Remove the Bad and Add the Good

[@kyledevillers7240]

I don’t even own a horse or know anything about horses but Your videos have made a huge impact, I recently quit my full time job of 9 years to finish Nursing School, something I have always wanted to do. I’ve changed my view and told myself to trust the process. Your videos have really kept me calm and collected during this process and I have really liked listening to your words and philosophy’s. Thank you!

[@kellywalker8407]

I had a good job with great benefits and a super boss, the whole nine yards. But I quit to train horses full time. Damn, it was scary business with a family to feed. It all worked out and I've never regretted that choice but sometimes wonder how I never got ulcers. Still, I'd do it again........ Good luck and be brave, it'll work out.

[@Edgar-gx6yn]

Good luck hopefully you can find employment that won’t require the vax

[@elfpower8300]

@@Edgar-gx6yn get a life

[@warrenwieske]

Good on you for having the courage to do what so many would be frozen by fear to do.

[@kyledevillers7240]

@@Edgar-gx6yn I respect your decision to not vaccinate, just as I hope you respect my decision to vaccinate. We have to do what we believe is best for ourselves. But seeing that I already have worked in a large hospital. I like to keep myself protected so this will not be a problem for me.

[@djg3996]

This guy is great. Old school wisdom and personality that is so lacking in today's world.

[@jamesdean6005]

Awesome 👍🏻👍🏻

[@Chuckrussell75]

Real folks. The majority I'd bet.

[@pappyjdialvl1899]

This wisdom is prevalent. Imo. The only place it’s hard to find, is on KZbin. And if you miss it, IRW, then maybe you should use DeWayne’s videos as a compass and not the road map.

[@CONTainsAzand09]

Idk how I came across your channel. But it's great. Cigars. Cowboy stuff. Wisdom and advice. It's fantastic

[@hhlagen]

Sweet Jane. I trust she will turn around with you working with her. Great advice!

[@joannehart9624]

For those of you who want to change your life, I do have a couple of thoughts I would like to share. Change is hard, so be patient with yourself. You'll have missteps along the way, but don't let that discourage you. Just pick back up and keep moving forward. Just like trying to train that beautiful little mare, it takes time. But you can get there. Be vigilant that you don't drop back into your old ways. Trust is hard to earn and easy to lose. Blessings to each of you working to better yourselves!

[@VikCalo]

Nice words. Happy holidays 👍🏾

[@chefboiardeeznutz9881]

Thank you.

[@chefboiardeeznutz9881]

​​@GetInspired Mam* lol

[@alottaguala9766]

Introspective beautiful soul I couldn't stop laughing when he said "this horse isn't where I want to be, but I'm not where I want to be either" love it can't get enough

[@Doug_M]

You've got a lot of wisdom to offer, whether it's about horses or just life.

[@bradleymorgan8883]

I've come to this realization over the years when going through stints of sobriety. I set the goal to not drink for a specific amount of time. It's tough at first, the habit is hard to break, but after a few weeks it becomes the new norm and it no longer takes effort to not drink. The thing is, it's not enough to just NOT do something...I call them "negative" goals. Goals that remove bad behaviour. In order for the goal to be productive we need to set two goals. One to stop the bad behaviour and one to replace the behaviour. NOT doing gives us motivation, there are small wins when we hold ourselves to our word and deny the desire to do that thing that we are trying to stop. We need to leverage that motivation that comes with those small wins and put that energy toward building a new habit or skill. It's not enough to "not" do, we need to "do" do. There's my wisdom for the week - we need to do do ;)

[@amberlorraineOG]

Thank you so much for this. Happy New Year 🎉❤

[@emissaryofelohim1431]

Babysteps and Endurance! Build something. Build a road forward. Build it with no path backwards. But give it rest stops, and checkpoints. Reward your travels with the sights.

