Hogwarts Legacy, JK Rowling, and Trans Advocacy

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[@roramdin]

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[@ShamwowYeah]

ik its on channel but put link in description too goat

[@brolybroly4485]

not happening male

[@nyarlathotep8723]

reported your patreon for TOS violations, cheers

[@tinkdnuos]

Nah that's ok, this video actually sucked shit and I'm glad you'll never make any money from it!

[@malaksafa4074]

I'm sorry people are like this right now. I have no money, but all the best!

[@FDSignifire]

If you wanted me to finish this video in a timely fashion you really shouldn't have made pass out from laughing when you read JK for a solid minutes

[@roramdin]

Highest praise possible

[@tinkdnuos]

You should shuck and jive less, house ******

[@MikkiPike]

at breakneck speed, no less

[@desmondstallworth2934]

Watched it 3 times!! 😂😂

[@mckymcobvious3043]

I listened to the whole thing while I took the bus to the social security office to take care of a thing & i didn't pause it when i was got my thing taken care of... .. so I don't remember hearing that part, would LIKE TO hear that part, went back & scrolled thru 2x looking for it, _can't find it,_ would love a timestamp???

[@annieshavingthoughtsagain]

I'm 58 years old and I have no idea WTF people mean by "real woman". I've been told that I'm not a real woman because I never had kids, even though I did menstrate for years before menopause. Judgemental types can always change the goalposts for realness to only include them and exlude anyone different than them. Realness is so over-rated.

[@TreeHairedGingerAle]

It's preposterous! Grew up with everyone around me telling me that I wasn't really a woman, 'Because you're too active. Because you think too much. Because you're too tall. Because you're too dark. Because you ask too many questions. Because you read too much. Because you won't accept abuse in exchange for the attention of a man. Because you get too angry when someone abuses others.' And on and on and on. Yet, I've always been a woman. I am MY kind of woman, authentically. Same way they can't tell me I'm 'womaning' wrong, they can't and shouldn't tell trans folk shit! Trans folk know who the fuck they are!! 'Realness' is gatekeeping nonsense from people who have no clue how to be a Self.

[@NostalgiaUnicorn]

Same. I'm a middle aged cis-woman and I've been told I'm not a real woman because: -I didn't have kids -I never got married and I never will -I'm asexual -I'm aromantic -I have hobbies that are "male interests" (video games, comic books, stuff like that) -I don't wear make up -I don't wear perfume -I don't care about fashion trends -I don't care about home-making -I have no interest in looking good for men -I don't like romance movies, I prefer action and fantasy -I'm too 'aggressive' -I don't have enough stereotypical female interests -I have no maternal instinct -I'm not submissive -I had permanent sterilization with zero regrets I have an ex who to this day insists I'm a trans man because he has decided my interests and lack of being "a beautiful feminine flower" mean that I must be a man inside. It's ridiculous how gatekeepy the term "real woman" is even for cis women let alone trans ones. No one can win because they keep moving the goal posts.

[@2goblinsinatrenchcoat]

Lmao, I like to ask those people if they think imaginary women exist

[@17thcolossus91]

This is the realest shit I have heard in a while

[@themyofmy]

​@@17thcolossus91but they just said realness was overrated (joking of course)

[@LittleMissLounge]

I saw a post on Tumblr that was like, "We were able to get the community to boycott orange juice in the 70s because of Anita Bryant, but now we can't get the gays to stop eating at Chick-Fil-A." Otherwise progressive people purchasing HL gives me that same energy. There's a conversation to be had about the efficacy of boycotts-especially these days-but I think the point still stands.

[@stardoogalaxie9314]

Its interesting, because I’m black and a trans male and hearing about the vitriol espoused by the cpac just made me… so tired. My brain is just on “yep just another day, at least they’ll kill me for being black. Somehow my identity will be protected by my blackness.” Like, if I retreat into the closet and remain a “black woman” I’m already masculinized, deprived of femininity in a way, convenient to me. If I come out and proud as a trans male, I may not be deprived socially because most social consequences of existing will hit my blackness. Antiblackness is gender neutral and white transphobes will fall for anti-blackness before they reach for transphobia because both are so deeply intertwined.

[@lordtette]

I've got nothing to add. But this is it! 🙏🏾

[@thisisrabbithutch]

I grew up intersex with queer parents in the mid seventies (in a terrible conservative place), have been out as trans for almost 25 years. I can say that this is the scariest the world has ever felt. Love to everybody

[@atuvera9021]

As a CisHet woman, i've been educating myself on trans struggles in society over these years. I have nothing but admiration for trans folks, you go through so much unnecesary pain just for existing and living on your own terms. I hope somehow, love comes your way everyday💖

[@TheMoonlightMage]

​@atuvera9021 they really did try to erase these folks from history and thought that just not teaching us about stuff would be sufficient to keep us ignorant in the internet age, and it almost worked

[@atuvera9021]

@@TheMoonlightMage sadly, countries as catholic as mine (Paraguay) are doing a lot of damage. There's children being abused by priests and pastors, but nothing is being made to solve it. While, we have no legislations to protect Lgbtq+ youth and transgenderism is deemed as an act of self mutilation, satanism, p*d*ph*l*a... Over all, i'm still hopeful that younger generations will do better. They have the world's library on their hands💖

[@TheMoonlightMage]

@@atuvera9021 Look up the southern Baptist conventions leaked docs about their victims

[@redrooster3420]

@@atuvera9021 Your comment made my heart so full. Thank you for your love and support. Wishing you so much solidarity as we fight for our collective, connected liberations

[@possumpaints6852]

im only like 9 minutes in but GOD thank you for mentioning intersex people, we're always left out of the conversation and it's nice to be acknowledged lol

[@roramdin]

intersex people entering the goat conversation

[@Deepseadread6]

FR OMG

[@angelawossname]

There is still so much fucking shame surrounding being intersex and it needs to be discussed more often. My daughter in law is quite willing to talk about being trans, but if you ask her about being intersex she will just shut down.

[@possumpaints6852]

@@angelawossname there's such a lack of understanding about the entire topic even within the trans community that we're often an afterthought and it can be alienating for sure. i didn't even know i was intersex until i was 19, and i barely knew what it meant at the time despite having been openly trans and in lgbtq+ spaces for years

[@Jujuestar.11]

Didn't even watched yet, but you say there's mention of intersex people I will like it already. Just to remember and mention us it's way out of the curve.

[@Pheelleep]

29:00 Tennessee: passed a law that bans drag preformances to avoid “child grooming” Also Tennessee: passed a law last year that makes it legal for cishet adults to marry children

[@AutistRapper]

man the new generation is clearly lost man...

[@doityourselfa]

please don't say that ... @@AutistRapper :(

[@AutistRapper]

@@doityourselfa its true

[@brookejon3695]

Oops I saw Mrs. Doubtfire one too many times and now I'm an asexual genderqueer axe murderer

[@kendallmonge649]

Recently, Arkansas passed a law to limit trans children's access to life-saving hormones... and then passed a law to remove protections for children against workplace mistreatment and excessive work hours. They do not care about the children.

[@XerxesTexasToast]

Formatting the trigger warning like an ESRB rating is inspired and I want more people to do it

[@XerxesTexasToast]

You just broke down neoporonouns more elegantly than I have ever seen before

[@XerxesTexasToast]

This shit is a work of art, I love how you just casually toss in genuinely moving cinematography and scriptwriting into stuff like this

[@jivjive3326]

as a trans person who grew up in tennessee, it was amazing to watch people go from ignorant, but mostly kind, to opinionated and cruel. i used to be able to talk about my transness with strangers and mostly be heard- not always understood or received, but almost never written off entirely. now i mostly stay on the dl after being out for 11 years. i don’t trust people to listen anymore. even people i consider acquaintances don’t know who i really am. i’ve been talked over, harassed, and assaulted this year more than any other. i thought i felt helpless when i came out at 14, but i had no idea how bad it could get.

[@doverfornow]

I am so sorry. I wish I could offer you comfort, but I can't. Instead I'll say that I am absolutely horrified by what is happening.

[@marcuschilders690]

@@kenzor4953 Wdym by good?

[@haizien]

The past year or two have been some of the hardest for me and my identity. In the past it was relatively peaceful around the topic of being a trans person but recently I have seen some of the most disgusting things being said online and in general life and society which I have had an unbelievably difficult time handling. I still to this day cannot understand where such hatred comes from towards us who have absolutely no affect on other people’s lives, who are just trying to cope with how hard we already have it, without the added hatred from those we don’t even know that judge us for the sole reason that we’re different. I’m struggling with the vision of my future, as I’m scared I’ll never be able to live as I want. I’m still hiding from everyone I know but I’m hoping one day things will get better and us as people who deserve respect will be able to live without these worries.

[@Megitsune69]

Because WE DON'T CARE. What a sad excuse for human being. All you people are wanting attention, love and support from other because you can't even do that yourself. That is why there is THERAPY. You clearly need it.

[@mywalterego9248]

I know, as a gay man I have noticed these same things. It's sad that the activist wing of our community seems insistent on making the straights hate us again.

[@noaelr554]

the bit where ro is sitting down listening to that political commentator calling for 'transgenderism to be eradicated' literally mirrors exactly what i did a couple of days ago. fucking hit me hard. i remember just having this sinking feeling, listening to this man and closing the tab and wanting to cry

[@thisurldoesnotexist]

Exactly. I've been in a spiral recently because of how unsafe it is to be trans My partner lives in Tennessee and we're both trans and it just sickens me

[@lucalo3238]

​@Jordan Dennis maybe the reason why your life is so miserable is because you're focused on getting rid of minorities rather than getting a job or a hobby or a partner so you just redirect all your self hatred towards people you don't know a single thing about yet are obsessed with at the same time.

[@paulhammond6978]

God, the Knowles call for genocide thing is in this video? Haven't got that far yet.

[@moonxliqht]

fr it is so so scary. i'm bisexual and it's just terrifying knowing that people want me to d*e

[@tecc]

"Your legacy is what you make of it." What a poignant conclusion to the video. It must have been tough to make, but I am so grateful for having had the opportunity to watch it.

[@eye.sexual]

Love the points on neopronouns and gatekeepers in our own communities! It's fucking ridiculous people are still cannibalizing each other just for a chance to be respected by their oppressors! Your dialouge on the topic is always top knotch, thanks for all the hard work you do!

