Relationships, Sex Positivity, and Pole Dancing Your Coming Out | Asexuality with Rhian

[@jonesholmes9106]

I will never understand how this channel doesn't have hundreds of thousands of subscribers

[@suus-arido393]

As someone who is on the asexual spectrum, this was very informative.

[@miadowne940]

My potentially ace heart loved this

[@katbrooks6570]

Such a great conversation! It's always nice to see another panromantic ace

[@raquel1560]

lgbt people are just!!!!!! we're just!!!!!!!! aaaaa (affectionate)

[@galactic-rose]

I love the idea behind this series, I can't wait to see more! Even though I'm aroace and already know about/have spent a lot of time thinking about all these things, I always love to hear a-spec people talking about their experiences! Also Loveless is so good! It made me cry too lol

[@Tigerlily335]

As a sex-repulsed, agender, aromantic ace this was super interesting because it just shows how big the asexual spectrum really is. Great talk!!

[@lisa1703]

a video coming from you about asexuality? I'm already in love

[@shelbymachado8712]

This video is so gratifying to me. My slow unfolding of all of the aspects that feed into my relationship with gender and sexuality and attraction has been such a wild ride. Figuring out the asexuality first and slowly unpacking demiromanticism and then understanding my relationship with my lack of connection to gender filtered through my autism and so reconciling my attraction toward masculine features, but recognizing that isn't necessarily as gendered as you would think? There are so many layers to everything.

[@dimitra_k]

I just finished watching your spn video from last week (it was phenomenal) and now this!!! This was so so informative and fun!! I absolutely love of the idea of going beyond talking about figuring out your sexuality and coming out! Would love more content like this

[@AMillionMadMusings]

awesome I'm so glad you liked it!!!

[@manulutine4368]

Yes!! Please, continue this series! I'm all in for an advanced course on LGBTQ+ experiences.

[@samsherwood8332]

Loved this! As an ace person myself I’m so happy to be seeing more conversations about asexuality out in the world!

[@Isa-xe6vk]

When she talked about the trap of feeling the way you live is the most fulfilling - that was so on point!!! Great video! 👏🏻👏🏻

[@virtualprimatologist]

I love that you introduced this video clarifying that this might be part of a set of convos with other queer people, especially because people on the ace/aro spectra are often pushed from that label. Or at least in my experience, our experiences aren't really considered when people want to talk about the variety of queer experiences. And I really appreciated hearing about Rhian's time pole dancing. I like making sexy jokes and shaking ass! Hahaha. It's a part of the culture and it's nice to be part of it I love being ace/aro, and I love hearing from other people who understand that. Thanks for sharing!!

[@zowho]

Im ace and that was amazing thank you 😭

[@LinnaAP]

my ace heart loved this! please continue!

[@annawangensteen1827]

Loved this video, love learning more about asexuality, and I'm looking forward to more videos like this

[@isabellepalmer2289]

Thank you so much for this video - I'm aroace myself, and seeing this pop up in my subs box made my heart skip a beat. So much of what Rhian said resonated with my own experiences, and that felt so damn good, bc it just doesn't happen too often!! You're both wonderful - thank you again!!

[@lucyo2919]

This was really nice to watch

[@saera2865]

Thank you Gemma and Rhian! Lol Rhian your comment about Lincolnshire made lauuugh! Such a good video, thank you for the content xxx

[@veralunafritzlevit4462]

I think there's so much talk about what sex is for women that when a women doesn't want to have it everyone assumes that it's because they're not sex positive and are keeping sex from their partner and never the desire from the women is put into the conversation. It's so hurtful to ace people that we talk about empowered women and sex positive women like people that are very sexual, you can be a feminist and ace or demisexual or whatever!

[@jam-yh3bl]

omg i think me and my friend met rhian in a bookshop in bath she was very nice to us very cool that y'all are friends!

[@sadpendragon]

yesss i love this type of content

[@cassieroo17]

This was such a wonderfully informative video!! Definitely gonna send this to a friend of mine :)) Thank you so much Gemma, I really look forward to future interviews like this! I think it’s a really wonderful idea. As I get older and my relationship with my queerness changes I also really find myself wanting More, like you said. I have different questions about queerness now that don’t have easy answers and I think these interviews will be such a good resource for people like me! Very excited to see more, keep up the great work!

[@lisa1703]

perfect video

[@06arnoldcharles]

This video was really nice Gemma!

[@lisa1703]

first minute in and I'm already agreeing with everything that you have to say 😂

[@jo.k.4210]

wow this was powerful keep dancing!!!!!

[@laurarowen6053]

Person A: "I'm aroace, meaning I don't experience romantic or sexual attraction." Person B: "Not even toward Katie McGrath?" Person A: *patting Person B on the back* "Not even toward Katie McGrath."