Romance Con Artist and Bigamist Claims to be a CIA Agent | Handsome Devils | TCC

[@tashibalampkin8555]

11:05 Her family is hilarious. They gave Will the nickname "Won't." Absolutely perfect.

[@janpierzchala2004]

he's Infertile

[@graysonwalker]

I knew that was false, no black man infertile.. We fertile....​@@janpierzchala2004

[@usimmigration2278]

Not ‘Won’t’ 😂😂😂

[@ofkgjsl]

that woman was completely in denial, oblivious and naive. I can‘t believe what some people are willing to do for some random guy, who approached her and fked her on the toilet the moment she looked at him

[@renx5609]

😂😂😂😅 good one!

[@evansmcnerney6328]

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 RED FLAG::: Anyone who tells you 👋 “I work for the CIA”, does not work for no dang CIA! 😂😂😂

[@tessaducek5601]

Yes! That line along with FBI Navy Seal NSA Hit Man For The Mafia They Only Work Special Ops For The Military I am always amazed by just how gullible people can be. Anyone who brags so grandiose about themselves. Run. Or stick around for the ridiculous fabricated tales. Could be amusing..

[@Bettinasisrg]

Right?! I'm James Bond baby!

[@cocorideout8049]

Well in her defense she is British and wouldn't know thiz

[@lorrainetavares1308]

HAHAHA!!! As if!!! What a nasty, vile user/abuser!!! This is HOW he plays women continually: by messing with their heads and confusing them: to then make them sooo desparate for him and accept him and his gaslighting CRUMBS: even though he's a very nasty piece of work: ie A HORRIBLE NOTHING!!! As you Americans say: "A JERK"!!! He gets off on tormenting gullible women & using them!!! So that they will just accept "crumbs": after he's brainwashed them!!! HE'S OBVIOUSLY DONE THIS GASLIGHTING GARBAGE TO MANY GULLIBLE AND DESPARATE WOMEN: BUT HE WILL "GET HIS EVENTUALLY"!!! Makes me sooo angry!!!

[@lorrainetavares1308]

@@Bettinasisrg 😆😅😂 Funny, but NOT funny!!! HOW can ANYONE be that dumb and gullible???

[@Chahlie]

I am actually so appreciative to the women who go public with their stories- it helps the rest of us so much to know little things to look for.

[@chelseagirl278]

Exactly! Thank you Mary. And to those victim blaming. Shame on you

[@treasurehunteruk9718]

She got paid for the programme.

[@LadyAngela678]

Common sense is helpful as well.

[@2ndhandSue]

@@chelseagirl278 - And to you women who are hailing her as some kind of hero for "putting herself out there" so that she could be the patron saint of rescuing other women before it is too late, shame on you for giving her credit for destroying her own life and putting her child(ren) in the way of possible grave danger. She was a fool, following in the footsteps of many fools who went before her. The information isn't secret - it is loud and large and is available to all women. My 14 year old granddaughter can write a list of warning signs that these men reveal almost from Day1 of a "relationship". If the victim bears no responsibility for ending up in this situation, then whose fault is it? And she probably did not agree to do this video out of pure benevolence. She did it because she had been drained of her last penny by him and needed the money. That's hardly a heroic motivator.

[@uhuraenterprise6372]

@@2ndhandSue My gosh, could you be more negative

[@vic4093]

I lost count of how many times she said "at this point I genuinely believed that things would get betta" 😂😂😂😂

[@Carolinapetroska]

Nativity and stupidity. She should have let him go after the second time she got stood up. That's what I do now. Maximum 2 chances and the guy is out for ever. No coming back.

[@polynarcs]

Mary’s family giving Will the nickname Won’t did it for me. 😂

[@joanodom2104]

When he said he was in the CIA, how did she NOT laugh right in his face? That would have been MY reflexive response.

[@livinparadise2022]

His CIA stands for Con individual Agent 🤣

[@BrianK49]

she should have asked him if he knows Ian Fleming

[@elipotter369]

I had a friend spin the "I'm a spy" in a whisper, in the semi dark, a week after we were joking about James Bond. I didn't laugh because: a) a slim possibility it was true (she did work for dept of defense in irregular positions & hours after all), and b) if she was lying (99% my instinct said so), then she was a sociopath and I best just ease out of it by not making a fuss, and getting away from her subtly but asap.

[@cindytartt4048]

@@elipotter369 lol. In a whispery voice yeah? I used to work for the defence service here but purely in a security position which you could speak about freely. A spy simply could not tell anyone -not even us ordinary security people who manned doors and fences. 😂😂But a good hourly wage.

[@BillieYoung-tl5qr]

I would have changed my number and address to get this kook away from me

[@deftones8717]

The family’s nickname for Will is hilarious 😆 “Won’t” hahah

[@dreadelectric7745]

😂😂😂😂

[@ChidiyaSethi]

Quintessential British Humour !🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lorrainetavares1308]

Deftones87: GOOD ONE: HAHAHA!!!

[@treasurehunteruk9718]

Yeah, I thought that was clever, but they still fell for him.

[@danielle6883]

Amazing 👏

[@cassandra3862]

Doesn’t ring. Doesn’t turn up. She clearly passed all of his gullibility tests.

