Ross & Rachel Fight About "The Letter" | Friends

“Don't you worry about me falling asleep. I STILL HAVE YOUR LETTER!”
Season 4 Episode 1: The One With the Jellyfish
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[@ConnorMiller417]

“It was 5:30 in the morning and you had rambled on for 18 pages….FRONT AND BACK!” 😂😂😂😂

[@12classics39]

That is one particular issue in which I definitely side with Ross. You absolutely cannot expect a person to read something as long and as important to you as Rachel’s letter was to her, when that person is on no sleep.

[@trinaq]

"You fell ASLEEP?!" I love Jennifer's delivery of that line.

[@anshulsharma9597]

Waiting for this comment ❤

[@kleinesbiest1264]

up and down😂

[@lordriz7554]

“FRONT AND BACK” 🤣😝 That line always cracks me up

[@DateMike22]

Ross: "We were on a breakkkkkk" 😂😂😂. One of the most iconic lines in TV history. I can definitely relate to the 18 page letter front and back cuz my ex wrote me a 4 page letter front and back when I was in college.

[@ranveersing715]

Did you read or Fell Asleeeep.....😂😂😂😂😂

[@brianpratts]

“I STILL HAVE YOUR LETTER!!” Sorry but Ross won this 😂😂

[@shereencollington7954]

I love his delivery 😂

[@TshiamoDre]

*"You fell asleeeeep!"* 🤣🤣🤣 My favorite all time Jennifer Aniston line, any show, any movie. 💀💀💀

[@lindakhumalo7697]

"Front and back!!"😂😂😂

[@Victoriasmiles-kv]

But he didn't read 😂😂

[@Victoriasmiles-kv]

I love how the boys are giving escape card to monica when she heard "we were on a break"😂😂😂😂

[@trinaq]

I always love it when Ross briefly tears up, only to instantly become angry again. Perfect way to lighten the moment.

[@christianciv1998]

He did it sarcastically 😂

[@robinhallett-yc3hw]

​@christianciv1998 - Sarcastically- DUH!!!

[@Capitals_Universe]

Entry of Joey and Chandler was expected😂😂😂

[@neocell710]

''YOU FELL ASLEEP?!?!?'' ''FRONT AND BACK!!!'' ''FINE BY ME!!!!'' ''I STILL HAVE YOUR LETTER!!!!'' One of the best scenes in the early seasons. Kudos to Ross and Rachel for the melodrama, it was brilliant. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marieburton4714]

Brilliant indeed!

[@xiopaovid1215]

Man they cut off the best part "Hey just so you know, it's not that common, it DOESN'T happen to every guy, AND IT IS A BIG DEAL!!!" Chandler:" I KNEW IT!"

[@katrinlaufdal8503]

I was looking for this comment 😄

[@deepsubs]

Can someone please explain Chandler’s line? I *think* I know what it implies, but it has been bugging me for years😕….

[@liviamoon]

😅👍

[@liviamoon]

​@@deepsubsYou're right.😉

[@Kristianalexis1]

That was my favorite part 😂

[@MrTonyTV3]

"it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy and it is a big deal"

[@Kristianalexis1]

“I KNEW IT!”

[@Melis-dz8ey]

“Fine By Me”!😂

[@supersonicfan7514]

1:28 lol, Joey patting Monica on the back after Rachel insulted her.

[@SamarIqbal1-2-1]

1:16 his voice/face! 🤣

[@katrinawest5182]

"And hey, just so you know, it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy and IT IS A BIG DEAL!!"🚪 "I KNEW IT!"🤣🤣🤣

[@ellylovely205]

Best scene EVER. Like totally NEVER. Cause, he still has her letter. Like absolutely mean it. Love it. 💬🥰 Love it when they are all there for each other. ❤🤗

[@NatiD1234]

I love her "SLIP!?"

