Remembering My Brother

this is gonna suck

[@tamarajasper7348]

That wasn’t a dream Kevin. That was a visitation. What a blessing to experience

[@iammikalanthony]

Exactly.

[@its_uhlaynuh]

YES! I had one with my grandmother in 2009 and I remember it like it happened yesterday. Sending so much love and prayers for peace to Kevin and his family💟

[@RoseStarr]

Same thing I said!

[@lisalisa4182]

Yes! Had the same experience with my aunt (who was a second mother to me) when I was a teen. Made letting her go so much easier for me when we found out she had passed away the following morning. She let me know she was at peace, she loved me and knew I loved her too...

[@samantha4887]

Yup!

[@PhoenixGoddess]

I'm happy Jason visited you Kev after he passed. That wasn't a dream he was saying bye.. 💜💜🕊🕊🕊

[@Klgray7373]

Bye for now. Just a see ya later.

[@PhoenixGoddess]

@@Klgray7373 Indeed

[@msakira73]

Agreed

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Agreed 💯

[@shalamarbloodworthdunlap1759]

Death is such a difficult thing we all have to deal with in this life. Losing a love one is the most devastating thing and a lot of times we deal with it the best way we know how.. Kev is dealing with his lost and the comfort in dreaming about his brother was the comforted he needed however it was a dream because the dead knows nothing.

[@val9567]

The story of Jason telling the nurse "we're all here because we don't know who the father is" was sooooo funny. Memories will keep Jason with you. You have my deepest sympathy.♥️

[@CurlsofaCPA]

I laughed so hard at that part lmbo

[@reneerasul3347]

I screamed and laughed out loud!! What a loving thing to say!! 😁

[@melindabarber8583]

Focusing on life is so important. It's not denial, but choosing to concentrate on the memories is key (for me) to understanding that there is a physical loss but an eternal spiritual existence!❤️

[@lisabroyles9665]

I woke my husband on this part. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@evolving83]

I laughed way too hard at that while tears are falling down my face and I'm not a crier especially if it's not involving me, but this touched my soul and I appreciate showing me how to properly grieve as I haven't thankfully yet had to experience it so close.

[@nicadrmar]

This video is basically a summation of why I’ve been an avid supporter of your brand and family for many years. The humility, love, laughter, crying, emotional maturity…everything means so much more than you know. Thank you for sharing this intimate moment with us. My sincere condolences and prayers are with you and all of Jason’s loved ones as you navigate the days ahead, especially when the phone calls slow down and you must forge ahead with life. He did great work while he was here. May he rest peacefully.

[@joshua_rage]

All facts!

[@ArlisaSThomas]

Well said

[@tessaderr2040]

Melissa's strength for Kevin is absolutely beautiful. I pray I can be this strong for my husband one day.

[@marvelinebazelais9392]

YEP!! her wifely glory is shining on her more then ever!

[@reggiethecommenter9137]

We can’t replace Jay but you have 1000s of brothers Kev. Stay strong.

[@sandyrecard]

I love you both. Hugs and prayers 💕💕🙏🏽🙏🏽🤗

[@trishalachell]

Awww that was a kind thing to say.

[@musicneurons7807]

O I felt this. This is beautiful.

[@joebroadbeef332]

Yep, count me as one of them brother!

[@d.wrighttv6916]

My dad passed from a massive heart attack at the height of Covid. I was 28 and planning his funeral. He passed in his apartment and lived alone, so it was sealed. Because of covid courts were closed so I had to beg the police department to unseal the apartment get access to his a military uniform to bury him in. Planning a funeral while grieving is one of the worst experiences. My heart is with you all.

[@lashayfair]

My condolences

[@Vegansoul1]

So sorry for your loss

[@songbird501]

I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how difficult that must’ve been for you. ❤️🙏🏾

[@n2resiliency]

Very courageous and admirable of you to go through such lengths to honor your dad's military service.

