The Silent Successful Man

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Rom Wills

Rom Wills

Күн бұрын

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@Jules_Black
@Jules_Black 7 жыл бұрын
I tell people, If you not around when I'm grinding, don't come around when I'm shining!!!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@markwhittaker6866
@markwhittaker6866 5 жыл бұрын
PREACH BROTHER!
@TheOGKingLife
@TheOGKingLife 7 жыл бұрын
I met Steve Jobs, a few years before he passed, and he told me never look like you have money. I still listen to that till this day.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's the type of successful man to take advice from.
@19inkorrect91
@19inkorrect91 7 жыл бұрын
"Let women think you're broke until you see their character " as soon as I heard that I liked the video.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's how you have to do it.
@peterman7627
@peterman7627 7 жыл бұрын
Made my first million at 25. Still drive a honda accord lx 2014. I just don't see the reason to "show off". In the words of my accountant, "those who come to my office with expensive suits and dresses are usually broke, and the millionaires often walk in wearing plain shirts and pants".
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's how real money rolls.
@globalprong7341
@globalprong7341 6 жыл бұрын
lol i do the same thing i just wear a tank top and a hat lol, i look poor but m investments are thick lol
@ZahdShah
@ZahdShah 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 20 years old and your story inspires me. How did you make your first million? What advice can you give to ambitious young men from underprivileged backgrounds trying to make something of their life? What role did nepotism play in your success?
@souljaofchrist356
@souljaofchrist356 3 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you Peter man I know one day I’ll make my first million
@peterman7627
@peterman7627 3 жыл бұрын
@@ZahdShah mostly through trading stocks, EFT's and moving the money into assets for rentals .Hope that helps
@looneytoons8012
@looneytoons8012 7 жыл бұрын
Ladies, I have been misled by material trappings. I endured sexual assault by a man driving a new 745 and owned convenience stores. One of my best relationships was with a film student that called me his muse and love the same jazz music as my father. I have found it best to build with a man that is working on building an empire. Sure it's hard work, but he is my best friend. Also, it doesn't hurt to have your own, so that if he does get sick or falls on hard times, the household, your children and your lifestyle Don't miss a beat. Stay in the gym, keep your hair done, give him sex very regularly, encourage him to greatness, nurture his spirit and show that you have common sense. Be business savvy, be politically aware, be about the home front, and stay out of night clubs. Do this and chances are he will wife you. #TrueStory #MyStory
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Respect sis.
@rmac8012
@rmac8012 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for discouraging the victim role that too many black women encourage/engage in.
@TheEnigmaticBM39
@TheEnigmaticBM39 7 жыл бұрын
Looney Toons this woman is a damn unicorn ...and sorry for what you went through though
@dawntecollins
@dawntecollins 7 жыл бұрын
Looney Toons only if 40 percent more black woman would have this approach we would all be better off
@rmac8012
@rmac8012 7 жыл бұрын
Swan Ewing why don't they?
@ianbark7571
@ianbark7571 7 жыл бұрын
Ain't nothing better than being THAT GUY THE SILENT SUCCESSFUL MAN
@Glass088
@Glass088 7 жыл бұрын
Talk less than you know, have more than you show
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's how you do it.
@mcjrocker
@mcjrocker 7 жыл бұрын
Makaveli The Don 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@LifeEntity
@LifeEntity 7 жыл бұрын
Makaveli The Don I got to take this from you brother
@fivepercenter7
@fivepercenter7 7 жыл бұрын
That's the safest way, you avoid unwanted attention
@mcjrocker
@mcjrocker 7 жыл бұрын
fivepercenter7 had to learn that the hard way when I was younger...always telling ppl your business and your business is always everywhere.... I'm so low key now only my circle knows where I live what I drive where I work etc
@redaquarian8665
@redaquarian8665 7 жыл бұрын
Offer to take a woman to Wendy's, McDonald's, Burger King for lunch AND PAY VEEEERY CLOSE ATTENTION TO HER INTIAL RESPONSE. That initial response will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know about how she really is within. ~From a Silent Successful Man
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@Mrs.704
@Mrs.704 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills I'm a woman and I can agree on that. Now a days women want you to take them to Red Lobster, Ruth Chris and be the ones that don't have a lick of groceries in her fridge.
@redaquarian8665
@redaquarian8665 7 жыл бұрын
Ms Jackson - It is sad but necessary in today's society to have to "test" an individual in order to have their purest intent revealed. Back in the day everyone knew who the liars, hoes and dogs were because it reflected in their outer character. Today, with knowledge ever increasing (evil appears to be increasing with it) and so even the liars hoes and dogs can appear as and present themselves as Angels of Light. Just look at how the subculture has changed. When Liars were called just that people had no respect for those that did it. Then we started giving this practice a different name (Game, Hustling or Pimpin) and it became fashionable TO LIE!!!
