thank you so much 🙏

[@vasishaikh5224]

Sabse pehle khud. Uske baad family,Uske baad saari duniya, great sir👍

[@rajeevmisra3474]

Sir - you are absolutely nailed crux. I am digital head based in Canada 🇨🇦 aged 42+ years, but able to correlate each & every advice with personally history...

[@ChetanBhagat1]

😊

[@kanishkamudgal20]

They destroyed me , yes , I agree just because I give so much time and efforts, they kinda made me tired at the end.

[@Iam-um5qj]

Thanku so much sir...your advice helped me ..i really needed that .... So the conclusion is "Too much is bad of anything & try to balance everything"

[@anoops8333]

Sirji - 15 years before I wish I heard you. Where were you dude? Relationship always destroyed my life. Be it my ex-gf, or my family (bro and sisters who took away my money and deserted me). I totally agree with you that the only un-conditional love is from ones parents.

[@iamsuccessful3659]

I couldn't even name my feelings .....I don't know whether it is anxiety , depression or just laziness.......always carrying a heavy heart

[@Iam-um5qj]

I wanna suggest u B.K. Shivani ...she helped me alot😇

[@iamsuccessful3659]

@@Iam-um5qj thanks ... I have tried before sleep ...,..

[@yk-mp7bk]

Thank you 🌹❤️

[@funduitguy6916]

Hmmm.... true. 👍

[@inderbrar550]

Bilkul sàhi batein kahi h Sir apne Afsoloutely right 👍🙏

[@Fish-xk9gj]

Yes! Put yourself first and the rest will follow 🧚‍♀️

[@xman6267]

Yes there is always give and take ..we all are selfish... I am not a social animal..I am happy

[@shubhamraijohri2642]

I was a singer, songwriter, music composer, standup comedian and I was also a Engineer. I was working in a good company and I had the best opportunities. And then I left my job for UPSC preparation and yes I was also good at that. But in hurry and excitement I destroyed everything. It has been 4 years I left my job. 2 wrong relationships destroyed everything. I am depressed. I left singing which was I life I just hate myself and also can't study for my dream job. I don't know what to do. I am stuck. And the worst part is that those both girls are happy and they are doing job. So I am completely agree with Sir Chetan .

[@sahilhami5986]

That right it destroy you completely , Now I became better person . The bottom line is you can't make everyone happy you try to but in reality it's different.

[@anukashyap4817]

Thank you so much Sir🌹🙏

[@himansbhad2078]

Bhagat sir, Love toh parents ka bhi expectation ka hi hota hai, no unconditional love .unconditional love toh Sages,Philosophers and Fakirs ne kiya hai ❤ Time lage ga yeh samjhne...

[@hemamatalia5598]

One must learn where to draw the line in every relationship because even close relationship can destroy .

[@newchannel5825]

Sir u are absolutely right

[@HarikeshDalal]

Really honest speaking

[@abhay_sol_as]

Thanks for making this sunday happy... feels like we are vibing there and getting life advices

[@shivrajvashishtha5119]

बहुत अच्छे से समझाया सर जी।।

[@niranjankale9791]

wasted 3 yrs in relationship..left because of cast and jobless(given 20 mains and 4 po interviews but failed).....but survived and focussing on my self....you said that only our parents love unconditinally..that is really really true...otherwise the person out of family always find a reason to love or to be in relationship.

[@nehagadekar7381]

More power to you

[@amitkumar-yp3yk]

Yes true, the same is the case with me. I have a family which expects from me and I do whatever best possible to make them happy but in return they give me disappointment, sadness, insult, mental frustration.

[@raj_dalimi]

The quality of your Life depends on the relationships you have/had No money,no property,no education, nothing just this is what that matters

[@parmeswariahcs9922]

100% your words are valuable and true words bhagat sir

[@KidsToyyo]

Being human is magnificent but wrong habits can destroy you Love yourself and others But don’t bind yourself with everything in this world

[@parmeswaryadav2291]

sir u r so clear in ur thoughts.....how did u do that.....

[@anshitajharia3608]

Sir your videos are just above the sky❤️😊😊you take topics that cover really important statics of life .. and as you said that "we should know how to love and unlove" This was the most important thing ❤️ thanks sir for your efforts and thoughts ☺️☺️ you are the best.❤️🙏🙏

[@ChetanBhagat1]

It's my pleasure

[@rahebarkhan3401]

Balance Relationship Is Good, Thanks 😊😊😊

[@avilipsharath4837]

The thing is we should take care of our own priorities first,we just have to maintain a balance between saying yes and no to people. 😊

[@DollyDu_mybest_barbie]

This video Opened a new insight of how to carry the fragile but important emotions of relationships in a way it doesn't destroys your own self identity........now my mind got rid of hangover that I usually had giving too much input in relationships.... 🙏🙏🙏

[@neerajraghavendra2467]

Sir, you may never realise... You are helping me alot...Thanks 🙏

[@Anuanu-ti5uj]

Because people mostly are quite selfish n worldly.... Time has changed..... Difficult to find trustworthy people

[@Siktaa_2024]

So true ! So practical !! If all of us take this simple advice, many of our problems will be solved automatically. Thank you Chetan sir💖

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad it was helpful!

[@vanishaajain2006]

Yes sir my relationship of 4 months with my bestfriend who was my crush destroyed me alot because i was in deep love and he said i don't like you as a gf beacuse i was over possessive and now it hurts but listening to you everyday helps alot sir, i will heal and become the best for myself...

[@MasterSatya_Kvs]

Be the best version ...just listen the things around you but do what you felt like the u way want ..

[@sourabhmondal1363]

Don't go in a serious relationship. After break up I have lost one most important year of my Life at a age of 23 ... One after one year l am able to focus on my job... So be careful when you are in a relationship.. Good luck

[@XD.Xd6]

Moral -> first khud ko banao acche sa paisa kamao apna assets ko banao... Phir pyaar k chakkar ma paddo...!😁

[@vaishalidevgan7908]

Sir, maine aapke saare novels pardhe hain ...aapki fan hu sir...aab bhi aapki videos directly influence krti hai ..they are so relatable..thanku sooo much sir..for sharing ur tym with us ..for our betterment...thanku so much sir..these videos are really amazing and eye opener for us.

[@DesiBrim]

Me watching this even though I've been single for my whole life nd the future doesn't seem good either😂

[@ranikumari9883]

Ohhh.. Good

[@dovahkiin3815]

Same here bro

[@dovahkiin3815]

I've been single my whole life and i do want a relationship but the comment section is scaring me lol

[@DesiBrim]

@@dovahkiin3815 😂

[@aaravmishra2481]

It's good to learn something from other's wisdom a priory.. Not necessary that you will learn everything based on first hand experience 🤘🤘

[@knowwhywithUtkarsh]

Bitter truth but worth changing one's life ❤️ thanks sir 🙂