[@paulhammond6978]

I was interested to hear Ro's discussion on the neopronouns. I don't think I've ever come across someone who uses them, but I have noticed that they are picked up by a lot of people talking about trans issues. Like I have seen people who say they are fine respecting trans women wanting to be called "she" or trans men wanting to be called "he" but they have a problem with "they" even (which isn't even a neo pronoun, in my view - because I've seen plenty of people who use "they"!) or they go "hu, huh ,huh - but using a made up word like "ze" or "ve" is just stupid". I think the people harping on that like it's the biggest problem they have with respecting people's pronouns probably haven't got as far as the ones like "cat" and "fae".

[@williammiller6330]

Exactly. Imagine how those people would react if they discovered nounself pronouns. Would burst all kinds of vessels.

[@hugo07260]

@@williammiller6330 can you explain nounself pronouns? I have never heard of them

[@frishter]

People who are "oppressed" in reality just have first world problems.

[@giggig6703]

@@paulhammond6978xenogenders are just people who say they identify as attack helicopters, but instead it’s ‘heligender’’ and ‘’heli/heliself’’.

[@yeah5540]

Just so people know, Brianna Ghey's surname is pronounced 'Jeye,' rhyming with eye. It's an easy mistake to make but if people could make sure to get her name right, I think we owe her and her loved ones that, at least. Appreciate you talking about her with respect all the same

[@yeah5540]

Not sure why my first comment didn't seem to send. If it did and there are two, I guess just ignore this It’s pronounced with a 'J' sound like in 'Jam.' Since the name is spelt with a 'G,' it may be easier to think of it as pronounced as a 'soft G' like in 'Gem.' Hope this helps and thanks for making sure

[@theother5594]

Thank you so much for this ❤️

[@lynettbakehorn4588]

“They are not stupid.” As a queer black female presenting non binary human this has been my main point in arguing against bigots. It works for specifically for a member of a marginalized group hating another marginalized group. Because all marginalized people know what it’s like to be misunderstood and doubted.

[@yassine8935]

I agree ,I really hate the word "stupid"and find it ableist I dislike calling people who deliberately expresses bigotry and harm to marginalized groups as ignorant or unaware of what their doing , they know the harm they are doing especially in this period in time it would be foolish to call someone ignorant when their deliberately causing harm.

[@krishaven]

Being doubtful is part of being human. Everyone has doubted. Everyone has been doubted. You're not special. The narcissism is amazing. It must be nice to call everyone bigot who sees the world differently from you. This belief that we're whatever sex we say we are, you can't just force it on everyone. Learn to open up and accept other humans. Stop judging so much.

[@eleusinia]

Not true. You have to buy into the idea that minority === marginalized to even begin to think this way. I can call your ideas bad and say that I disagree without being a self hating minority. Also, this is such an insidious thought process, because it effectively makes it so you can wave away people who you assume would otherwise agree with you because "they should know better". Fuck all the way off.

[@LittleMissLounge]

@@krishaven "Why can't you just accept people who think you're less than human and don't deserve basic rights? So much for the tolerant left. 🙃"

[@krishaven]

@@LittleMissLounge Who thinks who is less than human?

[@ghostsarereal1414]

wow, another great video Ro. I’m a 14-year-old closeted trans girl and I cried watching this. Recently, I was getting carpooled by my friend with another friend who rides home with him. At one point the second friend I mentioned said that he was getting Hogwarts legacy and then he talked about how people are getting “canceled” for playing it. And the other friend’s dad who was driving didn’t know why so he asked. I was eager to tell him “Jk Rowling” and so were my friends. But we had different motivations. Everyone in the car gave an eye roll at Jk Rowling being transphobic. They said it shouldn’t matter what they do with their money. And I agreed at the time. It felt wrong hearing them brush off how bad Jk Rowling is. She is someone who has harmed me and people like me immeasurably. Yet, they didn’t care. But I care. I wish I could just tell them they’re supporting a horrible person, but I would never be able to. I started questioning my gender more than a year ago. Since that time, I’ve had constant dread and I’ve been constantly depressed. I switched schools recently and the people there are about every -phobic and -ist you can think of. It seems like every time I get close to coming out, I see more news about anti-trans bills. I’m too scared to talk to my therapist about how trans issues are affecting me or how dysphoria is because I’m not out. Like a lot of trans people, I felt hopeless hearing politicians basically advocate for my death. And it's gotten worse hearing about the anti-trans bills being passed in my state. I’ve heard so many anti-trans people, I even had a teacher say transphobic things when we were talking and he did it TWICE. All of this hate has scared me into not coming out. I’m even writing this from a secret account. And... it’s also made me side with people who really don’t care about trans people. I’ve been taking the bare minimum and ignoring how uncomfortable some of the actions people do and some of the words they say make me feel. I shouldn’t have to be out for them to stop saying slurs, I shouldn’t have to be out for them to stop making fun of trans people, and I shouldn’t have to be out for them to at least listen to trans people telling them not to play the game. You can’t be neutral about trans people when we are literally dying and getting denied medical care. So moving forward, I’m gonna call people out when they’re deserving and I’m not gonna be friends with people who don’t care about me. I’m also not gonna let people scare me into hiding. So thank you for helping me some Ro and thank you if you read this far.

[@renatestyvepettersen7356]

hey ghost

[@canonicallykayfabe]

Good luck ! Ur stronger than youll ever know just for getting through right now. :>

[@ghostsarereal1414]

@@renatestyvepettersen7356 Thank you, that means a lot :)

[@ghostsarereal1414]

@Waffle_guy2099 i think things are getting better, maybe slowly, but i’m making progress nonetheless :)

[@ghostsarereal1414]

@@canonicallykayfabe thank you!!

[@revolutionofthekind]

My family and I live in ohio, and we all are on hrt and live out as trans. My health insurance tried to take away the testosterone ive been taking for over a decade. I had to prove i was "mentally capable of consenting" to treatment. Even back when i first started my medical transition, when i had to skirt aroubd my therapist at the time who refused to write me a recommendation letter for hrt so i had to go to the local lgbt clinic, get misgendered by the doctor and lie my ass off about how stereotypically masculine i am and i like ONLY women, deal with the doctors very uncomfortable comments on my race (im black and mixed) (in reality im very gnc and queer and love all genders) and then pay OUT OF POCKET for my hormones (and eventually get a discount with goodrx) bc insurance refuses to cover any trans healthcare back then... Even with all that. I never once had to prove i was psychologically competent enough to consent to my own medical care. That i wasnt being "influenced". I'm 30 goddamn years old. Ive had top surgery. I know whati want, ive known since i was 16. But now we have to consider fleeing our state for real. We're poor, disabled, and we might have no choice but to flee. So many trans people in just my city have been talking about where to go, how to train each other in self defense, have plans to escape. And some streamers cant even not spend money for a mediocre video game. Damn. That must be so hard for you.

[@Zoey-Aphrodite]

All people should be trans. All kids are inherently queer. Any who disregards lgbtqia because of Christianity is a .monster. And must be .slain.

[@radtibs]

That blue eyes white woman joke was so funny it had me hysterically laughing for like a minute in my dormitory bathroom

[@vxicepickxv]

There's actually a card in Yugioh that has basically been nicknamed "the white woman" so there's a lot of jokes about how she's used. One of them is openly mocking her as the "white woman savior" because of her effects. In the digital version she has an animation and when used it's called a "white woman jump scare" and it amuses me.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

​@@vxicepickxv That's funny considering nearly all the top trans commentators on Twitter are "white women."

[@pitalovr]

Nah cause this was too fucking funny 😂

[@deformschool]

I'm watching with headphones on and my apartment walls are super thin. I'm sure my neighbors think I'm blown "Jokerfied" the way I laughed at that.

[@FaeQueenCory]

"Do you have any idea what it's like everybody thinking you're gay... And they're right? Well, I know you do." I feel seen and personally attacked. 😘

[@skylrlowe321]

As a cis, straight male you've made me cry so many times. I love all your content and support all our LGBTQ siblings. Stay strong, love you

[@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie]

So do i

[@Zoey-Aphrodite]

If youre a "cis straight male", you aren't an ally. Period.

[@ErgoDog]

Delulu

[@christopherhammond5142]

Ro, mate, I fucking love your work. My daughter is nine years old and she's LGBTQIA+ and she gets some stuff from your videos that I, as a 40yr old white cis male, have a little trouble putting into words that properly express my feelings. Thanks very much for doing your do. Edit: Holy shit! I just said my daughter was nine, she's eleven, for goodness sake. How on earth did I screw that up so badly?

[@reverie.s.prairie]

The enthusiastic dad energy is giving life. Your daughter is very lucky to have you.

[@ARACHNIDPARTY]

this is so genuinely awesome to hear :) i wish my dad was an ally like you are, well wishes to you and your daughter

[@erikpagan6859]

based dad

[@sallymon3752]

W dad

[@christopherhammond5142]

Thanks, y'all. I appreciate that.

[@gi1747]

She would report Jean Valjean for shoplifting you are so right

[@ryanfitzgerald9833]

Actually I always thought neo pronouns were silly but when you compare it to nick names or say its to signify trust and informality it makes much more sense to me. Thank you it really helped.

[@klausval]

thank you for opening up to the idea!! people willing to change their minds on stuff like this means a lot

[@andshescallingacab4346]

i really liked the her “neopronouns from different languages and cultures” example, never thought of it that way, but my first language pronouns definitely feel more validating than english ones. and one of the languages common in my area comes from turkic group, so they only use Ул (ul or ool) instead of she/he/it, and i can 100% see how they can prefer it to english ones. anyways, i’ll rather have weird pronouns than d3ad kids you know?

[@3zzzTyle]

Except not using someone's nickname won't get you fired or jailed.

[@klausval]

@@3zzzTyle no one's getting fired or jailed for using the wrong pronoun stop being dramatic 💀

[@ryanfitzgerald9833]

@@3zzzTyle you know, unfortunately I have yet to run into that. But when it becomes common, I'll happily accede the point. probably not It's complete unfairness though

[@shadowynne]

In the 90s I lost the love of my life because of transphobia. Rowling and everything attached to her poisonous legacy can rot. I thought we were moving forward, I had just about felt that I could walk down the street without fear of getting beaten... And yet here we are. Transphobes being uplifted and sainted, Draconian laws being passed on how people chose to dress and present... It sickens me...

[@TheMoonlightMage]

The fact that this game is about squashing a civil rights movement and nobody thinks that's weird-

[@timekeeper2538]

Well story wise it's actively portrayed as an obviously corrupted genocidal movement.