@Mrs.704
@Mrs.704 7 жыл бұрын
C Toomer that's why I come to these channels. Just want to get in the mindset of a mature black man.
@NinaLady11
@NinaLady11 7 жыл бұрын
What would be your response if I said I don't eat fast food and instead asked to go to the grocery store (Trader Joe's is my preferred spot) and buy some food that can be put together to make a quick satisfying meal?
@bigbrotherinlife1654
@bigbrotherinlife1654 7 жыл бұрын
silent successful man, upward mobility
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Seen.
@lsporter88
@lsporter88 7 жыл бұрын
Low Key is best. Always discern a Woman's character before you trust her. Genius Video.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bro. Leslie.
@thepjholden1
@thepjholden1 5 жыл бұрын
Never trust her.
@justinlumpkin1929
@justinlumpkin1929 7 жыл бұрын
most of us men have the game all wrong. Some of us think that we have to go out and compete with the next man for resources or for a woman. Your only competition in this world is yourself. Focus on building yourself, your resources, your education, your wealth and women will come to you, then it's you the silent successful man who will have the choice of woman. Of course women hate when they have to compete for a man's attention instead of the other way round.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm talking about.
@trayvonlamarco9918
@trayvonlamarco9918 7 жыл бұрын
Well said my brother. Lost all my women when i came out the pen 15 yrs ago. Now that my shit is together and im excelling, every single one of them came back around like I owe them some shit. It's crazy how women that you never speak to hear about how well you doing.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's how it goes. They think we have short memories.
@ibrahimismail8670
@ibrahimismail8670 7 жыл бұрын
stfu^
@targetegrat
@targetegrat 7 жыл бұрын
Rom this is my favorite video from you so far. I'm considered crazy for my efforts to hide my success. I'm no millionaire but I'm comfortable and I'm working on some big boy stuff right now. When I'm on a date I bring the backup car, I bring my humble debit card (I made the mistake of using one of my credit union cards to pay and my date mentioned something like I must be rich because the credit union name). I also keep my answers about what I do as vague as possible.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately you have to be that way these days.
@NkrumahTure
@NkrumahTure 6 жыл бұрын
Pat Johnson I don't blame you.
@Mcdowells
@Mcdowells 5 жыл бұрын
I heard this video two years ago. Fast forward two years later just bought my first rental property and avoided a dangerous female 💪 Thanks Rom!
@RomWills
@RomWills 5 жыл бұрын
That's what's up.
@willix231
@willix231 7 жыл бұрын
for real rom, for real. This is something alot of educated brothers struggle with. Rejection through the struggle and then when they finally make it they wonder if a woman actually loves them or what they have to offer. Reason some of us educated lames are more likely to not want to go for a woman who is less financially able than we are because we worry if we are really loved or if we are just the best meal ticket available
@youngboi24
@youngboi24 7 жыл бұрын
MEAL TICKET SMH
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Hence the issue.
@xskalibur
@xskalibur 7 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking.... do women ever really love men or just what they offer (e.g. money, dick, etc)? Because we've learned that it's in their nature to want men with resources so that their offspring has the best chance for survival.
@youngboi24
@youngboi24 7 жыл бұрын
TRUE BUT THE SAD THING THOSE WOMEN DON'T HAVE OFFSPRINGS WITH THE MEN WITH RESOURCES THEY WANT THEM TO BE STEP DADDIES
@willix231
@willix231 7 жыл бұрын
John Peter yeah I agree. Fuck that shit. Why invest your time and resources into a woman who will not value you and kids who will do nothing but remind you that you are not their daddy
@tajhlee6134
@tajhlee6134 7 жыл бұрын
I learnt this years ago and just mentioned it 2 weeks ago , appear broke and low on life to see who's genuine , I use to go to a store and look at shoes and never brought and the cashier looked at me and smirked in a manner like " oh you just want to look again " I just so happen to cash a check for 1400 and pulled it out cash in my same " ol attire " I looked up and she was mesmerized , now she write post like " oh money doesn't mean your successful and poverty doesn't make you a failure " and I'm proud I influenced her change of thought to not judge a book by its cover
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I see you.
@spacelyman9482
@spacelyman9482 7 жыл бұрын
Tajh lee kudos to you bro, I'm pretty sure a lot of bm deal with that type of shit everyday smh.
@dsetgetatme
@dsetgetatme 7 жыл бұрын
That email was deep Rom! Honestly that is the best way to go.. As a man, when you work hard, get your money together, successful and kick butt in life period...keep those aspects of your life low key. Nobody needs to know about it. Makes things much easier. You won't have to worry about women, other men or fair weather family members trying to latch on with the wrong motives.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@Jahfariinternational
@Jahfariinternational 7 жыл бұрын
It's funny because the silent, successful man is usually the man who has the least women or the most trouble attracting women. Real talk.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
True because unless he's a hunk women will look past him. Women go for flash with most men.