[@comesahorseman]

I believe that horses (maybe other animals also) were put on this earth by the Creator to teach us something about ourselves. Perhaps this mare is doing that for you. Take care!

[@christabellemorley5519]

That horse is stunning!

[@andybarnes167]

Love these Sunday sermons.

[@scottmason578]

Dwayne, horses are alot like people. They feel understanding!

[@jamesolsen350]

Great talk for a Sunday evening. You have just made me a better man. I'm at peace with the world. Thank you

[@decastring]

Some of the best cowboy philosophy comes out of training horses. Makes me really miss the ones I had before moving back to the suburbs.

[@LotanLevant]

I wish my father had any wisdom at all like this man. Almost makes me cry just listening to him talk

[@garrywindshield1]

You have that polish painting as your profile pic. I hear you. Mine almost wasn't around. And I did and I do so many mistakes. Even painful to talk about it. God teaches me little by little though I'm afraid of Him. But that's the only way. Heavenly Father was always around and He was wise. I wasn't.

[@amandazemke5765]

Currently crying 😢and that’s ok 👍

[@jat2319]

These videos are comfort viewing for me. Stay safe and much love.

[@fayssalk]

our favorite cowboy officially. you bring so many great old values and your charisma always comes through.

[@nicolezamerovsky6731]

Hello Dewayne. I don't own a horse, but love riding and recently started watching your videos. I really appreciate the wisdom and advice that you and your wife Deanna share. It's almost like having a dad to listen to again, I'm in my late 40s and lost him 16 years ago. Your calm, reassurance and guidance always give me something to think about and often lift me up. Wishing you and your family many blessings, thank you for making these videos.

[@Pauloddalmeida]

Thank you for the videos. I'm a 43 year old brazilian lawyer and I love your videos, Dewayne. The old school way of thinking is precious. We need that.

[@micheleclifford8969]

Dewayne, Your A GodBlessed, Man ! Ty Sir, For Your Wisdom ❤

[@ANGIE9595]

❤ I love the expressions on her face as you’re talking about her 😂 what a beauty she is!

[@michelles1517]

Love a palomino! I had one he was a parade horse. Beauties!!

[@jayboi3457]

Hey Dewayne! Been binging your videos for the past couple hours and decided to bring a chair outside and light up a cigar to watch the rest of your life-talk videos. I really appreciate the sort of advice and things you talk about and your messages have definitely got me in a good place for starting off this upcoming week. Thanks!

[@ethanhand7570]

Keep up the good work. Randomly came across your videos and have been watching them every evening. I’m not a cowboy by any means but your “ cigar talks” have helped through a very low part of my life. Thanks the words of wisdom from you and momma. God bless y’all

[@Cwgrlup]

Jane is a real looker. It’s a real shame when people ruin nice horses then when they get old and really difficult they end up at auction. Thanks for helping this lovely mare. I love your videos. After watching this, I really think I would love to come to your school. Your philosophy is absolutely amazing.

[@amandazemke5765]

I was difficult and I’m currently at auction so to speak. I just want someone to love me flaws and all. I know it’s there somewhere 💜

[@sosanostra1543]

I love your videos about Philosophy and Cigars. That’s why I subscribed. 🫡

[@dietcoke9223]

Agreed

[@Bootstrahps]

Shit man this guy always has the perfect thing to talk about in his videos that make me feel good about myself while also making me think about what I can be doing better. He has the most smooth radio style voice that is nice to listen to. Much love from PA Dewayne and Deanna!

[@Tyler-on5se]

I love how this man talks, it comes down to life and a journey. Nothing else. Nature and life and how we can be better

[@anthonystike6034]

Perfect analogy, Dewayne. None of us is actually where we actually need to be at this point in time. Yes what you are doing with her is what we all need to do in our lives. Adding the positive without subtracting the negative never works out. You will revert to the negative over the positive. Taking the negative away without replacing it with something positive, will probably result in something else negative sneaking in.