[@kissy0k8]

🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

[@cassandragrube6576]

"We're all here because we don't know who the father is." Rest in heaven Jason and condolences to the Fredericks family

[@AlisFashionSense]

I’m sure this video took soo much. You all didn’t owe us this. We appreciate your candidness and even the laughs. Sending so much prayer and love to you all, especially as time moves forward. May Jay’s life and memory always be remembered and honored!

[@BridgettS]

Well said

[@loc.love.beauty8710]

Love you Kev and Liss. So sorry for you loss 😢

[@Sponsorship4u2]

My heart is breaking for you Kev! Sending love & prayers

[@WordWoman111]

Didn’t owe us this at all but so grateful that they did🕊🤍

[@nikki06515]

“Grief is unexpressed love” thanks Kev, that’s was a word for me . I needed this, grief is soo hard.

[@Sponsorship4u2]

That really blessed me

[@jasminehill6312]

I love that

[@2014famu]

The pain doesn’t go away it just gets easier to live with as time goes on.

[@mrscapricorn]

I advise everyone to pre-plan no matter your age. My grandmother had everything put together, including who she wanted to sing, the songs and what to put in her obituary. I just went to the folder she left me and put all her plans in motion. She even prepaid and picked out her own casket. It seems extreme but it was a relief for me because I was so distraught. I didn't have to think of anything, I only had to get the pics for the obituary and that was still also hard. She gave me her strong box years ago with all her important info. It even contained my grandfather's info at the Veteran's Cemetery. I miss her like crazy and definitely get my cooking skills and organizational skills form my granny.

[@KAriedoll]

Condolences and I have so much respect for your granny. When my mother was in hospice care, she didn’t want to deal with the reality. After she died, it was an additional nightmare all because she didn’t put her affairs in order. My father who has long been separated from her also lives alone. I spoke with him gently about his own affairs and he got offended. I’m so done and just focusing on my own health and affairs.

[@samsungbackup3619]

Liss' love and compassion for Kev is undeniable ❤️

[@kimberlyturner4065]

The gift of finding your person at a young age… their family truly becomes your family… he was her brother too.. ❤ May God comfort their family

[@jeaninewashington154]

I’ve cried and laughed and cried some more all at the same time … Kevin and Melissa, we thank you for this!! You didn’t have to do this AT ALL but we’re grateful for your humility!!! THIS is why we love you the way we do… Jay lives in you.. forever praying for you guys and your family today, tomorrow forever more!!! We love you 🎬

[@niqueybangz]

💯💯💯

[@Dimples4dayz]

💙💯

[@treasured_remembrance]

“I don’t sin like that.” The laughs through the tears. I think this gave us all permission to grieve with you and for our own. Thank you. 🙏🏾

[@ashleybarnett5715]

That dream you had, Kev, was your brother letting you know he’s ok. I had one when my dad passed. Weirdly it brought comfort

[@marcellanorfleet4438]

You're so right, I went through the same thing when my dad passed! I've heard that saying as well, they are telling us that they are ok! So we must cherish their memories! God Bless you!

[@peachmilkshake_]

Grandma Ruthie giving Viola Davis speeches at the funeral took me out of my feels. Thanks Ms Ruthie. I'm applying "We don't like this but that's the way it is" to my life

[@mawnee3000]

Grandma Ruthie is everything y’all needed at that funeral home! 😂 Thank you all for sharing your stories!! Love you guys ❤

[@lmichelle80sbaby]

Right! She was right on time... gotta love our honest elders!

[@blacknnatural]

I think she was really ministering to herself. Bless her heart

[@madelinecameron8869]

I’m watching your wife as you’re speaking and I’m sure you know this, but she is amazing. She more than loves you. She is a brilliant light in your life.

