Road Ramble #7: Good Men Need to Ignore Some of These Women

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[@BGSIBMOR]

Most dudes have a lifetime body count of 10. Out of 20 million black females that's very doable. Focus on getting the 10 and not what the 20 million think...

[@RomWills]

*Standing Ovation* I tell men all the time to find their tribe.

[@extendedclips]

✊🏽👑💪🏽

[@afrikanrepat]

Bro Rom, you've laid out so much game...the curriculum is deceptively simple to start but "there's levels to this shit" that I am enrolled and doing the work. Medase!!

[@afrikanrepat]

Really? Damn, as a reformed beta/serial monogamist I got better than that

[@tweetyslife253]

Every female hated being ignore. I remember, when my hubby and I started dating, I didn't know what I wanted really and I think he was too good to be true. So I started to show less interest in him and he did the same thing. So I didn't like his attitude, in fact I crave for the before so I restarted trying to get more of his attention, but the moment he started showing less attention in me, I find him more attraçtive. It's funny , I think a man might have hard times to understand this.

[@cygnusprime6728]

id rather hear a woman say her preference out loud then be lied to and stuck in a relationship with a 2 faced actress who wants me to save her from herself.

[@m.rogersbey5446]

Well put

[@SubwayFan83]

I've learned that I can't get upset whenever a woman say that she like thugs, street dudes etc.. Thugs can have them. They have my blessings, it's a very less headache for me. Why would any man with sense want a woman who like a n****a who's gonna put a price on their asses anyway?

[@myluvisdivine8085]

Exactly!! Some men need higher standards.

[@SubwayFan83]

@@myluvisdivine8085 Word, some women can show that they have standards, men need to do the same as well.

[@redaquarian8665]

Being 56 years young and in excellent health on several levels its all about one thing for me...NO, NOT SEX (which I do enjoy), but PEACE OF MIND! The high percentage of girls out here masquerading around as women have played so many slick games in their quest (not for love, but for resources) that I have gotten to the point where I don't want a relationship anymore. I am certain that the decent women feel the same way about the high percentage of boys masquerading around as men (not looking for love, but sex). Peace 2 tha gods & goddesses.

[@DialloMoore503]

Excellent comment.

[@patton1909]

C Toomer peace be unto you

[@Amdecreations.]

Many also pretend to like the good guy, but from her actions you could see she for the opposite. Now I just do me and don’t sweat it no more, it is what it is, there’s someone for everybody.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@TheCoolgame24]

i said this all the time to myself life is not sprint its marathon you have to take your time and do things that will have you win in the end. most of the women who like the thugs cant keep that lifestyle for too long before it start to wear down their bodies and mind. like if a woman like fun all the time she dont know what it is to have peace and security because they never had men who made them better. so after they hit the wall they didnt think that the thug was going to leave them broken and with kids now you have women who have high expectations for the good guys not just to use them for their money but to use them for guide to what they should of done years ago. they want to wear the good man down with the responsibility to make them better and their kids and all the while you dealing with her past and broken person with mental issues, stay away from women who showed you her true colors if someone been doing something for more than 3 years its in that person for life and its will be hard to change that person for the better just move on and find women who give you her best in all categories.

[@MrOriginalMan]

Bingo!!!!!!

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Ignoring is childish and women use that a lot but it's not a good look. When you don't wanna talk to someone or whatever doesn't even acknowledge their presence.😃

[@RomWills]

You're right about that.

[@toreyburse1324]

@5:30 you hit the nail on the head. If she's wrong , then she( not me ) has to deal with the consequences. Life always reveals who was right and who was wrong . I used to work with a reformed hootchie mama. She told me straight up, theses hoes can talk all the trash they want, but you NEVER forget the good ones and regret never goes away. We all play " let's make a deal" . Only difference is on the game show you realize what you missed out on right away when they open the curtain. In life it could take 20 years to realize what you missed out on. But in both the game and in life , you're still stuck with consequences of your choices .

