Releasing Control Is True Control

[@verycherry4459]

Tips to avoid dating: just say 'no thank you'. I have gone 2 years without and and I LOVE IT!! I've been working on myself and done so much!

[@mailninja6938]

same❤

[@Itssimplyaisha]

You’re future kids are soooo lucky to have you as a mom💯

[@awwlexis]

This is one of my favorite messages I’ve ever received. Thank you sweet girl 🥺♥️

[@jasreneeteo4065]

I love having you talk in the background as I do things around the house. It’s so calming, comforting and surreal. It feels like my big sister is teaching me things! Thank you for existing and putting out these guidance based videos. I’m all the way from Singapore and likely your only Singaporean follower haha. Let me know if there are more. Would love to be a part of your Glow Girl community!❤

[@awwlexis]

You are so sweet. Sending lots of love to you in Singapore beautiful ♥️

[@milicagosic]

Beautiful girl. I am in love with Singapore. 🩵🩷

[@MAl-ov3qh]

It goes the other way tho, what about when you find your soulmate and know the end goal? Commitment on a whole other level. I get this is in regards to pursuing and control, it solely keeps the wrong people out of your life, great info!!!! I wish everyone could experience true love and be with who they’re meant to be with. Everyone.

[@Seraphim7]

Thank you, This is Confirmation. :) I Love how you mentioned “Would my Dream person ever Treat me Like this?” I Always Thought and Believed of it that way. That’s How I managed to Stay Single Throughout my Life. When I didn’t do it this way, I entertained a Counterfeit from the devil….But, I Broke up w him because I Knew God didn’t Send him. Even if you won’t ever Find the Right person, God ordained, it’s Best to be Single, than with the Wrong person + Settle.

[@Seraphim7]

Better Not Settle for Less than what you Deserve!✨👑👸🏽 I am Worthy of the Best, God’s Best For you!

[@pashalu]

Oh my gosh- thank you. Your explanation that men need the chase- now makes so much sense!! Giving them “the cheat codes “. Kills the thrill! I love it. They need to ‘hunt’ per se I get it now.❤ And I love how to emphasize that we cannot change anybody. I truly believed that my love could change my husband. I am divorced now- by my decision, and I finally understand that my mistake was not accepting that he was choosing who he wanted to be- fully & consciously. I didn’t understand that I should have let him go before things ever got started with him. It was definitely a lack of self worth wound I was living through.

[@erkiemma]

I’m so grateful for finding your channel Alexis! I’m only 18 years old and I’m learning so much from you. Thank you!🥰

[@natalia6g]

You know you’re good, when you don’t even have to edit your videos you just have so much incredible information to share! Really inspiring me to create better content ❤

[@Itssimplyaisha]

I think this feels like the hardest to do. When I feel like I wanna let go of control, I feel so scared and unsafe. But anytime I imagine my dream life it seems so free living and the way for me to live that life is to actually let go of control so I working on that

[@andieveidna]

Thank you for this! You are helping me remember more easily that it's my energy that is so important. When I am coming from a healthy, confident place of knowing my innate worthiness, what I do flows naturally from that energy. I don't need to check off actionable steps, the energy my behaviors are sourced from is what's going to make the difference ♡

[@nolarainfatally201]

Divine timing is about me. Me becoming the match vibrationally, now. Only then will the outside world show me. Divine timing is I change me the world changes. And if change happens and “ nothing happens “ that means keep going. More needs to be learned to hold the true desire goal or manifestations you actually want in a soul level. Not the mind ego ❤ that was my thought 💭:) I’ve “ fought “ with divine timing for years …😂 I’m done now. This channel helped me find peace ☮️ I can release so easily and I love it ❤❤❤ yesss !!!

[@chanya_ella254]

This is all i needed to hear as I'm on my healing process

[@blakeb8303]

I’ve just started listening to you to build up my confidence and embrace my feminine energy and noticed that we share the same Birthday! X

[@dr.tysparadise796]

Thank you alexis for providing this platform ! I have found my community and im so grateful!

