BOUNDARIES IN CHRISTIAN DATING || What YOU need to know!

[@RonnieandMel]

Thanks for watching todays video! So do you have boundaries for your dating life? Let us know, down below. Also make sure to download these boundaries and more at ronnieandmel.com/singles guide and watch WHY YOU NEED BOUNDARIES here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iYGzhYJ9f7Wqorc Bless you guys!

[@MG-ch9gl]

Ronnie and Mel I have a question mal when you put boundaries on your husband when you guys were friends what were those boundaries because I’m also working on boundaries myself now

[@nehneh5488]

Please pray for me Ronnie and Mel. I have fallen for a celebrity and am captivated by him every moment. It's hurting me and my relationship with Christ 💔

[@Sofiyanaviolet]

Hey ronnie and mel how are you guys doing? i cant download your boundaries list does this link still work? Have a great day🌼

[@lawsonkarsyn677]

InstaBlaster...

[@hamilton9651]

I was rejected for years by the single women in my church. I learned to survive without women! I never dated or loved anyone! My life is a total mess. And it's not going to improve!

[@MissMadelineMM94]

3 day fast from each other to focus on God, what a way to seek God. So glad I stumbled on this channel.

[@koley1723]

That spoke to me too 👌🏾

[@brittanyparistx]

I love that!!!! Such a great idea!

[@Alien_from_plutoo]

No such thing as stumbling, coincidence and mistakes, it's either God directed/put it on your path or the devil brings it to you so it's left to you to assess the situation and know whom it's from or pray about it 😌

[@sydney_ranae]

My boyfriend and I decided to set boundaries in our relationship a few months ago. It’s been incredibly difficult, but so worth it!

[@RonnieandMel]

+Sydney Mouton that is awesome sister! And years down the road, whether you are still together or with others, you will look back and be so grateful! It is all worth it! Bless you Sydney!

[@fightstar1777]

How is it going? Are you still together? 🌈💕

[@lisar5349]

Just set my first boundary in a relationship that has already been physical. It was so hard for me to do but in my new found faith I knew it was what I needed to do to remain true to who I am. I was completely surprised how receptive and understanding he was! Even suggested we think together on other things we could do together that wouldn't impede on my boundaries. I don't know what our future holds but just goes to show you never know. Always best to be upftont either way 💜❤

[@RonnieandMel]

+Lisa R that’s awesome! So glad you’re setting boundaries and seeing success! 🖤

[@antoinette7030]

So how did it go?

[@lisar5349]

@@antoinette7030 wow crazily enough just got contacted by this person yesterday. This relationship was during covid and he ended up moving out of state due to his job

[@trinitytv7_]

Fasting from eachother each month for 3 days lol I love that !

[@jessyjonas4988]

"fast 3 days from each other every week!😱, That's some serious boundary! But I love it! 😇 Purity, not just of our bodies but also as it pertains to our heart, mind, and soul. " Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry." Colossians 3:5✝️ Really great content with excellent delivery! Thank you both🙏

[@RonnieandMel]

+jessy jonas oh sorry! Haha did we say every week? We meant every month! That would be intense! Haha and yes, everything flows from the HEART. Keep that pure and all else will follow. Bless you!

[@jessyjonas4988]

@@RonnieandMel perhaps I heard week🙃. Still the concept is excellent!! I love you both and especially the way you both love God. 😇

[@trinityfaith2397]

Lol the part where Ronnie says you dumped him for a day. So glad you got back together! 😂✝️💜👏

[@RonnieandMel]

+Trinity Faith haha us too! But it’s always important to be honest and truly have our relationships surrendered to the Lord! Bless you sis 🖤

[@ccorriniee]

Mel, i love when you said that you and Ronnie had a past together before you guys knew Jesus. My current boyfriend and I had a past together years ago and now we are both in a relationship with God at the center of it. Hes blessed us so much.

[@RonnieandMel]

+Corrine Bennett that’s amazing! God writes the most perfect stories and knows exactly what we need! Bless you 🖤

[@missmalan]

I love how y'all put God first by fasting! So good!