@Jahfariinternational
@Jahfariinternational 7 жыл бұрын
You can be ugly to a woman but your money and your utility will always be handsome to them...
@dsetgetatme
@dsetgetatme 6 жыл бұрын
Selector Jah that's deep bruh!!
@goalsettinghabits
@goalsettinghabits 7 жыл бұрын
Brother, find your self a beautiful woman that has networks and connections as well. Why stress about hiding your success when you can focus on building and expanding with that woman. Get connected with business owners, attorneys etc. that she knows. Get out of the low vibration of fret and make the best out of it if you decide to marry.
@Goldie07100
@Goldie07100 7 жыл бұрын
Amen Andrew
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Andrew Jones, Great advice.
@targetegrat
@targetegrat 7 жыл бұрын
Everyone says I'm crazy because I refuse to get into a relationship with a woman that does not have her money right. I get turned on when I see women making boss moves and not depending on a man for money/resources.
@MrOriginalMan
@MrOriginalMan 7 жыл бұрын
I the vision bro...Salute
@jujackmarketing
@jujackmarketing 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and once you make it big she will say SHE was the result of that. Then she will be asking for a her "share". Not to disrespect your opinion Andrew but I've tried that route and that's why I can make this statement.
@larryhurt6805
@larryhurt6805 7 жыл бұрын
This video hits home on so many levels my brother I was once a fool in my early teens thinking a woman would stand by me little did I know they were using me for the little money I had. Now after two degrees I am fresh out a college with a decent paying job with the goal to build my wealth slowly and keep it. Those same women who used me then are suffering without me and stuck with a loser. Keep sharing your messages us younger brothers need it more than ever nowadays.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I'm here to help brothas avoid the mistakes I made.
@larryhurt6805
@larryhurt6805 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills My brother I'll take any advice you can give me. I'm young fresh out of college, no kids, a decent job, and no one that really understands how hard it is to be a successful black man in America. I know you mentioned you had another KZbin channel that's for business could you send me the link please.
@philtube1ful
@philtube1ful 7 жыл бұрын
am 42 yo always single, worked 2 jobs half my life , saved & invested , NO DATING !!!! ... house paid off, my 2004 sebring also paid off (LOL)... 2 million brokerage account.......NOBODY knows.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Gotta be that way. Somebody always trying to get in your pocket.
@mustanggang5.0
@mustanggang5.0 7 жыл бұрын
philosopher king atleast trade it for a 04 mustang bro lol
@bobbyg5615
@bobbyg5615 6 жыл бұрын
philosopher king Damn!,like me bro. I bought my first condo at 23 with a V.A. loan. 3 other properties followed. I'm in the Bay Area so the values are way up. I have exceeded critical mass. Never thought I'd be this rich. But I still work and life is good. If feels good knowing I can buy anything I want without sweating it. My daughter turns 16 this summer and I'll be buying her,her first car. Glad I'm in a position to do that.
@focusedallday5620
@focusedallday5620 5 жыл бұрын
There are two things you know for certain when you're with a women who is financially on your level. She is with you out of Desire and not need, and she will contribute financially to the your purpose.
@VahidAli03
@VahidAli03 19 күн бұрын
This is why I silently roar and keep it pushin💯‼️Your videos are straight reality Mr.Rom.
@manifestingmillions8939
@manifestingmillions8939 6 жыл бұрын
Let her do 90% of the talking and her intentions will come out most guys fall because they are so happy to be in the presence of the woman that they are on the date with
@markwhittaker6866
@markwhittaker6866 5 жыл бұрын
PREACH. GREAT ADVICE!
@angryeboneternal1196
@angryeboneternal1196 7 жыл бұрын
This video is GOLD. Good job.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@jujackmarketing
@jujackmarketing 7 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy these vids. I've been teased all my life because I've never fit in with the "cool" blks or aka thugs. But it never got to me. I went on to college and received my degree. I've worked many high end jobs and now starting my own. I feel right at home with Rom and what he has to offer. And I love the comment section. It's a breath of fresh air to read the comments and not have to worry about the racial, negative backfiring that most sites give when we are talking good about blk men. Thank you Rom!!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
You're welcome brotha. You have found a safe place.
@KhemistryIBMOR
@KhemistryIBMOR 7 жыл бұрын
We've had this conversation before...and as always, very sound advice.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks fam.