[@meredithheath5272]

True - he's testing her weak boundaries, for sure!!

[@madsdee7803]

She was greedy, wanted excitement and a man to brag about (ooo superman lol). Those are the boxes they tick.

[@Faristol7]

​@@madsdee7803Agree 💯%

[@inderdhak7604]

YES !! 😮

[@gritsNgravy-fn5ic]

Not to mention, he NEVER had ANY money, NOR a paycheck, LOL....LOL !!, then, he needed twenty thousand to "BUY" his way OUT of the C.I.A. WOW !! Sorry, but this sounds so pathetic !!

[@samcroft7084]

He had to shut down the safehouse because she exposed it - when he had the address on a website? Oh lady. He's such an obvious con.

[@overlandkltolondon]

Yep that didn't make sense

[@sandrawestley4193]

That was really obvious, anyone can find the house. But she still believes him, I don’t know how she can fall for all these silly lies, you don’t have to pay to get out of the CIA

[@Woodman-Spare-that-tree]

“He carried a gun. He never let me see it” 😂😂😂. Did he also carry a million dollars in cash that he never let you see?

[@susiem22]

Good one.

[@scouseaussie1638]

More red flags than a Chinese military parade😂

[@palapalak.8907]

Love it!

[@usimmigration2278]

😂😂😂

[@minzygreen1167]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@HopeInspires247]

Hahaha

[@rherron7]

😂😂😂😂

[@linda9115]

Talk about red flags . This was the whole flag pole.

[@ianhandforth5672]

spot on,and funny.

[@rherron7]

😂😂😂

[@Eda-ow7ff]

Right on! Some people are just glutens for punishment.

[@Eda-ow7ff]

Ha ha! Some people are just glutens for punishment.

[@JudithSweeney-p1o]

​@@Eda-ow7ff*gluttons

[@tj-8422]

Block & delete after he said he'd call within the hour but didn't. Fin.

[@clark.mellarke]

Fr

[@angeliqueoren2462]

She is desperate!

[@ncqueenbee9838]

This makes me sick to my stomach. Not because of him, but her desperation for a man. There were red flags less than 4 weeks in and yet she continued the relationship.

[@amandacarter7740]

Im sorry but only the kids deserve any sympathy..these desparate women dont deserve any

[@clark.mellarke]

Let's not blame her. Blame him for taking advantage of that. She tried to break it off to be fair. He kept manipulating her.

[@chinyscentsforyou8681]

​@dallassallad thank you. It's easy for people to judge others when they haven't walked an inch in their shoes. It's not her fault that she fell in love with a con. People can be very manipulative and the shame is on them, not on the victim!

[@Heyu7her3]

​@@chinyscentsforyou8681 it's a choice to love & to continue a relationship. that does not negate the fact that she was victimized.

[@airlope22]

She is the female Forrest Gump.

[@sharlesb7735]

The first game he played was not calling her when he said he would, her reaction told him that she is desperate and will accept his lies. Then the lies get bigger to see how gullible she is, it worked, they just get bigger and bigger when they know they have you hooked. It is actions that are important, words are cheap.

[@katarinamills8530]

Exactly....typical narcissist Tests....checking up😢

[@christinacatalano]

Yeah I was tallying these tactics as the story went! Oof

[@wendymagnuson6069]

Good grief!! Not one single thing he did made an ounce of sense. That is wanting to be with someone pretty bad to swallow all of that bs!

[@MarkHenstridge]

are you speaking with experience, sounds like it.

[@wendymagnuson6069]

@@MarkHenstridge No, I have no experience with that kind of man, or anyone like that for that matter. It just seems so atrocious.

[@HeatherMareeDesignStudio]

@@wendymagnuson6069 Mary is an idiot. Some people will believe anything to not be alone... Hopefully she at least learned to not ignore red flags lol. I couldn't even make it through the Tinder Swindler because those women were so shallow and dumb... Not that the men in these stories aren't raging pieces of trash, but some personal accountability is useful.

[@wendymagnuson6069]

@@HeatherMareeDesignStudio I don't understand how these men can get these women to completely abandon all reason. From the beginning he lied to her.

[@mgnwill]

The documentary selects main information, highlights all the obvious ‘tells’, which would have been sandwiched between long periods of would have been perfectly ‘normal’ family life at the time, and compacts years into less than an hour, omitting the full context. Due to the documentary’s title, we also know ahead of watching that he’s a con artist. Mary would also have had no frame of reference regarding the life of a CIA operative. The whole point of a successful con is that the con artist cons everyone, not just their partners, but even those looking from the outside in and who might later ask, “But how could she have ‘let’ herself be taken in?” Otherwise, they would have been caught by public authorities right from the beginning.

[@cassandra3862]

He stands her up because he is ‘keeping the world safe’ “I was so proud of him”. FFS.

[@mandymckeown8625]

😂😂😂

[@madsdee7803]

lol yeah she bought that and him calling off the wedding and every other bot of garbage because she was desperate for an exciting 'spoilt' life.

[@katewebber1131]

😂😂😂😂 so so funny.

