Rising Through Trials: Holley's Life Update | Over 50 & Flourishing

[@glenda7846]

Hi Holly! I think it’s refreshing that you chose to be real in a world where so many people choose the opposite. Thank you so much and I wish you blessings!!

[@Jules52ut]

Good conversation. I am a 72 yr old widow of 5 years, still healing and finding my way and very thankful for God’s provision each day…..doesn’t mean I don’t have pity parties once in a while while in the valleys and there have been are are still many. But God is good and walks with us-so thankful!

[@glendamcgaughey4870]

My best friend is a financial advisor. She says never use a debit card for anything but withdrawing money from the bank. I’m so glad I listened to that advice. I’m so happy Holly that you have found someone to share your time with. Very impressed with your faith and positivity during hard times! What a great friendship you have in each other!

[@kimhendley318]

Many prayers for Holly as she continues this crazy journey, and being so resilient-I can only imagine how frustrating all this has got to be. Excited that she’s met someone.

[@rhondaduhe2038]

Thank you both for talking about the elephant in the room! Lack of compassion and empathy in this current world! So disheartening and hurtful! You are a trooper Holly! Hang in there, you are finding you way! ❤ 🙏🏻

[@karenhodges1211]

Thank you for sharing your faith and journeys. For 18 years after a divorce, I asked God to prepare a life partner for me and to prepare me for him. In 2021, I reconnected with a friend who had lost his lovely wife. We share our love for God, fsmily, veterans, travel, etc. He showed me true love... God's love. He cared for me while healing from a bad motorcycle accident, and I helped him through his battle with cancer. He passed 2 months ago. He was a blessing in my life. Thank you both for sharing your faith.

[@kristenfitzgerald-r5z]

So happy for Holley. She looks wonderful! Thank you for sharing. Dominique, listen to you every week! Two beautiful ladies.

[@yolandavanonselen1874]

Hi Holly it was so lovely to see you again, thank you for sharing your life with us. You and Dominique have such a beautiful sisterhood, it is precious. Dominique you’re the best. 💕

[@snowangel7216]

I would watch Holly and Dom every day as it is so humbling, and God bless you both and all of us. Love you girls ❤

[@alicekariuki2776]

Nice to see you Holley. Sorry you have had such a rough time. You are looking great. wishing you all the best as you navigate a new relationship.💝

[@isabelperezsolar7962]

I feel so happy for Holley and her new life!!! She irradiates honesty and kindness. She deserves to be HAPPY. I wish her love and peace in her life. ❤❤❤

[@socorah2]

The friendship you and Holley share is beautiful. You are both lovely women!

[@suelabonte9323]

Dominique, that was the most heartfelt, loving, articulate description of what Holly has given you in your friendship. It brought tears to my eyes and I am so grateful for your sake that she gave you the gift of vulnerability. Such a special friendship.

[@stephaniekaufman1830]

I was going to write something very similar. 💖

[@patriciaenglund2740]

To have a friendship so dear is precious, and to be able to share such meaningful and relatable experiences is priceless. Holley, when you said you put your head down on the washing machine, that didn’t just speak to me, it hit me in the face. Those are really dark moments but they do wake you up. Thank you so much for sharing and wishing you enormous blessings. ❤

[@mayracalderon5598]

This is probably one of my favorite podcasts I've seen from you, Dominique. Always enjoy seeing you and Holly and showcase the beautiful friendship you two have. So many things resonated with me today. Thank you for being open and insightful to many wonen. Life is hard, especially at this stage of our lives, and having a platform like yours feels so good to listen to. Keep doing what you are doing. May God bless you always❤

[@meditationgodsway1834]

When I was in a deep valley a friend of mine told me that it is in the valley where the wild Flowers grow!🌸 That really helped me through that valley and others that I've been through since then! God will make something beautiful out of this suffering! He's good like that!💕

[@melaniesmizawski9413]

This podcast comes at a perfect time for me. At age 68, I am facing retirement in a few months. I am divorced (a long time), mother of a 31 year old son who's married, and the grandmother of a sassy & sweet girl. I have been in a career for 45+ years. I must redefine myself and set goals for my future. What do I want to be or do? Just be ME! And that's ok!