[@lorienalachance]

I am grateful I am listening to you while working from home ❤ Learning about letting go of control cause I found a really good man in which I trust and he is deeply dedicated, committed and loyal to me. Calling me many times a day, we are always together and soon we’ll move together. I have no reason to be jealous or controlling but I am with him cause I love him too much, too deeply and that shit is scary as fuck. I’m blessed he is so patient with me and love me unconditionally but definitely I need and I want to work on this so I can feel more free in this relationship 🙏🏼

[@FatimahZahra-pf8fg]

I discovered your channel yesterday and I am on my healing journey. Absolutely grateful that I stumbled upon your videos, my feminine energy was wounded but I am claiming my healed feminine energy and am no longer the wounded women I was yesterday. 🥰

[@Poppymeaganolive]

Hey me too! I've been binge watching since yesterday and I can relate to most (if not all) her content ❤ Good luck on your journey 😊

[@FatimahZahra-pf8fg]

@@Poppymeaganolive Good luck ❤️

[@MusicFreak101baby]

Alexis, you are truly amazing! We are the same age and from the same place. I receive this message. 🙏🏾 I RECENTLY wrote a poem about this, this is literally the universe reinforcing this message for me. 🔮✨ Sending blessings and love to you.

[@awwlexis]

My beautiful girl thank you so much. How amazing you wrote a poem about this message. I absolutely love that ♥️

[@MusicFreak101baby]

🙏🏾✨🙏🏾

[@kristencaleb3689]

Went on a date today, listened to you before. I was so disgusted by things I would have attracted literally yesterday! I am a healing girlie 💖

[@MichellePerdomoCoaching]

You speak directly to my sou Alexis. Your. Intent is absolutely life changing! You are a blessing in this world 🙏

[@scxrae]

Thank you so much, Alexis. Keep shining bright. You’re really helping so many of us women out here who lack this spiritual guidance. We are healing! 😊⭐️

[@deeenh885]

ALEXIS!!!!! That same story about the man stuck at sea my mom tells me!! I was listening to everything you were saying but when you told that story I literally got chills! It’s time for a change in my life 💓

[@awwlexis]

Ahh no way girl! How amazing!!! 😘

[@masilo2949]

I feel so safe when I listen to you ❤ thank you for your videos❤

[@brina7084]

Awwww, I got the chance to write the first comment!! 🙃😊 Alexis, just wanted to say you're a wonderful person and a big inspiration to us!! ❤❤❤ I am always sooo happy to see you've posted a new video and you'll find me having a big smile in my face while I'm listening to your words of wisdom! ☺️🥰 You rock, sister, keep up the great work! 💕

[@awwlexis]

Aww Brina thank you SO much for your love and sweet comment! I am so happy to be with you. Sending you so much love and abundance 🥰

[@rainsara2795]

Haven’t watched your videos in a while and today I put this on while cooking, it feels like coming home again. I missed you ! The whole men needing not to really know is such a eye opener for me, my ex was crazy about me at first and spent the first months chasing me and wanting me to be he’s girlfriend while I myself wasn’t so sure of him. He described himself as madly in love until we were in a relationship and I finally got attached, craved that feeling of safety. I had been pressured into sex despite being a Christian and when I mentioned marriage (we had already decided the names for our future children, got an apartment, etc) everything changed. He’s behaviour became so bad that I had to breakup. Ugh. I found your videos at that time and it’s helped a a lot since. Love you Lexis, thank you for being the big sister I don’t have 😘

[@linara8085]

Pray you will go trough all of that for sure, thank you for sharing your experience 🙏❤

[@amberkfostermom]

Your story is very close to mine. The only difference may be that the guy talked me into marrying me then started the narcissistic behavior once we were married bc I think he felt he had me then. Sorry you had to go through that but at least you did not marry the man and saw his true colors before it was too late.

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

I love you girl! That crush lesson is always so great to hear & I need to listen to it more than once so I can really embody that queen energy. That tells me I get to choose & I get to feel that safety of knowing that I am confident within myself & my choices. I get to decide if they're a good match or fit for me & I am not worried about the other way around! No reason to be nervous.

[@ShamitoFavor-wk8fi]

Thank you so much Alexis, your videos have done me wonders since I first met you in June. You are my big sis for sure💞 lots of love from Uganda, Africa

[@dianastalkshow]

Alexis, you always say things in a way that clicks and makes sense for me. Thank you so much!!!!!!!! Your videos are changing my life. I love being part of your community. Sending you love and blessings ❤️🫶🏼

[@awwlexis]

I love having you here my girl. Thank you 🥺♥️

[@jagodakakun310]

Oh my god I’m so happy for you moving to Dubai!! It’s amazing, i think you were called to get there 🙏😍 Thank you so much for this video, you are always there when i need a message or inspiration. I can’t afford your course yet, but i’m working hard on it and cant wait to join both ❤️ Greetings from Poland

[@Itssimplyaisha]

Wow Alexis anytime I feel like I’m trying to control a situation cause I tend to fear judgement of posting what I love online at times it physically manifests as a slight headache or tension around my forehead then I tell myself i release control and it feels alotttt better