[@alimar0604]

The actor playing Will is much more attractive than the real Will! 🇬🇧

[@lisamoore9238]

And the actress playing Mary 👀

[@jjwoelkers7954]

@@lisamoore9238 well she looked different back then lol

[@lisamoore9238]

@@jjwoelkers7954 😂😂

[@eljayexplorer]

@@lisamoore9238 😭😭😭

[@margretsims1322]

Very handsome.....

[@Woodman-Spare-that-tree]

“[When he got back] he was very pale” 😂. I doubt that!

[@robertmahler8894]

She is a prime example;e of how emotions can take over logic, common sense, and even reality. Her need to be wanted and loved made her an easy target. This man could have sold her anything, and she would have found him enough excuses.

[@thehoneydeev]

At first, I was upset at how gullible she had been, but I appreciate her courage sharing her story on camera so it can help another woman. Mary, I’m sorry this happened to you.

[@lisabrightly]

Who is she helping? I'm sorry but only a fool like her would be in so deep and those people can't be helped!

[@tealthoughts]

I agree! I don't think I would have had the courage to tell the story to anyone unless they absolutely had to know.

[@evasilvalayton758]

Mary, you are very brave. Hopefully you might be able to help some other woman seek the truth

[@luciaconn6788]

hope she got paid

[@cindytartt4048]

@@luciaconn6788 usually they do. It’s a small fee if it’s the BBC. 😉

[@cassandra3862]

Nothing screams ‘psychopath’ like indoor sunglasses.

[@moirahill6397]

😄 🤣 😂

[@joanodom2104]

Jim Jones syndrome!

[@bellaolum9768]

🤣🤣🤣

[@marioncannon9924]

That's an actor🤣

[@arcticgoddess]

Bwahaha

[@whateverchannel22]

"Everybody wants to be married." NO, THEY DON'T!!! QUIT SPEAKING FOR EVERYBODY!!! Mary's a daft one. He stood her up at least 3 times in the first month she knew him, and she accepts a marriage proposal....after knowing him a month. Sometimes people just have it coming for not using their God-given sense. Smarten up, folks, and get some self-respect.

[@justagrrl1981]

I know right! Cant think of much worse than a marriage contract

[@denisegore1884]

by the second standup I'd be saying to myself "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me". He proposed in just a month? Who does that?

[@beverlybroomfield837]

I bet that diamond was as fake as his ass.

[@2ndhandSue]

whateverchannel22 - As my grandmother frequently said "way back then" - "Common sense ain't so common".

[@holdencawffle626]

Thank you! Shes a doofus for saying that. I will never ever get married. It's a sham.

[@frank34450]

It’s amazing how gullible she is ..

[@dianad4633]

Have mercy. May I never be so blinded by love. I cannot truly imagine being so gullible.

[@rherron7]

💯

[@79TROUBLESHOOTER]

It's amazing how a clearly intelligent and educated woman, as well as her well-to-do family could be conned by such a contrived backstory. Along with her need to be loved (nothing wrong with that) and now having kids to support he must've been a half decent actor and an absolute Sociopath

[@87aggietim]

Thousands of people give up their bank accounts to online con men every year. Nothing new.

[@ericjohn5461]

No. She's just another dumb chick

[@aries4901]

Yes and they always boast about their degrees and high paying jobs YET they don't have common sense. My child would NOT believe this bull$hit.

[@aries4901]

@@87aggietim And there are thousands of desperate..low self worth women like these. Paying men ALL their money Let's call it what it is.

[@87aggietim]

@@aries4901 You pretty much summed it up. Love for money.

[@ss-wu1vp]

Wow, hard to feel sorry for her. After she found out he was charged with bigamy, she helped him to get rid of his documents 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@joli395]

She was completely under his control and brainwashed.

[@M_SC]

More people will learn what coercive control is every day

[@joanodom2104]

@M SC Many Americans have been, since 2016. 😪

[@QBee240]

Exactly..she was desperate

[@girisha_laxmi11]

she was still in love under a spell .

[@emke9326]

What a monster…the minute you hurt a child…you’re done! Pushing the high chair…no way in hell I would accept something like this. I don’t care who it is.

[@wjin633]

Love is blind I guess.

[@DocBree13]

That’s the least of his crimes against children

[@ebriggs3498]

No one realized he did that.

[@meredithheath5272]

THAT would have done it for me, as well!!!!!! He pushed over Mary's child's high chair, with the child in it!!!! At that point I would have thrown him out and reported him. Take a photo of the tipped over chair, if I had the presence of mind....

[@meredithheath5272]

@@ebriggs3498 the sister suspected him... review the video at ~ 13:05 and 13:15, I believe...

[@ayefo7800]

It's frightening how one person can drag along another individual into their crazy, irrational world.

[@eeejaybee3137]

What is really frightening is she seems like a very smart woman. So glad she is using her experience to help others.

[@PartyMartyAnty]

She’s obviously NOT a smart person

[@ToeKnife166]

I can’t be friends with women like this, they ignore friends and family warning them that they being played. Then you have to pick them up afterwards.

[@LadyAngela678]

Good idea

[@grneys45]

Many many years

[@starrjohnson1327]

I'm currently trying to get away from someone like this. I'm tired of hearing about it! Unfortunately I work with this person😑

[@LLace]

You could be me of those women . Don’t ever forget that !