[@123Annie]

Omgosh, the episodes just keep getting better, Dominique!! Love this one so much, love your friendship with Holley, you both are so blessed to have one another found thru Audrey--it's just so heartwarming!! And what a wonderful silver lining (we were grand-dog & housesitting in Houston during H. Beryl--we never had experienced anything like it--so rough w/o power in the Houston heat/humidity and the clean-up after but nothing like what Holley dealt with) but so thankful in Holley's survivor story, so happy for her now too with a new special beau in her life!!! It all shows how God is working in all of "our" lives. ♥

[@lillianschrader5467]

I can so relate to this conversation. 18 years ago I made a big move from Connecticut to Texas at the age if 50 to begin a new life with my new loving husband. I was home sick for a few months because I lived in Connecticut all my life but moving here brought me a new beginning, new career, and a calmer life with the support of our loving God. Keep sharing and giving hope to women as the transition to new ways of growing as a woman. My heart goes out to both of you!

[@RoseC1209]

It's so nice to see a great friendship that developed later in life and to be so real and true. What a blessing

[@margaretohoro9066]

Great to see Holley. She is so down to earth and real. Great friendships are so hard to find. You both inspire other women. Thank you for sharing your stories. ❤💕😊

[@geniecragun367]

This is the BEST,MOST VULNERABLE,EXCELLENT EXAMPLE OF TRUE FRIENDSHIP THAT I ABSOLUTELY LOVED!!!! I even wanted more of the both of you!!! Your love of God was the icing on the cake 😴🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏

[@Erika-Coach]

This podcast, especially the last half? Was just so touching, uplifting, sentimental. I could go on and on. Thank you two ladies for opening up about so much. That there are many more women going through the same processes of “valleys” and coming back up. 💕💕💕

[@janetmitchell8771]

I absolutely love Holly Dean and her sweet spirit. May God bless her and strengthen her.

[@jomamajo37]

Thank you Holly for being you and trusting in your Heavenly Father....bringing you thru all and your genuine friendship to Dominque is very uplifting to us all!!!

[@thatgirlmadge]

I really appreciate Holly! She is so real and lovely. Thank you Holly for your inspiration! 😊 At 63 I am struggling to find a parallel career to sustain me into my solo years 10, 20, yrs. 😊 I do know this...God's got me and my mom's loving spirit is always with me🥰

[@AndeeSaraDesigns]

Yes, the example of a healthy relationship is just as much a blessing to the children as it is to the parents!! I love that!

[@mariadesantis51938]

Wonderful to see Holley. I am so sorry this happened to her it’s horrible. It’s so hard to be married for many years, you have a home and you raise your babies and then get divorced. I’ve been there and the starting over is heavy but then to have to deal with what Holley’s going through it’s extremely frustrating and overwhelming. The Lord will take her through this. God bless her and keep her. She will be out of this valley soon and back up on the mountain! ❤🙏🏼

[@maryalbert6138]

Holly in all this you look absolutely beautiful!! Keep smiling and shining 😊. Life is Good God by your side holding your hand all the way!

[@brendaford4920]

It’s wonderful that Audrey knew that Hollie and Dominique should meet. She’d have been so happy to know that she was right and they’re each such a positive influence and support in each other’s lives.

[@Michyhauser]

I wish I had a Friendship like this......Someone to uplift you, honor you, compliment you, and be proud of you.

[@brendaford4920]

Absolutely… and to think that it was Audrey who brought them together 💞

[@LisaS-f3o]

Holley is great - so genuine and relatable!

[@poodlemom5883]

Holly is so sweet. I’m happy for both of you and I wish you both a lifetime of happiness now with your new men.

[@EileenSRoe]

Thank you both for being just real and authentic women navigating life in midlife and sharing your experiences. It’s really appreciated and valued. Knowing that as women we are not alone in the struggles and life challenges we face and that we continue to grow wiser and mature in our faith. God bless you both.

[@pamelagunnell3179]

I agree so much with the lack of compassion of people in these times. While my husband and I were on vacation, we incountered an elder man with a medical situation, and the number of people who walked right past my husband and myself trying to help the elder man was heart breaking. It is such a sad time.

