Aahe mithhai, chakhen je chet kare.(There is no bitterness (un-sweetness) at the beloved’s side, all is sweet if you taste from youraffectionate desire)Thus, first condition for both the poets is love. Then, all the difficulties, all the sorrowsand all the unsweetnesses are nothing but just steps towards the real destination, the love ofGod. In that destination, someone is lost, there is no “I” nor “we” but “Beloved”. Rumi says: O Thou Whose soul is free from “we” and “I”, O thouWho art the essence of the spirit in men and women,When men and women one, Thou art One