@neckofthewoodsupdated7549
@neckofthewoodsupdated7549 7 жыл бұрын
1. At this time, I'm a struggling brother who's working on becoming successful. Like you said, it's not easy becoming successful. 2. More importantly to the topic, around 14:02 you mentioned how a true Gold Digging Woman will act like that she don't need a mans money. So so, true. My Aunt is a certified gold digger. That's the kinda game she plays with Men. She finds a man that's 10 to 20 years her senior who's either rich or wealthy. She owns her own Real Estate company and has some other Investments I'm sure. Her last Man that she dealt with that I knew of; She would go all out for his Birthday, Christmas, or some other Important day. At least thousands were spent by her on him. Those of us who really know how she really is knew it was all a ruse. Maybe you could do a video talking about Those top of the line gold diggers who are low key and very slick with it.... just asking, that's all. Great video as usual.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Great idea for a video. Look for it this week.
@neckofthewoodsupdated7549
@neckofthewoodsupdated7549 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills; 99.8% of the videos that you make resonate with me. That's why I try to make sensible comments on your videos. I might be a younger Black Man (35 years old) but I believe that I'm wise for my age, I've seen an experienced many things in my life. Also, in addition to my Mom imprinting me in a negative way, this Aunt that I speak off, (she's my Moms sister, completely different from my mother and they never got along, my Aunt has also imprinted me in a negative way too. Me and my Aunt haven't spoken to each other in years.
@jujackmarketing
@jujackmarketing 7 жыл бұрын
My mother is the same way with me. She hates that I am successful and don't need her for support. She kept my dad away from me growing up to "get back" at him. they always talk about the fathers not being in the childs life, but that's partly due to the Mother not allowing the father in the childs life. I think that is so damn stupid.
@SubwayFan83
@SubwayFan83 7 жыл бұрын
Great video. Gave me something to think about as I'm pursuing my career path with NYC Transit
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@alvinhollingeriii2562
@alvinhollingeriii2562 7 жыл бұрын
I have Always , Always, Always thought this way. Was always led more by my brain than my dick. Even when I had low self esteem, there was something inside that had a sense of value. I realized later my sense of "fear" wasnt irrational, maybe a little excessive, but I dodged more bullets than missed opportunities. Quiet Money Men wins. He wins bigger if he has game, can fuck, and can defend himself. Sky is the limit.
@jqualls7901
@jqualls7901 7 жыл бұрын
Alvin Hollinger III how old are you if you don't mind me asking!!?!!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Great wisdom as always.
@alvinhollingeriii2562
@alvinhollingeriii2562 7 жыл бұрын
Mid 30's. I call it the Launchpad Stage...as opposed to the Infamous "Wall" the ladies encounter.
@jqualls7901
@jqualls7901 7 жыл бұрын
Alvin Hollinger III I was just asking because I am I guess in my late 30's & your comment kind of reminded me of my up bringing. I was I guess afraid to approach females (I still don't really like approaching because they know what it is) & I really didn't know what to say (no game/ pick up lines) but it's funny because females have always tried to talk/sleep with me but I being cautious held back & I'm kind of glad with the decision I made even tho it was hard seeing friends running​thru them but ending up with a bunch of babies and their mothers made it an easy decision!! I have females that have known me over 20+ years telling me how good that I look to them and I look the exact same that I have all this time!!
@spacelyman9482
@spacelyman9482 7 жыл бұрын
J Qualls you a smart brotha man!
@EyeSnapGaming
@EyeSnapGaming 5 жыл бұрын
Been a minute since watching the videos, Unc. Gotten to that point where it's the mindset. An update from where I started from 6 years ago, just a guy passionate about photography, learning the game and taking the punches. Now, graduated from college, first one in my immediate family to do it, and currently in position to strongly, possibly be a full-time News Photographer with ALL of the benefits. After this, I'm not saying nothing else going on with me. And it's more of an elevation outlook. Not everyone can go where I'm going, and I don't like the idea of anyone jumping in the bandwagon when no one was around while I was building up.
@RomWills
@RomWills 5 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you fam. Keep rising!!!
@EyeSnapGaming
@EyeSnapGaming 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Unc. I do want your insight on something too, and I'm fine with it saying it on here. Before this occurred, I managed to get my middle school friend to finally come and hang out, just because I wanted to see what's on her mind. Only reached out and talked with her more because she was in the hospital and I'm the type of person that shows concern for his friends. I ain't gonna lie, I've been feeling her for a long time, yet the thing is, I know she does go for the bad boy type. She's always been open to me though when we hang around, letting me know some of her thoughts and all. Even told me she would not change her relationship status anymore after one of her relationships ended. She asked me if I was single, which I told her I am, I'm very happy and currently not looking. And since that floor was open, I asked her how her love life was, and she is, yet she's talking with four guys, which I'm not surprised if you see what she looks like. (Side note: I didn't really talk with her until her phone number mysteriously popped up on my desk in middle school, and she caught my interest since. 😂😂) She is at the point of her life now that I've confirmed it that she's looking for a long-term boyfriend/husband, which my friends call it, "A Long-term Life Partner." Even let me know she has some thoughts of becoming an entrepreneur, which I'm concerned about because of a few factors she'd have to face, given her life choices. I do see her as a wife and want to pursue her, but I know that she will always have that desire to mess with the bad boy type. I would like to know what you're thoughts are on this and whether or not this would be something I should tread lightly on or just walk away. If you'd like, I can give you my email and you can let me know there. It's alvinbrown43@gmail.com
@doncalypso
@doncalypso 7 жыл бұрын
This video must've struck a nerve... some bitter gold-digging female must be afraid the man (or men) she is deceiving will wake up to her treachery if he watches this video, hence the thumbs-down rating.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Brotha you know I don't feel right if I don't get a thumbs down.