[@LadyAngela678]

@@LLace Not every woman is a born victim. Some of us don’t take shidt from a man.

[@javanesemystic]

Holy sh*t THE HIGH-CHAIR incident gave my chills to my spine wtf

[@SandraSealySeawomanBDS]

I know, right? Omg😳

[@blueblue5427]

Damn he had to tip a child over to avoid a question 🫣Evil

[@lw1524]

All I can think is that he could easily kill someone if he didn't even care of the safety of a child/toddler. That is an extreme response to avoid a question that would expose him!!!

[@SandraSealySeawomanBDS]

@@lw1524 The thing is, at the time they didn't realize HE tipped it over.

[@joanodom2104]

If it were MY child, I would KILL the bastard!

[@adoseofceecee9744]

Come on RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE MARY!. Women need to stop being desperate.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@QBee240]

Exactly

[@mmmsunshine5367]

$300k.....he would have lost me at the give me money part

[@mmmsunshine5367]

This was past red flags 🥴😵😵‍💫🤯🤯🤯

[@pinco40]

Bloody right! 😡😤

[@ahannan9]

Yep got women doing these things and men killing people because some woman scammed him into believing she’s being abused

[@creola35]

This puts "Who TF did I Marry" to shame 😅

[@naketabonham5066]

Now we just need Derrick branch to do a video on this 1 he would literally have a field day with this one

[@kayenta2664]

I'm finding her statement "You don't have control over me anymore", referring to when she saw him in court, shocking. So finally, after she has two more children to raise on her own and after having lost not only all of her money but her home too, she is actually getting it? Wow! With no money left, why would he be interested in controlling her any longer? These women, and there are thousands of them, are completely delusional from the start and I'm sorry to say that I don't even feel sorry for them any more.

[@kristineo2926]

100% agree. The poor children are the only victims here

[@eve2099]

Definitely agree ..

[@delectable288]

The stupidity of this woman is beyond comprehension. I am surprised her friends actually stood by her…. I would not be able to support someone so dumb and gullible. It would make me second guess my choice in friends.

[@amandacarter7740]

Yep...kids are the victims

[@jgunn03]

To not feel sorry for her is anti-feminist. I hope no one 'doesn't feel sorry for' you at any point in your life.

[@angelicaortega6720]

He isn’t even attractive!! My goodness women smh!! Don’t be so desperate to find love and a man.

[@MissBeeeBeee]

I wasn’t even thinking about his attractiveness (or lack thereof); I just thought he looked creepy from the pictures alone!!! 🙄

[@austingode]

And she’s a princess?!?

[@derekmarsden8934]

Absolutely creepy and geeky

[@zazzifizzle]

I'm at the part where he revealed he's an agent with the cryptic text messages and I'm belly laughing so hard I'm afraid I'll wake the neighbors it's 4am 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Lelapeace]

🤣😂

[@suahcocothegreat5183]

Stop it

[@QBee240]

🥴😄

[@brianal7143]

It's just so ridiculous 😂😂😂

[@madsdee7803]

You sound like me when my sister tried to tell me her boyfriend was a rich Arab oil magnate and he was taking her to UAE so she could get a job as a nurse (because nurses get paid better over there). I tried to warn her too and she was blinded by the fake exciting life filled with money and travel and a man she could brag about..

[@morganmadison366]

Anyone who claims to be CIA, Special Forces, etc. run like hell.

[@Instrument_of_Peace]

😅😂 ikr?!!! This guy once told me he was a US Marshall that flies on board the airlines after 9/11 and I didn't buy that one...I mean could be true 😂😂😂 Ladies... men will and do say anything and everything, it's just a means to an end for them... don't get played, there are great men out there❤

[@Carolinapetroska]

Agree 100%

[@Tahiha]

Don’t forget - deep sea diver or work on an oil rig in the Baltic sea😂

[@hrmtty]

Dude flips over a high chair with a kid in it just to avoid answering a question in Japanese?? He could have seriously injured the child!

[@AlaFrigginBama]

He didn’t do it….it was the CIA!! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

[@Midgy21747]

And they aren't usually flimsy.

[@sharonsmalls6846]

I think it's simpler to leave a liar than to investigate them.

[@joannahampton5979]

"everybody wants to get married" according to this extremely desperate woman 🙄

[@isay207]

Not me

[@latzmenon5770]

Marriage should be an option , only if you find the right person .

[@MT-oi2ty]

💯 so desperate!

[@Kinikia95]

Not so long ago, it was an embarrassment to be a certain age and unmarried.

[@lynnem3300]

You couldn't pay me to get married.

[@wjin633]

Anytime you hear someone saying something like working for FBI or CIA, it’s a huge red flag. Being cheated for six years is amazingly problematic! Although I feel sorry for Mary, I certainly don’t do with a man who’d asking for money 💵 for whatever the ‘decent‘ reason ever. I believe you don’t have to have a man in your life but yourself! Take care of yourself and Merry Christmas y’all 🎄🎄

[@jinka6171]

No kidding,,,,,,the minute money comes up,,,,,,run!

[@wendymagnuson6069]

And you certainly don't buy your way out of the CIA!

[@debbiesunlight7047]

Amazingly problematic. Lol

[@khaniyahkau5331]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💯💯💯🔥💥🔥💥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹Merry Xmas to you too!!!!!!!