[@haveagoodmourning]

@@timekeeper2538 And it is not portrayed that way in a vacuum. The trope of the violent revolutionist is time worn propaganda.

[@timekeeper2538]

@@haveagoodmourning Oh it's much more real than that, in real life all "One Party rule" revolutions have been as cartoonishly corrupt and violent as the one in this game so the scenario doesn't exactly demand much suspension of disbelief....

[@aisultanumar9152]

@@haveagoodmourning except that there's no "revolution" only a bunch of crossdressers, aka transgender "people", who are mad that an author doesnt support their lunacy

[@aisultanumar9152]

@@haveagoodmourning and also why are you shaming people for playing a game? for christ sake it's their game! none of your business, plus trans "people" are a bunch of pedos so that's that

[@nxgan1088]

Ro came in clutch with an over hour long video on my 19th birthday thank you queen my day has been made 10x more wonderful

[@anneginzburg1362]

happy birthday!

[@Magical_turtle]

Happy birthdaaay 🎉

[@waitwaitwaitno3182]

birthday woop woop!! have a good one!!

[@sylverscribs0490]

what the fuck my birthday was yesterday

[@faunaprince4466]

Happy birthday and fuck the transphobes, racists, and antisemites

[@monamizumi4990]

this made me so emotional. as a semi-closeted trans person who cant get any aid due to my health insurance issues (im an immigrant), i got so emotional, i related so much to this video, thank you so much for this video.

[@kobe9886]

unironically the “fuck you” at the end was so needed. seeing hassan bitch and moan bc “oh i just wanted to play the game so i could donate to trans causes” like how many games came out the same day? i think that was the most blatant statement he’s made that shows how online his views really are, considering not playing a bad game is the bare minimum and he couldn’t help but bitching about it

[@Peasham]

Fact of the matter is, if JKR got her way, literal billions towards trans charities would be completely worthless. Sadly, horrifyingly, nothing can outweigh a transphobic law.

[@gobogoo2329]

theres like 4 big name games coming out this year that are just as suitable for a charity stream tbh i dont see why he wants to die on this hill especially since it just sorta feels like hes withholding doing a charity stream at all unless we give him a pass to play the terf wizard game

[@Peasham]

@@gobogoo2329 It was never about the charity lol

[@gobogoo2329]

@@Peasham what was the point then

[@Peasham]

@@gobogoo2329 Him getting to play a game and profit off of it.

[@beefy74]

bro, I’m not even done with this video. The comedy is fucking fantastic already the editing is crazy. I just cannot believe that this is free to watch.

[@Echosong8081]

im a trans man who has little family i can call that. the manic desperate energy in this video is something i feel in my core. the panic, the bewilderment, just. thank you. you are a poet but most crucially you are a woman who can articulate the things i wish to. im really crying at this. somehow though in the sheer face of it all this video makes me feel less alone.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

He's not a woman, lol. If he is, he's already hit the damn wall at 20. Ouch.

[@horimiya7290]

Same brother same.

[@nostalgicfears]

@@blacktigerpaw1 i genuinely hope you wake up one day and realize how much of a truly awful human you are

[@timekeeper2538]

​@@blacktigerpaw1She is a trans woman with incorrect opinions about a videogame, no need to be so rude👎

[@blacktigerpaw1]

@@timekeeper2538 So, a male.

[@lemonythicket1406]

What makes this fear so crushing for me is that I cannot be open about feeling it. I cannot show it except in stolen moments with other trans people and with my therapist. I’m surrounded by cis people whose understanding of trans identity and transphobia is often at best a lukewarm compassion that begins and ends with „uwu trans people aren’t hurting anyone and deserve rights.“ At worst, they may want people like me to disappear forever. What situations like this show us over and over is that not only can we expect to continue to be shocked by the depth of loathing that people have for us, we can continue to expect detached sympathy from the bulk of even the best „good ones“ in our lives. It is lonely. It is frightening. I deeply love the trans people in my life and I just want to be able to sleep at night imagining that all of us are safe, and that feels less and less true in times like this as things escalate.

[@Stormthorn67]

What would you suggest we cis people could offer beyond the belief that trans people deserve the same rights and compassion as others? Because you seem to feel that isn't enough, but without guidance it's hard to offer more.

[@lemonythicket1406]

@@Stormthorn67 So before I spend energy on crafting a thoughtful response to this, do you want a genuine answer or are you expressing a frustration or sense of helplessness? Either option is fine. I don’t sense that you’re looking for a gotcha moment here, but this is in fact the KZbin comments section.

[@Stormthorn67]

@@lemonythicket1406 I am both expressing a sense of helplessness and hoping for a constructive answer.

[@celinematerzok6421]

​​@@Stormthorn67What i would want anyone to know, is that trans children more often then not think that they are conpletely normal and sometimes they just follow social pressure. They sometimes develop coping mechanism bluring their own body image in a way to prevent gender dysphoria of occuring and therefore, the easiest way to tell if someone is trans is hidden. Its still a source of distress, though. These are my thoughts and more or less useless for conversations with trans ppl. Because other than having a different experience we are (usually) able for small talk with other humans that arent openly hostile

[@elju369]

Wise people will surround themselves with fellow wise people Fools will surround themselves with fellow fools You carve your own path, but so also means you do your own doom...

[@sarapowers8827]

Trying to get the cis people in my life to understand the horror and fear I feel is impossible. All I want is empathy and it seems so far out of reach

[@ragalyiakos]

​@@JDoe-gf5oz Yeah, I get it, listening to trans people talk about the ongoing, systematic attempts to eradicate us and take away out human rights must be so weird and annoying to you...

[@JDoe-gf5oz]

@@ragalyiakos If you're being eradicated how are you able to post on KZbin right now?

[@ragalyiakos]

@@JDoe-gf5oz I happen to live in a country that happens to be not very successful in its efforts.

[@normanorman]

@@JDoe-gf5oz If conservatives are being censored then how do they even exist? You can pick your narrative. Support of transgenderism is high on the left, but disapproval is even higher on the right. So either way you can’t deny the fact that the trans experience is somehow an issue in this country. It is constantly up for debate, which isn’t normal or okay. Our experience/existence isn’t a statement when it should be. We aren’t free to say “we’re here!” if you’re free to say “but are you?” or worse “no you’re not”. And you may think “why shouldn’t we be allowed to say that?” to which I would respond, do you think it’s okay to lie? To look at somebody and tell them what they’re able to identify themselves as isn’t what they actually are? So then what’s the point of identity documentation? Could you imagine saying “your username wasn’t given to you and isn’t physically attached to you so you should not identify with it”? That question should mean that *someone* has taken issue with your username, for reasons they’re not willing to outright admit. That’s what transphobia is like so. it’s rational for us to be bothered by it. This goes for a whole lot of people like TERFs and conservatives. and if you say it’s because of trans people themselves or any other reason than transmisia then you might be a bit transmisic. The idea that people must have a problem with trans people because there’s actually inherently something wrong with trans people is laughable, there’s something wrong with you. At least it’s not inherent. Just Google, what is it like to be trans? Please

[@oneprayerlater]

@@ragalyiakos what human rights? lol, no one is trying to eradicate you guys that's just a dumb statement and if you genuinely you believe that then nothing you say should be taken seriously

[@carnighoul]

things are so incredibly shitty for us trans people rn.. god I am excited to hear you talk about this

[@ascendednightingale2456]

Are you kidding? Maybe thank the trans people who went through actual hell so you could live in the best time to be a trans person.

[@AngDevigne]

Are there any specific considerations in person to person interactions that allies could take to make your life even a little bit easier? Like, I know in my own life, sometimes the smallest considerations can make the game changing difference in how my day goes. The places that have free tampons in the bathroom, the person who doesn't assume my gender/race/sexuality, the free snacks in the lobby that keep me from passing out. If there are any of these micro changes you could think of that might help me learn to help trans people be more comfortable in spaces I have agency in, I would like to learn. Thank you for taking time to read this, if you do. 🙏

[@firebat36]

Trans people need to exercise their 2nd amendment right.

[@michael-lo7no]

​@@AngDevigne I know you didn't ask me directly but for me personally as a trans person just some basic respect goes a long way, you seem very nice so I'm assuming you already do these things but just calling me the right name, pronouns or other gendered terms (ex: girl, bro, dude, queen, that kind of thing) Also just trying to be considerate in general like (this depends on the person but) thinking before you bring up topics like what is discussed in this video that could upset someone, stuff like that. There's probably more that I can't think of right now that I'm sure someone else will mention but yeah

[@AngDevigne]

@@michael-lo7no tysm for answering! And for saying I seem nice! 🥰 I do try to be considerate of the things you mentioned and use "person" or "name" as gender neutral terms when I'm unsure. Unfortunately, it's kind of taboo to ask for pronouns where I live and we call everyone "dude" or "bro", so when I'm posting online I try to include that those are gender-neutral terms of endearment coming from me lol I appreciate your feedback and agree that treating people with a consistent level of respect goes a long way.

[@pillboys]

hilarious and insightful as always. recently, a coworker apologized to me for using the wrong pronouns. i immediately brush it off, because that's what we do. "no worries, im used to it. i hear it all the time, pretty much every day," i told him. this is true and i try not to take it personally for obvious reasons. "i know, but i'm better than that," he said, and i believe him. he seems like a really nice dude. i feel like there's a lot one could unpack in this scenario, this simple instance. my other job is at a fabric store with a generally conservative clientele, and it always comes as a surprise when people use my pronouns and acknowledge the 'he/him' written in bold black sharpie on my nametag, likely written bigger than my name itself. even so, it still feels like a slap in the face when everyone ignores the rest. just a slap i'm used to.

[@pillboys]

there's multiple coworkers that ive corrected at the fabric store, and most of them have been corrected multiple times. its been years since i publicly came out. one of my coworkers corrected a repeat-offender coworker on their pronouns in front of customers and now they hasn't been scheduled in over five weeks.

[@greeplurch]

Thank you for the quick explanation of neopronouns. While the majority of my close friends are trans (binary and nonbinary), the only time I ever asked someone how to actually conjugate their neopronpuns, they called me ignorant and refused to answer. For a while I harbored a silent resentment of neopronouns because of it but this really opened it up to me.

[@mavohq]

as someone who uses neopronouns how does that person ever expect people to use the correct pronouns if people aren’t told how, it’s so weird how some people expect others to know everything about something they just learned about, they’re just hurting themselves and the rest of us that use neopronouns

[@aisultanumar9152]

neopronouns are just an easy way to say you're mentally unhinged/retarded neopronouns are... dumb

[@williammiller6330]

i get why they did, they most likely felt like you wouldn't get it if they tried. it's hard really.