[@MsAgi30]

Loved the conversation. It's very inspiring for me as I'm going through some difficult time full of uncertainty, but I hope that something good comes out of this. Dear Holley, thank you for being so open and would love to hear an update on how things unfold for you :). Hope there will be lots of good happening for your now :)! Thank you both and for the comments on what's happening in the world --- I think it's a universal thing and I hope people wake up and realize we need to change as societies as otherwise things will not be pretty in this world. Also love your friendship, admiration and respect for each other. All the best to both of you, beautiful souls!!! Warm greetings from Poland :).

[@CindyHollin]

I can't wipe the smile or tears off my face after seeing this beautiful podcast with two amazing women! I'm so happy you have found each other and have a beautiful trusted friendship for life. I'm happy Holly has found love as well and can't wait to see how that journey plays out. May God continue to bless you both.

[@caroljohnson9194]

Holly…you are incredible. “Thankful for the upheaval.” That’s amazing.

[@wendybee8854]

This was one of the best interviews Dominique! I've prayed for you since I started watching from the beginning, that you would grow stronger in your faith walk with Jesus. It is a joy to see an answer to prayer. God picked you up and moved you out of Houston and blessed you with a Christian marriage🙏 As Christians we need to be equally yoked😊 Marriage is hard, but with God in the middle you have a great foundation. Holley, you are such an inspiration and He loves you so much. He opposes the proud and gives GRACE to the humble! Good luck on your new journey!

[@Truthmatters6385]

I ditto your comment. I see her boldness in what is most important-her faith as a follower of Christ.

[@brooklynmidnightcrafter]

Hi. I cannot believe Holly’s life / but her attitude towards all the negatives is amazing. You both cheered me up as I have 2 in-laws recently diagnosed with cancer. TY!

[@elizabethwilk9615]

Praying for them 🙏

[@gerry4281]

Humility is the great teacher. Praying for the homeless Palestinians who have lost homes, schools, hospitals, and family. This year has made me more grateful than any other. Best wishes Holly. Great podcast. ❤

[@KayeCarterTV]

I feel compelled to comment on here and let you two beautiful ladies know that I enjoyed this video more than you realize. I am 70+ and I see myself in each one of you. I’m a very independent woman and always has been. My mom taught me that, I hope each one of you will continue to be blessed. Sending love, hugs, prayers and kindness with a daily dose of encouragement with positive thoughts…🙏🏼🇺🇸♥️🌹👍🏼

[@brendabrock6929]

Audrey's sweet gift that she gave u both this family connection.

[@Nathalie-v7o]

I feel blessed to have found Dominique and through her Holly! I wish both of you a wonderful continuation in your Life! ❤

[@BeBeautyFull55]

Two beautiful, powerful women. I have such an appreciation for you both. Shine on.

[@patwilkinson2182]

So happy to see Holley back. Love watching you two igether. Wishing you the very best Holley. ❤ you are an amazing woman.

[@AmBeauty28]

Sending prayers & so much love to Holley! Thank you for sharing this painful experience so we can rally together support for you!!! You are such a faith warrior! We love you!!!!❤

[@redpill77-q8m]

My hubby and I have moved 10 times in 40years with 3 of these being overseas. At the beginning of each move i had to fight the no, I don't want to go, and now amazingly each place holds such dear and precious memories, even the sad times, because each place with its challenges helped me grow and mature. The third world country we worked in for 6 years, in the beginning, held the most fears for me but ended up becoming the most joyful and meaningful time of my life. Our fears are so many times unfounded and irrational, but yes if you let the Lord guide each and every day, all our life can be used for His glory and our blessing.

[@niv803]

Thank you so much , It's Monday evening and I'm glad I've watched you and Holly. I will pray for you guys please pray for me. I'm 63 and I just don't understand what's next its been crazy for quite a few years and I'm tired. Hope to see more of you guys ! God bless.🙏

[@carolemcbride4302]

I’m 64 and feel the same way. I will pray for you.

[@dianek3351]

Such a heartfelt girl talk. I teared up the first half. Going through all that hardship, is so difficult. I love listening to you both & learned a lot. Really moved me. Felt your emotion how we don’t have the people near & dear to us. 😥 Wishing her all the best in her new home & keep us posted. ❤

[@joeykim27]

Hi Dominque! I just want to tell you this episode has to be my favorite so far although I still have other favorites of yours. If you ever have that moment when you wonder if your making a difference, throw that thought out the window! :) I absolutely loved this conversation with you and Holly!! I was so ministered to because of where I am in life right now and I am so encouraged by the strength, courage, transparency, and vulnerability that both you and Holly are willing share. It gives me great hope and encouragement for my future. My favorite thing Holly said was "when it floods just fly". That's what we were born for! We are His beloved and He is determined through His love for us that we will reflect His image in the earth! Love is the answer! Love you bunches!!!! :) P.S. I love it when the Lord blesses us beyond our wildest imaginations like He has for you and Holly.