[@joanodom2104]

Can one not find all of this stuff out on the internet?

[@salinnthind5848]

I simply cannot fathom how desperately she kept hanging on to his every word. Why? The other wife had to show passports, pictures and documents for Mary to finally realise? After so many years?I cannot brain this level of naivety? Devotion? Ignorance? Just wow 😲🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@moirahill6397]

Check out 'narcissistic behaviour' and 'cognitive dissonance'. Given particular circumstances, many of us are susceptible.

[@Higuys521]

I was looking forward to reading such a comment like this one....the truth of the whole matter!!!The degree of the Mary's ignorance amazes me!!!!

[@misty28882]

Yep!!!!! A lot of celebrities wear sunglasses indoors

[@annatanneberger1]

And she was a business consultant - i.e. advised businesses ... ???

[@gardencookeat22]

Desperation.

[@sheilajsmith]

Never say be never,…but Chile, it couldn’t be me. If someone tells me they are in the CIA I’m going to respond with “I knew it, whew, so I’m I. I’m so relieved to have someone to talk shop with.” I’ll do this with a straight face. I match energy.

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂

[@laurieowens8510]

So much fun playing with cat fishing men who have no idea you know exactly who and what they are after a few interactions with them. Played along with one for months. Never met in person. So fun!

[@dawnedwards2320]

News flash, if he says he speaks Japanese but can’t answer your friend’s question in Japanese, he most likely isn’t employed by the cIA

[@tarjakangas6681]

How gullible she was, everything from the start had huge warning bells

[@aries4901]

Gullible AND desperate!

[@saisafaith7412]

@John Hammink I know I did

[@chelseagirl278]

She is also very brave speaking out of her story to warn other women about CON men like this POS Your victim blaming is disgusting

[@TJ-bn2cn]

@@chelseagirl278Well said!

[@saisafaith7412]

@@chelseagirl278 it's amazing how you went 0 to 100 for the 'CONMEN' but you failed to mention how the lady didn't take responsibility for her actions . Even her family warned her, she didn't listen. At some point a woman needs to take responsibility for her actions. There are real victims out there, this woman was no victim. She CHOSE to keep taking back this man even when she admitted she had doubts about his stories. Am so sick of women who play victim when they don't get their way.

[@lac8356]

some people are incredibly needy and relationships are like oxygen to them - you then get predators who prey on these type of people

[@Onlineintrovert]

Like moths to a flame

[@lynnem3300]

She's an empath, so would be a magnet to him.

[@Heyu7her3]

​@@lynnem3300 what does that even mean atp?

[@nevereverlistens]

There is not much left when you live in a dreadful country.

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

​@lynnem3300 she is a codependent not an empath. It is completely human to have empathy. In fact you aren't human if you don't have empathy...you are reptelian.....please be careful about the use the word empathy.

[@postscript5549]

I am sincerely sorry for this woman's suffering. Yet I can't understand how she could be so naive.

[@JabbaBlue]

Indeed. So sad.

[@appledoreman]

A need for love & affection.

[@livinparadise2022]

Desperate for love, this is What happen when somebody love others more than love herself first.. so sad!

[@queva3062]

Not naive, simply BLIND😆😂

[@SaxonSuccess]

Desperation. And sad...

[@geeohard]

All I can do laugh in disbelief at this episode, I’m confused, angry, upset, sympathetic all at the same time at this woman. Wth is going on

[@gocynthia]

lol! same!

[@Seps2012]

Hahaha me too… it’s like I feel bad for the baby cos the mother is so in denial and desperate.

[@CharlotteDonovan-ku3md]

Who decided that this guy is handsome? 🤮🤮🤮

[@Woodman-Spare-that-tree]

It’s an actor

[@beyourself2444]

Clearly the same people who said that Mel Gibson and all of the 80s popular actors were handsome.

[@katarinamills8530]

​@@beyourself2444 wow you are quite arrogant?! 😢

[@hanyhash2218]

"Everybody wants to be married." ???? There were soooooo many red flags & yet she gave excuses & gave the a-hole another chance. Jeez! A blind person can see the con. I guess the good thing is that she wasn't murdered.

[@Bettinasisrg]

Yeah been there done that!

[@wjin633]

Imagine Ted Bundy alike…..

[@charlisays]

Sad that some women think that. There are many women who don't want or need it at all.

[@joanodom2104]

I don't want to be married.

[@debraperez7171]

Lol. At one point she confronted him and he said "stay here I need to go to the other room", it scared the he'll out of me!! Figured he was getting the baseball bat!

[@clueless9245]

This woman is brave admitting all this on camera.

[@Outtaroad876]

No she’s not. She help to destroy evidence she’s a criminal too

[@Outtaroad876]

Needs to lose her kids. She’s crazy too

[@seventiesgirl6]

Brave? I would be embarrassed!

[@monicamontego1637]

lol

[@ivagreen11]

​@@seventiesgirl6 brave enough to put herself in front of everyone and *especially* judgemental ppl like you.