[@justsomeone6593]

I'm so happy my language doesn't have gendered pronouns.

[@darkdealproductions]

There’s a lot to celebrate about this video but as a cinematographer, I have to give you tremendous props for that aspect. This beauty in the skit sections (train ride, microwave) is gripping because I feel your emotion, sincere plea to be taken seriously and just exist without your existence being placed at risk. Tremendous work, I’m now subscribed and excited to go through your backlog and see what you create next.

[@HighFlyActionGuy]

I'm a straight cis white dude in my early 30s. I was roughly harry's age when I read both the first and last books of the series and I was poor/in foster care so it resonated with me in ways I find it hard to describe as an adult. That being said I dropped off with all of joannes content years ago. I'm here, I'm on your team, and I'm doing my best to listen and learn. Solidarity.

[@Angelica-wn5or]

[@buzzardproductions593]

do you want a medal? Good job supporting trans people, but you can read the books if you want. I think understanding trans issues and advocating for our rights is much more valuable than not buying a few products.

[@HighFlyActionGuy]

@@buzzardproductions593 I do that also. I'm not asking for a medal, I'm voicing my support. I read the books roughly 15-21 years ago depending on which book we're talking about and because of that whole child poverty thing I didn't actually get to keep them so it's not like I threw them out in protest of her views. I don't have a platform of any kind beyond my personal voice so I do my best to learn directly from trans people about the issues that affect them and direct people to learn from trans people as well. I try to convey what I learn to people when topics come up and remind others that trans people are people and idle opinions on their health and personal lives is something they wouldn't tolerate others doing to them. I try to show people that large platforms voicing hate have direct consequences on the harm and violence experienced by the trans community and in the case of Joanne specifically that support for her works is seen by her as direct support for her ideals. Expressing solidarity is inherently performative. I can't actually be an ally unless I perform being an ally. I'm not looking for recognition, but to show others that there is support from people outside the trans community. Ro specifically mentioned that the channel doesn't reach many people in my demographic which is why I made a point of mentioning anything in the first place. I understand if you don't trust or believe me, or feel that I'm not doing enough. The more I learn the more I see how cis people continue to fail to be allies. It's entirely reasonable to believe that I'll fail you to. I'm just doing my best not to.

[@artistikgaming2619]

@@HighFlyActionGuya comment like this can help, and I think it’s really hard to actually advocate right now, I don’t think we’ve been public/vocal enough yet, I mean all these laws that are restricting us aren’t really known alot? Like a lot of people aren’t even aware it’s happening, so I think we can all just do what we can, even if it’s something small, so thank you

[@enigmaticparadox354]

@@buzzardproductions593 vote with your dollar, ever heard that? dont' have to, but it's appreciated

[@razbuten]

I think the biggest thing I learned throughout all of the Hogwarts Legacy discourse over the past few months is that a lot of folks on the left see trans people as a concept. Like, they understand trans people exist and proudly will say to support trans rights because of course you should support the rights of someone just trying to be themselves!, but there is a separation. They might watch some trans creators or follow a few on socials, but they don't really know any trans people. They don't have trans friends, they don't spend time on a regular basis around trans people, and they don't think about trans issues when they aren't looking at discourse about them. To them, trans people are just out there doing their own thing, but that thing is far away from them. Unconnected. As you said in the video, if someone is a piece of shit to your friend, you wouldn't turnaround and then support that person, and that is how everyone who considers themself an ally should be treating this. To too many though, when looking at Hogwarts Legacy and the request from many trans people to not play it, they don't think of an actual trans person; they instead relate it to the concept of transness, and when there is this separation, they don't feel any sort of stakes, any sort of emotional tie, and I think because of that, it makes it easier for them to justify to themselves why buying the wizard game isn't that bad because she's already a billionaire! and it can be used as a way to raise money for a trans charity! and this one trans person on twitter said that the game is great! and whatever else helps them feel less bad about doing something that they know people will judge them for--that they hopefully know is shitty. I can't help but think that if more people actually had trans friends, they wouldn't think twice about buying the game simply because that'd be a shitty thing to do to a friend. And yeah, obviously trans people are not a monolith so I am sure there are exceptions, but given that the vast majority of the trans community has expressed discomfort with the idea of people playing the game, I'd imagine those exceptions are few and far between. To be honest, even though seeing the trans people I know express discomfort with playing the game made my decision to not play it a no brainer, I don't think it should take having a personal stake in the trans community to support it in this way, but that does seem to be the case for many people and that is beyond frustrating, especially when they never take any active steps to get to know a trans person. I really hope people stop treating trans folk as a concept and start actually treating them like humans. Anyway, wonderful video that I know must have been hard to make for about a billion different reasons. Also, thank you for continuing to spread the good word of Outer Wilds and why most open-world games suck.

[@lunasperidot8760]

Didn't expect to see you here. What a thoughtful comment

[@rG1vZ]

I saw some trans ppl being okay with ppl playing the game, some not etc. So who should we listen to? Sadly I don't have any real life trans friends since it's dangerous for trans ppl here to even express themselves. But my opinion (probably doesn't matter) is that the discourse in the end was a bit more harmful overall. It seems like it only generated more clicks for the game etc. (And assholes buying the game just to spite trans ppl). I do wonder if there was something better we could've done

[@razbuten]

@@rG1vZ ​ I can only go off of my anecdotal experience which obviously is not perfect, but I have only seen some trans people be okay with people playing the game whereas I have seen A LOT of trans people being uncomfortable with it. I can’t make your choices for you or tell you what to value, but I do not think the trans community is split down the middle on this. They are heavily leaning to the side of being uncomfortable with the game, and I think that is important to take into account. As for if the discourse was helpful or harmful, obviously the response to many trans people expressing their uneasiness and frustration about people playing the game has been bad, but I don’t think that means that they shouldn’t have voiced their opinion by just staying quiet so people could play the wizard game guilt free. Doing the right thing goes wrong sometimes.

[@wa11ie]

@@rG1vZ try empathy maybe? (this is going somewhere, it’s not meant passive aggressively, i promise) sometimes it helps imagining how you would feel in a situation like this. i‘m not trans either but i am a lesbian so how would i feel about giving money to a company and/or a person who believes that i shouldn’t express my sexuality in harmless ways in public (i.e. holding hands with a girl or giving her a forehead kiss)? and that makes the question really easy to answer. for me it already was an easy no because i have many trans friends (it just happened that my gay friend group is also the trans friend group) and even though none of them were ever particularly into harry potter and therefore didn’t care all that much it would make me feel like a terrible friend and a hypocrite. i still think that everyone needs to arrive at their own conclusion. you should definitely factor in trans voices because they do know more about their own community than you do as an outsider. at the end of the day the trans™️ aren’t an organized force that will burn people at the stake for playing a video game. it won’t turn anyone’s financial situation on the harry potter side of things around because they’re already billionaires and therefore deserve to be eaten. if you very desperately want to play the game, consider doing it with a parrot on your shoulder why you slam the hook you replaced your hand with into the keyboard.

[@mariowarion]

I might not get the point here. Trans people are angry that people buy hogwarts legacy due to rowling, the creator of the wizarding world, giving disgusting statements about them. So buying hogwarts legacy leads to supporting rowling. To me that's not a fair argument. By that logic everyone who possesses a IPhone is supportive towards the chinese government. As far as I know Rowling was barely involved in this game. Many people gave their best to fulfill the dreams of millions of harry potter fans. It's not fair towards them to tell others to not buy the game.

[@AnnaRenee]

I wasn’t allowed to read hp growing up in evangelical culture, so when I first read it it was freeing. Now it feels so dark and oppressive. It’s funny how things change, but that’s life

[@lordtette]

Same! I read it, then a year later she's being covertly transphobic

[@sassylittleprophet]

For me it was fundamentalist culture, and yeah, I watched all the movies and read all the books from the library when I was still in the IFB cult. I was so disappointed when it came out that JKR is transphobic. I had left the cult the previous year and had just recently discovered I am non-binary. The Harry Potter series when I was growing up represented rebellion against oppressive (specifically religious) systems for me... who would've guessed it would come to represent upholding oppression.

[@Weyesbloodfans2006]

“people whose parasite was a pete buttigieg campaign ad” you’re literally a poet laureate and scholar and the most underrated person on this website

[@maiarustad5062]

"Trans men are men, trans women are women, nonbinary people are neither" WHY HAVE I NEVER HEARD THAT AS AN ALT TO THE "nonbinary people are valid" SLOGAN THAT IS SO MUCH BETTER thank you Ro for improving discourse

[@littlewyzard]

hm idk i much prefer “nonbinary people are nonbinary” because i myself am nonbinary, specifically bigender, which means means i identify with both masculinity and femininity, men and women. so i’m “both” not “neither” idk if that makes sense

[@maiarustad5062]

@@littlewyzard ah that is true, I guess I was thinking of it more in the sense of us not fitting into either of the previously stated categories rather than wholly not having any aspects of either.

[@chibi013]

I'm not a fan of that. I'm non-binary but specifically gender fluid. Sometimes I feel like a man, sometimes I feel like a woman, sometimes I feel like both or nothing or something else entirely.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

@@maiarustad5062 Under what parameters are transwomen women? Their sex is male. Under what parameters are transmen men? Their sex is female. What's a "woman gender" and what is a "man gender"?

[@maiarustad5062]

@@blacktigerpaw1 Under the parameter of gender, which is a different concept to sex. No one is denying that trans women are of the male sex or trans men are of the female sex (obviously, otherwise they wouldn't identify as trans). As for what "woman gender" and "man gender" (and other genders) are, they are a mix of social interactions, external perception, and internal identity. Much like religious or political identity, genuine self identification under a label is the main thing that makes a person that thing. How they are perceived and their social interactions may reflect stereotypes of that label or not, what makes perception and interaction part of gender is mainly because of how we often use it to denote those stereotypes.

[@charlespeter5610]

I just finished it and I thought it was some of your best work yet. I’m a cisgendered, straight man-but I am also a biracial black man. While we have slightly different concerns, I know what it feels like to be systematically targeted by our society. I think the end of the video was especially well stated, and I have already shared it out to my part of the web. Stay safe out there, Ro.