[@jaleneterefe4826]

I truly love ''The Mountain is You '' book , its truly life changing 💌 Oh Happy birthday in advance Alexis 🎂 Your guidance and support have transformed so many life in so many ways. God bless you 💌

[@moneetm.3871]

I hate that i always miss the lives, but everything is God's timing, so I'm still on time. Video really spoke. I found myself thinking my bf needed to know everything and when that happened. I didn't feel better, and things shifted positive, surely, but only because he had the cheat code. I need to get my mysterious side back! "Not trying to change anyone!" I can only encourage it through my feminine energy. Well said. Thanks for this much needed reminder 😌

[@hashlevina961]

When i thought i couldn't love you enough, you said you are a Scorpio!!!!

[@sahithireddy3757]

Hey, first of all, thank you so much for this and all the work you do. I have watched so many women out there talk on KZbin about inner work, feminine energy, high value levelling up etc, but I couldn’t find the calmness and serenity in anyone of them as much as in you and that’s what makes me relate with you and watch you almost as a mentor. Much love from India ! Also, can you please make an eloborate Video on the topic “signs from god and how to ask and look for them”. I have been struggling with it. Cause as you mentioned here, sometimes we tend to ignore all the signs being given while on the other hand if we ask for a specific sign it might be like controlling it. So how to deal with this?

[@thetamekanicole]

Wow this was so incredibly profound.

[@dcmax1449]

First of all, thank you ever so much for being here and for keeping the content so positive and valuable! I have been struggling to understand why this does not make sense: why men need challenge and to chase, and women need security. How are women ever going to get the security they need when they just need to be there and in constant contact and ressurance, and to be close to the man and at the same time this gets him bored and distant... Please, Awwlexis, share your opinion and insights on this!

[@888agatha]

when a man is in his healthy masculine energy, he'll naturally want to fulfill your basic needs like security and protection. however, this doesn't mean you have to be constantly together or tell him every detail of your plans, every step you’re gonna take or every single thing you need. giving him space allows him to embody his masculine traits fully, which include mystery, challenge, and pursuit. this keeps him engaged and energized in the relationship, while you can embrace your feminine energy by being receptive and allowing yourself to be pursued. both men and women often feel fulfilled in these roles because they align with our evolutionary instincts, shaping our behaviors over millions of years 🫶

[@catherinephilipps2569]

Yes!! Playing small doesn’t serve anyone!! Thank you for sharing your Beautiful achievements 💖💖

[@Shushma19]

Wow, this is such a exact timing 🎉 I am just hosted my website, and was hesitant to share it with some of my friends...... now shared it anyway ❤ I would love to get appreciations, and I take feedback if it resonated else I just let it go as its just their opinion.... OMG this video was such a match for my situation.

[@Itssimplyaisha]

So proud of youu💗 I’m a software engineering major and I’d lovee to see your website cause I’m also planning one for a project

[@Shushma19]

@@Itssimplyaisha Aww Thank you Girl 🥰 I am also Software Engineer, but my website is more of an outpour of my passion and creativity, than Engineering 😊 I would love to share my website with you girl, soon I shall share it on our Facebook group ❤

[@eierinjhoi]

Alexis, I was so thrilled to know your birthday is my wedding anniversary 🎉💐. Just celebrated our 12th year anniversary with my husband ❤️💕. Your channel has helped me so much these months

[@awwlexis]

Aww my girl how wonderful is this! Happy anniversary to you and your husband, that is amazing! Sending you so much love ♥️

[@camilaortizsuarez1273]

Alexis thank you so much I’m struggling with so many things right now but I have to release control … Thank you for all your advice I’m looking forward the November sale !!

[@alexme1014]

You’re the best channel I have discovered ❤

[@maddiecmears]

Alexis, can you make a video of how you cook your plantains and other foods! Would love that content!

[@awwlexis]

Absolutely love! I plan to make more lifestyle content as soon as I’m settled into Dubai 🤗

[@GetElevatedWithMe]

Alexis this is liquid gold my gosh!!!!! The wisdom and the way you articulate is truly magical. Thank you ❤❤ I keep seeing this car in Denver their tags are glo boy and I keep trying to catch who it is lol 😂makes me think of the glow girls every time!