[@RonnieandMel]

+Life With Sam it was SO helpful and God did SO much during those times! Bless you sis!

[@blockbusterlady5993]

Me and my boyfriend decided 3 months ago to cut all sexual acts out of our relationship and we have kept it up so well...there hasn't been much temptation to break that rule since I know in my heart that God is more important and I've never really been a very sexual person.

[@RonnieandMel]

Any desire for holiness comes from God! He is so thankful for your obedience to Him. He loves you! We are so glad to have you here with us! Bless you 🖤

[@laurasantiago9894]

Never forget that JESUS CHRIST SCARFICED himself for us amen GOD BLESS ALL💗💕

[@rolandoamirmirabalhinojosa7091]

2:50 wise and courage decision to ask Mel's dad permission to date! well done Ronnie! in our days this act is so missed but needed if we are real man

[@mrvaskokurko]

Oh I didn't catch that! But I love that idea as well. Gentleman game is where it's at.

[@estefanierivera7045]

I’ve never been in a relationship but these videos are really helpful for the future God bless you

[@briankc21]

I am married but still love watching all the videos!! Great channel!!

[@RonnieandMel]

+Brian Sprague haha love it! Cause you never know when you may need to give someone this same advice! Bless you brother!

[@briankc21]

@@RonnieandMel Thank you!

[@trinityfaith2397]

Me too. I love what you guys are doing! ❤️🙏

[@kaylacalnan3755]

I am a christian and feel God has called me to ministry. I ride motorcross and have grown up basically the same way you both did. When I found your channel today It was super awesome to see people that love the same things as I do. I Love how you guys love Jesus and want to make a difference in the world today but sharing Gods love! You guys are amazing continue to encourage and share Gods love, it is changing so many lives! This world is so broken and your love for Jesus and giving people hope is truly a calling from Jesus and you guys took that calling and ran with it obeying God. That is so amazing! Continue changing lives:)) -Kayla

[@annmathews]

Wow! "Fasting from each other"! That surely comes from a heart that has it's priorities clear! 💯 Amazing. I'm single. But I've already thought of sth like this when I'll start dating....wow our hearts resonate! 💓 Super glad to have come across your channel and your testimony deae Ronnie and Melissa!

[@jennafer42]

I have an accountability partner, but more to talk through what I’m going through. I like the idea of writing a list prior to meeting someone (proactive boundaries & expectations) versus deciding how I should act given a specific circumstance (reactive boundaries & expectations). Thanks for the videos! A lot to think about with continuing to grow towards God! Also! If you ever do a bonus video - I wanna hear about Mel breaking up with Ronnie for a day. What was that all about?! 🙂

[@RonnieandMel]

Hahaha it wasn’t much! Just had a fear/apprehension about something and broke up with him. I had really high expectations haha that were sometimes unattainable unless you are Jesus in the flesh haha. But Ronnie wanted to show he could do it and it just showed me a maturity and a desire in him to grow. So he won me back.

[@RonnieandMel]

Hahaha it wasn’t much! Just had a fear/apprehension about something and broke up with him. I had really high expectations haha that were sometimes unattainable unless you are Jesus in the flesh haha. But Ronnie wanted to show he could do it and it just showed me a maturity and a desire in him to grow. So he won me back.

[@RonnieandMel]

And glad the video was helpful! And yes, way better to stand on your convictions and make up your mind beforehand, cause we all know those emotions just get in the way haha

[@christinagonzalez3270]

This series was genuinely such a blessing! Thank you for following the call of God on you both to start this channel and allow the Lord to minister and feed wisdom to His people through you! God bless you both! 💕

[@RonnieandMel]

+Christina Gonzalez that is so awesome to hear, Christina! So glad to have you here with us. Bless you sister 🖤

[@facelesspodcaster5594]

@@RonnieandMel this is not realistic at all.