[@susanperry7703]

Just AMAZING how you and Holly have traveled similar roads and specially in the last 2-3 years and even grew up near each other (that I didn't know)...God sure put you on a path to cross through Audrey. The sudden positive changes for both of you suddenly out of the blue, reconnecting with former acquiances in the last year (love / good men who make you happy, met your needs; appreciated, respected, good communication, etc.) and a new life outside of Houston! Just AMAZING! Yes, I agree with Holly " be thankful for the valleys, the darkest season, as its going to be ok", you'll grow in the seasons....hold on tight the good is around the corner. Life for me is about growth and paths....Gods adventure for us!

[@marcyfalconer1275]

What a great girl talk. It's nice to see Holly again. Blessings to both of you.

[@gia9811]

Holly, my best friend from childhood retired to New Braunfels from Houston and loves it. It is one of my favorite areas to visit. Good luck to you and God bless. Happy to hear you're thriving amidst the adversity.

[@lidijazivanovic2810]

It is so inspiring to see women uplifting women! I find so much joy in your podcast. Thank you so much! Last year, on my holiday, I felt a need to journal, to cut the story short - changed carier, and I am now so much happier than I have been in years! But there is definitely something in putting it down on paper 😊 It's not easy, but nothing that is worth fighting for is.

[@mooselodge3881]

Thank you for this beautiful conversation. It was like listening into your neighbors phone call with her best friend while you’re sitting on your own back porch. I want to say thank you to Holly for being so real but I also want to say something to you Dominique. I see all the negative comments. And when people see our choices whether it’s a skirt you purchase or a man you’ve chosen to be your partner, it is your choice. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors if it’s the greatest joy and love of your life, then let it be to its fullest. If it’s not, and you learned that you’ve made a mistake, then learn from it. In the meantime, as you say, be blessed and be bold. Love you both.

[@annephythyon4792]

So good to see Holly! She is just a beautiful person inside and out. She is going to be great! Your friendship is such a wonderful thing to witness.

[@empea3837]

“Just be happy in your skin and that’s enough” ❤️

[@leereyneke5374]

Holly dear lady ❤ You are such a huge inspiration! You turned your excruciating trials into a wonderful testimony of God's goodness and faithfulness 🙏🙌

[@eminaroses2138]

Holly was so brave for speaking. Bless her and her new chapter 🙏

[@proverbs3150]

The confirmation about the lack of compassion and the lack of soulishness just validates what I’m experiencing and you have expressed this so well. It helps to move on to be a better person ..thank you!

[@thestrwbrrygirl]

Holly is right about the comment that as a single woman you often have to be your own cheerleader to get you through the difficult times. Also, moving gets harder as I get older. So much to do without a partner to support you through the process. It is so true that the resilience that is exposed throughout it is gratifying when looking back on it all.

[@Hunnie_B]

Thank you so much Dominique and Holley, this was an absolute delight and how amazing are you both 💖

[@kathymaurer6657]

I am so sorry that you had to experience all that Holly. Love & Blessings to you

[@CarolinaCattClear]

One of the absolute BEST podcasts I've heard in a long time! A lot of what y'all said on here really hit home.

[@l.m.m.tucker6998]

Holly radiates!! Love her new look....

[@amyaguillon8595]

Best pod cast! Blessings to both of you❤

[@empea3837]

Your individual loving natures and love for each other Dominique and Holley is so healing ❤️‍🩹 for anyone who’s watching this video. 🙏🏻

[@samc5877]

Oh Holley, I'm not even at the end of your story, and I can't bear that this all happened in such a short space of time! 😢 Airbnb can be so hit and miss, and to have been put through that is a nightmare! 😕 Thankfully I kept watching, and there is so much good too! ❤ You look fantastic aswell, can I say? You are glowing! The similarities and parallels in your lives and friendship continue, and it's so lovely to see you both be happy, and have healthy and relaxed relationships with wonderful men you are choosing to share your lives with. Be happy and healthy, both of you ❤❤❤