[@awwlexis]

Aww Amanda thank you so much I always appreciate your comments and messages. And Glo Boy! How awesome! We need to bring him into our community! 😜 Sending you lots of love my girl

[@GetElevatedWithMe]

@@awwlexis girl I’ve been manifesting meeting him or sending the universe a signal to find us glow girls!! Tonight’s been a magical night to me and your reply was the cherry on top! I hope you have a beautiful rest of your weekend. Much love 💗

[@Itssimplyaisha]

I just love you more every single day! I loveeee the way your mind works Alexis❤ I’ve been reading the book and I’m loving it already I’m at the point where she had to leave home to follow the faerie😂❤

[@anaroute]

All the best for upcoming Birthday! i am Scorpio too from 20th November :) You help me so much, thank you!!

[@Britneymonique_24]

Omg this is so perfect timing-I needed this message! ❤

[@nickym4092]

You are speaking to my soul. And making me tear up.. I love you ❤

[@liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984]

Than you,I was struggling with this for so long,and This video just open my eyes.

[@Bonitabellla]

This video is gold ❤

[@MafeMenes]

Omg! I felt so in tuned, when I heard the comment of “this is exactly what I needed to hear”. I’m planning on quitting my job but I’ve been afraid of doing it without a backup plan but also I feel like that is not fully trusting god or the universe to supply, I really feel this work is killing all of my creativity and I end up drained. Also my parents beliefs are always getting in the way because they think I have an amazing job but I really don’t like it! Do you think it’s okay to just trust and let it go?

[@therapywithher]

Ahhh this is soooo good! Taking notes 📝 need to re-listen a few times to absorb all this potent information! ❤❤ not me squeaking everytime you speak about your move 😂

[@alina2003]

I love being on my feminine journey, you’re helping me a lot! I have a question, since I started being on this journey I started to become more quiet and speaking less I feel as if I’m reserving my energy. I don’t know if it’s a feminine trait or is it coming from a masculine energy

[@jhensenjanetgo]

Hi Alexis! I dont know if I can share this here publicly about the course, but I love how you relate our inner work as a Sims character! ❤ This highly resonated with this because I played the game also, and asked myself how can I be my best self as the sims and would want to have it in real life as well! The example in Sims I want in real life to manifest are: - Being good in my career that helped me get promoted - doing inner work thru talking myself in the mirror - being out to socialize with friends - being able to eat nutritios foods and exercising at least 2x a week. My sims character is in her best self and I cannot wait to do it also in real life 🥰

[@jheard78880]

Thanks for this confirmation!💕

[@zulfamsosa5062]

Thank you so much Awwlexis for sharing the knowledge.🙏

[@Lallacisse_]

Aaaaw we have a lot of plantains in Senegal 🥰you are welcome 🙏

[@cassandra900]

Alexis do you apply anything to make your skin glow or self tanner? Would love to see a video on this. ❤ my skin tone is exactly like yours I’m half dominican/puertorican but my skin I feel is dull. I do live in a colder area so that may be why.

[@awwlexis]

You are so sweet love! I have my full skincare routine on my TikTok account, under my “beauty & skincare” tab. I have never used self tanner. I believe a good relationship with God, yourself, inner work, proper exercise and nourishment and simple skincare are best for the glow ♥️

[@ilysmjam]

Omg happy belated birthday!! 💓💓🫶🏼

[@yarabattal7501]

Hi Alexis! ❤since the year is ending could you do a video about how to do a vision board?❤️ That could help a lot of us. Thank you ! 🙏🏻

[@ofeliamyles1088]

Hello im ofelia. Im from Wyoming. I have been doing alot of slef work. I listen to you all day long eveyday im at work, and when im in my car. I have so many questions. I will write them down. I would love to do your course's. Also i have been doing what i am learning in my videos. It has taking time but im for sure am seeing positive change. It makes me so happy that you are about God being in all of this with us. Please if you get this let me know how to get in these course's and how much. I want to thank you for also doing these videos for people who are not in your course's. I want to be happy and confident like you. I know i will be cause i wont give up til i make my dreams come true

[@amaniahmad1486]

Can you talk more about sharing God's love with people, how it looks like from your perspective?? Thank you, and I love you ❤

[@2UDust]

Happy birthday for the 21st lovely girl 😊 ❤

[@aprill.991]

Thank youuu 💖💖💖

[@efyadels]

Hi Awwlexis please help me figure out what our role as ladies in a relationship or marriage is??

[@judytakirenczuk-swiatek6143]

❤❤❤ I love you Girl!

[@Goddessrksh1111]

Thankyou alexis

[@Phoenixsunart]

Thank you girl❤️

[@fav.codess]

Birthday twin! 🎉❤

[@A-feather-of-truth]

Are you able to make a video on how to stay in our feminine energy as single parents?

[@SweetLexiGirl7777]

Thankyou so much for this video, I loved it!!!❤❤ Please can you tell us where you got your top from?