[@Kat-PM]

Thank you for your support! What you said about not knowing exactly what other oppressed groups experience, but still knowing what it’s like to be targeted in that way, is so true. I am a white nonbinary and queer person, so while I cannot directly understand what it’s like to experience racism, I’ve noticed that a lot of similar tactics are used by bigots to target POC and queer people.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Black men are overrepresented in the murder of trans folks in the US. Maybe tell your fellow brothas to stop?

[@Miguel-xd8dd]

It is good to have solidarity between different marginalized groups. Your support means the world to so many people out there (me included haha). Thank you.

[@tobeseve4020]

I'm trans, I have a friend who's a trans ally. Her brother is trans. But she told me recently she bought the game. Then went on this whole rant about how she doesn't get what the big deal is, how her giving money to Rowling isn't going to make a big difference anyway because she's already rich, about how she only wants to play the game to relive nostalgia she has for the original books, and how, sure, there are other wizard games she could play, but she wants to play in Hogwarts. And the whole time she was saying this to me, I just sat there, silently nodding and agreeing, because even though I disagreed with everything she was saying, even though it hurt so, so much that a video game was more important to her than a community not only am I in, but her own family too, I am still so deeply terrified of coming across as the angry reactionary trans person who hates cis people and takes everything too seriously. I'm so tired of walking on eggshells for people to gain just the smallest amount of respect, when at the end of the day, even if they say they care about me, they don't care if I get to exist in a world that doesn't want me dead. This video is so important. And while I'm terrified to send it to this person, I sincerely hope she finds it on her own. Edit: I'd like to clarify, the things I'm willing to say online are very VERY different from the things I'm willing to say in person to the face of someone I know. Out in the real world I shut my mouth, I conform, I try to not get hurt. Online I can and will stand up for myself.

[@kalicasts]

The second she bought the game, her status as an ally was instantly revoked. How hard is it not to buy a game?

[@krishaven]

>>And the whole time she was saying this to me, I just sat there, silently nodding and agreeing, because even though I disagreed >>with everything she was saying, even though it hurt so, so much Since you've had this experience it should make you sympathetic to family/friends who've had to hear trans ideology blasted at them while they could only nod and pretend to agree. Maybe you believe the ideology but you must tolerate people who don't. You're obviously terrified of the world, most likely because of stories you've been told by the trans activists. The world doesn't want you dead. Trans activists are using dubious tactics to scare you into conformity. You may think you've heard statistics about disproportionate violence committed against trans people because they are trans. I invite you to look into it with healthy skepticism. Many trans people have escaped the trans activist cult to lives of free contentment. You can too.

[@chicka-boom7540]

Did people forget that piracy exists? Genuinely I don't understand why allies don't just steal the shit if they're so desperate to try it. STEAL FROM BIGOTS.

[@fiveam8626]

I don't think you have the right to decide that

[@tobeseve4020]

@@krishaven If by "blasting trans ideology" you mean just existing as a trans person, no I don't have sympathy for you. Maybe take a deeper look in the mirror and ask yourself why you're so quick to dismiss the lived experience of minorities you so clearly know nothing about. All I'm asking is you listen to us. Believe what we're saying to you. Because we have to live it every single day, and the least you could do is not call us liars when we tell you we're in pain.

[@kropotkinnie]

This was genuinely so beautiful. I'm a trans guy and was crying by the end. You expressed what so many trans people are feeling right now so perfectly. The ending gave me chills.

[@milanoxiel7853]

As a homosexual furry from China, although LGBTQ phobia is our core social ethos, I enjoyed watching ro’s video, it’s so fascinating to see how people in the west reacting to JKR

[@some1514]

“had white transmascs flocking to the video like a will toledo record” god fucking dammit rose

[@val9344]

I live in tennessee, things've never been *great* here seeing as it's literally illegal for any county to create anti-discrimination laws and that sort of thing, but even then, I remember visiting nashville a few months ago and there were drag queen busses all over the place. They have all disappeared. And you talked a little bit about SB0003 (the anti-'drag' bill going into affect april 1st): "*This bill creates an offense for a person who engages in an adult cabaret performance on public property or in a location where the adult cabaret performance could be viewed by a person who is not an adult*. The bill defines an "adult cabaret performance" to mean a performance in a location other than an adult cabaret that features topless dancers, go-go dancers, exotic dancers, strippers, *male or female impersonators who provide entertainment that appeals to a prurient interest*, or similar entertainers, *regardless of whether or not performed for consideration*." I disagree with you on the point that it bans trans people performing specifically, it just outright bans trans people entirely. Because what counts as an "adult cabaret performance"? What is entertainment that "appeals to the prurient interest"? I mean it outright said that the intent of the person being punished doesn't matter, so effectively it's up to the very progressive leftist trans ally cops enforcing the bill to decide whether the "male or female impersonator" in question is being "prurient" and as we all know trans people and our bodies are famously not seen as perverted or inherently sexual or a fetish or whatever at all. I'm a trans guy, let's imagine that said law is being enforced now I'm driving on the highway and I get pulled over. None of my legal documents are changed, to change the sex marker on your drivers license here you need to have a court order recognizing or statement from a physician confirming that you have "fully transitioned" which a very small minority of people fall under. I get asked for my license and the cop sees a giant F in the sex section. I'm unfortunately still pre-everything, but what if my appearance is decided that it doesn't reflect that? Me driving a goddamn car could very well count as performance and god knows how many minors COULD have seen me in the drivers seat (while the bill was being heard they made it a point that even being seen through a car/bus window counts), so now I can be charged with a class A misdemeanor if it's my first time, which could land me in jail for up to about a year or a fine of up to 2.5k dollars (or both), if it's a repeat offense, I can be charged with a fucking class e *felony* and be put in prison for 1-6 years plus potentially a 3k dollar fine. The 8th stage of genocide is persecution by the way. Not to trauma dump in the ro ramdin comment section but I would be lying if I said I wasn't constantly wondering if I'll even still be around to make these sort of comments this time next year. I'm scared. I'm fucking terrified. I don't know what I'm going to do. My whole family is transphobic and also live in tennessee and they exist on a scale from "wouldn't piss on me if I were on fire" to "I'm not sure that they wouldn't just straight up kill me". I legitimately have 0 support system and I'm going to college in tennessee so if I need to escape I have no choice but to drop out. My only hope at this point is to pray to any god that'll listen that it slows down even a little bit and that I can either A: move to a blue state or out of US college (republicans are probably winning next year and I have no doubt shit'll go federal with them in charge) B: attempt to move or seek refugee status somewhere which is already fucking insanely difficult but my official autism diagnosis will probably make things even worse. What room do I have to complain though its clearly the cis people being asked by those big mean transgender bullies to please not play le wizard game who are the real victims here. edit was fixing some of my wording

[@val9344]

@@Waffle_guy-ej2pp Thank you my friend i really needed this. 🫂

[@VerbDoesStuff]

I agree with the other comment but also have you ever actually faced any of this or are you just afraid of some possibility that’s never manifested? Also I’m autistic and believe me, that diagnosis can get you a lot.

[@val9344]

​@@VerbDoesStuff are you here genuinely or are you some cismale coming here replying to my month old comment to tell me my worries about how this stupid vague ass law obviously targeting trans people can be used to put me and people likets me in jail for no reason are unfounded. If you're asking me if I've faced transphobia before the answer is obviously yes, all of the fucking time. What exactly are you thinking that diagnosis can get me by the way? Because everything I've gotten out of it has just been a whole lot of shit.

[@rottenisee2751]

@@VerbDoesStuffah yes just trust law enforcement to make that distinction,why do you believe this isn’t an issue

[@pisscvre69]

i always knew things would get worse just in time for me starting HRT, here i am 6 months in and its complicated, scared of what will happen but not regretting starting hrt, if it goes worst case then at least i got to be me before the end, still watching all my cis friends buy this even after i beg them not to and explain how harmful it is only to hear them deny the impact is depressing and concerning, its to hard to let go of these people so far at least i haven't they're close friends but my trust in them has been shattered and i do worry how far will they go, will this start them down a pipeline to transphbia

[@elisehalflight]

Hey, just here to share some care. I got in a s imilar situation with my friend group and it was heart breaking, but at least in those situations one can make out who will really be there to have your back and who won't. I'd say don't worry about the transphobia pipeline, you're part of their lives, and that alone means for them trans people are not just a vacuous concept that can be dehumanized into a threat or a ridicule, to the very least now it represents a person; you. I know it's not much coming from a stranger in the internet, but things do get better. You'll pull trough, and even when you don't, sometimes the most unexpected people will be there to help you out, you got this. BTW nice avatar, I'm glad watamote is still relevant these days

[@timekeeper2538]

It's okay, other trans people are buying the same game and not dying, I've seen them for crying out loud 🤣

[@God-ot6xn]

In the parasocial relationship I have in my head, you’re like king Julian and I’m like mort

[@justhavingfun6819]

thank you God, very cool

[@hollystop]

You’ve eaten your 30+ wives ?! Slay

[@stonerjhope]

ngl the present Culture War has me so on edge that the opening fakeout genuinely got me for a sec. says a lot abt the climate that my brain couldnt even safely assume another trans person would be standing with our community on this. Thank you for this video it is an invaluable insight & conversation on this mess, your writing ability is really something special 💜

[@oddanderson9131]

Honestly I have had so many creators let me down during all this it honestly wouldn’t surprise me but I’m glad she didn’t

[@EphemeralTao]

Given how many queer people, including trans people, I have seen recently taking the side of the transphobes on this and related issues, I know exactly how you feel.

[@cattiston374]

For reals I got this on my recommended and barely could stand the intro until hearing the constant fakeouts 😭 “They got us in the first half not gonna lie”

[@mitcharendt2253]

I'm a transman, third generation immigrate. My grandparents left Italy because of fascism, I'm leaving the usa for the same reason very soon.

[@anjojin1668]

this is so poignant, artistic, well crafted, and well made. this is what youtube commentary should be about: the deconstruction of a trend and its relation to a larger problem to society. the part about supporting those in your community, even if you don't fully understand or like them, was so impactful.

[@windowsseventy7]

i really appreciate you putting so much raw unfiltered emotion into this. as a trans person i find myself constantly censoring my feelings so i dont hurt cis people's, so seeing another trans person be openly, unashamedly angry and hurt about all of this is cathartic. combine that with your artistic talent and this is just such a powerful video. thank you for doing what youre doing, and stay safe

[@floatinjellies]

People have asked me “what are your plans for the future” a lot lately, and I have had no idea how to say anything beyond escape plans.