[@evansmcnerney6328]

Lmao I love her family😆😆 “nick name for Will is Wont”

[@aries4901]

Ohhh. I'm dingy. THAT is what they were saying. 😆👍😁

[@juliewest1521]

Unforgivable that children have been involved

[@latricebrown7942]

The nickname for him though 🤣 😂 😅 "They began calling Will, won't"

[@p_tiffanii]

Made it halfway through. I give up! 🤣 This Woman had zero faith in herself, her instinct and intuition. She KNEW she was being toyed with. Yet, she still chose to hold TIGHTLY to the illusion. She was a victim, until he told her that bs story about being in the CIA. She knew, THEN, that it didn't add up. Everything after that, she participated in. There were so many times she could've walked away. Yet, she refused to listen to what her gut was telling her.

[@northerngirl4666]

The mind plays tricks and it’s so hard to really listen to when your gut is saying run …. Especially when he doesn’t show up to important family events. Poor thing she wanted the illusion so badly, she ignored reality.

[@aries4901]

@PT Exactly!! Only thing he was legally guilty of was being a Bigot. He didn't steal her money. She gave it on her own.

[@justagrrl1981]

I texted him I was in labour, I didn't get a reply. GURL.

[@M_SC]

Most of Germany was turned into nazis in about 3 years. Good brainwashers are good at it

[@alexisgreene8952]

I hate people saying 'the benefits of the doubt.'' Ya!..Maybe in the law, before convict the person, make sure, he is the one. But when you are in doubt, listen to yourself and be smart!

[@YouTube4me]

I believe it is good for women and girls to hear these stories and learn what can happen. Listen to your gut and get away! I am glad Mary shares her story and helps educate others about these types of scoundrels - they are out there. I wish her and her children well.

[@giuliettamassina7787]

But would they apply the lesson to their circumstances?

[@larissakravcova8626]

​@@giuliettamassina7787I agree, most probably Not.😊

[@Faristol7]

​@@giuliettamassina7787Sometimes you realise too late - it was a few years before Will asked Mary for money. Maybe she was 'too far in' by then to extricate herself from his grabbing claws.......

[@CopingwithGrattitude]

I had a similar experience with a Sociopath. My con lasted five years; and he still hadn’t asked for money-yet. I had been to his house, met friends, lots of identity fraud involved. Turns out he used an alias, the house was a rental, and he had either paid or manipulated others to validate his identity. Including a sister. The entire relationship, from the beginning, was a con. It is hard to wrap your head around. All the family and stories he told me, his career, all of it-lies. He was a legitimate Sociopath. He is 57 years old now living in GA conning someone else. He will never stop-the con is the source of fuel for these types. Targets single mothers just like this a$$hole. They know no other way, born without a conscience.

[@cliveblacksheep2522]

Peace be with you ❤️

[@bethpemberton7980]

I double checked the age. Thought it might be my ex! It was up when we filed taxes that year because he made less than what I pay the cleaning lady. How he thought he could hide forever makes me shake my head. Told my mother he had worked for the FBI.

[@Luvpig]

🎄❤

[@ciarabyrne682]

What is GA short for?

[@bethpemberton7980]

@@ciarabyrne682 Georgia.

[@IRINAELENA-xo1dt]

No,not "everyone wants to get married"..especially after only 4 weeks of relationship,when you barely know that person and on top of that he already disappointed her few times..it just blows my mind.

[@DramaticallyMiddleAged]

I always leave my safe house address on my website 😂

[@CountessRatsazz]

I think he was wearing a CIA t shirt too.

[@annazaman9657]

If she was so easily able to find the safe house, wouldn't anybody else? And she found so many of his explanations hard to believe yet she didn't run.

[@aries4901]

That is because she wanted to believe it ALL.

[@blessedlupupa3592]

Because she wanted a man next to her bed. She got what she deserved

[@barbieblue3336]

Exactly lol

[@_HimToo]

Not only did she want to believe it, she simply *did* believe it. Of course now she's gonna say it was suspicious, etc, but at the time she clearly was swallowing his bs hook, line, & sinker.

[@treasurehunteruk9718]

It was listed in Companies House under his name, so public information anyone could have found. Not very secretive! She could have asked the neighbours who lived there and gone to the Land Registry to find who owned the house.

[@barbieblue3336]

Nigerian princes furiously taking notes 📝 📋 👑

[@LadyAngela678]

😂

[@meredithheath5272]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@starrjohnson1327]

Oh yes! There's a con going on where they marry to avoid deportation.

[@joannajourneys]

haha yeah the nigerian princes can learn from the american kings this time around

[@madsdee7803]

He followed the formula. Get yourself a desperate gullible greedy woman and brag about being from another country and having an IT job/lawyer/doctor/engineer...then let the fleecing begin..

[@dawna4185]

the fear of being alone will lead one down some dark, dangerous places!

[@arriegalvan4382]

Thank you for posting this today. I got involved with a money grabbing con artist like Mary it took a very long time to heal of denial and I'm still fighting off his manipulations. This movie really helped me.

[@carolynfehr]

Strength! Good luck!

[@shantiyah]

So many red flags I hate this happened to her but at the same time his lies gave me a good giggle 🤣🤣

[@moxiepops8457]

Wowza. She certainly was not blessed with a woman’s intuition was she….🙄

[@tracyshaffer4510]

She wasn’t born with common sense!