[@Sharon-vl6xw]

I needed this. Grandma Ruthie saying “we gonna have to make two lines” 😆😆 Laughter is good for the soul

[@pmicha04]

Much love to you Kev and Melissa. You didn’t have to share this with us. I am very grateful for your openness. I hope this is a helpful part of your healing journey. ❤❤❤❤❤ love from Montréal Canada 🇨🇦

[@naturalscratcher9498]

Right this is much appreciate 🥺💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💜💜💜

[@yes_anotherone3260]

Agreed. They are so generous. We wanted to know what happened but knew it really isn't our business. Losing one's brother and best friend is devastating...and you shared, you laughed and you cried. You showed us what friendship means. You showed us what family means. I pray that you are comforted in the midst of your pain and loss.

[@missj9879]

“Act like you’re supposed to be there.” REALLY ministered to me. I appreciate you sharing that.

[@saxpoobielex7769]

I felt like I was back at the house at the repast listening to the family just telling stories of Jason. Also, what a beautiful dream. I love it when love ones that pass visits. Big hug to everyone who loved him. I am so sorry you guys have to go through this.

[@CorettaJG]

What a great analogy to the family repast. That's just how I felt. Thank you Kev and Liss.

[@damiancollie8592]

Those texts/calls are a real gut punch. My Dad passed away in July and when football season started, I had the thought, 'I gotta call the old man'. And now that the University of Kansas, (his alma mater), is having their best season in decades, I miss not calling him on Sunday mornings to talk about hte game! Praying for you and your family's peace and comfort, Kev.

[@tippy3734]

Your dog was trying to comfort you. That’s why he brought you something during the beginning of the video. Dogs know when we aren’t feeling well, sad, depressed, etc. My condolences for your loss. 💔

[@bbfuturemrsp1208]

Pets and kids my Godson would hop up in my lap frequently when my Grams passed. Looking back on it it was just what I needed in each moment ❤️

[@BlackTalent832]

I have never cried or laughed with, or supported any family, outside of mine own, like I do y'all. Just know that while you all have to carry this, we sending our love along your journey. We love you, Kev and Liss!

[@danicamuzic]

I feel the same! These are my exact sentiments

[@niqueybangz]

Same 🙏🏾💯💯🫶🏽

[@PHE-nomenon]

It took me a while to watch this and all things related to Jason's passing as if I knew yall. And even watching I'm pausing to laugh and cry. I haven't lost a sibling but I have lost a parent(my dad) and many others. It's a blessing that Kev has only been to 4 funerals. I've lost count of how many I've been to. And lost count of how many times I've been "the bereaved family". I feel with so much this whole entire story. The joy, the pain, the grief, the emptiness, the memories, the what-ifs. It's all real valid and present all at once. I appreciate this video so much. Even the tears it brings. But never forget, YOU ARE LOVED. By people you don't even know. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE SO LOVED. And we are here. You have an army.

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Same I felt EVERY emotion

[@ameliaking9225]

I feel this!

[@ArlisaSThomas]

This right here!

[@1Immanuel6]

Boy I love this man’s honesty. And his beautiful wife is right there encouraging him and feeling the pain! Thank you Jesus🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️

[@b4thepreposition]

Thank you all so much for sharing this moment with us, as you all really didn't have to. Based on these comments and my own experience laughing and crying while watching, this video is not only a beautiful one where we can remember Jay, but also a cathartic moment to remember the amazing brothers, sisters, family, and friends we've lost. They are with us always! Love you all!

[@JoyJoysWorld]

This was nice Gabbi! ❤️

[@abster4709]

I don't think you understand how helpful this is to others who are grieving. I cried and laughed and cried more and it helped numb the pain for a little while. Thank you guys, prayers for all the family and friends... I'm patiently awaiting my dream.

[@kendrachantell]

As someone that is grieving, this was something I didn’t know I needed. Thank you 😭❤️

[@angelinaward5549]

Me too🙌🏾😢

[@gma904]

That , “We’re all here bc we don’t know who the father is” STORY !!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@ashleyzviitei]

That bustop dream was Jason's personal good bye to you. Take heart in that. Grieve but also live like he wanted you to. You are a good brother Kev. Love to Tammy and his kids, your parents and Ruthy...bless her.