[@shadoweddie3670]

I love this scene

[@TheBandit025Nova]

I still have your letter

[@lindakhumalo7697]

She asked for it😂😂😂😂

[@supersonicfan7514]

Totally

[@bouvier197]

Ross and Rachel had good fights. They should have gotten Emmys for this fight and the initial “break-up”. Both were great!!! 🏆

[@Omegaverseicon]

RACHEL: I don't know, I don't know. Look, maybe we should take a break ROSS: Okay, okay, fine, you're right. Let's ah, let's take a break, let's cool off, okay, let's get some frozen yogart, or something... RACHEL: No. A break from us." Rachel merely SUGGESTED that they take a break. Last time I checked 'maybe' does not mean yes and it does not mean no. As far as I'm concerned it means let's discuss this and tell me what you think. When Ross walked away withou giving her an answer, nothing was confirmed and nothing was denied. To say that they were on a break and that Rachel confirmed it is pathetic because this pathetic man who claimed to love her more than anything in the world, slept with the next ho that came by not two hours after he and Rachel had an argument (which was never a break up). And the fact that he had the audacity to lie about it to her face is beyond disgusting. In conclusion, Ross and Rachel were NOT on a break UP it might have been a break, ross fans educate yourself google or whatever these two terms have completely different meaning in a relationship, he has always been a stray, not just Rachel all the women he dated were mistreated by him and they deserved better, just cuz he can't fix his issues others have to suffer??? Spoiled and entitled parents baby thinks the world will serve him, he's weak and worst type of person /man ever in fiction, hopping from one woman to another literally dude was in love with 3 to 4 different woman, no sane woman will trust a man like him, Rachel was loyal and he was a cheater, he even cheated on Julie and Bonnie, so many women mistreated by him, ross is horrible ... 🤷🏻‍♂

[@Kennamszoey]

Not just horrible, Ross is easily the worst one

[@Richard99-ob6bh]

She should have never forgiven him, women's biggest mistake taking bf/husband back who betrayed them, find yourself a new man

[@that_guy_v]

Then PLEASE explain to me why Rachel called the next morning and told Ross that she wanted them to get back together over his voicemail??? You can’t get back together if you never broke up in the first place. Therefore, Rachel proved (via voicemail) that she did in fact declare that she broke up their relationship. Dear lord you guys need to chill out. Yeah Ross was too quick to sleep with another woman but he was drunk and stressed when he heard Mark over the phone with Rachel. You clearly have issues with someone in your life that Ross represents. David Schwimmer played a fictional character. Chill out. Ross and Rachel turned out to still love each other by the end, he was a better brother as an adult, a great friend and an amazing father. He just sucked as a boyfriend to many. Seriously, let go of YOUR past, Karen!!!

[@that_guy_v]

@@Richard99-ob6bh same goes for men taking back women who have done the same. But shit happens. Yet, THIS IS JUST A SHOW! Chill the f$&@ out! You can’t just hate on Ross but laugh out at how Rachel is dishing out at Ross and the others and frantically trying to escape? Sheesh!!!

[@Richard99-ob6bh]

​@@that_guy_v yes ofc same goes for men and she's dishing out because he cheated on her and she is dumb enough to get back with him ​

[@WayNoWayyy]

So this show really tried to convince everyone that ross (a guy who makes HATE club for the gal he claimed he loved, shames her calling her derogatory terms and spread false rumors about her infact,sleeps with a random h minutes after an argument, easily moving on) really loved Rachel ? 🤡 good luck with that lol Ross was literally an incel and a toxic person since highschool, I can't get her so I'll ruin her reputation to bring her down to my own level, when he doesn't get what he wants his true self comes out, won't admit his wrongdoings, beyond toxic and problematic, remove laughing tracks he's just a sick psychotic man who needs help frr Irony that mondler is everything right in a relationship, difference between Chandler and ross is wild bye 👋

[@Chanchanbong]

Others might have been fooled by this R&R nonsense but i have always known that ross never loved her and yes only lusted after her Nothing can top mondler 😊👌❤

[@12classics39]

Thanks for bringing up the “i hate Rachel” club. Ross’ participation in it is treated as a joke - when in fact it’s a horrifying reveal showing that he really damaged Rachel’s dignity and reputation by spreading lies about her. That’s not funny at all.

[@WayNoWayyy]

@@12classics39 when people say ross is the worst he's without a doubt one of the most toxic, problematic and worst character ever in the history of fiction lol

[@chaosspy6723]

yea. I realized he was obsessed with her since highschool. he literally threw her out of his apartment because she didn't want to date him after having Emma. He got angry when he thought Joey proposed to her which honestly Joey should have.