[@carolineholland5841]

Honestly, same here. The main thing I fantasize about is getting on a plane and going somewhere that’s hopefully not full of hateful dogma and legislation.

[@Acrylescent]

Hey, I'm the cishet white male that's watching, and I watched it all lol. I have nothing to say in response other than this video was incredible, thoughtful, and heartbreaking. You are hilarious. Thank you for sharing your experience, and on the off chance you see this, I would like to share mine. I am a huge Harry Potter fan, it's more of a "was" now, but still, I followed the development of the game closely. I had every intention of buying it, then the discourse started. I do try to be an ally where I feel I can, so I decided to try and understand how trans people felt about this. The more I watched the more I saw myself asking "this seems like a weird hill to die on". I went down the same apathetic path of "she's not directly involved, it's just a video game" so on so forth. I am so glad that I decided to keep paying attention. I have been of the mind that transphobic genocidal action is on the rise. I know that genocide, whether it's physical or cultural, is slow and insidious. This was the feeling I had deep down in my stomach. I am glad I never purchased this game. I felt sick watching how people so easily fell into transphobia. I took a step back and was baffled. Soon I was saying "it's just a game, why are people being so ruthless to the trans community". I will never know that fear, that pain and that betrayal that all of you felt seeing how quickly everyone demonized you over a video game. The closest I will ever get is the last part of this video, and it won't even scratch the surface. Everyone can agree that harassment is bad. It would be great if people could have empathy and there wouldn't need to be an outcry of pain. That's all I could see from the trans activists that were sending threats and denouncing public figures. Having to live in fear day in and day out, never knowing who you can trust, it can turn the most compassionate souls into monsters. Monsters are always seen as easy fodder and it's just the status quo when someone kills them. "Riots are the language of the unheard" always pops into my head with these kinds of things. Of course no one wants violence, but when everything else has been left unheard, what do we expect? For them to just shrug and say "whelp we tried the nice way guess we will just die now". To reference Zelda, I think everyone who looks into the bosses and monsters of those games, you start to feel like maybe we are the bad ones. Maybe Link is the one forcing his way into the monster's home. Maybe he is the one who looks like a threat and kills the monster for simply protecting what little they have. Then you have to wonder if they are monsters at all or do they just look different. Are they just doing what anyone would do to survive? and suddenly it's okay to destroy them because they "look" evil. Why do they look evil? Is it because we are told they are, we are told these traits are evil, that no matter what they do it has to be an evil act. I can't help but see this in the current culture war. We are being told all of these things about trans people, yet why can't anyone see all these evil things? It's because none of that is happening. If we really want to go on a crusade against child predators why not the right? At least if we went after right and far-right representatives we would have real evidence of their predation. I regret ever doubting the trans community and I hope to grow from this and be a useful ally. I hope the trans community can forgive me and my ilk for our often willful and dangerous ignorance after we have seen the light. I am so glad this video popped up in my feed.

[@andjelamiljkovic49]

I'm proud of you. Hope you're having a great day

[@blacktigerpaw1]

"Transphobic genocidal action" How many people have died, Mr. White Cis Male? Has to be over six million because the game has sold more copies than that. Oh, and the people who harassed Pikamee belonged to YOUR community. And they all got doxxed. You get what you deserve.

[@Acrylescent]

@@blacktigerpaw1 genocide can be by death or by culture. You don’t need to murder every person of a culture for that culture to be eradicated. You might want to understand the topics you argue before opening your mouth. I hope pikamee appreciates misinformed no bodies spouting genocide apologia on her behalf… or does she not even know you exist?

[@blacktigerpaw1]

@@Acrylescent What culture? Aside from drag shows and selling HRT out of bathtubs. What culture do they have that makes them separate from anyone else? Your community forced Pikamee into an early retirement, even when she didn't play the game. You viewed the game as genocide. So, Mr. Cis White Apologetic Male, better throw out some numbers because the people allegedly being wiped off the planet are lacking behind the sales of this game. By all means, Mr. White Male, tell *me* how it's genocide for me to play a game.

[@Acrylescent]

​@@blacktigerpaw1 When did I ever say I viewed the game as genocide? There are legislators trying to outlaw being LGBT. That's the genocide. The game is another precursor to these slow systemic changes. If you don't have the ability to see subtext and only believe misinformation for the sake of your confusion and reluctance to take responsibility for yourself, that's not the fault of people you don't know. The problem is you. I can tell you are afraid, but here's the thing. You can choose whoever you want to be with and choose to be whatever you want to be. And here you choose to be fragile and desperate to prove the story of the boogey man to be true. Get help. You have access to that, be thankful you do, trans people don't.

[@headwound]

1:09 I think I just accidentally achieved transcendent mental blankness as I was trying to imagine I _wasn't_ gay, in order to imagine what it would be like to go through your whole life with everybody thinking you're gay, only to realize you _are_ gay.

[@headwound]

like... is this what you'd call an oxymoron?

[@Deepseadread6]

This video made me cry a bit, but in a good way. Being a trans person especially a trans person who doesn’t pass as cis but presents very hyperfeminine feels like the worst thing I could possibly be right now, and I’ve been feeling so hopeless. I am constantly scared when I ride the train home because of the men who wait for me every day and shout obscenities and violent threats at me, the other day a woman looked at me and said out loud “what the fuck is that”. I’ve almost given up entirely on trans advocacy, it feels so hopeless and exhausting and I usually avoid any topic regarding trans rights legislations online, this is the first video I’ve watched about this stupid fucking game and I’m so glad it was you. You are so articulate and smart and empathetic and it was honestly such a breath of fresh air, I feel the same heartbreak I did when I woke up today but I feel weirdly energetically renewed and understood in a way doomscrolling through twitter discourse was absolutely not achieving for me. Thank you so much for making this video, love you as always

[@siilverREAL]

@@kenzor4953 me when i need to be quiet 🙈🙈🙈

[@Deepseadread6]

@@siilverREAL what did they say 😭😭

[@aurorechaton7604]

I want you and everyone who feels like you do to know that people are out here who never wavered in their support, and if I had some way of contacting each and every one of you just to make sure you're okay, I would do it. Even if we're unreachable, we're vocal, and we're here to stay. You deserve to be safe and happy. Keep your head up

[@ItIsLuna]

the ending of this video fucking me up so hard. this video is absolutely insane and deserves so much praise and attention. you’ve outdone yourself ro, you should feel proud of this art

[@faunaprince4466]

I'm here with you. I didn't know what to do after watching this. My cat is trying to be supportive. He's doing a good job

[@dev7938]

god this video... it hits so fucking hard. im a young trans person and ive felt this fear ever since i came out but especially recently. i want to believe that everything will be okay but its hard. love your channel ro 💓 ty for everything

[@andjelamiljkovic49]

You're strong and we'll all get through this. Hope you're having a great day and hope you'll have even more great days

[@dev7938]

@@andjelamiljkovic49 thank you so much !! i hope you have many great days as well :))

[@reneeb9246]

i like never comment but genuinely this made me cry. as a young trans person it’s all become to much, watching all the shit go down. like, i’ve become too exhausted to care about it and still find a way to go about my life. it’s so easy to forget that there are others feeling that same fear and that same exhaustion. i was a little scared to watch this video because tbh i’ve been avoiding anything that might make me confront how fucked up the world is right now, but thank god i did. anyway, idk where this is going, but i just wanted to let you know that what you make meant something to me

[@MrBaskins2010]

"could be on a yu gi oh card" is the most specific burn i've ever heard cast upon a person but it fits

[@LindsayDaly]

Blue eyes white woman!!

[@chatterbones5614]

Ms. Ramdin has it all. Knee-slapping jokes, smart words for my silly, squishy brain to think about and reflect on, and the coolest eyeliner a gal can find.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

From one laydee to another: - "She" needs a better haircare routine. - "She" needs better skincare. - needs to lose weight. And damn, 20-going-on-60 is rough.

[@margarineoferror]

​@@blacktigerpaw1 damn cashing in ur hate speech already huh?

[@mippa5830]

Ro's videos are one of the few I watch in full screen-- no multi tasking, no playing in the background. It's that good!

[@randomcenteral]

Amazing video as always! I love how the piano around 40:44 follows your vocal inflections. The -stop that- moment with a loud clatter of keys, then back to a sweet melody. Feature film score vibes

[@abigrace2411]

i love how you weave poetic lines into real world topics and find a way to help them transcend shallow gossip into real conversations on big ideas.

[@abigrace2411]

to be clear, trans rights are never “shallow gossip” but with the complexities of our world, it can be easy to take headlines at face value without actually dealing with the real people behind them

[@RecedingHairlineFracture]

I'm smoking and watching this as a little treat right now, and I just got to the weed sponsorship. Rebecca Black was right, it's fucking Friday.

[@SteampunkFridgeRider]

you are literally one of the best writers on KZbin and every one of your videos so clearly illustrates the feelings and meanings that you wish to convey & despite being quite long are dense with value and interest and just really really good writing. like idk anyone who writes like you (at least on this platform) and it really is amazing. you really put into words how I felt abt people buying the game in a way I couldn't articulate myself and also described our community's collective fear and dread so clearly & heart wrenchingly. really good video as usual.

[@Agueart]

This video perfectly illustrates why I stopped following Hasan Piker after his reaction to Hogwarts Legacy and I'm a cishet male. I saw people getting an almost sexual thrill about how playing this game might upset a trans person they'd never seen. It's absolutely insane and if you can help out by not playing a video game it's a teeny tiny ask. Progressive streamers say boycotts don't work, it's almost like they don't work because people with massive platforms make countless excuses about their own behavior.

[@intern_dana]

this feels corny to say since it's arguably Ally Does The Bare Minimum, but that quote from daniel radcliffe brought a tear to my eye i never considered myself a harry potter fan, but my mother is. she has all the books and our family's seen all the movies multiple times. one of my earliest memories was picking up a sorcerers stone vhs at walmart with my mom. honestly everything i know about hp ive learned against my will. but since it was such an intrinsic part of my childhood, and since half my siblings are trans, it really warms my heart to hear radcliffe firmly denounce jk's hatred sorry if this got a little personal ^__^; great work on the video, ro! i love your work

[@redrooster3420]

This was a sweet comment to read. I agree. Sending love to you out there in the world!

[@yserareborn]

People whose activism is pointing out others "Ally Does Bare Minimums" is just "Ally Does Bare Minimum" with extra steps. Egreque is right in saying it should just be discarded.