@doncalypso
@doncalypso 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills, I bet you love the sweet stench of Roast Pork w/ Scorned Woman BBQ Sauce, eh?
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Lawd...
@mcjrocker
@mcjrocker 7 жыл бұрын
Good video brothers that know where they are going and what they are about to accomplish know how to push these women to the side for the time being..... all they will do is distract u and not support but will come back around once you are established and wish they gave u a chance
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's it exactly.
@rgw1380rw
@rgw1380rw 7 жыл бұрын
Many women think that a man with money to burn always drives extra pricey cars and wears expensive clothing and accessories. Some rich guys come into my Uncle's financial advisory/insurance agency looking like they don't have much.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's the way the rich role. They put their money into income producing assets.
@rgw1380rw
@rgw1380rw 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills My Uncle lives very well, but not too obvious looking. His offices are in a building that he owns. He may have a few cars, but nothing that states I'm Rick James bitch! When you can give $2,000,000 to family, then you are set.
@rgw1380rw
@rgw1380rw 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills He mingled with famous people from time to time, has been interviewed on Good Morning America, plus is married to another Corporate Lawyer. His building is right Downtown Brooklyn, so the investors are offering him much more than it's worth to buy it from him. He said he'd rather drive American and invest some of his funds in something he can live off of.
@sniper11n.d.34
@sniper11n.d.34 7 жыл бұрын
The Silent Successful Man is basically i Sniper. The main man in the room. Limited edition. Very ambitious in his words but even better in doing it. I will tell you a story but what i'm basically means is that i'm the best.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's how you have to be.
@headofthetable5369
@headofthetable5369 7 жыл бұрын
Sniper 11 N.D. A Rare Breed
@sniper11n.d.34
@sniper11n.d.34 7 жыл бұрын
Limited edition.
@headofthetable5369
@headofthetable5369 7 жыл бұрын
Sniper 11 N.D. Get em b4 their gone type of shit
@sniper11n.d.34
@sniper11n.d.34 7 жыл бұрын
What?
@TheSinisterMinister666
@TheSinisterMinister666 7 жыл бұрын
Great video, Rom! I agree! A man that is building something should definitely be careful with his seed. Every time he ejaculates, he's shooting out millions of little blank checks.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's a good way of looking at it.
@kelvinrice7872
@kelvinrice7872 7 жыл бұрын
Definitely classic video! This is another thing I've been seeing for the longest to when it comes to men dealing with these women, especially successful men. This is so true , this is the main reason why you must learn to have control over your dick in mind because when you want the attorney trying to become successful you remain disciplined but as soon as you get to that next level financially you have the tendency to lose that because you have a lot of attractive women coming at you because of your financial status and you're starting to look a certain way! A lot of times it can be easier said than done when it comes to the Temptations. That's why it's so important to stay prayer up, full of wisdom , and full of discernment and really take your time to feel that woman out and see where she's really coming from. I've been saying this for the longest when a brother coming to some money especially once he had to go through a long drawn-out journey to get it, he has to play it low-key once he finally comes into it , don't always be too quick to splurge and show that you have money. It's okay to do it on certain occasions when you're going around other people with money but sometimes on a daily basis you have to play it low key, you can be clean and neat but still don't be too flashy! The moment you start driving certain cars and looking like you got money, you'll start getting a whole lot of attention from certain women and it be certain ones that really wasn't giving you no attention before you got to where you're at when you wasn't looking like you really had no money! You right, we do think a lot alike especially when it come to life and certain decisions , that's exactly the way I feel when it comes to obtaining a certain amount of wealth, when I work hard to get to where I'm at, I'm not going to be too quick to start passing my money out either. I'm going to be very wise! That's the big difference between coming to money fast and having to gradually go through a journey and build your money up. Men in these days and times, like you said especially successful man financially really have to be careful when you come to these women, I'm telling you because the real gold digger women are the sneaky ones who try to act like they're not like that and will tell you that in a minute! The ones who are like that and instantly let you know where they're coming from, I just automatically cut them off right away. So my advice for men is to really listen to a woman's conversation and pay attention to what she says, that's what I do quick and I'll pick it up where she's coming from by certain things that she says even if she says it in a joking way, I'm still up on it. Some of these women will try to be slick but don't know how. Like I told you before one time ROM! I was on a boat ride and I came across these women and they told me I look like I work out and I look good but one of them going ask me what I had up for that night and that she likes to eat, that was that sexy chocolate one I told you about that had the body and heels on. When she said that, I automatically knew where she was coming from even though we exchanged numbers but I didn't hear from her! I damn sure wasn't about to take her ass out to dinner and pay for her a meal and I just met her. So men, don't get caught up in a women playing that sweet and innocent role because they'll do that to get what they want from you especially once they know you have money! That's exactly why men who do have money and look like it and have some women coming at them, they'll take them out a few times, buy them a couple outfits, screw them, dump they ass and move on!!!!!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Well said. Bruh you need to be doing videos.