[@pearlkuffour6841]

You are officially my favorite couple ... Mel, you speak With so much grace I could listen to you all day! I love you guys - hopefully someday my husband and I can sit and chat with you ❤️

[@christinathurber5355]

Hello Ronnie and Mel, I enjoyed watching your video and it was very helpful. As a single mom, I have not given much thought about dating but I will definitely pray and write down what my boundaries would be, if it is God's will that He has someone for me.: ) Thank you so much for all that you both do to glorify God! Blessings, Christina Thurber

[@RonnieandMel]

+christina thurber Amen Christina! And like you said, if it’s Gods will! But it’s always good to be prepared beforehand. Bless you dear sister

[@zz-t8109]

Yes, but: you tow have had sex before meeting again, which gave you serenity about what you were to expect. But I think I can do likewise nevertheless. Thank you for your work & fun

[@amandavalentino3818]

Marriage is more than sex. People change everyday so a contract doesn’t make people loyal to each other. Loving the Lord and making him priority in your life in all areas helps make and keep marriage.

[@toosing19]

Ummm... this is literally excellent. You two are really anointed.

[@yever4635]

I absolutely LOVED the fasting from each other for 3 days once a month! So good

[@lizzymartin6916]

ive been single for 9 years, i am tired of men who keep pushing for kisses (to see if there is chemistry) and sex. why is it always my responsibility to create and enforce boundaries? why can't men my age (Im 57) exercise some self control???

[@jasonleeroyalty5113]

Thanks For The Teaching. I am realizing how much my life has been built on a sand foundation. You guys seem to be firmly grounded on the rock. Building Your Lives On His Word & Obedience To His Word. I plan to spend and hour a week from now on investing in your teaching and following your example. (Starting right now, this hour) Watching your videos has helped me significantly, but I need to invest a least an hour a week studying the materials and putting more action into what your teaching. I know it will help me get more firmly grounded on the rock. As always "Thank you for your leadership, love, and prayers." So thankful for you both. ♥️😎

[@RonnieandMel]

Jason, I am glad you mentioned this because it is true! Our teachings are really just like showing you the “menu” of what is available in God, but each person has to then go order it and eat it for themselves to actually reap the benefits! And it takes work, effort, and intentionally on our part! No one can know God for us! But this is Gods invitation! He wants to take you even deeper brother and He sees your “yes”! Bless you bro

[@daviocampi6951]

Wow! Well done and thanks for posting all the important parts where boundaries are necessary to protect the friendship. It is so good to see that you must have received Godly counsel, to navigate the potential stumbling blocks in developing a healthy dating relationship and eventually into marriage for life.

[@fergfergable]

Ooops, disregard my last comment (which i can't find now) about the guidelines. Thank you so much for this! You've reinforced my true desire of waiting even for a kiss until marriage. These videos have ignited a fire i haven't had for hte Lord in a long time. thank you

[@RonnieandMel]

+Caitlin Ferguson that is awesome to hear sister! You are so welcome! Bless you 🖤

[@paulhadarian4544]

GOD BLESS Ronnie and Mel! Beautiful lessons🙏🏻🙏🏻 All GLORY TO KING JESUS

[@Cristina-pi7en]

I ♥️ These series, very inspiring to show Respect to God, yourself and your future spouse🙏 Peace

[@RonnieandMel]

+Cristina glad you are enjoying it! Glad to have you here! Bless you sister 🖤

[@jordanortega865]

Love this advice, definitely planning to make a list as I am entering Christian dating. Accountability is definitely necessary, as well as reliance and devotion to God. I might also present the three day fasting ideal. As a person who regularly recharges on alone time, I don’t think this will be a struggle for me 🤣 anyways, happy new year to you both!🎉😁

[@lovelove303]

Dumped me for a day..... You are no joke MEL 😀. I have enjoyed the video... Great advice THANKS♥️

[@meghangossett3091]

Really helpful I enjoy how relatable and easy to follow your videos are instead of just quoting scripture. The how and why makes the application of the word easier to understand

[@RonnieandMel]

Love that! Thanks for that insight Meghan! Super helpful to know! Bless you sister!