[@gregvs.theworld451]

@@nezahuatez I agree to a point, but I think there is room to gently suggest to some allies they could do at least a little more than saying "Trans ppl cool!" if that's the extent of their advocacy, granting of course that we are in a hell reality where in some places just doing that literally is a stunning and brave action to take. Of course, there's context to that too, if they're unafraid to speak up for trans people regardless of their company or personal relationships, that is at once a tough thing to do for some people and a brave action depending on who they're talking to and the repercussions they might face for supporting trans people, again see hell reality.

[@electronics-girl]

Basically, all of the actors who play the Gryffindor students came out in favor of trans people, and all of the actors who played Death Eaters supported Joanne. Interesting how that works.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

@@electronics-girl Interesting how you never had an issue with JKR until she said sex is real. Then it was Trans Genocide TM and it needed to be stopped. The game is breaking records. That must absolutely enrage you, for a libshit feminist who thinks males in skirts are women.

[@merediths.693]

Interesting day that you released this. I have a queer cis friend that loves this game and today she got me to try it out. I was shocked about the whole goblin thing that they chose to focus on. Honestly I couldn’t help but feel uncomfortable about the plot. It felt like there was an attempt to include trans people but obviously a shallow one. I had the discussion about it with my friend but it was more about the magic for her. I hate that art I loved as a child turned out to be so bigoted. Frankly I don’t have any conclusions, between all of my nuanced ideas on the subject. But as a non-cis person it made me feel weird and I’m still conflicted

[@Undeadsweater]

Gotta say, as a cis person it definitely makes me feel a bit weird too. But I feel like I’m constantly finding bigoted things in all sorts of media I enjoy. Sometimes it is big enough to ruin my enjoyment, and other times I am able to look past it and enjoy the media anyway. This problem just isn’t unique to Hogwarts Legacy. Lots of media and businesses perpetuate some negative attitude towards some group of people, and most have at least one bad person profiting off of the product, and many donate to causes that make life worse for marginalized people. Unfortunately, this problem is just so common, and people would have to boycott everything if they really wanted to be ethical. And the media you’d consume if you didn’t want to consume any even subtly bigoted narratives would be reduced to a relatively small pool.

[@cw2010]

As a trans jewish person i hate that even queer people easily dismiss the antisemitism in the game and hp, it feels like 90% of the people pointing it out and paying attention at all are just other queer jews, other than maybe a small mention in addition to always just talking about the transphobia

[@FoosterThePeople]

@@Undeadsweater great point, it's also important to keep in mind when it comes to "alternative open world games you can play" that we don't have any way of knowing what the developers' political positions are. sure, they may not be openly anti-trans the way jkr is but I honestly wouldn't be all that surprised if someone like Miyazaki or Aonuma turned out to be a little transphobic

[@Undeadsweater]

@@FoosterThePeople Exactly. And it’s pretty well known that big game companies are already rife with sexism and sexual harassment. I’d bet money that there’s transphobia too, but it’s just not as public.

[@anishinaabae]

@@Undeadsweater yeah, it's been difficult for me to articulate how i feel regarding the argument i keep seeing about how it's inappropriate even for those who pirate the game to engage at all with legacy. i don't want to be insensitive to or dismissive of trans and jewish people, because their criticisms of the content and jk rowling are absolutely justified and deserve to be shouted out from the rooftops, but i don't think the answer should be passing absolute moral judgments onto people for playing the game. spending cold hard cash on it is one thing, as it directly contributes to the violence enacted against trans and jewish people, but simply consuming it as any other piece of media is consumed? as you said, this problem isn't unique to hp legacy, it proliferates in nearly every piece of media whether it's done consciously (like with legacy) or subconsciously. that's why media literacy and how you engage with said media is so important! there's content i enjoy that is toxic in its portrayal of indigenous people, bisexual people, mentally ill people, neurodivergent people, and trans people, and these are spaces that i myself occupy and move within. i understand the emotions and the motivations behind it, but i don't think it's helpful to act as if enjoying a particular piece of media is morally wrong and bad. after all i enjoy that content in spite of its hatefulness and bigotry, not because of it! at the end of the day, we need to look at real world solutions that help protect and value trans and jewish lives. what that looks like is different for each person depending on their individual circumstances like location and finances, but simply avoiding a video game is not the answer here. on a political level, it's absolutely devoid of any meaning.

[@iwasntreadyforitall]

You absolutely nailed how I'm feeling, thank you. I'm sorry things are so scary in the world

[@claudiakulaymakesvideos]

the comedic tangents, whether written or improvised, are such a cathartic break of form, thank you thank you thank you for this video ❤

[@justhavingfun6819]

I'm a nonbinary 19 year old that wants to retain my feminine style while having facial hair, and I fear that if I do people will think I'm a predator. The fear is real, and it sucks having to choose between safety and happiness. Your videos mean the world to me, Ro, and even when the topics are depressing your sense of humor makes it all a bit better. (Also, why do people want to buy any game that costs 60 bucks? just take another hp themed buzzfeed quiz if you want to feel nostalgic for free.)

[@havtor007]

Because playing video games are fun it gets you away from the real world for a little bit, you have great stories and you get to live those stories. If you do not understand why someone can like a game yet you mention the degenerate webpage of buzzfeed the place that is filled with bullcrap i feel bad for anyone who has spent any more then 5min on that webpage and i do not trust anyone who unironically takes what they say seriously.

[@elisehalflight]

@@havtor007 Alright but there are thousands of other games to play, Noita is the superior wizard game if you ask me

[@havtor007]

@@elisehalflight The world of harry potter is amazing it is also insanly well known with being a best seller all over the globe. Having had people line up for blocks to get their book when they released them. The video game looked good is fun to play has a good story and you get to actually feel like a wizard in the world.

[@elisehalflight]

@@havtor007 But Noita lets you summon sawblade familiars and spew acid from your staff! how cool is that?

[@havtor007]

@@elisehalflight That is a roguelike game a completely different type of game. And no it is not better then hogwarts legacy.

[@BenSwagnerd]

I just earned a hate rant. So here goes: You're a delightful content creator, a gorgeous human being, and being accidentally gay is the best. I am also accidentally gay via being trans and honestly I love it. Stay gay out there

[@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie]

Stay gay out there: I hope to use that someday

[@Haukett]

your videos are always a joy to watch, and you've put words to a feeling i've had for such a time when it comes to people I know and their passive support of hateful companies or franchises, because the inconvenience of avoiding that thing is somehow too much to ask of them.

[@theagingmillennialvarietyh7751]

You had me with “Blue Eyes White Woman”. 😂😂😂 I need to rewatch this because I’m laughing too hard the first time around but whoa, Queen, this was informative. Subscribed 💪

[@migoreng7789]

jk rowling is the type of writer that starts building book universe by coming up with slurs 😔

[@migoreng7789]

halfblood price was laughably bad, i read it as it came out and i was so mad i waited for this trash i denounced the whole franchise 🤧 she is Not a great writer, let's just say that, my 12 year old self saw through her

[@qwert_511]

Just wanted to say mi goreng noodles are the goat they taste so good

[@pisscvre69]

@@migoreng7789 i never understood how people who read the books didnt see through the shit even from a young age, i grew up with the movies and those sanitize things enough that until OOTF where serious black is an ass to creature whos still a slave for some reason then it was like, wait why is that a thing, but then again i probably should have noticed the start of david in the middle of the floor at greengots thats fucking weird, sure i didnt know about the anti semetic goblin thing at the time but still, as for cho chang it did raise some red flags that thats her name but i figured it was just a mistake.. right? maybe?! the name that sounds like a comon racist slur kids said where i grew up was just benign ignorance not malicious right?! the books by the same point tho have so much more indefensible shit its insane.

[@havtor007]

@@pisscvre69 " i probably should have noticed the start of david in the middle of the floor at greengots thats fucking weird," THAT IS LITERALLY the states of Austraila it is like the stars on US flag. The star just have the same amounts of points on it. How ignorant of you to not know this as this is LITEARLLY in the extras of the movie you could have known this in 2001. It was filmed INSIDE a real place called Australia house in the middle of London the building was made in 1918. It is NOT a set. It is mindblowing how ignorant of reality some people are.

[@elisehalflight]

@@havtor007 Why did they film in the exact place that happened to have a six pointed star tho'? there are thousands of edifications of the sorts but they went for this exact one

[@bkk1996]

"We can't choose, but you can" was such a succinct and poignant line. Amazingly thoughtful commentary as always, Ro. Thank you for sharing so much of you with us.

[@chimes93]

ive been out as nonbinary to my friends and close peers for a couple years now. i live in a small town, finding people accepting of people like me is a challenge. 2 of my closest friends and supporters are pretty sizeable harry potter fans. hearing atleast one of them talk about it just about everyday is just… it’s hard to stomach sometimes. just knowing that they’re support wavers so easily kinda makes me stomach churn. knowing that the people who support me the most mind giving up something they like that was made by a person that would rather i be dead… it’s not a great feeling.

[@joshthecellist]

The ending hits a specific kind of way for me. I've been out for 6 years now, and the pain of telling people to do the barest of minimums and seeing them just... not. It's fucked. But thanks for making this.

[@NezumiVA]

Had myself a little cry (big) over all of the uhhh everything going on right now, yesterday, and this felt like all of my feelings sort of...coalesced. So uh, thanks Ro. A lot, a lot. I know this is just a comment on a KZbin video, a drop in the ocean but...I hope you know how much it means. Truly. we've gotta be there for each other.

[@kayden8093]

wow i never thought id see you here. love your vids! i feel the absolute same Ro's videos always seem to do this to me

[@lavendori]

this was such a visceral experience. Words that I and many other trans people cannot or are afraid to say, compiled into such a human and genuine way is so cathartic, but the reality of the situation is still terrifying. Things are currently looking grim and it's so fucking hard to not get lost in the thousands of legislations that are floating around, waiting to be passed. An absurd, hurt, terrified catharsis can be found in this video for managing to take these tangled emotions and slam them on the table for the world to see. Thank you for doing this. Thank you for speaking out when you're scared. Thank you for being vulnerable when you don't have to. Thank you.

[@Velociraptor449]

Love you, Ro. Thank you for putting your time and energy into this. I can only imagine how taxing this is and I need you to know how much people appreciate the work that you do to help the community.