[@tabithathewholistic]

Granny had NO CHILL🤣😂🤣I laughed so hard till I cried at those parts, but on a serious note I am so sorry for your loss. We are honored that you and Liss were so vulnerable to share all of this with us, as difficult as it is. Continued prayers for you and yours🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽Still in a state of shock myself at the news even though I saw it over a week ago.💔😔The symbolism of that dream is next level.

[@PharmDST8]

That statement towards the end about being sad and mad….the unfulfilled dreams and plans….I FELT that….my husband passed by suicide last November and I felt every one of your words…he was only 43. I pray so much for your peace and for your grief journey…don’t limit yourself to a specific time or allow anyone else too. It comes and goes…just embrace it and remember the love…God bless you all ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

[@tenitalks]

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

[@SamM88]

Man, this tore me up. I laughed. I cried. I reflected. I don’t know what it’s like to have a sibling, so I literally can only imagine what you all are going through. In the past few years I’ve experienced back to back to back to back…..death. Grieving is it’s own journey, but it’ll get easier. Praying for y’all! 🙏🏾

[@Sheisdedo]

Praying for you too. I’m experiencing the same. I lost my brother, 1 friend to suicide, 2 unexplained deaths with my friends, my dog, & my uncle passed all in a span of a year… This journey is something… but nothing prepares you for losing people you care about 😔

[@SamM88]

@@Sheisdedo 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@BeachBumEvvie]

My son passed last year. Thankfully we had spoken about death and things (he was 30). I cremated him which is what he wanted. He’s in his room chillin until I get him a nice urn. I’ve been through the planning I understand the pain of that. Grief doesn’t have stages. It’s a tornado. The hardest part is the realization they will be gone for the rest of your life. Sending you all love.

[@tiptip7]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@uofm23]

🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️ I have two sons and I know that it's hard for you. Much respect to you for your strength.

[@bestmomcheck2046]

So So Sorry for your loss.

[@moemoney8227]

So sorry for your family's loss. I lost my son, my only child in 2014. It took I believe almost a year and I had a visit in my dream. It was like I hadn't seen him in a few days and I came downstairs to see him kinda hiding in the back of a closet. I said to him "boy where you been I've been looking for you". He walked up and we hugged. He took his jacket off and placed it on the back of the chair. As he was walking toward the hallway, to what I thought he was going to the bathroom. He just said " Mom, I'm alright". After that it just made my heart feel a certain way. I felt a kind of relief or satisfaction knowing he said he was okay. I hope this make sense but it really helped me. Til today I can't listen to Take me to the King or the Faith Evans song Missing you...Love you guys and everything you do. I do forget to hit the like button sometimes but I do watch. Keep up the great work...

[@mrsykingofficial]

This was EVERYTHING. I have never heard about grief the way you articulated it in this episode and although I have never felt grief on this level before my heart groaned and ached with you through this. When you cried I cried as if I knew your brother myself. I really respect what you have done and am so glad that you did. Loss is something we will all have to deal with at some point and I will definitely be saving this video for such a time because it was really profound seeing how you have been and are processing this devastating time. That bus stop moment was so profound. If I could draw better I would sketch it and send it to you… RIH Jason Fredricks 🕊️

[@MOEtivation08]

I pray Jay visits you whenever you need him!! Praying for yall and love yall!

[@LaKae444]

I feel so honored that you shared this with us!!! Those last ten minutes 😢 ❤

[@reanastallworth948]

Thank y'all - all the love 🙏🏽🙏🏽 and Monty does know what's going on... He can feel it in y'all. Dog's be knowing

[@DrKellie247]

Kev: Anger is part of the process. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being angry. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross did research on grief and established 5 stages of grief that can be experienced in any other (some steps are experienced multiple times): Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, & Acceptance. We love you. Thank you for sharing this experience with us. ❤

[@mrocka2k2]

Thank you all for this!!! We know it’s been sooooo hard for you & your family/friends. Continued prayers for peace & understanding!