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@C.Douglas777]

When a person is comfortable in their own skin & authentic in how they introduce & represent themselves, energy attracts who/what it's suppose 2 attract... U can't live vicariously!

[@DialloMoore503]

C. DOUGLAS Word. Well said.

[@RomWills]

Wisdom as always.

[@charlesmerchant4762]

When did men become so concerned with what Empty Vessel desire? They will choose men to their own demise. Once men begin with this premise, they should not care who or what Thug Vessels want.

[@RomWills]

That's what I'm saying.

[@theanomaly8796]

Yeah I came to this realization a while ago. I just tell them “good luck”. So I started to ignore most women and just keep a blank face when I’m out and about. After a while I started to notice that a lot of women started to smile more and actually speak in passing. Especially the older women.

[@MsJoyce31202]

Don't worry about what ppl in general say if it is warped and twisted. 🏃 Run. 🏃 🏃. Hi Rom!

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@jermaineanderson5829]

Thank you Ron, a lot of men need to hear that . Always looking to see what they doing wrong for something that might not be worth it.

[@RASTAGOOB]

appreciate this video uncle rom. a og told me this fellas. the second and minute you start ignoring/ leaving women alone and focus on you, they'll flock to you. it has work wonders completely for me

[@ramongalbert5747]

This is the secret! All women don't deserve your attention.

[@eteold]

And its not only Black women. But many Black women wear the disrespect as a badge of honor, and that alone makes a difference in perception.

[@theindigenousone2090]

I don't have an issue with leaving these peasants where they stand. I just don't get why they prey on good men because they chose the wrong type. For an example: when I tell a woman that's use to getting cheated on that I never cheated or been cheated on, they don't look at it like it's normal instead they prey on the good like "just wait you'll experience it" but I don't find women attractive that dwell on cheaters. They be the ones that's too far gone and vengeful because they never knew how to forgive. Thanks for your insight on these topics.🛀💯🔥🔥

[@darrickbrisco5016]

U got the option to shop wherever u want no difference with women like u said u don’t have to be clean up Man U choose to be clean up man we men do more of the harm to ourselves than these women nobody put a gun to yo head and made u deal with these women always more fish in the sea

[@superone5838]

👍find your tribe. Boundries will keep you from buying losses.

[@assaa5069]

Exactly. These dudes out here care too much. In real life most men I know don’t give a fuck about what these women are doing. Black men we need to focus on ourselves first.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@pacman1916]

Yup. If you ignore them, them they have no value

[@perrystanislas948]

A younger brother asked me last week what do I think is the key to a good relationship. I told him knowing when to ignore your woman and not to give energy to what comes out of her mouth..She will love you even more for it and even act like she forgot what bullshit she was trying to get your attention and engage you with. Give women what they need not what they want which includes my energy over bullshit. I been ignoring women for decades and works like a charm. They either get with the programme or what I got to offer or they will be replaced by other women and can go..Never had one take the exit option yet. Brothers got to know dont waste your time and energy and empowering women over their bullshit...about what they want or dont want?..I told Obsidian the other day on his show.Once I see he got a woman up there I log off because I dont want to waste five minutes of my time listening about what any black woman wants or what she thinks about anything. Real talk and I don't struggle for female attention. More brothers need to ignore these women..They soon shut up fast trust me..

[@RomWills]

Great wisdom.

[@perrystanislas948]

Same with you uncle Rom. If we have lived the life we have and we are about same age group and not learnt anything of value. It has been a wasted life.

[@100footsie]

Dudes have to understand water seeks its own level. If woman want these dudes or are attracted to their dysfunction that says a lot about them.

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@Lonersquare]

Many Good Brutal Points Here. "Only Time You Should Get Mad Is If You're Stupid Enough To Clean Up."

