WHAT CHANGES IN A MAN WHO HAS FOUND THE ONE by RC Blakes

[@joana_stacy]

1. He overcomes his fear of commitment 2. He cleans his life of previous women 3. He gets so honest he becomes transparent 4. He handles her very gently 5. He focuses on her happiness 6. He wants to take care of her 7. He values her opinions of his life and decisions

[@nzingahoney]

Her* opinions

[@patricethomas4947]

Love is gentle lust is aggressive

[@missrd395]

Thank you:)!

[@millicentgreen4543]

Thank you 😊

[@lwarfield52]

Thank you. 😊

[@thebravebird]

“Love has limits. Lust has none.”

[@GStewart-ci7oj]

"When a man finds THE ONE, he loses that fear of commitment." Teach Bishop Blakes!

[@josannebritto6898]

Blessings to Bishop and his wife Lisa and to everyone who's locked on and listening 🙏🏿

[@TwilaB0721]

We all have choices, if a man doesn't choose me, that's ok. I love myself. Thank you, RC Blakes Jr.

[@altheatangco1184]

Thats whats up

[@Mrs.Neves3523]

Marriage should be what it always was. Dating culture ruined us. I was saved by you. I listened to you for years and only when I finally understood it, God brought me my husband. I am blessed. Thank you RC

[@janellamurphy5665]

@@Mrs.Neves3523 I am in total agreement with you sis💯💯💯🙋🏿‍♀️! Since watching and listening 👂🏾to Bishop Blakes, his teachings taught me the corret way of dating old school proper way😎🙎🏿‍♂️🙎🏾‍♀️! Not the way this society teaches!!!! Queens/Kings have to unlearn from the streets and go back to the basics!! Amen

[@ariellemonet9515]

Such a blessing 🙏🏾 I know I don't know you but I'm super happy for you ❤ this made my day and made me smile 😊 Your message put some spark of hope back in my heart 💙and spirit!😇 My goal is to listen 👂🏾 to Father RC Blake's at least four times a week until I also get it, and prayerfully God will smile upon me with blessing me with my husband.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@jivory5132]

I've seen men go through 3+ good virtuous women and then settle and be a great man to the 4th. It seems so odd, but I have found that a lot of times, it is really up to the man and where he is in his commitment to change, grow, heal, and really seek God. And as you said... until he does that, he can't even see "the one" he had. Unfortunately, it can be devastating to the previous women because they will believe that something is wrong with them. We as women have to seek God more about these men and ask that God reveal where this man is in his life because timing is a major part of it.

[@satonyagonzales3636]

❤this is wisdom very insightful.

[@pistolannie0714]

Great advice! Thank you

[@victormurambe]

I am always excited to listen to you my spiritual daddy. I have been doing my healing journey with you the past two years from my past trauma of daddy abandonment, sexual molestation as a child, divorce and narcist relationships but as am talking I have a huge testimony and happily got married to my kind two months ago. Thank you for letting God use you so mighty to restore womanhood in this lost generation. I am from Namibia, Africa and also rising in ministry for other women for God's glory in Jesus name. GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR

[@essiemcallister1077]

I am in a relationship with this man for some years. I want to get married he don't. Can you please help me?😂

[@darcellpope2246]

@@essiemcallister1077baby plz leave he just staying until he is ready to marry someone else! It doesn’t take men long to know the one

[@ChiChi-yh3xw]

​@@essiemcallister1077 Wait on God and He will make it happen on HIS time. You don't want it to happen on your time because it will not be the will of God the Father and you will tie His hands. Ive been married 26 years and EVERYTHING must be done on God's timing and according to His will. Wait on Him....wait on Him. In the meantime, delight yourself in HIM and He will give you the desires of your heart. You want God to do it and while you're waiting on God to answer, get closer to Him and allow Him to work on you as He works on that future husband. Pray and ask God is this man the one for you. You will know when God answers and show you. Don't ignore the signs, especially if they do not align with your desires. Pray, Lord not my will but your will be done in every area of my life. If your will doesnt line up with the Fathers will, the end result could be catastrophic. If it is the will of God, His timing is to be honored and respected. Ive seen marriages that were meant to be but the timing was all wrong which caused insurmountable problems compounded on every hand. You must BOTH be equally yoked as believers in the fold in order for the marriage to work. Lastly, if you're wanting a blessed marriage, close down the cookie store. Completely close it down because its true what our grandmother have taught us; why purchase the entire cow when the man is being offered milk for absolutely free. Its so true. Play R.C. Blakes in your home and when your man is around to see if he has a spirit of acceptance to the wisdom being taught by this awesome man of God. His father was an awesome teacher and so is his brother. Any smart man that is a believer walking a blessed faith walk will automatically accept and receive R.C. Blakes words of wisdom. Everything this man teaches is always accepted and received in my home. Bless you and walk as a virtuous woman NOW.

