The Habit EVERYONE is Doing Nearly Destroyed Me

[@thomasr8130]

Good you learned this lesson early. Alcohol killed many in my family and sent me on a very bad track. Drugs, drink and late nights. I quit forever. Not a part time drinker. A total non drinker. Burn the boats!!! I quit then became a millionaire. Early birds catch worms, hangovers hold you back. Keep going my friend

[@Rico]

Love it! Congrats on your success!!

[@egoaea6343]

I really appreciate you sharing this. Your transparency is inspiring and of course a lot can relate as we all go through challenges and some hit rock bottom too

[@chatelinolivier2187]

Proverbs 14:12-16 KJV There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, But the end thereof are the ways of death. Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; And the end of that mirth is heaviness. The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own ways: And a good man shall be satisfied from himself.

[@katlamb4606]

Thank you so much for being so vulnerable. I needed to hear all that! I hope you find Ruby!❤

[@hratchchaderjian-vb9pf]

Welcome back and keep going!!

[@MonaHurani-ms5xc]

I hope u find your cat good luck❤❤❤

[@michaelnovikov3204]

Thank you for sharing this. The lessons, perspectives and teaching that you gave to us are invaluable, and it is an impressive story that you tell. I think that all of us who watch this can be grateful for you.

[@Rico]

Appreciate that so much!

[@terryscarry8353]

Welcome back Rico. I really was concerned about you. I don’t know you at all but I saw the change in you from watching your videos. I thought to myself “where is that nice guy that seemed to have such a sweet life with his cute cat and loving girlfriend.” You are still so young and will experience many things in life - good and bad. Your maturity in recognizing that lifestyle you have been living recently is not for you is really really admirable. Like I said, I don’t know you at all but I am so proud of you and relieved the real Rico is back!

[@Rico]

Thank you so much for the comment and support!❤️

[@Angel679A]

​@@Rico Have you found Ruby?&I am praying for you to find Ruby!!🙏

[@AlsKitchen]

OMG This video made me proper cry. It was emotional, real, deep, shallow, all the things that make us human. Can't wait to go Cyprus next week and hope i bump into you Rico.

[@Rico]

Thank you for the kind words. I'm around Paphos, maybe see you soon!

[@TeganF]

You are such an inspiring individual!! Ruby would be very proud of you

[@Rico]

❤️❤️

[@krklkrklkrkl]

Instead of showing only success videos/stories, you showed us also your problems (which all of us has). Which makes you real. Great content! P.s. would you now be able to run a marathon taking into account the lifestyle and habits you had for the last few months?

[@Rico]

Thanks, right now I'm very active again, I train daily and run 20k per week, so I will definitely do a marathon next January 1st.

[@malaika2940]

Rico, welcome back! Great to see you again. I had wondered if you were taking a break because you were so busy with work. To be honest, I was concerned. Obviously I don’t know, but you feel like a friend. I’m so sorry to hear what you have been going through, although I’m glad to hear you are bouncing back to your optimistic self - well done and good for you! I’m sorry to hear about your girlfriend, I really thought you both would be together forever. I started crying when I heard about Ruby. I never saw your previous video about her going missing. OMG! I know how you must be feeling. My 3 dogs died over a 4 year period - I’m still absolutely devastated. The last was a Mastiff. He had a brain tumour. As with my girls, I couldn’t do anything to stop the cancer. With his last breath he kissed me goodbye. Even the Vet was crying - I still cry over a year later! My girls I’d had for 17 years and my Mastiff nearly 14 years (far longer than the breed life expectancy) These little ones (and big ones!) get into your heart - their paws 🐾 are forever there. It’s been incredibly brave of you to bare your soul and tell your journey, I personally feel very privileged to listen to you opening up and being so honest and vulnerable. I hope your mother is doing well, it must be so hard for her. Will she ever visit you in Cyprus? I can relate to a lot you have said, as my childhood wasn’t really a childhood. People thought I lived the life of a Princess and had everything, but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. So it’s indeed incredibly brave of you to be so open and vulnerable. I really admire you. I heard you say you had a best friend, so I’m glad you have someone to whom you can turn and someone you can trust. We all need that. Trust is the greatest issue I find, so if you can trust someone enough to discuss things with, that will help enormously. The old saying ……. “a troubled shared is a trouble halved” is very true! Congratulations for pulling through and above all getting on with your life and being determined to make the most and be positive! Hoping everything is onwards and upwards for you hereon after; no more problems. Take care.