[@TheImplerazure]

Thank you so much for saying this. I tell men to stop caring about what women say. Men go forth and live your life. If a women likes someone, something, and/or anything other than you that is good. Let her be. Leave her alone. Go on with your life and live it to the fullest for your life purpose Men. Only accept those who join you on your team and life purpose for Virtuous and Honorable reasons period. Then, still focus on your life purpose letting nothing dissuade you.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@devohnmitchell]

This is real talk. My main focus is raising my child, getting money, improving my career, and if a woman want to come along for the ride she has to meet my agenda otherwise she can kick fucking rocks

[@neetea2]

Rom boutta go off lmao

[@AccidentlyHero]

That last part, I find very relatable. I've yet to come across a woman that has showed genuine high interest in the type of man I am. Respected, yes but not chosen.

[@TheAnomaly330]

4:08 can't lie I was guilty of this for a looooong time, then I realized I'm not stupid enough to do something like that

[@Natepillradio]

Uncle Rom dropping game once again. Great video. I agree we need to stop focusing on who don't want us and focus on who want us.

[@themanwithaplan892]

I agree with you on what you are saying.

[@Chocolatecityinfo]

Tribes of American black people

[@christinabernat9681]

You look good in that outdoor light, no joke.😎

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@patton1909]

Again your counsel proves timely

[@skinfanjay]

Beautifully stated Mr. Rom

[@raiders48gates5]

Like you said brother Rom, get you together, then you can be picky.

[@john1987805]

Of course I liked the video no doubt. But I had to look at this vid more than once cause you speaking that real deep stuff. It's food for thought and the soul. Thanks man.

[@jamesdudley8696]

Stop giving a flying fuck what they say or want. Use only 4 words for these women. "I wish you luck!"

[@DialloMoore503]

A lot of females in some cultures are followers, and are afraid to be leaders. Many females follow what’s trendy or popular, hence the desire to date a thug or a bad boy. Thug types are deemed “cool” by our society and mainstream media media. Some girls want to date the “cool” kid. When I was in high school, the black girls loved Allen Iverson. Iverson had the cornrows, the tattoos, and he would sag in his shorts while playing basketball. Iverson was your prototypical popular jock-the star player on the basketball or football team. A lot of “girls” go for those guys because all the other girls want him. I’ve always been very athletic, handsome and street wise, but my niceness and spiritual qualities weren’t respected by my peers. “He’s too nice and so quiet” the girls would say. I never changed who I was for anyone-no one should. ALWAYS be yourself and you’ll encounter people that love and respect you for who you are. Peace and blessings.

[@RomWills]

*Standing Ovation*

[@autobot_jazzman9856]

I heard that there's 4 women for every man so why bother.

[@rahkeemthegreat360]

Great video

[@THERE_HE_GO_REACTIONS]

Great Point! Peace!

[@EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway]

thanks peace

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Yea, its old shit. Yo, the sista at the end of the vid walking by looked kinda decent playa. What can I say. Your teachings allow me to scope women really fast. lol!

[@RomWills]

I peeped that sista as well.

[@dewaynedarmanie2375]

Needed this RW

[@targetegrat]

Real shit about the library card at 7:55. I'm always getting books on stocks, 401k, and investments. The funny thing is people think trading is rocket science if you know how to add, you can make serious money over 5 years. I purchased Best Buy, Macys, and Bank of America stock a few years ago and they are doing well now. I'm looking to pick up some casino/gaming stocks since betting is gradually becoming legal now. It makes me mad because they force you to learn all this bullshit in college/university but never make finance a priority. I can't prove it but this system is designed to make most citizens broke.

[@RomWills]

This system is designed to keep people broke.

[@oaktownA]

Real talk Romy Rom

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

Song on the background? Thanks again for the video Mr. Wills.

[@RomWills]

Reality Pain by Fr33 Will.

