I’m only 20 but I’m glad I can find this information. Always good to be a step ahead of the curve.
@starlight4462 жыл бұрын
20 here too
@michaelnafari20322 жыл бұрын
You're young! That's good though. I wish I had this information in my 20's. Been watching Rom for over 5 years now. The "body game" is the single most impactful thing you can do and it's the easiest to attain. Go back and watch all his videos and in conjunction, watch BGS IBMOR videos as well.
@AnAPEPlaysVR2 жыл бұрын
21 over here
@GHOST-cr2je2 жыл бұрын
@@starlight446 19
@theboyboymurph2 жыл бұрын
You are lucky some of had to find out the hard way..
@ajtaylor87502 жыл бұрын
Rom, you literally described it in a way that only someone who truly KNOWS could do it. I was a guy that was introverted but due to how much I didn't carry myself with a certain confidence and demeanor, I was always clowned on and made to be the but of everyone's jokes in high school. Instead of just going the superficial route and trying to put on muscles, get a nice whip, get my money up, and learn some game, I did the true work that forever changed me and fully accepted me for who I was and no longer allowed anyone to affect how I viewed myself. I went the loner route and just did me on a daily basis and eventually I didn't care about having more friends, and nothing really got to me because I truly loved who I was and MAN did the way people reacted and responded to me change full circle. Now, women will do almost anything to get me to even look in their direction, and men show me the utmost respect because I carry myself with an aura that says "I'm who the F I am. Take it or leave it."
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Salute!
@ellisjackson33552 жыл бұрын
I could use this advice. Thank for sharing man
@Gman1022 жыл бұрын
when you say you put in "true work" what does that entail?
@theemperor20172 жыл бұрын
Sigma male stamp🔥
@ajtaylor87502 жыл бұрын
@@Gman102 Inner work. Learning to accept my TRUE self, being comfortable with where I am now while still looking forward, and overall being solid in my life and not comparing myself to anyone.
@Redr952 жыл бұрын
The hug part, very subtle…I never ask but they initiate it. The way they do it, they linger a bit longer and it feels personal/intimate, I can feel their hands running my back. Exes always mention getting wet just hugging or kissing me.
@makhiaustin7542 жыл бұрын
As a young adult black male I appreciate these videos. Rom is really giving out so much free game to us all.
@GokuBlack-sn5dr2 жыл бұрын
that hd camera is select.
@TrillBill2 жыл бұрын
Most content creators would say "It's over", if you're not Select. I like how Rom literally gives men the blueprints on how to BECOME Select. Yes, you'll have your work cut out for you, but it's really not that dire. Nothing is easy 🦍
@kingk.25472 жыл бұрын
I always been select I had to out grow my shy quiet nature. As a teen girls didn’t care I was shy. They approach me later saw my personality. Told me I’m funny. As I became older the shyness was a turn off . A female coworker said it come off as not confident. It pissed me off because I wasn’t insecure. As i develop myself I was still quiet. But my demeanor how I walked. Displays confidence I attract more women now. I did realize my demeanor came off as timid. I knew that’s why I got into it with guys a lot. Now my demeanor is different men don’t play with me. I don’t have to raise my voice my demeanor make them second guess. How I walk attract women. I always remember this taller women staring. I never notice I was into working out. When I turned around I notice her just staring. I looked in the mirror at my walk. I notice how I had this nice walk. I notice men were looking and talking about me lol
@TrillBill2 жыл бұрын
Story of my life, man. 💯
@lo80202 жыл бұрын
When I was younger this is exactly how it was for me always been select except I was shy/quiet. Some people thought I was cocky/arrogant even though i barely spoke? Some women told me i was standoffish because i was shy an didn't speak much as stupid as it sounds.
@x97s2 жыл бұрын
Same I was shy and girls were checking for me..
@kingk.25472 жыл бұрын
@@lo8020 I'm told I'm standoffish I am I'm not friendly. I will have a conversation I don't show my personality. A person has to speak to see it
@oneweapon2 жыл бұрын
Same story with me. I feel like a lot of women seem afraid of me. But then everyone says I'm handsome or thinks I'm a player 😅 Well, it is a plus to be respected cuz I give it and I expect it.
@django31082 жыл бұрын
When I was 16-19, I had a lot of edge/directness (and not much tact) growing up and dealing with girls (worked out about half the time, which I was cool with), but allowed myself to be squared out dealing with too many non-black squares and circles telling me my edge was bad and allat... I ended up compromising my own identity for them to fuck with me more, and those were the worst two years of my college life. Felt like I was powerless, always holding back my true emotions and intents, taking people's shit, never good enough, and never in control. Eventually, I said fuck the people pleasing, and stopped suppressing my edge/went back to my natural Mode 1 state. Because I also mentally grew during those years, I gained significantly more tact and swagger about my edge, so women were far more receptive (I was a natural nerd but no one suspects it because of how bold my personality is). My own depression was fixed in weeks. Sexual transmutation was easier. It's real asf. I'm almost 23 now and I've never felt happier not blunting my own sword.
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm talking about. Keep Rising!