[@ScottH-e7y]

Spiritual life

[@VictoriaMeeks-i1x]

Thanks 🙏 I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU BOTH 🙏😊 GOD BLESS YOU 🙏

[@liontribeofjudah5616]

Hi Ronnie and Mel.. Sister Elizabeth from PC FLORIDA.. Awesome video! Blessed by your teaching tonight.. So, glad to see you two are well.. ABBA bless you both and OPEN a "WIDER DOOR" of influence in the Holy Spirit, through this dating and boundaries series of teachings.. Boundaries are missing in today's world.."God centerness"..is missing in today's world..what a wonderful way to make a difference one person at a time! If we all had "boundaries in place" before and during dating.. MARRIAGES would be as He intended...our Father intended them to be.."Christ centered." One out of two Christian marriages end in divorce..That is a sad statistic I read about a few years back.. Today, praise God...that is changing.. I know God had a plan for you two to do this important ministry.. He has to set "crooked paths straight"..and reconcile broken hearts and mend relationships and help singles guard their hearts during dating to prepare Saints entering into marriage. This is a HUGE DOOR..A HUGE AREA OF INFLUENCE for you both.. AS WELL AS THE Minstry for the YOUTH..THE YOUTH NEED THESE boundaries too. You should write a BOOK on dating boundaries and with an emphasis on holiness and purity before God. It would reach millions of believers that need help..and the tools for success in this struggling area.. Love to you both. REST in His peace..His loving embrace..

[@RonnieandMel]

+Lion Tribe of Judah I want to meet you someday, Elizabeth! You are constantly such a breath of fresh air and an encouragement for us! Thank you for always giving us strength to continue on! It means more than you know. And we actually knew in our dating season that we weren’t just staying pure for the Lord and for us, but for a young generation behind us that needed that witness. And we had such a fear of the Lord and knew it would someday be in a book. So journeying into the publishing world in 2020 is a goal we absolutely have! Hope you are doing well dear sister. He DELIGHTS in you!

[@liontribeofjudah5616]

@@RonnieandMel If it is His will Sister Mel..we will meet.. I would love to embrace you both..thanking God for all His divine appointments.. I will be praying for this first book.. Cannot wait to read it ...and see how the people of God grow into mature vessels for His use and glory.. such an exciting time for you..I Rejoice in your success through Him..

[@sl4983]

Shouldn't a pastor be guiding and overseeing the Christian couple?

[@larrytyler8601]

I'm lonely and nobody loves me! My girlfriend left me for a crippled homeless guy in a wheelchair. I remember that day when she left waving good bye sitting in his lap riding away very slowly in his old raggedy wheelchair! It's not fair! I asked our pstor why this happened and he said because I smelled bad! He said my girlfriend left a smelly bag of onions for a homeless guy with wheels. I was devasted . He told me to ask God but God never answered my prayers before. But this time God answered me . I was sitting in my little wood broken chair at my broken wooden table eating my porridge for supper and God said , Look at you Larry! Feeling sorry for yourself! Well it's your fault stinky! You need to take a bath and this time use soap!

[@HamiltonRowan-r6z]

My boundaries are fulproof. I don't date. Works very well.

[@karen94558]

Thank you for helping how to start over in a biblical way. Where to go in the word for advice and guidance. 🙏🙏🙏

[@nathalieepp7731]

Hi Ronnie and Mel. I am Brazilian 🇧🇷 and I am loving your videos. Your advice is being a great help to me. I am very grateful for this channel. You are a blessing ❤️✝️

[@RonnieandMel]

Aww so awesome! We 🖤 Brazil! 🇧🇷 We’ve both spent time there! Rio, São Paulo, and Fortaleza! Glad to have you here with us sis!

[@vajmango]

How do you deal with masturbation outside of marriage? Thank you.

[@german-ln6ho]

Hey Ronnie and Mel, I really enjoy watching your videos. I thought that I knew a lot about dating and stuff, but so far you've been proving that I was wrong and that I still need to learn a lot more. So I'm 17 (almost 18) and I've got a question. What do you do when a girl is calling you her "Best Guy Friend" but at the same time it feels like she is ignoring you sometimes. As if you are not friends at all. But then you go on a youth trip and you are like best friends again. Is it me who is doing something incorrect or is it her mistake? And how should I react to this, because many times I felt very lonely and even broken and then when I meet her again, it seems as if nothing sad ever happened from her point of view. But I still feel shattered on the inside but I don't notice it when having a good conversation with her. I am a christian and God is my number one priority, but what do you think I should do to not feel ignored by her? God bless you! Thanks!