@onziahtramer2856
@onziahtramer2856 6 жыл бұрын
Ty I do appreciate you uncle rom,I’m in the rebuilding and going after my purpose
@fivepercenter7
@fivepercenter7 7 жыл бұрын
Much respect Uncle Rom,there a lot of well to do single brothers including myself have the same fear and concern when dealing with these females
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Very understandable.
@brotherskeeper2253
@brotherskeeper2253 6 жыл бұрын
Man the opening letter was dead on. Word for word; thought for thought; feeling for feeling. I was like damn I dont remember writing in to Rom Wills. HA!! Great vid/advice.
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@donnelle222
@donnelle222 7 жыл бұрын
Sound advice Rom. Gems all throughout this joint here.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank fam.
@RinzoTrueGame
@RinzoTrueGame 7 жыл бұрын
Women only want you when you are already successful they don't want you when you are on your way. 💯 If you weren't there when I was down , I don't want you when I'm up. I don't care if the baddest chick want me once I'm successful , I will SHUT HER DOWN or act like she don't exist. Because best believe those same females would not look my way prior to my success.... It's best to either have a woman that want to help build you up when you're broke or a woman who still loves you regardless especially before you become successful. Because now that you're successful it's hard figuring out if she is with you for you or the wrong reasons. As men we should be mentally strong. If I was a billionaire I'm not dealing with any woman sexually just because she is attractive because now all of a sudden money makes you a target.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@RinzoTrueGame
@RinzoTrueGame 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills , THANK you brotha
@SeptiaWoman
@SeptiaWoman 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with you for I would NOT allow a broke, unmotivated male into my circumference as well. After I've arrived, "get further, smell better." The Beckys CAN have your unevolved behind, I would NOT want you.
@swiitdoll
@swiitdoll 7 жыл бұрын
Some women wont build from experience. I’m Nigerian, my mom is from a rich family and my dad is from a polygamous family and he grew up poor. My mom met him, financed him up to a masters degree, paid more than half for the wedding and continued to support till he got a decent job and became a director. What did he do? He left my mom with three of us and is spending that money my mom worked hard with him for with another woman who also has a kid for another man. We luckily still live good because my mom is from old money, properties etc. Do you think I or my sister will repeat what my mom did and struggle with a man? No. It’s good to learn from other peoples experiences. I’m marrying a rich man idc if he’s a 60 year old politician 🤷🏾‍♀️
@tstyles9690
@tstyles9690 6 жыл бұрын
Larinzo Collins Sorry that happened. All Women are not like that where Im from in the ATL Women just want a decent working class heterosexual Man. All Women aren't the SAME nor All Men are the SAME.
@jaywalls1235
@jaywalls1235 6 жыл бұрын
What ever you do in life just do it for yourself
@vickgeneral7549
@vickgeneral7549 3 жыл бұрын
Preciate the vid Brother Wills, another Banger classic to say the least!
@Everton4109
@Everton4109 7 жыл бұрын
Lol. Remember Elvin from Cosby show? The whole time he was suppose to be in Med school and he was never around and the Huxtables where always like "he must be studying" but he quit and had about 4 side hustles and didn't tell anyone? Then Sondra finally told her parents he quit med school to pursue his passion. And they asked "how are you going to support our daughter not being a doctor?" Then he shows them how much money he was making and it was more than Cliff.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That was a good lesson.
@JonathanB258
@JonathanB258 6 жыл бұрын
Dear Rom. Another excellent Podcast. This happened to me a number of years ago. The lady had a nice body. But following due diligence I realised she was a poor candidate for a long term relationship. 50 pairs of shoes but no savi gs. No house either and was already 36 years old. Did not get on with her father. I left her alone
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
You saw the red flags.