[@Chuckrussell75]

Your videos have lifted me up. I wanna thank you, & your family for making this all possible, Dwayne. I can't tell ya in short order how much all this means to me. You're my new favorite channel. I aint far removed from my farming, & self reliant lineage. My grandparents had a farm, & their folks did too when they walked with their oxen, & horses North here in Michigan. The seventies & eighties dried it up. So, they ended up leasing our property out, & you prolly know the rest of the story. But Grampa always had a horse or two. I wasn't much good riding, but they (horses) seemed to like me, lol. My heroes have Always been cowboys. And that aint just me singing. That's a true statement. I always wanted fo be that guy. Us kids did hay. I Always got stuck in the maw because I was scrawny I guess. No fresh air for the skinny fellas. Lol. Well, I'm awkward. I'm a newer subscriber. You're a good sorta dude, & I like having coffee with you. It's been kind of sh*tty in my world as of late. But sitting with you has really helped & I want to thank you for that. God Bless you, & your wife & kids. Everyone should give you ten minutes. You sure remind me of my Dad and older brothers. And all the elders. You got that beetle, lol. Any dang how. Thanks.

[@micheleclifford8969]

I Just Love Listening and Learning from you! Your One Hell of a Cowboy 🙏👍🌹🙋‍♀️❤️💙

[@silverkitty2503]

early education is so important for horses you never know where they will end up and education is the key to getting them a good home. They should be trained with ALL kinds of bits ...and halters etc. The more schooling they have the more options they have. And its harder the older they are. Thanks for taking time to teach her and not giving up on her!

[@johnnydavenport8933]

I grew up with Waylon Jennings and Conway. And ole George Jones. Also Some bluegrass. I loved all of it!

[@fishinghole333]

Your talks do my heart good.

[@ToadleyBrowne]

You are a very centered person. Just watch this again with my wife and enjoyed it very much.

[@GermanNieves2X]

Beautiful message

[@joelyons8238]

Thank you for sharing. God bless you.

[@RIP30]

She is a beautiful horse and your philosophy and just words alone are so amazing and help so much , thank you Sir !

[@terryklinger1648]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@truckingstone]

35 years of age this Sunday, these words of wisdom you share remind me a lot of what my great grandfather taught me as a kid. Thank you for your time and knowledge!

[@TitanishSpirit]

Thank you for all you do, Dewayne.

[@nighttrain4647]

Always good sage advice. Thank you Dewayne

[@spikestoyou]

I hope at some point I can come check out dry creek! I’ve been volunteering on a horse ranch in Salinas, CA and I love it.

[@321Jessi]

I dont don't know much about horses but I think that, Sometimes life can be a bit like trying to build a 10meter by 8meter puzzle while everyone around you is playing in a snooker tournament. Thank you, I appreciate your help more than words can express my gratitude. Kind regards Jessica.

[@ivankultgen]

Just found your channel by chance. And im so glad i did. I do commute an hour and youre so right. Ive been commuting an hour to work for years. And it used to be somethin i liked to do, it was a positive. But now it sure isnt. So i changed it up. I take backroads into work. And i admire how different things are each day. I will never see the same people every day. I love seeing the sunset when im home. I focus on the good in my commute. Not the exhausting drive daily nor the cost daily.

[@alexblue8317]

That wisdom and especially the attitude, is not everywhere in the world. Take care and appreciate your country. Greetings from Greece.

[@InTexasMatt]

Best video/post I've seen from you yet! Blessings to you and family.

[@ethanregier4657]

That’s actually the biblical process of change. Ephesians 4 tells us to put off the bad, renew our mind and then put on the good.

[@laurelsayer7557]

Dewayne, really enjoyed this video, great to see you back with the horses. Lovely little mare, she looked so calm and tuned in to you.

[@garyb4929]

Great analogy with the little mare, wonderful looking. It's sweet to have a horse under you that's a pleasure to ride in sense you describe. Miss that. Great correlation of where we should be with our lives. Enjoying a Charter Oak Connecticut with your video & cup coffee & stars.