[@RonnieandMel]

+german200217 aww so sorry to hear about this brother. That is hard and if you watch our BOUNDARIES WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX video last week, these are some of the scenarios that can happen in friendships that can hurt our heart. When people say “best friend”, “best guy friend” a lot of times they do it because it gives them a sense of ownership. Like they need something to feel good about themselves and so they say that hoping that person will always be there for them. But it’s normal out of a selfish fear of something. And it’s sad for people on the other end, as you can feel a little used. I would definetly try and set some boundaries on your end in your heart. If you need to have a conversation, you could, to define some things. But I would keep all girl friends on the same level, not one getting super close access. If you want to date someone then they can come closer. But friends I would keep them all equally at a healthy distance until there is some intentional step towards dating. Does that make any sense?

[@german-ln6ho]

@@RonnieandMel It is so true when you said,"feel a little used" because that is exactly how I felt at one point and still do from time to time. I've seen several of your boundaries videos and I will definitely add them into my life because so far it looks like they only benefit people. I'm mostly not sure if I'm doing everything correctly from my side, and what can I do to only improve. She is my closest friend right now and I'm scared to push her back since I know that it will hurt me emotionally, and I don't want her to be even more broken because she is going through some difficult stresses right now. I'm really trying to find Gods will in all of this mess and to feel him close again, but my prayers kinda feel empty right now. I'm already praying for three families right now and I'm very worried for all of them, plus I'm trying to figure out my own difficulties which adds even more stress. I pray to God every day, several times per day but sometimes it feels like my prayers are not heard. What should I do and can you please pray for me? Thanks and God Bless You!

[@RonnieandMel]

Aww absolutely praying for you brother! That’s a lot. Just keep giving it to God. As far as your friendships, it definitely can be complicated cause our hearts can get a little involved, so perhaps just have a conversation about you wanting to really focus on growing your community with other men and encourage her to seek our deeper friendships with girls. Not because anyone did anything wrong but just that is where you feel God leading. I think it would be great to get in good community with other guys! But we will definitely be praying for you brother. BeLive that He is with you, believe that He cares about you, your heart and your prayers, and maybe get in the Word and really focus on those verses. Declare them until you believe it again. He is proud of you brother. You have a pure heart and He sees it! Bless you!

[@german-ln6ho]

@@RonnieandMel Thank you so much for all your hard work and encouragement. It helps me soo much. God bless you

[@RonnieandMel]

It is our pleasure brother! Bless you

[@Itscaleighgrace]

WOW! Your channel has grown so much! Congrats guys! Great video too BTW! ❤️ We're about to film one like this also!

[@RonnieandMel]

+Josh and Caleigh that’s awesome guys! Keep going for it! Bless you both

[@clarakirksey7282]

In the last video I thought ya’ll said you fasted for 3 days of the month, like not eating for 3 days, for prayer and fasting, and then here I see it was fasting from EACH OTHER and I was like “OHHH that makes much more sense!!” I was like wow that’s hard core not eating like 36 days out of the year! 😂 but on a serious note, either way, it’s an encouragement to me. I love ya’ll’s story and thank you for the videos.

[@sl4983]

That's what i thought too.

[@TesterBoy]

If you are a disciplined Christian (basically what it means being a disciple), boundaries are a no brainer.

[@kyleedwards7884]

What do you suggest for a long distance relationship where sex already occurred?

[@MeghanRidgell]

Thank you so much for doing this video!! I love this. You guys are so precious!! I am on my celibacy journey and I couldn't be happier. Always makes me so happy to watch these types of videos. I cannot wait to talk more about it on my channel as well. Keep up the hard and amazing work!! :)

[@matthewweeks319]

This is really fantastic video! Great job!