[@mwangope]

when my brother passed,around 2 weeks later I dreamt of him. we were at the kitchen, with the rest of my siblings, just a regular Sunday family lunch and the first thing I noticed was, he was a bit distant from the rest of us. I kinda knew there was a separation and I couldn't go to him. but he was so well,happy. I asked him several times if he was OK and he said yeah,I'm great,I'm doing amazing. seeing his smile, him confirming he was OK, gave such relieve to my soul. I completly understand you Kev. I wish you all the best ❤

[@georgiapeach8189]

Dogs can feel your emotions your dog hopped up there to give you some love . And thank you for sharing with us sending love and prayers to your family ❤

[@tori-lq4oh]

I ugly cried to this. Thank you for sharing your life, thank you for sharing Jay, thank you for sharing all of this with us. It is treasured and very much valued. You don't even know the magnitude of your influence, not only in comedy and content, but just in love. We love you back! May God continue to bless you & your family and be your covering, because you truly have the grace of God on your life.

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Same a good needed ugly cry!

[@ms.erikamartin1981]

Kevin is all of us who lost a loved one this year. For me, it was my mother. Kev, you are not alone. Thank you for showing the real face of grieving for all of those who share in your season of grief. Thank you for opening your heart and sharing your love for Jason with us. God bless you, and your family.

[@rakaki3]

The story of Jason at Joe’s birth is hilarious!! Needed that after the tears 😭 I gotta go hydrate after watching this, I used up all the water I drank today 😢😭😭 RIP Jason

[@JoviieBabiie]

Grandma Ruthie is really a gem! Praying for y’all! ❤

[@Apostylicpoet]

What a nice tribute to your brother. I felt like we all got to know him a little better. We are grieving with you guys. Sending prayers of comfort and peace through this process. ♥️

[@MyResellerTreasure]

I am so sorry 😞 Grief is a heavy bag to carry especially when its so sudden. My Dad passed away suddenly earlier this year. When you said you realized you lost 2 people, I really FELT that. The hardest thing to cope with so far has been realizing I can't talk to him or tell him something I did or read or saw. It was tough doing all the things and replaying the tape over and over everytime you had to explain and tell someone what happen. Its truth to it that when you have a close family, its you're own 'friend' clique. And making close friends outside of that can be a bit tougher when you're used to a close family dynamic (Blessings). May you and your family be comforted by his memories and stories.

[@famuns]

That's death man. You be crying like hell and in disbelief but stuff still be funny. Praying for your continued healing as you continue to figure out this new normal❤️.

[@feliciamayfield2375]

My heart breaks for you all. Thank you so much for trusting us with your private, vulnerable moments. I wish I could hug you both. Sending my love and continued prayers to all of you.❤️

[@4LADYSWEET]

❤

[@weemsmusicgroup7546]

Emotions all over the place. Crying, laughing….Your authenticity is such a Breath of fresh! May God protect you, Melissa, the boys and All of your family! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@TS-jk5gx]

Between watching tributes for David Arnold and Jason I've had enough of crying. Thank you for sharing during this difficult time. I've been involved with funeral arrangements for three members of my immediate family within a seven year timeframe so I know its a very stressful and draining time. My prayers and condolences go out you and your family.

[@DJ-wl9iw]

How you still manage to make us laugh is beyond me. You guys are amazing!

[@niqueybangz]

Straight up 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@ShaunaRose1111]

I'm sorry for your loss 🙏🏼🕊🕯🤍🙏🏼 That dream was him telling you he's at peace.

[@mzbeecee]

Monty loving on y’all is so sweet. Dogs really know and feel our emotions and they’re so good at filling the gap.