[@keilanaki9390]

Loving your live recordings! How can I find out when your livestreams are?

[@aridivinity7123]

❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️ Beyond Insightful ❤️

[@Lifewithbbyjules]

Can you please do a whole video on how to get out of fight or flight ??

[@awwlexis]

Hello love, yes I have made one, it is linked here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYeskoaHo9Gaqcksi=2Vx61fj9OQ9wtGbe 🥰

[@cassiraffe8939]

Can you all drop some good book recommendations for me, please? I saw some good ones the girls were mentioning in the comments, but I can't find that specific video again. Thank you in advance wonderful ladies!! ❤

[@aliciasandy2042]

Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T.Harv Eker

[@manifeststation4740]

I need your help! I am working so hard on myself and have created this amazing version of myself but I am letting the wrong people regress that version and it isn't aligning. I feel it is cheapening the work I've done to be where I am now. I hate that version that stoops to that people pleasing level to this damaged people which is ruining my reputation. I know it sounds harsh but I am just completely aligning myself to the wrong people and it's destroying my soul! I'm basically giving way too much of myself to the wrong people . What do I do?

[@naomiuchiha0906]

I think i have the avoidant attachment style

[@josephinemutuwa3249]

Hello Awwlexi. I'm josy. And I need some advice. I'm seeing this guy right now but recently I got a dream about him cheating on me. How should I approach this matter🥺

[@naomiuchiha0906]

I'm not Alexis, but I think I would ground myself. Dreams don't equal reality. I think all your actions should be based on what he truly does. Has he given you any reason to believe he would cheat? If not, I'd let the dream be a dream. Coming from someone qho has dreamt various weird, and in some cases very disturbing things. Human brains are weird 😊

[@josephinemutuwa3249]

@@naomiuchiha0906 Thanks 😊

[@sarahd9272]

Do we need to explain to a guy why we're moving on and that their action was not ok? Or just cut contact, to avoid them arguing their position?

[@awwlexis]

Cutting contact and moving on is best. That’s truly setting the boundary

[@sarahd9272]

@@awwlexis thank you

[@md5329]

You are inspiring

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

you have made me want to try plantains haha I have a feeling as to how they taste :)

[@MafeMenes]

OMG HAHAH I also had Justin Bieber in my notebook 😂😂😳

[@awwlexis]

🤣🤣🤣

[@learn68576]

I'm so happy 😅😅

[@NiKi-ij2ln]

I was using also the cheatcodes 😂, its fun with cheatcodes. And since my mother tongue is not english back then I didnt really knew what cheatcodes meant. But for me was never really borring, I know how to have fun 😊.

[@Gulya1012]

what if he adds girls on social media and says they are all from work etc they are just acquaintance he says he only loves me and he is loyal but i keep checking his social media and we fight a lot about it how not to care about it

[@888agatha]

heal your anxious attachment style. if you can't trust his word and give him the benefit of the doubt, it will only push him away from you. work on freeing yourself from this anxious attachment style

[@Gulya1012]

@@888agatha he cheated on me, with one of the girls he lied to me about.. so, i'll never again doubt my gut feeling

[@leslie_core]

Hey hey heyy❤

[@graceeeee16]

I do this, how do I change it?

[@sugarpiesxoxo]

I’d be very interested if you posted any content of being feminine in Christ!

[@candacecarter5864]

Which platform do you use to create your courses?

[@brittanyball9322]

I would like to know this as well!

[@leonalanz5099]

What is the name of Sandras Jewelry Business? I need to support her❤️

[@awwlexis]

You are so sweet Leona, her website is alsehrjewelry.com/. I am so happy to see you supporting her 🥰

[@NiKi-ij2ln]

I am male...😂....You also North node in Leo.

[@youtubeyesse]

❤ you

[@efstratiapatsidou]

Why do you not believe in living with your man when not married? Just curious:) so many couples I know moved in together recently and I am still thinking about it

[@AnimalLover2400]

Statistically, marriages are more successful between couples that do not live together before marriage. It is a myth that living together "prepares you" for marriage, it is actually worse in the long term.

[@efstratiapatsidou]

@@AnimalLover2400 oh interesting thank you!💗

[@Diana72910]

@@AnimalLover2400 but why is that?

[@sweettreatsnbw]

❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@mirzabeg2274]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Authenticnaomiii]

❤❤❤❤

[@sarah-beavor]

❤

[@TheTaurusTwin]

I’m moving to Dubai this month too 🩷🤗🤗

[@rosaclick1995]

Plantains are my favourites too