[@jarie9689]

Loved the video! Question: Should my boyfriend be leading our boundaries? Or should it be 50/50 since we aren’t married?

[@salaltschul3604]

He doesn't speak for you or determine what you will or won't do with your time and body. Those are up to you.

[@jennwangs1445]

Thank you Ron and Mel I started to pray for my life partner.. I had a past but now I'm single and wanted to start afresh with boundary with new partner. Please pray for me

[@jessekruger3509]

Same here,I had a past, but I want to start fresh with a relationship where God is the center with my future partner.Please pray for me and I will you

[@jennwangs1445]

@@jessekruger3509 sure

[@hughsmyth9527]

A man should only be head of the home when he is married. That doesn't apply to dating.

[@doesitmatter413]

what do you do if you're a guy that is waiting till marriage and has set boundaries in his life, and a girl wants to be intimate with you? How do you tell her no, or how do tell her to step back without losing her.

[@MissMadelineMM94]

how do you suggest implementing these boundaries with your partner because what if they feel imposed upon? 8:06 my question answered.

[@nehneh5488]

I need prayers. I have an unhealthy obsession towards a celebrity and the infatuation is killing me.

[@yazzybartlett8997]

May I ask what do you mean challenge each other ??? Really trying to understand . Thank you replaying ☺️

[@Rissa98000000]

Having boundaries in a long distance relationship adds another level of difficulty. Especially with time spent together. We don’t have the option to only see each other in public or not be in the house alone together unless we don’t see each other at all. He lives in Hawaii so hotels are super expensive and not an option either. Does anyone have any experience with this or some advice?

[@lydiep6814]

I agree with these but I’m not too sure about not talking this seems like the silent treatment and this isn’t healthy.

[@westmoreauto8752]

What happened to you two? Did something go wrong?

[@jeffy34120]

Thank you for this serie of videos. I think I hadn’t realised how important it was to put boundaries and that purity to please God was the aim.

[@RonnieandMel]

+Jade Koloina so glad you’re seeing the importance in this! God loves us and wants the best for us. Bless you on this journey🖤

[@EdwardQuixote]

I'm currently dating and my girlfriend just introduced this "Boundaries" topic into our relationship after watching two of your videos on boundaries. Honestly, I'm not sure I can do it. Feels like: 1) I'm being put in a cage purported as a "Godly relationship" 2) I'm being coerced to into marrying her sooner After all these years of happy living, how I'm I supposed to just stop touching her and wait till marriage? I'm not sure I can do this. Now, if I don't do it, then I end up leading her into what she terms as a sinful relationship. I'm not that bad, well, at least, I'm a very respectful man - I care about her spirituality, especially now that she's been so much about it. Let me cut the story short: I feel like this marks the end of our relationship. I feel like I should leave her to focus on her spirituality rather than staying around and leading her into a sinful relationship. It hurts and it's very stressing, but I can't think of any other way to make her life better. (Another thing, Sweetie, I know you'll be back here to re-watch this video soon, and you'll probably see this comment. If you do, please just assume I was drunk while typing or that you didn't see any comment.)

[@Zamstein]

Edward Ndukui ... hi. I noticed you wrote to your sweetie and said if she reads your comment to ignore it etc etc or assume you were under the influence. That sparked my curiosity- because that statement is revealing the state of your heart, also what you said about feeling put into a cage by a godly relationship. It sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of fear and may not be ready for marriage. Or; maybe if you look at it another way as an opportunity to get ready for the woman you love, which love can inspire us all to change. Either way you will need to ask God to help you conquer this fear in order to be righteous. Most people want to be happy and don’t want to be righteous; but in reality if you put righteousness first you will find happiness. Godly relationships will make us happy, and a good woman is a blessing. The fact that your woman is desiring God means she is seeking Holy Righteousness and that’s not a trap; or a prison. To address your second comment about being coerced into marrying her sooner, how long have you been together? If you’re serious about the relationship, I’m just wondering why marriage wouldn’t be included in that? Making commitments can be scary but Holy Covenants are a protection to both the man and the wife. You are benefiting from a godly woman, as a god fearing woman is a blessing to a man. I feel I can say this more easily to you because I am a stranger but Jesus loves you and will never leave you, it might help to try to make some time for yourself to pray and speak with Him. Ask Him to reveal Himself and His desires for your life to you. Be careful about hurting the woman you love out of fear, sometimes we can’t undo those types of mistakes. God can change your heart to match His will, if we humbly seek Him and ask.