[@QuadryHolloman]

As someone who is young and very ill myself I needed this. It’s giving me a glimpse of the thoughts my family will have for me. Thank you Kev for everything 🙏❤️ many blessings to you.

[@shameitran.greenlmft228]

Thank you Kev and Melissa for allowing us in this intimate space. Kev, thank you for letting us in to your moment with Jason in this video. I’m a trauma and grief therapist, but my biggest gift was my Mother and how she modeled grief with my grandmother and talked about grief in general most of my life. I call her my co-therapist when I’m in the space with clients because her gift keeps giving in my grief of her and holding space for others. When I suddenly lost her what I realized, in her physical absence, is she still mothers from heaven so I created a term called Mothering from Heaven, and I believe Jason (starting with that dream) will still big brother you from Heaven….. you will always know when he’s doing his big brother thing. Also when I lost my mother, my clinical mentor framed it well for me and I continue to pass it along to my clients, by stating profound loss feels like an amputation. You will always miss that limb (part of your body) but will learn how to navigate without out and sometimes you will experience the phantom limb syndrome where you can feel weight, itch, etc of the limb and will attempt to touch it and realize it’s not there though your nerve endings are firing in the same manner.. I am a strong advocate that exploring and nurturing our relationship with grief is vital, as it’s inevitable and a stable in our lives. To love forever is to grieve forever. Grief is Love’s final act. Grief Be Hard.❤

[@Sponsorship4u2]

Beautifully stated and extremely profound! Thank you for sharing

[@LadyPsalmist99]

We have so much love for you all! Continued prayers always 🙏🏾🎬

[@londilew]

I experienced the same when my dad passed. It’s been a few years and some memories fade but I can still remember the hug he gave me in that dream. I woke up and could literally feel his hug. 💖

[@latisha1673]

Grandma Ruthie has me in stitches🥹…thank you for sharing these moments with us. God bless your family💐

[@valjohns5823]

I love the way Lis looks at Kev. This family is so amazing. Praying for God’s continued blessings and peace for this family.

[@andrebelfon6738]

Oh boy, I procrastinated watching this like Kev wanting to do this. I just knew the tear ducts would be activated. Much love Kev to you and your family.

[@Stefun21]

Idk why I rewatched this. I must have needed a good cry. But my heart filled when they said that Jay passed, thinking Joe made the soccer team... and he didn't. One year later, Joe made that team and then some! That made me so happy, I cried again. Great job, Joe. Your uncle is cheering for you always!

[@NubianQueen_xo]

Losing 2 siblings in the past 2 years (I’m only 27 now and my 2 sibs were still young in my eyes- one was 35 and one was 46), I empathize with your pain. The word you said about grief being unexpressed love, made me tear up but it was a realization for me as well. This whole video, I cried with you and I felt honored you shared this with us. Thank you so much for sharing this and in turn helping other people grieve❤️🙏🏾. I never had the words and this said it. May God bless your family & continue to keep you. 🙌🏾

[@DJSteenie]

When Vision said that in WandaVision, it completely broke me because I had never heard it explain how I felt like that. Death is rude and disrespectful. Thank you for posting this, you didn’t have to, but we appreciate y’all. Praying for you and your family heart ❤ ❤ ❤

[@JazzyB9481]

I lost my brother suddenly 10 years ago when I was 21 and he was 23 and this video is so close to everything I felt AND STILL FEEL too. The way I describe it is every joyful moment in my life is bittersweet from that point forward in life. And it gets easier as in you just learn to live with the pain and it's not a constant overwhelming grief anymore, but you never lose the pain/grief. And honestly I don't think I want to lose it because like you said, that grief is how I'm able to express my love for him. Sometimes I'll randomly be cool and then something will remind me of him and I'll sob for 20 seconds then casually go back to what I was doing, lol. Praying for you Kev, Liss, and the rest of your family. 💜

[@roki5337]

I truly understand. My brother died last year. I had to wait for the funeral home. I held his hand, removed his jewelry and smoothed his hair. I helped to zip him into the bag and carry him on the stretcher to the hearse. It was so hard and traumatizing but I was proud to have been there for him.