@xskalibur
@xskalibur 7 жыл бұрын
Great advice, Uncle Rom.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@tracycollins118
@tracycollins118 7 жыл бұрын
This week I was in my work clothes at Walmart and got chose up by a 8 wit a phat ass. Think she wanted me for financial stability but not sure I got the drawls immediately
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Honestly she might have just been feeling you. Keep your eyes open though.
@bobbyg5615
@bobbyg5615 6 жыл бұрын
Tracy Collins Beat it up and bounce.
@CarlosRodriguez-vw6ls
@CarlosRodriguez-vw6ls 3 жыл бұрын
I like to look flashy. The way I see tomorrow ain't no guarantee might as well enjoy spending my money or else someone else will spend mine. Ain't everybody cup of tea but whatever
@KidsInYourPool
@KidsInYourPool 7 жыл бұрын
Live below your means... Once some women (and definitely men aswell) understand this, they'll be alright.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@100footsie
@100footsie 7 жыл бұрын
Again I have to reference the movie Coming to America a film that should be watched by every man who is about something. Common sense 101 brothers never let them know what you have you know who there are. By the way big brother my father recently retired and I was wondering if you could do a video on retirement on your other channel. Thanks.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I don't have a reference for retiring. All the Elders I know kept hustling even after they left a long time career.
@thevizkid
@thevizkid 6 жыл бұрын
isaiah parks
@bobbyg5615
@bobbyg5615 6 жыл бұрын
I'm looking at a used 2014 Bently right now. Not because of women but because I'm a car guy. But I know it will attract a lot of attention from certain people.
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Be careful with it.
@brotherskeeper2253
@brotherskeeper2253 7 жыл бұрын
Well said brother. Great vid
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Paaka
@Paaka 5 жыл бұрын
I like this channel cause each video is better than the title
@markcarter177
@markcarter177 7 жыл бұрын
Good word doe Rom'.. Good word.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@100footsie
@100footsie 7 жыл бұрын
Wow that's very interesting. Keep up the good work big bro.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@SimeonToko
@SimeonToko 5 жыл бұрын
If I told you what I drove you'd laugh in my face but that is alright with me. I never liked flossing. One chick said to me, "That's a nice working man's car", which was a high compliment.
@RomWills
@RomWills 5 жыл бұрын
No I wouldn't laugh. I drive a Chevy though I may need a new Chevy.
@tiaunaross
@tiaunaross 6 жыл бұрын
I know this is a men’s channel. I watch this channel even though I’m not a man. I understand why a successful man would be low key. No one wants to be taken advantage of which is why I don’t date men who don’t hold their own or have something to show for the way they’ve lived. At this point, I’ve built a life for myself and I don’t think a man my age or older should be looking for a woman to build them at this point. I’m completely uninterested in “potential” and helping a man build himself. Also, how would I weed out guys who are looking for a come up if I don’t have some kind of standards?
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Respect.
@tiaunaross
@tiaunaross 6 жыл бұрын
No. lol.
@tiaunaross
@tiaunaross 6 жыл бұрын
I like this channel. I'm good luv, enjoy.
@tiaunaross
@tiaunaross 6 жыл бұрын
Why do you care? I also watch the other channels by this same content creator. I don't need to only watch certain channels on KZbin. I'm diverse. Watching only content that feeds one's ego is a way to stay uneducated, small minded and not grow as a person. I say no thank you to limiting my exposure to new ideas and theories just because it makes you uncomfortable. I'm good luv, enjoy!
@tiaunaross
@tiaunaross 6 жыл бұрын
Who's trying to change who? Mirror mirror on the wall...
@quantumsolace5864
@quantumsolace5864 7 жыл бұрын
In this day and time, both men and women that's on the verge of starting a relationship together, have to have ATTORNEYS present. It has literally come to that point now, due to the simple fact of our injustice court system. It seems like every woman in the matrix is out trying to catch a dude slipping.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
IT might come to that.
@spacelyman9482
@spacelyman9482 7 жыл бұрын
BLKCOBRA 5 true
@lionheart3540
@lionheart3540 7 жыл бұрын
HOLY SHIT! This video hits 100% TRUTH, I'm a WITNESS!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@solothywise3874
@solothywise3874 6 жыл бұрын
I use to be homeless I’m slow building money I dress like a homeless person even when I go to college I don’t care what she or they think a lot of women are broke matter fact some of my biggest buyers are women
@TheEnigmaticBM39
@TheEnigmaticBM39 7 жыл бұрын
great content as always mr. wills. I'll ask this, do you or any of your subscribers have any books on this subject of the silent successful man? trying to get back into fulfilling mind and not just the visual sense all the time you know?. thanks
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I gotta think about it. There are books out there about different successful men.
@brwnhilarybanks9953
@brwnhilarybanks9953 7 жыл бұрын
tell him to be quiet and stay single!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Don't be mean.