[@Ngozin1]

This needs to go viral! One of your best lives. Thank you so much!!

[@rugezajoyeuse5664]

Yes

[@StacieRodriguez-g2y]

It’s always so nice to listen to this man. He reminds me of my late grandpa. Same voice, same use of words. Thank you for reminding me of one of the best men in my life.

[@chileshemulenga5462]

Your teachings have been so profound in my life. Since I started following you my life has never been the same. Thank God for being a father to many🙏. Love from Zambia

[@Cindy-qp1cq]

Good evening Pastor Blakes! I love listening to your sermons. I respect your perception, your perspective, insight, common sense and spiritual wisdom!

[@RichGirl903]

Hey Bishop ! Thank you for always taking the time to do these videos and letting God speak through you. You are the father that alot of us never had. God bless you Bishop

[@bripea7721]

Cried..so so true and I am just lost for words thank you so much

[@BB-qe1wm]

i grew up without a father and had a number of bad relationships in my young adulthood. I was focusing on the wrong things -- looks, height, style, etc. By doing deep work on myself led by the guidance of Bishop RC Blakes, I learned what an honest and safe man looks like. I found the love of my life in 2024 and we started as friends. I never would have thought I could be romantically attracted to him because he wasn't my "type" but over time, I grew to love him. THANK YOU Bishop for speaking wisdom into me and showing me that the right person for me cannot be judged by the superficial. My partner is kind, intelligent, gentle, and safe, which is everything I dreamed of. Without the help of Bishop RC Blakes, I would have been too broken and mentally immature to see what a good man he is.

[@loisthomas5465]

Good evening Bishop RC, first lady Queen Lisa and all the sister Queens ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lisag359]

I will not let a man keep me '"in the middle of the bed" without a commitment/ring! I appreciate your teaching, Bishop. 😊

[@janellamurphy5665]

AMEN!!!!! NO HUSBAND PRIVILEDGES FOR BOYFRIENDS PERIOD!!!!!

[@reneedavis2245]

Absolutely clear! Thank you for your teachings.

[@888hereandnow]

Sadly many people are raised in unhealthy/toxic/abusive relationships with their parents/caregivers and this causes them to have low perception of their value.

[@nzingahoney]

Exactly. Some parents are so determined not to spoil their kids (make them narcissist brats) that they go in the opposite direction and spoil them the other way (make them blind to their own self value and have no boundaries)

[@kimberly1868]

R.C., these messages you teach on Mondays are a blessing!! 😊

[@shonicewilson4636]

I can not say enough how greatful I am to listen to this.

[@judithstevens4323]

PREACH THAT GOOD OL COMMON SENSE & TRUTH PASTOR❗💯💯❤❤❤❤❤

[@veronicalewis8102]

Good evening Church. Blessings to Pastor Blakes and Family. Praying for all 🙏

[@VentiColdbrew_]

This video is so deep. Needs 10M views

[@donnakindred5073]

May God bless everyone with this empowering message tonight. Im looking forward as always with Pastor RC and his message.

[@user-tv2gy5nm9n]

Very effective and wise teachings!! I’ll never forget what the Willy lynch letter said about the male image and how much it aligns with the issues that we’re currently experiencing in our community

[@FeliciaSmith-b8x]

Thank God for your teaching!!!!!!

[@LiyahZhane]

On Top & Going Higher 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@michaeldande]

What Changes when he finds the one *The Right woman causes a man to change 1 He looses his fear of commitment 2. He cleans his life 4 previous women Hebrews 13:4 3 He feels safe to be vulnerable n truthful 4.He handles her very gently Ephesians 5:25 5.He Forcuses on her happiness Deutronomy 24:5 6 He takes care of her 7 He values her opinions

[@GTA5-MICHEAL]

We love you so much Rc Blake's for your great words of wisdom ❤

[@deborahgaskin1262]

Such an amazing Pastor and Teacher ..I'm learning so much

[@kitaevans8686]

Amen, Thank you 😊

[@FeliciaSmith-b8x]

Hello First Lady Lisa and Bishop Blakes God bless you😇

[@cassandrajackson8575]

Thank you for the wisdom, Bishop Blakes! This is much needed. I had this conversation last week. All your points are valuable when it comes to relationships/marriage. Thank you!