[@kissy0k8]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Drea3096]

This year has been rough year Rip to all we have lost nick, fu, cerain, teddy, david and now Jay😢😢😢. My heart and prayers are going to continue to go out to your family. Keeping Tam lifted up in prayer that God covers her and the kids throughout this painful period of grief. Lord hold them close🙏🏾

[@vashantitaylor2997]

This storytelling is everything Kev down to the details.. Grandma telling it like it is . God bless y’all

[@msmilesftw]

You and Liss….your vulnerability is SO BEAUTIFUL in the face of the storm ❤🫂🕊🎬🎬🎬🎬

[@dawnjames6965]

My prayers are with y’all. I grew up watching you and Jay do church skits in tacoma!!! My heart was broken when I heard he passed!!! May he rest peacefully!!!

[@KeepingIt-fm2lj]

Lost my little brother 7 months ago, and seeing him laying in a casket was the hardest day of my life. Rip to your brother and mines I know the feeling.

[@yparker02]

Thank you for sharing Jason with us. Listening to you tell the logistics of planning a funeral was so relatable. I was in that position in 2020 when my brother passed away. Sending hugs and healing your way! 💙

[@perfectlyimperfect5846]

Thank you both for sharing your raw emotions with us especially when you really don’t have to. You are right grief definitely will come in waves and time, well it won’t exactly heal but it will put a band aid on it 😞. That big gaping hole will get smaller and smaller. But dang it hurts so much when you are in it. I created a private KZbin page for my dad with old voice mails and memories so they are there when I need them I found that to help me. You all will be able to be happy without feeling guilty again❤

[@JoJoDancer1024]

I was in tears 10 minutes in. I'm so glad u were able to have that dream and say goodbye in your own way. My condolences again ❤️

[@tennillemadden5911]

I have cried, laughed, and cried again! My younger sister by 3 years is also my best friend and I understand the relationship you shared with your brother. My heart cannot even imagine the pain that you are feeling. Sending my deepest condolences to you, your family, and all who loved your brother. Keep the memories alive and he will always be with you!

[@ThatKeeVoice]

Man, thank you so much guys for doing this. I've been needing this. Feels weird, because I don't know any of you personally, but I'm grieving Jason's passing too. I've been following you all since Playmakers. Watching you got me through my cancer treatment AND the isolation of the pandemic. My first week of chemo, I was able to come to your Real Comedians of Social Media show in Baltimore literally sliding out of my chair laughing during one of the hardest times of my life. You became my friends... so THANK YOU. I needed this. I'm going to miss Jason. Praying for every one of you. 💜

[@jamesjenosyde3657]

I lost my brother this time last year....I've gone through it multiple times, reaching for my phone to call him. My daughter says all the time she misses her uncle. I love you bro and you've been an inspiration to me and 1000s of others, just know are support and energy is with you and take the time you need and cope how it helps you the best. Honestly I can't watch all of this cuz I've cried more than I care to admit this past year. Too much death, hug your family. Especially those of you who have siblings. God bless You Kev and your family

[@theworldaccordingtofeatherjay]

I’m just now watching this because I couldn’t bring myself to do it. This video broke me down but it’s so genuine and so sweet. God bless y’all.❤🙏🏾

[@brittanysherida]

I’m new to y’all’s page and I’m loving every minute of it. The raw emotion, the laughs, the marriage talk and just everything. Thank y’all for sharing your lives with us.

[@shylabennett8407]

"We're all here because we don't know "😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omg hella quick on his feet! That is hilarious!