[@Rico]

I absolutely this comment and your energy, thank you so much for sharing as well. So glad to hear people see me as a friend, that's my goal with this channel. Very sorry to hear about your dogs, I'm sure they lived a long and beautiful life! My mother is indeed visiting Cyprus next month for the first time in 5 years, very excited!!

[@malaika2940]

@@Rico How wonderful. Your mother will not only be delighted to see you, but so proud to see what you have achieved. What a wonderful holiday she will have - how exciting for you both!!

[@Rico]

@@malaika2940 Thanks a thousand times!!

[@Angel679A]

​@@Rico I am very sad that Ruby is missing 😭 can you please tell me have you found her yet? & Please can you Please give a update? 💔💔💔🐈🐈

[@umeshambadi2519]

Than you for sharing your experience It was .......worth listening to your point of view

[@hannsalexis371]

Dear Rico it is a blessing to be able to experience the party life and also the tranquil life, that is a good balance since your are learning from it. Nowadays feel free to look at what everybody is doing and do the exact opposite you can be sure that you will be on the right path. Having discernment in every situation is key. Regards

[@MonaHurani-ms5xc]

So proud of you I hope you find her I know it’s hard but you can find her good luck❤ I will try to find her goodbye❤

[@Ariella267]

I always watched your vids but without ruby it's just not fun anymore and sorry for the loss we miss you ruby😢😢😢

[@p.c.h.6721]

Hi Rico, for some reason, all alcoholics end up drinking Vodka, my little sister is the same. She is drinking 2 or 3 bottles of vodka every day. What you have gone through is very common, I lived the crazy life when I was a teenager, until I decided to change and ignore all the nightlife, all the alcohol, all the parties, and it was the best decision I ever made. We have to be glad that we went through that and came out on the other side, feeling wiser and stronger. And my cat also disappeared a few weeks ago.... funny how similar our lives can be. We learn, we make changes accordingly, and move into better things, more solid things, better healthier relationships, and better life overall. Take care... and keep going!

[@Rico]

Thanks for the comment and take care as well!

[@davem1361]

Just pace yourself no need for all these crazy workouts..does more harm then good as you age all the wear and tear...Just eat healthy take a lot of walks...and REST AND RELAX ...does wonders...Edit:Cyprus brought me heremy heartstone.

[@Samuel-gd8fn]

Hi Rico, es freut mich, dass du dein Verantwortungsbewusstsein wieder an den Start gebracht hast. Ich wünsche dir und deiner Familie das Beste und das dein Vater doch noch die Kurve kriegt. Und natürlich auch, dass deine Katze wohlauf ist und zurück kommt. Zum Thema Alkohol: Ist eine absolute Müll-Droge! Für mich ist es völlig unverständlich, dass das Zeug so sehr gesellschaftlich akzeptiert ist. Die Wirkung ist im Vergleich zum physiologischen Schaden absolut unterirdisch. Das Zeug spielt für mich in der gleichen Kategorie wie Crack. Zum Thema Vaterfigur: Ist nur allzu verständlich, dass dich das Thema interessiert. Die Vaterfigur spielte in der evolotionspsychologischen Geschichte des Menschen ja eine wichtige Rolle. Der Vater baute die Brücke zwischen den Kindsein und dem Mannsein. Ebnete damit den Weg von der Obhut der Eltern hin zur Aufnahme des erwachsenen Sohnes in die Gemeinschaft der Männer respektive die Gemeinschaft der Jäger. Und an dem Punkt könntest du ansetzen. "The Way of Men is the Way of the Gang." - Anders gesagt, als Mann sollte man sich gute männliche Freunde suchen. Ich weiß, die sind sehr selten geworden. Aber das ist nunmal eine Herausforderung unserer Zeit. Ich meine hier Freunde, die wie eine Armee zusammenstehen. Das müssen richtige Männer sein. Blutfremde Frauen werden dir niemals die Rückendeckung geben, wie es deine Mutter oder männliche Freunde tuen können. - Überleg mal, wer noch zu dir stehen würde, wenn du wirklich in gefährlichen Schwierigkeiten stecken würdest und wer in so einer Situation sich eher hinter dir verstecken oder weglaufen würde. Zu deiner Trennung: Langfristig wird dich die Trennung von deiner Freundin stärker machen, als du es vorher warst. Je mehr Erfahrungen du mit Freundinnen machen wirst, desto mehr wirst du feststellen, wie austauschbar diese (leider) sind. Sie lieben nunmal anders als Männer und auch anders als es sich die meisten Männer wünschen würden. Mich hat das mittlerweile dazu gebracht, dass ich mich nur noch "casual" mit Frauen treffe. Funktioniert damit einfach besser. Feste Beziehungen mit Frauen werden in den nächsten Jahren erstmal kein Thema mehr für mich sein. Verlassen tue ich mich nur noch auf meine männlichen echten Freunde und auf meine Familie. Ich wüsche dir für die Zukunft nur das Beste. Bleib stark, auch diese schwierige Zeit wird zu Ende gehen und dann geht es wieder bergauf. :)