[@veegee3291]

This video hit the nail on the head in so many ways! A treat to catch up w/ Holley but also to have an honest conversation about what real life is actually about. "Exercise humanity" is what I got out of the convo. In fact, I'm going to see about having a tee shirt made w/ that valuable phrase. I try to practice it every day but I also think it in various instances throughout the day when there's a choice for someome to make: on the highway, street, in line, @ work, when someone is rude/nice and especially when there's a dire situation whose resolution will be extreme either way. Thank you Dominique and Holley for sharing another inspiring convo w/ us. 💛💛💛

[@sandyroyals5920]

“Ok to sit in the messy”! I love this as Holly is literally sitting in less than glamorous! I admire that!

[@JJ-kf4kc]

This is a friendship that has endured and will continue to end the test of time❤ Thank you so much Holly for sharing, wishing you only the best of love dear❤

[@ladyesther]

I will add Holly to my ever expanding prayer list. Wow, God bless you guys.

[@sherryfox1481]

Thank you, Both. Classy, Brave and Bold Ladies. Thank you for sharing a deep felt conversation amongst friends.Traveling the same parallels in divorce, empty nester, here in Houston as well. Recently, I took a leap of faith, leaving a job I was miserable in. HE can't move us until we let Him. And now is the time the faithful need to stand strong! ✌️ ❤ 🙏

[@Rositasparks]

I’ve always adored Holly. Thank you both for this conversation. I’m sending much love and peace 🕊️ your way! ❤

[@MarnieSmits]

Yes peace is key 🔑

[@sandyellison5998]

Wow! Holly has had some trials! I was surprised to hear she has decided to settle in New Braundfels. I’ve love this town and been here since 1989! Retired from the City and loving all that comes my way! Would love to meet her and help in any way. We are all writing our stories and only God knows our last chapter. Bless you both in all you do!

[@dianaPackman]

Such a beautiful conversation between you and Holly. You are both wonderful friends to one another. Lovely ladies!

[@laureneharrison8897]

Praise the Lord for girlfriends! 🙌🏻😊 Great conversation & I pray this wisdom from two ‘plus 50’ elegant women with years of experience will uplift many younger women who are struggling. I’m 53 and have been through similar situations and one of my favourite quotes was: “Remember, just when you are about to go over the edge, the Lord in his infinite wisdom, made the world round.” 😉 We can keep going and we WILL get stronger. God bless you both & this community. ❤🇨🇦

[@michellescott7787]

You 2 girls are amazing, your words and stories and honesty help me so much, to know that everything is happening in perfect timing keeps me going sometimes. Only when you have walked the divorce road can you truly understand how hard and challenging it can be. However you 2 are proof that there is hope and by the Grace of God all things can be done. Take care you 2 beautiful bold girls xx

[@AmBeauty28]

Love you ladies! This is so helpful. Life is tough & we need to see beautiful souls fight it well with such grace, intelligence, faith & kindness!!! ❤❤

[@kulvinderbansal3791]

Hi Dominique 😊. Thank you so much for this amazing conversation with Holley. It’s so wonderful to hear your faith stories and how inspiring it is xx ❤️

[@angelinadrobina5037]

Lovely to see your face Holley 🙏🏻 man you’ve been going through it but I’m so very glad you’re moving forward in joy with a safe man by your side 🤗🤗 you so deserve it

[@phyllisdavenport6628]

Thank you for talking about the importance of faith and prayers and staying positive. God has a plan and it is good. Love hearing you ladies. Be bold and beautiful inside and out.

[@maryloualves9952]

Awe, wishing Holly the best and many blessings 🥰

[@judykilmer7749]

What an absolute wonderful podcast. I think it’s the best yet. It really gives me reason to pause. I am 79 and have felt like sometimes my life is over. But I really in my heart of hearts know that it’s not. I am very.blessed and healthy. Just trying to find my way and my next adventure. I just moved to Conroe 11 months ago to be closer to my family. But I haven’t made really any new friends because I just feel emotionally I haven’t been ready. I have always been vulnerable and it has taken a lot out of my life. So I guess I’m in a season where it hurts too much to open up anymore. But to see the friendship between you and Holly is absolutely wonderful. I guess my prayer is that God would bring a Holly into my life.