[@robinhallett-yc3hw]

@WayNoWayyy - and to all the people who commented about WayNoWayyy- OMG, LIGHTEN UP PEOPLE, it's only a silly sit-com!! No need to psychoanalyze and nit pick on Ross!!! BTW- His character us great, David Schwimmer portrayed him perfectly!! And while we're at it Rachel was an entitled, stuck-up, whiny, elitist little b*%#h!!

[@12classics39]

Love how Chandler and Joey were immediately at Monica’s door when Ross screamed - as if they heard the yell from all the way across the hall and rushed to rescue Monica from the chaos.

[@euCelsoX]

None of them were perfect but c’mon: The guy is possessive and overbearing, when called out he gets defensive and later on sleeps with a random girl hours after “breaking up”. Yes they were on a break but that doesn’t mean he was right in doing what he did. Also, he didn’t need to say yes to Rachel’s letter. He could’ve been honest and said “I still haven’t read it” and then make a decision once he read it, but Ross lies and double down on the lie. Anyway, thanks for coming to my TED talk on why Ross sucks

[@Richard99-ob6bh]

He is without a doubt the worst one, extremely selfish, self absorbed and has no respect for others people's boundaries, his way or no way

[@redacted2275]

​@@Richard99-ob6bhPhoebe too.

[@user-ku2qn8sk5x]

The you fell AsLeEp gets me every time like as if she was British

[@retrofedora7061]

Is this the ep when at the end of the scene, Chandler shows up from the back of the door & chant :" I KNEW IT!"

[@Kristianalexis1]

Yes

[@radoneatr5457]

IIIIII KNEEEW ITT

[@samwise6183]

I knew it😂😂

[@redacted2275]

1:02 *This* is Ross' best comeback in the whole video and not because of the fight... it's a life lesson. 😢

[@klarabarunovic9841]

Where's the "Just so you know, it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy AND IT IS A BIG DEAL!" part from Rachel?😂

[@katrinawest5182]

"I KNEW IT!"🤣🤣🤣

[@Psalm-xyz]

Ross is disgusting and beyond toxic, Rachel deserved better she lowered herself for ross, what a waste ...

[@NickyMadio97]

To be honest, it doesn’t matter if they were on a break or not or if Ross sleeping with another woman was right or not. What matters is that both Ross and Rachel messed up their relationship and they both acted immature about it, both don’t want to admit it and let it go, because Ross can’t can’t get over his first divorce and Rachel was being selfish and inconsiderate about his feelings. I know you all think it’s stupid, but to me it’s not and I think the real truth is that you all don’t want to accept the truth. At least I’m being honest. The real problem is that you guys don’t know when to be honest and accept it. More over all, if Rachel really wanted to get back together with Ross, then she should’ve admit that the breakup between her and him was her fault too, not just Ross alone. But no, she chose to be selfish and inconsiderate and very insensitive to other people including on Ross as well.

[@BatmanFan76]

1:25 I saw this part of the clip in the beginning of a Dhar Mann video.

[@lordalessan]

I'm mostly team Rachel during the break, but this is where she crossed the line. What Ross did was painful but she knows he loves her and it started with him trying to celebrate them and he with her; I would've forgiven him and tried to start over. Milking the victim card and making him admit (again) that he was wrong was too much.

[@Kennamszoey]

He never loved her, his actions makes it obvious, what ross had was lust never love, and yes very true she should have never gotten back together with him

[@CangXuan-pf3by]

​@@Kennamszoey i agree ross never loved her

[@lordalessan]

@@Kennamszoey I agree with this, he saw it as a high school crush and couldn't handle when he no longer had the full power in their relationship. I'm just saying Rachel could've handled this situation better by avoiding the list. Starting fresh means a clean slate.

[@Richard99-ob6bh]

​@@lordalessan any person who get cheated and betrayed by the person they loves, do you think they'll be able to handle things right, I don't think so, Rachel is angry and hurt and ross won't admit his wrong doings, he knows he is wrong but his ego is loud here, it should have been a break up after this she absolutely could have been with someone better...