[@Beeble90]

@@EdwardQuixote your girlfriend is lucky to have you... God plans are amazing, I hope you find your way together 💚

[@way2girly]

Edward Ndukui you can ask the Holy Spirit for help and fast when God prompts you too. 😊

[@KekeMoloto]

@@EdwardQuixote Look at God! This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

[@sl4983]

How long have you been dating

[@womanofgod701]

Start bieng friends first go slow guard ur heart

[@josephmousley2394]

Gosh. Wow. I’d love to FaceTime you both, would love to converse with you on this!

[@AmandaSpree-nv7wx]

You guys look like a rehab romance 😂😂😂

[@tishs977]

Love this!! This helps a lot! Love the fasting part!

[@RonnieandMel]

+Tish S that seriously was huge in our dating life! Bless you! 🖤

[@champagnesylvie-lavieenfra1378]

✝️ *_Hello to all my blessed brothers and sisters_* 🎄⛪ *I love your videos, they are interesting and this one is really great* *_I wish you a Merri and a Ⓗ░Ⓐ░ⓟ░ⓟ░Ⓨ░ CHRISTmass from la FRANCE in Europe_* 🥂✨🎁 ✝️🎄⛪ 𝓑𝓔 𝓑𝓛𝓔𝓢𝓢 𝓲𝓷 J𝓔𝓢𝓤𝓢 𝓝𝓐𝓜𝓔 🥂✨🎁 👉🏻🗼 *Best regards from a Frenchie chistian sister* 🍾🍷🍇

[@womanofgod701]

Emotional physical spiritual

[@womanofgod701]

Kiss on cheek forehead maybe

[@millaeunsol]

This is so practically helpful! 💛💛💛I'm really glad you guys chose to share your experience and specific examples!!!! I appreciate it thanks guys (:

[@RonnieandMel]

+Eun Sol Cho that is great to hear sister! So glad it was helpful for you! Bless you 🖤

[@jamie8005]

How did you all do long distance?

[@Soldier4ChristTV]

Yoooooo Team Faisst!😎 What's poppin'?😁 Man, God is TRULY usin' u guys 2 speak the truth!👍 4 those who r single (like me)😌😂 I already believe that God's daughters should be treated with respect!😁 But these reminders r DEFINITELY ones that NEED 2B taken 2 heart! If one TRULY wants a Christ-like relationship/marriage, (like myself)😌😂 these tips MUST be practiced!👍 Ronnie, Mel, thanks 4 continuing 2 use your past experiences 2 help others in person & on this channel!😎 Continue 2 honor God IN ALL u guys do!😇 Oh! That part when Mel dumped Ron 4 a day...DAAAAAAAAANG!😂😂😂😂😂😂 Broke Ron's heart huh Mel?💔😢😭😂 Glad God brought y'all back again!😌

[@PatriciaRodriguez-dm7oc]

Hope you are great. Would you include Casey and Jeb in your prayers today? He is friends with Cory Hart and his wife Pink (worldly) which is fine. I am asking that the Lord will begin TODAY to strategically place ppl in his life and Jeb's life that would influence them toward the Truth of the Gospel! Casey and Jeb wouId have an open heart toward the Lord. I declare they will know the truth and be SET FREE! Read more

[@womanofgod701]

Set boundaries

[@chancemcfaddenyt83]

Solid video. I have a question for clarification. My girlfriend and I have done a great job at establishing and keeping physical boundaries, but we are trying to find out how to set spiritual boundaries. Like, what is “too spiritually intimate”?

[@womanofgod701]

Go to church together ⛪

[@dianagqoli7184]

Wow! Thank you guys for this. It has blessed me on my journey with God towards dating and marriage.