[@andronicoschris]

possitive and negative things is among our life ,the salt of life,otherwise life would be stable without motions and feelings....

[@zoon1560]

Hoffen wir du findest du sie wieder! Schaue schon immer wenn ich mit dem Auto unterwegs bin, ob ich sie sehe

[@Rico]

Danke!

[@ebalda1]

Hey Rico 👋 If you haven't already, look for Ruby in your previous houses 🐈‍⬛ Cats like, and are able, to return to the places they consider home even from many kilometers away

[@daria123]

Great inspiring video👌

[@Rico]

Thank you! Glad to hear that

[@andreasalthammer6579]

Rico, hammerhartes Video / Inhalt! Super

[@Sergio-dh5qh]

Keep going Rico, we are very similar. I want to move to Cyprus next year.

[@Rico]

Thank you, happy to have you here

[@terisahills8692]

Beautiful video.we were just in paphos, stayed at fitos inn.do you know of it?😊

[@Rico]

I didn't know it before, but I just looked it up now. Hope you enjoyed your stay

[@terisahills8692]

@@Rico it was great!the fitos family made us feel right at home.fitos is a real character, and a great cook.

[@MonaHurani-ms5xc]

U can find ruby Ik u can❤

[@Thehumblesistersandfriends2024]

OMGGGGGGGG😮😮😮

[@grazynaczeladz696]

❤❤❤❤

[@Marina-ex4qt]

Hey .be vigilent friend ,love yourself first ,,,Maybe Ruby will comeback ,

[@Stacey28]

👏🏽❤

[@JJSof8]

🐱🐱🐱

[@MonaHurani-ms5xc]

Wsp man

[@EDH784]

It’s not about alcohol, Rico, it’s about bad relationships

[@Rico]

Most alcoholics drink alone at home

[@EDH784]

Sure, but that’s not how you started to drink, is it?

[@erstens]

So wenig views. erstaunlich. Ich habe auch einige hier nicht gesehen bisher..

[@MGRustSurvival]

just dont do cocaine bro and other rubbish.. Good luck. Everybody in cyprus living succesful life 80 percent of them on drugs

[@GasoMusic]

OMG! IM VERY VERYR EARLY! (probably 1st,probably not. Idk) If i am 1st,can I pls get pinned? Thx

[@Dream4Design]

good video, as always! we are learning from own mistakes. I could say more, you are only 26, start invest early is crucial. Spend some time, learn what is BTC.

[@mk_private4844]

He knows better than you I am afraid as he has a tax advisory company 😅

[@Rico]

Haha thank Janis, I bought my first BTC in 2016

[@Dream4Design]

@@Rico Superb!

[@lisa2901-c7h]

maybe she didn‘t say happy birthday because you cheated on her so many times that she just didn‘t care anymore??