@brwnhilarybanks9953
@brwnhilarybanks9953 7 жыл бұрын
lmaoooo i'm giving him a solution!
@Proverb.3
@Proverb.3 4 жыл бұрын
much respect
@jimmyneutron2579
@jimmyneutron2579 7 жыл бұрын
But what if she got money of her own? I mean like succesfull too.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Still have to pay attention. Many successful women get to a point they want to be a happy housewife. A man think they can build together but she wants to sit back and chill.
@bobbyg5615
@bobbyg5615 6 жыл бұрын
Jimmy Neutron Don't fall for tha sh*t. What ever money women have is never enough. I know many 6 figure sista's that are broke as hell. I know 5 black women who are struggling and make 100K plus. The don't know how to handle money any way.
@ianbark7571
@ianbark7571 7 жыл бұрын
Very very very informative video👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@ianbark7571
@ianbark7571 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills Rom Wills My fav teacher told me me once Be the man who thinks his dick ain't for every woman he meets cuz you don't know who u sticking it in.. That's what my teacher told me once
@Javier-ie8kp
@Javier-ie8kp Жыл бұрын
Good Video Unc.
@justaceorion3238
@justaceorion3238 2 жыл бұрын
some good aadvice on this one!
@rollandcurtisfromVermont
@rollandcurtisfromVermont 7 жыл бұрын
How can men be more sexually discipline? I do not know if you have done a video on this, but what are your thoughts on MGTOW and men who watch pornography and masturbate to it instead of hooking up with women?
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I let them do them. My videos are for men who want to get quality women.
@geneovend
@geneovend 7 жыл бұрын
Real knowledge
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@frogbox4184
@frogbox4184 5 жыл бұрын
I aspire to be that kind of man Uncle Rom but my brother is the opposite being to flashy got him unwanted attention to a point of a gun.
@donnis618
@donnis618 7 жыл бұрын
Some real game Bruh
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@MrDuplex97
@MrDuplex97 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome vids
@heyhey3196
@heyhey3196 7 жыл бұрын
spitting game I love it
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@modalsoul6511
@modalsoul6511 7 жыл бұрын
This is an awesome video but it's only relevant "IF" your successful! I make about 11.41 an hour ( definitely not successfull) and a 2007 Ford . But the good news is that all my lil pennies are mine 😊
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
You're just at the beginning.
@ayeyofu8424
@ayeyofu8424 7 ай бұрын
this a banger
@brotherlylove2158
@brotherlylove2158 7 жыл бұрын
real talk
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@tpatt513
@tpatt513 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Players wanna be loud with it but unaware or cant handle the attention/consequences that comes with it. Who am I trying to impress out here? Keep it quiet.
@premehpbm4096
@premehpbm4096 7 жыл бұрын
I don't know how likely this brother is to find these traditional values in today's western women. Sadly whereas these traits may have been commonplace in women, post feminism in this misandrist gynocentric society....he's searching for a unicorn. Reality is once he signs that CONTRACT (marriage license), half of his current & future assets are in play. In My humble opinion this brother sounds like a sound candidate for doing the EXPAT thing & expanding his options to women overseas where women still VALUE traditional values. Especially since he has the resources to travel. Panama, Cuba, Brazil...etc to name a few. they all have dating sites exclusive those individual countries. Most brothers that have done the expat thing advise strongly that you DO NOT bring your woman back to western culture lest she be "infected" with the fuckery. As an aside, as an enterprising brother he'll find business interest in those countries as well for PENNIES on the dollar since the U.S. currency is so strong these days. Also by having a lady their doing his reconnaissance & legwork it'll make exploring opportunities a little easier. Any who just My 2 cents because I personally have had many of the same concerns this brother has & I'm still working out My own options
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that advice.
@premehpbm4096
@premehpbm4096 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills Preciate you Mr Rom
@adriennemuhammad2807
@adriennemuhammad2807 6 жыл бұрын
Preme. Take another look at women who KNOW of your struggle, right here in USA. Who won't try and use you for entrance to USA- for her and her WHOLE FAMILY....
@jehoramisrael7374
@jehoramisrael7374 7 жыл бұрын
He just like me
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
It's a common theme among men.
@dionneking8
@dionneking8 7 жыл бұрын
cool
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@timothydavidson5288
@timothydavidson5288 3 жыл бұрын
🤜🏾🤛🏾
@OnlyBLVCKZ
@OnlyBLVCKZ 7 жыл бұрын
you remind me of a virgo
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I'm Aquarius though.
@tu-blocc
@tu-blocc 6 жыл бұрын
👍
@mrj9224
@mrj9224 7 жыл бұрын
First!!!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
You in there.
@JamesMvula-g1q
@JamesMvula-g1q 7 ай бұрын
Wisdom of advice Rom, shoutout.🫡🧠📈🙌🏿
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