[@juliejurek5792]

I wish you all the best. ❤

[@MamaLlama007]

This is so helpful! Thank you for sharing!Some of us can't afford to 'not do' during the aging process- not all ends meet when we become 'on our own'. This is an important conversation. Thank you!❤

[@Nathalie-v7o]

If each person would reach to one person who needs help, listen to their story and help, this world would be so wonderful! It does not take much. To be heard in your time of need might be the only thing needed. I pray that He continues to reach through people like you both are doing. Bless both of you!

[@AndeeSaraDesigns]

This is one of my favorite podcasts!! It is nice to be able to see how other's navigate through the hard things and your attitudes through them, how you keep going, its good information for the rest of us!

[@stellahuxley632]

Holly looks so radiant ❤. Downsizing is so refreshing . We did this 3years ago and not sure how we had time for all that extra stuff a larger property creates🤣. Good to see you both happy. Less ‘stuff’ is the way to move forward ❤

[@barbarafrazier8843]

This is the best I have ever seen. So much love and transparency. I’ve been blessed. Thank you so much for sharing the kindness and love! God bless you ladys.

[@druleach8309]

I love y’all ♥️ I pray that God just keeps on blessing Holly, such grace beauty and tenacity. And you Dominique are a wonderful friend to her. I pray your friendship continues to flourish immensely !♥️

[@JJ-pc3fh]

This was truly deep, raw, & beautiful! I almost felt guilty listening to it was like I was listening to 2 friends having a very vulnerable, private conversation. I too have a few really cherished women friends that I’m so grateful for. It also gives me hope with so many more people openly professing their relationship with God. That is so needed in our world.

[@ritahowton6545]

I'm filled with joy for your friend Holley. Great. Testimony. Lovely interview. Have lots of fun in your new relationship, Holley. We all needed to hear that...relax and have fun. 😊

[@margaretgreen2826]

Thank you Dominique and Holly , love you both 💕💕 Dominique I have watched you for quiet a few years now and am loving how your faith has grown , I’ve sat here today and smiled at the way you and Holly are able to talk about GOD JESUS and give glory to them. You remind me of a younger me I never had a filter when it came to giving GOD the glory. I still don’t but I’m much quieter and loving hearing yourself and others on KZbin speak about your faith walk . Thank you ✨🙏🏻✨♥🌹

[@heatherbillow3804]

Holley, I'm from San Antonio, Texas (currently live in Ohio 😞). I have many friends and family in New Braunfels. It's really an up and coming area these days. Congratulations on your new home! Many prayers to you and your girls. I'm hoping to move back one day as well.

[@TravelPhotoWriter]

"As I age, I want an easier existence." "Even having you (clothing) in my house is like I'm holding on /an open door." Yes! ENERGY still goes to them if they are still with us! Thank you, ladies, for the reminder. I've known for more than a year that I am going to consign a few pairs of The Red Soles. I'm appreciative that I could afford/have them. I love the idea of them, the lines of them, the ego pop striding in them experiencing others spot them. And I acknowledge IT'S FUN to strut them, and there's NOTHING WRONG with that. But they HURT. And the strut fun is sort of a defiant, edgy feeling. Very different energy from FULFILLMENT. For me, hiking up a steep hill to a stunning expansive view is a humbling, quiet fulfillment and deep JOY. I'm going to thank the shoes for being in my life, bless them and let another woman experience them. 👠 And my husband is also my l written ist 💚

[@collyf6010]

Unbelievable holly!!! Wow what a crazy trip you have been on. Sooo happy you have found a great guy too and that kind of puts a cherry on top. Love you two girls talk about your faith in God, it is wonderful. You both look fab and whT a great friendship you have.

[@AndeeSaraDesigns]

Thank you both.... I'm needing a change, ... and am praying for how to do it, and what it is... I'm waiting, watching, ...listening.

[@carolvillanueva488]

Ms. Holly is such a sweetheart. You two ladies are very inspiring. Keep it up and God bless!🙏❤️🥰

[@annenykvist4198]

❤❤❤

[@royanncaswell1206]

What a great interview! Holley, while listening to all the trials and tribulations you have been through with the townhouse, etc., I was thinking, how does she look so radiant and beautiful? Hearing that you have found love and are happy gave me the answer. ❤