[@lordalessan]

@@Richard99-ob6bh I agree, but she shouldn’t have tried to sabotage his relationship then

[@user-zn4hs8ky5q]

😂😂😂😂

[@leonardolim8976]

She was absolute worse here. If writing 18 pages front and back wasn't bad enough, she also refused to to take partial responsibility for the break up and she disregard other people's needs (Ross's sleep) and force him to read it at 530 am. That glee smile said all

[@coltchan7380]

It takes two to break a heart in two Baby you blame me and baby I blame you

[@birthday-]

we were on a breakkkkkkkk~~~~~~!

fine by me😂

[@anitab610]

It doesn't happen to every guy, and it IS a big deal!

[@michaelphilpott1651]

Fine by me!

[@matthewedwards4622]

ROSS AND RACHEL BARCK

[@katrinawest5182]

"WE WERE ON THE BREAK!!!!"💔 "Coffee House?" "I'm bet."☕🤣🤣

[@matthewedwards4622]

FRIENDS NICKEIODEON EPISODES

[@jonas8266]

uhohuehou FINE BY ME

[@jessedellross3245]

Rachel in the wrong with some fault to Ross. Yes he shoudnt have lied about reading the letter but MY GOD Rachel ALL the blame?!?!?! You were on a break!!!!! You said as much!!!!!! Then you demanded he break up with her, read your stupid letter till you have him an answer, and and and and and….. Awful.

[@supersonicfan7514]

Yeah, and then she and her mom call Ross a cheater even though she and Ross were broken up at the time.

[@whoisyouranime]

I'm with Ross. Not about taking responsibility for their break up. But for making him read the letter at 5:30 am and making him read an 18 page letter without sleep. She's a jerk.

[@joshfactor1]

not knowing when to shut up; yup, that's his thing

[@Victoriasmiles-kv]

True though 😂😂😂

[@user-ku2qn8sk5x]

The it’s not that common it doesn’t happen to ever guy and it IS A BIG DEAL flew way over my head when I first watched this episode

[@EastJazzman]

I KNEW IT!!!!!! (Should have added it in) Also my opinion of the breakup, there both a fault for the mess of their relationship. Bit more of Ross than Rachel, but slightly. Ross was a bit possessive and didn't respect her passion for her new job, whereas he couldn't help but make flaws of her. Also, regardless if you were on a break, DON'T SLEEP WITH SOMEONE JUST AFTER A FEW HOURS!!!!!!!

[@brianpratts]

They both to blame cause she denied they were on a break

[@Kennamszoey]

​@@brianpratts it was a break never a break up, what ross did is indeed cheating...

[@brianpratts]

@@Kennamszoey I know but I still blame both

[@redacted2275]

"They're both" You write things just like Rachel at 1:02.

[@vesperblack7391]

They stopped it right before the best line ☹️

[@charlieandthechocfactrules9186]

I don't think making him read 18 pages front and back was necessary but I somewhat agree with Rachel. They weren't officially over they were on what was hopefully just a temporary break so I think he did kind of semi cheat on her.

[@BosnianDragon]

FINE BY ME!

[@-.J.S.]

I don't see how this couple was idyllic to the viewers back in the day. They're so toxic. As a child and a teen, I couldn't care less about their romance and as an adult when I watched the whole show in order, I was annoyed. They bring out the worst on each other. Textbook toxic relationship. It made funny scenes like this one and the actors are great but I still fail to see the appeal in their relationship. It's not inspiring at all (unlike Chandler and Monica).

[@neocell710]

If people arguing is ''toxic'' to you then you're better off not speaking to other people mate.

[@marieburton4714]

@@neocell710 If I'd get a dime for every time the word 'toxic' is (mis)used I'd be filthy rich 🙃

[@redacted2275]

They weren't "idyllic" to the viewers back then, *they were a couple.* If you ignore all of Ross and Rachel's development as a couple and as friends, the turmoils and good things that makes a couple being a couple, then sure, you're an imbeciIe for thinking that.

[@neocell710]

@@marieburton4714 Tell me about it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@marieburton4714]

@@neocell710 😂

[@propennYT]

"it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy and it is a big deal"