[@purenatural5736]

Thanks for your advice kind mister. I’m 32 and I’m so relieved from your videos.

[@kevinlamberg9724]

Your wisdom is appreciated-much respect; and thank you for making these videos available to us.

[@davidc9135]

Congrats on the recent growth of the channel, lots of compounding subscribers in the past several weeks👍

[@catherinezuppero7609]

I feel the same way about your inspiration and sensibility.

[@bluejay9940]

she seems like a good mare , I look forward to seeing her progress

[@aubreyford9365]

Dewayne you are very easy to watch on here. Thanks for the video.

[@JourneyMN]

Never in a million years have I thought a cowboy recommend Lil Wayne Thanks for the wisdom! Found the video on loneliness and it was so profound to me

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

“Little Wing”. It’s a guitar instrumental by Stevie Ray Vaughan

[@JourneyMN]

Haha oh, yeah I brought up the captions and it also said lil Wayne! Thanks for your videos, can’t wait to see what your future brings!

[@Michaelstahler]

Your videos always pop-up so serendipitously, at exactly when I need to hear them. Thank you, sir.

[@technologic21]

New viewer here. Thank you for your kindness and humbleness. Enjoy learning about these animals, life, and more.

[@rickhaile2190]

I do like me a yellow horse Dewayne. Our first two horses, when we were kids, were Palomino's. I sold my last horse about 4 years ago. I miss having a horse everyday of my life since then.

[@10rcoleman]

Thanks for your philosophy i needed to hear that thank you God bless

[@derekmurray1462]

Beautiful horse and wise words

[@jaggjagg5928]

Good advise. Now I need to figure out what positives to add for all the negative I want to remove.

[@terryqueen3233]

hey Dwayne great advice. Dwayne I am 71 years old I have accomplished just about everything I wanted to accomplish I'm very happy in life, I have gotten right with the Lord I'm as happy as I can be and I look forward to my time with the Lord. I was hoping that you would have answered some questions mainly the question I asked but you did it and that's okay I could never get mad at you nor could I get upset with you. it's your Channel and you do exactly what you want to and that's what I expect from you. so I watch you I listen I try to pass some of your wisdom onto my grandson and yes it is wisdom whether you want to say it or not. so on that note thank you for the video I look forward to your next one and of course happy trails! PS are you guys going to get moved out west before the winter hits I hope you do it's going to be bad if you don't.

[@LifeSimulator_]

Hi Terry, I’m a young lad over in England. I was wondering if there’s a way I could contact you, just looking to have a conversation with someone that’s lived a life of experience and who knows maybe you’ll get something out of me as well.

[@J-Kabar]

@@LifeSimulator_ same

[@terryqueen3233]

@@LifeSimulator_ I suppose you could I don't understand what I could help you with I mean you're a young lad and I'm an old man but sure start through this and we'll see how it goes

[@terryqueen3233]

@@J-Kabar well I don't know why you guys are wanting to talk to me but or carry on a conversation but I suppose it's okay let's just start through here for now and see how it goes

[@terryqueen3233]

@@LifeSimulator_ well apparently you didn't want to carry on much of a conversation because I haven't heard from you yet and if you've changed your mind that's fine have a wonderful life young man

[@scottteeters5780]

You are a brilliant Man, Dewayne. Thanks for what you do.

[@vanillagza3470]

Appreciate your videos so much, really happy to have found your channel a couple weeks ago. Best wishes from South Africa

[@shaunroberts9361]

I love Buckskins. I had a feeling that horse would come out good.