[@RonnieandMel]

Awesome! Thank you for watching! Bless you 🖤

[@joychepngeno4283]

Ron and mel where did you go

[@qarah6473]

Really enjoyed this.

[@womanofgod701]

Laugh together

[@diannab8829]

I wish i knew you guys in person!!!

[@koley1723]

God bless you guys. This is great! I hadn't considered some of these before. Brilliant. Love from the UK 🙏🏾❤

[@renaissancegirl87]

I'm reading your success in singleness guide and I want to ask about one point "I commit to not awaken love before its time by fantasizing about "the future"." I know this is a must, but it is an area I struggle with a lot. Do you have any practical tips for how to combat this area?

[@RonnieandMel]

I think it’s okay to have desires for your future and simply give them to the Lord in prayer, but when you find yourself “fantasizing”, just ask God to help you. Set your mind back on things above, on the things He has called you to in THIS season. And maybe you need to confess it to a friend, who can pray for you and hold you accountable. Also there may be certain things that lead you to the fantasizing, whether it be certain shows, social media, etc. just identify what starts those thoughts and try to cut it out or put boundaries. Hope that helps 😊

[@renaissancegirl87]

Thanks! Yeah a “fast” from social media etc is often needed. Unfortunately a diet of Disney, romantic comedies, and Jane Austen type dramas over the past 30 years has given me a lot I need to renew my mind from in terms of irrational romantic hopes for the future. Lol.

[@womanofgod701]

Boundries

[@harlequinwillpwnyou]

Okay so what CAN you do in a Christian relationship? Because all these restrictions doesn’t leave room for much.

[@briannahuser8315]

Any advice for someone who has a heart for marriage (and knows that done right, it can be such a blessing), but has only been in destructive, sinful relationships in the past and has much anxiety when it comes to trusting in guys...Anyone been here before? What happened in your life that helped you to heal and that overcome fear?

[@womanofgod701]

Waiting

[@Sofiyanaviolet]

Hey mel and ronnie. How are you guys? I cant seem to download your boundaries list does this link still work? Tnx alot.

[@adayinthelifeofasinglemom965]

Hi guys. I love this story. I had a question. I want to make sure i understood correctly. At the end of the video mel stated you two had a past with each other? I hope for someone and i feel like we could never be only because we’ve crossed boundaries before that are only meant for marriage. Just wondering if thats what you meant. If so i would have so much hope and faith that we could restore what we had if we do things right!

[@crystalobiefuna8278]

Love you guys ❤

[@mightythrong]

Thank you thank you thank you. It helps me a lot. Thank you so much. May God bless you according to his grace✨

[@marcellehighheels862]

Thank you so , i'll share my boundaries with my friend!

[@kassandralee4874]

Do you have any suggestions for plans on the Bible app that dating couples could do together before marriage?

[@Chiefab22]

Man should always be Respectful to women! This video is so great!

[@jessefoster2308]

BE BAPTIZED IN JESUS NAME, BY WATER AND BY THE HOLY SPIRIT !!!!!

[@nathannelson7778]

Love you Ronnie and Mel happy thanksgiving

[@RonnieandMel]

+Nathan Nelson happy thanksgiving!

[@mrvaskokurko]

I personally loved the three day fast from one another, great idea.

[@AndreaVirago]

I am single and i loveeee your videos! So information-filled!🤩 God bless you

[@Gigi_fromNY]

Love you guys!! Thank you for being such an inspiration, you give a very new meaning and hope to modern dating and relationships and understanding of God ❤️❤️❤️

[@facelesspodcaster5594]

Almost no one waits anymore its so hard. Especially when persons are getting married older.

[@biooptimist4786]

This is a godly vlog wow

[@abeniadeoye8358]

GOD bless you guys, in JESUS NAME!

[@RonnieandMel]

+Abeni Adeoye thank you so much Abeni! And bless YOU!

[@abeniadeoye8358]

@@RonnieandMel Amen, thank you! Love you guys! Thank you for faithfully doing what you do.