[@4fr33will7]

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[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

Appreciated

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

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[@kelvinrice7872]

On point fam! I agree with you 200% on this one. Go back to what we always say, continue to self improve yourself, work on other important areas in your life that will increase your value as a man! When you continue to focus on that right there, you'll feel a lot better about yourself, who you are, what you represent and that's how you'll learn how to become more comfortable in your own skin. When you get to that echelon in life as a man, you know who you are, your value, the type of women your capable of getting and have gotten, the kind of women you're continuously getting, you can give two rats asses about these delusional fairytale ass women preferences that'll never be granted to them anyway and if it does, so damn what! Your desires of your heart are being granted to you because you've earn them. I'm getting sick and tired of men always complaining about these women preferences, I see why you go on a rant sometimes with some of your videos fam with these men because they spend too much of their time focusing on bullshit when it comes to these women, they're putting their energy and time in the wrong area instead of putting that energy into other areas of their life where they'll benefit from them, they're not going to get anywhere whining about that shit! When men complain about shit like that in most cases, they haven't done much with their lives, they don't plan on doing anything, they haven't done the self improvement agenda nor they have added any value to their lives, increasing their power, that's what they need to focus, simple as that! It's like you're becoming a tape recorder repeating the same thing over and over again, it's insane!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

You know what's up.

[@j.rmeadows1689]

BYB 4LIFE DMV WE IN THE BUILDING RW THAT CRANK COMING SOON LANDOVER ZONE

[@yahshuamuhammad4324]

Real talk.

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, We as the male speicy wasn't taught that we have the upper hand when it comes to our counterpart if she don't have at lease threeforth of what I have I can't share half of my accomplishments which will cause me to be short on what I'm trying to accomplish my goals because she's not adaqite enough for herself she'll confront him about his stability for hisself if she don't measure up she'll get plucked up like a duck.

[@edwardmayfield9394]

I want her to tell me what she likes, so that way we won't waste each other's time

[@extraordinarygentleman6023]

I'm currently divorcing my wife of 8 years due to this bullshit. I sacrificed so much including my freedom because her thug passion. Yet she tried my manhood because she earned more money. Those suckers can deal with the headache....✌✌

[@xDTHECHEMISTx]

Common sense real talk brotha

[@PeaceOfMind8190]

Ron, you don't do personal consultations anymore right? I'm not sure if you've mentioned whether you do it or not anymore.

[@RomWills]

Hit me up privately, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html.

[@jawara.d.king-authorof7books]

...good word; 100

[@carltonmcgee3225]

I do it all the time and I’m called conceited for doing so. I’m cool with that.

[@ennobleone]

remind me of Brother Mouzone. smooth and intellect.

[@RomWills]

I'm honored. I like that character.

[@ennobleone]

@@RomWills yeah, have to show my respect unc Rom.

[@priestauditore9682]

Seriously

[@youngsir.tc_GW_VS]

First off from title along thank u Rom! Like us as good men should ignore women. We often the ones heavily invested in them. It's like a one sided boxing match where we all giving, picking, sticking all the righteousness they way. Then it becomes to much for the female many want to be left alone or have the mystery chase drama. So they invest all they effort work towards chipping us down of all that's wrong. But there's so many nowadays that now all catches the eye. To the point a loss of one don't even phase cause there's many more bouncing back lol

[@johnnykindle3771]

Hey Rom can you do a video about "The Wall" and the SMV for women

[@RomWills]

Enough other people make videos about that.

[@mrj9224]

Car video!!!!!

[@dudewat212]

As one legendary KZbinr once said: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sIjaqnaDi9ifis0 # CDRom # ChiefDirectorRom # LiveYourLife

[@redlionesv]

Just get tired of the narrative. smh. I typically ignore most of it but it gets tiresome hearing it over and over. Love the clarity tho. cant front

[@RomWills]

Dudes can't let this stuff upset them.

[@redlionesv]

Rom Wills I got u elder

[@cupcakes7015]

What is a good man?

[@RomWills]

People know who's good and bad out here because we live in a culture where we are taught positive and negative from the time we are born.