[@mildredherring2541]

BLESSED Monday night 🌙 🙏 Bishop, 1st Lady Lisa Blakes.❤

[@marie-michelleheviamoorima9657]

I'm watching here in zambia on a Tuesday morning. Watching your videos has been such a blessing

[@kristajoynyaga3563]

I’m watching from Kenya

[@AlottaCoyata]

I am here for this…to listen, learn & apply. Thank you

[@Crepzn]

Yessss,Tell , these young cats that what they are talking about is crazy!

[@janellamurphy5665]

WOW!!! GREAT TEACHING BISHOP!!! I AM NOT TRYING TO ATTRACT FLEAS, CLOWNS AND THE SUCH!!!! I AM SAVING MYSELF FOR MY KING THAT GOD SENDS ME AMEN!!!!

[@mucheychimezie5436]

To think that I sat up to wait for Monday's class and still dozed off 😩😭😭😭 Gush how did I miss this? .Monday's class fall around 3am Nigerian time here, haven't been missing them before and now this? Let me jump on the replay so am up to speed and the caption is 🔥🔥

[@81onechosenwon]

Thank you for your obedience, Glory Be To God 🙏🏾 I've been asking God and pondering back and forth about my Kingdom Spouse. This is my CONFIRMATION ❤ ALL of the things you listed he checked off. Amen. 🙏🏾

[@Blessed75463]

Bishop this is so awesome. Thank you

[@traceyjoseph8966]

Speak Pastor!!! All truth and no lies told!!!

[@andreaali7761]

This is so good!! Thank you!

[@elainebraddy3333]

Thank you....

[@genelynsagubay6847]

Hi RC Blakes ❤ from Philippines I'm so blessed to find your you tube channel I'm making a lot of changes to develop myself through your advices I'm so much thankful for your life. Your the best example to the people emotinonally ❤ God bless you more❤

[@daniellecushman1024]

It’s funny because when I’m doing wrong or picking wrong when it comes to men that’s when I don’t watch RC and that’s because I get triggered lol. That’s because I know he’s right lol. But now here I go back at it. Because he’s my spiritual father and he want the best for his daughters. I normally try to watch every video. ❤

[@lanettelawrence6308]

Yes this does make complete sense.

[@catherinesowers4615]

Thank you Mr. Blakes

[@NurseMo337]

Talk that talk Uncle Bishop👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@tinathomas2312]

Amen preach and teach you are a blessing. I thank the lord for the lessons in my life I had to experience to be the valuable woman I am today. God grace have shown me who I always been in his eyes so I just had to start living in God purity of wholeness. 😊

[@gloriamay5613]

God bless you and your wife bishop Blake you and Lisa are truly God childrens

[@BeverlyHall-em8ux]

I've always taken Bishops advice. His knowledge especially , teaching from the Word, has never failed. He's the reason why I've learned to wait for a husband. 😊

[@janellamurphy5665]

Bishop I have to keep playing this playback video so I won't miss anything 👂🏾🧠🧘🏾‍♀!!!! I am preparing for my king that God is sending me!!!!!

[@catb8661]

Merry Christmas to you, Lisa & family! 🎄✨️. I practice the principles you give us, and I found a real man to love and who loves me. Thank you!

[@judithstevens4323]

Hi Pastor! Love you too! Getting READY for Christmas Eve & Christmas. I love THIS word. Forgive my tardiness....SENDING YOU & LADY LISA LOVE & BEST WISHES & MERRY CHRISTMAS ❗ FROM MICHIGAN....THE SUBURBS OF DETROIT...❤

[@KKBlessed85]

Thank you.🙏🏿

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

This was fantastic- thank you Pastor, as always ❤

[@dedrawright5732]

You're humorous & profound.

[@darciborelli9153]

Everything you said here my dear brother confirmed, allows me to see that the man pursuing me is portraying these exact things. I greatly appreciate you and Lisa abundantly. This has been profound, perfect timing for me I love you both dearly thank you abundantly

[@smilewithsadieb]

I don’t care what anybody says, old school teachings are what society is trying to rid us of and that’s why the world is in turmoil right now and so many are lost.

[@DaishaBreedlovePresentsPodcast]

Exactly ❤

[@khaizenbey5036]

No. Five is the most Beautifullest Thing In This World ❤❤❤❤❤

[@thewealthofhealth6404]

This was amazing!!! Right on time

[@dianajames8549]

I really appreciate you. You taught me a lot.When I started listening to you I found my worth.