[@debrakiser1976]

@@tracyshaffer4510 I agree 💯

[@blessedlupupa3592]

No she was not. I hope the children gets it from the grandparents otherwise. The combination of a foolish need to be loved woman and a Con Father. I can imagine the children

[@charlottebrefo6879]

@@blessedlupupa3592 😅

[@blueblue5427]

Educated but dumb asf 🙄

[@chelseasummers2365]

I would have hired a private investigator to follow him. This could have saved her a lot of heartache and her bank account.

[@meredithheath5272]

I know!! She had a PI, at first, but did not continue. I would have hired one, for decent stretch!!

[@SaxonSuccess]

If it gets to that, it's time to kick him into touch anyway. ffs...

[@countdowntorevolution9986]

Yeah no PI needed for obvious bullshit like that.

[@Belle-rk2hk]

I would have simply stayed the freak away from him and moved on with my life

[@KatieKat3]

Not to mention simply knocked on the door of the “safe house”.

[@Beelove1917]

Lmao 😂is she serious she believed all his BS!

[@patrickcarroll1261]

yeah she was a mug lol

[@No-Name-f8p]

🙄

[@marshareed1438]

I was talking with a man & we had one date but I felt that something was off. After knowing who he’s for five yrs it didn’t seem right that I didn’t know where he lives. He had been by my house a lot tho! I decided to pressure him about it & he got mad & tried to blame it on me, like I was too busy. He also told me that women play games lol. He was playing me & I was the honest one. Crazy how liars try to turn everything around to deflect their deception! I know how to handle a con so he ended up apologizing & he came up with more lies! He’s a cop so it’s not like he’s afraid of me lol. My sis checked him out & he’s married with kids. He has been lying by saying that he has no kids. I saw the red flags early on so I never got intimate with him.

[@justforshow629]

I feel bad for all the kids this man has fathered.

[@alanaadams7440]

What a mess!

[@JudithSweeney-p1o]

Despite being "infertile"

[@adoseofceecee9744]

CIA stood for Conning Individuals A$$e$🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@whatsthetruth_review]

😭💯💯

[@aries4901]

@ A Dose 😆😆👍👍😆😆

[@JESUS.IS.LORD.AND.GOD.FOREVER]

😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭

[@meredithheath5272]

A good one - never thought of that!!!

[@mandymckeown8625]

😂😂😂

[@alycmatrose1501]

So no one else thought getting bought out of the CIA was mind boggling? From my extensive research of action movies, I've never heard this happen ONCE!!!😅

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

😂😂😂😂

[@clueless9245]

And he had to pay THEM to leave! Once you are caught up in the abuse, it is amazing the excuses you make for someone.

[@kylahlenore3483]

😂😂 finally found my people with this comment! I ran in the other room and told my bf about this. Dude couldn't just quit his job? Mind boggling what foolishness people will believe

[@latoyaallen2675]

How is this lady believing this???

[@tracyshaffer4510]

I said the same thing, she wanted to believe him. Crazy

[@tessaducek5601]

Desparate!

[@ds8290]

The fact that this woman continuously believes this guy is ridiculous.

[@deannesanv8931]

I didn’t hear anything about compensation or restitution for all the money he stole. Time in jail doesn’t pay for that. Where is the justice?

[@ellkmlmhmd]

OMG! As soon as she said she had to remortgage the flat to help pay a medical bill for his mom, I made sure this person is heartless beyond my imagination.

[@heatherstephens9295]

Loneliness is a really hard thing to get through & I’m sure that is why she ignored all the warning signs. All I can say is what a bloody mess!

[@JabbaBlue]

I was going to say the same thing. People do get desperate to be loved and they choose fantasy over reality. I hope she is now able to see red flags.

[@VioletJoy]

Well said.

[@numberone5680]

I can’t tolerate this story.

[@nextupafrica9897]

I’m absolutely speechless!!! The truth was infront of her from day one!! As a single mother I am very aware of men that prey on that , acting like the savior Superman .. ladies beware

[@VioletJoy]

Every red flag possible was frantically waving. I can understand falling for a cockamamie story, but to shred and burn documents to keep from the police is next level. Wow. Props to the first wife for contacting her, meeting up, and empathizing with her. I'm glad she finally woke up. Hopefully the kids are doing okay.

[@ss-wu1vp]

Since when does the CIA save lives?

[@littleredcelt]

Best comment ever!

[@user-wickedflower]

She is in England not America they don’t have CIA but MI5

[@mouldysushi]

@@user-wickedflower But Will was from the US and he was the one claiming to work for the CIA

[@heatherzloty7143]

Truly sad and shocking how little discretion people have in choosing a mate!

[@angelam886]

At that point you started not to trust him and then you handed over $20,000 anyway 🤦‍♀️

[@AidaShawJ.D.]

😂😂😂😂

[@rherron7]

😂😂😂😂

[@pixels2u]

He was "tall, dark and handsome" - yes, the actor playing the role was very handsome, but the actual dude was very goofy looking. Her rose-colored glasses were firmly in place from the start. The problem wasn't that he was unattractive, but that her desperation for a love story was profound. She was so easy for him.