[@valeriatsukino]

this is your best work. you speak with grace and strength, and you are one of the funniest people i’ve ever had the privilege to come across, watching your videos are a joy; hearing you speak with determination and nuance about topics important to you and all of us has helped me develop my critical thinking skills and new vocabulary i can use to educate others on important topics. you are among the women i look up to for inspiration to become more intelligent and comedic. i hope you keep sharing your craft and mind with us, as well as have a beautiful and safe life. english is not my first language but i hope i expressed myself well!!

[@pritikas7]

love that ro managed to make such an incredible video even while her house is on fire

[@mammoneymelon]

hope she got out of there 😔

[@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie]

Does Ro go by female pronouns?

[@pritikas7]

@@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie yes, Ro’s pronouns are stated in the description of her youtube channel

[@genevievelok9496]

Great work!!! I think you really put your finger exactly on how I was feeling with “if we can’t even ask for a symbolic gesture, then what is there left to ask for?” Frankly, I think it’s silly that so much is focused on the ins and outs of whether playing the game makes you transphobic specifically - I’ve always KIND of thought that was a bit of a moot point…I think in a lot of cases the way more important thing to ask yourself is whether playing the game makes you a good friend Like, nobody is trying to make playing the game illegal, sometimes being a kind person simply requires you to voluntarily do things that you might privately find a BIT of a bummer

[@FaeriSami]

I think this is the first youtube video that has made me cry. You just put all of my feelings about this situation on video format, and an amazingly crafted one at that too. Thanks Ro

[@3hundredgoldfish]

Ro words things so beautifully! Shes like the voice in the back of my head that i can never quite pull out, the bluntness that i want to have but i don't know how to word it

[@pinagalaxia]

36:14 Ro has proved herself a true trans femme gamer by acknowledging the existence of 2018 platforming and story-driven video game Celeste, produced by EXOK Games, LTD Edit: 48:28 Celeste is one of her favorite games confirmed

[@Alhana_E]

Spent a couple of days gathering the spoons for this video. As had nevee seen on of your vids before and knew nothing about you. And yes, that opening really hadcme going, but it turned in to a fantastic video essay that said exactly what i have been wanting to say for a while now, so, thank you.

[@phospadparadschaa]

this video like all of yours tend to do made me cry. you actually said what i couldn't say. thank you.

[@pipermarau]

the wild thing for me about the harry potter universe was how it was introduced to me by my abuser forcing me go so see the second film because she didn't want to go alone. watching harry be abused by his so-called family just went right over her head and i had to sit there and act like i didn't feel something in the moment when he was rescued by his friends. it's been easy to dump jk rowling, rOWling, fuck her and the fandom she rode in on.

[@verdisteller]

Had you not seen any other movie before Harry Potter? Being a foster child to a abusive family is not a new concept that was intruduced with HP.

[@pipermarau]

@@verdisteller i had never seen or heard of the harry potter series in back in 2002 when the person who abused me forced me to go see the second harry potter film with her when it came out in theater. i would not have got into the whole franchise at all if it were not for an abusive person who is also a terf and a general racist and bigot. i just find it wild that so long ago it was one nasty terf who exposed me to the harry potter author nasty terf. it just makes it all the more easy for me to never want to support antything rowling does and i can happily go on not rewatching the movies.

[@tape-6]

@@verdisteller what the fuck, man

[@carolineholland5841]

@@verdisteller While having an abused child protagonist is a common trope in fiction, sometimes the stars align that Harry Potter is the first movie that people see feature it. Especially when you take into account someone’s young age coinciding with the theatrical release. I mean, one of those types of movies has to be your first, so why not HP? Or, it could be that HP was just the first prominent example from their childhood that they can remember, and they’ve forgotten about other movies from their childhood with similar scenarios.

[@carolineholland5841]

@@pipermarau Actually, they’re asking if you had ever seen another movie featuring an abused child protagonist before seeing Harry Potter for the first time.

[@scoundrel2049]

It would be amazing if you posted the neopronouns definition segment separately!! It’s an amazing and brief explanation and I’d love to share it :)

[@scoundrel2049]

Also amazing video. Made me cry, but like in a … like not a good way … but like .. uhhh .. “oh I guess I’m crying now” type of way

[@thepeopleslast2579]

You should be able to share clips from the video if it's not uploaded separately!

[@scoundrel2049]

@@thepeopleslast2579 oh sick! Thank you for letting me know :)

[@gin2943]

how are you so funny, so smart, and so good at making videos that go beyond just sitting in front of the camera? like fr, this is a masterpiece.

[@firstflowerinspace]

Just scrolling through the comments and reading all of the bits on solidarity is as cathartic as the video itself

[@VerbDoesStuff]

Yeah because an algorithm has explicitly chosen to show you only all the people who agree with you and also any dissenting opinion about even the ideology is seen as a genocidal hate speech argument and deleted by youtube so no dissenting opinions are allowed

[@shangrilaw7561]

Harry Potter was a massive part of my childhood. It was one of the main things my siblings and I bonded over. My sister and I would stand in line for the books and the movies and we’d marathon the films around Christmas. Suffice it to say, Harry Potter was a big part of my life for a long time. I did not buy Hogwarts Legacy. It was not a difficult thing to do. Yea it looked like it was fun, and I’m sure it’s perfectly serviceable at the very least. But despite the fact the this franchise was a huge part of my childhood, letting it go and not buying a video game was not a challenge. I have never felt like I missed anything. Never regretted that choice. You can buy the game if you want, but by doing so you are openly stating where your priorities and values lie. It is the easiest thing in the world to save yourself $70+ to show support for something that matters. For a community that desperately needs it right now. If you don’t, that is your choice. But as the old adage goes “Actions speak louder than words”, and your actions are speaking volumes.

[@shangrilaw7561]

@Rat Nix My recommendation to you is to learn how to string a coherent sentence together before you try to argue with someone on anything, much less a topic as complex as this one. Because as your legibility stands currently, trying to figure out what you were saying was akin to trying to have a conversation with someone that only speaks a fictional language featured in a filler episode of Star Trek. From what I was able to deduce from your incoherent rambling was that you think that people spending the equivalent of what they would pay in union fees on coffee instead makes them class traitors by my logic. So I ask, where did I say that? I know you’re trying to relate the logic I put forth to your scenario, but given that they are two completely different situations, the comparison is pretty fucking stupid. I never said that people who choose to buy Hogwarts Legacy are traitors of any kind, I just said that by choosing to buy it despite all they know about the franchise, it’s creator and where the money goes, they are stating through their actions where their priorities lie. And that, you could relate to union fees. Yes, if someone is against unionization because of the fees they might have to pay, but spend that amount of money on coffee, you could make the same statement about their priorities that I did about the priorities of the Hogwarts Legacy purchasers. In that, they value their own personal entertainment/luxury etc. over the lives or quality of life of the people around them. You don’t have to be “relaxed” about it because it’s a choice they made, nor should you respect it. The point of my comment was literally the opposite of that. That they are free to make those choices if they want to, but their choices speak volumes about where their priorities lie and ultimately the kind of people they are. This is where I would encourage you to pair the learning of literacy and sentence structure with basic reading comprehension as well. I think you’ll find that it keeps you from making yourself look like an idiot. As for your last question “are you organized?”. What the fuck do you even mean by that? I’m not even sure you know at this point. I am generally an organized person, yes. Are you asking if I belong to a union? If so, why? Being unionized isn’t something that’s really in my control. How is that relevant? Are you asking if I belong to an organization? If so, what kind specifically? You’re really just throwing shit at the wall and hoping it sticks. Well, it doesn’t. And then there’s your point about having to argue with “so called left and woke people” for one, I know for a fact that if you were asked to define “woke” you wouldn’t be able to. Because it doesn’t mean anything. And it also makes no sense that you’d be arguing with leftist on unionization as leftists are the ones in favour of that. It’s the right that opposes it. Literally none of your points are coherent much less salient. Learn to read and get help.

[@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342]

Disagree with saying it's fun and serviceable but I got high elitists stuck up gaming standards. 1... Heard it often runs like crap. 2... Heard it's got ass creed levels of game play. 3... terf nazi story telling? Get phucked video game. Agreed with everything else u said though : )

[@shangrilaw7561]

@@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 I already want going to okay it but I’m extra nit going to play it after reading that haha. Cheers.

[@ForeignManinaForeignLand]

You had us in the first hald ngl 😮‍💨

[@roramdin]

hehehehe

[@frankkang8994]

I love how confident and glowing you look, and that’s before all of the most fabulous words come out of your mouth. You’ve really grown in front of the camera and I love it.

[@epin_gamer4209]

I also just wanted to let you know that I, as a Russian trans person, am here for you. I'm sorry as I can't help financially due to sanctions and such, but the societal pressure is quite bad here and I think I can relate to most things said in the video quite well. I know that this may sound silly or naive, but if you need any like mental help you can comment under here for my social media and such. please stay safe out there.

[@breauseph]

I know I'm six months late on this but I just wanted to say, I hope you're safe and doing ok. I can't imagine what kind of pressure you're under. It is incredible how willing trans people are to put our own worries aside to support each other. I admire you and I'm sorry I can't do more than send my well wishes from the US.

[@epin_gamer4209]

@@breauseph Thank you!

[@ilona3630]

Всегда стараюсь защищать трансгендерность в разговорах с друзьями/ в интернете, хоть и не отношу себя к этой группе. Но судя по насмешкам даже надо мной, не представляю каково вам

[@epin_gamer4209]

@@ilona3630 спасибо

[@hal_s.]

I’ve had the argument that we should separate creators from their content, and I get it. But the money being made off of this game is directly harming trans people! Is escapism really so important that you do real world harm??

[@regulusarcturus]

The game is not hurting trans people and Rowling isn’t even involved in the game apart from financially. Rowling earning money does not hurt trans people.

[@somethingsomewhere4854]

@@regulusarcturus Wait until you hear what she does with that money

[@summerwolf7197]

​@@regulusarcturus bro, she literally runs a trans exclusionary abuse shelter. The fuck do you mean.

[@ItsAMaelstrom]

@@regulusarcturus dont speak if you don't know what you are saying. You fail 1st grade so easily

[@abronanimation8671]

seriously, and how do you turn off your empathy enough to even ENJOY the escapism when you know the price it is coming at to your fellow human beings???? i know it isn't direct material harm, but its coming in a time saturated with politicians trying to do a mask-off eradication of queer people. it is such a sign of the times and how worthless some peoples morals are that they can be bought with a mid-ass video game. the people guiltily playing this game aren't evil, but they are pathetic, I'll say it.