[@mj6719]

So much of this resonated with me! I lost my dad almost 3 years ago & he was also my best friend. Thank you for your candor! Grief is something that you can’t truly understand until you experience it. I think I’ve had 3 dreams since my dad passed. There was beauty & pain in all of them. Take your time processing and healing. 💜

[@delealgladney2423]

Thank you so much Kev and Liss! I'm watching this on the day my husband passed away 5 years ago, October 10. I needed this! My husband was also sick, but in fighting attacks from his family, who I was once very close to, I didn't know how to feel or grieve or what grieving even was - so many emotions going on today. I cannot thank you enough because now I can get through this very difficult day! Kev, I know you don't read comments anymore, but Cat - if you do, and you see this particular comment, please let them both know I have triumphed over this day by the word of their testimony!

[@tamararodriguez4413]

Uff this whole video was pulling at my heart strings.. This week is the anniversary of my brother's passing.. been 5 years.. i was crying right with you. You are absolutely right...Grief is nothing but love that has no where to go. The pain truly doesn't go away... you just learn to live with it. Thanks for sharing your joy and sorrow with us. 💜🙏🏽💜🙏🏽

[@NannaP27]

That dream was so sweet, thank you for sharing and my condolences to you guys. I think the same way- they are on a trip, I'll see them again soon. Hard days are ahead but please remember the good times and release your grief. ❤️❤️

[@haroldwilder6088]

Lost my mother a week before your brother man she was 47 years old. Praying for you and the family

[@ljvann11]

So sorry for your loss ❤️

[@thelifeofawriter]

Sorry for your loss!

[@shelceyhampton5253]

So sorry for your loss

[@haroldwilder6088]

Thank you all so much❤️🫂

[@aya9af]

I'm sorry 🙏🏽🕊

[@ItsChristyLove]

We laugh AND cry with you because we really feel like extended family. Thank you for including us in Jason's farewells. His Homegoing was wonderful❣️ p.s.-I have to tell you that "Flying V" 🦅 trying to get down that Chapel Isle/Grandma Ruthie had me ROLLING!! 🤣🤣🤣🥰🙏🏾

[@vanessadh3939]

I know this was tough, but it was beautiful. It really was. These are stories and reflections people share with you when you visit them at their house after a loved one passes. Even in your grief, you're including us and making us feel like part of your close friend group. Thank you Kevin. God bless you and your family today and in the days, weeks, months and years to come. ❤🙏🏾

[@cynthiacummings0917]

Thank you guys so much for being so open and sharing with us. We love y'all and our hearts feel your pain. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@DJ-wl9iw]

1028pm about to be wrecked with tears. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@mommyofceos]

For whatever reason I thought I'd listen to this at work but Chile! I started and stopped about 10 times! The tears wouldn't stop coming. We are around the same age and I've yet to lose a parent or sibling. I have no idea how that feels but I felt your pain. I think we all feel your pain. We love you all. Take your time. We'll still be here for you when you're ready.

[@shanaygainer7296]

Thank you Kev. You didn't have to share but the connection you create for us brings us close. Truly a blessing 🙌🏾 ❤

[@angelalittle5554]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Praying for all of you. I will definitely miss seeing your brother when he would come to town. I will miss the way he would say my name and the hugs he always gave me when I would see him. Jason will always be remembered by me and my boys. Thank you for sharing your brother with us. Love yall always. 💙

[@tdavis2226]

Awww Kev you had your “visitation” from Jason which was the bus stop dream. When my brother passed away in 2011 nothing felt right until after I had my “visitation” from him. In my dream I opened my front door and looked at my neighbors porch and my brother was just standing there. I asked what he was doing and he just smiled. That right there, even without him saying anything let me know he was okay and that I’ll be okay. I didn’t cry anymore after that and I felt at peace. No day does by that I don’t think about him. You and your family will be okay with time.

[@BunnyTalkCB]

Thank you Kev and Liss for sharing this part of you with us. 💜 🙏🏾 Praying for you all!

[@karbearnation]

“We’re all here because we don’t know.” Howling! That is classic and really shows how wonderful Jason is! Thank you for sharing him with all of us! God bless you! 🙏🏾❤️