[@123pickles]

I knew a sociopath/con artist like that. He told me that he never made friends with anyone unless they had something to give him. He had girlfriends all over the world. He even had a gay male friend in Hawaii who he spent the winters with. That friend financed his plane trip every year. Sociopaths have no conscience. They are devoid of feelings.

[@overlandkltolondon]

I knew a girl just like this. Female version. Boyfriends everywhere and also tried being lesbian. She told me she was a Scottish Countess lol.

[@laurastuart3814]

Did a psychiatrist diagnose him?

[@ultimateoptimist5217]

Narcissistic sociopaths are soulless and emotionless beings...run as fast as you can, block delete and never look back.

[@Roxstar477]

Each time I watch these documentaries it leaves me scratching my head. Please note, I am not blaming the victim but I am very happy when they go public. It makes me realizes I do use my brain.

[@Heyu7her3]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lisastickytuna8668]

The problem with internet dating is that they can say/be anything. I understand these women as I’ve only ever lived with my ex husband and focused on my professional career and children for 17 years. Now they’re both in medical school, and yeah, I’m lonely. Feel free to troll me, I won’t take any notice. But the 2 times I met men online were a disaster! One was a doctor, very good conversation etc .... cheated on me with a string of prostitutes. Nice, just as he’d discussed proposing after 3 years. Had to involve the police when he realised I’m never going back. Other said he was self-employed ... hadn’t worked in years! Wtf?! It was the pretence and the lies. There’s no one to vouch for their character or verify what they say, so I won’t be going down that murky road again! Yikes!

[@cliveblacksheep2522]

Lord Jesus anoint you with wisdom peace love happiness and blessings abundantly Peace be with you ❤️

[@angelaegan7511]

Dont you just long for the old days when we met men at parties and through friends and didn't have internet?

[@isay207]

When you live in a small city usually someone knows them

[@gillmiller3702]

@@angelaegan7511 this man could easily have conned someone he met at a party,

[@michelehemlokhexwhite4310]

Try getting out in your local community, volunteering, pursue hobbies where you are most likely to meet compatible people with the same interests. All the best to you

[@annettep1959]

You have got to be kidding! How many blatantly obvious red flags does a person ignore before they are are completely broke AND worse, broken! 🤷‍♀️ A cautionary tale for sure.

[@anamarie1532]

I thought she was going to say "How did we manage to have such a strong connection over pepperoni pizza" 😂 ..I guess it amounted to the same thing.

[@suehoult9062]

How would you even mention that you ordered a peperroni pizza and he said “it was his favourite too”. Ridiculous.

[@iwantthe80sback59]

I thought the exact same thing. 😊

[@StaceyJoy14]

It’s the majority of people’s favorite 😂

[@whateverchannel22]

Narrator: "To her amazement, Mary finds out she's pregnant." *Cut to Mary guzzling wine* Yep, that Mary....a daft one, she is....

[@Lucian_Media]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@treasurehunteruk9718]

If you heard the programme, he said he was STERILE due to mumps as a child!

[@mandymckeown8625]

@@Lucian_Media 😂😂😂

[@blueblue5427]

I can’t breath😂😂😂

[@treasurehunteruk9718]

@@blueblue5427 Where have we heard that before ..........

[@honeyg3589]

She’s needed to really boost her self-esteem. HUGELY.

[@violetgypsie]

Stop crawling into bed with men you barely know! All this could be avoided with some old fashioned dating and courtship. Judgement is clouded once you get between the sheets.

[@ashleyj0]

So in other words, "she asked for it"

[@violetgypsie]

@@ashleyj0 Are you putting words in my mouth to twist it to your agenda?

[@peterfreeman1585]

@@ashleyj0 From New Zealand. No ! She is just recommending the use of basic common sense which seems to be a foreign commodity among a lot of people.

[@rcg1111]

@@ashleyj0 she does have some responsibility for her situation. We make choices that have repercussions.

[@mikeballard8404]

At the beginning of the segment she said with baby in hand, " it just didn't work out with him". In the Old days a baby was a by product of it working out.

[@PrinceAbdel23]

The dude deserved life behind bars.

[@JuweriaAli]

Why is this funnier than any comedy film I have ever watched?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 cant stopl laughting spec at the "baby I work for the CIA"😂😂😂

[@peacewalker7675]

I’m sure I met this guy. He let me down in exactly the same way. I dumped him! He was very angry but I wouldn’t go back.

[@PartyMartyAnty]

Sure. Sure.

[@blupoppy608]

how many times does one have to 'not feel right' about something or someone, before they get the message something's seriously wrong. That woman said she was 'devastated' like about 5 times...hmm

[@maureenobrien9661]

I would love to be able to live in such denial. Mary is unbelievably naive, anyone with half an instinct would have twigged that this guy was not who was claiming to be. I started to feel quite annoyed with her, not too much sympathy

[@amandacarter7740]

Ive more sympathy for her kuds..she gave money in a desparate bid to keep a man!those kids lives could of been easier with the kinda cash she was trying to buy love with

[@Daniela.Mccaffrey]

She must be feeling the shame of not seeing the red flags! As a psychologist i see that all the time

[@chriscody1761]

So she has put the safe house in jeopardy, even though HE put the address on the web page !!!

[@Midgy21747]

Incredibly¬!!