[@cindyfils1763]

I've recently started watching these programs I've been blessed. Confirmatiin for me with my current relationship. Thank you for God who has given you wisdom to share. God bless you❤

[@thatocross9118]

Thank You Sir

[@keshiamills5717]

This Video is one for the books, man you taking about ending the year with a Bang!!!! I will be bench watching this video all day. and sharing it with others. Thanks, Bishiop and Merry Christmas to you and you're this holiday season. Smile Keshia

[@LesA_09]

It all makes perfect sense to me Bishop. Keep informing us with this Wisdom

[@doreenlane2370]

Cheating men are not scared of getting married. A cheater can get married to a woman so no one else can have her but still cheat on her. I have seen it with my own eyes. Marriage doesn't mean commitment to a Godless person

[@ariellemonet9515]

This is so TRUE! My Ex did this to his current wife. He still reaches out to me to try to use me as supply to cheat on her.🤦🏾‍♀️ I was with him for years and years again and years, he proposed but my spirit made me say no.😮 I wouldn't have been able to handle being married to an unfaithful Narc 😢 even though I love him still unfortunately even to this day. I'm here to listen, heal, and grow.😇 😊 Untill God allows my King 👑to find me, his Queen 👑

[@theshoelady4]

Amen!! Great Word regarding The One!!!

[@sheilarichard4610]

You teaching RC Blake’s 💯

[@debbiecurrlin335]

No truer words have been spoken. Thank you. I know there are quite a few who may not believe this yet, but it’s a process and if they are here, they will know it eventually. ❤

[@denisesmith8657]

Lisa is so lucky to have you!

[@rugezajoyeuse5664]

Thanks this makes sense and I am experiencing it🤞

[@ericajones4625]

Thank you for sharing 🔥 🔥🔥 🙏🏽💪🏽💯 May TMH God continue to use and bless you!!

[@kimberlyprewitt4238]

Preach!!!

[@alishadennis7769]

Hello pastor BLAKES 🙌 🙏 😊. I'm learning all I can from your teaching videos about a kingdom Christian ✝️ 🙏 ❤husband and wife and GOD preparing 🙏 me and that person to be a kingdom married couple with GODLY purpose to fulfill by GOD'S power , guidance, anointing, love , leadership support over our lives .😂❤🎉 🙏 🙏 😅😅🕊 bible 📖!!!

[@janicemaze3598]

Please like and share 🙏🏽

[@chassityannette]

Thank you Bishop💛

[@tammyrichmond6709]

Make a Whole lot of sense to me pastor 🙏🏿

[@aminadavidson7961]

Thank you❤

[@indriadrayton1132]

In agreement with you.

[@ladyvance1434]

Amen, Bishop!

[@mildredherring2541]

I just wanted to say thank you, Bishop,RC Blakes.WHAT CHANGES IN A MAN, WHEN HE FINDS THE " ONE" 😮😅😊TO Mother Blakes ,HAVE BLESSED MERRY CHRISTMAS ❤ 🙏 GREENVILLE, SC

[@janellamurphy5665]

Good Message Bishop!!! Thank you so much... I am and have always been sharing your videos with my sisters and kings!!!!

[@SonyaSmith-v7o]

I love the way you keep it real

[@carmellaconstancio]

🤜🏼🤜🏼💥💥🤛🏼🤛🏼Ohhhhh the seriousness of this message. 🙏🏼🙏🏼💯💯Respect always to First Lady Lisa and Bishop RC ~ messages always based in Biblical Truth.

[@whatsyourflavshaveice4768]

WOW! I caught a live one 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Lets go pastor❤️ Birmingham, AL

[@sylviahaynes7663]

That's Is So True ❤

[@ceierabutler]

This was beautiful thank you so much

[@todaysunderstanding7733]

Beautiful Teaching ❤

[@mslovie2209]

Crystal clear ❤

[@tonya6947]

Thank you Mr. Wise/Mr. R.C. Blakes. God blessed you, wisdom 💜

[@karenb4064]

I touch in agree 💯 Great wisdom

[@tinathomas2312]

You have been wonderful ❤️. God bless you and your family.

[@tammyrichmond6709]

MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎅 🎄 ❤️ EVERYONE, I PRAY 🙏🏿, YOU GET ALL THE COMFORT YOU DESERVE 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉, and Happy New years

[@annisechetelat9026]

You have a special gift! I listened and I see 100 percent of what you say in my man. Reassurance for sure after a 19 year bad marriage.

[@tas673]

Your videos have changed my life! 🙏🏾 Thank you !

[@KorayI88]

Very precious advice 🐦‍🔥🌹

[@Blessed75463]

Good evening Bishop, Lady Lisa and family🙏🏾❤️. Tuning in from Westchester il.