@oneweapon2 жыл бұрын
Bro how did you change back?
@django31082 жыл бұрын
@@oneweapon remembering who I was, and analyzing ways in which I was repressing my true self. And then I worked to break the habits.
@oneweapon2 жыл бұрын
Thanks...time to do some reflecting
@busyrand2 жыл бұрын
As a Kappa and former D1 Football Player, I've seen each aspect of what Unc spoke on. The shortest frat brothers have the prettiest wives. I've had teammates with amazing physiques who still struggled with women because they lacked social/sexual charisma. Every year my fraternity did a dinners and dates auction where the women on campus lobbied for us to have certain guys participate in the event. It served as an excellent gauge of attraction across racial/class/social lines on campus.
@theemperor20172 жыл бұрын
Dinner dates auction🔥🔥
@drehill12764 ай бұрын
WHAT UP NUPE? 👌🏿
@busyrand4 ай бұрын
@@drehill1276 What Good Phi!...
@ds2disciple2 жыл бұрын
I’m in law school now Uncle Rom and these women stay peeping me lmao I was sitting with a hg yesterday reading and we been wearing masks but I had mine down, so when I looked up I caught a chick holding hands with her man dead staring at me. Also just had a girl in my class move from the back row to sit right next to me and she invited me to her house warming party this weekend. I’m trying to stay on my purpose but it’s wild out here haha. Blessings!
@malonetravis57852 жыл бұрын
Lol a chick stared at you. Probably because everyone wearing a mask and yours was down bro
@denzel94552 жыл бұрын
Chicks stare at 50+ people a day it's not really saying anything and to be fair most women are in their own world lol - Same as when a woman is greeting you she is doing that to tons of other people at least 5 days a week.
@malonetravis57852 жыл бұрын
@@denzel9455 literally bruh.
@ds2disciple2 жыл бұрын
@@malonetravis5785 it happened in an area where people can take their masks off. So what I think you’re implying (that maybe she was surprised someone had it off) doesn’t hold much weight. But yeah, I get that her stare doesn’t mean much of anything
@ds2disciple2 жыл бұрын
@@denzel9455 you’re right bro, she probably was in her own world lol
@rellconnects46952 жыл бұрын
Do the work. Become the best version of self be selectable
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
That's all a man needs to do.
@cohesionfield2 жыл бұрын
Another amazing drop Master Rom. I always find myself awakening another part of my masculinity while I'm living life and heeding your words. I appreciate it.
@Ajay.4272 жыл бұрын
🔥 🔥 video for uncle rom. Most dudes don't know that they are select. One of my old workplace all the female knew my name and I didn't even know all of them. (Very big school). The females were like "hi Ajay". ( I am 5ft 4, so height is not a excuses). Tall females love me more.
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Truthfully people are the same size laying down. She has more leg to wrap around your back.
@Ajay.4272 жыл бұрын
@@cinemathequerouge317 most men don't think their the shit due to the culture that we live in .
@Ajay.4272 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills facts. They never bought up my height.
@ThePaul95592 жыл бұрын
Great testimony brother
@slim37102 жыл бұрын
Like the lighting on the video 🔥
@TheBookofrhymes2 жыл бұрын
You’re a national treasure Rom! 👑
@Raimund-t7c10 ай бұрын
International treasure
@judekabongo19952 жыл бұрын
Just received my copy of nice guys and players last night I’m ready to transform Unc got a lot of respect for you from Toronto, Canada
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your support.
@BrothaSchwifty Жыл бұрын
How was the book?
@judekabongo1995 Жыл бұрын
@@BrothaSchwifty very good read bro
@tymejefferson85152 жыл бұрын
All truth Rom, sexual attraction is first, that's exactly why guys should not lead with their wallet.
@AbhilashGupta33 Жыл бұрын
Rom i feel like you are going to make a dad joke anytime between your wisdom lessons...you have such a nice energy 🙏😂
@chicken_tender2182 жыл бұрын
Okay okay, ROM playing Dexter G in the background. This man is integrated y’all. Appreciate you brother, I always learn something new from your content. Can always come back to your library for a clarity check.
@starlight4462 жыл бұрын
It's crazy I literally just finished reading nice guys and players. All in one go. Fuck a Mr.Goodbar and a Gamesman(Gas tank on E, all dranks on me!) I'm working to be a real man.
@regal76772 жыл бұрын
I'm solidly pre-select. Unfortunately it's still very much nonselect. I get attention positive & negative both strongly, recieve gifts on a regular basis, have a strong physique..but no too much "nany". It's discouraging..
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Build up what's working for you. Minimize what isn't working. Learn from each encounter.
@sniper11n.d.342 жыл бұрын
Be social but from a distance to other guys. With women be aware but keep an eye on them. I always have the upper hand especially with women. The smart ones are easy because they think they have it all figured out but they don't. Be you and don't be someone you aren't. 👊🤙
@carlosgonzalez46252 жыл бұрын
appreciate the love yesterday loving the consistency Mr.Rom guna make sure too get my copy of ur book
@andrecrapps79142 жыл бұрын
YOU KNOW ME! I LOVE IT WHEN YOU CURSE BRUH!....AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, THE FACT THAT YOU'RE GIVING YOURSELF CREDIT FOR TERMS YOU'VE CREATED....REAL ISH!