[@PerryPapanier]

Beautiful horse

[@shelleycooper4890]

Love your timing with the horse in this video. There are few horse trainers who link good feelings/attitude with the desired action from the horse, I feel this is so important. Most people can make a horse do something given enough tools but if they pin their ears and swish their tails on the way through and put in minimum effort, its a but like your teenager slamming the door on the way to do their chores, they have accepted your authority but not understood or accepted the task as important, I find when you get the lovely soft attitude from horses they just start trusting your decisions and saying yes to more and more things. Teenagers too😁

[@dwaynebutler6903]

What a beautiful horse. Love your message

[@bikebasket9594]

Great advice. Small changes can make a huge difference over time.

[@Bhh-j2s]

Stevie Ray is a positive in all situations! Great talk.

[@fulviopaschoal8303]

Thank you sir! Fulvio - Brazil

[@homesteadingpastor]

Great words of advice my friend and so true!! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom & time with us. None of us are where we need to be, at least I know I’m not but I’m still on the potters wheel. GOD BLESS YALL! 🙏🏻😇👍🏻🙌🏻😊

[@PresMonroe]

Just discover your channel. Man I am loving it. May the Good Lord bless you !

[@jeffmerica414]

You guys are awesome! Love your morals and Outlook on life! Keep it going!!

[@MrBobbystyles]

Love me some SRV and these videos , Thank ya bud .

[@Humanumikey]

Dwayne you’re the best. I have my wife and hopefully my daughter listen to you. I’ve learned so much from you then my therapist. Great videos. Keep them coming

[@asgrey22]

SRV reference. NICE! One of my favorites

[@EDDY_D26]

Down in Houston Tx we jam steavie ray all day / ZZ Top too that Tejas album

[@Muircure]

You are awesome brother, keep on !

[@rancinehathcock7270]

Animals are a lot like people, in dealing with 'issues', in my humble opinion. Patience is required. If one decides to 'work' with another, don't quit on them. Peace y'all

[@GrassRoots-fp4ty]

Im in the process of rebuilding alot of my life, and these videos are amazing. Thank you sir for doing this.

[@LindzHoward]

I've gotten renewed interest in horses thanks to these videos - keep up comin', they're life lessons in and of themselves.

[@raularmas317]

In so far as this video is concerned you have nothing to be sorry about. This is yet another great video chock full of great perspective. Much thanks, Merry Christmas 2022.

[@jamesstorey2792]

Love you brother ! Hoping to come to your school next year ! All my best !

[@PanicAttackRecovery]

Wise words, thanks so much

[@vanlifeinthecity9798]

I love this. Amazing advice. Thank you

[@NorthernBell4612]

I think I learned more about people by working with horses and being out in nature!

[@LooneyMade]

Your the Stevie ray of wisdom💜

[@lilmissunshine83]

She’s beautiful. I don’t think I’ve ever been on a horse but it’s a goal of mine this year.

[@doctormudbone4432]

After watching different self help channels for men, I love watching Dwayne cause it feels wholesome and down to earth.

[@tonijacobs5501]

Any chance of a future book on Dewayneisms 🤔😁? Love the insightfulness in all your videos . Would make a great inspirational and encouraging book on growth .

[@lancecogburn3255]

I love SRV. Great recommendations.

[@TMVGarage]

This is a good example of what you said a couple videos back about being a "good man" and correlates to you saying "the absence of evil is not an automatic indication of the presence of good".

[@4legaci]

Appreciate it the wisdom here. Awesome channel !

[@TSchubert33]

Sounds like you’re happy I didn’t bring my checkbook! Miss you guys an that little mare, glad she’s coming along.

[@rockinpranch8173]

I always enjoy your videos, but I need led this one. Such a good reminder that we’ve never really reached the destination, go to keep working. Keep up the good work!

[@Tubiggiesmalls]

God bless you, Sir

[@viktik1946]

Dewayne, please tell us more about this. Cowboy cuisine, a bit of history, traditions. What you personally like, what you don't, your view on it. And the second question, tell us about your lever rifles, you probably have a lot of experience working with them, different stories. I would like to hear your story.