@baileyedward774 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom is mastery of one’s sexual energy/sexual force.Macking/Mackin’ is fully developing one’s Body Game,Charisma,and Masculinity to A-1 levels. Seduction is mastery of reading accurately how moist,how wet women are for you as a man.
@reflection8599 Жыл бұрын
I remember a girl who was highly attracted to me and I played it nonchalant. Then she bought me an iphone 6 plus unlocked when it came out even though I didnt need it. It was about £1000. 😂
@victorscott79822 жыл бұрын
If you ain’t Getting her mind wet 💦, naw you ain’t doing it right
@x97s2 жыл бұрын
Rom is right select men have similar experiences its crazy
@cavaliib1889Ай бұрын
Uncle Rom ain’t lying at all
@TheCluesRNTheBlues2 жыл бұрын
You can also observe the dichotomy at “institutions of higher judgement”.
@Mansamoor3692 жыл бұрын
Blessings and Gratitude for the Jewels. Peace Prosperity
@Jsmooth2642 жыл бұрын
As a Pet Peeve Unc I hate it when women your own age don't respect you as much as someone Older. Huge Lack Of respect, & I Can't stand that stuff.
@Fresh360Waves2 жыл бұрын
I feel like it’s even worse when you don’t look your age. The pay off is on the back end though.
@TrillBill6 ай бұрын
Yeah, older women tend to be cool with me as well. I think it's because we see people our age as competition. Both genders do this (subconsciously)
@reclaimedlegion98302 жыл бұрын
Haha, "who they're backing that thing up for"
@andrecrapps79142 жыл бұрын
MO' MONEY! MO' MONEY!....LOL...YOU STAY PROMOTING YOUR PUBLICATIONS....MAD FUNNY BUT DEFINITELY I'M TUNED IN...
@-whiskey-41347 ай бұрын
I’ve been with my woman for 8 years, but before her I got women just simply because I’m naturally funny. I’m 5”6’, average below, far from being rich, had no car at the time. Oh, I’m a great cook too, actually cool for a living. Good food and good laughs worked for me. Obv im not really in the game anymore, I found my partner for the time being unless she decides to move on later down the line. But I still put it on her, I’m not slacking just cause I have her. I have more going for me now to as years have passed and ai’ve grown and improved. She sees the I’m building too. I haven’t strayed from pursuing my goals and I’ve been making things happen right in front of her. So she knows I’m not a bum and that I may not have it all now, but is willing to stick with me because she sees it coming together too. I’m living it every day.
@AgelessIlluminate2 жыл бұрын
Loving the new camera, man. Real crisp.
@bangmygavel2 жыл бұрын
Some of the best players I know are short.
@skeelo62192 жыл бұрын
Select & Non-Select, Mr Goodbar, The Body Game, etc, etc. This sh!t is tight! Maybe u can throw in a few patents 🤔
@jajajaja26242 жыл бұрын
relationships are only mating that's it all this stuff is just noise . I will always believe most women are not in a relationships with the man that's her sexual it moved by just looking at him . I know for women will try in some kind of to have sex that dude married or not children or not . Hitting a emotionally and physically is to different things . I like having a woman emotionally attached because her body will follow .
@eltigredetejas23282 жыл бұрын
18:50 -19:10 kinfolk 🤫 they not gone believe you at all because it ain’t never happened to them 🗣
@NightKnight252 жыл бұрын
New camera? Looks good.
@user-qm7ws1hb5x2 жыл бұрын
I don’t call u unc for no reason💯. Peace✌🏾
@jonmartinez55772 жыл бұрын
Rom is the master
@andracadicecrawford42562 жыл бұрын
Soooo true!
@preciousegbegi9752 жыл бұрын
Thanks Uncle Rom, it’s also narrated on sexlife
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Perfect example of what I talk about.
@ndemafiatazi2 жыл бұрын
I see them gains unc
@jamescox9080 Жыл бұрын
I don't know we got a lot of problems if it all that great why so much chaos
@RomWills Жыл бұрын
Not enough Select men.
@jholliday32 жыл бұрын
What's pre select? Will see if you have a video.
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
That's the point where a man has to do a few more tweaks to become Select
@jholliday32 жыл бұрын
@@RomWills thanks👌🏽👊🏽
@eltigredetejas23282 жыл бұрын
18:40 Facts 😂
@bigredatjsu2 жыл бұрын
Don’t mention the gift buying to other men…they’ll hate you for it
@andrecrapps79142 жыл бұрын
TELL ME; IF YOU DON'T WANT TO TELL THEM.....LOL
@ap67222 жыл бұрын
Hey Rom i heard you talk about tantric sex and sexual transmutation. Do you believe in the benefits of holding in your life force and if yes do you think women get more attracted to you?
@RomWills2 жыл бұрын
Not by itself. You would have to increase your vitality first. Some men are simply repressed. You have to have the fire first.